Pearl - July 24, 2025


My Dumbest Takes： Men Won’t Accept Sub Par Women


Episode Stats

Length

9 minutes

Words per Minute

157.5036

Word Count

1,420

Sentence Count

92

Misogynist Sentences

21

Hate Speech Sentences

17


Summary

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Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 What up guys? Welcome to my coffee talks for YouTube today. I have a, um, I got a iced,
00:00:08.780 a grande cold brew and I just put a little oat milk in it. So that's my coffee today.
00:00:13.840 I used to come on here with these giant sugar coffees and I've gotten thinner. Um, they've
00:00:18.560 gotten more basic. So thanks for tuning in. You guys make my channel possible and I really
00:00:24.000 appreciate you. Now, as you guys know, I started my channel pretty young. Um, I started on YouTube
00:00:30.680 when I was 24. And one of my biggest criticisms was that I had no life experience.
00:00:39.360 And the older I get, the more I see that was in fact true. Um, I did not have a lot of life
00:00:43.920 experience and I was very sheltered. Um, and the older I get, the more I see that some of my takes
00:00:51.820 weren't as accurate as I would have, um, liked it to be. Now, one of my takes early on was that
00:00:59.320 men don't like old women. Men don't like whores. And it was kind of fun. I would just troll the women
00:01:05.060 and just say, men don't like women over 30. Men don't like whore. I mean, men don't, right? But
00:01:11.100 it was pretty funny. But the older I get, the more, um, that take doesn't really, um, explain it
00:01:19.700 completely. So the other day, I don't want to give away who said this, but I asked, um, a pretty high
00:01:26.160 level guest that I interviewed if he'd be okay with a woman that used to have an OnlyFans. That it was
00:01:32.640 when she was younger, she hasn't done it in years, but when she was younger, she had OnlyFans. And I
00:01:37.300 said, there was no on camera sex, but her like, she had nudes, whatever. And this high level guy said,
00:01:42.660 yeah, I would accept that. And now he could have been bullshitting me, right? But I did get the
00:01:50.700 impression that he didn't mean that. He's like, yeah, if it was a couple nudes, whatever. And what
00:01:55.560 this showed me is that men, even high level men do adapt to the marketplace. The fact that we have
00:02:00.660 a billionaire in society, um, marrying a bait, like a woman that has kids by three different dudes.
00:02:06.580 Even some of the ARP, like red pill guys, um,
00:02:13.220 you know, some of their girlfriends had
00:02:18.020 not the like cleanest pass, let's say, let's say. So it is true that men don't like whores
00:02:27.740 and men don't like older women. That is completely true. But I think what I underestimated was men's
00:02:35.160 ability to adapt and what men will accept in order to get beauty. I don't really blame men for doing
00:02:43.140 that because it, in my interviews, I thought the Christian women or the women without OnlyFans were
00:02:49.520 like a higher quality. And I found they were the same, if not more bitchy, if not worse. So you might
00:02:55.800 as well just take a whore at that point. Um, my point is this, what I didn't realize at the time
00:03:04.380 is that there's really not a lot of consequence for women other than the fact they have less buying
00:03:11.240 power every time. But the challenge that we get is that beauty is so sought after because women are
00:03:17.800 so fat. Like if you look at 20 year olds nowadays, men will take a chubby 20 year old over an in
00:03:24.700 shape 30 year old. But that doesn't negate the fact that these women are chubby and on borderline
00:03:31.240 obese. So at some point, men really do take what they can get and kind of adapt to the marketplace.
00:03:40.440 If the marketplace has all the hot women that are OnlyFans models and old and whatever,
00:03:45.480 eventually the men say, fuck it. I guess that's what I'm getting. If the menu has, you know,
00:03:54.140 uh, because I had Aaron Clary on and he said 1% of women don't have debt, aren't obese, don't have
00:04:00.320 like three plus tattoos, didn't major in some crazy liberal studies degree.
00:04:06.180 So knowing that I realized, um, that there really isn't a lot of incentive to be a good
00:04:20.440 woman. And we're actually going to talk about this in the show tonight, but Shannon Sharp,
00:04:25.680 he recently got accused by like a 20 something year old. Like, I think she started at 19.
00:04:31.620 Um, she was a girl on OnlyFans. She was hooking up with this high level guy, accuses him of rape.
00:04:41.520 Now she never has to work again. Um, it's that lawyers have estimated she probably got a settlement
00:04:46.420 of $20 million just to make this thing go away. So the woman that becomes a wife to an average man,
00:04:53.580 um, and remember in girl world that we got to think of girl world here. Girl world is women want freedom
00:05:04.160 to do whatever they want, a certain lifestyle and to have sex with hot guys. The OnlyFans model got all
00:05:10.600 three. There is not a great incentive to be a good woman other than your personal morals. But I have to
00:05:19.920 look at the incentives here and the incentives just aren't good because at the end of the day, um,
00:05:28.500 men reward beauty first and women will get more freedom selling their beauty than being the wife
00:05:36.980 to an average man. And men can and will adapt. And we could, you know, I used to moralize a lot.
00:05:46.140 Um, my boyfriend, he, he would, he'd always, he'd kind of always tell me that that was kind of dumb,
00:05:55.220 but not dumb, but just like that, like some of those conversations didn't really matter.
00:06:02.340 Like, it doesn't matter if I say, you know, OnlyFans is wrong because women are going to do it.
00:06:08.060 Men are going to buy it. The first female billionaire will probably be on OnlyFans.
00:06:13.100 There's just not a lot of incentive, um, to being a good woman and men can and will adapt.
00:06:25.580 Men are marrying 40 year old women these days. So my point is this men don't want whores. Men don't
00:06:32.060 want old women, but a hundred years ago, men got a virgin or maybe, uh, you know, a girl that lied
00:06:40.100 about being a virgin. Um, but she was young. She was like 18 to 25. And nowadays men are marrying 30
00:06:50.660 plus year old women. Now there are certain men that won't accept it like Leonardo DiCaprio and,
00:06:56.500 you know, men that just will not take a woman over a certain age, but
00:07:01.460 men are becoming stepdads.
00:07:08.980 So
00:07:09.460 now
00:07:15.460 you could say at some point women do end up being worse off. And I would say that's true partially
00:07:23.400 because women just, you know, we kind of start our lives having like a billion dollars and it only gets
00:07:29.180 worse. Right. You know, like Mia Khalifa was a world renowned corn star celebrity.
00:07:34.860 Now she's like crying on TikTok talking about Palestine.
00:07:39.180 But at the end of the day, um, some guy is going to be willing to do it.
00:07:43.900 And the next thing I always hear is that women, um, won't be happy.
00:07:50.060 You know, women won't be happy with that kind of guy. And that may be true,
00:07:53.020 but I think women are just unhappy. Like our base state is unhappy. So, I mean, women break up with
00:08:00.860 the alpha guy, women break up with the beta. We just go back and forth. It's like,
00:08:06.300 you know, like we have this idea that women, once we get the guy we want, we're all automatically happy.
00:08:12.460 Uh, but women divorce the men they wanted all the time and what women want changes based on the phase
00:08:20.460 of our lives we're in. So anyways, there's really no revenge fantasy. Um, there are some women living
00:08:29.900 in their cars and like homeless and maybe you're going to have to do sex work. So maybe you could
00:08:34.060 say that is, but I, I just would be shocked if women don't win and there's some bailout plan
00:08:40.540 eventually like there always is. And once I accepted this fact, I just became a lot happier.
00:08:48.220 Bad people win all the time and there's nothing you can do about it. It's a fallen world.
00:08:52.700 So anyways, guys, let me know what you think of the comments. Um, make sure you like the video
00:08:56.860 on your way out and subscribe to the channel. Happy coffee talk and I'll see you next time.