Pearl - February 23, 2024


She BROKE DOWN After Regretting Divorcing Her Husband?


Episode Stats

Length

14 minutes

Words per Minute

175.52171

Word Count

2,470

Sentence Count

42

Misogynist Sentences

26

Hate Speech Sentences

14


Summary

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The modern woman who regrets divorcing her husband when loneliness strikes hard. She is again blaming her problems and failures to the modern woman s infamous childhood trauma. Why is it so hard for women to take accountability for their actions?

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 all i see are weak and feeble fat and out of shape so i'm your new coach i want to coach you
00:00:09.620 so that i knew she was gonna be a life coach oh i am so good i knew it what up guys welcome to the
00:00:16.760 just hurley things youtube channel today i am going to be reacting to she breaks down after
00:00:22.080 instantly regretting divorcing her husband and hitting the wall let's go doing things alone
00:00:30.000 i've been on my own for so long and i've just been disappointed i choose relationships that
00:00:41.360 i know won't work out because needing someone is like it's too vulnerable for me so where have all
00:00:49.540 the men gone where have all the real men gone now i'm a stronger woman real men what is a real man
00:00:57.600 can we get a definition i need a textbook definition what is a real man but you'll notice
00:01:02.400 women try to train men like this they say you're not a real man if you don't do what i want
00:01:06.880 basically you have to do this this this this and this then you become then you are an apex real
00:01:12.720 man can you imagine whoever i attract now they're gonna be so lucky to have me welcome back i need
00:01:20.800 you to i need you to humble yourself ma'am you got a bunch of tattoos obviously some work done
00:01:25.760 you're old divorced maybe a kid or two i mean you're lucky to be there even an average guy
00:01:31.040 you're lucky to be there but we have this delusion i don't know what it is i mean how old is she like
00:01:36.560 45. just another day and yet we have another modern woman who regrets divorcing her husband
00:01:44.000 when loneliness strikes hard let's first start by watching her break down in tears when she gets
00:01:50.080 tired of doing things alone. So I'm sitting in my closet and I'm having lots of emotions.
00:02:00.080 I've been crying in quite some time and a lot of emotions are coming up because
00:02:07.600 I'm moving. I'm tired of doing things alone.
00:02:11.760 so a lot of emotions come up because of childhood right and things that happened in your childhood
00:02:23.940 and you know not feeling loved things like that and and i had such a hard time asking people for
00:02:31.900 help because i've been on my own for so long and i've just been disappointed that like when people
00:02:41.820 offer me help i literally find it so awkward everyone thinks i'm a strong badass but you guys
00:02:49.020 i still have my moments i still struggle sometimes not every day can be perfect
00:02:57.340 okay we gotta stop crying on tiktok ladies i know it's tempting all right i get it i get it but we
00:03:04.260 gotta we gotta stop we gotta we gotta cut this i mean i'm gonna give you guys a pass when you're
00:03:09.440 a little younger but you're like 40 we gotta i mean this is not a hallmark movie this is destroying
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00:04:22.660 it'll be a better day tomorrow i'll be in a new place
00:04:31.340 here she is again blaming her problems and failures to the modern woman's infamous
00:04:39.600 childhood trauma when you're a person that really wasn't shown a lot of love as a kid
00:04:45.380 or yeah and and this is reasons are not excuses and a lot of times women make them excuses it
00:04:53.740 doesn't matter what trauma you had in your childhood i know people that had very traumatic
00:04:58.900 childhoods that grow up to be tax-paying citizens and good people i also know people that had great
00:05:05.440 childhoods that grow up to be terrible people i mean every bad decision that i have made in my
00:05:11.180 life i did it because i wanted to you know you might not have the experience to know at the time
00:05:16.240 but you do things because you want to it's not because of your childhood it's not because of
00:05:21.760 you didn't find god that's the thing i see this a lot with the women in the church when they talk
00:05:26.840 they never take accountability for their actions it's always i did it because i felt so lost and
00:05:31.860 lonely no you did it because it was fun and you wanted to you did these things because you wanted
00:05:37.260 to that's it this or affection it's like so hard for me as an adult and i realized that
00:05:48.980 i choose relationships that i know won't work out because
00:05:53.380 it scares me it's like i don't i've no because it's scary i choose relationships that don't
00:06:01.920 work out because i want to that's it that's it because i wanted to i haven't needed someone in
00:06:08.600 so long because needing someone is like it's too vulnerable for me these women are just addicted
00:06:17.500 to the drama it fuels their whole body and yeah yeah existence mind you that this woman was married
00:06:23.920 she had what most women want but she decided to leave the marriage for the streets because she
00:06:29.560 probably thought that she could do better it's the grass is never greener on the other side and a lot
00:06:35.040 of times it's because maybe they had a boyfriend or whatever they liked better or you know we get
00:06:40.620 to a certain age and we just want children and you know um biology it's and i don't think it's
00:06:46.900 intentional but women's you know biology starts ticking we want children and the first guy we see
00:06:51.840 we have one with but when we have the most choice it's not who we would have picked and then we
00:06:55.360 divorce them and then ruin that's why i said rather women just die alone rather than marry
00:06:59.260 someone they don't like marry a guy you like be realistic but marry someone you actually like
00:07:03.880 rather than nitpick get fat and stop sleeping with him and just make his life miserable for
00:07:08.440 a lifetime just die alone now she thinks that guys who are dating her now that she is old and
00:07:14.100 used up are lucky to have her check it out really it's not about why me because our experiences are
00:07:20.520 what make us who we are i'm grateful for who i am now and maybe if i had had the white picket fence
00:07:28.020 and the house and the husband who knows maybe i would be getting divorced now with three kids
00:07:32.320 and i wouldn't want that on anyone else either i've been through divorce without kids i can only
00:07:38.160 imagine how hard it is with so i'm grateful that does this woman become a life i see life coach in
00:07:45.580 her future i see it okay had the experiences that i had because now i'm a stronger woman
00:07:51.060 and whoever i attract now they're gonna be so lucky to have me hold on a second you really
00:08:00.220 think that a man that knows his worth would feel lucky to be with a 52 year old oh she's 50 oh god
00:08:06.200 you're half a century old it's just time to retire at that point it's time to just sometimes ladies
00:08:10.940 it is time to take the l it is time to just say you know what my life has just been an ultimate
00:08:15.780 an L and I'm gonna take it over woman that has been ran through by Chad and Tyrone you must be
00:08:21.600 out of your damn mind the only men that are even considering you as a suitable candidate are simps
00:08:26.940 and we all know that women like you don't respect those kinds of men all you do is use them for
00:08:33.200 validation so that you can feel better about yourselves guys as usual we are going to watch
00:08:39.860 now how the dating market humbled this woman in the worst way
00:08:43.900 yeah i mean men lie if it sounds too good to be true probably yes probably yes i will not date a
00:09:03.240 man who doesn't work out who doesn't value his own body and mind to make it better than it was
00:09:08.200 the day before. Not dating a man who doesn't have equal or better than I do. So where have all the
00:09:14.060 men gone? Where have all the real men gone? There it is. The real men. Here we go. All I see are
00:09:21.540 weak and feeble, fat and out of shape. So I'm your new coach. I want to coach you so that I knew she
00:09:31.320 was going to be a life coach. Oh, I am so good. I knew it. I knew it. Women always get the audacity.
00:09:37.320 we always get the freaking audacity who can date a girl like me one who's strong who's confident
00:09:43.780 he's got his shit together i don't need you i mean you were just crying on tiktok how confident
00:09:49.080 weren't you just crying on tiktok am i i want you so if you want a coach shoot me a message
00:09:56.440 ma'am if i want a female coach i would at least go get someone who is hot
00:10:01.580 oh my gosh she's getting butt injections for her workout routine she even gets shot in her butt
00:10:12.820 as you can see right now on the screen so you and a tramp stamp have a nice butt and on top
00:10:18.660 of everything she keeps oh my gosh just squat acting like a 15 year old girl even though she
00:10:23.780 is 52 years old check it out yo you guys listen up i totally just did this in the gym and i'm so
00:10:31.120 proud of myself. He was like a hot guy here. So I literally was like, hey, excuse me. And he was
00:10:40.020 like, yeah. I go, how tall are you? And he told me his height. I was like, oh, you're a good height.
00:10:47.100 I go, because I always say like some guys are too short or something. I don't know. I mean,
00:10:51.500 that's some sort of excuse. And I'm like, you look like you were the perfect height.
00:10:55.380 And I just want to know because I'm single and dating.
00:10:57.440 this is the real reason most modern women divorce their husbands
00:11:02.480 they just want to chase after the top tier guy even though they are just part of a rotation
00:11:08.980 they would prefer to be chad's side chick then to be with a good and when i say this this i don't
00:11:13.840 say with malice i just look at what's happening look at i mean this is what this is what we pick
00:11:18.500 for whatever reason who will love and care for them you can see the excitement on her face for
00:11:23.260 just getting a chance to talk to chad i strongly believe that women only change their attitude and
00:11:29.220 become more friendly and nicer when their beauty start to deteriorate fast with age maybe it's a
00:11:35.720 curse that god put on them no that's true sometimes not always but sometimes the most pretty women
00:11:41.200 the most vicious that they can be humbler and this last clip will oh god what did she do to
00:11:46.440 her lips straight that when i was younger i wish that someone had reached out to me and helped me
00:11:51.920 i wish that in my 20s and my 30s see it's always everyone else's fault it's never her fault hell
00:11:58.340 even now sorry i have an itchy butt now like it's so funny how we're so standoffish like
00:12:03.980 where um meaning people call or reach out to you and first thing you think of is what do they want
00:12:10.980 from me right i don't want to be like that anymore i want to be more receiving and more open and more
00:12:17.340 more genuine and authentic and just that that's my goal 2023 you know when i was younger i wish
00:12:26.100 that someone had reached out to me and helped me i wish that yeah it's always there's always what
00:12:30.960 people can do for you always in my 30s like hell even now sorry i have an itchy butt now like it's
00:12:37.720 so funny how we're so standoffish like where um meaning people call or reach out to you and first
00:12:45.380 thing you think of is what do they want for me right I don't want to be like that anymore but
00:12:50.640 it's never what can I do for them do you see the most feminine women I always say it's selflessness
00:12:55.640 that's what femininity is it's not freaking all the shit you guys get done it's not fashion it's
00:13:00.700 none of that it is being selfless be more receiving and more open and more more genuine
00:13:07.080 in authentic and just that that's my goal 2023 what goes around always comes back around treat
00:13:16.400 people as you would like to be treated correct correct you attract what you are when you are up
00:13:21.560 and when you will be on your way down people will recognize yeah you and treat you accordingly
00:13:27.340 well guys you know i've had enough of this chick yeah and and this is an important lesson you know
00:13:32.360 we can sit and laugh at these chicks but really i think we should be thankful that they're being
00:13:37.880 open and honest about this stuff because you see how life plays out with the decisions that women
00:13:42.420 make and many times we see social media and it paints this picture that we can divorce our
00:13:47.680 husbands and that the grass is greener on the other side but we're seeing firsthand that women
00:13:52.600 are going to be miserable the next 50 years so enjoy the decline less competition for us you
00:13:59.240 know what ladies like the video on your way out guys subscribe and I'll talk to you next time