Pearl - April 19, 2024


Older Women Don’t Want Younger Women to Win ｜ Pearl Daily


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In this episode of Pearl Daily, I talk about a certain person who is convinced that I am a colonizer. I also discuss why older women do not want younger women to win in the dating game and why it is easier than ever to win.

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00:00:00.000 What is up guys? Welcome to the Audacity Network and welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily
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00:01:22.760 I also interact with the Audacity Network chat first so I can read your comments and we also can
00:01:30.120 get super chats on there. So today we have a lot to talk about and you know there's certain topics
00:01:38.920 that I have been advised to just avoid. I have been told you know every time I talk about certain
00:01:50.260 topics. My staff will just say, why? Why bring it up? But I can't be managed. I don't know
00:01:59.240 what to tell you guys. I don't know. So there's a certain someone, I'm not going to say the
00:02:05.220 name, that is just convinced. This person's convinced that I am a colonizer, colonial
00:02:11.960 mindset. And it's been a year. And I live in this certain person's head rent free. This person
00:02:21.340 decided to get all of my employees, you know, and insinuate they were somehow enslaved.
00:02:33.460 Please let it go. This is getting sad. We have all moved on. We're making bigger and better
00:02:40.980 content. It's getting sad. I genuinely feel bad for this person. Please. We get it. You think
00:02:52.080 I'm a colonizer? All right. We get it. Move on. Crazy man. Okay. And it's like, how old are you?
00:03:02.200 Old as hell. Still going on and on. Make some new content that people actually want to watch 0.69
00:03:08.980 instead of bitching about me all day. Okay. You know, I mean, grown man, weirdness. All right.
00:03:15.820 So today's topic, I don't want to talk about that, but I just, I feel like I got to put my
00:03:23.620 two cents out there. So I want to talk about how older women do not typically want younger women 0.53
00:03:32.840 to win. So I saw this picture going super viral on X. And it was a woman with her husband.
00:03:49.240 And the woman was an obese chick, very overweight, with a guy that was relatively good looking. 1.00
00:03:56.820 and you will see this a lot in couples nowadays it typically is a man that is better looking than
00:04:04.140 the woman because women nowadays are i'm trying to find this video women nowadays are very overweight 1.00
00:04:11.400 very feminist many have tattoos you know many have the things that are not typically deemed 1.00
00:04:19.140 where is this thing overly attractive and it results in you know men want to get laid somehow
00:04:26.300 and they end up, you know, settling for women below their level. Because men, unlike women, 0.98
00:04:35.320 can actually settle. Oh, she deleted the post, didn't she? Was I blocked? How did I get blocked?
00:04:45.700 Oh, it's, it's, oh, dang it. Okay, I can't, I was like, why can't I find this?
00:04:50.580 Okay, but it was, you'd have to take my word, guys. It was a very, very big woman 0.70
00:04:54.740 with an in-shape chick. Now we know as women, 70% of women are overweight. Yeah. Most have 1.00
00:05:04.000 tattoos. There's many women with children. A lot of attractive women tend to have children. 1.00
00:05:13.640 Very masculine, very feminist. And the truth of the matter is, as women, we should look at this
00:05:20.160 as an opportunity. It is easier than ever to win. If you are simply childless, in shape,
00:05:30.160 no tattoos, no children, you're above probably 70% of women, 60% of women, 80% of women. 0.98
00:05:42.520 And the issue that you're going to get is older women do not want you to win. 1.00
00:05:53.680 So I want to play a video from Patrice O'Neill.
00:06:01.120 Actually, I want to show one thing.
00:06:03.680 I want to first show a tweet that I had about six months ago, maybe a year ago.
00:06:10.120 please pull up my screen blessing yes you are less attractive than at 35 than 25 as a woman 1.00
00:06:21.180 this used to be common sense 50 years ago this got 16 million views 9,000 likes 6,000 retweets 1.00
00:06:33.220 and it actually showed all these stupid women on x and the stupid feminist women 1.00
00:06:43.440 many feminist women decided this was their opportunity where they're super happily married 1.00
00:06:50.540 to show me how hot they are they said what can i do i need to show my selfie to show that i'm more
00:06:56.680 attractive than pearl. All because I told the truth about information that would probably be
00:07:05.100 helpful to younger women. If you're 18, doesn't it help you to know that your beauty is not going to 1.00
00:07:13.080 last? Isn't that helpful? But older women do not want younger women to get that information. So I 0.99
00:07:23.560 have a Patrice O'Neill video coming up. Here we go. Like I know, look, like I said, I'm 40. I can
00:07:38.200 feel, I can feel my sex drive, right? I still love women, but I don't feel like, I don't feel like 1.00
00:07:43.440 having sex like that, but I still love looking at them like, oh, but here's what God did for men.
00:07:48.540 he turned my horniness into creepiness like so I can have a good time sitting 0.79
00:07:56.980 at the mall watching chicks trying on sneakers at the footlocker with the 0.97
00:08:01.720 creepy face like
00:08:04.660 I'm good for the day, but women you don't get creepy. 1.00
00:08:21.160 You get hornier as you get older.
00:08:24.160 It's weird. 0.64
00:08:25.160 You want to do all your sex in between the ages of 30 and 50. 0.81
00:08:30.380 That's when you want it.
00:08:32.220 Here's how sad things are. 0.99
00:08:34.500 The value of a vagina is only good from 18 to 29. 1.00
00:08:46.280 Pussy get old like bread, not like wine. 1.00
00:08:48.620 It, I don't want the waiter to bring it. 1.00
00:08:52.260 Okay, you see, the guys are dying laughing.
00:08:54.700 Why?
00:08:56.940 They know it's true.
00:08:57.780 One of the first things that men pick on is fertility. 1.00
00:09:01.720 This goes down to a biological level.
00:09:05.800 Biological.
00:09:07.880 They've done smell tests with men where they ask what scent of a woman is the most attractive. 1.00
00:09:13.620 And they smell the more fertile young chicks.
00:09:17.980 And what the older women try to do is they try to reframe this as being a pedophile. 1.00
00:09:24.500 That's what the evil, older, bitter women want to do. 1.00
00:09:28.060 I'm talking about of-age women, and they will reframe. 1.00
00:09:32.640 They have continually, every year, made that age older and older and older.
00:09:37.800 They're now trying to say that a woman at 21 is not old enough to make her own decisions. 0.99
00:09:43.900 21 years old, men can register for the military at 18, but at 21, a woman cannot fuck a 45-year-old. 0.99
00:09:52.960 You've heard it first from the older, bitter women. 1.00
00:09:55.820 Let me play the rest. 1.00
00:09:58.060 This glass of twat, you'd be like, would you like a 52-ly stinky vagina from the funk-funk region? 1.00
00:10:09.680 You'd be like, ugh, nigga, you ain't got a better year than that? You ain't got a... 1.00
00:10:14.220 You got an 89 down there? Give me an 89. I don't care what it is. Water? Just 89.
00:10:21.240 I'm not saying you're not sexy if you if you 40 or whatever I'm not you're beautiful whatever
00:10:29.060 I'm just saying 20 is just 20
00:10:35.460 20 who's 20 now how old are you older than 20 I hear it in your voice you sound like you
00:10:45.660 chew cigarettes she's just like as cute as you are you can hear it 0.71
00:10:52.780 because women who are not 20 did you see what happened she raised her hand fast 1.00
00:10:56.980 20 years I bet your pussy tastes like hope 1.00
00:11:15.660 And she's like nodding. 1.00
00:11:26.020 I'm sorry, that's just ridiculous.
00:11:30.240 But that's the difference.
00:11:31.620 Difference between 40-year-old cooch and 20.
00:11:34.880 That's the amount of time I wait, that's it.
00:11:37.620 20, I wait forever.
00:11:39.240 Just wait in the corner like, oh, it's gonna happen.
00:11:42.280 I am going to wait for this 20-year-old-ness.
00:11:45.660 40, I want a date.
00:11:50.720 Two dates, two dates, and then you got to start rolling them old draws down.
00:11:59.600 From where it is pulled up to the...
00:12:01.380 And see, that's where the older women, right? 1.00
00:12:03.660 That's when you see the born-again virgin shit at 29. 1.00
00:12:07.560 They're now waiting to have sex with men for God. 1.00
00:12:12.140 Good luck. 0.99
00:12:13.640 Good luck, ladies. 1.00
00:12:14.860 great plan let me know how that works out for you i'm sure the guys will say yes yes i'm super
00:12:21.340 excited to wait for a middle-aged woman 35 that's the middle of life we live to be like 70 something
00:12:30.140 35 middle-aged
00:12:39.260 I'm not saying you're not sexy if it's for, I'm not, I'm just saying it's the time, that's it.
00:12:48.560 Like, I want it now.
00:12:49.760 If I'm willing to eat some stale Cracker Jacks, I'll eat some stale Cracker Jacks, but I want them right now.
00:12:59.160 If I say, hand me them stale Cracker Jacks right there, and you go, come and get them, I'd be like.
00:13:07.200 Just throw them on the floor.
00:13:09.260 They old. The box is open. There's no prize in it. Where the magnifying glass?
00:13:18.900 Now, you see all the women are kind of feeling icky, and this is what women do not like this 1.00
00:13:24.420 speech. They don't like it because if other men, so I think it's time for the whiteboard. 0.98
00:13:31.940 okay let me go to the whiteboard um where's my where's my mic oh here
00:13:40.300 hold on guys blessing says the mic's not working one second
00:14:04.300 One, two.
00:14:21.680 Yep.
00:14:22.580 Okay.
00:14:28.280 All right, guys.
00:14:30.220 Can they hear me now?
00:14:31.380 Can you put the chat on the TV so I can see it?
00:14:34.300 if possible. All right, guys, so here's the problem. So let's say, listen, can we get a
00:14:41.780 better marker in here for next show? All right, so here we go. Here's a woman. So let's just 1.00
00:14:55.240 Woo, woo, woo, smile.
00:14:58.820 So this woman, the ideal chick for a guy, 100 years ago, he'd get a 22-year-old virgin, skinny, 1.00
00:15:25.240 maybe like four kids or something four plus kids she could cook he didn't really have to do too
00:15:33.640 much date nights were kind of meh you know and she knew that she had to serve husband 0.99
00:15:42.200 wait i can spell okay serve husband all right now contrast that with what you have today
00:15:49.400 hold on this do we have any more markers bless oh there's one here let me try the red
00:15:56.560 i see one here we're gonna try this red one sorry guys we need a new one
00:16:01.040 all right now today we have and i'm not saying this is right or wrong i'm saying this is what's
00:16:09.040 happened so we got the chick now the average age of first marriage i'll just say is like
00:16:14.980 31, 32, and rising, maybe some kids, kids, exes, ex-boyfriends, slash hookups, blah,
00:16:36.440 blah, blah, blah. Can't cook. Doesn't listen. But the problem is these women of the past 1.00
00:16:51.740 have been getting a bunch of, they've actually probably been getting more than these women 1.00
00:16:59.680 got. The market is so
00:17:01.600 inflated, right? So
00:17:03.260 these women maybe got 1.00
00:17:05.900 like a small house
00:17:08.000 or whatever.
00:17:09.660 The husband was like a farmer or something
00:17:11.760 but they still had to put in the work, right?
00:17:13.840 These women 0.99
00:17:14.760 are getting
00:17:17.000 more even though we
00:17:19.680 offer less. This is called
00:17:21.520 poflation. 0.98
00:17:23.540 Now, men don't deal with this, right?
00:17:26.160 But what men don't like
00:17:27.680 is overpaying.
00:17:29.680 There is nothing that men hate more.
00:17:34.560 Like, my dad, I'll tell you what,
00:17:37.120 he will go to the ends of the earth to not overpay on anything.
00:17:43.160 He refutes, I mean, there is nothing
00:17:45.720 he hates more than overspending on a product.
00:17:50.720 Nothing, OK?
00:17:54.700 Oh, I forgot tattoos.
00:17:55.980 Now they have tattoos.
00:17:57.640 So when Pearl comes in, now there's me, Pearl, nice, you know, look it, woo, little Pearl.
00:18:07.700 And I come in and I say, hey, younger women are equals better, or like men desire that, 0.75
00:18:19.280 it's just what fits there.
00:18:20.880 These women have to scream. 1.00
00:18:24.000 They have to scream.
00:18:25.100 they have to say, ah, no, Pearl, if I say, hey, why are you guys treating this chick like she's 1.00
00:18:32.420 this chick? I don't get it. The men will still sign up for this chick, but they don't want to
00:18:38.280 overpay. Like, you know, like Patrice O'Neill says, here, you're the Cracker Jack. Here, where here,
00:18:50.000 you earned the traditional treatment to an extent, but most 22-year-olds don't do that
00:18:55.020 anyways. But so when I say the truth here, these women get angry. Why? Because they have their 1.00
00:19:10.800 simp husbands here. And now he thinks, oh, I'm getting a good deal. He thinks this was a good 1.00
00:19:20.740 deal. And when Pearl says, you got bamboozled. When Pearl says, hey, why are you trying to win
00:19:32.600 over your wife with date nights? She's supposed to make your life easier, not hers. Oh, this girl's 1.00
00:19:39.140 mad. When I say, hey, aren't you supposed to listen to your husband? Why does your husband
00:19:46.760 need to ask your permission to do things.
00:19:52.040 She gets mad.
00:19:53.700 Look at the anger comes out.
00:19:59.120 When I say, when I say,
00:20:03.500 younger women, 25-year-olds are hotter. 1.00
00:20:09.420 And it's funny, I went viral. 0.58
00:20:11.640 And I guess this, I've been called a pedo recently.
00:20:15.760 this is my new they're calling me pedo pedo pro it's like very weird because you know i'm in europe
00:20:22.160 and you know the age of consent in europe is 16. and i just simply pointed out men prefer younger
00:20:29.200 women they're trying to frame it like i was pushing that look at i don't make the laws i don't make 1.00
00:20:34.400 the rules and i see blessings already getting uncomfortable he's like don't talk about that
00:20:39.600 anyways my point is this that's what they do when you say younger is better
00:20:45.360 of age of age of age they'll try to frame you as a pedo then the next thing 0.98
00:20:53.100 they'll frame me as gay 0.98
00:20:58.360 what it's like that that's the next thing they'll throw at me and they do
00:21:03.720 that to the men too they treat me the same way that they treat the men because
00:21:09.120 I was supposed to keep the secret.
00:21:14.000 I was supposed to keep this a secret, okay?
00:21:19.040 I'm going to keep, I'm going to continue because there's other secrets I'm supposed to keep.
00:21:25.760 I guess I'm a traitor.
00:21:27.400 I don't know, guys.
00:21:39.120 All right, my headphones are back in. I'm back over here. Okay, so
00:21:46.000 the, oh, you know what? Maybe I have to get up.
00:21:58.600 Okay, the next thing that older women do not want younger women to know. Again, they don't want you 1.00
00:22:08.900 hold on let me fix my sorry guys this is bothering me what the oh my god it's just
00:22:17.560 going in the headphones okay the other hold on there I think all right it's just gonna happen
00:22:26.300 today I don't know what to I think it's the headphone that's like oh that's why it's like
00:22:32.100 caught. I know this parody account is going to make this a thing. Okay, the other thing that
00:22:39.700 older women don't want you to know. Women love bad boys and they pick them with the most choice. 1.00
00:22:47.800 Now, the problem is older women picked the good guy after they picked the bad boys and their 1.00
00:22:55.920 husbands cannot know that they're their second choice. Now, the thing is, what I would tell
00:23:02.140 younger women is you want to be with the guy that you have no rules for. If you are making rules for 1.00
00:23:08.920 a guy, you just don't like him that much. Now, it might have been the first guy that you met.
00:23:14.340 I don't know. I see that a lot in trad Christian churches. You know, maybe she doesn't have a lot
00:23:19.100 of experience, but she doesn't submit and listen to her husband because she wasn't really attracted 1.00
00:23:25.900 to him she didn't like him and women want to categorize themselves as special or different 0.90
00:23:34.320 so the men don't know that they married don't know the truth that would be bad for the women 1.00
00:23:41.880 because then they would show up the whiteboard show the simp see the simp over there in the red 0.99
00:23:47.960 like he's smiling his smile would turn to a frown when he realized oh shit i got bamboozled 0.99
00:23:55.900 You know, many women marry a simp husband that they may jump through hoops to be with them. 0.99
00:24:04.120 When women really want to be with the guy that they had no rules for, 1.00
00:24:10.540 the toxic, crazy ex is generally the one that she loved the most.
00:24:16.700 The next lie that women want to convince me of is divine femininity. 1.00
00:24:23.480 So many times I would hear older women tell me that they found their femininity. 1.00
00:24:29.060 But whenever I would ask them what in fact did they find and how did they find it, they could never categorize what exactly it was.
00:24:36.580 They just said I was masculine and I became feminine.
00:24:40.200 And becoming feminine seemed to still require them to have selfish behavior. 0.98
00:24:47.520 Becoming feminine was getting their nails done, learning fashion, and doing a lot of 0.91
00:24:58.520 self-centered behavior.
00:25:00.160 They would also say they raised their standards.
00:25:03.400 But does it make sense to raise your standards if you didn't raise your value, which is incredibly
00:25:09.020 hard to do as a woman? 1.00
00:25:11.380 Truly, the only way as women that you can raise your value 0.94
00:25:14.520 is learning complementary skills for the guy that you're dating.
00:25:20.480 There's one woman that I know that learned how to do email marketing for her husband. 1.00
00:25:27.040 That was a skill that maybe raised her value to him.
00:25:30.660 The other thing she did was get a boob job. 1.00
00:25:34.540 Look it, I'm not saying you should do that, but that's what he wanted, so she got it.
00:25:38.880 The other thing this woman did was got an incredible shape. 1.00
00:25:42.620 She hired a personal trainer and got in the best shape of her life.
00:25:47.540 Those are real actionable ways to raise value.
00:25:51.340 But what I would hear from these older women is finding your divine femininity 1.00
00:25:56.300 and that we are so complimentary,
00:25:59.300 but they would never give actionable steps of how to do these things.
00:26:03.940 They never said your best friend is a personal trainer.
00:26:07.120 That is the best thing you can do.
00:26:08.880 The other thing that older women do not want the men to know, and again, the older women, show the board, are keeping this a secret because me pointing this stuff out exposes how unqualified and unfit most of these women are to be wives. 0.99
00:26:26.760 You know, again, there's nothing inherently wrong with being the girl on the right, I should say, if you are not bamboozling the husband.
00:26:42.260 Many men will still sign up for that.
00:26:44.920 As I have said, there is always a simp somewhere.
00:26:47.520 Always, always, always.
00:26:48.700 I will never say it's over because it's never over.
00:26:51.800 I have seen women. I mean, in my life, if there's one thing I'm sure of, it's there is always a simp. 1.00
00:26:58.560 It always ends in destruction because, again, women hate simps, but there will always be a simp. 1.00
00:27:04.560 Always, always, always. So they make up these words that you can't define, don't really mean
00:27:12.760 anything in order to confuse the men to think that they're getting a better deal than they're
00:27:19.460 getting. And when I say information, like younger women are better, 90% of your eggs are gone by 30. 1.00
00:27:25.220 Women tend to have very complicated pregnancies after the age of 35. And if you marry a woman at 0.99
00:27:30.960 that age, it's not overly likely you'll get children. This stuff makes women feel icky and 0.85
00:27:36.840 they want to silence it. The same way in that Patrice O'Neill clip, all the women started to 0.99
00:27:42.400 feel icky. You could see it on their faces. And if it was up to them, they would probably try to
00:27:46.120 silence it. The next thing they don't want me to know, and many men will also get mad at me because
00:27:55.060 they're the guy, show up the board, they're the guy in the red. That's them. They didn't know they
00:28:02.500 got a bad deal, and now they're trying to rationalize their bad deal. Now, again, to me,
00:28:08.480 the most important thing is not about, the most important thing is the mindset of the woman and 0.99
00:28:16.180 if she truly respects and loves the man. That is, in my opinion, the most important thing.
00:28:28.220 And so those marriages wouldn't necessarily be bad if I truly believed that they respected and
00:28:34.280 loved the husband. But older women, I constantly see them bragging about their house, their kids, 1.00
00:28:39.840 how amazing of a wife they are, but I never hear them bragging about their husbands and why their 1.00
00:28:46.400 husbands are so amazing. All of the credit and adoration is always to themselves and not their
00:28:52.740 husbands. That's how you can tell the difference. And so many simps, when I say things like,
00:28:58.240 there is no benefit for marriage for men today women do not in general make men's lives better 0.96
00:29:06.780 and we are the lucky ones to marry not men being lucky to marry us they don't like that because
00:29:13.260 they got a bad deal many times with their wives and they're trying to rationalize it they don't
00:29:18.120 want me to be right they don't want it to be true because if it's true then they're going to have
00:29:23.260 the same fate as all of the other men that married and had their wives screw them over.
00:29:31.660 The next thing that older women do not want younger women to know is that we do not deserve 1.00
00:29:36.460 princess treatment. Again, even though, let's pull up this board. How many women are 22-year-olds 1.00
00:29:43.780 in-shape virgins that are going to have four-plus kids? They know how to cook and serve their 1.00
00:29:48.080 husband. I've interviewed a thousand women and I could count maybe five. Again, this is not me 0.99
00:29:54.060 saying, again, you can go back to me. Again, this is not me saying that that that was me when I was
00:30:04.260 22, you know. I was a volleyball player. That was the skills I had. And again, this doesn't mean
00:30:12.200 bad person, but it does mean that men are overpaying. This is called hoflation, all right?
00:30:20.880 And many women want to make this about me when I'm really just analyzing the market and what's 1.00
00:30:25.920 out there. And many older women have a slave-like relationship with their husbands. They want to 1.00
00:30:33.820 spend more and more and more and more. They expect their husbands to take them out on date nights, 1.00
00:30:38.540 And if they don't, there will be hell to pay.
00:30:42.340 These women do not like their husbands. 1.00
00:30:45.160 The person, the man that they loved was in their past
00:30:48.860 and their husband will never measure up to him.
00:30:52.540 That's why as women, it is so important 1.00
00:30:55.200 that we marry somebody that we actually love
00:30:58.220 or are in a relationship,
00:31:00.720 have children with someone that you actually love.
00:31:04.320 Convincing yourself, you like it.
00:31:06.200 There's nothing, there's no one more miserable, I have noticed, than a woman convincing herself 1.00
00:31:11.840 she likes her husband when it is super clear to everyone around her that she does not. 0.95
00:31:18.280 So again, women do not deserve princess treatment. 1.00
00:31:23.580 You could maybe argue that women deserve princess treatment, that are 22-year-old in-shape virgins 1.00
00:31:30.060 without debt and no tattoos, but that's few and far between.
00:31:34.180 that's less than 1% of women. So by and large, women do not deserve princess treatment. 1.00
00:31:39.880 And even the 22-year-old debt-free virgins will never have the same amount of value in a 1.00
00:31:46.220 relationship as high-value men. High-value men make the rules of the marketplace and you will
00:31:51.400 never offer as much as they do. Okay, the next thing that women do to confuse you and older women 1.00
00:32:00.500 do, is they say not all women are like that. Anybody with half a brain knows that obviously
00:32:08.100 there are differences in people. But if I said about men that men love
00:32:14.220 hot chicks with big boobs, the men wouldn't all come together and scream, 1.00
00:32:22.040 not all men are like that. But if I say women love bad boys and always have, 1.00
00:32:26.200 the women will get together and say not all women are like that many times this is because the women 0.98
00:32:33.040 know it's true and they cannot let their pull up the husband their simp husband know they can't let
00:32:42.320 him know because if he knows if he finds out that he was her second choice
00:32:48.340 hell to pay you know again we all know that there are patterns of behavior for men and women
00:32:58.580 there are that's what i look for i look for patterns and i understand there are exceptions
00:33:05.260 there's exceptions to every rule but that does not make the rule okay so insults older women 1.00
00:33:12.240 use to discredit what you are saying first what they will do is call you an incel they have called
00:33:20.320 me a female incel they will then say you are gay or a lesbian then they will attack your looks they 0.99
00:33:27.060 will prove that they are the ultimate hotties they as the old women are the hotties then they 1.00
00:33:35.120 will tell you their personal story as if that changes the rule because they are so narcissistic
00:33:42.880 that they think it changes the way that the world is. The next thing they do is they call you a pedo. 0.99
00:33:49.380 Yes, and that is one of the most evil things that you can do.
00:33:55.400 And what they never say is you are wrong. What they do is they try to confuse you,
00:34:02.580 they try to insult you, and they try to discredit you. But sorry, ladies, I don't give a shit. 1.00
00:34:09.960 No, I don't. I have other things going on in my life. Life is good for me. So if you guys don't 0.99
00:34:16.740 like me, even though I am the one being honest, and that's the thing. Many women try to, 0.91
00:34:24.120 they try to discredit me they insult me but they never say that I am wrong they never say that I
00:34:33.480 am wrong and really you guys should be thanking me you should be thanking me because when I was 18
00:34:41.240 this content didn't really exist at least now you can know the game and play better
00:34:48.640 But what older women will do is say you have plenty of time. 1.00
00:34:54.200 What older women will do is they will say that men love the older women, 1.00
00:35:00.420 that somehow as an older woman, you can compete with a 20-year-old. 1.00
00:35:05.220 Now, to be fair, I do know older women that have out-competed 20-year-olds. 1.00
00:35:09.340 I know one in particular.
00:35:10.620 but this woman 0.93
00:35:12.700 she had to go through hell and high water
00:35:16.920 to out compete her 1.00
00:35:18.020 the shit that she 1.00
00:35:20.180 there was no princess treatment for this woman 1.00
00:35:22.760 there was no extravagant dates
00:35:25.000 she was get on his
00:35:26.980 program do exactly what he asks
00:35:29.380 no she's not going through
00:35:31.040 his phone no she's not arguing
00:35:33.080 with him it's yes sir
00:35:34.960 I'll do that
00:35:35.880 and that was how she won
00:35:38.560 But older women don't want you to win. 1.00
00:35:41.440 Older women will tell you to leave a man for infidelity because many of them did that and 1.00
00:35:48.680 they could never find a man they loved more.
00:35:52.060 Many women met their husband in their 20s, the man that they loved the most, and they
00:35:58.240 left him, many of them, for infidelity.
00:36:01.400 Now, what they will tell you is that it was the right choice, but deep down they know
00:36:06.000 they will never love their husband the way that they loved that guy. They will never love him the
00:36:11.740 same. And deep down men know if they are that guy or they're not that guy. Typically their husband
00:36:20.540 they made jump through a bunch of hoops. They made a lot of rules for. And typically
00:36:26.340 they will never love him like they loved that guy. And they should have forgave it
00:36:33.940 and been happy with that guy, but instead what they'll do is they will try to convince you
00:36:41.880 that they are winning. So I have a couple examples of this I'm going to pull up today.
00:36:48.620 Let me check the chat. I try not to read it at the same time because it distracts me.
00:36:54.700 Catherine, this is from the chat on the Audacity Network.
00:36:57.560 um mrs ziegler says misery loves company katherine martz says of course they don't
00:37:05.380 a lot of older women are trying to get the younger uh trying to get the young men to feel
00:37:10.380 a rush of adrenaline and live since according to them they have been oppressed their whole lives
00:37:15.320 a super chat andrew copeland your voice is extremely important i'm on your team
00:37:20.440 my grandma sewed her children's clothes cooked cleaned and never complained once did my grandpa
00:37:25.020 but tell her, I love you, Hoflation is crazy. 0.99
00:37:27.640 And yes, and ladies, it does not mean you are a bad person
00:37:31.160 if you were not raised like this.
00:37:34.820 I don't expect any of us to have been raised like this.
00:37:39.660 But the question is, what do we want?
00:37:44.100 And maybe it's time to start learning what the men want
00:37:47.940 and improving.
00:37:50.300 You can't help where you're at now,
00:37:52.920 but we can always improve.
00:37:55.020 And we should look at this hoflation as an opportunity because there is much opportunity for women that choose to get in shape, have no tattoos, no debt, and are just pleasant to be around. 1.00
00:38:10.320 You can stand out easily.
00:38:13.540 Okay, so let me pull up these clips.
00:38:20.340 Not that one.
00:38:21.540 Oh, here it is, the TikTok.
00:38:25.480 Now, I'm not going to do a call-in today, but we will tomorrow.
00:38:28.920 Okay.
00:38:29.820 So this woman, I don't think she's that old, but it was an example of bad dating advice. 1.00
00:38:35.320 I would say bad.
00:38:36.440 Pull it up.
00:38:37.860 Now, again, this is just my opinion.
00:38:39.800 You guys can disagree with my opinion.
00:38:42.060 That's fine.
00:38:42.760 This is just my opinion.
00:38:44.920 Don't date the guy that makes your heart race, that makes your palms sweat,
00:38:48.300 and makes you nervous, and makes you get those anxious butterfly feelings where you feel like you—
00:38:51.900 Okay, so the butterflies, that was the man
00:38:54.240 she actually wanted.
00:38:58.420 Butterflies are not necessarily a bad thing.
00:39:03.960 Throw up any minute.
00:39:06.140 Date the guy that makes you feel so calm,
00:39:09.800 so regulated, so normal.
00:39:13.400 Like I swear, the first time I ever went on a date
00:39:15.320 with my boyfriend, we went to dinner
00:39:16.500 and then afterwards we watched a movie
00:39:18.140 and we watched the movie Austin Powers
00:39:19.900 And I literally didn't feel nervous at all.
00:39:22.140 I felt like I had known him for a thousand years.
00:39:25.200 I felt like I was hanging out with one of my best friends.
00:39:27.340 I felt so calm.
00:39:28.740 And still to this day, you know, he's my confidant and my safe space
00:39:33.420 and someone that keeps me so grounded in life
00:39:35.440 because he's just this calm space for me.
00:39:40.280 You know, obviously on our first date, I was a little nervous because he was cute,
00:39:43.300 but I didn't have those shaky, anxious, fight-or-flight feelings.
00:39:47.900 I just felt safe and it felt comfortable.
00:39:49.660 Women get nervous around men they like. 0.51
00:39:53.360 If she's not nervous around you, generally she doesn't like you that much.
00:39:59.200 And so what women do is it's a cope. 1.00
00:40:01.480 They couldn't keep the men that made them nervous.
00:40:04.020 Because, again, very few women win in this market. 1.00
00:40:08.420 Me saying that women don't marry and stay with the men, or sorry, 1.00
00:40:13.620 me saying that women don't get the men they want,
00:40:16.960 it shouldn't surprise you. Women are only attracted to 20% of men and women have also
00:40:25.180 been told don't share those men. Now life is about choices and trade-offs but typically what
00:40:33.780 you will see is those women resent the men that they pick that they picked long-term because they
00:40:40.120 didn't actually like them they just wanted children felt right and so I think that's my
00:40:47.980 advice to you date the person that when you're hanging out with them on the first date it just
00:40:52.800 feels like you're kicking it with an old friend and that's the being a best friend with someone
00:41:00.140 you marry that ends terrible okay let me show you the next one okay actually I don't even think I
00:41:08.520 watch this full clip. So we'll see if I was in a hurry. Let me see.
00:41:14.840 Hi, baby. Here are five of my most important tips to remember in the early stages of dating.
00:41:20.500 Number one, the bare minimum is called the bare minimum for a reason. Stop being so impressed
00:41:24.340 by kindness, respect, reciprocity, compliments, etc. Number two, there's nothing...
00:41:28.520 Okay.
00:41:32.300 Terrible advice. Terrible.
00:41:38.520 stop being impressed by the quote-unquote bare minimum. Men love women that are impressed by
00:41:46.420 the bare minimum. It's a sign of youth. You know, women that are not impressed by the bare minimum 1.00
00:41:54.680 tend to have had many experiences. That is not a plus for men.
00:42:02.400 With having a healthy amount of skepticism, if you've just started dating someone, in fact,
00:42:06.640 If you're someone that tends to be overly trusting of people prematurely, this can keep you level-headed.
00:42:12.100 So this is basically saying to be guarded.
00:42:16.340 And we will never win.
00:42:18.880 You will never, never win going into a relationship in bad faith.
00:42:24.440 Now, I totally understand that sometimes you get burned.
00:42:27.940 Yes, that happens.
00:42:29.820 Men take Ls sometimes. 0.68
00:42:31.260 Women take Ls sometimes. 1.00
00:42:32.520 but you will never win going into something in fear that it will not work out because all that's
00:42:39.860 doing is making the men of the future pay for the mistakes of your past you will never ever win
00:42:46.640 going into something in fear you might take an L it happens move on men take L's all the time 0.79
00:42:54.480 blessing have you ever taken an L yep I mean it sucks right oh yeah did you so you
00:43:02.500 and then what'd you do did you cry about it for for 10 years like taylor swift yeah yeah and men
00:43:09.280 understand this they understand that when they go on a date with someone to go in in good faith
00:43:15.020 and if it doesn't work out it doesn't work out but women feel the need to be guarded and make 1.00
00:43:21.580 every man pay for the l's of her past an l is an l just eat it the beginning stages of dating are 0.89
00:43:28.980 by nature ambiguous unpredictable and can bring up a whole lot of relational anxiety this is normal
00:43:34.820 you're not going crazy but you are going to have to learn to tolerate it number four you do not
00:43:39.220 have to prove to anyone that you are good enough worthy of love or valuable you just are terrible
00:43:46.340 advice terrible now this idea that every woman does woman deserves and will get love no no no no 0.98
00:43:52.900 no the overweight community got really mad at me last year when i said that fat chicks do not 1.00
00:43:59.940 deserve love and the key is deserve you are not entitled to anything in life the only people that
00:44:06.660 deserve love is children and oftentimes even they don't get that love is something that is earned
00:44:14.900 in order for you to select a man i mean blessing could you be a homeless 0.88
00:44:19.860 broke, ugly. Typically, that will not work. Typically, men understand they have to become 0.94
00:44:33.540 something to get a partner or a wife, a girlfriend, whatever. But women don't understand that we have 1.00
00:44:42.180 to earn the men that we want. Otherwise, you become the woman on the right. Again, I know, 0.99
00:44:50.680 show the whiteboard. Yeah, see that? Again, I do know women that have won. I know women that have 1.00
00:45:00.320 won at 25, 35, 45, and even 50. But they had to swallow their pride and their ego. There was no
00:45:08.400 princess treatment. It was get on his program. It was move where he wants, live where he wants,
00:45:17.120 cook what he wants, swallow your pride. But women have been told we are so narcissistic
00:45:25.500 because we have been told that we are two amazing, special, and awesome, and that we deserve the world.
00:45:31.860 And some women find a simp to do it for them, but they resent him for a lifetime.
00:45:36.600 women hate men that serve us there is nothing there is no woman happier than a 0.99
00:45:44.100 woman that is serving her husband I have red flags aren't gonna feel like red 0.98
00:45:49.140 flags if you've been conditioned to believe the shitty behavior equals love
00:45:52.740 get really honest with yourself if there are things that you really really don't
00:45:56.580 like early on in the relationship your mind might lie to you but your body
00:46:00.060 never will. Okay, that's number two. I'm going to show the last one.
00:46:09.700 Okay, here we go. Now again, this is starting off on a bad foot right here.
00:46:17.960 Dating rules in the beginning. Again, if you're really in order, and again, we have to pick men 1.00
00:46:25.860 that we trust respect and admire right but why are you having rules for your husband 0.86
00:46:32.500 truly if you want to be in a truly traditional relationship there's no rules
00:46:38.920 when you start dating ladies endless texting in the beginning can be very dangerous because it 0.97
00:46:45.680 creates a false sense of intimacy texting makes you think that you know this person and that you
00:46:51.380 care for this person but that is not the real world the real world is when you meet somebody
00:46:56.660 and when you actually go on dates so make sure to continue your life as you normally do it
00:47:02.260 and keep the texting limited until you really get to know him don't accept any last minute dates
00:47:08.340 if the man really likes you he has to show it through his actions okay his actions so i come
00:47:15.780 from an area where it's very much wealthy it's more more upper class i would say and men that
00:47:25.300 are on a mission that are working super super hard towards something you have to work around their
00:47:33.140 schedule because typically again if it's a man that women want to be with if you don't work 0.97
00:47:40.340 around his schedule someone else will let's take um i don't know the billionaire elon musk
00:47:49.300 do you think that elon musk has the time to work around these chicks schedule no because men's 1.00
00:47:57.860 time is simply more valuable than our time men have built the world they run society and women
00:48:05.780 do not pick men that whose time is not valuable we just simply don't or if we do we will not be
00:48:14.940 there long so if it's a man that you could actually see yourself with long term it's his
00:48:21.420 terms it's his schedule up in the form of organizing a nice date if he texts you late at
00:48:28.320 night and he says, what's up? Shall I come by? It's always a no. Don't sleep with him until you
00:48:35.680 know that you're actually exclusive together. So here's the problem you're going to get with that
00:48:41.700 ladies. The top men are not waiting. They are not waiting. Now again, if you're a, now let's show 1.00
00:48:50.220 the whiteboard. If you're a 22 year old virgin, okay, they might give you an exception. But if
00:48:57.740 you're over the age just like patrice o'neill said the cracker jack men that actually understand 0.73
00:49:05.180 what's going on are not waiting they are not like imagine this chick blessing takes her on a date 1.00
00:49:12.460 and she says i have a three-month rule
00:49:16.840 how is that going to go blessing
00:49:20.800 he's a pastor he can't be honest
00:49:25.320 sorry but but seriously guys under a certain age fine if men sense a certain level of purity 0.98
00:49:35.660 and youth from you fine but over a certain age that shit is not gonna work men are under no 0.99
00:49:43.380 men are not stupid and men have realized that if you are not sleeping with them 0.99
00:49:49.960 likely they are sleeping with someone else again you should be with a guy that you want to be with
00:49:57.480 right away i'm not saying you should always do that i'm not even telling you when but i'm saying
00:50:02.060 if you jack around with too many of these games it's just not going to work promise to god yes
00:50:08.240 i would love to see where our connection goes and i would like to not date any other man
00:50:13.820 while i'm getting to know you better and then you see how he reacts and one more thing until you 0.96
00:50:20.140 establish this please date other men again again the men with all of the options are not stupid 0.96
00:50:29.200 they know when you're talking to other chicks or other guys they know and so if you want to play 0.99
00:50:37.400 stupid games win stupid prizes good luck so again older women do not want you you can take it down 1.00
00:50:46.040 older women do not want you to win ladies they don't and you can hate on me you can call me evil 1.00
00:50:54.480 all of this stuff and if you want to end up you know like the the 32 year old women that hate 1.00
00:51:00.760 their husbands it's fine you know don't but don't shoot the messenger but you'll notice the angrier
00:51:10.180 people get the more likely you are close to pushing your nose on something that's true i can't do a
00:51:16.760 call in today as i have volleyball but i hope you got something out of this stream tomorrow i want
00:51:24.080 to hear from the women. Would you accept infidelity? So tomorrow we're going to do a show at 8 GMT. 0.98
00:51:32.120 That should be two o'clock central, I think three eastern. 8 GMT. We're going to do a call-in show
00:51:39.940 and I want to hear from the women. Would you accept cheating? Over what age should we truly
00:51:49.080 accept it? Because there's a difference between the 22-year-old accepting the lack of faithfulness
00:51:55.360 versus the 32-year-old. At what age do we start to compromise on fidelity? Let me know what you
00:52:02.160 guys think in the comments. Make sure you subscribe, like the video, and please, guys, go to
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00:52:13.260 like 20 minutes of the show just on the audacity those are the comments that i read d miller um
00:52:20.320 let me there was a super chat d miller says if you think you are entitled to love turn to god
00:52:25.120 if you want to be valued by a man serve him support him follow him be submissive and build
00:52:28.780 his home for him paul says he loves the whiteboard stuff mrs ziegler says we simply exist and we're
00:52:35.840 exhausted joseph said those who have had in parents who lived through the great depression
00:52:39.860 and see the world differently generally than others.
00:52:41.900 You seem to have old world values, and I appreciate that.
00:52:44.380 Thank you guys so much.
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