Pearl - Post-Wall Women Are DESPERATE For Men To Approach Them In Public？

00:00:00.000 real vicious cycle that just concludes and begins with low self-esteem so then i cut myself off from

00:00:04.640 relationship opportunities i give it a couple weeks and then i'm like what was that what was

00:00:08.560 that freak out yeah it's time it's time to go to therapy and a male therapist what up guys welcome

00:00:14.240 to the just pearly things youtube channel today i'm going to be reacting to woman is thirsty for

00:00:19.920 a man to approach her in public females are thirsting over men i do everything alone 1.00

00:00:26.080 women cannot be alone men can be alone and be relatively happy i mean there's a guy that like

00:00:35.220 ran to the woods to get away from women he ran he

00:00:38.940 it's like women men can't live without us men they're like in a forest living by themselves 1.00

00:00:47.240 women we're not the same we need community we just do i just i miss having somebody to talk to

00:00:55.400 i've been having somebody that actually wants to like see me

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00:01:07.660 some guys have said to me they wouldn't date a girl with an only flambes page and that's fair enough 1.00

00:01:16.280 obvi obviously but i make pretty decent money from mine they don't care you're telling me you

00:01:21.520 wouldn't want a sugar mama in a cost of living crisis because i could be a sugar mama yeah i 0.97

00:01:26.720 would treat you real nice i mean you know what's funny there are a couple guys that'll take her up 1.00

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00:02:52.560 i take care of you sweet cheek so what do you say hell no someone's gonna do it though there's 1.00

00:03:00.000 always a simp i'm being dramatic here right but see if my boyfriend like a fucking girl's like 0.99

00:03:04.340 why is your boobs out on the internet if you have a boyfriend instagram i would literally 1.00

00:03:09.400 like break up with him like right there and then even like oh well putting your boobs out on 0.99

00:03:14.260 instagram their stories and shit like i think like the overall consensus in this video is 0.99

00:03:19.800 don't date me because i'm a fucking psychopath but i feel like i'm just saying what all other 0.98

00:03:24.620 girls think honestly it doesn't matter what you think i'm so sick of being told that i should be 0.99

00:03:29.780 happy single i don't want to be i want to be in love i want to be sickening to everyone around us

00:03:35.960 want to adore them and i want them to adore me i want to find my person i want to love them and i

00:03:41.160 want them to love me i have so much of myself to pour into someone and right now i feel empty a

00:03:47.080 man is not gonna make you not feel empty if you feel empty it's time to get some therapy because

00:03:52.120 men don't want to deal with this it shouldn't be this hard to find love but all i find myself doing 1.00

00:03:59.320 is scrolling through stupid dating apps finding stupid men who just want sex and i'm so sick of 1.00

00:04:05.400 bit why is it so hard to find love i don't know where do people meet people nowadays being a 1.00

00:04:13.940 single gal in a single world where do i go if i don't want to go on dating apps like i don't like 0.99

00:04:20.180 dating apps i've had them i've tried them i get disappointed i get discouraged it let's be you 0.97

00:04:25.000 have to approach men in public men are not gonna approach anymore we've we've let that shit sail 0.93

00:04:30.220 how many men that you find attractive do you go up to kevin samuels talked about this this is the 0.96

00:04:35.280 world that feminists created it's time to be proactive if you don't like the dating apps 1.00

00:04:40.240 it's time to approach baby let's be real dating apps if you're gonna think this person is

00:04:46.280 attractive you're probably gonna swipe yes and if you don't find them attractive you're gonna swipe

00:04:50.460 no but sometimes people just aren't photogenic they just don't present themselves well through

00:04:55.360 photos that's why i just feel like it's so much better to meet people in person also just like

00:04:59.980 with having dating apps like it just feels forced and i don't want it to feel forced i want to like

00:05:04.580 go out in public meet someone like in the wild both just having to bump into each other and

00:05:09.720 you're like and then you know sparks fly that i just want to know where like where do the single

00:05:14.500 men go where are you going where are you hanging out like if you're in the garage like come out

00:05:19.220 like are you at the lake are you snowmobiles go to a sports game lots of single men go to sports

00:05:24.520 games athletic events are you fishing it's winter time what are you doing right now

00:05:29.240 it's funny and how am i this amazing like and single like are you kidding me and the humility

00:05:37.940 is amazing she's got lots of men love humble women so there's a lot of humility like for the longest 1.00

00:05:43.620 time i just like wasn't worried about it at this point i'm like i'm 31 what is happening like is

00:05:50.460 there just no one left put me on a dating show the bachelor the bachelorette do you really have

00:05:57.560 you seen the caliber of women that are the bachelorette do you really think really all right 1.00

00:06:02.860 i just i don't understand the delusion like women will come at me and they'll say pearl you're this

00:06:07.920 this this and i just say look at i'm an average chick i'm a normal chick that's it i don't need

00:06:12.260 to be crazy good whatever whatever but it's like the audacity of some of these chicks will insult 1.00

00:06:19.860 me and i'm like who do you think you are like do you think you're that okay all right love island

00:06:25.280 i don't even care just put me somewhere so i can actually like interact with the male race

00:06:30.560 i'm not interacting with males anyways that's it thanks for that i have a theory you want to hear

00:06:38.460 my theory this is a dating theory that i just came up with so if you're an interesting woman 0.63

00:06:43.740 i don't care how attractive you are but let's say you're an interesting woman when i say

00:06:47.540 interesting i mean like ambitious smart funny maybe okay you probably have pretty high standards

00:06:53.360 as to like the kind of person successful women become victims of their own success it is very 0.97

00:06:59.640 difficult for successful women to find a man on their level so it leaves us a couple choices you

00:07:05.960 either accept that you will not date someone that makes as much money as you and women do it oprah 1.00

00:07:11.080 has been with her guy for a while you know they're they're the bumble founder you know or die alone

00:07:17.460 or compete and it's so funny i was talking to a successful chick the other day and all she does 0.96

00:07:22.520 is work she's not a hoe she's in shape and it was just so crazy because i kept giving her options of 0.99

00:07:28.040 like places to meet someone you know maybe try the apps try going here try going there and i thought

00:07:33.480 if you approach dating with the same tenacity that you approach every you know everything else

00:07:38.840 you're successful at you'd probably figure something out you know but what do i know what

00:07:44.120 does pearl know would get along with not necessarily even in dating in terms of friends just in general

00:07:49.640 it is hard to find a person that will keep you entertained because there's a lot going on in

00:07:53.960 your mind i mean guys can't we entertain ourselves please i never understood i just was always a

00:07:59.400 chick with hobbies i was always a chick with i was either trying to learn sports i was trying i was

00:08:05.160 trying to learn i love learning and i'm like there's so many things to do i mean i've been

00:08:10.440 taking a little time off of working you know how many things i've learned to cook in the last two

00:08:14.840 months i learned fried chicken i learned pad thai or stir fry sorry not not pad thai i learned um

00:08:21.560 banana bread i learned how to make power balls i learned how to make orange juice i learned how to

00:08:26.040 i could there's more enough to think i took pictures i've improved my steak game that's

00:08:30.760 come up a lot um i'm learning sauces right now you can you can just go and learn anything the

00:08:37.160 internet's so cool because you can become such a talented person just by google and stuff you're

00:08:42.040 not a simple person you're sophisticated in that way now when i think of dating i think of it as

00:08:46.680 almost like entertainment okay and now we wonder why guys aren't dating come on you want to find

00:08:51.240 someone that'll keep you entertained you want someone that'll keep the plot going you want

00:08:54.600 someone that like whenever you spend time with them you don't know what's going to happen next

00:08:59.880 and so if you are that category of woman you're going to try to find a guy who always keeps you 1.00

00:09:05.320 guessing so whether that means he's super smart and interesting or that means he's a total douche

00:09:11.400 and doesn't actually like you and adds a lot of mystery and entertainment to your life you will

00:09:18.200 choose one of those two guys now the thing is that there aren't that many guys in the first

00:09:23.080 category that are interesting funny smart ambitious most of the nice guys at least

00:09:28.280 can be a little predictable and a little bit boring and so you end up going for category two

00:09:32.760 guys alpha fox beta bucks women we admit this ourselves because at least they keep you 1.00

00:09:37.880 entertained in other yeah we look we look for the comfort from the beta guys and you know the fun

00:09:43.800 from the other guys the alpha guys am i right with this theory i totally think i've just

00:09:48.520 uncovered something the red pill figured this out 20 years ago super crazy what do you guys think 0.99

00:09:54.360 you are an idiot recently realized like just now that dating somebody isn't just two pretty 1.00

00:09:59.400 people frolicking in a field and looking at each other funny like i actually have to go near them 1.00

00:10:03.080 i have to pay for dates and i'm broke guys my bank account is negative 44 50 before anybody says you

00:10:08.360 know it's really normal for the younger generation to split dates it's really normal i don't really

00:10:12.840 mind honestly i mean i could go i could go either way i just don't care but you're a romantic maybe

00:10:18.660 you're asexual i have heard it all before i am not a romantic i am not asexual i am just atrocious 0.96

00:10:23.800 i just found out that i get the ick so easily and i think the biggest way that i get the ick is if 0.73

00:10:27.980 you're into me because then I'm like how low are you willing to go if you choose me it's huh real

00:10:34.860 vicious cycle that just concludes and begins with low self-esteem so then I cut myself off from

00:10:39.220 relationship opportunities I give it a couple weeks and then I'm like what was that what was

00:10:43.160 that freak out yeah it's time it's time to go to therapy and a male therapist got it let's get back 0.99

00:10:48.520 or improve you know why do you feel bad about yourself maybe you're a dumb bimbo that doesn't 0.98

00:10:53.200 do anything productive ever i mean then you might feel kind of bad i think i can do it this time and 0.97

00:10:58.200 i never can i don't even think that i can afford to be romantic and if i ask my parents for money

00:11:02.440 and tell them it's to support my bumble lifestyle they will lock me in my room with nothing but a

00:11:06.380 dog bowl of holy water and bhs tapes of nuns might help you know say like love comes to you when you

00:11:16.220 least expect it shut up no that's not true you have to earn it love is earned men understand

00:11:22.700 they have to earn love women have to earn love from men that they actually like the men we don't 0.97

00:11:27.900 like typically you can just walk in and they'll like you anyway the men we actually like you have

00:11:32.660 to be in shape you have to get on his program you have to listen you can't argue there's things that

00:11:37.060 you have to do to earn those type of guys but other way around doesn't work so much i have been

00:11:41.880 trying to not expect it for like six years and also i was speaking to my friend the other day

00:11:49.700 and she was like well like are you like trying to like go out of your way to meet people i'm like

00:11:53.900 no because people are fucking telling me that it comes when you least expect it so here i am like 0.88

00:11:58.440 trying to convince myself i don't want it and i'm just not expecting it so i can get it and it's not 0.97

00:12:02.960 happening but then even when i go out of my way to like go on dating apps it just never works

00:12:07.340 because these people that i'm meeting on my cup of tea are not wanting what i want they just want

00:12:13.500 a casual thing and like as as someone who's never why do they want a casual thing that's what we have

00:12:18.260 to ask ourselves if all the guys just want a casual thing men lock when they find a wife when

00:12:23.520 they find a unicorn men lock it down or they try to they attempt to so the question is what about

00:12:30.080 you do men not like and i don't know i don't know her personally but we have to start asking these

00:12:34.620 questions in order to get what we want so we can improve on our weaknesses men understand they have

00:12:39.820 to improve women i mean we're women any kind of romantic entanglement i'm my first my first

00:12:46.140 relationship is not going to be a fucking casual relationship and yeah yeah but what have you been 0.84

00:12:51.920 doing since because these are the questions men will ask what have you been doing the last six 0.98

00:12:55.940 years you've been having casual relationships unless you've been a virgin unless you're a

00:13:00.580 virgin you haven't done anything the last six years so why does the men that do the men that 0.94

00:13:04.540 actually like you have to pay a higher price than the men you gave it away to for free what one is

00:13:09.880 it should i put myself out there or should i just pretend that i'm not like oh i don't want a

00:13:15.160 boyfriend i don't care these memes and she have so much to pour into someone if she feels empty 1.00

00:13:23.640 she doesn't want love she's desperate for love and there's a major difference between those two

00:13:30.300 she's trying to fill a void inside of herself and the next man who commits to her will never 0.99

00:13:37.400 be able to escape from her this is a potential stalker in the making straight up stalker

00:13:45.120 i don't know why women think meeting chads and tyrones on dating apps is going to make any

00:13:53.500 difference if they meet chads and tyrones in person it's still going to be exactly the same

00:14:00.080 result a pump and a dump it's inevitable if she's ambitious smart funny and has high standards but 1.00

00:14:09.720 can't tell the difference between a guy who is intellectually stimulating and a guy who is

00:14:15.600 simply treating her like I would say she's not smart or has high yeah there's and that's the 0.98

00:14:24.040 thing women we get all these useless jobs and we think we're smarter than we actually are and 1.00

00:14:28.780 instead of being grateful like I am really grateful to be here guys I definitely had an

00:14:33.120 advantage because I'm a woman and I think I could say that easily happily and I'm grateful to be

00:14:38.180 there. Instead, women shit on the men that aren't in their position when they don't have that head 1.00

00:14:42.840 start. But let me know what you guys think in the comments. Make sure you subscribe to the channel, 0.99

00:14:46.780 like the video. I'll talk to you next time.

Pearl - February 24, 2024

Post-Wall Women Are DESPERATE For Men To Approach Them In Public？

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