Pearl - September 01, 2026


Pearl Vs A Crazy Liberal： Marriage is a Bad Deal For Men!


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00:00:00.000 But with the alimony, 97% of the time, it is the men who are going to pay alimony. 0.57
00:00:04.000 But the reason for that is because since the beginning of time, women have been told to
00:00:07.820 stay at home. 0.63
00:00:08.640 So, of course, 97% of men...
00:00:11.260 But they're not told that now.
00:00:12.640 No, no, no.
00:00:13.080 But we're...
00:00:13.520 But...
00:00:13.820 Okay, but there's still...
00:00:14.880 Marriage is continuing.
00:00:15.680 Like, life...
00:00:16.300 Things change.
00:00:17.340 So, why is that still the case?
00:00:18.240 But, you know, now they're not staying home. 1.00
00:00:19.560 Because still, structurally, most women are the ones who are going to give up their personal 1.00
00:00:23.440 careers and lives to take care of the children. 1.00
00:00:25.220 Not necessarily. 1.00
00:00:25.540 If it was the opposite, women would be paying the 97% of alimony. 1.00
00:00:28.560 But women still have the option to not, so you don't have to. 1.00
00:00:31.700 You can have a stay-at-home husband now if you want. 1.00
00:00:34.320 Yeah, you could. 1.00
00:00:35.020 So if they divorced and he was down and out, I would assume she would have to pay him alimony.
00:00:40.720 I disagree.
00:00:41.260 Same way it would be on anyone else.
00:00:42.700 I think if you want to be equal, be equal and be responsible for your choices.
00:00:45.800 That's equal.
00:00:46.280 So I believe that marriage is a bad deal for men, and I believe that because women are more likely to get alimony, child support, the house, and the children in divorce. 0.91
00:00:55.020 So then I'm assuming that's why you're not married
00:00:57.140 because you're trying to save a guy from a bad deal, right?
00:00:59.520 Once again, let's not talk about the personal.
00:01:01.480 I really don't.
00:01:02.060 I don't want to.
00:01:02.660 Yeah, I don't.
00:01:03.220 I mean, listen. 0.92
00:01:05.000 You're a woman.
00:01:05.700 Yeah, so I want to be clear. 0.55
00:01:07.000 We don't want to talk about these people.
00:01:08.220 All right, everybody.
00:01:08.800 All right, everybody stop.
00:01:10.260 All right, listen.
00:01:10.980 If the next person that brings up like a personal attack,
00:01:14.540 like it says, like brings up somebody's not married,
00:01:16.680 brings up mama, that's not going to be good.
00:01:18.460 Don't do it again. 0.86
00:01:19.780 All right, let's keep it to the prompt and stats
00:01:22.120 and all this good jazz.
00:01:23.480 Statistically, then.
00:01:24.380 I would say that marriage is a bad deal for anyone.
00:01:27.360 I think it's a bad deal for men and women both involved because – and not the idea of marriage, right?
00:01:32.440 Like the idea of two people being committed to each other forever to have a good life together, I believe that's beautiful.
00:01:37.280 I hope it happens for me.
00:01:38.140 I hope it happens for you.
00:01:39.440 But marriage as an institution I don't think is good for anyone.
00:01:43.200 When you pay the government and allow them further into your life, I think it's a bad deal for everyone involved except the government.
00:01:49.380 um i also believe that if it's supposed to be from this holy matrimony uh religious you know
00:01:56.360 sanctity kind of thing then there's a separation between church and state like i just don't
00:02:00.660 personally think involving the government any further into your lives is a good idea
00:02:03.800 they're already up our twats and at this point it's like no one's going to come out ahead in
00:02:08.780 that except the government and do you even know what your money for when you register for marriage
00:02:13.060 goes to it just goes to public services which that could mean anything and it goes into social
00:02:19.560 security partially actually goes into no it goes into public services and part of it actually goes
00:02:24.840 to domestic violence assistant programs which i think is funny that our marriage licenses goes to
00:02:30.140 that so i don't think it's a good idea for anyone and not again the idea of being with one person
00:02:35.740 forever just the idea of marriage on paper what is the difference from yesterday and today if we'd
00:02:40.640 been living together paying the same bills doing all the same shit what's changed the government
00:02:45.280 knows now cool i don't think i disagree i don't think i mean i would say it's more favorable 0.95
00:02:50.360 towards women because here's the thing though you say that too but i agree with like on paper
00:02:55.220 there's no difference but when you're talking about on paper too like i understand the idea
00:02:58.580 of like people wanting to have protections right because you're over here talking about how men are
00:03:03.060 going to lose half their stuff well some women might lose their lives you know we're going to
00:03:06.940 be here for five hours today that means 30 women will die while we're here because every 10 minutes
00:03:11.140 someone is killed by their former ex-lover so you're worried about men losing stuff women might
00:03:16.040 lose their lives so i understand protections on paper but you don't need to register with the
00:03:20.740 government that you're married you can still write up personal contracts with a notary if you're in
00:03:24.860 that situation where you really feel you need protections otherwise i don't know if you should
00:03:30.020 get married if you feel you need to be protected from this person right but people change after
00:03:35.720 marriage yeah of course they do all the time so i don't disagree with the government stuff that
00:03:39.580 you're saying i would i would still say that because women are more likely to receive alimony
00:03:43.160 child support the only reason that is though is because let me finish so i would still say that
00:03:48.400 because women are more likely to receive alimony child support custody of the children in the house
00:03:52.700 that it is still unfavorable to men and more favorable towards women so 90 of custody cases
00:03:57.860 are settled within the couple they decide doesn't go to court and then okay so go ahead go ahead
00:04:02.600 The reasoning for that is because a lot of lawyers tell them to settle
00:04:07.600 because it's going to be so expensive.
00:04:09.280 It still costs them like $25,000, $30,000.
00:04:11.660 So you're just saying stuff.
00:04:13.160 There's no stats. 1.00
00:04:14.000 You're just saying shit. 1.00
00:04:14.920 That's fine. 1.00
00:04:15.680 I could say stuff too.
00:04:17.380 But reality is 90% are settled within the couple.
00:04:20.780 And also men pay alimony.
00:04:23.680 Yeah, how many lawyers out of how many, Pearl? 0.96
00:04:26.180 Like that's ridiculous. 0.64
00:04:27.320 But anyway. 0.99
00:04:27.720 This is kind of what liberals do is they don't want you to believe your eyes.
00:04:30.800 So the problem is a lot of liberals, you guys want to have higher status.
00:04:37.840 And so you think because you read a study, you know something.
00:04:40.660 I don't know.
00:04:42.240 Because I read a study and I retained information, I do know something.
00:04:45.380 Not really.
00:04:46.340 I mean, you're just –
00:04:47.280 That's studying.
00:04:47.880 Not really.
00:04:48.940 Not really.
00:04:49.580 Okay.
00:04:49.940 Well, anyway.
00:04:50.520 And then to the alimony point of it.
00:04:51.220 I think a lawyer who's an expert in a subject knows more than you.
00:04:55.200 Yeah.
00:04:55.400 Go ahead and respond to that.
00:04:56.240 Yeah, go ahead. 0.99
00:04:56.460 fuck anyway but with the alimony 97 of the time it is the men who are going to pay alimony but 0.99
00:05:01.480 the reason for that is because since the beginning of time women have been told to stay at home so 0.99
00:05:06.100 of course 97 of men but they're not told that now no no but we're but okay but there's still
00:05:12.080 marriages continue like life can things change but you know now because still structurally most 1.00
00:05:18.540 women are the ones who are going to give up their personal careers and lives to take care of the 1.00
00:05:22.180 children if it was the opposite women would be paying the 97 percent of alimony women still have 1.00
00:05:26.760 the option to not so you don't have to but the people that you can have a stay-at-home husband
00:05:30.960 now if you want yeah you could so so if they divorced and he was down and out i would assume
00:05:36.200 he she would have to pay him i disagree same way it would be on anyone else i think if you want to
00:05:40.920 be equal be equal and be responsible for your that's equal if she gave up his life i would say
00:05:46.580 i would say it should be 50 50 custody custody no child support no alimony whatever choice you make
00:05:52.080 you should be responsible for. 0.90
00:05:53.800 Cool, so then what do you tell a woman? 1.00
00:05:55.200 I agree with you, take the government out of marriage. 0.99
00:05:57.180 Okay, so then what do you tell a woman, though, 0.98
00:05:58.600 who has been married for 20 years, 0.93
00:06:00.140 didn't work because she was raising her kids, 0.92
00:06:01.680 and now he's decided to trade her in for a new model.
00:06:04.040 So what does she do now? 0.99
00:06:05.220 Get a job just like the men. 0.57
00:06:06.680 But she has no work experience, has no resume.
00:06:10.020 Maybe there's still kids to be raised. 1.00
00:06:11.700 You don't think that there's going to be a...
00:06:14.400 You could do meal prep for a wealthier family.
00:06:16.720 You could do...
00:06:17.340 Do you know what I hear when we talk like that?
00:06:19.000 One at a time, one at a time, one at a time.
00:06:20.660 Go ahead.
00:06:20.860 You're someone who grew up affluent. You don't understand the normal American experience. That's not an insult telling you that you grew up with money is factual.
00:06:29.060 Okay. Here we go. Here we go. Here's the issue. I don't want to dive into anybody's personal lives.
00:06:34.240 What the fuck is personal about that? You put it on Instagram that you have a slide from your house to your leg. 0.99
00:06:38.860 Stop. Stop. Stop. This is what's going to happen. If we do one more like personal. That's it. I've said it like five times now.
00:06:45.500 What? It's personal.
00:06:46.300 I don't want to talk about anybody's backgrounds. That seems to be a trigger issue.
00:06:49.880 That's like I got well listen I have to keep peace here
00:06:53.120 Just yeah like keep it to like a generalized statements not about the person specifically please
00:06:59.000 Generalized statement I saw on your Instagram
00:07:02.440 I'm just kidding I'm just kidding I didn't put it out there okay she did
00:07:08.020 But anyway at the end of the day you do agree with me that it's just a bad idea for anyone 0.98
00:07:12.160 Especially when you're registering with the fucking government 0.96
00:07:14.400 And I know you think oh men are gonna come out ahead but let's be real here 0.99
00:07:18.300 how many women die from the guy that they you're worried about men losing their stuff women lose
00:07:23.360 their lives i don't know what to say there's no danger and risk to everything yeah um i would say 0.98
00:07:28.060 that the behavior is so insufferable what behavior um you're very argumentative and bitchy okay well 0.70
00:07:34.280 you can't you can't attack her yeah you can't attack her no no no no no none of us nobody's
00:07:41.580 attacking each other no i love it no we're gonna we're gonna keep it uh professional we're all
00:07:46.680 professionals here let's like try not to attack each other because if you attack her i'm not
00:07:50.600 attacking i'm just feeling your humiliation king okay so again you see okay all right i can't
00:07:56.900 imagine what do you all right i'm gonna let you i'm just asking really quick like do you think
00:08:00.860 it's a bad deal for men because they might have to pay alimony okay 10 of cases go to alimony
00:08:06.400 10 and that is because she stayed at home to take care of the children there's a reason for alimony
00:08:12.200 Also, the laws, maybe they're outdated, but men wrote the laws.
00:08:17.200 A lot of these judges are men.
00:08:18.980 Men still are part of, I guess, the problem, if you want to call it that, of alimony.
00:08:24.820 They're still just as involved.
00:08:26.860 I can't imagine the companionship that men get out of marriage based on these conversations.
00:08:32.300 From you or me.
00:08:33.240 When we go on to the men writing the laws, I agree men throw other men under the bus all the time.
00:08:39.340 I agree with you on getting the government out of marriage. 0.56
00:08:41.820 Yeah, but I think that with you specifically that is upsetting is the fact that you're willing to throw women under the bus just to be a pick-me for men. 0.67
00:08:51.300 And that sucks because reality is you should be – 0.76
00:08:54.720 You can absolutely cut men while at the same time. 0.99
00:08:58.800 I've asked.
00:08:59.460 You can have one closing statement, and then you're done. 1.00
00:09:01.420 Why does she get a closing – she's breaking the rules. 1.00
00:09:03.440 Breaking what rules?
00:09:04.640 I have so confused by this conversation.
00:09:06.120 All right, all right, all right.
00:09:07.880 Just say you've got one minute, say your last thing, and then I'm ending it for you.
00:09:11.420 Don't make another personal attack.
00:09:12.780 Okay, you know what?
00:09:13.600 This has nothing to do with Pearl.
00:09:14.500 Fine, I have a minute left.
00:09:15.740 Do not, if you are thinking of getting married, do not register with the government. 1.00
00:09:19.200 It's ran by a pedophilic rapist who's part of the predator class. 0.99
00:09:23.040 And you shouldn't listen to anything Pearl has to say either. 1.00
00:09:25.700 There's no statistics here.
00:09:26.920 All right, well, thank you for that.
00:09:28.600 I appreciate it.
00:09:29.260 Yeah.