Pearl - June 13, 2024Paul Elam on FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS & DIVORCE
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Summary
In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, a man who is a family law attorney. We talk about what family law attorneys do, why they lie, and why they do it. We also talk about how family law lawyers are scamming us out of our money.
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And what's the first thing, one of the first things that family law attorneys do when they
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And they calculate how much of that stuff they can get before the divorce is over.
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So if I, let's just say someone's worth $100,000, how would that?
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They will take the case, bleed that money down.
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and when the money is out they'll say okay we've got a settlement now oh and between the two oh
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so they're trying to get the people's net worth to zero basically take all the money they can
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and then make a settlement and since it's usually the guy's money because
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right more often than not oh that's why they're lying this is all a scam all of it that makes so
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i could not figure out why he was lying because i i don't know how to describe it it's just like
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a feeling i guess but i'm like they're hiding something the way they're they're answering and
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responding to these facts is not honest and i notice it from the trad cons a lot because
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but their ego investments their religion so like if these that's why they do it i think anyways
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they just they love their religion but they're because they look bad if people knew what they
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did behind closed doors. Absolutely. That's my belief. And this is, you know, I couldn't prove
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this in a study, but I can tell you over and over again, the men I've counseled, they suddenly came
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to some kind of arrangement precisely when the money was running out. Wow. I don't think that's
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a coincidence. I think that family law attorneys are like ambulance chasers. What are ambulance?
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Oh, personal injury attorneys that, you know, hang out in hospital ERs and find clients
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who have been in automobile wrecks, and here I can make you some money, and those guys.
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Just kind of a scummy profession, family court, because...
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Yeah, but I'm even thinking family law, because unless you're like a men's, maybe a men's rights
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attorney, that sort of thing, it's like odds are you have to screw over men to get paid.
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And you don't want a men's rights attorney or anybody identifying that here's the problem.
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When attorneys come in and act like their male clients actually have rights and there's a constitution and they shouldn't be treated this way, courts don't want any of that.
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I can't tell you how many guys were asking their attorneys, why aren't you saying this?
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why aren't you doing that you know i've heard that in the uk too where they said their attorneys
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don't even tell them the right thing to do yeah they don't yeah it is it's like why aren't we
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fighting this this way or that way oh don't worry about it this is the way it's done that sort of
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thing and of course it bleeds the family dry of money and then once that's done it's like okay
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we're done now oh that makes so i could not figure out why and the judges have to be in on it too
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so do you think it's just gynocentrism that makes them do this or the love of money
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i think gynocentrism helps but i mean they're attorneys it's the money yeah yeah okay because
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sometimes i wonder if i don't know because there was a switch that clicked for me when i was
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interviewing um men and women and women would always say they were abused right and someone in
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my comments section said ask if they filed a police report and i couldn't believe no none of
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them did of course i did yeah and that was when i was like oh these bitches are lying none of them
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are telling the truth because then i would you know it's like you ask one question because your
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natural reaction when someone says they're abused i think it's like an empathetic for me anyway was
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was why would you lie about that i would just believe them but then i would ask like two or
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three questions like one chick said that she was thrown down a flight of stairs by her ex-boyfriend
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right so that sounds pretty bad that's pretty rough yeah yeah yeah and then i asked i was like
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okay what led up and someone in my comment section was like ask her what led up to the fight
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and so she's like oh i wouldn't leave his house so what i think happened based on the way she
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answered was she wouldn't leave his house she was making a scene with his kid there and he
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was pushing her to get out and she fell down the flight of stairs because she she wouldn't leave
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yep and not surprising at all yeah and so and i talked to other guys and they're like oh my
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My ex-girlfriend refused to, like, they all have a very similar, maybe there wasn't a
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police involved, but you could ask guys and they'll say, oh, yeah, women do that all the
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Another part of that scenario is guys that are in relationships with women that are psychologically
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and emotionally very abusive, which like borderline personalities are, they can be horrendously
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A guy will take that abuse for years and then one day he can't take it anymore and he slaps
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is the moment he slapped her they won't pay any attention to anything that led up to it
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nothing else matters he hit a woman time to go to jail and take all your stuff
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and the guy says yeah i did it and nobody cares that he'd been provoked for years and abused for
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years or they'll hit first yep and then then one day that he they get slapped back
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yep and the police will arrest the guy in that every time yeah well so
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i guess my question is in family court do you do you think they know that the women are lying
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or they don't care oh they don't care they know that they know the whole thing is corrupt they
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steve baskerville wrote about this very well they know precisely what they're doing in there
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They know the family's being fleeced for all the money.
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And, you know, family courts that I know of don't have cameras in them.
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There's no real appeals process for family courts.
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So they have impunity and they can do anything they want.
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the only thing that's going to save family courts in this country is bulldozers
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mow them down and rebuild it's the only thing that will ever save them it's just too corrupt
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not really yeah i don't either no i wish it was
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i wish they could record it and make it public i think that would help
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because i think when you put the light on something unjust then people start to speak
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out and they actually that's why sometimes these trad cons i'll do debates with them and i'm just
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like why don't you come with me and go tell the men that served their country and got divorced
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raped got their children taken that they're not a real man go go tell them go ahead that it's
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their fault their marriage ended well it won't be anything they haven't heard a thousand times
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already yeah the the world is so gynocentric one of the biggest problems that i have with guys going
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through divorce is that their own families turn on them oh my gosh that's the i interviewed one
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guy his whole family yep his whole family believed he was an abuser for like they came around like
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five years later but yes she got his whole little bit late for that yeah yeah yeah i've seen it
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happened a thousand times guys their own fathers their own mothers turn on them and side with the
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the abusive woman it's amazing that is when you take fundamental biological gynocentrism which
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arguably is a necessity and you turn it into that you've got a crazy world and i don't see what
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there is to stop it at this point other than uh i mean eventually we'll probably the society will
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collapse and that'll be the start of something new and maybe a little bit better but until then
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I don't see anything changing it's too profitable and it's too easy for people people can turn on
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their own children because a woman said he hit me or he was mean to me man we're a long way from
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being able to fix anything and they never ask even the Michael Knowles interview he didn't ask her
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any freaking i'm like guys you don't ask any questions i think michael is challenged sorry
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you think he's like mentally challenged well he's like a smart guy you know but well you know
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simps are some of the smartest people you'll meet some of the dumbest people it's not about
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intelligent yeah or culture or race or ethnicity or religion or anything simping it runs through
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the veins of western men period and you then you get people like knowles will be like yeah marry a
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hoe it's it's okay and i don't think he would let uh i wonder if michael would let a saved pedophile
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watch his children if you're using his logic yeah but he thought it was wise to bring a woman that
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used to get men to cheat her on married men yes like she's gonna end up fucking one of the
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sorry but i'm a swearer i don't know but like she's gonna end up having sex with one of the
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married guys and they're gonna be like what happened how did this