Pearl - March 06, 2024


She Got ARRESTED After Sending 159,000 Texts On First Date？

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Amanda Knox
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10 minutes

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186.08

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2,030

Sentence count

65

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Misogyny

24

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Toxicity

10

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1

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A woman accused of sending a man more than 159,000 text messages and breaking into his home wants her case to go to trial, believing a jury will find her innocent while also ordering her and the man she's accused of stalking to wed.

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00:00:00.000 Well, I'm so glad you're here because as a dating coach, we need your expert opinion on a couple stories we have today.
00:00:08.340 I want you to be completely uncensored.
00:00:11.900 Don't hold back.
00:00:13.120 Just let me know if this woman went wrong or not. 0.97
00:00:17.260 Okay.
00:00:17.600 Okay.
00:00:17.920 So let me put this girl on the screen. 0.99
00:00:20.040 All right.
00:00:22.020 A woman accused of sending a man more than 159,000 text messages and breaking into his Paradise Valley home wants her case to go to trial, believing a jury will find her innocent, while also ordering her and the man she's accused of stalking to wed.
00:00:40.320 What? She thinks that the jury's going to.
00:00:42.380 I'll read it again. Don't worry.
00:00:43.380 A woman accused of sending a man more than 159,000 text messages and breaking into his Paradise Valley home wants her case to go to trial, believing a jury will find her innocent while also ordering her and the man she's accused of stalking to wed.
00:01:00.200 Unbelievable.
00:01:01.200 I'm sorry, but look at her eyes.
00:01:03.400 Would you?
00:01:05.120 No, it's a categorical no.
00:01:08.880 I mean, she's not bad looking.
00:01:11.160 Oh, man.
00:01:12.380 i mean i could i could see if i could get her her number for you no i i would not after that
00:01:17.420 especially i know her eyes look her eyes look crazy i mean immediately can't you just look at
00:01:22.940 her there's something very crazy about her eyes in that shot and and look she seems like a nice girl
00:01:27.500 well you know she made her she made an effort 159 000 texts i mean you can't say she wasn't 0.84
00:01:33.420 yeah some of you guys can't even get a call back i know yeah yes actually yeah i suppose on that
00:01:39.420 on that score but um i mean to me this is an example of extremely bad girl game okay because
00:01:45.340 i think we've i think we've talked about this before but women need to understand that if 1.00
00:01:52.220 they're too needy particularly if the guys some has some value right and some options in the dating
00:01:57.260 market he's just not going to fly with that right it's it's too much okay it's the same thing that
00:02:02.300 we would tell guys as far as women are concerned if you're just blowing up their phone continually
00:02:07.020 then he's he's just gonna think he's gonna lose attraction for you that's the reality
00:02:11.900 what's what's too needy a hundred thousand texts is that all right i mean 95 000 i reckon
00:02:21.900 but i was uh i was in a situation a while back with you know with with somebody and they and
00:02:26.780 they were really blowing up my phone and it just becomes stressful in the end you know you open
00:02:30.940 your phone there's like you know there's like paragraphs and paragraphs like jesus christ you
00:02:34.300 know and it just it really raises its red alert level of like is this person actually sane you
00:02:40.060 know what were the paragraphs about um it just just stuff just stuff about what was happening
00:02:48.380 in her life and you know and some stuff about me and the relationship where she wanted it to go
00:02:53.660 but a lot of just random you know and it's sort of like if you're if you're in a relationship
00:02:58.540 with somebody then and it's a proper established relationship that okay yeah it might be like
00:03:03.180 during the day you send a message and say hey this happened at work or that happened and you know
00:03:07.660 what do you think i should do or how do i feel about it that's okay but if you're sending
00:03:11.820 somebody and you're not even you're still in those early stages and you're sending them a
00:03:15.260 shitload of just like nonsense and expecting them to respond that's just just too much
00:03:21.260 i could see that maybe maybe 50 000. yeah it's okay i mean i i think look the better
00:03:29.100 the reality is like and i've i've seen um i've seen like instagram accounts training women you
00:03:36.000 know coaching women how to be like femme fatales and all that kind of stuff and basically what
00:03:40.280 they say is like you've got to be more mysterious it's the old sort of like pulling it's the really
00:03:43.820 pulling back the other way so he chases you and i think there is something to be said for that
00:03:47.420 because you know guys we are particularly guys who've got some options we are very similar to
00:03:52.200 women in the sense that what you can't quite get you want you want more you know what i mean 1.00
00:03:56.440 So 159,000 taxes.
00:03:57.800 So what about the 90-day rule?
00:04:01.160 What's that?
00:04:02.280 You mean not sleep with it?
00:04:03.400 Yeah, yeah, 90-day rule.
00:04:05.940 No.
00:04:06.520 That's holding back, though.
00:04:09.060 Yeah, but...
00:04:10.400 He's like, not that.
00:04:11.760 Not holding back on the same.
00:04:13.420 No, no, no.
00:04:14.300 She needs... 0.99
00:04:15.300 No, first date, man.
00:04:16.400 First date, she needs to give it up. 1.00
00:04:18.980 No, I mean, she can hold back,
00:04:20.140 I would say, maybe second date,
00:04:22.760 third date maximum.
00:04:24.440 But I think that...
00:04:25.420 That, look, he's also, and again, if we're talking a guy with some options, he's also going to, there's going to be other possibilities out there, right?
00:04:31.480 In the end, he's just going to be like, well, what am I, you know, like, what am I even in this for?
00:04:35.240 Yeah. 0.95
00:04:35.400 You know, I mean, nobody's going to, nobody in their right mind is going to wait for fucking 90 days. 0.84
00:04:41.020 I just like, it blows my mind if any guy out there would do that. 0.91
00:04:45.020 Well, these were the comments she made by, in a recent phone interview with the Arizona Republic County Jail.
00:04:55.420 where she's been held since May 2018.
00:04:59.440 She's in the slammer for this. 0.99
00:05:01.780 Yeah.
00:05:02.980 Yeah, I mean, we wanted equality.
00:05:05.220 Here it is. 0.95
00:05:07.920 She said, I just think it's ridiculous. 0.92
00:05:10.360 I can't believe that it turned into this.
00:05:12.220 I can't believe I'm actually in jail over some text messages.
00:05:16.100 Should she be jailed?
00:05:17.900 Yes.
00:05:19.300 Well, she should be institutionalized. 1.00
00:05:21.340 I mean, she's clearly insane. 1.00
00:05:22.440 You can't send someone that number of text messages
00:05:24.620 and like walk the streets a free woman i mean she's clearly not so you know yeah i think um
00:05:31.660 i think it was right that the authorities intervened she maintained that her threats
00:05:35.580 against the man's life were jokes and that she would never act on it she said the man responded
00:05:43.740 to her text for three months but stopped after she sent the threats at aids said she threatened
00:05:51.900 the man after a fight with her mother and turned the anger out on him i mean that wow yeah so that's
00:06:00.140 probably actually why she's inside right because because she if she made like physical threats i 1.00
00:06:05.020 mean i mean yeah should we let her wait put her face back up what if okay wait wait oh wait put 1.00
00:06:14.140 it down put it down actually i'm gonna i'm gonna show you a different hold on i'm gonna pull
00:06:18.860 something else up and i want to see if your answer changes hold on hold on hold on hold on
00:06:26.220 you know because you know a lot of times we'll talk about where is this we'll talk about these
00:06:36.140 women and all this stuff oh this is what i was looking for ha ha ha now what if but what if this 1.00
00:06:43.500 girl just looked a little bit different okay what if should she be free wait if she 1.00
00:06:57.660 oh my gosh where is it
00:06:58.940 if she looked i'm gonna come and use this one no i mean don't pull it up yet
00:07:13.740 because you know some people say there's a such thing as pretty privilege whatever
00:07:22.140 so if she was hotter should yeah let's see this one 1.00
00:07:24.460 oh yeah yeah yeah she should be she should yeah definitely she should be out she let her 0.97
00:07:31.360 okay wait wait sorry let me make this full screen um so right here oh shit i didn't mean to 0.92
00:07:37.580 okay so what do you think if that was her should she be released oh for the threat 0.99
00:07:46.460 um yeah she because she kind of had that sexy femme fatale thing it's a bit like you know do 1.00
00:07:53.140 Do you remember when there was a Amanda Knox case?
00:07:56.620 You remember Amanda Knox and there was a whole case about she was and all of that.
00:08:00.600 And I remember at the time, there was a lot of conversation between guys of like, would you?
00:08:03.940 Like, even if there was the danger of being like, you know, potentially murdered, you know, would you?
00:08:08.480 And there's a lot of surprising number of guys who are like, yeah.
00:08:10.860 Okay.
00:08:11.160 So if she had murdered a different guy, would you?
00:08:18.100 I mean, it would be a great way to go, wouldn't it?
00:08:21.000 Do you know what I mean?
00:08:21.640 like we're all gonna like we're all gonna have to go sometime you know so if the option is all right
00:08:28.620 she's gonna potentially just like you know ice pick me or something at the end then yeah i mean 1.00
00:08:32.560 why not um no i think no i get it i understand you can you can take it off you can take it off
00:08:41.420 free free jacqueline i'm just kidding i think you know i do think in all seriousness though even if
00:08:47.980 woman is is quite attractive i think that you should she should still pull back on the mental 0.99
00:08:53.180 texting because it does it does put you off i mean i like i also years ago i had a girlfriend
00:08:57.820 and she was attractive like she was she was good looking there was there was nothing you know
00:09:01.660 on the surface but because she was too keen it sort of put me off a bit yeah what is what is too
00:09:07.900 keen can you draw the line exactly how many texts can we send like what's the what's the maximum
00:09:16.220 until you're like you are crazy well the big no no is double texting and triple texting i think
00:09:23.020 that's never triple i think that is the big thing like i i would say a few times a day i don't
00:09:28.460 really like the whole for either gender the whole like good morning text good night text
00:09:33.660 in general i think it's a bit predictable whatever but i think a few times a day you know you can like
00:09:38.140 and a little bit of banter you know maybe in the morning there may be something else a little bit
00:09:42.780 bit later on in the day that that's fine i think the big problem is you know you're sending something
00:09:46.700 you're like oh this happened with my dog and then this happened and blah blah blah and he doesn't
00:09:49.740 respond and then you send another load of paragraphs later and then another load of
00:09:52.780 paragraphs how long are these paragraphs can you can you well i mean like you know on whatsapp
00:09:57.900 like sometimes like that like that long sometimes or like and then another one like that underneath
00:10:02.060 and you know i mean but we need attention it's like what yeah but it's like it's like don't you
00:10:09.980 don't want us to go to instagram i'm just kidding i mean i don't know it's just for me for me i i'm
00:10:17.820 kind of a weird case because on the on theoretically you would say okay there's a really hot girl the 0.99
00:10:24.460 more attention she gives the guy the better and that's true but there is i think there's just some
00:10:29.260 kind of human instinct that kind of yeah if we think we can get it too easily then we we just
00:10:35.740 lose that interest and remember as well the old saying you know you see a beautiful woman there's
00:10:40.460 somewhere some somewhere out there some guy's tired of her do you know what i mean so even 1.00
00:10:45.260 that girl that you even that girl that we had you had up before yeah you know yeah she's really hot 1.00
00:10:49.660 she's attractive whatever there's going to be some guy out there who's just like oh my god you know 0.98
00:10:53.900 You know what I mean?