Pearl - Once He Was An All-Star Dad, Now He's Living In An RV

00:00:00.000 I was the superstar until we got divorced and then I was banished to my RV trailer in our driveway.

00:00:07.260 What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. I am Pearl Davis and if you want to support me,

00:00:11.680 the link is in the description. So today we are talking about a topic that we cover often on the

00:00:17.240 show, how men really are wrecked in this divorce and family court system. And today we have a guy

00:00:23.600 that says he was the best father in the world until divorce ruined his life. Let's see what he has to

00:00:31.680 say. I watched a video from another creator last night that made an interesting point that during

00:00:38.580 my marriage, I was the best man ever. I was the most supportive husband ever. I was the most

00:00:45.780 supportive dad ever. I coached flag football. I coached wrestling for six years while my little

00:00:52.640 boys were wrestling. I coached youth basketball while my oldest daughter was on that team.

00:00:58.720 And that's, there's this idea amongst conservatives. They will often shame men for not being good men,

00:01:04.440 not being godly men because they got divorced. When a lot of times it's completely out of their

00:01:09.460 control. They did everything they were supposed to do on paper, but they demonize red pillars for

00:01:14.780 trying to give men the right information, which is that you might not get it. You might not get a good

00:01:19.680 deal. You might do everything right. And it blows up in your face. You just don't know you're not in

00:01:23.360 control. I hauled my kids everywhere for their youth rodeos. We practiced for four, eight shows

00:01:32.200 and rodeos almost every day through the summer. I was their roping coach. I was the one who shod their

00:01:38.300 horses. I am, was also their horse dentist and I was the mechanic and the farmer and the, the initial

00:01:47.020 dog trainer in our dog business. And I was the one who worried about finding the pallets of dog food

00:01:54.000 that we used in our business. I was the one tasked with finding the hay for all the horses and feeding

00:02:00.320 the cows and calving out the cows. And I was the superstar until we got divorced. And then I was

00:02:07.360 banished to my RV trailer in our driveway. And it's so humiliating for men because a lot of times

00:02:15.080 they're the ones that made all the home improvements on the house. They put their blood,

00:02:20.180 sweat and tears into the house. You know, homes for women, you know, they say that women make a house

00:02:25.820 a home, but I disagree. I think that men make a house a home because most of the things that women

00:02:32.100 do include buying things that really are overpriced, overpriced decorating, where the men are the ones

00:02:39.280 fixing things. They're making the house work. They're mowing the lawn. They're fixing the plumbing when it

00:02:44.740 goes wrong, the electricity. It's not the women that are doing that stuff. So it drives me nuts

00:02:49.900 because a lot of women, they always want to take credit for what the men do. And so, you know, men love

00:02:55.960 fixing up their house. And then in the divorce, women take it from them.

00:02:59.540 And then I was a dangerous dad. I wasn't an abusive dad, but I was coined dangerous.

00:03:08.820 She told the kids that I would be a danger to her if they told me that they were moving to another

00:03:16.200 state before they did. She then started to tell our neighbors that I was dangerous and mean and

00:03:22.760 manipulative. So it's really...

00:03:24.620 And a lot of times the women have been ruining the men's reputation for years before. And I mean,

00:03:31.480 I've had women do this to me too. When you say something they don't like, they go to extreme

00:03:35.360 lengths to ruin your life. I mean, I've had lawsuits thrown at me. I've had pedo accusations

00:03:40.140 thrown at me. You know, the effed up shit women will do, they go to the ends of the earth to ruin

00:03:46.320 your life. They do. I've had, you know, accusations of racism, sexism, homophobia, you know, and you get

00:03:54.380 so irritated from this stuff. You know, it's like women, we're going to eff around and find out the

00:04:00.920 same way. A lot of black people are finding out that white people are sick of being called racist.

00:04:05.940 Eff it, we'll become racist. We keep calling men abusive. What do you think is going to happen?

00:04:10.760 They're not going to care if people call them that anymore. They're not. And you mess around,

00:04:15.640 you might find out. Men might actually become the things we keep calling them.

00:04:20.280 It's interesting that while we are married to these highly volatile and manipulative women,

00:04:28.360 that we are the greatest man on earth. And the second the divorce enters the picture,

00:04:38.080 apparently we are on the right hand of the devil. This really is the perfect definition of toxicity.

00:04:43.960 Now, when we are in the storm of all of this, we don't realize it because we're literally in a

00:04:49.640 cloud of cortisol induced reaction. And it's really, really difficult to see all of these

00:04:57.520 details when you're in the middle of the sheer chaos. But looking back, I can see how toxic it was.

00:05:06.800 I can see how ironic all of it is. It is truly amazing to me.

00:05:13.120 And the truth does come out in the end, the same way Johnny Dapp and Amber heard.

00:05:16.660 The truth did come out eventually, but not until after she damaged him for years. Yet he wasn't

00:05:23.560 even married to that woman. How crazy is that?

00:05:26.540 How hard it is to see out from the inside. I had a lot of people in my life who were on the outside

00:05:34.280 looking in and they tried to warn me. They tried to caution me.

00:05:40.800 Yeah. A lot of times people close to her know that she's crazy, but when a man's in love,

00:05:46.900 he overlooks everything. Bad relationship with the family overlooks it. Overlook everything.

00:05:55.140 Because I was in the whirlwind. I couldn't see it.

00:05:58.180 And that's what you get. This happens to a lot of good men, good fathers and good husbands. They

00:06:05.980 get accusations of abuse thrown at them. And the entire town thinks they're a terrible person when

00:06:11.200 really they did nothing wrong. Men do not get the benefit of the doubt in this society. But let me

00:06:16.240 know what you guys think in the comments. Make sure you like the video, subscribe to the channel,

00:06:20.280 and I'll talk to you next time.

Pearl - October 24, 2025

Once He Was An All-Star Dad, Now He's Living In An RV

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