Pearl - Reacting to MY Debate w OF GIRLS

00:00:00.000 what is up my ninjas welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity

00:00:07.840 network i'm kind of tired today um forgive me if i'm a little low energy but

00:00:13.280 i have to react to some horrors and that's just you know it just doesn't put me in the best mood

00:00:18.720 but i'm doing another one of these debates this weekend i guess i'm going to debate some

00:00:23.680 crazy lindsey clancy supporters um doug mpa they said i could pick the moderator next time

00:00:30.880 so if you have any suggestions text me them all right so we're gonna react to jasmine jafari and 1.00

00:00:38.200 me uh debating now you'll notice that most liberal women are losers because they either 1.00

00:00:47.060 um have a bunch of tattoos have had no real jobs or are sex workers so it's kind of but like the 1.00

00:00:56.100 1980s shared custody is the default in many states now and a lot of the times when women you're

00:01:01.700 saying get custody it's because they many states that's just not true they mutually agree to that

00:01:07.780 this idea that men are getting kicked out of their hounds and they're like houses and they're kicking 0.80

00:01:11.060 and screaming that's not true a lot of men that is true this is what women women just eternally 1.00

00:01:17.980 gaslight she has no you bitch you're a sex worker what the fuck do you know do you know what i mean 1.00

00:01:23.520 they're getting divorced someone in my comment section said pearl you don't think you're better 1.00

00:01:27.860 than people not many people but yeah sex workers yeah bitchy ones with attitudes yeah want the 1.00

00:01:36.260 best thing for the children and if the mom kept is the primary parent they typically agree to that 1.00

00:01:41.260 that's why they're in most of these cases are decided outside of court yeah again how does

00:01:47.000 she know that they're decided outside of court because men have to pay a bunch of money to fight

00:01:54.100 they don't have time or money to fight because they have to pay both lawyers fees in a lot of

00:01:57.840 states by them and you say oh it's because lawyers are telling them that that's not true if there's

00:02:03.240 lawyer that's telling them that then that's a bad lawyer because do you see this moderation

00:02:08.200 let her finish that's just not what the laws are okay so the issue you're going to get is

00:02:13.720 a lot of men don't have unlimited funds to fight for custody so a lot of men do make concessions

00:02:19.720 um when it comes to um the custody battle because one they don't want to fight they

00:02:25.480 don't want to fight with this woman for 18 years and can keep being dragged to court

00:02:33.080 And two, it gets expensive, you know, not everybody, not everybody has unlimited funds 0.99

00:02:40.020 in order to get divorced.

00:02:42.000 The other thing is I'm just going to stick to it. 0.99

00:02:44.700 Really, I think it's a bad deal because women get the majority of child support and alimony 1.00

00:02:48.440 payments.

00:02:49.060 And that is a, you know, 18 years is a long time.

00:02:51.860 That's a really big risk for a man to take. 0.67

00:02:54.380 And so if women are getting the majority of payments, you are always going to be at risk.

00:02:58.400 And an even bigger thing is the custody. 0.98

00:03:00.140 You don't have any ability to, you know, the kids belong to the woman in this country 0.91

00:03:05.180 because they get custody the majority of the time. 0.80

00:03:07.800 So what I would say is marriage is a bad deal for men because of the incentive structure.

00:03:12.600 They also get more child support and more alimony based on how much time they have with the kids.

00:03:19.160 Yeah, go ahead. 1.00

00:03:19.840 I'll let her go uninterrupted.

00:03:21.800 You've also mentioned a lot.

00:03:22.780 Yeah, go ahead.

00:03:23.780 Yeah, go ahead.

00:03:24.340 Let her talk uninterrupted to respond.

00:03:25.660 You said a lot there.

00:03:26.280 Go ahead.

00:03:26.520 Do you see how the simps are?

00:03:29.160 it's just incredible

00:03:30.340 this is so much worse than I remember

00:03:33.120 this is so much worse than I remember

00:03:34.920 because the guy in the middle

00:03:36.900 he said you said a lot

00:03:41.240 there

00:03:41.600 she's been talking the whole time

00:03:44.120 I bet we chat GPT'd it

00:03:46.060 I'm so sick of doing these debates

00:03:48.480 and it's just oh my god

00:03:50.460 these moderators never have

00:03:53.060 they'll have a back and forth

00:03:54.320 they're just monologuing

00:03:55.100 then we have problems

00:03:57.220 so we're just

00:03:57.740 Okay, so I'll just give all my points.

00:04:00.880 I'll just read off my notes at this point.

00:04:02.120 Okay, so...

00:04:04.120 It's just incredible.

00:04:13.020 It's just incredible. 1.00

00:04:14.380 You talk the majority of the time, bitch. 1.00

00:04:17.520 First of all, this... 1.00

00:04:18.880 She said so many things, I don't even know where to start. 1.00

00:04:21.000 So she said that women get the custody and the... 1.00

00:04:23.720 So even if you look at... 1.00

00:04:24.940 You don't know where to start because you're retarded. 1.00

00:04:26.160 I mean, that's really what it is. 1.00

00:04:37.200 I just watched Marquette talking with Grace Thorpe.

00:04:41.340 I should react to her reacting.

00:04:43.920 I don't know.

00:04:46.040 Marquette.

00:04:51.660 You know, he's just a little bad faith for me.

00:04:54.580 it's kind of so i don't really care what he has to say i gotta be honest

00:04:58.900 um okay marriage is in total right most men don't even get divorced so when you say it's a bad deal

00:05:12.280 for men because men are the ones that are paying the majority of the child support and alimony but

00:05:16.280 you don't even know what percentage that is and we know it's the vast vast vast minority of marriage

00:05:20.460 i actually looked it up it's 15 out of 50 basically get um bad custody like really

00:05:28.700 obscenely bad custody deals 15 out of 100 i agree pearl that's i was laughing on

00:05:35.900 at them talking he was hitting on grace i mean i guess i could watch it but

00:05:43.420 i don't know he just kind of seems like yeah he tried to say pearl yeah okay i'll tell you

00:05:49.340 you what happened i'll tell you what happened i'm on this stream for like two hours with all these

00:05:55.320 black people okay and i'm cooking but at the time i had a boyfriend and i'm thinking okay i gotta

00:06:01.840 get off this stream we're gonna go to bed soon marquette comes on and just demands my time and 0.98

00:06:08.680 attention i hate entitled people ninja who are you you just aren't you aren't 0.80

00:06:18.660 i don't think i'm that awesome or great 0.99

00:06:23.280 but yeah it's just ninja shit you know what i mean like i hate ninjas that pretend to not 0.99

00:06:30.780 be ninjas but then they do ninja shit pearl better come to my live stream or she's afraid i 0.99

00:06:35.980 I mean, oh, no, I'm so scared. 0.99

00:06:42.380 It's just, you know, I hate when insufferable people say you're afraid of them.

00:06:46.700 It's kind of like this, girl.

00:06:52.540 No one's afraid of you. 1.00

00:06:53.840 You guys are just insufferable. 0.99

00:06:56.780 You're insufferable. 0.99

00:07:04.780 Yeah.

00:07:06.940 sweet auntie thank you i mean look um i just try to be accurate just that end in this and we also

00:07:15.100 know child support is not contingent upon actually being um married child support is about being the

00:07:21.340 father and then you just jump to paternity fraud i don't know what that has to do with marriage we 1.00

00:07:25.180 know that the majority so what do you guys think when she's doing these stupid monologues and 0.99

00:07:29.980 saying stuff that's not true i'm gonna see if andrew's busy 0.98

00:07:38.380 i'm gonna see if andrew's busy he can give me some some tips

00:07:54.700 doug did you buy her only fans

00:07:59.980 hello hey andrew i'm on stream just so you know

00:08:05.820 um are you are you busy by chance

00:08:10.740 uh i actually am at the moment oh you're out okay i had a i had a debate question for you so

00:08:19.280 okay go ahead i i can ask is that okay okay um what do you do when the so the one issue i have

00:08:28.480 is when they monologue like okay you'll have a moderator right and then they'll monologue

00:08:34.600 and I won't interrupt them and then when I start to go they interrupt me right and then I say hey

00:08:41.800 uh moderator she's interrupting me and then it's crazy because then like if I if I do the same 0.98

00:08:51.680 thing back to her then they yell at me it's like one-sided and I'm like what is this bullshit

00:08:57.040 it so i don't know how do you have a bias moderator but for your debate style you might 0.94

00:09:03.160 just want to ask for timed rounds yeah ask for two minute back and forth okay maybe that's what

00:09:10.860 i'll do the next time yep ask for two minute back and forth and then also ask for cross exams say

00:09:17.960 like you want 10 minutes of being able to ask your questions and have an answer and maybe 10

00:09:23.060 minutes at the same okay because yeah i did bet did you see the last debate i did

00:09:29.380 i did not who was it with it was a 10 versus one i did better i think you'd be proud

00:09:35.540 uh was it on jubilee no no it was with um sean um sean kelly

00:09:41.540 kelly okay gotcha yeah yeah i'll check it out yeah the i asked for as for time rounds um also

00:09:49.620 kelly's notoriously terrible moderator no they brought in someone else and he was kind of he was

00:09:55.400 kind of bad too but yeah the they were just asking me um what demands i are like how i wanted to fix

00:10:03.820 it for next time and i was just i was thinking as for time grounds time ground if you're doing it

00:10:10.440 and if you're doing uh groups then ask for like 20 seconds back and forth right okay 20 seconds

00:10:16.540 uninterrupted than you so it's that way uh you can actually get your points out yeah because

00:10:23.060 i don't mind interruptions if it's good faith do you know what i mean but whenever they just 1.00

00:10:27.800 start being assholes for no reason then you need it timed so it's just i hate women sometimes but 0.64

00:10:35.260 yeah okay i would do it timed rounds for us timed rounds okay all right thanks andrew 0.99

00:10:41.580 all right bye

00:10:43.640 all right

00:10:46.480 timed rounds

00:10:52.200 okay

00:10:52.720 maybe that's

00:10:58.600 the solution 0.93

00:10:59.440 we have marriages actually end up as a benefit for men they get the benefit of companionship

00:11:14.780 they have live longer lives they have better health i don't know how you can make the case

00:11:19.060 that marriage in general is a bad deal for men and under your purview it should be getting much

00:11:23.140 better as women are paying more of the alimony as alimony payments from men to women are getting 0.61

00:11:27.960 much less as shared custody is the default and when you say women well it's very expensive it's

00:11:32.620 expensive for women too right if if both people have to go to court because they both want custody 0.87

00:11:38.800 then they're both paying no because the men often are forced to pay the woman's legal fees 1.00

00:11:44.700 and women are more likely and women are more like 1.00

00:11:47.280 let her finish it's it's it's incredible you moderate the one bitch 1.00

00:11:55.780 it's it's just an aghast it's the worst moderation i've ever seen in my life to actually 1.00

00:12:05.520 have their standard of living decrease after merit after a divorce and more likely to have

00:12:09.880 to seek out government why do we have phrases like it's cheaper to keep her okay if we want

00:12:14.020 to go by phrases why do we have phrases like a good man is hard to find men are dogs what if 0.98

00:12:19.120 we're just going to do phrases this becomes a stupid argument i would agree a good man is hard 0.99

00:12:23.380 to find so okay so is marriage a bad deal for women then no because there's more at the free 0.93

00:12:28.320 set it so good people are hard to find in general but behind every great man is a great woman is

00:12:33.860 that you did just ask her a question sorry sorry go ahead all right um i don't know she went through

00:12:39.320 a lot so oh you said you said that men don't most men don't get divorced um right because

00:12:44.880 most men don't want to lose their kids their house and pay child support and alimony and that's

00:12:49.800 always and that's always under a constant threat in a marriage and where are you getting that from

00:12:55.080 um the experience of millions of men everywhere and if you talk you've talked to millions of men

00:13:00.120 where have you found them one example of a debater sticking to one fact is candace owens and andrew

00:13:10.920 wilson where she focused on that he did not know the charges and wouldn't allow the conversation 0.99

00:13:14.920 to move on that moment was massive yeah women are just terrible people honestly where have you 1.00

00:13:22.820 sourced these millions of i've interviewed over a thousand yeah from where where are you getting 1.00

00:13:26.520 them from england no where are you or where are you going street um collins just everywhere so

00:13:35.720 you're stopping rent you've stopped a thousand men randomly on the street and they i mean i get

00:13:40.140 it you you might you might discredit it it's fine if you don't agree but i'm just telling you what

00:13:44.760 i've seen i'm asking you about your methodology for uh and it's crazy because i always say before

00:13:53.500 these debates and i'm okay with statistics but you need to submit your stats ahead of time so

00:14:00.100 we can have a conversation past where it's not just going back and forth about the stats um

00:14:05.980 thanks for being the a voice for the see-through sisterhood but they but aren't loud enough to be

00:14:11.120 hurt over 304s I know I know oh that's a good stat 16 billion of child support goes I'm gonna 0.99

00:14:22.500 write that down I got tired at the end because she was just so exhausting

00:14:41.120 for this study that you've conducted well i've been i mean i've been interviewing people for

00:14:56.040 years yeah but you know what a selection bias is yeah i know what that is what is it yeah i mean

00:15:01.280 it's it's basically saying you're selecting for different like people that have had bad experiences

00:15:05.500 yeah so if i was going to do a documentary on like women who've had bad experiences i could

00:15:10.620 probably interview a thousand women who've had bad experiences that's why you can't matter you can

00:15:15.180 believe that and what i would say is that you know um if it doesn't match with your personal

00:15:19.820 experience then you don't have to believe it so fine sure if it's just all about women women

00:15:24.700 can't stand you not caring to change their opinion i'm like all right don't believe me 1.00

00:15:34.300 i don't need i don't care you're a hooker you're a hooker 0.99

00:15:41.500 you're a hooker i mean i mean that's really what it comes personal experience and you believe 0.99

00:15:45.660 marriage is a bad deal for men based on your personal experience and i believe i would still 0.99

00:15:49.580 say i would i believe it's a bad deal because men pay the majority of alimony child support and lose

00:15:54.860 custody so that sticks that's literally my reason i would say the majority of men that are married

00:15:59.740 are gaining more benefit than that it's a very small percentage i believe marriage is a good

00:16:03.660 deal for men not just because of my personal experience but because of the data so what do

00:16:07.500 men get out of marriage uh they live longer they're typically healthier they're at much lower

00:16:11.900 risk of contracting a bunch of disease uh illnesses like cardiovascular uh heart problems even cancer

00:16:17.820 they're more likely to get preventative care they're more likely to get diagnosed sooner

00:16:21.500 less likely causation no and even when they get cancer they're more likely to survive and they're

00:16:26.540 more likely to live longer so like even prostate cancer married men even controlling for how happy

00:16:31.500 they are in the marriage they actually do live longer also they're less like they're more likely

00:16:35.980 to eat well they're more likely to exercise to what the woman yes because even when a death of

00:16:41.100 a spouse like happens men that all that tends to go down and that actually uh rings true for men

00:16:45.420 even when their wives are like hospitalized men typically have far worse nutrition and like health 0.84

00:16:50.140 when there's not a woman in their life that is just so not true because women make men fat 0.97

00:16:57.500 what are you talking about i was so tired oh she was just exhausting 0.99

00:17:02.380 oh my god women like that here's the thing it's funny because what'll happen is they're 1.00

00:17:08.840 very narcissistic so they feel like they won um but they're just such bitches you know what i mean 1.00

00:17:15.960 um and the other thing correlation doesn't equal causation so the thing is women pick 1.00

00:17:23.680 men that are healthy for marriage they pick they pick men it's all of these statistics

00:17:29.660 are just meant to confuse you um no the data can be denied actually because correlation doesn't

00:17:37.420 mean causation you can't control for all of the variables across like a 50-year lifespan

00:17:43.140 yeah so then why is women's obesity rate higher uh because men women just carry more fat women

00:17:49.640 have higher visceral fat percentages yeah and a lot of the fat like you're like women gain weight 1.00

00:17:53.360 after marriage yeah some of that goes to our ass and tits and it's hot men's it's not hot and they 0.99

00:17:57.560 go bald right but the average woman is like 35 40 body fat yeah because we carry babies and we got 1.00

00:18:04.280 titties no because women are overweight in this country including her including her she just 1.00

00:18:09.980 gets lipo to suck the fat out but she's fat too you can tell um and men aren't women are more 0.99

00:18:19.080 overweight no after if people get married who gains more weight um and when you say visceral

00:18:25.660 fat that's my point like a lot of men if they want to marry a woman and the woman gains a little

00:18:30.380 weight sometimes that could be attractive depending on the and even for men for black guys yeah

00:18:38.620 but they're going bald too we're not going bald so now what maybe can you speak in the mic i'm sorry

00:18:43.580 i just thought something

00:18:47.180 what's funny i forgot what she said i said men go bald and they get fat so now what okay well again

00:18:54.380 men are still the ones paying child support alimony so you're just jumping so no i mean i

00:18:59.320 would still say that's the main reason so it's a better deal than it used to be because they're

00:19:03.360 paying less alimony and they're um they're getting more custody so it's getting better and better

00:19:08.440 every year worse deal still because the obesity rate in this country for women is higher than it

00:19:13.440 was 100 years ago okay and so it is for men on top of that there's women with only fans and that

00:19:17.760 have done sex work in the past um that's a significant percentage i mean what i'm sorry

00:19:22.260 a significant percentage of the population is doing only fans yeah good and and men don't have

00:19:26.740 to if she keeps talking well yeah i mean you did just say a statement she was responding to

00:19:32.180 i mean we gotta go we gotta be fair here that's what all i'm saying go ahead

00:19:35.860 go ahead and respond to her statement then it comes go ahead i don't think that

00:19:40.180 this is the worst moderator i swear to god i have ever seen

00:19:47.060 i i can't even i like watching this back it's so much worse 0.99

00:19:52.260 than when i was doing it it's i'm so sick of white guys catering to the women it just never 0.93

00:19:58.180 ends it never ends bruh um okay men who are like oh i don't want to get married they're so worried

00:20:14.900 that there are no women that don't do only fans well it might not be only fans but you know it

00:20:20.680 could be that she slept with someone they know that's a big thing how is that a big thing men

00:20:24.980 typically don't want to marry women i mean and they can't find women that have got another answer 1.00

00:20:29.680 yeah yeah go ahead thank you oh my god this woman is so insufferable 1.00

00:20:35.200 yeah i need to i need to can but it's harder i mean that's the quality of women has gone down 1.00

00:20:42.840 if you look at std rates obesity rates um and women that do sex work as well as women that

00:20:49.220 openly say they hate men i don't think women should openly say they hate yeah i mean but

00:20:53.460 when polled like a third do roughly i would say all of the things you just said about women also

00:20:59.040 ring true for men men are have stds men are getting more obese than they were a hundred years ago but

00:21:03.680 we're not talking about women i'm asking what men get out of marriage so yeah right but from a man's

00:21:08.740 point of view um what does he get he gets he gets women that are on average overweight he gets a

00:21:14.940 woman that could possibly have an STD or an extreme sexual history he gets one maybe two kids

00:21:21.400 and the risk of alimony child support and other legal consequences so what's the difference 0.57

00:21:28.320 between just living with a woman well I think that like a hundred years ago when you're saying

00:21:31.820 when you're comparing that for women but we're not allowed to compare the obesity rates to men

00:21:35.940 so a man who's kind of fat a man who's kind of fat could get a woman who's kind of fat

00:21:40.400 men have different preferences right like some men like women i like how the girl in the back 1.00

00:21:45.040 is nodding but you're a lesbian what the fuck do you know you're you're what the fuck you're 1.00

00:21:51.460 you're a lesbian that are built you know like linebackers some of them and others don't like 1.00

00:22:00.120 that right so it's like you you i don't think you can you see she's 0.97

00:22:06.160 it yeah a lot of men i don't think it's reasonable for a man who's obese and balding to be like i

00:22:13.920 don't want a woman who's obese and balding when you compare stats you also have to look at okay 0.54

00:22:18.240 what are women getting out of it and is that a good deal a man who's like a loser and is like 0.97

00:22:22.560 well i want a girl who's a supermodel and gives me four kids i don't think he should get married

00:22:27.200 you're right i'm no disagreement okay no disagreement but what i do disagree is that

00:22:33.040 like i'm just going back to what do men get out of marriage and if you look at the std rates

00:22:38.560 no but it's still what do they get out of it they don't get companionship if the divorce rate is

00:22:43.200 like seven years and even and even and even if they do get married a good percent of women are 1.00

00:22:49.200 insufferable nagging wives that just like even like the fact that we can't stick to the rules 1.00

00:22:54.080 caught like you can't show it shows the quality of women in america um on top of that you know 0.91

00:23:00.080 women are coming with a lot of debt now so women are women have debt so financially are worse off 0.51

00:23:06.400 than before they're fatter than before so all i'm asking is what do men get out of marriage okay so 0.99

00:23:11.040 let me before they used to get like four kids and the woman reasonably would be with him for life

00:23:15.120 and she couldn't legally retaliate okay but now women don't women don't get dude moderate oh my 1.00

00:23:22.960 god i'm gonna crash out oh my god these bitches are so insufferable so insufferable sorry i didn't 1.00

00:23:32.860 me to scream. They're just, I'm that. Go ahead. Okay. So I'll tell you once again, what men are 1.00

00:23:53.760 getting out of marriage. Men who are not married are more likely to have deaths of despair. They're

00:23:58.300 more like don't get emotional why don't you not get emotional why don't you do it then why don't

00:24:04.360 you go do it you do it you do it likely to commit suicide they're more likely to develop a lot of

00:24:18.520 men are nine times more likely to commit suicide after a divorce diseases they're more likely to

00:24:22.820 experience loneliness they're less likely to report being happy um never married men are not

00:24:27.760 faring off better than married men on any metric at all um a self-reported study that's not good

00:24:34.100 data for happiness okay so what about the fact that they're making more money than their their

00:24:39.740 living lives no even when you even when you uh even when you factor that in there is a marriage

00:24:45.500 premium right because there's a reason to make more money because if you have more expenses you

00:24:49.160 have to make more money no even absolutely it's not like when you said to yumi you were like oh

00:24:54.140 um men they don't have more savings that's not true well i'm saying that they have more savings

00:24:59.660 men women pick hard-working men anyways women pick happy men anyways but i'm telling you even

00:25:07.260 women pick hard-working men women so of course he's going to make more money if he has a reason

00:25:12.780 to because he has more expenses like they the dad usually has to pay for college the dad usually has 0.80

00:25:17.580 to pay for the wife's spending habits because women do make 85 percent of consumer buying

00:25:21.980 there's a there's a lending tree survey that showed that men actually are more likely to spend

00:25:27.100 on uh unnecessary things they're more likely also to spend on like gambling alcohol drugs they're

00:25:33.180 less likely to do all that when they're married so is that not a benefit right but unnecessary

00:25:36.860 according to who and that's the thing like whoever made that survey gets to maybe gambling and drugs 1.00

00:25:41.980 yeah but whoever made that survey like a lot of women think that um cosmetic enhancements are

00:25:46.780 necessary so i don't think any survey has considered that yeah but my point is again

00:25:51.260 like i'm just going off of what i'm seeing and like women if we make 85 percent of consumer 0.62

00:25:57.020 buying decisions that means we're doing the majority of spending but so but also women are 0.89

00:26:01.660 also the ones buying the things for the home so it's not like just because the the dad's like 0.95

00:26:06.380 unnecessary things okay we need to buy uh furniture and the woman's picking the furniture

00:26:11.180 you think that's uh yeah go ahead and i guess you can get your closing in here and we'll kick it off

00:26:14.780 on that go ahead yeah so i feel like pearl just bases all of her data on like looking specifically

00:26:20.460 for men who have had negative experiences, which is why it's really important for people to

00:26:25.320 understand what selection bias is and to actually look at the overall statistical evidence for her

00:26:30.500 claims. When she says, oh, it's a bad deal for men because they might have to pay alimony,

00:26:35.500 but she can't even say what percentage of people that are getting married are paying alimony. And

00:26:39.480 she also can't acknowledge that marriage might be becoming a better deal for men as more women are

00:26:44.160 having to pay alimony and men are less likely to have to pay alimony. Child custody and, I mean, 0.94

00:26:49.400 child support has nothing to do with marriage. It has to do with being a parent. And when we look

00:26:55.820 at that, when men are married, they tend to fare off on almost better on almost every metric when

00:27:00.740 they don't get divorced. Even her statistics, like men are more likely to commit suicide after a

00:27:05.240 divorce. That's compared to divorced women. If you actually look at married men versus unmarried men, 1.00

00:27:10.800 right, you see that unmarried men are way more likely to commit suicide, have drug addiction

00:27:16.420 problems and when she says oh no women just pick men that are healthier no actually uh you see we

00:27:21.980 see that when uh spouses get together their like risk of like health issues are actually pretty

00:27:26.440 similar because people do this thing called assortative mating where they pick spouses

00:27:30.300 based on like that are very similar to them um but when you have a partner then those those

00:27:37.140 difficult moments in your life like let's say you get diagnosed with a difficult disease becomes

00:27:40.800 easier we're made to want to love each other like pair bonding and finding a person that you

00:27:46.400 really like and want to spend time with and want to be with maybe forever. Like, I don't think you

00:27:50.480 have to get married. I think those are people that typically are happier. I think they're

00:27:55.240 healthier. I think it is an unhealthy view on relationships for either side to hate or have a

00:28:01.180 distrust of 50% of the population and close themselves off to one of the greatest parts

00:28:05.880 of the human experience, which is partnership with the opposite gender. All right. Any closer 1.00

00:28:11.280 thoughts um i would say that a hundred years ago men got a debt-free virgin with no tattoos and the

00:28:16.800 marriage lasted for life today the average marriage is seven to eight years no matter how much these

00:28:21.040 women try to gaslight um if it was such a good deal a bunch of men would be super excited to 0.55

00:28:25.520 sign up and they're just not going to you're going to see the marriage rate and the birth 1.00

00:28:28.400 rate continue to fall and civilization we are on a collapse and what women are going to do is 0.99

00:28:32.560 they're going to try to gaslight you into marriage um but yeah this is just kind of the way it's 1.00

00:28:37.120 going so all right thank you so much i would like to take a break i didn't take a leak yeah i'm gonna

00:28:44.960 go to the bathroom i'll let y'all go first so once again i noticed this as we were watching this

00:28:55.280 they always use the stat about oh yeah married men live longer but they always talk about

00:29:01.200 all these physical benefits but they don't talk about the mental aspect of it

00:29:07.120 because once again no one cares about men's mental health you have to ask men uh why like 0.64

00:29:16.080 how does marriage affect their mental health and their freaky emotional health being a slave to a

00:29:22.160 woman nothing you can't do anything right you have to protect and provide and get nothing in return

00:29:29.680 that's mental anguish and mental and emotional abuse more than physical abuse but they always

00:29:35.520 you said oh yeah mary's married men live longer blah blah blah blah blah blah well they may live

00:29:41.920 longer but um what kind of life are they living understand what i'm saying yeah i agree

00:29:54.640 i could tell you were tired after that one that one was brutal 1.00

00:29:59.440 yo it's just these women it's like they get off on being insufferable 0.99

00:30:05.520 it is lower than it's been since the civil war so that's based on census data okay so your argument 0.97

00:30:12.200 is that marriage is a bad deal for men because of women is that what you're saying i'm saying

00:30:15.640 that marriage is a bad deal for men because of the risk of divorce alimony child support and

00:30:19.840 losing everything they worked for okay so i believe that marriage is a bad deal for men

00:30:24.100 i disagree with you i think that marriage is emotionally physically and financially beneficial

00:30:27.620 for men married men on average live longer married men on average on top of that and that's

00:30:32.880 do you like do you see how bad this is do you see it's i just can't even put into words

00:30:45.360 i would have at this rate i would have had no moderator i think no moderator would have been

00:30:49.760 better and guys this is another case there are people where all they do is see clips of pearl 0.90

00:30:56.960 davis online and they can't wait to get in front of her and give her a piece of her mind that's

00:31:03.520 exactly what happened with this girl she just couldn't wait she's like i'm gonna talk to i'm

00:31:09.520 gonna give pearl davis a piece of my mind it was a complete and total bad faith yeah

00:31:18.080 married men are twice as likely as unmarried men to state that they're very happy

00:31:21.920 And on top of that, married men earn 10 to 20% more

00:31:25.140 from their jobs than unmarried men. 0.84

00:31:27.300 Yeah, so the money I would attribute 1.00

00:31:28.820 to women's spending habits. 1.00

00:31:30.060 So women make 85% of consumer buying decisions. 0.99

00:31:32.940 Women also put their top purchases 0.99

00:31:35.360 on their husband's credit card. 1.00

00:31:36.860 So that's why they make more money.

00:31:38.720 They didn't say they have more savings.

00:31:40.220 Then why do they retire with 10 times

00:31:41.540 even about this?

00:31:42.380 Yeah, one at a time, one at a time. 1.00

00:31:44.180 Happiness is just women taking credit for everything. 1.00

00:31:46.720 So people that get married, 1.00

00:31:48.320 you tend to be a happy person if you get married.

00:31:50.940 They're selected because they're happy, good, high earning in the future people.

00:31:55.740 I don't think it's because of marriage.

00:31:56.980 I think they're just that kind of person.

00:31:58.020 So where are your sources from?

00:31:58.800 So again, what I would say after marriage, all of the happiness that had during.

00:32:05.000 Yeah.

00:32:05.940 This whole sources thing, guys, you have to understand Pearl's in better faith because she doesn't get into the sources thing.

00:32:13.660 Can you imagine, okay, where are your sources?

00:32:18.740 Pearl could just say, where are your sources?

00:32:20.840 where are they you could just say sources back and forth but pearl is trying to move the conversation

00:32:26.840 forward every single oh where are your sources all pearl has to do is say okay where are yours

00:32:34.520 you can just source back and forth but pearl is is acting in good faith and once again

00:32:40.120 wants to move the conversation forward

00:32:44.680 um is it kind of goes down because after men are nine times more likely to commit

00:32:50.120 suicide um they're also more likely to put be put on child support and alimony and women are more

00:32:56.340 likely to get the house and the children so you could you could say that in the beginning you 1.00

00:33:01.440 could say is she just gonna keep doing this yeah yeah if we we could just let her finish and then

00:33:05.660 you could have so you could you could argue that during the marriage it's good but it's not offset

00:33:10.680 by the risk of divorce um and i've just seen too many men that have had their lives ruined where

00:33:15.320 they can't see their children um and they're put on absurd amounts of alimony and child support

00:33:20.500 so especially for men that don't make a lot of money um child support can lead them to be

00:33:25.440 homeless or also addicted to drugs because they get so behind on payments now oh so i'm sorry

00:33:31.560 i hate this guy i hate i you know it's i'm getting madder because you know i was kind of pissed off

00:33:40.020 during this but watching it back i just get it's this is so absurd it's so absurd it's he'll let 0.99

00:33:49.140 these model it i'm so sick of white guys catering to the crazy women i'm so sick of it i want to 0.88

00:33:56.420 let her respond to what you said already so what are your sources for this do you have any 0.95

00:34:00.260 legitimate sources for which part for every single part so you stated typically sources sources sources 1.00

00:34:08.420 where are your sources sources sources where are yours women spend more throughout the marriage

00:34:13.620 then why do they retire women wait wait why do married men retire with 10 times the amount of

00:34:18.020 assets just for just for housekeeping if if i turn it over to y'all just for going forward if 0.64

00:34:22.180 one of y'all ask the other person a question you like turn the mic back over to him just so going

00:34:25.940 forward so if you're gonna ask a question just make sure you let me know it's rhetorical or if

00:34:29.620 it's a real question but go ahead and finish out your question yes so if married men earn more money

00:34:34.820 because women spend more money throughout the duration of the relationship then why do married

00:34:38.580 men on average retire with 10 times the amount of assets well one women pick men that make more

00:34:43.300 money for marriage i don't think it's because of the marriage so what's your source and two well

00:34:48.100 my source is women saying they want to make merry men all the sources trust me bro your source is

00:34:53.060 literally just he said she said well the average earning you just said that men earn more like 0.58

00:34:57.300 women are the ones picking them for my sources the general social survey the institute for family

00:35:01.220 studies you know that you know the source name congratulations okay what i'm what i'm saying is

00:35:07.620 that well it's it's developed from census data they get the they get the um the incomes of

00:35:12.740 married men so all of your arguments revolve around divorce you're talking about divorce as

00:35:16.900 if it's this inevitability of marriage well it's about half the prompt is marriage is a bad deal

00:35:21.460 for men not so bad it's about half it's not about half it's actually steadily declining as of last

00:35:26.020 year it's 40 right because less people are getting married that's not necessarily true of the

00:35:30.180 percentage of people who get married the marriage rate 40 could divorce that's not one at a time

00:35:34.820 the marriage rate is lower than it's been since the civil war so that's based on census data okay

00:35:39.220 so your argument is that marriage is a bad deal for men because of women is that what you're

00:35:42.580 saying i'm saying yes yes that's what we're saying yes child support and losing everything they

00:35:49.940 worked for and all of those things you attribute to women um women are the ones enforcing those

00:35:54.580 laws yes okay so how about your mom pearl we're gonna talk your parents are happily married your

00:36:00.820 parents have 10 children together your mom was on the un women's board of directors your mom

00:36:06.740 moderator nothing nothing moderator founded a non-profit called bx i will i will i will i will

00:36:13.140 i will just say this i i'd rather keep the families out of this if we can let's try to keep it to the

00:36:17.780 topic i can i don't want people talking about my mama i don't think that's uh appropriate i think

00:36:22.660 think maybe if we possible let's try what do you like again get your kid gloves off god these men 0.99

00:36:28.780 are just such bitches these days sorry i think i'm pmsing but i'm like god what the no because 0.99

00:36:37.340 this is what i mean when men are soft on bitchy women do you see how i get tortured i get tortured 1.00

00:36:43.580 because you you are the moderator you have the enforcement kick the bitch out kick her out i 1.00

00:36:50.080 have the enforcement they're like not uh do this your only source is your anecdotal experience 0.98

00:37:00.400 it's census data it's not census data that's not what you said earlier you just said that's

00:37:04.800 what i've heard from i think you're just here to argue so what do you mean yeah we're all here to 1.00

00:37:09.120 argue this is a debate show i mean like what are you talking about arguing and debating you stupid 0.99

00:37:14.880 broad that's why the this whole blood sport debate i don't even they shouldn't even use that term 0.99

00:37:21.120 debate like i said they want to see the steel chairs and the stone cold stunners before they

00:37:27.360 see a debate and this is exactly what it looks like i mean it just it doesn't matter you want

00:37:32.960 this pearl so well i mean she's she's being combative yeah i mean yeah we are being about it

00:37:37.600 that's fine let's i mean let's let's uh let's let's move forward here let's uh move past this

00:37:41.280 last thing what was your what is your next point here that it's a bad deal for

00:37:44.720 men or it's a good deal for men what marriage is a better indicator of

00:37:47.760 happiness in men than regular sex than income and education

00:37:51.520 this is proven by the general social survey you said earlier that sexless

00:37:54.880 marriages are a large portion of why men watch porn why men do all of these

00:37:58.160 things when marriage itself is a better indicator

00:38:00.400 of happiness for them than what you stated but then men are nine times more

00:38:03.680 likely to commit suicide after they get divorced 0.76

00:38:05.840 yeah but divorce one at a time it's about half

00:38:09.200 But you talk about divorce as if it's an inevitable part of marriage.

00:38:12.060 That's not true.

00:38:13.160 Well, it's one out of two.

00:38:15.600 And let's say a quarter of people have side effects.

00:38:19.080 If you push marriage, there's going to be a percentage of men that get a really bad deal out of it.

00:38:22.840 And they should know what they're signing up for.

00:38:25.000 So I'm not here to say do it or don't do it.

00:38:27.000 That's up to you as a man.

00:38:28.000 You get to decide.

00:38:28.640 Are you drawing a comparison between marriage and drugs as if that's a legitimate comparison with no sources?

00:38:33.180 What I would say is that I've seen men that have lost everything.

00:38:36.320 and um it's actually affected the way i view it a lot because there's just how do i put it

00:38:44.180 there's like a death in a man's eyes when he's lost his children and he's been put on a lot

00:38:49.880 of child support and alimony and until you've really seen that and interviewed those guys i

00:38:54.300 don't think you're going to have the same point of view um and if you run the data about what

00:38:59.820 percent of men are on child support there's a significant portion that do pay a lot so i think

00:39:05.200 you should and it's about it's about okay i interview women all the time but i think you

00:39:10.440 should interview women in place of men because if you talk to their experiences right there's

00:39:14.060 probably also death in their eyes when they talk about how they were abused and they had to divorce

00:39:17.820 this is just the type of knacking that drives men to suicide i swear to god i hate good option for

00:39:23.860 them so i don't know why you're talking about divorce is if it substantiates your claim at all

00:39:27.620 when your claim is that marriage is a bad deal for men not divorce well men are nine times more

00:39:32.080 likely to commit suicide after divorce and i've and i've interviewed a lot of guys that can't get 1.00

00:39:37.060 divorced if you never get married you stupid broad you can't have a conversation about divorce 1.00

00:39:42.980 without including marriage everything about divorce is implied that the guy got married 1.00

00:39:49.280 and it was a terrible experience and his wife left him so when we talk about divorce you are 1.00

00:39:54.840 including marriage and the fact that marriage was a bad deal for him you stupid broad 0.98

00:40:00.160 oh thanks like i interviewed um terrence pop 30-year veteran and he after being overseas the 0.99

00:40:07.740 way that the law is set up um because he was deployed um it automatically assumes that the

00:40:14.940 woman is the better caretaker and that's not really fair to him because he was doing what

00:40:18.220 he was supposed to do for his country and he was on the verge of committing suicide and there's a

00:40:22.960 lot of men that that's happened to and the data indicates that so you can take it or leave it it's

00:40:28.940 fine. But, um, I would say if you're going to get married, you should look at the laws in your

00:40:33.580 state. Where do you find these men who you're interviewing? Um, the last one I got from a

00:40:39.500 homeless shelter. So I went to a homeless shelter and asked what percent are on child support.

00:40:43.900 Okay. I'm assuming that when you save thousands of men, I'm operating under...

00:40:47.780 When you save 500 men for what?

00:40:49.720 Bro, you gotta just, in times like this, you just, just keep reiterating, look, you hate men.

00:40:56.440 And if that's the case, that's fine

00:40:58.920 Just say it 1.00

00:41:00.240 You don't care about men's mental health

00:41:02.640 You don't care about men's physical health 0.99

00:41:04.220 You hate men 0.99

00:41:05.740 Just say it 0.92

00:41:07.020 We can move forward 0.95

00:41:08.900 You gotta hit them with that emotion 0.56

00:41:12.180 If you ever feel like

00:41:14.400 That's where they're headed

00:41:15.440 Look, they want to see the entertainment

00:41:17.820 So just say it

00:41:18.560 Admit to it

00:41:20.800 You don't care about men

00:41:21.840 You don't care about veterans 0.99

00:41:23.220 You gotta hit them with these freaking emotional things 0.97

00:41:26.020 and it'll put him on the back foot if you ever get the sense that that's what they're saying 0.97

00:41:32.740 just call him out on it from suicide so um he actually runs a non-profit where men are saved

00:41:39.700 from suicide okay and that's a great story for him but that's not support what is wrong with these 0.98

00:41:45.300 bitches that's a great i just told you he saved 500 men from suicide and she said that's a great 0.96

00:41:52.820 story for him and here's the thing all those guys got super chat the audacity network.com um i'll 0.89

00:42:02.020 put it in i'm trying to send a question but youtube says no yeah if you go to the audacity

00:42:05.540 network.com you can donate directly and then youtube doesn't get a cut reported by any

00:42:10.020 legitimate data right like the topic is about marriage and you're pivoting to this like these

00:42:14.100 points these anecdotal examples about divorce who's put on child support men or women who's

00:42:19.300 Put on child support matter is the topic is child support

00:42:25.540 Right, I'm answering her question. No, you're right

00:42:28.980 She's not gonna who's put on child support at men or women? Well, we're not talking about child right now

00:42:33.580 We're talking yeah, if you if you don't mind answer because she has answers to yours

00:42:36.540 Who's put on child support? What do you mean? Who pays it?

00:42:39.260 Who is put on child support?

00:42:41.100 Men or children are put on child support. What do you mean? I think she starts referencing in regards to like divorce

00:42:46.620 you know who generally ends up having to pay the child support men or women men skip most of their 1.00

00:42:50.380 child support payments oh see what she did right there this brought it's so insufferable 0.61

00:43:00.460 oh it's these women do not pay them who pays child support who's put on child support men

00:43:08.060 or women are expected to pay they don't the majority of the time they don't okay that's not

00:43:12.620 true that's not true um who pays alimony men or women alimony alimony is steadily decreasing i 1.00

00:43:19.180 studied accounting okay but who pays it men or women what do you mean are you stupid like who 1.00

00:43:24.540 pays it it says 25 to 30 percent of people do you see how the guy i said are you stupid 1.00

00:43:40.860 and because she wouldn't answer they do it first the wimp the stupid wimp i literally got a man 1.00

00:43:48.940 i got a man debater just so moderator moderator sorry moderator just so 1.00

00:43:56.540 i could have someone with balls instead of a woman 0.97

00:44:01.160 just to get a woman i mean this is ridiculous and it says only 25 to 30 percent of people 0.99

00:44:10.080 order to be child support don't pay well i knew she was lying yeah let's let's go yeah we go back 0.96

00:44:17.060 yeah let's let's let's take it back one more try here a little bit one more notch here before we

00:44:22.140 go off the deep end i mean i'm answering her question sure yeah if you if you don't mind

00:44:26.600 answering the question she has answers do you see how if you don't mind answering the question yo 1.00

00:44:31.660 this is what i mean men be fucking assertive answer the question bitch i don't know what 1.00

00:44:39.160 his problem was with you maybe because you're like taller and they're like smaller than you 0.99

00:44:44.420 or something i don't know what his problem was better looking than me it's just yeah yeah it's

00:44:49.920 like i hate these guys he's alimony yeah the majority of the time men expect women expect

00:44:59.380 men to pay alimony okay who pays child support the majority of the time men do but they don't 0.54

00:45:05.400 okay okay who gets custody of the kids who gets custody of the children the 0.60

00:45:10.040 majority of time the women get custody okay so therefore therefore who gets 1.00

00:45:14.060 kicked out of the house what are you who gets to keep the house and most divorces 1.00

00:45:17.760 probably the women because they're taking care of the children right like 0.68

00:45:20.280 this is like pretty common sense okay so if you get married that is a risk that 0.96

00:45:25.080 you don't get authority over your own children that you're going to be put on

00:45:27.900 alimony you're going to be put on child support and you're gonna lose the house

00:45:30.700 that you that you bought and so I just think it's disingenuous to not say that

00:45:37.200 is a real risk that's so what do you think men get out of marriage what do I

00:45:41.980 think men get out of marriage what do they get out of it they live longer as 0.59

00:45:45.100 I've already stated they earn more money they retire with ten times the amount of

00:45:48.280 assets and they're more likely to be happy okay companionship if the average

00:45:52.540 marriage is seven years do they get that that's not the average marriage I look

00:45:55.940 it is because you've used it before the average marriage that ends in divorce is

00:45:59.680 seven to eight years the average marriage is 20 okay so but if it still ends do they get that

00:46:04.660 if it still ends do they get what companionship no but 68 percent of men she said no

00:46:11.700 and who get divorced divorce remarry that's more than the percentage of women yeah yeah and then

00:46:19.980 the second marriage divorce rate hold on what is what is what is the second marriage divorce rate

00:46:31.080 it's even higher than the regular divorce second marriage divorce rate

00:46:37.240 yeah if marriage is such a bad deal for men then how come they're more likely to remarry after 0.99

00:46:44.980 divorcing if divorce is so bad as you've stated than women are because they're dumb because men 0.97

00:46:49.560 always do it they're romantics they're romantic so then why aren't you married why has no one 0.98

00:46:55.000 wanted to marry you let's keep the personal here out of this please we can yeah yeah yeah if we

00:47:00.680 if you do it again i will have to yeah yeah i don't i don't want to have any personal attacks

00:47:04.360 i hate to have to make this announcement let's kind of what a wimp oh my god yeah

00:47:11.480 this guy dude honestly like get the out of here yeah like next time you you go there you

00:47:18.360 you really have to send some message and say that guy can't be there he said i can pick the

00:47:22.360 moderator for the next one yeah not him yeah dude focus on the topic i can uh if we can if

00:47:29.560 we don't mind so that's last warning on this one okay you said money if he loses money after divorce

00:47:34.440 is he richer if he loses money if he's on child support and alimony after is he richer but why

00:47:39.880 are you talking about divorce as if i'm saying this again as if it's an event because a percentage

00:47:44.840 of men will get divorced yeah less than half not by much 40 of men will get divorced but you're

00:47:50.760 talking about it as if it's a part of you saying 40 it's a substantial risk but then they get

00:47:57.400 remarried pearl 68 of them do so so what's the point like if your argument revolves i'm not

00:48:03.160 telling men not to get married then what are you telling them it's a bad deal yeah it's favorable

00:48:07.480 to women so your sources trust me bro why would they take marital it's favorable it's i don't

00:48:11.480 give them advice but this is advice so i'm saying it's a favorable contract to women

00:48:17.000 and you agreed because you said that women are the ones that are getting child support

00:48:21.800 alimony and custody no that's favorable divorce divorce often that's favorable to women divorce

00:48:28.200 not marriage the problem there it is we're talking about marriage specifically it is incredibly

00:48:35.720 beneficial for men okay no a percentage of marriages get divorced though correct a

00:48:40.360 percentage so you're extrapolating a so roughly half roughly half get divorced correct roughly

00:48:47.000 half roughly 40 let's be specific okay 40 and 50 is a big difference it is a big difference okay so

00:48:54.120 the majority versus the minority not by much so 40 get divorced and again men are the ones paying

00:49:01.480 child support alimony and she gets the house and the kids so it's favorable to women so your 0.93

00:49:06.600 argument is right don't get married because 60 percent of the time you'll 0.96

00:49:10.980 live longer you'll earn more you'll retire with more money and you'll be

00:49:13.480 happier but 40 percent of the time I might lose everything I think that's 1.00

00:49:16.740 yours that women take credit for everything because you are assuming that

00:49:21.000 the men make money are happier and live longer because of the woman and I was I 0.99

00:49:24.780 would say that the man is women pick men that do that anyway so so my 0.99

00:49:31.320 arguments are contingent on research your arguments are contingent on

00:49:34.440 generalizations are you just here are you just here to insult me no i think that's why you are

00:49:38.560 you just don't like me it's fine i'm here to ask you for your i don't really get that vibe i don't

00:49:43.440 really get that vibe it's from the vibe of a source like i'm gonna go ahead worry about it

00:49:47.120 that time anyway why don't you go ahead you have a closing if you want to give it then you get a

00:49:49.780 response okay no nothing else no i'm gone gone back dude i'm telling you like it's just absolute

00:49:59.440 bad place i think i was i think i was more annoyed with the moderator because i'm like

00:50:03.400 dude you have one job one job

00:50:08.200 yeah i don't i just don't get it like i don't and and here's the thing once again we don't care 1.00

00:50:20.320 about men's mental health women always talk about the physical aspect oh yeah married men 0.81

00:50:26.820 live longer yeah but what kind of life are they living they have to live the life at the mercy 0.99

00:50:32.260 of an emotionally unstable woman 0.76

00:50:34.880 who will put herself at odds

00:50:38.080 with his ambition, his hobby, his goals, 0.99

00:50:42.640 could have postpartum and kill his children?

00:50:46.340 What kind of life is he living? 0.97

00:50:48.040 If they ever talk about how much longer a man lives,

00:50:53.080 and then make more money. 1.00

00:50:56.800 The wife, her money is her money 0.99

00:51:00.260 and his money is her money. 0.97

00:51:01.640 what what kind of life are these men living but these women don't care they want men to be slaves 1.00

00:51:06.760 to them in marriage i'm a bit down today but are you stupid lol yeah dude i'm a little tired guys 1.00

00:51:17.320 um i think i'm gonna call this early today but these women are insufferable 1.00

00:51:25.120 so 0.99

00:51:29.280 alright Doug you got any final thoughts

00:51:32.280 yeah you know

00:51:34.840 as you do these this is going to get easier

00:51:39.020 the feedback has been really really good

00:51:42.920 guys most of the interviews have been

00:51:45.540 posted on the main channel so go back and watch us

00:51:49.200 and give us some feedback because I read all the comments

00:51:52.380 and yeah you know she's slowly getting better you know it's just going to take time and practice but

00:51:59.520 you um you know uh so on to the next one yeah any tips in the comments about how to 1.00

00:52:07.680 deal with these insufferable women so i love you guys thanks for watching and we'll we'll see you 1.00

00:52:14.160 next time bye 1.00

Pearl - September 01, 2026

Reacting to MY Debate w OF GIRLS

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