Pearl - June 13, 2024


Paul Elam on FAMILY LAW ATTORNEYS & DIVORCE

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Steve Baskerville Michael Knowles
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Length

9 minutes

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175.03

Word count

1,746

Sentence count

47

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Misogyny

10

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Toxicity

10

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Hate speech

8

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In this episode, we have our first guest on the show, a man who is a family law attorney. We talk about what family law attorneys do, why they lie, and why they do it. We also talk about how family law lawyers are scamming us out of our money.

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00:00:00.000 And what's the first thing, one of the first things that family law attorneys do when they
00:00:03.680 get a new client?
00:00:05.280 I need to see all your assets.
00:00:08.280 We want to see what you're worth.
00:00:10.180 And they calculate how much of that stuff they can get before the divorce is over.
00:00:17.420 So if I, let's just say someone's worth $100,000, how would that?
00:00:23.100 They will take the case, bleed that money down.
00:00:28.480 and when the money is out they'll say okay we've got a settlement now oh and between the two oh
00:00:34.920 so they're trying to get the people's net worth to zero basically take all the money they can
00:00:41.920 and then make a settlement and since it's usually the guy's money because
00:00:47.420 right more often than not oh that's why they're lying this is all a scam all of it that makes so
00:00:57.540 i could not figure out why he was lying because i i don't know how to describe it it's just like
00:01:02.880 a feeling i guess but i'm like they're hiding something the way they're they're answering and
00:01:07.640 responding to these facts is not honest and i notice it from the trad cons a lot because
00:01:13.280 but their ego investments their religion so like if these that's why they do it i think anyways
00:01:20.040 they just they love their religion but they're because they look bad if people knew what they
00:01:26.100 did behind closed doors. Absolutely. That's my belief. And this is, you know, I couldn't prove
00:01:31.660 this in a study, but I can tell you over and over again, the men I've counseled, they suddenly came
00:01:37.740 to some kind of arrangement precisely when the money was running out. Wow. I don't think that's
00:01:45.880 a coincidence. I think that family law attorneys are like ambulance chasers. What are ambulance?
00:01:52.320 Sorry, I don't get that.
00:01:53.320 Sorry.
00:01:54.320 Oh, personal injury attorneys that, you know, hang out in hospital ERs and find clients
00:02:00.740 who have been in automobile wrecks, and here I can make you some money, and those guys.
00:02:05.000 Just kind of a scummy profession, family court, because...
00:02:08.760 Family courts are scummy.
00:02:09.760 They're horrible places.
00:02:10.760 Yeah, but I'm even thinking family law, because unless you're like a men's, maybe a men's rights 0.96
00:02:16.300 attorney, that sort of thing, it's like odds are you have to screw over men to get paid. 0.92
00:02:21.720 And you don't want a men's rights attorney or anybody identifying that here's the problem.
00:02:28.780 The courts hate that.
00:02:31.220 When attorneys come in and act like their male clients actually have rights and there's a constitution and they shouldn't be treated this way, courts don't want any of that.
00:02:43.100 They want compliance.
00:02:44.960 I can't tell you how many guys were asking their attorneys, why aren't you saying this?
00:02:50.180 why aren't you doing that you know i've heard that in the uk too where they said their attorneys
00:02:54.580 don't even tell them the right thing to do yeah they don't yeah it is it's like why aren't we
00:02:59.460 fighting this this way or that way oh don't worry about it this is the way it's done that sort of
00:03:05.780 thing and of course it bleeds the family dry of money and then once that's done it's like okay
00:03:12.020 we're done now oh that makes so i could not figure out why and the judges have to be in on it too
00:03:20.020 so do you think it's just gynocentrism that makes them do this or the love of money
00:03:24.980 i think gynocentrism helps but i mean they're attorneys it's the money yeah yeah okay because
00:03:31.940 sometimes i wonder if i don't know because there was a switch that clicked for me when i was
00:03:37.380 interviewing um men and women and women would always say they were abused right and someone in
00:03:43.140 my comments section said ask if they filed a police report and i couldn't believe no none of 0.98
00:03:49.220 them did of course i did yeah and that was when i was like oh these bitches are lying none of them 1.00
00:03:54.420 are telling the truth because then i would you know it's like you ask one question because your 0.97
00:03:58.500 natural reaction when someone says they're abused i think it's like an empathetic for me anyway was
00:04:03.700 was why would you lie about that i would just believe them but then i would ask like two or
00:04:07.700 three questions like one chick said that she was thrown down a flight of stairs by her ex-boyfriend 0.96
00:04:13.380 right so that sounds pretty bad that's pretty rough yeah yeah yeah and then i asked i was like
00:04:17.940 okay what led up and someone in my comment section was like ask her what led up to the fight
00:04:23.220 and so she's like oh i wouldn't leave his house so what i think happened based on the way she
00:04:29.460 answered was she wouldn't leave his house she was making a scene with his kid there and he 1.00
00:04:34.980 was pushing her to get out and she fell down the flight of stairs because she she wouldn't leave
00:04:39.540 yep and not surprising at all yeah and so and i talked to other guys and they're like oh my
00:04:45.060 My ex-girlfriend refused to, like, they all have a very similar, maybe there wasn't a
00:04:49.520 police involved, but you could ask guys and they'll say, oh, yeah, women do that all the 1.00
00:04:53.800 time.
00:04:54.060 They refuse to leave.
00:04:55.220 They'll make a scene.
00:04:56.380 Another part of that scenario is guys that are in relationships with women that are psychologically
00:05:00.980 and emotionally very abusive, which like borderline personalities are, they can be horrendously
00:05:06.080 abusive people.
00:05:07.120 A guy will take that abuse for years and then one day he can't take it anymore and he slaps
00:05:12.580 her.
00:05:13.200 That's all the world will ever see.
00:05:15.060 is the moment he slapped her they won't pay any attention to anything that led up to it
00:05:19.620 nothing else matters he hit a woman time to go to jail and take all your stuff
00:05:26.740 and the guy says yeah i did it and nobody cares that he'd been provoked for years and abused for
00:05:34.260 years or they'll hit first yep and then then one day that he they get slapped back
00:05:38.820 yep and the police will arrest the guy in that every time yeah well so
00:05:46.100 i guess my question is in family court do you do you think they know that the women are lying 0.97
00:05:53.980 or they don't care oh they don't care they know that they know the whole thing is corrupt they 0.55
00:05:59.380 steve baskerville wrote about this very well they know precisely what they're doing in there
00:06:05.260 They know exactly what's going on.
00:06:07.460 They know the family's being fleeced for all the money.
00:06:10.120 They know the children are being destroyed.
00:06:12.280 They know that.
00:06:12.980 And they just don't care.
00:06:13.960 They don't care.
00:06:15.040 Because they're making money.
00:06:16.480 This is their routine.
00:06:18.340 This is what they do.
00:06:20.120 And, you know, family courts that I know of don't have cameras in them.
00:06:24.440 There's no real appeals process for family courts.
00:06:27.220 You just, whatever the judge rules, that's it.
00:06:29.320 So they have impunity and they can do anything they want.
00:06:32.520 And they do.
00:06:33.060 the only thing that's going to save family courts in this country is bulldozers 0.99
00:06:38.720 mow them down and rebuild it's the only thing that will ever save them it's just too corrupt
00:06:48.100 do you think that's possible
00:06:49.320 not really yeah i don't either no i wish it was
00:06:57.400 i wish they could record it and make it public i think that would help
00:07:03.000 because i think when you put the light on something unjust then people start to speak
00:07:08.960 out and they actually that's why sometimes these trad cons i'll do debates with them and i'm just
00:07:13.800 like why don't you come with me and go tell the men that served their country and got divorced 0.53
00:07:20.640 raped got their children taken that they're not a real man go go tell them go ahead that it's
00:07:27.120 their fault their marriage ended well it won't be anything they haven't heard a thousand times
00:07:31.700 already yeah the the world is so gynocentric one of the biggest problems that i have with guys going 1.00
00:07:38.060 through divorce is that their own families turn on them oh my gosh that's the i interviewed one
00:07:44.460 guy his whole family yep his whole family believed he was an abuser for like they came around like
00:07:49.820 five years later but yes she got his whole little bit late for that yeah yeah yeah i've seen it
00:07:56.040 happened a thousand times guys their own fathers their own mothers turn on them and side with the
00:08:02.540 the abusive woman it's amazing that is when you take fundamental biological gynocentrism which
00:08:10.740 arguably is a necessity and you turn it into that you've got a crazy world and i don't see what
00:08:18.980 there is to stop it at this point other than uh i mean eventually we'll probably the society will
00:08:24.700 collapse and that'll be the start of something new and maybe a little bit better but until then
00:08:29.840 I don't see anything changing it's too profitable and it's too easy for people people can turn on
00:08:35.260 their own children because a woman said he hit me or he was mean to me man we're a long way from
00:08:44.460 being able to fix anything and they never ask even the Michael Knowles interview he didn't ask her
00:08:50.540 any freaking i'm like guys you don't ask any questions i think michael is challenged sorry
00:08:58.220 you think he's like mentally challenged well he's like a smart guy you know but well you know 0.96
00:09:04.460 simps are some of the smartest people you'll meet some of the dumbest people it's not about 0.97
00:09:08.800 intelligent yeah or culture or race or ethnicity or religion or anything simping it runs through 0.95
00:09:16.240 the veins of western men period and you then you get people like knowles will be like yeah marry a
00:09:26.240 hoe it's it's okay and i don't think he would let uh i wonder if michael would let a saved pedophile 0.64
00:09:34.300 watch his children if you're using his logic yeah but he thought it was wise to bring a woman that 1.00
00:09:42.860 used to get men to cheat her on married men yes like she's gonna end up fucking one of the 1.00
00:09:48.660 sorry but i'm a swearer i don't know but like she's gonna end up having sex with one of the 1.00
00:09:55.180 married guys and they're gonna be like what happened how did this 0.99