Pearl - Pearl Takes A LESSON In Womanese To Understand It

00:00:00.000 listen Devin hit me with a lot of womanies when we first started talking she did and what's and

00:00:04.740 what shocked her what shocked her was that I would just call her out on it like I would just call her

00:00:08.880 out she's like and the funny thing is is a lot of times she didn't even get upset she just kind of

00:00:12.840 laughed that's what I knew she was right and she used to say to me all the time she's like you're

00:00:16.500 the she's like you're the only man that I have ever met who has spoken to me in this way women

00:00:21.780 respect you when you understand how to handle them they might not like you for a short period

00:00:26.940 of time but in order to get a woman's love you have to have a respect and you cannot have a

00:00:30.960 woman's respect unless you understand what she says versus what she means so why don't we start

00:00:35.880 there what was the early womanese that she would throw at you oh my god the early womanese that

00:00:42.600 Debbie would throw at me that's a good transition into the topic that is that is that is she's

00:00:47.100 what did she say oh my god she's at me with it all the time so when we first started talking right

00:00:51.780 she would what would she tell me oh she would tell me that what she actually the reason why

00:00:56.760 she reached out to me is because she was talking to a guy and the guy wasn't really the guy wasn't

00:01:02.820 really coming around so I was like okay what's the she actually reached out to me for a consultation

00:01:06.300 like okay what's the problem well he's this he's that the third and I said okay so first of all let's

00:01:10.440 go ahead and get this get this straight she's like what's that I was like you're this dude

00:01:13.740 and she's like okay she's like no I said you're talking to him that means you're this dude

00:01:17.940 a lot of girls girls don't like to say I'm a guy they like to say that I'm seeing a guy or

00:01:24.780 I'm talking to him or I'm dating him so that's the first thing that that she would say then she

00:01:29.400 would say well I want to go hang out with I want to go hang out with my guy again whatever the case

00:01:33.480 may be and at that point she would and at that point when she figured when she figured out that

00:01:38.740 I knew what she was saying like you know being able to read between the lines you know she would

00:01:42.960 be a little bit more honest and dare I say a little bit more direct because she knew that if she tried

00:01:47.680 to sort of mislead me about what her intentions were that I would just that that I would just call her out

00:01:52.560 on it here's another here's another womanese translation we gave so we went to Hawaii and this

00:01:57.640 is actually our our nine-year anniversary so we went to Hawaii and I remember we were talking while

00:02:02.360 we were on the trip and she was like okay so what are we going to do after this I was like well you

00:02:07.480 know I mean if I like you after this trip then you know maybe we'll continue to see each other

00:02:11.820 and then she says to me she's like well I kind of have to do the same thing I don't know I said

00:02:16.220 Devin stop it I said stop it I said you've already made your decision you don't have to

00:02:20.040 what she tried to do is she tried to she tried that inverse projection oh he's going to tell me

00:02:24.660 he's not sure about me that's making me more attracted more attracted to him so let me try

00:02:29.440 the same thing attraction is not symmetrical the same things that make us attractive to women are

00:02:34.140 not it's not it's not the same in reverse and so she had to learn a lot of that but you know a lot

00:02:39.560 of times when she would hit me with you know when she would hit me with like it like she told me

00:02:43.280 that she was going to go out with one of her friends she's like hey you know my friend Kim called me

00:02:47.480 and she asked me if I wanted to you know go out to the bar whatever and I told her I would see if

00:02:51.180 I could go and I was like no no you're not going she's like no I told her I would say I said Devin

00:02:55.560 you're not going she's like what are you talking I was like Devin if the answer is anything but yes

00:02:59.540 the answer is always no that's it that's all there is to it and she was like I never really thought of

00:03:04.840 it that way guess what Devin didn't go to the club with her friend Kim she had already had her mind

00:03:09.080 made up but because she wanted to be indirect even with me I'm not the person she committed to

00:03:13.020 she says well I was thinking about going I was thinking about said no no no you had already

00:03:18.220 made your mind up and that's actually one of the translation clips I'm going to show today

00:03:21.620 oh sure can you show it on screen yeah sure can let me go ahead and share does he have the ability

00:03:27.620 to share it yeah well I think you have to give me the ability yeah that's what I was I was just

00:03:32.640 talking to the producer just to make sure oh there we go perfect oh there we go okay let's see

00:03:38.340 let's go to clip number two and here we go maybe no we'll see no more than likely hell nah if nothing

00:03:49.460 comes up sure sure won't if I can finish my project of course of course not plans definitely definitely

00:03:59.980 not when it comes to meeting up with girls a general rule of thumb is that if the answer is

00:04:05.320 anything but yes the answer is always no listen if a girl wants to meet up with you she'll meet up

00:04:10.940 with you she won't put conditions on it she won't tell you about other plans she'll simply say yes

00:04:15.540 and wait for your instructions okay so pardon me this is where a lot of guys pearl end up wasting a lot

00:04:22.000 of time energy and resources on a woman who just isn't interested in them like I said in the clip if

00:04:27.960 the answer is anything but yes the answer is always no and the way this will help you is that you won't

00:04:33.900 be wasting time chasing a woman who doesn't like you like that right these are the girls these are

00:04:38.580 the girls really who almost always put you in the friend zone if they don't straight up ghost you

00:04:43.940 all together the men who understand this are the men who don't get hung up on are the men who don't

00:04:49.260 get hung up on girls you know on girls who don't want them which of course allows them to move on and

00:04:54.060 spend time you know pursuing women who's you know whose interest level is a little bit higher so again if

00:04:59.580 the answer is if the answer is anything but yes the answer is always no it's got to be an

00:05:04.300 enthusiastic yes 100 of the time what else are you the common ones that what would you say are like

00:05:09.940 the most common mistakes women or men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean

00:05:15.800 there is only one mistake that men make when interpreting what women say versus what they mean

00:05:20.960 and that is taking what they say at face value you can never you you just can't and again this doesn't

00:05:27.620 i'm not trying to make women sound like these nefarious creatures this is just how they are

00:05:31.860 okay men are direct women are passive okay and you you just have to understand especially in the

00:05:38.300 romantic context women are women don't want to look like a slut they don't want to give you the wrong

00:05:42.220 signals and so they're always speaking indirectly so when men take what women say at face value like

00:05:48.560 for example let's say you start dating a woman and she says i want to take things slow it it it

00:05:54.400 absolutely positively means something else and i've got a clip for that as well okay this one is

00:05:59.020 actually really yeah this one is crazy listen to this we need to take a break i've been fucking

00:06:05.700 another guy but you're back we should start seeing other people i'm cheating on you let's try and open

00:06:13.080 relationship i'm having sex with another guy we need to talk i'm dumping you for the guy i'm cheating

00:06:20.080 whiz a woman will never just tell you they're someone else so to circumvent having to be honest

00:06:25.780 and having a difficult conversation which by the way means admitting she's cheating she'll use any

00:06:30.280 combination of these statements to avoid looking like a cheating slut if she says any of these things

00:06:35.140 to you she's been another dude for at least six months and now knows she can start a relationship

00:06:40.180 with him count on it okay so there it is have you need you know we go ahead oh have you ever had a

00:06:47.580 woman tell you the truth and like say that she was cheating no never never actually actually there

00:06:53.440 there was one woman one time who told me she was cheating and that's because i straight up asked

00:06:58.140 her and the reason why the reason why she told me is because she knew i had proof other than that

00:07:03.400 a woman will never ever ever volunteer to you that she is cheating on you i mean it's never happened

00:07:08.700 to me and i do not bang more women than i care to admit it's it's never happened to me okay sorry

00:07:13.200 what were you saying before i interrupted you sorry you know i was gonna say you've been you've

00:07:17.580 interviewed more than a thousand women okay and you have seen and heard the many many ways that women

00:07:23.800 characterize engaging in promiscuous behavior how many girls have you interviewed like 12 or 1300 some

00:07:29.060 crazy number like around a thousand yeah around a thousand and i don't think i have ever seen or heard

00:07:34.720 a woman say straight up the reason my boyfriend and i broke up is because i wanted to sleep around or

00:07:40.400 my boyfriend dumped me because he found out i was cheating okay the way this will help you guys when

00:07:46.140 it comes to dating is being proactive and ask her hey what happened in your last relationship now what

00:07:52.040 she'll say is we grew apart or he wasn't attentive to my needs or sometimes i'll just straight up lie to

00:07:57.140 you and say he cheated on me and by the way all these phrases are translated in the course and when she says

00:08:01.920 this to you you now clearly understand that she is recreational use only if you talk to a girl and

00:08:08.120 you ask her what happened in your last relationship oh we grew apart this means she cheated this is how

00:08:12.160 woman ease helps you guys it gives you a clear understanding of which women you should not take

00:08:16.220 seriously and which women you shouldn't got it what else what else do you have in clips oh this is a

00:08:22.200 this is a this is another good one watch and learn and listen very very carefully this is this is

00:08:27.600 actually this is a lot of this is it's kind of a sobering reminder and it sucks that this is true

00:08:32.640 but it is here we go i'm a strong woman i want a strong man i'm super competitive i want a super

00:08:40.360 competitive guy men are intimidated by me i am turned on by men who intimidate me a dating hack i discovered

00:08:48.740 a while back is if you ask her what kind of woman she is she will tell you what kind of man she wants

00:08:53.240 a woman who talks about how strong competitive and intimidating she is is telling you she's turned

00:08:58.420 on by strong competitive and intimidating men okay because this pearl this is why i've always i'm

00:09:03.340 sorry go ahead because we turn into the men we want to marry so well yeah so it's like a woman with

00:09:09.400 a sleeve wants a man with a sleeve right there you go yeah and and this this is why i've always

00:09:15.200 encouraged men to be proactive with their dealings and women as far as like vetting them are concerned

00:09:19.640 guys ask questions do not be afraid to quiz her don't be afraid to put her on the spot because if

00:09:24.960 there is one thing that we are all aware of whether you're you know whether you're good with women or

00:09:29.380 not is that they love nothing more than to talk about themselves and not a one of us in here watching

00:09:34.800 this right now are unaware of the phrase let a woman talk long enough and eventually she will tell

00:09:39.740 on themselves women and you guys got to pay attention women are always telling us who and what they are

00:09:44.680 but most of the time they're not aware that they are okay that particular translation that

00:09:49.540 i just shows you that allows you to find out what kind of woman you're dealing with as well as the

00:09:53.720 kind of man she wants to deal with again this saves you a lot of time because now you have the

00:09:58.040 information you need to make the call as to whether or not you want to continue dealing with her

00:10:01.360 okay so what questions would you say that they should ask the one that i just said hey what happened

00:10:07.500 or you mean as far as no just ask hey what kind of woman are you tell me what kind of woman you are

00:10:12.440 you know describe yourself in 30 seconds and if you ask a woman to describe herself in 15 30 seconds

00:10:18.540 she will almost always tell you what she wants in a man and the reason she does this pearl is because

00:10:24.320 if she's trying to impress you like when you ask a woman what kind of a what kind of a woman you are

00:10:29.340 she's trying to impress you right and that's that's not a bad thing she wants to impress you because she

00:10:33.180 likes you but what you also have to understand is that when women are trying to impress when women

00:10:37.780 try to impress you they're going to tell you what they think you want to hear this is why they tell you

00:10:42.000 i'm a strong independent and super and super competitive okay got it all right very good the

00:10:49.400 next one is my ex is an asshole this is actually the first one that we were talking about here we go

00:10:55.560 my ex is such an asshole i'm still in love with my ex a woman who talks about her ex is not over her

00:11:03.760 ex remember gentlemen the more she tries to convince you of something the less likely it's true

00:11:08.740 a woman who calls her ex an ass wants her ex in her ass never forget that so many men they actually

00:11:15.840 and this is where a lot of guys mess up so many men think that if a woman if that if a woman thinks

00:11:21.900 her ex is an asshole that she no longer wants her ex guys that is completely wrong yes she thinks he's

00:11:27.840 an asshole and chances are he probably is but if you're dealing with a woman who a talks about her

00:11:32.040 ex and b talks you know calls him an asshole you need to understand that she is not over him

00:11:36.400 okay the reason she's talking to you is to create a false sense of scarcity with her ex to give her

00:11:41.560 the impression that she's fucking someone else the second reason and the most important reason is

00:11:46.400 she's looking to distract herself she doesn't like you like that okay she just wants that constant

00:11:51.060 steady flow of male attention from you while she makes while she waits for her ex to make a play to

00:11:55.680 get back with her and when he does trust me she will go running back to him so understanding this

00:12:00.160 translation my ex is an asshole will again keep her from wasting time with women who don't really like you

00:12:04.540 and here's the thing pearl every woman has that one ex she can't leave alone it's that one ex that

00:12:11.400 one ex-boyfriend that one situationship that one she can't leave him alone yes eventually they do

00:12:16.500 move on to some degree but if she calls her sex an asshole her ex an asshole when she's dealing with

00:12:21.860 you understand that it's only a matter of time before she starts fucking with him again so was there

00:12:26.820 a situation that that happened to you and you found out she was cheating with the ex oh yeah 100 dude the

00:12:32.380 girl's name was victoria i actually met her at a at a five guys dude dude this girl was oh my god she

00:12:38.180 had a great ass so i hit her at five guys and she's actually looking grumpy i was like oh either you

00:12:42.720 don't like black people or you hate your job and she laughed and that kind of broke the ice well she

00:12:47.220 used to talk about how her ex was an asshole all the time and and again i had the game but i didn't

00:12:52.180 have the understanding and i was like yeah he's an ex he's an asshole she likes me blah blah blah blah blah

00:12:56.020 of course her phone is buzzing away and i'm like well who is that she's like well you know that's

00:13:00.240 my ex-boyfriend i'm like oh okay i wasn't worried about it because it's your ex-boyfriend he's an

00:13:04.860 asshole right come to find out she actually got back with him she got back with him while she was

00:13:09.940 with me and that's when i sort of discovered monkey branching so that was my introduction to when women

00:13:14.220 call their ex an asshole it still means they want to get with him that doesn't mean that she doesn't

00:13:18.340 think he's an asshole but she absolutely still wants to get with him a woman can hate a man and still

00:13:22.860 want to have sex with him absolutely oh my god yeah women can women can we can we can despise and men

00:13:29.700 don't understand understand this like we can we can hate a guy not want to spend any time around

00:13:36.380 him but still want to sleep with him that's right yeah that's right listen and men and it's funny

00:13:41.380 because and i know a lot of women who have slept around they have probably fucked a guy or two they

00:13:46.680 genuinely just did not like his people dude i fucked plenty of girls i just didn't like that much

00:13:51.460 i just like having i just liked having sex with her this is one this is one of the this is one of the

00:13:56.880 few things that men and women have in comma have in common as far as like you know sexual interactions

00:14:02.320 we will have sex with a woman even if we don't like her if a woman hates you when a woman tells

00:14:07.300 you she hates you it really means she loves you and i've said this before pearl the opposite of love

00:14:11.680 as far as a woman goes the opposite of love isn't hate the opposite of love is indifference if she

00:14:16.060 doesn't really care if she couldn't care less about you she's over you if she hates you she probably

00:14:20.480 does but she probably still loves you too there's a thin line between love and hate that's why the

00:14:23.760 scene goes that way got it okay what's what's next this this next one is extremely extremely

00:14:30.980 dangerous okay so a lot of women a lot of women like to say we have a healthy relationship take a

00:14:38.060 look okay this is a toxic relationship you're making it so hard for me to cheat on you when a

00:14:44.560 woman finds it hard to cheat on you she'll characterize your relationship as toxic to try to get you to make

00:14:49.460 it easier for her to cheat way too many men fall for this ploy do not be one of these men we have

00:14:55.580 such a healthy relationship it will be very easy to cheat on you when i decide to be aware of any woman

00:15:03.380 who brags about a healthy relationship this means she has cheated is cheating or is going to cheat

00:15:09.300 remember what i said about toxic relationships well the opposite applies when a woman says her

00:15:14.280 relationship is healthy yeah it's a guy with no standards right she can't just do whatever she

00:15:19.380 wants there you go and a lot of men we listen you guys need to understand very very clearly that

00:15:26.280 modern women always want it both ways okay they want the status and the security of being in a

00:15:31.240 relationship while also being able to engage in activities that make them look single in other

00:15:35.880 words they want you to take them off the market but still allow her to have the for rent sign in the

00:15:40.200 front yard and this is where a lot of men go wrong in their relationships when women shame you like in

00:15:44.720 the clip we just saw they are clearly telling you they don't want to be faithful to you women go to

00:15:49.040 the club for attention they're on instagram because they're looking for your replacement they travel

00:15:53.240 without you because they want to get dick down but not lose the attention you give them her as her

00:15:57.980 significant other the men who do not allow women to act single while in relationships with them

00:16:03.260 are the men that women respect they might not like it but they will respect it and as we all know

00:16:08.360 a woman cannot love you if she does not respect you yeah and the thing is it's tough because all

00:16:14.180 of society tells the women that the guy is toxic if he has any standards at all the family will

00:16:21.540 social media will the friends will so it's like it's like the guy against the world yep yeah and and

00:16:28.340 wow that's a that's a good way to put it pearl it's the guy against the world yeah and i know that

00:16:33.560 there are a lot of guys in the chat that are probably frustrated it really is it is so hard

00:16:39.060 pearl to find the right information man this is why you know this is why you know you know guys like

00:16:44.660 fresh and fit andrew tate justin waller being on the dhs watch list to me that's nefarious because if

00:16:50.660 men actually had this information i think it would make relationships better yes there's going to be a

00:16:55.840 learning curve no women don't like it when women hate it when you when you figure them out they hate

00:17:02.040 it but eventually they respect you and love you for it yeah but beta bucks providers are what keeps

00:17:07.740 society running so that's why they don't want them getting the information it would just be single

00:17:11.920 mothers everywhere like yeah it would just be single mothers and then they wouldn't know what to do with

00:17:17.900 all the single women so they may get men's problem go ahead our our dude our channels and all that being

00:17:24.920 shadow banned and taken down it is this is an economical decision okay they try to characterize oh we're

00:17:31.600 trying to protect women from men no no no this is economical because it's you said it yourself we

00:17:37.120 talked about it earlier in the episode the economy the economy relies heavily on on me on men not being

00:17:45.760 aware of what their value is compared to what women's value is every kiss begins with k get down on one knee

00:17:51.460 do all this other kind of stuff you know my wife is the boss etc etc most guys have most men in the world

00:17:57.080 have never been exposed to this kind of content and the powers that be are making sure that never happens

00:18:01.320 and now we know why yeah it's basically eight dollars or two dollars do you want to make eight

00:18:06.080 dollars or do you want to make two dollars yeah i mean all that tweet i saw that video that was

00:18:11.200 profound pearl yeah no i mean it's so simple when you think about it i mean i don't know what age you

00:18:16.780 figured it out but at some age men understand that they lose money if they tell the truth that's right

00:18:22.960 or they get kicked out of school they they lose something right and so they just learn to lie

00:18:28.520 it's not really their fault but and it's not really the women's fault either because we're born

00:18:33.920 into this it's like our grandmothers or whoever but corporations have more control over society

00:18:40.120 if they're spending the women's money that they steal from the men rather than the men making choices go

00:18:47.280 this is why this is why this is why 90 of the commercials are geared towards women yeah if you

00:18:53.060 get any commercial every commercial almost every commercial you see is designed to get you emotional

00:18:57.960 and it's funny we don't even see commercials anymore it's like we're seeing these miniature movies these

00:19:01.860 miniature romantic comedies now the the the the powers that be on madison avenue you know the

00:19:07.620 advertising capital of the world they know and listen this is a tale as old as time itself and this is

00:19:12.360 men and women alike people people buy based on emotion they rarely buy based on logic i used to

00:19:17.820 sell cars for a living and yeah you can tell them about the you know the the power steering and the

00:19:22.260 you know the engine this and this and that and a third they're not going to buy the car for 10 reasons

00:19:25.360 they're going to buy it for one reason and if that one reason is an emotional reason you have been

00:19:30.460 much higher there's a much higher probability that you're going to close that sale the guys over on

00:19:34.560 madison avenue understand that very clearly this is why they push that emotional button every single

00:19:39.240 time because women make what 80 percent of the financial buying decisions in this country so

00:19:43.900 yeah if i were them i would do the same thing

Pearl - March 19, 2025

Pearl Takes A LESSON In Womanese To Understand It ｜ Pearl Daily

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