Pearl - October 25, 2025


Spoiled Woman Thinks She Is Entitled To A Six-Figure Lifestyle

Topics
job market desperation
Mentioned
Gen Z Yada
Divorce Court： Men Pay While Women Play ＂Strong and Independent＂ Women Crying Online Over Job Applications

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Length

10 minutes

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182.75

Word count

1,862

Sentence count

172

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

9

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Hate speech

4

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In this episode, I talk about how I m having a hard time finding a job right now and why it s so hard to find a job. I also talk about why you should just take a break until you find a better job.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Even I'll have like an initial phone calls with people and they'll be like, don't worry,
00:00:04.200 like if we proceed or don't proceed, we'll let you know.
00:00:07.100 Otherwise, we won't ghost you.
00:00:08.840 They've all ghosted me.
00:00:10.200 Just like you ghost the men in your lives.
00:00:11.780 That's life.
00:00:12.360 When people don't care about you, they don't treat you that well.
00:00:14.700 Can't take it personal.
00:00:15.900 We're going to have this woman. 0.99
00:00:16.780 I guess she's going to talk about how she is having a hard time finding a job.
00:00:20.000 And one of the things that I've noticed where a lot of women say they can't find a job and 1.00
00:00:23.580 they're having trouble with money.
00:00:24.600 But I look at their Instagrams and they have such a crazy lifestyle that I think, well,
00:00:29.020 it's no wonder you're having money problems because you were outspending.
00:00:33.500 And there's a lot of things, you know, there's a video of her traveling, heavy makeup, looks
00:00:42.200 like hair extensions, maybe some minor plastic surgeries, drinking out.
00:00:49.720 It's just, you know, I get a little frustrated here.
00:00:52.560 Fake nails. 0.96
00:00:53.580 I barely get fake nails.
00:00:55.380 I really do.
00:00:55.960 I barely do.
00:00:57.820 Because they're expensive.
00:00:59.020 And I don't like sitting there half the day.
00:01:00.560 It annoys me.
00:01:01.300 I got better things to do.
00:01:03.400 And that's really my big complaint.
00:01:05.260 Like, if you want to complain about money, that's fine.
00:01:07.540 But, you know, don't outspend what you're making.
00:01:11.000 Don't complain about money and how you can't find a job if this is the lifestyle you're
00:01:16.240 living. 0.98
00:01:16.640 I would just shut up, you know.
00:01:18.000 You guys, the job market is literally insane right now because I have used every single
00:01:24.960 connection I have made since starting my professional career, even, like, college connections.
00:01:30.940 I have messaged every single person that I can possibly think of.
00:01:35.900 I've emailed recruiters that I've talked to years ago about jobs at, like, previous companies
00:01:42.260 that I was interviewing for.
00:01:44.440 I've even cold emailed recruiters that I found, like, on LinkedIn.
00:01:47.900 And I'm like, I don't know what is going on here, but I can't even get, like, an initial
00:01:53.300 interview and I'll be extremely qualified for the job or even overqualified.
00:01:57.440 And when women say that they're overqualified, what they mean is, um, I have a degree for 1.00
00:02:03.960 it, not necessarily work experience.
00:02:06.180 Qualified for the job.
00:02:07.080 And I'm like, that desperate?
00:02:08.120 I'm just like, I think people are preying on the fact that we're all that desperate.
00:02:13.100 And it's literally insulting because I had one company.
00:02:17.560 You don't look that old.
00:02:18.440 You can't be insulted by any job that you're offered right now at this point in your career.
00:02:21.920 Reach out.
00:02:23.400 And they were offering maximum of 55K a year.
00:02:27.440 And they wanted, like, a couple years of experience.
00:02:30.120 I was like, in what freaking world are you going to, are you going to get that?
00:02:33.660 I'm like, I'd rather just stick it out on freaking unemployment and figure it out versus 0.72
00:02:38.760 slaving away at a job that probably I won't like or probably.
00:02:44.060 Okay, 55K a year isn't bad.
00:02:45.820 Why don't you just take it till you find a better job?
00:02:48.620 I mean, I made 42K right out of college plus commission, but I didn't sell very much because
00:02:53.340 I wasn't very good.
00:02:54.160 And I was selling copiers during COVID, but, you know, I knew it was a resume builder.
00:03:01.480 It would be an extremely toxic environment because that's unfortunately just common these
00:03:07.380 days in corporate America.
00:03:08.580 But I'm like, I don't know what to do.
00:03:10.620 A toxic environment.
00:03:11.560 Why do women think they're entitled to good environments at work? 1.00
00:03:17.320 Every time I apply for school.
00:03:18.520 I mean, we're not entitled to good environments at school.
00:03:21.940 I mean, I got bullied.
00:03:23.500 You know, I mean, you're not entitled to being liked and having a good environment.
00:03:28.480 Something I make sure my resume is fully tailored to that job.
00:03:33.700 I make sure.
00:03:34.320 Translation.
00:03:34.720 I use chat GPT.
00:03:35.720 There's keywords in there that match the job description perfectly.
00:03:40.100 And I literally even I'll have like an initial phone calls with people and they'll be like,
00:03:45.760 don't worry, like if we proceed or don't proceed, we'll let you know.
00:03:49.640 Otherwise, we won't ghost you.
00:03:51.680 They've all ghosted me.
00:03:53.020 Just like you ghost the men in your lives.
00:03:54.820 That's life.
00:03:58.360 When people don't care about you, they don't treat you that well.
00:04:01.220 Can't take it personal.
00:04:02.560 I'm like, don't even tell me that.
00:04:03.920 And then another company I was interviewing for, it was like an initial HR interview.
00:04:08.500 She was like, oh, my God, I'm so excited to get you in front of the team.
00:04:11.060 Yada, yada.
00:04:12.420 And I followed up with her like a week later when she said she would get back to me.
00:04:18.440 And when I emailed her a couple hours later, I got an automated response saying they are moving forward with other candidates that are more like close.
00:04:29.100 The experience is more closely aligned to what they're looking for.
00:04:31.800 I'm like, what are you looking for then? 0.98
00:04:33.300 It's time to take a shitty job. 0.99
00:04:34.940 Men know when they don't get jobs in their field, it's time to take a shitty job. 0.99
00:04:38.260 That's part of life.
00:04:39.160 You know, I was demonetized for a year and a half and I had to change my entire business model.
00:04:43.000 I mean, I got kicked off of everything.
00:04:44.320 I had to go into YouTube services where instead of being in front of the camera, which I mean, I would do that, too.
00:04:52.080 But I would also I had to rent out all the people that worked for me to other people.
00:04:55.760 And I did their YouTube for them, which, by the way, I was very good at.
00:04:58.920 I gave this business to someone else.
00:05:01.180 I do a referral thing now if you guys are interested.
00:05:03.180 But, yeah, I mean, like I had to change everything around and I made significantly less money.
00:05:11.960 But that's part of life.
00:05:13.020 Not everything goes your way.
00:05:14.340 And sometimes you have to do different jobs to survive.
00:05:18.400 Because I have five years of experience in my field.
00:05:21.040 I've made it to like the middle range.
00:05:24.000 Heck, I've even applied and interviewed for jobs that are entry level at that point.
00:05:29.420 I want to know what industry she's looking for. 1.00
00:05:31.440 Just so stupid. 0.99
00:05:32.720 And there's another job that I was I think I talked about on here before. 1.00
00:05:37.080 I don't know.
00:05:37.500 But they're asking for two to four years of experience for 15 to 20 dollars an hour.
00:05:42.020 That same job.
00:05:45.480 Yeah, same job, but a different recruiter agency place.
00:05:49.540 They called me again about the same job.
00:05:51.960 And I was like already irritated.
00:05:53.440 So I was like, please do not contact me again, because that is literally insulting.
00:05:56.640 Um, now they've somehow upped it to 3350 an hour.
00:06:01.260 I was like, OK, that is better than 15 to 20.
00:06:05.100 But again, how did we get here?
00:06:06.520 It's probably because people like me told them to respectfully.
00:06:12.680 Don't call me again, because that's insulting and it is insulting.
00:06:16.180 And then another company that women are they're offered a job. 1.00
00:06:21.280 They don't like the job and they're offended.
00:06:23.100 It's like, get over yourself.
00:06:24.340 Um, right now you have zero dollars an hour.
00:06:29.320 That's your time's worth.
00:06:30.380 So you can't really be mad at a job that offers you less than what you think you're worth.
00:06:34.020 If you can't get anyone to pay it to you, um, then you start considering worse offers,
00:06:39.740 at least until you find a better job.
00:06:41.460 Um, is local.
00:06:44.520 I interviewed for a job and I put in my desired salary and she messaged me and she was like,
00:06:50.920 is this like, do you have any wiggle room in your salary expectations?
00:06:54.660 I was like, yeah, I have a little bit.
00:06:56.800 Tell me why.
00:06:57.960 She was like, I said wiggle room and she was like, we can't quite meet that, meet that.
00:07:05.600 It was a $30,000 difference in my, my request or my desired salary.
00:07:13.240 I was like, I was expecting maybe 5k 30 and they wanted a couple of years of experience. 0.57
00:07:21.100 I'm like, in what freaking world?
00:07:23.480 And I don't know.
00:07:24.440 I see like both things on my LinkedIn.
00:07:26.960 I see multiple things.
00:07:27.920 Like I'm so excited to announce I'm starting a new position, blah, blah, blah.
00:07:31.000 Then I also see people posting the same thing that I had to about, Hey, you know, my company.
00:07:37.280 I wonder what percent of Gen Z women have jobs percent of Gen Z women are employed. 1.00
00:07:45.560 I am curious.
00:07:46.540 So it says, um, the unemployment rate for all women in 2019 was 3.6%.
00:07:56.500 Gen Z women are expected to make up 30% of the workforce by 2030. 0.84
00:08:01.500 Um, okay.
00:08:03.000 I can't find, if anyone has that stat, put it in the comments because I can't find it.
00:08:06.680 I'm structured and I lost my job, yada, yada.
00:08:09.240 And I'm just like, how are people finding jobs?
00:08:12.440 Unless they're taking jobs that have crap pay and are just sticking it out and have multiple jobs.
00:08:18.920 I don't know.
00:08:19.920 But like, I literally don't know what the answer is.
00:08:22.680 And like I said, I've utilized every single freaking connection I've made in my entire life.
00:08:28.840 Like even people like on here, I, I've tried everything and I just don't get any response back.
00:08:38.360 I'm like, I don't know.
00:08:39.980 And it's companies that I've interviewed for when I was still at my previous job.
00:08:47.440 Um, and I'm just like, AI has taken out a lot of jobs and I want to say a lot of jobs that women have. 1.00
00:08:54.800 So, um, yeah, a lot of women maybe in the past that were employed are not going to get the same opportunities that they had before.
00:09:03.760 I've literally talked to you multiple times and like things just, I don't know.
00:09:10.060 At the time, those positions didn't work out.
00:09:12.500 They're like, we'll keep you in mind, blah, blah, blah.
00:09:14.440 And I have reached out to them every single time I've seen a job opening.
00:09:18.200 But it's almost like people see I'm unemployed and they like don't want, I don't know.
00:09:23.600 It's really weird.
00:09:24.720 I feel like it's kind of like that saying people are like, it's easy to get a job when you already have a job.
00:09:30.860 Yeah, that's starting.
00:09:32.160 You probably seem less desperate.
00:09:33.500 Men think about that with women.
00:09:35.740 It's easier to find a girlfriend when you already have one.
00:09:38.320 You're track now because I got interviews and people messaging me out the wazoo on LinkedIn when I had a job.
00:09:45.960 And now nothing.
00:09:48.000 None.
00:09:48.320 And the world has changed.
00:09:50.460 Okay, guys.
00:09:51.260 Well, let me know what you think in the comments.
00:09:52.980 And have you been looking for a job or do you know women that are unemployed?
00:09:56.580 What have you been seeing in the real world and real life?
00:09:59.200 Please let me know in the comments section if you want to support me.
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