Pearl - October 25, 2024


Relationships are a HUMILIATION RITUAL for MEN! ｜ Pearl Daily


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In this episode, I talk about humiliation rituals and why they are a problem for men and how to deal with them. I also talk about a recent article about Nicole Kidman and her sex scenes with other men.

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00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily this
00:00:17.560 is the audacity network and i am your host pearl so today i have a really important topic to get
00:00:27.140 into we are going to be talking about humiliation rituals and why there are they are causing issues
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00:02:02.660 be a simp. Okay, so what is a humiliation ritual? So I looked up the definition of humiliation. 0.98
00:02:18.600 Humiliation is the embarrassment and shame you feel when someone makes you appear stupid 0.95
00:02:25.180 or when you make a mistake in public, you can, and what is a ritual? You can describe something 0.99
00:02:36.420 as a ritual action when it is done in exactly the same way whenever a particular situation occurs.
00:02:44.140 So unfortunately in 2024, women are rewarded on social media for embarrassing their husbands
00:02:52.040 and men have such high testosterone and a high sex drive that they don't do anything about it.
00:02:59.780 Now what do I mean by humiliation rituals? I mean ways to openly embarrass men and do things that
00:03:09.120 humiliate them. I want you guys to think of a the ultimate alpha guy, the man that takes no
00:03:16.200 nonsense. And I want you to ask yourself if he would be caught dead allowing his woman to do 0.96
00:03:22.940 something like this. An example I think of is Donald Trump. Would he allow Melania to do
00:03:29.300 something like this? So one common way that I see women openly humiliating men online is by 1.00
00:03:36.560 posting thirst traps while in a relationship. Now let's be honest men are visual creatures and 0.65
00:03:43.760 And sometimes before a relationship starts, women post pictures in order to market themselves 0.98
00:03:49.360 to other men. 0.79
00:03:50.640 However, what tends to happen is they do not stop once they are in the relationship. 0.99
00:03:56.940 And you see women posting ass pictures, pictures with their boobs out all while having a boyfriend. 0.99
00:04:04.760 Now what is the male equivalent of this? 1.00
00:04:07.320 The male equivalent of this is a man approaching women trying to hit on them. 0.92
00:04:16.380 When you think about it, women posting provocative pictures is a way to get the attention of 0.98
00:04:20.980 other men. 0.70
00:04:22.620 Men approaching women is how they try to get the attention of beautiful women.
00:04:28.040 So one thing that stood out to me was an article that came out about Nicole Kidman. 0.78
00:04:37.740 Now Nicole Kidman is a movie star.
00:04:40.640 She was very beautiful back in the day.
00:04:43.360 And it says baby girl star Harris Dickinson 28 dishes on sex scenes with Nicole Kidman.
00:04:50.560 We did our thing.
00:04:51.560 Now remember Nicole Kidman is a married woman.
00:04:55.020 She is a woman that is married to Keith Urban, a superstar, and still she is as a married
00:05:01.660 woman accepting roles that are sexual with other men.
00:05:06.360 Harris Dickinson says he and Nicole Kidman freestyled their sex scene in their erotic
00:05:11.260 new movie.
00:05:12.260 We'd have a discussion with the intimacy coordinator and then Nicole and I kind of did our thing
00:05:18.960 with it once we set the parameters of what we were comfortable with.
00:05:23.800 The intimacy coordinator is saying, what you are comfortable with, what you want as a director,
00:05:29.680 what are you comfortable with for that vision?
00:05:31.760 They're facilitating it and delicately doing it, very delicately without interrupting the scene.
00:05:38.880 Baby Girl follows a powerful CEO, Rami, who begins an affair with a young intern, Samuel Dickinson.
00:05:46.700 Rami's husband, Antonio Banderellas, knows nothing about her dangerous legion,
00:05:51.960 which ends up putting her career and her family at risk so now i'm going to show you guys i think
00:05:57.420 this was another movie with nicole kidman but it was also recent and i want you guys to keep in
00:06:02.920 mind remember this is what's going to be marketed to young men older women because they don't know
00:06:09.140 what to do with these single older women this has never happened in history so what they're
00:06:14.220 trying to do is market to young men to be the cleanup men 0.83
00:06:17.460 who's who's cool with this in the chat your wife going on camera
00:06:34.780 humiliating you being intimate with another guy on camera
00:06:47.460 Now, I'm not even going to keep going, but now I understand they're actors and that is
00:06:52.740 something they're paid to do and maybe it's worth it to them.
00:06:56.040 Sure, fine. 0.93
00:06:57.460 But when I think of a woman that values her husband, she is thinking of his feelings first 0.96
00:07:05.000 and she would not accept that role because she knows it would embarrass him because she 0.94
00:07:13.140 cares more about him than her.
00:07:14.920 but what we see is again women were out of order and so we don't care so men value privacy women
00:07:26.380 our realm is social media we love attention and when I see a relationship that's public
00:07:34.300 and all of the details are online I know that the woman has a tendency to run those relationships
00:07:41.340 So an example of this that I see is women posting the most intimate moments of their
00:07:52.100 relationship online. 1.00
00:07:54.740 So here is an example of a woman and it's interesting because conservative women you'll 1.00
00:08:00.980 see that they're even going to push this as okay.
00:08:04.860 Now, this is an intimate moment of her talking about giving birth to a disabled child, right?
00:08:13.020 That's something that's very private as a family, something you go through together.
00:08:17.280 And she's going through it with the internet.
00:08:19.680 Most men are not going to want this.
00:08:34.860 Now remember she's going through all these medical procedures and she's given the phone to people during them in order to film her during this.
00:08:56.360 Think about how annoying that's going to be for a guy.
00:09:04.860 That's a cute kid, I won't lie to you.
00:09:20.780 Very cute kid.
00:09:24.980 But think about this.
00:09:26.560 She had to go up, tell the person in front of her to hold the camera.
00:09:34.860 and the husband you know he's he's like barely in this right and I've heard men say that they 0.58
00:09:42.900 feel felt like I've heard there's a guy that always says women have main character syndrome 1.00
00:09:50.780 and we're just accessories in their life and I couldn't help but think that rings true for a lot
00:09:58.260 of men where everything's about what they do for her, the ring they buy her, her social
00:10:04.360 media following, and it's never about him.
00:10:28.260 that baby is real cute I won't even lie to you guys that is a cute baby but you guys see what 0.99
00:10:41.060 I'm getting at right it's the intimate moments posted online another way that women humiliate 0.83
00:10:51.000 men is posting screenshots and dms of men that hit on them you see this all the time on social 0.88
00:10:58.340 media a guy slides into a girl's dms um i've even had this happen to me where i ask someone and
00:11:05.960 really guys it's a copy and paste message these women think they're so special where you dm them
00:11:11.460 to come on the show and they post it like it's some sort of um it's some it's some sort of got
00:11:22.900 you or show you you know and I see women do this on social media too okay um or I think every and 0.99
00:11:33.040 I say this as someone with a podcast but I think every man's worst nightmare is his wife starting
00:11:38.180 a podcast like for real it's like because the worst part is most of them make no money so they
00:11:45.500 just do this for free put a one in the chat if your worst fear is your wife starting a podcast
00:11:52.740 or your girlfriend like for real it's okay to go through about a minute half a day couple hours 0.97
00:12:02.660 fuck a full day even a week i'm just like i can't fucking stand you right now but deep down or in 0.99
00:12:08.980 the back of your head it might be all the way down on your toes at this point you know i love you so 0.99
00:12:13.860 much and i know we're in this together we're just in the thick of it okay so she's posting normalize
00:12:20.740 hating your husband so again you know we have a tendency to use these relationship stories the
00:12:27.060 texts the all of this stuff for content to build a brand right and it really just turns into a 0.51
00:12:36.420 humiliation ritual for guys where women get together and collectively decide how bad of
00:12:43.780 wives we can be and get away with it i mean it's like we get together we get body positivity and
00:12:50.020 we're like how fat can we get guys are you gonna accept this you guys do it there's always i've
00:12:55.700 seen 300 pound fiance what one i don't know who it's gonna be in the chat matthew is it you anthony
00:13:03.460 someone does it the women they get together and think how can we we can't can we get start only
00:13:09.620 fans and be sex workers and get a husband and they look at the guys and the guys are like well
00:13:18.180 fine and then it's like we get together and we say can we be super old and still
00:13:23.460 can we like go out do whatever we want then get together and then be really old be 40 years old
00:13:29.620 and still get married and we look at the guys and the guys are like look we're desperate i don't
00:13:34.820 know what to tell you it we're it's been a year it's been a year yeah fine fine old lady come on
00:13:40.580 good enough i mean this is this is what's going on and we get together and we say can we broadcast
00:13:48.100 our whole life the men won't accept that and then you know one girl starts and the men are like 0.73
00:13:56.500 she's really hot she's really attractive
00:14:01.380 um it'd be so much work to go get a new wife 0.95
00:14:05.780 fine i i and i'm gonna show you what keeps what keeps going um
00:14:10.980 then you get the I think men kind of do a cost benefit analysis of how likely is this breakup 0.84
00:14:21.720 is she gonna how much will she ruin my reputation if this doesn't work out is she just gonna do we
00:14:29.660 have a lot of mutual friends okay she might ruin my reputation in the friend group but they know me
00:14:35.100 i mean we could get through that but the worst is what zach bryan is going through right right now
00:14:42.660 love your music zach great music but zach bryan recently dumped um brianna chicken fry that's not
00:14:50.960 her actual last name but brianna chicken fry actually dumped her last boyfriend um who was
00:14:57.360 in her friend group obviously because um the biggest name in country music asked her to be 0.53
00:15:05.060 his girlfriend and she said sorry sorry chad or sorry brian or whatever his name was and she said
00:15:12.740 i'm gonna go date this rock star over here i know you've been great this has been a great year
00:15:19.180 and she got into a relationship with him like two three weeks now I guess he dumped her
00:15:27.240 through an Instagram story now I'm not saying that's the right way to break up with somebody
00:15:34.000 but you know she had no remorse when she left her ex-boyfriend for the superstar
00:15:40.860 and now she's got a breakup video and I just got no sympathy I mean
00:15:46.220 like i say this over and over again i think what did you expect he's a superstar you know i mean
00:15:55.320 they can just do that they can go to another college town get the next 22 year old and boom
00:16:01.020 you're done to um zach posting on his instagram that we broke up and um i had no idea that post
00:16:10.320 was going up uh he didn't text me he didn't call me um i just woke up to a bunch of texts being
00:16:15.660 like, are you okay? And I'm like, did my ab die? Um, and yeah, so I'm like completely blindsided
00:16:23.600 by that. Um, I also genuinely feel like I haven't, like, do you see how I swallow my
00:16:30.920 face? I've been crying for like five days straight. And, um, sorry if this video is
00:16:39.460 to be a lot of jumping around but i um i'm just i'm at the point where it's like someone in the
00:16:48.820 chat said she destroyed her future and her present guys can we stop capping let me get this straight
00:16:57.060 you guys wouldn't date her i i mean i'm not saying she's a 10 okay i mean she's cute but cute gets 0.93
00:17:05.940 you a lot these days american women are fat we're super overweight so i mean i i see rich
00:17:14.180 men ending up with cute women i'm not saying it should be like that i didn't i didn't ask the 0.87
00:17:20.820 market to be inflated but no i mean her future will be fine riley riley reed just got married
00:17:28.180 i know what you guys are saying well it's not gonna be with the men that the women want like
00:17:33.460 Like, they're not going to be able to get the men they want.
00:17:35.320 And, guys, we're never happy.
00:17:38.620 We could get the men we want, and then we're still not happy.
00:17:41.940 I mean, Tom Brady just got divorced.
00:17:44.480 I mean, that's going to happen anyway.
00:17:48.020 We just, we like the chase, I guess, the thrill.
00:17:52.460 That's just, and, you know, that'll be available for a lifetime.
00:17:55.700 Shout out to dating apps.
00:17:57.400 Now, I know it'll get less every time. 1.00
00:17:59.340 but unfortunately society just allows women to win so yeah Matthew says we're done with that 1.00
00:18:08.780 type of women I'm sure you are but that doesn't change the fact that somebody will do it 1.00
00:18:15.100 somebody will how can you give someone everything and like love them so unconditionally
00:18:25.000 like through stuff that you shouldn't um brianna i gotta be honest i bet your ex-boyfriend thought
00:18:33.040 the same thing and you left him for a superstar i mean look i'm not here to judge you know i mean
00:18:41.720 most women are gonna do the same thing sorry fellas but i mean just being realistic let's
00:18:51.020 when when have we really done the right thing ever sorry but um
00:19:00.140 so but that that was what you chose so you said let me go after the highest risk like in terms of
00:19:09.180 risk of everything like risk of getting dumped risk of getting cheated on risk of catching an
00:19:15.260 std i would say rock stars superstars i would put at the top of that list the highest risk
00:19:24.140 it's do we feel bad for the men when they invest in dogecoin and go broke
00:19:31.660 hell no you you think well what did you expect you got a really risky coin you could have bought
00:19:37.580 bitcoin or the us dollar not that any of those are not stable these days but you guys see what
00:19:43.660 i'm saying you could go for a more stable one but then what we do is we say
00:19:52.380 let me let me go date a rock star and get surprised when i get dumped
00:19:56.940 because you just love them when you want them like you see the good in them um like how can
00:20:03.180 you oh this is so embarrassing i just woke up to i don't know if she's that embarrassed because i
00:20:11.020 I mean, the second one I have, I have another one of these.
00:20:15.860 Okay, so you guys know how whenever I do like this.
00:20:17.720 Oh, I wanted to show this.
00:20:20.500 I got a couple guys' opinions on these.
00:20:24.320 And it was interesting because we all know Brett Cooper is very blue-pilled,
00:20:27.660 but she's getting more red-pilled over time, so you can see it coming, right?
00:20:32.120 And there was a woman who got dumped.
00:20:38.840 and then Brett is blue pilled so I want you to see the communication patterns and how women
00:20:45.020 see breakups um because we always kind of label ourselves as the victim and then other women that
00:20:52.720 are blue pilled tend to come in and also see us as the victim and it doesn't help us because it
00:20:58.300 doesn't really give us actionable information to improve not that we're really looking to improve
00:21:03.600 there's tons of diet plans on the internet and we're still like super overweight so sports episode
00:21:09.120 i put on my like metaphorical sports bread hat i'm like here we go i feel like i need to do that
00:21:13.440 with relationship episodes at this point and like put on a different hat for that it's not even like
00:21:18.400 i feel like some kind of relationship guru at this point because i'm definitely not i'm still
00:21:22.560 like baby married i've not even been married for a year and i actually feel like all of these
00:21:26.400 episodes are less about relationships and more about common sense and decency because we are
00:21:31.360 severely lacking all of that in the dating world and this story today is no exception because a
00:21:36.640 woman just went viral after explaining the intricacies of her wild insane breakup and
00:21:41.200 let's just say my friends there are a lot of things we can take from the story before we dive
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00:22:28.320 All right, so first of all, even though we can learn from the story, I just want to put
00:22:32.340 it out there.
00:22:32.780 I wish no ill upon this woman whatsoever.
00:22:35.320 She has certainly endured enough, and no matter who you are and what you believe or anything 0.96
00:22:39.820 about that, heartbreak and betrayal sucks.
00:22:42.460 It is a universal human experience.
00:22:44.920 I am sure we have all been there at one point.
00:22:46.640 It is just, it just makes you want to throw up.
00:22:48.860 But thankfully, and this is what we're going to talk about today, thankfully, there are
00:22:51.680 ways that we can try to mitigate feeling that way.
00:22:54.500 and signs that we can look out for. So disclaimers aside, let's watch this very, very viral breakup
00:23:00.240 video. Imagine you live in LA with your boyfriend and also just context. She is a singer. She's on
00:23:08.940 Spotify. So now everybody has been like blowing up her Spotify so that she can feel better after
00:23:12.560 this breakup. So this is a song, like a parody that she wrote about her experience. There we
00:23:16.760 go. This is not like some AI generated thing from TikTok, which people do do these days. Anyway.
00:23:20.700 all right sorry that's besides the point getting back into it everything's going amazing till he
00:23:26.460 says babe i want to move back to texas to be closer to my dad so you give up half of your career
00:23:36.620 quit your improv troop and have a goodbye party take off months of work deplete your savings
00:23:43.340 to pay for movers and drive to texas so worth it for the love of your life that wants a future
00:23:50.860 with you because he said so so you spent a month waiting for your to arrive and then another month
00:23:56.300 moving in and building furniture and stuff and you're so happy till he comes back from a family
00:24:03.500 vacation sits on your couch which just arrived in the mail and hands you a note
00:24:07.340 so the first thing I want you to note all of this is recorded right so she's recording
00:24:19.100 her unpacking the couch or the note he's sending her I mean
00:24:25.440 so what is this telling me you're recording his whole life inside okay
00:24:37.340 and then you drive to Florida to live with your mom so there you have it honestly it's a pretty
00:24:56.420 iconic way she says Joel says in the chat she's telling a common man story and she's making content
00:25:06.560 to get sympathy because she lived life to just let all of that out to the world i think i should
00:25:13.700 start telling my stories through song so prepare thyselves also this is like the most improv troupe
00:25:19.900 thing i have ever seen to do like comedic songwriting as somebody who used to improv
00:25:23.140 it's pretty perfect now obviously this video went viral on tiktok it went viral on instagram but it
00:25:30.900 also spread to X, racking up over 60 million views on just that one post. There are now many
00:25:37.520 iterations of it. People have re-uploaded it, but on just the one that I pulled today and watched,
00:25:41.340 60 million impressions. And obviously, this entire thing is just awful. Like, she picked up her life
00:25:46.240 to support the man that she loved and saw a future with. She made sacrifices, and then seemingly out
00:25:51.120 of nowhere, via a letter on the couch that she had just purchased and had delivered, she was dumped
00:25:55.640 and discarded after three and a half plus years i mean it is literally a nightmare situation so this
00:26:02.120 is the other thing somehow we think that when we give a lot of time to somebody that we're entitled
00:26:09.960 to their time in the future and we're entitled to an outcome there's nothing you can do to get
00:26:15.320 a guaranteed outcome in life you could do all the right things and still get dumped it happens to
00:26:20.680 guys all the time i mean there was a guy that got dumped for being too perfect and this probably got
00:26:28.520 more traction than that i mean we expect it from women we we don't men for no reason so do i have
00:26:37.320 a lot of sympathy when we get dumped for no reason because odds are we've all probably done it
00:26:45.880 you know and most of the comments sounded like this never ever ever ever trust a man
00:26:50.120 somebody else said oh my men can truly be wicked but okay here's the thing just because there is
00:26:55.080 nuance here obviously even though this man is a troll in my opinion and he did act poorly and
00:27:00.680 certainly should have treated her better and been up front with her about his feelings before she
00:27:04.280 moved so that's the other thing we want men to be up front you know they change their minds just like
00:27:10.520 we do so i mean you should have been up front some i mean put a one in the chat if you thought
00:27:21.240 you're gonna marry your first boyfriend or your first girlfriend one in the chat we all think
00:27:26.440 things it doesn't mean they happen across the country to texas there were so many red flags
00:27:31.880 that could have handled this without it becoming this insane heartbreaking story see anyone noticed
00:27:36.520 that he never said they should move to Texas.
00:27:38.900 He said he should.
00:27:40.020 I think that was him telling her that it was over,
00:27:41.760 but he couldn't do it, so he dragged it out.
00:27:44.040 Yeah, like, if you are in a serious long-term relationship
00:27:47.220 that is heading towards marriage,
00:27:48.740 you talk in terms of we.
00:27:50.800 What is best for us?
00:27:52.080 We should move to Texas.
00:27:53.760 Is that okay with you?
00:27:54.660 Do you want to move to Texas?
00:27:56.600 Not, hey, I want to move.
00:27:58.220 I'm going to move.
00:27:59.460 I'm going to buy this house or rent this house
00:28:01.040 and do this thing, and I guess you can come if you want.
00:28:03.540 No, no, no, no, no.
00:28:05.500 when you hear that that should have been a conversation starter from the get go another
00:28:09.540 person replied and said we're gonna go my dog today again like if you have gone through a
00:28:13.400 breakup you go to the she's gonna talk more about the more of the warning signs shelter you buy a
00:28:20.720 sweet little old dog who needs a home they went back on her tiktok and her instagram they scroll
00:28:24.820 down and they pulled screenshots from other videos that she had made where she talked about her now
00:28:29.760 ex-boyfriend the person said i was totally on the side of the lady who moved from la to texas only
00:28:33.400 get dumped on her boyfriend out of the also guys like the video a like is free you know i'm gonna
00:28:39.080 wait a second i need i need 210 likes to keep going yeah i'm i'm boycotting yup yup like it
00:28:49.800 just is what it is there's 600 of you in here 600 and we can't get 200 likes you know it's free
00:28:58.760 we're almost to 200 198 thank you thank you half half dog media yeah thank you joe joel
00:29:08.760 that's better the kevin samuels move yeah i will take that from his playbook i will
00:29:15.000 i'll do it i don't care i mean all right we're at oh wow okay thank you guys i appreciate now
00:29:24.520 we're back now we hit it until there was you guys did it faster than i thought all right 264
00:29:32.280 stop it you guys stop it you guys are too much that she's known for years that he explicitly
00:29:39.000 hated her okay just look at this one when it's your two-year anniversary and you're about to
00:29:42.600 release a really sweet love song that you wrote about your boyfriend so you're spending all your
00:29:45.720 time and energy making lovey-dovey posts about it but he hates the attention and the song
00:29:50.360 hates the song that you wrote about your anniversary now okay to be fair maybe he just
00:29:56.440 really didn't want the attention maybe he didn't want that all aired out on social media i understand
00:30:00.040 alex is sort of like that but again it's weird that he hated the song so i asked i want to i'm
00:30:05.640 gonna i want to read this take it off the screen for a second um but i want to read i asked um a
00:30:12.440 couple guys about the song and i wanted to read my favorite response because i thought it was so 0.98
00:30:19.960 funny you ladies need to understand that you have to be likable if the person you love says 1.00
00:30:26.620 not to do something and you keep doing it and then you get dumped why are you surprised 1.00
00:30:33.500 we don't like romantic gestures you want to treat men how you want to be treated
00:30:40.080 I like to talk a lot so I am going to do that to him I like songs so I'm going to do that to him
00:30:53.980 I like posts about me so I'm going to do that to him we would rather you just be likable like wow 1.00
00:31:02.840 so you know i want to keep going but it's interesting because the women 0.93
00:31:10.300 we kind of coddle each other where we say poor poor girl there's nothing you did but
00:31:17.220 usually there's something and it gets worse here's another one when you realize your boyfriend who is
00:31:24.160 suspiciously disinterested in the discovery that aliens exist oh i forgot to ask guys about the
00:31:28.860 groceries i forgot right knows about it number one works on a computer code for living number two
00:31:34.920 can't find his birth certificate number three won't share his groceries number four he never
00:31:40.420 sleeps number five barely tolerates humans including you oh if he barely tolerates humans
00:31:47.200 so i'm thinking this is a private guy he doesn't want his business online and the fact that
00:31:53.380 everything in that video you know because if you talk about a breakup and you're talking about
00:31:58.520 moving your couch and all that stuff. Normal people don't have videos of all that. So I'm
00:32:03.480 thinking this really ended because of her TikTok account. That's my theory. I think that is why
00:32:09.280 one in the chat, if you guys think that's why it ended. Also guys, please like the video. Let's get
00:32:14.920 to 350. I won't stop it again. You guys were so nice earlier. You really got it up there.
00:32:21.900 Okay. First of all, all of that is like sort of funny and it's gag, but number three,
00:32:25.100 won't share his gross won't share his groceries number one i think that that is just kind of a
00:32:29.100 cry for help because why does that mean that maybe he's an alien but okay back to the point
00:32:33.660 my thought thought was what if she just ate a lot and never pitched in ever i don't know maybe maybe
00:32:42.460 he didn't make a lot of money who lived together you moved states for a man who will not share his
00:32:48.380 groceries full stop right there again that should have been a hard reason i don't know even that
00:32:54.140 it's just kind of entitled to me like it's nice if he does it but you're not entitled to someone
00:33:01.340 to pay for your food all the time especially if you're not married
00:33:06.620 that maybe maybe i'm too modern i don't know that's my opinion that should have been an
00:33:11.100 evaluation point when he will not share the grapes that he just brought back from publics
00:33:14.780 joey doesn't share food now this girl whose name is jillian actually did a full interview with the
00:33:19.500 cut after all this went viral again 60 million views that warrants an interview and she said
00:33:23.500 that this breakup was purely a decision that he made she does not think that he was in another
00:33:27.740 relationship or that his family pressured him but it was all him she said i guess he was in
00:33:31.420 denial about it for so long because he's so out of touch with his emotions he said that at the
00:33:35.420 point that we moved to texas together he's lying i don't i don't know what it was
00:33:43.740 but there is no guy on this planet that says he's out of touch with his emotions and means it
00:33:55.760 that's a lie that is a lie he had fallen out of love with me at the point that they had moved
00:34:04.540 i think it's his fault that he kept those concerns bottled up long enough for that to happen and yes
00:34:08.560 he should have told you i don't want you to move to texas with okay but you guys get the idea
00:34:13.600 so the point of this part was the communication pattern where as women it's always that we're
00:34:19.240 victims and if we get dumped for no reason it just is what it is take the l take the l okay 0.95
00:34:27.640 so other humiliation rituals um
00:34:32.980 fighting and putting the fights online
00:34:42.020 can we turn the sound up does it go up anymore
00:34:54.240 let me start over so it says
00:34:58.180 Erm, pardon?
00:35:01.180 Can you do a roast?
00:35:03.180 You want me to do a roast?
00:35:06.180 Yeah.
00:35:07.180 Can I just remind you of something?
00:35:09.180 I gave birth two days ago.
00:35:12.180 Yeah, two days ago, and you came out of the hospital straight away.
00:35:16.180 You've been sitting around all this time, so you can make a roast.
00:35:19.180 Send me home to get rest at home.
00:35:21.180 Yeah, but you've been doing nothing but resting.
00:35:24.180 Look at all these cups of tea. I'm just that.
00:35:26.180 I'm sorry that I need caffeine to keep going with a newborn baby.
00:35:31.180 Yeah, and it's not easy for me either. Right, I didn't give birth. No, but I'm not sleeping like you.
00:35:36.180 So, I'm knackered. You're awake. So, you know Dad are coming, and you know what they're like. They always want a roast.
00:35:41.180 They always want a roast, but I've not just given birth two days before.
00:35:45.180 You can get up and make it yourself.
00:35:47.180 Look, you do it much better than I do. We know that. I've tried. So, where's the timing?
00:35:52.180 Why are you gaslighting me?
00:35:53.180 So what is the signal of this poor me I gave birth two days ago you would think he's asking
00:36:04.420 her is it that hard to make a roast I don't really like roasts I don't really make them
00:36:09.400 but I can't isn't that like what you put in a crock pot
00:36:13.320 okay so there's one
00:36:35.400 then let me find the other one
00:36:40.160 oh yeah this goes back to the breakup
00:36:45.000 I hope he knows how excited I am to build a life together that's her side and I hope she knows that
00:36:56.900 by her nine-year wedding anniversary she would find out my secret that I've that everyone's been
00:37:02.700 keeping from her wow sounds like you got cheated on I need a I need to make a soundboard that just 1.00
00:37:12.360 says take the L eat it take it I mean it so the next humiliation ritual that women have a tendency 1.00
00:37:21.680 to put men through it's talking too much we have a tendency to really put all the ins and outs 1.00
00:37:32.500 of our relationship on the internet and embarrass men for example this is a nfl player's wife so if
00:37:40.260 you guys think well these problems would go away if i was better looking if i had money 0.87
00:37:47.380 no they wouldn't you'd you'd have different problems maybe hotter women maybe problems
00:37:52.180 with better looking women but they would stay the same i promise story i love that you think it's
00:37:58.820 so great it started out horrible tell me well met him spent like the evening with him did not let him
00:38:07.060 touch me the first time ever he was like this is fun i was like oh we're in a relationship this is
00:38:12.260 great you know like this because that's all i knew yeah i didn't know casual dating wait so was he
00:38:17.860 trying to casually date and you were oh yeah girl and i didn't know what that was so all of a sudden
00:38:23.060 we you know we're kind of doing this thing and then he's like oh i see him in a bar one night
00:38:27.700 i'm like what the anyways long story short it wasn't that cute of a relationship at first i
00:38:32.260 hated him i loved him i dated the backup to piss him off which worked yes he was like that'll do
00:38:37.700 it he was the bad boy too like matthew's so sweet and southern gentleman and all that stuff and the
00:38:42.580 the backup was the complete opposite yeah yeah oh and it it upset him which it worked thankfully
00:38:48.820 yes but yeah at first it was was that like the pivotal moment in the relationship where he was
00:38:52.900 like actually you can't be with him you need to be with me 100 he would like he would so they lived
00:38:57.540 in the same dorm because athletes lived in the same dorm and he would see my car there and so
00:39:02.420 at one point he like waited and fought and followed me out and got in my car and wouldn't
00:39:07.700 get out oh and he was like this is so hot i was like this is amazing yeah i was get out of my car
00:39:13.780 and he was like i don't he's not right for you and i was like you know what you can't tell me that
00:39:17.540 it's like get on my car so in summary it's so hard to find the original clips on youtube these days
00:39:26.020 I'll tell you what but okay so then we have again every man's worst fear his wife is starting a
00:39:36.240 podcast um talking too much the next story that I found online was Alex Cooper who is now going
00:39:47.320 to be married again talking too much now there are men that will accept things right there are
00:39:54.640 men that will accept a shady past right there are men that will accept previous kids there are men
00:40:04.760 that will accept a lot being overweight being chubby maybe you not doing all of the household
00:40:11.060 chores that happens all the time but do you know what makes it worse when a man is so gracious to
00:40:19.700 accept us with all of our flaws and we brag about it online why so alex cooper is now
00:40:30.980 telling the story of how she contracted an std um and had it for four years
00:40:41.700 slept with a bunch of men during those four years by the way she got it at 23
00:40:46.900 four years later met her husband still had the incurable std and um how he accepted her with it
00:40:56.180 now that was very gracious of him but now you're telling the world and all of his work colleagues
00:41:05.060 are going to know that he is marrying a woman with an incurable std we recommend
00:41:12.340 that you get a colopscopy now for those of you who don't know what a colopscopy is i hope you
00:41:18.420 never have to get one but i will tell you when you have a pap smear that comes back irregular
00:41:23.700 multiple times they recommend this procedure where they essentially biops a little part
00:41:30.180 at point i really wanted to tell people like i really really did but i had i feel like people 0.86
00:41:37.460 will understand this like I had been keeping it to myself for so fucking long
00:41:41.400 like I didn't even know how to talk about it I didn't even know how to bring
00:41:45.260 it up I didn't want to relive and tell the Paris story and then have to be like
00:41:48.620 I did lie I actually had sex with him and I think I was just scared to
00:41:52.760 vocalize one of my biggest fears which was the possibility that this mistake I
00:42:01.100 i made years ago was going to impact my fertility and i was extremely emotional because matt was
00:42:10.380 the first person i had dated that had me realize i even wanted to have kids i for a while growing
00:42:17.820 up like really doubted if i wanted to have children and matt was the first person that i
00:42:22.380 was like oh my god without a doubt i want to have children with this man so a week and a half later
00:42:28.780 my test results came back from the colopscopy and my doctor called me and told me that she was
00:42:33.560 concerned about the HPV. She said she would recommend that I get a leap procedure. So I
00:42:44.900 immediately Googled it and I'm trying to understand like, what is a leap procedure? Like how invasive
00:42:49.900 is it? Like, will I have downtime? Like I just went down a spiral mentally and emotionally and
00:42:55.720 I just started to break down. And I was also just like so exhausted from carrying this information
00:43:00.420 by myself for so long. And also because of the experience that I associated with it. So I remember
00:43:08.060 I got to a breaking point when I knew I needed to go in for the sleep procedure that I finally told
00:43:14.160 Lauren and I just told her everything. We were like having wine one night and I like had like
00:43:20.020 my second glass and I like just fucking started bawling. And I told her everything. I told her 0.96
00:43:25.340 about Paris. I told her how scared I was. I told her I didn't know what to do. I was terrified about
00:43:31.400 this procedure that like, I couldn't fully understand. And I was reading online about it.
00:43:35.420 And like, so many people are saying like, I'll be fine. Then there are so many people that say
00:43:38.660 like, it's super painful and like traumatizing. Like I was just very confused. And most importantly,
00:43:44.120 i was freaking out because all i wanted to do was tell matt but
00:43:51.640 i was afraid of how he would react and for context hpv does not affect men
00:44:00.600 i want to just google something really quick really really quick
00:44:08.060 does HPV affect men
00:44:15.920 most men with HPV don't have symptoms but others may develop genital warts
00:44:24.480 yes cancer HPV is associated with several cancers in men including anal penile tonsils throat
00:44:34.180 yeah so this std she was going around and sleeping with other guys for four years and
00:44:42.680 potentially giving them cancer obviously can carry it but it doesn't do any harm to them
00:44:48.740 that's just not true that that is that's not true alex i don't know why you're saying that
00:44:54.340 to make yourself feel better not true not true false false false oh my gosh so they're just 0.95
00:45:02.780 spreading it like nothing is happening to this man's penis with HPV so many men probably have 0.90
00:45:07.100 HPV but it only like actually like medically affects women negatively so I wasn't worried
00:45:13.700 that Matt would be angry that I like gave something to him and I didn't know also if I
00:45:18.180 had actually given it to him like there is like a chance that he didn't get it I was more afraid
00:45:22.040 because this was a new relationship and we had just started dating and it's awkward to be like
00:45:32.140 yeah i have an std and you should go get checked and we were like starting to get more serious so
00:45:38.520 i was like this is like but you see some some men opt into their own destruction this woman
00:45:44.200 lied about an incurable std that could give you cancer and now she's um he said you know what let
00:45:52.920 me give her my assets too let me not what i want to do and i not what i want to bring up but i knew
00:46:01.960 i was going to have to be honest about it so i scheduled my leap procedure and that night i told
00:46:11.560 that we were having dinner at his house and i remember like i was so nervous i like went to
00:46:18.440 the bathroom like 10 times like looking myself in the mirror like practicing like
00:46:22.280 how you know when you're doing that though when you're like i need to like i'm randomly bringing
00:46:27.160 this thing up like what's the good in like what's a good time like when he's cleaning okay yeah but
00:46:31.160 you you guys get the idea do you do you want to hear the rest of this i'm getting kind of grossed
00:46:35.480 out dishes or like one in the chat if you want to keep reacting to this two if we're done let
00:46:42.520 me know two if we're done one if you want to keep going i'll let you guys decide but i did not one
00:46:51.960 two did i say two was done i forgot what i said two was done right there's more twos in the chat
00:47:01.400 yeah get out okay okay i'm glad i'm like i'm good i wanted to show you guys though so
00:47:08.060 you know she got lucky enough to get a good looking guy who said you know what alex i'll
00:47:15.720 accept you i love you and that wasn't enough she had to tell everyone else no why
00:47:26.380 okay so we had the weekend beautiful week so then on top of this what we have a tendency to do
00:47:36.080 other things okay this is another reaction video
00:47:42.720 explaining why she did that so he's claiming nothing happened but he doesn't remember anything
00:47:50.460 he was drugged how dare i question him how dare i be mad and he's turning it back on me telling
00:47:55.960 me. I have no compassion. I'm psychotic. I disagree. This is a sickness of the highest
00:48:06.140 order. I'm finished. I will not gaze. A woman goes absolutely mega viral on TikTok because
00:48:15.660 she blasted her husband about his suspected cheating in Vegas, proceeds to throw his clothes
00:48:24.580 over the balcony and then makes a slew of videos explaining why she did that so he's claiming
00:48:30.580 nothing happened but he doesn't remember anything he was drugged how dare i question him how dare i
00:48:35.700 be mad and he's turning it back on me telling me i have no compassion i'm psychotic um our divorce
00:48:42.740 is going to be epic um just he said the most out-of-pocket to me an innocent man doesn't act
00:48:50.660 that way they just don't if you're innocent and your wife is throwing your clothes off the balcony
00:48:56.660 because she thinks you cheated you're gonna go well let me let her get this out and then i'll
00:49:01.860 prove that i didn't no and then finally when her audience her community took action against her
00:49:13.780 husband she came back to the internet with her tail between her legs and it's kind of epic yes
00:49:23.700 it's entertaining but we can take something from this we can learn from yeah so again back to
00:49:32.980 fights on the internet i want to see what other ones i had i want to see if i skipped
00:49:38.100 oh another humiliation ritual going online and saying your husband wasn't
00:49:46.740 your type initially I did not find my husband attractive I fell in love with
00:49:50.520 him because of his kindness his humor and his good character you see him does
00:49:57.900 this look like a happy guy loving and kind he was I saw him as more attractive
00:50:03.660 look at his eyes look at his eyes loving and kind he was i saw him as more attractive however
00:50:10.380 however others don't see him as as good looking as i do and my friends and family will laugh and
00:50:15.920 mock and say my kids will grow up to look like him please help i love him okay three things real
00:50:21.060 quick number one no one humiliation ritual humiliation i think they're faking it but 0.97
00:50:27.620 again the point is this is common right women come out and i mean if that was me i'd be pissed 1.00
00:50:35.720 but for some reason we just um another one
00:50:41.240 um i asked a couple guys the humiliation rituals they see
00:50:49.560 posting pictures of an engagement ring but no fiance 0.98
00:51:00.520 stupid trends on social media showing intimate parts of the relationship oh here's one 0.99
00:51:20.120 so they all lie to the guys tell them to wear the same shirt 1.00
00:51:24.920 and to us women it's funny but you know a lot of men are gonna see this as a form of
00:51:31.960 look at this look he's annoyed you can tell
00:51:40.920 yeah there you go
00:51:41.720 then
00:51:46.040 oh this one
00:51:48.460 putting intimate moments on the internet
00:51:51.300 what did you just say?
00:51:53.140 I want to cuddle
00:51:54.360 I want to cuddle
00:51:56.600 I want to play some games
00:51:59.300 oh dear
00:52:04.560 guys
00:52:05.420 let me see what else
00:52:07.760 oh the worst one I've seen 1.00
00:52:11.320 women that make their boyfriends dress up in their clothes 1.00
00:52:16.800 you know all this stuff it's it's very demasculating and it gets to the point where
00:52:31.300 this is the things that men have to go through in order to get relationships
00:52:37.180 and they get tired god this is why we have a growing number of men that
00:52:42.700 are walking away from marriage relationships family because you know to them they look at
00:52:51.280 all the work they have to do in order to get get into a relationship and then what they get out of
00:52:57.740 it and they see you know engagement photos like this where all right photo of the ring right
00:53:08.420 photo of the flowers the dress so amazing oh photo of her face that's so great
00:53:14.960 where where's the
00:53:21.920 so we got three photos of her two photos of the ring and almost a picture of the husband
00:53:30.680 so this guy is dedicating his life to her and what do we get
00:53:36.140 nothing um
00:53:39.900 matching pajamas was another one I got saying he is not the father but he's the father that
00:53:49.460 stepped up using your husband for content and the last one I have is shaming your husband's
00:54:00.560 masculinity publicly watching my husband heal from his toxic masculinity has been an eye-opening
00:54:09.300 experience the patriarchy really does harm everyone it sinks its teeth into those
00:54:14.380 into those little boys that grow up to be dangerous men if they don't heal that
00:54:22.980 yeah so the guy's thinking ah yes what the girlfriend says can we fly a kite and the man
00:54:32.620 says ah we can fly a kite dear let's go little does he know little does he know she's recording
00:54:44.680 it for the world to see and making a post about his masculinity anyways guys this is why as much 0.87
00:54:54.060 as trad women cry and whine about corn being the men being addicted to corn and being so bad 0.78
00:55:02.060 I disagree I think we're much more addicted to social media and that social media has ruined 0.98
00:55:07.400 way more relationships and corn has actually saved more relationships than it's ruined 0.69
00:55:12.780 because a lot of women don't sleep with their husbands anyways guys let me know what you think
00:55:17.140 in the comments we're gonna go live on the website and watch love is blind for a little bit after the
00:55:22.340 show i will take your questions comments concerns there like the video subscribe and i'll talk to
00:55:27.520 you next time