Pearl - March 06, 2024She Got ARRESTED After Sending 159,000 Texts On First Date？
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Summary
A woman accused of sending a man more than 159,000 text messages and breaking into his home wants her case to go to trial, believing a jury will find her innocent while also ordering her and the man she's accused of stalking to wed.
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Well, I'm so glad you're here because as a dating coach, we need your expert opinion on a couple stories we have today.
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Just let me know if this woman went wrong or not.
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A woman accused of sending a man more than 159,000 text messages and breaking into his Paradise Valley home wants her case to go to trial, believing a jury will find her innocent, while also ordering her and the man she's accused of stalking to wed.
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A woman accused of sending a man more than 159,000 text messages and breaking into his Paradise Valley home wants her case to go to trial, believing a jury will find her innocent while also ordering her and the man she's accused of stalking to wed.
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i mean i could i could see if i could get her her number for you no i i would not after that
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especially i know her eyes look her eyes look crazy i mean immediately can't you just look at
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her there's something very crazy about her eyes in that shot and and look she seems like a nice girl
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well you know she made her she made an effort 159 000 texts i mean you can't say she wasn't
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yeah some of you guys can't even get a call back i know yeah yes actually yeah i suppose on that
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on that score but um i mean to me this is an example of extremely bad girl game okay because
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i think we've i think we've talked about this before but women need to understand that if
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they're too needy particularly if the guys some has some value right and some options in the dating
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market he's just not going to fly with that right it's it's too much okay it's the same thing that
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we would tell guys as far as women are concerned if you're just blowing up their phone continually
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then he's he's just gonna think he's gonna lose attraction for you that's the reality
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what's what's too needy a hundred thousand texts is that all right i mean 95 000 i reckon
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but i was uh i was in a situation a while back with you know with with somebody and they and
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they were really blowing up my phone and it just becomes stressful in the end you know you open
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your phone there's like you know there's like paragraphs and paragraphs like jesus christ you
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know and it just it really raises its red alert level of like is this person actually sane you
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know what were the paragraphs about um it just just stuff just stuff about what was happening
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in her life and you know and some stuff about me and the relationship where she wanted it to go
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but a lot of just random you know and it's sort of like if you're if you're in a relationship
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with somebody then and it's a proper established relationship that okay yeah it might be like
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during the day you send a message and say hey this happened at work or that happened and you know
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what do you think i should do or how do i feel about it that's okay but if you're sending
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somebody and you're not even you're still in those early stages and you're sending them a
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shitload of just like nonsense and expecting them to respond that's just just too much
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i could see that maybe maybe 50 000. yeah it's okay i mean i i think look the better
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the reality is like and i've i've seen um i've seen like instagram accounts training women you
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know coaching women how to be like femme fatales and all that kind of stuff and basically what
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they say is like you've got to be more mysterious it's the old sort of like pulling it's the really
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pulling back the other way so he chases you and i think there is something to be said for that
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because you know guys we are particularly guys who've got some options we are very similar to
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women in the sense that what you can't quite get you want you want more you know what i mean
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That, look, he's also, and again, if we're talking a guy with some options, he's also going to, there's going to be other possibilities out there, right?
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In the end, he's just going to be like, well, what am I, you know, like, what am I even in this for?
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You know, I mean, nobody's going to, nobody in their right mind is going to wait for fucking 90 days.
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I just like, it blows my mind if any guy out there would do that.
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Well, these were the comments she made by, in a recent phone interview with the Arizona Republic County Jail.
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I can't believe I'm actually in jail over some text messages.
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You can't send someone that number of text messages
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and like walk the streets a free woman i mean she's clearly not so you know yeah i think um
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i think it was right that the authorities intervened she maintained that her threats
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against the man's life were jokes and that she would never act on it she said the man responded
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to her text for three months but stopped after she sent the threats at aids said she threatened
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the man after a fight with her mother and turned the anger out on him i mean that wow yeah so that's
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probably actually why she's inside right because because she if she made like physical threats i
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mean i mean yeah should we let her wait put her face back up what if okay wait wait oh wait put
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it down put it down actually i'm gonna i'm gonna show you a different hold on i'm gonna pull
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something else up and i want to see if your answer changes hold on hold on hold on hold on
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you know because you know a lot of times we'll talk about where is this we'll talk about these
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women and all this stuff oh this is what i was looking for ha ha ha now what if but what if this
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girl just looked a little bit different okay what if should she be free wait if she
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if she looked i'm gonna come and use this one no i mean don't pull it up yet
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because you know some people say there's a such thing as pretty privilege whatever
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so if she was hotter should yeah let's see this one
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oh yeah yeah yeah she should be she should yeah definitely she should be out she let her
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okay wait wait sorry let me make this full screen um so right here oh shit i didn't mean to
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okay so what do you think if that was her should she be released oh for the threat
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um yeah she because she kind of had that sexy femme fatale thing it's a bit like you know do
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Do you remember when there was a Amanda Knox case?
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You remember Amanda Knox and there was a whole case about she was and all of that.
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And I remember at the time, there was a lot of conversation between guys of like, would you?
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Like, even if there was the danger of being like, you know, potentially murdered, you know, would you?
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And there's a lot of surprising number of guys who are like, yeah.
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So if she had murdered a different guy, would you?
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I mean, it would be a great way to go, wouldn't it?
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like we're all gonna like we're all gonna have to go sometime you know so if the option is all right
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she's gonna potentially just like you know ice pick me or something at the end then yeah i mean
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why not um no i think no i get it i understand you can you can take it off you can take it off
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free free jacqueline i'm just kidding i think you know i do think in all seriousness though even if
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woman is is quite attractive i think that you should she should still pull back on the mental
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texting because it does it does put you off i mean i like i also years ago i had a girlfriend
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and she was attractive like she was she was good looking there was there was nothing you know
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on the surface but because she was too keen it sort of put me off a bit yeah what is what is too
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keen can you draw the line exactly how many texts can we send like what's the what's the maximum
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until you're like you are crazy well the big no no is double texting and triple texting i think
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that's never triple i think that is the big thing like i i would say a few times a day i don't
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really like the whole for either gender the whole like good morning text good night text
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in general i think it's a bit predictable whatever but i think a few times a day you know you can like
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and a little bit of banter you know maybe in the morning there may be something else a little bit
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bit later on in the day that that's fine i think the big problem is you know you're sending something
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you're like oh this happened with my dog and then this happened and blah blah blah and he doesn't
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respond and then you send another load of paragraphs later and then another load of
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paragraphs how long are these paragraphs can you can you well i mean like you know on whatsapp
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like sometimes like that like that long sometimes or like and then another one like that underneath
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and you know i mean but we need attention it's like what yeah but it's like it's like don't you
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don't want us to go to instagram i'm just kidding i mean i don't know it's just for me for me i i'm
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kind of a weird case because on the on theoretically you would say okay there's a really hot girl the
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more attention she gives the guy the better and that's true but there is i think there's just some
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kind of human instinct that kind of yeah if we think we can get it too easily then we we just
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lose that interest and remember as well the old saying you know you see a beautiful woman there's
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somewhere some somewhere out there some guy's tired of her do you know what i mean so even
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that girl that you even that girl that we had you had up before yeah you know yeah she's really hot
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she's attractive whatever there's going to be some guy out there who's just like oh my god you know