Pearl - February 15, 2025


Pearl & Myron Gains DESTROY Virtue Signaling Beta Males | Pearl Daily


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In this episode, Myron and I discuss cheating and how it's a problem in the dating world, how to deal with it, and how to avoid it. We also discuss how men cheat and why it's so common.

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00:00:00.000 this is kind of full circle because our first debate was on i didn't think that like men
00:00:05.120 cheated that much and i concede now you know i concede you were right men that can yeah yeah
00:00:12.080 it's you know it's just crazy how dudes will put on the cape and lie you know what i mean and sell
00:00:16.320 girls a dream just so they can continue to get access to her you know the the things what i've 0.99
00:00:21.360 realized typically men's sexual strategy is typically directly proportional to their smv so
00:00:26.720 the higher the smv the more reckless you can be in how you deal with women and the lower your smv the 0.68
00:00:32.320 more calculated and cautious you have to be with women i'll give you an example you take someone
00:00:37.040 like tristan tate right when i was in romania this guy's reckless man he's like he's like he's like
00:00:42.400 the girls love him right and when i say reckless i mean as in like the girls love him but he doesn't
00:00:45.680 pay attention right he'll have two or three of his girlfriends hanging out with him while he has a 0.61
00:00:49.440 couple side chicks there etc and all the girls get in line because they all want him right despite the 1.00
00:00:54.960 fact that he's there with a bunch of other women he's able to do exactly what he wants and they
00:00:58.720 don't really have any power and that's directly proportional because to his high smv right pause
00:01:04.000 but you take someone who's lower smv a guy that isn't that attractive that doesn't have options 0.99
00:01:08.320 they have to play a lot nicer they have to sell a dream of it better they have to work a lot harder
00:01:12.800 to be able to get the same acts sexual access yeah and i got red pilled because there was a guy that
00:01:19.520 came on my show that was like virtue signaling and saying like oh like men shouldn't cheat and i
00:01:25.360 found out he was dating like three women that had come on the show and i was like what the hell
00:01:30.480 and i was like wait myron was the one being honest where all these guys are lying and i was like holy
00:01:36.880 it's bad man it's really bad and and here's the thing the reason why is because a lot of guys
00:01:43.040 why don't my help i can see you now yeah i can see you too i'm just trying to figure out why my
00:01:48.880 my zoom was acting weird okay i think i'm fine now is there a way to if you can make your mic a
00:01:54.240 little bit louder they're asking me in my chat they're saying you're coming in a little bit low
00:01:58.320 let's see if you could turn your volume up he's gonna turn it up let me see okay try now is this
00:02:04.080 better i think so chat she just turned her mic up man so hopefully you guys can hear her a bit better
00:02:09.360 here but yeah i have to i have to concede though you were right yeah like four three years later
00:02:15.600 myron was correct he you know i just try to keep it real with as far as like what the hell's going
00:02:21.760 on here with the way guys moving everything else like that they're always lying so i wanted to start
00:02:27.600 with when a guy has a rotation how many women generally are in it and what are the categories 1.00
00:02:33.840 that like guys will have in their rotation i gave them before what i i've gathered from other guys
00:02:41.360 and i want you to tell me if i'm right wrong or what you would add so okay so you want me to just
00:02:46.800 tell you what what i like what the average guy is running as far as like a rotation yeah who can have
00:02:51.520 one yeah like how many girls are in it and how often is he seeing them i would say for guys it depends 0.77
00:02:58.400 on the guy's skill level right so like most guys can't even get one girl in rotation right but what i've
00:03:02.960 typically found is if a guy has a skill set to get one or two he can get five right just comes down
00:03:08.000 to like how much does he want to scale his his dating right for some guys two two is not enough
00:03:14.800 for other guys that's a lot you know but it really depends on the skill set so and how much time the
00:03:20.240 guy has but i would say if you were to take like an average guy that's you know pretty decent with women 1.00
00:03:25.280 he's gonna have one to three somewhere uh one to three anything beyond that really starts to become
00:03:31.600 very cumbersome so i'll say somewhere in that range and then he might not see them every week
00:03:37.440 he might see you know one every week and then he might see another one every two weeks they might
00:03:41.360 see another one once or once a month or twice a month okay so the what would you say how can women 1.00
00:03:47.440 tell if they're the main girl or a side girl because what i found i'm sure you found this too
00:03:53.040 when interviewing women a lot of women think they're in relationships with guys when really
00:03:57.280 they're just a side chick yeah so this is this is a good question this one depends on the guy's
00:04:03.040 means right so like one's up happening and this happens a lot with with girls that get with like 1.00
00:04:07.440 guys that got money like that guy might take him on a trip or he might buy her a gift and she'll think
00:04:12.400 that she's the main girl but what she doesn't realize is he just has a lot of money and he's just
00:04:15.680 tricking off on all of them so you know i would say for women if your guy has money be especially 1.00
00:04:21.760 suspicious when you get gifts and everything else like that because that doesn't necessarily mean you're the
00:04:25.280 main girl but i would say if you're sleeping at his house multiple times a week that's a pretty
00:04:30.880 safe way to tell that you're the main girl so how many times a week would you say make someone the
00:04:37.040 main girl i want to see if we have the same answer no problem i would say if you're getting anywhere
00:04:43.280 between three to four or more you you could at least say you're a main chick he might have another 0.97
00:04:49.360 main chick but you can at least say you're one of the main chicks yeah that's what i thought too
00:04:54.240 what else do you have any other advice for how you can tell other than time time is one getting
00:04:59.680 gifts is another thing but like that depends on the guy right if the guy is rich then it has less
00:05:03.920 meaning what else i'm trying to think here oh if you have access to like anything if you have access
00:05:08.960 to like anything that's like important like maybe you do maybe he has a business and you have access to
00:05:14.080 like his credit card billing or something like that or he has you as an authorized user or something like
00:05:18.320 that um but he's not rich that could be a way to to tell as well but i'll say like the more access
00:05:24.160 you have the higher the likelihood the more access you have on his life i'll put it that way the more
00:05:29.280 access you have on his life the higher the likelihood that you are a main girl so in miami you must see
00:05:37.440 like a lot of crazy things with side chicks have you seen side chicks get like written into the deed 1.00
00:05:44.480 or like side chicks that actually meet the wife yeah i don't not not meet the wife but i've seen 0.97
00:05:49.360 like guys like live like a whole other life like with their girl with their side girl and the main
00:05:54.640 girl never knew about it and vice versa so because the thing is here in miami man is a lot of these guys
00:06:00.080 are tricks man so like what will happen is like they'll sell the dream they'll show her a certain
00:06:04.080 lifestyle and she'll you know she'll fall for it and she won't even look at some of the red flags 1.00
00:06:09.760 she'll just you know she'll pretend like she doesn't see the red flags right to kind of have the 1.00
00:06:14.080 dream continue going on and how long do you see women until they age out of miami like because i 1.00
00:06:20.560 always say the hottest women will go to like a-level cities i call them like vegas la miami how long 1.00
00:06:27.920 until they move out either from a bad decision or they age out good question depending on how well
00:06:34.560 she takes care of herself late 20s early 30s what i've noticed with white women you know in particular 1.00
00:06:40.240 miami is they get out of here sooner yeah they get out of here sooner and do you see them like getting 0.89
00:06:46.080 married usually or where do you like what happens to them they go to fort lauderdale no way they get out
00:06:53.360 of miami like they go to fort lauderdale they go to west palm beach etc like the other thing too
00:06:58.640 which is it's interesting but i've noticed it's like they get a lot of hate down here from the
00:07:04.320 latinas and from the black girls so white girls that come down here stay for a period of time and 1.00
00:07:09.680 then they get the hell out when they move up north if they're russian they go to sunny owls if they're 0.98
00:07:14.560 like a regular white chick they go to fort lauderdale and why would you say that most men that cheat they
00:07:20.160 just see it as sex or like because i was saying some men cheat for different reasons like when 0.71
00:07:25.040 they cheat with the nanny and the nanny's ugly it's like based because usually the wife isn't 1.00
00:07:29.680 giving him something so he goes to the nanny like arnold schwarzenegger have you seen that i did i did i
00:07:35.600 think most of the time when guys cheat is just to get something new that's really what it comes down
00:07:39.840 to man novelty is literally like every guy's like thing everybody wants new regardless of how good
00:07:45.520 your girlfriend is so that's what i think is the the main thing so one of the best things that you
00:07:50.800 told me on the show years ago i thought you were wrong but you're right now was you said it's different
00:07:55.440 like a different time and i would say the cutoff is like men over 40 and men under 40 where like they
00:08:01.920 like some men over 40 don't really know as much about like the social media age and so but i'm just
00:08:09.360 wondering like the men do you see men have you ever seen men not cheat that could i guess is the
00:08:16.080 question have i ever seen men not cheat that could of course but typically those guys those guys tend
00:08:21.680 to those guys tend to be religious the guys that i see that don't cheat that can that have the
00:08:25.760 capability nine out of ten times they're extremely religious which is why they're you know their
00:08:29.760 conviction to god keeps them from cheating that's the only time i've ever seen it and do stds ever
00:08:36.160 become a problem like do you have you seen that you know for a lot of guys man no unless they're
00:08:41.840 like smashing a bunch of like thoughts raw like you know not really not for a lot of guys i think
00:08:48.320 for women man they're way more likely to get std just because obviously you know they're the ones 1.00
00:08:52.960 receiving right so yeah versus a dude you know you just wash your d yeah well because that's the
00:08:58.560 biggest thing you hear with women and cheating it's like they don't want to get an std and i was just 0.89
00:09:02.640 wondering if like because you get so much insight into what's going on in the marketplace like if
00:09:07.440 that's really a problem with guys that run harems and rotations i think it's two things i think it's
00:09:12.800 a two-fold thing so yes they have a valid concern about the stds for sure but they just use that as
00:09:18.960 a crux because the reality is they don't like the fact that he's having having sex with other women
00:09:23.120 that's the real reason like because what i've realized is women want higher status men but they 1.00
00:09:29.680 don't want to deal with high status problems they want to basically be able to have a dude that's
00:09:32.960 like the top tier guy and have them all to himself or have them all to herself without dealing with the
00:09:38.560 consequences of being with someone like that right and they kind of want to have this illusion in their
00:09:42.240 mind that they're still the prize so though they know that their guy has the ability to go out and
00:09:47.440 got other women and probably does and they dislike that instead of saying well no i want you to be 1.00
00:09:53.760 monogamous to me because i'm special they kind of know in the back of their mind that's a ludicrous concept
00:09:57.680 because they're not special so they kind of cope and say oh well i don't want any diseases
00:10:03.920 right that that's how a lot of girls i've noticed kind of deal with the problem is they say oh i don't 0.92
00:10:08.480 want a lot of diseases but the reality is i said that but then then i counter i say okay well let's
00:10:14.000 assume he used the condom on every other girl well no i just don't like him doing that and then you find
00:10:17.920 out what the real problem is because i solve for that issue he used to count them every time would you 0.98
00:10:21.520 be okay with that no i just don't want to fucking other girls that's really the issue it's not the the 0.99
00:10:26.240 the the stds like they claim it's the fact that he's hooking up with other women and they're using 0.99
00:10:31.120 the stds as a justification for why their guy who is two three four points above them and sexual
00:10:37.200 market value can't have sex that's why and is it hard for you to see these guys like virtue signal
00:10:44.080 when you know they're lying because that you're never gonna like air them out on a podcast like
00:10:49.600 you're you know you're not gonna do that but i'm sure you've had guys come on where you see them
00:10:53.840 virtue signaling and you know they're like pandering you know about the cheating stuff
00:10:59.120 because i'd say that's like your one of your most contentious takes other than like the j stuff
00:11:07.440 yeah they hate me for that too yeah no i um you know this is why i don't hang out with blue pill
00:11:12.560 guys so if you look at like my friends the guys that i hang out with that i spend the most time with
00:11:16.720 whether they're guys on a team or whatever it may be or creators that like i collab with a lot
00:11:20.880 whether it's the tates or the justin waller or sterling or any of these other guys like they're 0.99
00:11:25.040 all red pillow wear and the reason why is because blue pill guys do stupid that you just is just 0.99
00:11:31.200 infuriating right whether it's like they try to show off in front of a girl or they put down their 1.00
00:11:36.320 friend in front of a girl to look better some stupid like that like blue pill guys just don't 1.00
00:11:40.240 get it and then they also will virtue single and do dumb like that saying oh yeah women are queens or 1.00
00:11:45.280 whatever and that shit's very annoying and i think i think the culture's kind of caught up to 0.99
00:11:50.640 it like we're all tired of this virtue signaling shit i'll give you the perfect example bryce mitchell 0.99
00:11:54.960 made some comments right about a certain guy with a mustache from the 1940s yeah and what ended up 0.95
00:11:59.760 happening was he went viral all over youtube for talking about this right and a certain event that 0.95
00:12:05.600 also occurred in the 1940s and he went viral the video got taken down dana white called him an idiot 0.90
00:12:12.160 blah blah blah so he goes on a podcast with rampage and his partner beard or something like that bear 0.75
00:12:18.000 i forget the guy's name and during the podcast bears trying to like you know virtue signal saying yo you
00:12:24.240 can't be saying stuff like that that's offensive to global people mustache man killed millions upon
00:12:28.400 millions all this other bullshit see a bunch of slides too much at right so so what ended up happening 0.87
00:12:33.760 was he got so much backlash in the youtube comment section of his own video for trying to tell bryce 0.93
00:12:40.000 what he can he can't say right because not only did he bring bryce on he gave him a whole lecture
00:12:44.960 about it he said we're not even going to give you the opportunity to explain yourself blah blah blah 0.96
00:12:48.160 all this other bullshit so they fucking ratioed him into oblivion to the point where they commented on 0.95
00:12:52.640 the shit disliked the video and he had to take the video down right so why do i give this example i give 0.99
00:12:58.480 this example to simply state this people are tired of being browbeat right and virtue signal too to try 0.98
00:13:06.080 to look like you got the moral high ground people are tired of it because we know it's inauthentic
00:13:10.080 we know it's not authentic we know that you don't talk like this with your friends behind closed doors
00:13:14.240 so authenticity is widely respected right this is another thing too why did kanye go so viral over
00:13:21.280 the past couple of days saying a whole bunch of stuff people respect yeah people respect authenticity
00:13:28.800 and they respect people speaking their minds regardless of how provocative it is right so and i say all
00:13:34.480 that to tie it back this is why i dislike being around guys that are virtue signaling because like
00:13:38.800 you've seen already when guys say this about oh yeah i'm a feminist or i'm a champion for women etc 0.81
00:13:44.240 those guys tend to be the worst ones those are the ones that are smacking women around those are the 1.00
00:13:47.360 ones that are cheating those are the ones that are doing the so that's why people don't
00:13:50.560 like virtual signalers because we know it's not real and society's broken up to it i have a theory that
00:13:56.160 the christian simps are bigger simps than the leftist guys in open relationships
00:14:01.920 because at least the leftist like the christian simps get cheated on by their wife and they have
00:14:07.840 to take her back because of god where the leftist guy at least he's doing it too so okay so you're
00:14:13.040 saying they're both simps but like i would put the leftist guy above the christian simps usually okay so 0.99
00:14:19.440 okay so you're saying like a liberal guy though he's a pussy he still has more awareness of female 0.98
00:14:23.920 nature than the christian guy yeah like take destiny versus the guy that married nala like who's like 0.99
00:14:30.240 destiny and i know you're friends with him it's not a shot at him but like he was hooking up with
00:14:33.920 like lauren southern he was like hooking up with all these women that were pretty attractive 1.00
00:14:38.400 where like the guy that marries nala is stuck to a porn star forever yeah i mean you you could you
00:14:43.680 you know that's the argument you make you know some guys play what i call liberal game right and and
00:14:50.320 what i mean by that is like they'll they'll they'll play this social justice warrior this i'm i'm a champ i'm
00:14:57.600 a i'm a fighter and advocate for women's rights etc and the only guys that get away with doing that
00:15:02.480 prop uh properly are guys that look very good no boss or guys that are famous right i'll use i'll
00:15:08.160 give you a perfect example right now you take someone like hassan piker right yeah a lot of people
00:15:13.520 remember what 10 years ago plus he was doing like frat bro videos on how to pick up girls in college
00:15:18.640 right yeah he did yeah yeah he doesn't like to talk about it but but he he has a bunch of old videos
00:15:23.760 where he's like literally doing like frat bro you know red pill light videos on how to be attractive
00:15:30.000 to women so he obviously has a concept that understands what it takes to be arousing and
00:15:34.000 attractive to women right and then but now he's like you know a socialist leftist whatever but 0.99
00:15:40.160 the thing is is that a guy like him can have a pussy mindset like that because deep down he still 1.00
00:15:46.960 understands you know the red pill to a degree where he still has to show some type of dark trade 0.99
00:15:51.440 traits to be attractive and then on top of that right besides that awareness that he has he also
00:15:56.640 is famous and rich so he's going to be able to get away with doing certain beta behaviors that other
00:16:02.080 guys will never be able to get away with because he's rich and famous so girls are gonna you know 0.99
00:16:06.720 give him a pass on that other guys wouldn't be able to get so you're always able to get away with more
00:16:12.320 as a guy the the more the better you look and the more money and status you have right so like 0.99
00:16:17.520 women are gonna be more tolerant of your stupidity when you have things in place you can make more 1.00
00:16:22.800 mistakes in other words yeah 1.00