Pearl - March 18, 2025


Pearl Learns WOMANESE And How To Translate It To English | Pearl Daily


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In this episode, I sat down with the founder of Women Ease, a dating app and online dating coach, to talk about his origin story, how he got into the dating game, and how he became the man he is today.

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00:00:00.000 when i first you know you don't realize how blue pill most relationships are so that's the norm in
00:00:05.440 america and and the red pill wasn't really mainstream back then so some of the stuff you
00:00:11.200 would say i would think was an overreaction or it'd be kind of out there and then time passed
00:00:18.480 and i just thought holy crap donovan knows his stuff like i just when it comes to what women 1.00
00:00:24.960 say versus what they mean there's no one that knows it better than you nobody well and and the 0.95
00:00:31.040 reason why is because i have had many many many failures with women and i i tell this i tell this
00:00:38.560 to my guys all the time for every story that i have ever told about some big breasted blonde that i you 1.00
00:00:44.640 know game some one night stand i had with a hot redhead or a brunette there are 50 stories of
00:00:51.200 absolute utter failure and i think in life and i i think this goes i think this goes with any
00:00:58.000 with anything you do in life i think you learn more from failure than you do from winning right
00:01:04.160 even in sports like if you win okay great we won but when you lose if you if you look at yourself
00:01:10.400 with a critical eye if you're honest with yourself you will learn a lot more you know during your losses
00:01:16.240 than your wins for example let's just say someone stephan curry right greatest shooter ever you know
00:01:20.880 he he shoots a bunch of threes stephan curry has missed more three pointers than he's ever taken
00:01:26.080 but with every miss he learns a little bit more about what to do what not to do and you know on
00:01:30.800 any particular technique and so over the years stephan curry has sort of honed his craft and it's not
00:01:35.760 really knowing what to do it's knowing what not to do we all know hey in order to shoot you play
00:01:40.320 basketball pearl in order to shoot you put the ball over your head and you let it go but there are
00:01:44.240 certain things you can do like spreading your fingers across the basketball the way you aim with your eye the
00:01:48.480 way you aim for aim for spot six six inches before you know the basket uh that increases the odds of 0.74
00:01:54.560 it going in the arc of the ball you shoot it a little higher so it has more of a chance to go in
00:01:59.280 well the same thing goes on the dating market if you walk and you approach i don't know let's just say
00:02:03.600 10 girls and they all blow you out they all reject you instead of getting into your feelings which is 0.72
00:02:08.880 very easy to get because rejection is not easy to get used to but it's a lot easier for men to get used
00:02:13.520 to but instead of just you know yeah you know she rejected me blah blah blah you have to think
00:02:19.120 to yourself okay what did i say what did she say she told me that she had a boyfriend but she told 0.67
00:02:25.600 me she had a boyfriend like three seconds after i approached her right and so i wondered why when i
00:02:30.960 kept trying she told me hey look i told you i had a boyfriend whereas you approach another girl
00:02:35.040 and you're talking to her for 10 15 minutes and then she tells you that she has a boyfriend that's
00:02:40.480 exactly what you're thinking like okay is it really that she has a boyfriend no she told you
00:02:44.480 that as a test right so the earlier in the set she tells you she has a boyfriend the more likely 0.95
00:02:49.440 it is that it's a rejection if you learn these things and if you apply what you've learned and
00:02:53.760 you go out and approach girls you know that if you if you've been talking to a girl for 10 15 minutes
00:02:58.160 and then she says she has a boyfriend you know she's probably lying and she's saying that to throw 1.00
00:03:02.000 you off the scent and so that's that's really the main reason i created woman ease 1.00
00:03:07.200 i created woman ease was to let guys know hey listen this is what women say versus what they really
00:03:12.640 mean and so how long did it take you from when you were complete blue pills simp to to like how many
00:03:21.600 years did it take you to figure all this out like i i think it would help people to know like how many
00:03:28.160 reps you had or how many approaches you do have any girl like what was your your origin story because some
00:03:35.760 people might not know it here yeah so oh my god so oh my goodness gracious well to make a very very
00:03:43.200 long story very short so the way i discovered the red pill is i had just gotten out of a really really
00:03:48.880 bad breakup that's not the relationship that red pilled me got out of a bad breakup moved to atlanta
00:03:53.520 for six months decided i didn't want to live there then i moved out to vegas and so i got this you know
00:03:59.040 this call center telemarketing job pardon me you know because i'm really good at sales have a good
00:04:03.600 speaking voice etc etc well there was this there was this mexican girl who was attractive ish looking 0.85
00:04:09.200 looking back now she probably wasn't as attractive as i thought she was at the time and you know we 0.98
00:04:12.800 really started it off and everyone everyone said to themselves okay it's only a matter of time before
00:04:17.040 donovan and martha the girl's name hook up well of course we hooked up and you know we had this
00:04:22.000 three-week relationship well three weeks into the relationship i it just it just clicked in my mind i
00:04:27.760 honestly stayed with her probably two weeks longer than i should have just because i was getting regular
00:04:32.240 sex and i had it's it had been a while since i'd had sex with any girl for any period of time but 0.99
00:04:36.880 she was a single mother she had a bad kid her house was always messy she was she was an absolute dumpster 1.00
00:04:42.080 fire so even then i had the foresight to say okay let me just go and dump this girl so i go over to her 1.00
00:04:46.800 place and i dumped her face to face i was like hey it's not gonna work out blah blah blah blah and what
00:04:51.600 shocked me was that she didn't seem surprised at all she didn't take it as hard as i thought she was i
00:04:56.800 thought it was just gonna be a bunch of drama and a bunch of crying but she was gonna cry but here's
00:05:01.760 here's why i thought she was gonna cry this is my blue pill mind because a week and a half before
00:05:06.000 she told me she loved me now i didn't tell her she loved me back but i was like no there's no way
00:05:10.000 this girl loves me because we've only been seeing each other for a week and a half we haven't known
00:05:13.360 each other that long she's really just trying to reel me in so i was a little bit shocked when i
00:05:18.240 told her all right martha it's not working out we need to go our separate ways she was like okay well
00:05:23.040 later on i go home and you know i'm doing my thing and you know a friend of hers calls me up she's
00:05:27.280 like yeah martha just called and told me that you know you are going your separate ways i was like
00:05:31.680 yeah you know you know it wasn't working out blah blah blah blah i said well how is she doing anyway
00:05:36.320 you know because i can't again i'm thinking okay maybe this was just a delayed reactions like that
00:05:40.400 actually she's getting ready to go out on a date and i was like what like i dumped this chick like an 1.00
00:05:44.560 hour and a half ago why is she going out on a date and so that right then and there after i got off the
00:05:50.240 phone with my friend okay i jumped on the internet and i typed in why do girls get over break 1.00
00:05:56.240 up so easily and that google search changed everything that was the genesis of donovan sharp
00:06:02.560 so that's the that that's the reader's digest version of how i got into the manosphere so i guess my
00:06:08.240 question is though from there like did it take you one year two years because your womanese is so 1.00
00:06:13.920 detailed like you go through everything and i'm when i read it i'm like he must have spent years
00:06:22.560 studying this stuff so how long did it take from point a to developing the course i guess lord probably
00:06:29.200 about a decade probably about a decade i discovered the red pill in the summer of 2010 i came out with
00:06:35.600 the womanese course incidentally enough in 2021 and you know listen the good lord whoever he is blessed me
00:06:42.560 with a very good memory and so you know throughout my life you know i just kind of reflect on all of
00:06:47.040 the interactions that i've had with women the conversations that i've had and what i quickly
00:06:51.120 began to discover after consuming enough red pill content is wait a minute women are not really direct 1.00
00:06:57.120 they don't really say what it is that they that they actually mean and you know the interesting
00:07:02.880 the interesting thing pearl is is that a lot of men these days we want women to be more direct and
00:07:08.160 let's be honest if women were more direct we wouldn't have to read between the lines with everything 1.00
00:07:12.160 they say but on the other side of that if you deal with women on the regular like i did for the 0.99
00:07:16.960 better part of a decade whether it's at work you know your relationship your family anytime you deal
00:07:21.680 with women you can't actually really count on the fact that they are going to tell you exactly 1.00
00:07:26.800 what they mean and it sucks to not be able to take what they say at face value because it causes
00:07:30.880 a lot of confusion and frustration especially when you're dealing with them romantically now
00:07:34.880 the two main reasons why women aren't direct is number one being verbally direct is seen 1.00
00:07:39.440 as a masculine trait right it is a trait that is admired in men when a woman is direct what 0.87
00:07:44.720 is she seen as bossy you know whatever the case may be or a woman with a bad attitude a lot of times 1.00
00:07:50.720 a woman now a woman certainly won't they don't want to be that way right so they generally avoid 1.00
00:07:55.600 being direct when talking to people the second reason women aren't direct is because it makes them 1.00
00:07:59.920 look bad a lot of times if you give me an example if a woman is attracted to a guy and wants to
00:08:03.840 sleep with him she's not going to say he's hot i want to bang him obviously that makes her look 1.00
00:08:07.920 like a hoe so instead what she'll do is she'll make up something nebulous about him to give herself an 0.99
00:08:12.080 excuse to be around him to sort of give herself the opportunity to make the sex happen so in other 0.96
00:08:16.880 words and so instead of saying well you know i really like the guy i want to bang him she'll be 1.00
00:08:20.320 like you know what dave over there i really like his energy translation i want to bang him but the way
00:08:26.400 but the way modern women operate today pearl and you experience this firsthand doing the pregame 1.00
00:08:30.880 interviewing interviewing a thousand women they use their indirectness as a way to play games with 0.95
00:08:36.000 men as a way to mislead men and sometimes even flat out lie to men about what their intentions are
00:08:41.280 however if you are familiar with the way women communicate in terms of what they say versus what
00:08:46.320 they mean you can pick up on this stuff rather quickly and that in large part is the reason i
00:08:50.160 created womanies 101 and is it frustrating to you when blue pill men like i i see them attack you
00:08:56.880 all the time when you are correct and it's like do you think that blue pill men know that you're that
00:09:04.400 you're correct and they're just white knighting or do you think they're ignorant and they think they're 0.99
00:09:08.320 doing the right thing yeah i think i think a lot of them are ignorant and i think a lot of them are you 0.99
00:09:14.480 know caping up for their fair maidens but you know what they always say hit dogs holler right yeah and 0.99
00:09:20.000 there are a lot of blue-pilled men out here pearl who who probably low-key know that most bitches out 1.00
00:09:26.480 here really ain't but they can't really wrap that they can't admit it to themselves or other people 0.97
00:09:31.520 because then it destroys this rose-colored view of who and what women really are a lot of men would 0.87
00:09:37.200 like for women to keep that allure and that and that mystery and that mystique about them like they're 1.00
00:09:42.240 these otherworldly creatures but women they they burp fart and just like the rest of us and the 1.00
00:09:49.360 sooner men understand and recognize that women are really no women like there's no woman that is 0.97
00:09:55.440 special and i remember a long time ago a really good friend of mine said you know what donovan women
00:09:59.840 are people too and that sort of let me know and obviously women are people too but a lot of men
00:10:04.960 operate like women are these otherworldly godly and angelic like creatures but when you've been around 1.00
00:10:10.720 them enough just like you have and you hear them communicate enough and you see what they say versus 1.00
00:10:15.440 what they mean for example he's an asshole well you know that if a woman says that a guy is an 1.00
00:10:20.240 asshole in this day and age she probably wants to bang him she might really actually think he's an 1.00
00:10:24.800 asshole pearl but guess what that doesn't mean that she doesn't still want to bang him and a lot of 1.00
00:10:28.720 times women will make sure that the asshole finds out that he called her an asshole that's almost like 1.00
00:10:33.360 an indirect shit test i'm gonna let brad know that i called him an asshole indirectly and if brad comes 0.99
00:10:38.160 over and hollers then brad must understand the way women really work this is happening in their 1.00
00:10:42.000 firmware they're not doing this consciously they're doing this subconsciously and this is and again
00:10:46.880 this is what one and and the you know the womanese 101 course 625 different translations 625 that's a 1.00
00:10:54.640 lot of translations like i said it took me 10 years to sort of aggregate all this stuff and put it together
00:10:59.200 but i'm very proud of it i really am well and the other thing too that like kind of red pilled me was
00:11:05.840 you i'm sure you've seen this on fresh and fit whenever to a guy and a girl like a girl kept arguing
00:11:10.800 with a guy she's trying to sleep with him oh yeah nine out of ten times the show the cameras go off 0.84
00:11:18.160 she's talking to him after and i'm like you were just yelling at him 10 minutes ago incredible yes
00:11:27.360 dude it's i guess you've reacted to so many i'll i'll show you some of the clips where the girl was
00:11:32.640 trying to think and then i was like we don't go for 10 percent of men or 20 it's not that bad and then
00:11:39.360 there'd be like a single mother of four that's going for like this jacked god looking guy on 0.99
00:11:45.680 the show and i'm like how do you not see you're you're a single mom of four how do you not see
00:11:51.520 this guy is out of your league like well obviously the reason why she doesn't see that this guy is
00:11:56.480 out of her league is because the world tells her never settle you know you deserve the best no matter
00:12:01.680 you know matter what no matter what your situation is and the funny thing is is there are a lot of men 0.98
00:12:06.800 out here that are losers right we know who they are we know we generally know what male losers 1.00
00:12:11.840 look like lives with his mom plays video games he's out of shape doesn't have any direction in life 0.98
00:12:16.560 no problem calling men losers but we don't call women losers right we don't in my opinion if you
00:12:22.880 are a woman over the age of 30 and you are unmarried or not in a long-term relationship that 0.97
00:12:28.720 is leading to marriage you are a loser like that's just like if you are a woman and you and you do not 0.97
00:12:35.120 procreate you don't get married you don't have any kids you have failed in life okay but not 1.00
00:12:40.880 enough people call women losers if you're a woman and you're a single mother of four you are a loser 1.00
00:12:46.720 and let's get this right single mothers decide to be single mothers okay birth control is the 0.98
00:12:52.480 responsibility of the woman and not the man i know a lot of people are probably going to disagree with
00:12:56.720 that but this is why single mothers are losers because they indirectly chose to be single mothers 1.00
00:13:01.520 as soon as guys get the balls to understand and put it in their mind you know what if this woman 1.00
00:13:06.560 is a loser i'm going to deal with her this way if this woman is not a loser i'm going to deal with her 1.00
00:13:10.160 in another way and that's what woman is that's actually what woman is helps men to sort of you 0.98
00:13:14.800 know decipher is the woman i'm talking to is she a loser or is she a woman of potential quality yeah and 1.00
00:13:21.440 the other thing too that they and it just it drove once i figured out that you guys were correct i was i
00:13:29.120 could not believe like they had like they put us on a dhs watch list yeah and it's like they do not
00:13:35.840 want men getting this information you guys would be too powerful right no but listen and the thing is
00:13:42.160 this man it's like if let's just say i were to let's just say i were to make this provocative statement
00:13:47.920 like women you know all women are all women are are the color purple let's just say i just started a
00:13:55.040 whole channel called the color purple and all women are the color purple pearl no one's coming 1.00
00:13:59.760 after me would you like to know why yeah because there are no purple women walking around right but 1.00
00:14:05.280 the reason why they attack the manosphere and the red pill is because what we talk about is correct 1.00
00:14:10.720 hit dogs holler if we were just talking and just making these outlandish
00:14:15.440 statements that didn't make any sense whatsoever we wouldn't be on any dhs watch list but just like
00:14:20.320 you said they're trying to they are actively trying to prevent men from having this information
00:14:25.040 because i'll tell you something else too pearl the u.s economy the simp economy the u.s economy depends
00:14:30.720 upon men not being red pilled okay yeah if let's just say for let's just say for the sake of argument
00:14:36.960 let's just say 25 percent of the male population in america were actually red pillowware not even living 0.70
00:14:42.880 the red pill not even living the red pill life the economy would fall overnight okay the u.s economy
00:14:48.960 relies on men not understanding what their value is as compared to the woman's value we're always
00:14:54.800 told to pedestalize the woman the woman the woman is valuable no matter what and men don't really
00:14:59.360 question these things because most of us have heard this stuff since the day we were born then guys
00:15:04.080 like myself myron you know andrew tate come along and you know we give guys another perspective and
00:15:09.360 here's another thing pearl we're not telling men anything they don't already know most men inherently
00:15:14.800 understand that there is something wrong with the dating market most men inherently understand they
00:15:20.000 know that a woman who sleeps around is not a woman who is attractive for a long for a long-term 1.00
00:15:24.400 relationship and there are so many men that are in this battle this is what my firmware is telling me
00:15:29.920 but this is also what the world is telling me and nine times out of ten the world wins because it's all
00:15:34.880 around them but when guys like myself come along and we make these statements guys are like oh yeah you
00:15:40.240 know what that is right i remember i was in a situation or my buddy was in a situation or my
00:15:44.720 brother or my cousin or my uncle was in a situation one thing leads to another and you end up finding
00:15:49.280 websites like ours and so like i said what woman is is what woman is really aims to do is it aims to 1.00
00:15:55.840 sort of lift the veil on this mystique of women this doesn't this doesn't mean that we're trying to
00:16:02.000 make women look bad guys women are neither good nor bad they just are you know women women are like 1.00
00:16:08.640 water they take the shape of the container that they're put in right now the container is up so
00:16:13.360 women are up and so guys like me exist too we're not going to save everybody we get that
00:16:18.240 but if we can save enough people then you know maybe we can make the world a better place who knows
00:16:22.960 yeah if if enough men were red pillow where i think there would just be single mothers everywhere 1.00
00:16:28.080 yep there probably would be a lot of guys would just do nail and bales and yeah and yeah they wouldn't
00:16:33.440 they wouldn't take them seriously i before we get into the womanese i wanted to get your take on a
00:16:38.000 tweet that i had that everyone was white knighting for so i tweeted and all i tweeted was something
00:16:45.760 that a private investigator told me i did not say this a private investigator told me and i tweeted
00:16:53.040 this i said a private investigator told me to baseline assume that women are sleeping with two men at a 1.00
00:16:59.680 time and that's not that's not my words and so i got a ton of reactions like one of them did an essay
00:17:09.120 it's saying you're conflating it's just black women that do that it's just you're just yeah and i'm like
00:17:14.720 i don't know i've seen some pretty i've seen hoes of all races do you know what i mean yes and then there 1.00
00:17:21.440 was other ones saying well of course that's what the private investigator is going to say that's like going
00:17:26.400 to a divorce attorney about marriage advice you know or what the state of marriage is like and
00:17:32.560 this got over a million views and everyone's just freaking out saying that i'm a doomer and i didn't
00:17:38.400 even make a statement i just repeated what was told to me so what is your reaction to that information
00:17:45.920 what was the so you said that you should always assume a private investigator you know tells you
00:17:51.440 that you should assume that that you should always assume that women are sleeping with two guys is that 0.91
00:17:55.520 what it said yeah let me i could get it word for word but yeah i it said to baseline assume that women 1.00
00:18:02.640 are sleeping with two men at a time yeah i'd say that that i'd say that's accurate i'd say that's 0.96
00:18:07.040 accurate and the reason i say that's accurate is because like women dude sex comes so easy to women 0.95
00:18:13.920 and it's it cracks me up when women there are actually women out here that brag about sleeping with 0.99
00:18:20.160 three or four guys well congratulations i woke up and brushed my teeth this morning getting sex for 0.99
00:18:25.520 women a lot of times is easier than breathing if a man wants to be a man whore if he wants to sleep 1.00
00:18:31.120 around he really has to work at it all a woman has to do to be a hoe is decide to she can walk right 1.00
00:18:36.560 out her door right out the door and she's getting hit in the face with dicks and the men who understand 1.00
00:18:40.880 how to handle them on a sexual level are the men who don't get screwed over see most men pearl like 1.00
00:18:46.080 most men when they see the single mom whatever the case may be they're in they're sort of in line 0.93
00:18:50.720 to sort of get used and abused and play because the single mom is already speaking womanese as soon 1.00
00:18:54.880 as you as soon as you talk to her you know listen i know my worth you know i'm not that person anymore
00:19:00.960 i'm not who i used to be we you and i both know we laugh at that because we know when they say i'm not
00:19:05.920 that person anymore translation i used to be an epic whore who used to get trains run on me that's why i'm a 1.00
00:19:10.240 single mother i know my value pardon me when a woman says i know my value what she means is i
00:19:15.680 didn't know my value back then so i passed my body around to all of these men when my value is at its
00:19:20.640 highest but now that my value is at its lowest i'm going to pretend that i know my value no women 1.00
00:19:25.600 understand and know what their value is what they've perfected is the art of letting the world know that
00:19:30.560 they think that their value is high i have actually had women in my comments talking about i'm a high 0.99
00:19:35.680 value woman and then i'll go to their instagram and be like no and here's the thing and i'll i'll
00:19:40.080 end this little spiel with this the the the the value of a woman is determined not by the caliber 0.78
00:19:47.040 of men that want to sleep with you but by the caliber of men who want to commit to you because
00:19:52.240 most girls can most girls can sleep with most guys if they want to but most guys couldn't sleep 1.00
00:19:57.040 with most girls if they wanted to and that's the difference can i play devil's advocate
00:20:01.840 so yeah sure so women are actually correct when they say i didn't know my value when they were 1.00
00:20:07.440 younger because when they're younger right you they're like the sluttiest when they're under 25. 1.00
00:20:13.040 you know they're giving it away for free they're giving it they don't have these high standards right
00:20:19.040 and so they look back and i think retrospectively they're like oh i didn't know my value because i slept
00:20:25.200 with the drummer the bartender this guy that guy that guy that guy and i could have and i could
00:20:32.880 have got more resources but i didn't know it i think that's what they're communicating you agree or
00:20:38.880 disagree yeah yeah listen it's it's it's cap it's cap women understand when when a woman does when a 0.98
00:20:44.800 woman figures out that persons of the opposite sex want to have sex with them instantly they figure out 1.00
00:20:51.360 okay the world is open to me if a woman is not sexually attractive nothing is available to her 0.84
00:20:56.880 yeah preferential treatment dates marriage kids whatever the case may be everything is contingent
00:21:02.400 this is why a woman's primary agency is youth and beauty it is the way she looks but when a girl is 1.00
00:21:08.160 young and hot she's 21 years old you're not going to convince me that a 21 year old does not know that 0.99
00:21:12.800 she does not have value because when she walks into the room she knows that all she knows that 70 pairs
00:21:18.240 of eyeballs are all trained on her she knows right then and there that every man wants to 1.00
00:21:23.120 her and because and because she knows that men wanting to her is the key to everything she 0.88
00:21:27.520 understands very well what her value is when they get older they pretend not to know but let's just
00:21:31.840 say for example they really didn't know their value let's just say a woman said well i'm a valueless
00:21:35.920 person i'm just going to pass myself around oh well not my problem not my problem if you didn't
00:21:41.600 understand what your value is being able if a woman walks into a room and she feels every man's eyeballs
00:21:47.360 on her if you don't know what your value is at that particular point there's nothing i can do
00:22:04.240 you