00:23:45.380when I realized it I went to the bathroom to cry
00:23:49.180I was crying but at the same time I was furious
00:23:51.800I was so angry, I just kept thinking, this can't be me. This can't be me. This can't just stay like
00:24:01.440this. I need revenge. I wanted revenge so badly, I thought to myself, if I confront him and tell
00:24:08.260him what I saw, I'll just end up kicking him out, but then he'll go with her. I had helped him come
00:24:14.100here, so I felt like no matter what, he would end up winning. That's when I thought, I'm going to
00:24:20.020send him back to Mexico. But I knew if I outright told him to go back to Mexico, he wasn't stupid.
00:24:27.060He'd just leave my apartment and be done with it. So I thought I'll make him go back to Mexico
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00:24:33.000myself because he's never going to leave on his own. I remembered that San Antonio where we lived
00:24:40.920is two hours away and so is La Rarito. I knew the route to San Antonio well, but I also knew
00:24:49.740how to get to Laredo. So I came up with a plan. He was the type to say yes to everything. So I
00:24:56.960told him, let's go to San Antonio right now so tomorrow we can go to Six Flags. It all aligned
00:25:03.840perfectly because he had the day off. I told him, let's head out tonight so we can make the most
00:25:09.700of tomorrow and the day after we'll come back. We even started reserving a...
00:25:19.740so before we left I told him why don't you use the bathroom so we don't have to stop along the way
00:25:33.260in front of my house there's a stripes so I suggested we buy everything we need so we
00:25:38.640wouldn't have to stop on the road he agreed and I told him I would drive the whole way since it
00:25:43.320was a two-hour trip I told him to sleep and I'd wake him up when we got to the hotel I remember
00:25:48.900when we passed the first checkpoint we were almost there i kept thinking is this right or wrong but
00:25:55.700then i remembered the messages and it would make me so angry i was fuming i kept thinking yeah
00:26:01.460you're doing the right thing cheering myself on even though i had moments where i felt guilty
00:26:08.020but then i remembered myself i brought him here so i'm sending him back i had paid for everything
00:26:13.620So I felt justified sending him back at the first checkpoint. They didn't say anything to us. But at the second one when we were about to cross to Mexico, they flagged us to the side. You know how sometimes they pull you over to customs to check your things. Well, they stopped us. And that's when he realized what was happening. He started asking, why are you doing this to me? What are you doing? I didn't say anything at first, but then I grabbed him and said, you want to be a jerk and you can start over from scratch.
00:26:42.900And that's how I sent him back to Mexico without him even knowing it.
00:26:50.000So what are the lessons that I decided to take from this story?
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00:26:56.900Number one, as women, we do not take L's well.
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