Pearl - Pearl CLASHES With Male Feminist Who DEFENDS Promiscuous Women

00:00:00.000 historically you were with one man for life and in all of history if you were with multiple men

00:00:04.940 you would be a whore right but today we've changed the definition they're like oh that that doesn't

00:00:09.000 count right so nowadays um that's just what it is like you know most of most women are not virgins 0.62

00:00:14.860 on their wedding days this is a completely different system marriage is an outdated 0.99

00:00:18.260 technology doesn't this traditional stuff doesn't exist so it's whore management see the reason i 0.90

00:00:24.400 guess i would push back against that mainly is that most and i think for traditional marriage

00:00:29.940 or for, I guess, conservatives,

00:00:31.380 that would be a thing that mattered.

00:00:32.640 I believe that with a lot of modern marriages, 0.89

00:00:35.700 no one cares if you have previous partners

00:00:37.720 as well as if you are.

00:00:39.080 And so we can agree on that.

00:00:40.180 That's true.

00:00:40.440 And it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman in that case.

00:00:42.280 Most people don't care. 0.60

00:00:43.800 Well, men care.

00:00:44.880 They just don't ask.

00:00:45.980 They don't want to know.

00:00:47.300 Modern men, a lot of modern men don't care at all,

00:00:49.300 which is why when it comes to even,

00:00:51.240 I think personally, 1.00

00:00:52.300 when it comes to how feminism kind of empowered women, 0.99

00:00:54.880 as we could say, make more money. 1.00

00:00:57.020 So in a sense, they don't need a man for that anymore.

00:00:59.180 And I think a lot of men out there would agree that being used by women, even you would agree, happens so often where they may look at you and be like, oh, he has this much money. 0.90

00:01:07.080 And all they have to do is use sex appeal to grab the most valuable man. 0.78

00:01:10.400 They'll keep doing that and moving from man to man.

00:01:12.260 Correct. 1.00

00:01:12.380 So a good thing about modern marriage, modern women, and even, I guess, people who are more down the feminist path is that's no longer one of the transactions that's there. 1.00

00:01:21.980 The money doesn't matter as much because 45, I think it's about 45% of women are making similar or more than men.

00:01:28.600 And so in a way of even I know you usually kind of go to, you know, pivot to like divorce in some way, which I don't think we even have to get there.

00:01:34.420 But in a lot of these cases, we could say that divorce in a way would be more manageable towards men in that sense where they would end up getting half of that.

00:01:41.380 If it did go the reverse. 0.54

00:01:42.620 Women don't marry men statistically that make less.

00:01:45.380 Just not overwhelmingly.

00:01:47.000 It's not the it's not the majority.

00:01:48.860 You said women don't.

00:01:49.880 Can you say that? 0.99

00:01:50.340 Women don't tend to marry men that make less.

00:01:53.640 There's a big chance that doesn't happen right now. 1.00

00:01:55.140 Women are making more. 1.00

00:01:56.280 so even if it hasn't been like that we're on a trajectory as we know because as we make more

00:02:00.800 we marry less and have kids less yeah i guess it matters what the men want that but then if we're 0.78

00:02:05.620 going back to whore management so yeah so whore management it's literally it's pretty simple 1.00

00:02:09.280 it's just because women have multiple partners well had multiple partners have no had yeah because 1.00

00:02:15.500 they wouldn't have them in the marriage not today today they might most likely not yeah because the 0.54

00:02:21.260 thing that matters the thing that matters to men and i think even to women and we could we could

00:02:25.160 always say this is the amount of trust that's given as well as because men can't trust a lot

00:02:30.180 of people now you can't trust other men can't trust a lot of women so if you can trust someone

00:02:34.380 as well as it's no longer a transaction but y'all are choosing each other it's not like she needs

00:02:39.160 you or you need her which in the past i mean you kind of push like back into traditional but

00:02:44.020 traditionally women needed a man because they couldn't work and so he had to basically he had 0.97

00:02:51.100 the choice of who he wanted. He could go from girl to girl to girl. And we see that now with 0.98

00:02:54.900 high value men who, since they are quote unquote high value, there's no reason for them to trust

00:03:02.000 women or even be committal to any woman. They can always just jump from woman to woman. So I think

00:03:06.300 when two people choose each other, no matter what the circumstance is, I think that matters a lot

00:03:11.300 more. Well, I actually sort of agree. I do think that today the people that do get married, it is

00:03:18.540 a little bit romantic because there's no money incentive and in a way it's the truest form of

00:03:24.160 love the ones that are left but it's not traditional at all but we're not it's at it's 0.97

00:03:29.360 and all women are hoes to some extent that's why they say we're the hose at you know what i mean 1.00

00:03:34.200 so i gotta let me finish so i think feminism is fighting for women to have sex with men that 1.00

00:03:39.740 they're attracted to instead of not attracted to because women don't want to be required to marry 1.00

00:03:43.700 men they're not attracted to and as soon as women get power they bounce they're like no i'm not 1.00

00:03:47.620 doing this anymore um the other thing is social media makes it open so uh women the way women 1.00

00:03:54.100 shoot their shot is being in proximity of the men they think are hot right so like that's why you

00:03:59.120 see gym people kind of dating i'm gonna i use a lot of fitness examples because i'm just in that

00:04:03.200 you see athletes date each other you see like influencers date each other you see lawyers date

00:04:08.740 each other it's because that's kind of how women shoot their shot so being on social media in a 0.98

00:04:12.540 way women are in an open relationship because any man on the planet can you've made yourself 0.97

00:04:17.500 available to any man on the planet and women so yeah so where men have to act like the equivalent

00:04:23.140 of that is men actively approaching women you know so in a way it's like an open marriage um

00:04:29.980 so so i would just say you know she's not yours it's just your turn if marriage is probably not

00:04:35.580 going to be for life it's kind of an outdated technology unfortunately it's just too much 0.99

00:04:39.760 power and temptation for one person um and yeah you know where the hoes at not where the we're not 1.00

00:04:44.920 where the ladies at now where the women at it's where the where the hoes at because women are 0.99

00:04:48.940 hoes you know what you're saying and of course i would disagree but of course because i think men 0.99

00:04:52.820 and women are both just as likely to sleep with a vast amount of partners and i would agree with 0.92

00:04:57.800 you that the more partners you have the more likely divorces to happen statistically men and

00:05:01.300 women are just as likely to sleep with as many partners i think in general the more partners you

00:05:07.000 have the likelier of divorce no matter if you're a man or woman so if you're a man i gotta let me 0.50

00:05:12.200 let me target somebody yeah go ahead so it doesn't matter if you're a man who had eight partners a

00:05:17.180 woman with eight partners the chance of divorce goes up a lot more in terms of traditional marriage

00:05:21.800 you keep pushing this it's no longer traditional marriage a lot of but people don't that's not

00:05:26.860 what we're here that's arguing most people modern men and women don't care about traditional marriage

00:05:32.320 if you're in the conservative space that's something that you value but most men and women

00:05:36.200 would say at least half it will you don't think men want a traditional marriage no yeah because

00:05:41.720 understanding a lot of men don't mind if the woman works as well as as long as they both decide to do

00:05:46.440 what they want if you want to choose to have a traditional if a man can economically support

00:05:51.960 traditional and the woman wants that he doesn't mind well it doesn't matter because he has no

00:05:55.400 choice well that's like the the men well they don't you choose who you you're with right women

00:06:00.680 get to choose well no a man chooses how can men how can men choose yeah but we're not we're talking

00:06:06.200 about the majority of men a third a third of don't be disingenuous you know that women have

00:06:11.000 more choice than that like yeah i would agree so women if women have more choice they're the ones

00:06:15.960 choosing more so than men well they they get the pick out of the even even even the top men don't

00:06:21.000 have a lot of choice because it's the women that get to pick i would say that i i would definitely

00:06:25.800 think women are the ones that we would value look at like these celebrities do you think they want

00:06:31.840 to share women they they everyone asks the question they're like why are these you know

00:06:36.560 these like in the nba and like you know they're like why do they share women and it's like well

00:06:41.840 because they pick the women that are interested in them they don't get to choose well like men

00:06:46.220 i'm sure you know most men know their archetype of women that's interested in them i believe most

00:06:52.520 men don't most men most men have zero i would say i would say most men choose what they want

00:06:57.660 but they don't know what they need and i believe that when it or they'll take what they can get

00:07:02.200 well a third of men under 30 are virgins that's not true because even when people are on social

00:07:05.720 media they'll men will always shoot the shot at whoever they can shoot the shot at i know right

00:07:10.100 and sometimes it's the best person they might be people next to them who they don't go after they

00:07:13.660 take what they can get they're like shot shot but see even in or out of marriage sex is the same in

00:07:19.120 terms of how much it's happening so no i'd say it's less in marriage statistically it's not it's

00:07:23.940 slightly i think it's i mean either more slightly less like a percentage i know but i you know what

00:07:29.160 here's the thing influencers and youtubers they like to have power and they like to say

00:07:34.020 oh well the statistics say this i'm not even against necessarily using statistics but you

00:07:39.900 just never know who funded the statistics what their agenda is and the way the data was manipulated

00:07:44.180 and they constantly, I'm not saying they're not useful right at times. However, what I'm going to

00:07:50.440 say is that the general consensus from men is that they're not having sex in marriage after a certain

00:07:56.160 point. And that's very common. People know it if you talk to married men in general. So again, I

00:08:02.320 ask, I ask you the viewer to, I hope you take the power into your own hands. What are the married

00:08:06.800 men in your life saying? Right? So don't listen to me. Don't listen to him. He's going to gaslight

00:08:12.380 some more he's probably going to say something like i've used a stat in my life i have um but

00:08:17.980 so it doesn't mean every statistic's invalid but i just don't believe that well i love that you

00:08:22.620 you know talk to the audience about what could possibly happen yeah but as we're having this

00:08:26.760 talk it's good to understand that first thing it was pew research so pew research y'all i'm looking

00:08:31.260 to that it has everything there that people who are married are more happy trust each other vastly

00:08:35.640 more and and in terms of all this so we can go what is the methodology methodology yeah how did

00:08:41.060 they what they did i think they just did a a survey a survey yeah that's not very good data

00:08:45.480 it may not be the best right anybody and happiness isn't a great metric so no well they look at they

00:08:50.880 look at a group of it's not a great like because especially for women i'm it depends what time of 0.73

00:08:56.200 the month right one day we're happy one day you're not even a woman you're gonna want mansplain like

00:09:01.800 wow okay so so you're gonna cut me off let's let's so it's like it's just not a good metric i think

00:09:08.260 the thing that i definitely disagree with are first men pick kind of the person they're with

00:09:14.000 and they do pick who they're with because everyone picks who they're with even if you pick a woman or

00:09:17.140 a woman picks you you have to choose back so when it comes to that that's what it is i believe when

00:09:20.960 it comes to people not having sex more in marriage we can talk about the reasoning behind that which

00:09:24.800 i think would be important if it comes to what's the what's the reason is it communication is the

00:09:28.900 transparency is the acknowledgement of certain issues that are going on a lot of the times

00:09:32.260 there's no acknowledgement and definitely in the conservative space where men and people have

00:09:37.200 talked to before, it's either you listen to me and that's all it is. They, you know, don't do

00:09:41.580 anything around the house. I'm the provider. But now that women are in the workforce, women have

00:09:46.300 had to earn a new skill of going into the workforce, understanding how that works, understanding how 1.00

00:09:50.660 to make money. And they have achieved that greatly. And men have not taken, not all, I won't say that

00:09:55.840 because I think there are a lot of men who have taken this, but a lot of men haven't taken the

00:09:58.660 step to understand how to make a relationship work because we're not taught that at a young age. We're

00:10:02.820 taught to provide we're taught that our value comes from the money we give and not understanding

00:10:07.580 the individual what we're with so trying to make that transition i think is why a lot of modern

00:10:12.100 uh men don't care about things like how many partners you had in the past or anything as long

00:10:16.680 as we're on the same page about how we want to go about it and then even when it comes to how people

00:10:20.420 look when we talk about you know women aren't the way they used to look a lot of men who and we could

00:10:26.180 talk about blue collar men or or people who just they don't have time to just go to the gym now

00:10:30.260 Some jobs, of course, will have you doing something, but a lot of men are not who they were when they first got married.

00:10:34.980 And a woman has to sit with that, and she still loves that man sometimes.

00:10:37.980 Of course, there's occasional times where it doesn't, and we can talk about there's problems within marriage because no marriage is perfect, and I would agree with that.

00:10:44.740 And I think the things that need to be pushed are the way we communicate this, the way we talk, the way we can get past this so we can have these things happen.

00:10:52.320 Yeah, I don't feel like breaking down everything because that was just a lot.

00:10:56.360 But sexless marriages, just so you guys know, it's because having a kid is post-nut clarity 0.88

00:11:01.220 for women. 1.00

00:11:01.820 A lot of women go into marriage with good intentions. 1.00

00:11:04.180 They want to get married and stay married for life. 1.00

00:11:06.040 However, things change after they have a kid because just like when you guys have sex with 1.00

00:11:10.360 a woman, you think you're into her, then you have sex and you're like, oh shit, I never 1.00

00:11:14.800 want to see this woman again, ever. 1.00

00:11:16.700 Women have that after we have your children. 1.00

00:11:18.960 Unfortunately, that's what postpartum depression is. 1.00

00:11:20.960 It's post-nut clarity for women.

00:11:22.760 This is kind of sad on both sides, but it just is what it is.

00:11:26.360 um the reason that men don't know how to run relationships i would say is because they've

00:11:30.840 been taught to make women happy women are never happy you can what he's saying about communication

00:11:35.080 that's um honestly you can't communicate like in my experience especially with women the more you 0.99

00:11:41.400 communicate the more they just take things and use it against you just like he's doing now right 0.85

00:11:46.600 he's gonna you know try to manipulate my words and like yeah so it's just yeah you gotta wait um so

00:11:52.600 then the next the next thing is talking about how men need to do more men already are building

00:11:58.680 protecting and maintaining civilization so they actually are doing a lot and it's just never

00:12:04.600 enough so and we have examples where men you know women are married to some of the greatest men in

00:12:09.560 history and i'll tell you why they do leave them it's not because of communication or any of that 0.98

00:12:13.240 it's because women's goal is to get genetics from as many high status men as possible so the female 0.96

00:12:17.880 goal is actually to have a kid with like i don't know tom brady denzel washington you know like 1.00

00:12:23.240 three high status males um and you know reproduce with all of their genetics so they have you know

00:12:29.080 these like mega tribe of kids because that would give them the best chance of being protected 1.00

00:12:34.360 and so a lot of this stuff is just genetics and biology and you see what women want to do when

00:12:39.400 they're given power and so now the women have so much power we see they're not as uh which i

00:12:43.160 actually kind of agree with him a little bit on the women are as monogamous as we previously thought

00:12:47.880 because when you give women power, that's exactly what we do is go from guy to guy to guy that are 0.58

00:12:52.440 high status. The other thing is he's saying that men don't care about partners. They absolutely do

00:12:57.880 care about partners. They're completely revulsed, repulsed by other partners. They find this

00:13:03.280 disgusting. The issue is they have no choice. So guys know if they want to get married, they're

00:13:09.360 going to have to make some concessions. Their wife has probably done something and men are kind of

00:13:14.140 pragmatic so they're just like i would rather not know that's kind of where some men do look into it

00:13:19.580 and then they get so numb and then they're like oh i never i never want to know this ever again

00:13:25.660 they learn their lesson they never ask again um that's kind of what i see going on um yeah so

00:13:32.380 that's all i really i really got okay so to you so the only thing that would definitely push

00:13:38.780 push about a lot of that but men are taught to make women happy that's usually not what it was

00:13:42.620 initially a lot of times it was you're just taught to provide for women i think a lot of people who

00:13:45.820 grew up in the past definitely understand that your value came from how much money you had and

00:13:49.660 the money would help because women would generally be attracted to money that's why a lot of men

00:13:53.740 manosphere as well as red pill as well as a lot of conservatives think that money is all i actually

00:13:58.380 agree with that i just want to say i agree with that and then unfortunately that's what it is

00:14:02.140 where not the manosphere part i think they tell them that but i'm sorry i do agree i just want

00:14:06.220 to say i agree with that point okay yeah i would say that when it comes to to that whole area that's

00:14:11.100 what they're getting taught is that women should listen to you you kind of have the power money's

00:14:15.820 all you need and if you're picking that individual as your partner definitely something like marriage 1.00

00:14:20.220 then you're already losing the plot of what marriage is about um if you went to high value

00:14:23.980 men or high when high value women will leave men or whatever i think we can agree that it's not

00:14:29.900 really a it's it's really just power in general when people are given a certain amount of power

00:14:34.460 they happen to the choices do open up and people will start making whatever choice they want so 1.00

00:14:39.500 If you're a high value woman, sometimes she'll go around, you know, talking to whoever she wants to and mess with whoever. 1.00

00:14:44.900 And a man will, a lot of them will do the same thing.

00:14:46.820 That's why we can't go off those statuses, those type of assets that might have been used in the past aren't things we use now.

00:14:52.300 So what we're really looking for is a partner who you can trust and build something with, which by marriage is something that is a group effort, if we could say,

00:15:01.220 to people deciding to trust each other to an extent, as well as putting the time in and formalizing it in a way that they both value.

00:15:09.500 in whatever they value in each other.

00:15:11.720 I actually think more men would prefer monogamy than women.

00:15:15.900 It's a very small percentage of men

00:15:17.420 that even have the choice to sleep with multiple women.

00:15:20.500 But in all honesty, I think most men just are pragmatic.

00:15:24.720 So they're like, okay, well,

00:15:28.360 I tried to marry my high school sweetheart.

00:15:30.260 She did the Cornell Seven and got banged by the frat guys.

00:15:33.840 So I guess this monogamy,

00:15:37.680 traditional thing didn't work out i guess i'm i'm going on the data date naps and where the hose at

00:15:42.800 i would agree with you in terms of i think most men and women are monogamous i think that's value

00:15:47.440 across the board i believe that's really what it is having sex with multiple people throughout time

00:15:51.680 does not choose or change your monogamy in terms of your relationship because i think women are

00:15:56.800 less monogamous than men you could assume whatever when it comes to dating i'm looking at what's

00:16:01.600 happening like in the world like as soon as women get power they choose to whore out there's nothing 0.99

00:16:06.000 women fight harder for them to be whores like they they do slut marches right well i'm pretty 0.99

00:16:10.000 sure the slut march wasn't a slut march i'm pretty sure it's to quit the demonization of 0.99

00:16:14.240 women doing what men would do exactly so okay so they want to they want to quit the demonization 0.97

00:16:18.240 so they can whore out well no so they can just keep doing what they've been doing without getting 0.99

00:16:21.760 harassed online right because men men don't have that thing that happens they want to 0.56

00:16:25.120 man doesn't have it right that doesn't happen to men right what doesn't happen men aren't getting 0.70

00:16:29.360 uh slut shamed or people going on then why are there dating groups with millions of women called

00:16:35.040 are we dating the same guy shaming and naming the men that are dating multiple women um i would say

00:16:41.920 we could also we could go over that or we can go over the 400 000 plus group chat of men who are

00:16:47.840 talking about raping women the 400 what there's 400 000 people i don't y'all can tell me if i'm

00:16:54.320 wrong it's a hundred thousand to four hundred thousand group chat and what are you talking

00:16:58.320 about the the group chat no not the cornell what are you there was a group of men who were caught

00:17:03.680 with basically being in a group chat talking about how they would essay women and do things like that

00:17:08.720 where in terms for dating apps men don't keep relying on dating apps generally it's never worked

00:17:14.800 the thing about great dating apps is to just if you want to say maybe back when like cupid or

00:17:19.680 whatever it was was a dating app and there was less people on the internet that might have been

00:17:23.600 a more valuable thing nowadays it's not somewhere you would go you have to get off the internet 0.99

00:17:27.680 as well as women and you have to go see where women are be in the same spaces because people

00:17:31.760 are more likely to get together when in the same spaces start improving on yourself self-improvement

00:17:36.480 is the number one thing and understand what other people want date with purpose as well i think a

00:17:40.080 lot of people date just to mess around or whatever if you are dating to find someone you want to be

00:17:44.240 married to and not fall into the trap of finding someone who may you know kind of get over on you

00:17:49.520 make sure you're figuring out those types of qualities through the process i think that men

00:17:55.040 should do everything that are that women are doing to them right back so i actually do think you

00:18:00.000 should date multiple women and meet them online because that's probably where you're going to meet 1.00

00:18:03.760 meet your wife. 1.00

00:18:04.760 So.

Pearl - October 27, 2026

Pearl CLASHES With Male Feminist Who DEFENDS Promiscuous Women

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