Pearl - March 11, 2024


Why Do Most Women Think Femininity is About Makeup and Dresses？


Episode Stats

Length

4 minutes

Words per Minute

129.33954

Word Count

611

Sentence Count

18

Misogynist Sentences

17

Hate Speech Sentences

8


Summary

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What is femininity and why is it so important to be a kind and feminine woman? Is there a difference between a feminine woman and a masculine woman? What does it mean to be traditional and feminine and why does it matter what you do?

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 Okay, so there is a video going viral of a young woman who is working on a house.
00:00:09.360 And I guess Twitter or a certain subset of women were very triggered by her behavior.
00:00:17.560 They felt like she was too masculine because she was out working on this house.
00:00:23.800 Now, these women also said that these are men's chores.
00:00:27.940 women shouldn't do men's chores that is not feminine the way she talked isn't
00:00:33.940 feminine and I started to think about to myself what is femininity so many
00:00:41.620 women miss the point because there are all these femininity coaches that tell
00:00:49.540 women femininity is getting your nails done keeping up with the latest fashion
00:00:54.700 trends Botox looking good everything is focused on looks and to be quite honest
00:01:03.200 men do appreciate when you take care of yourself but looks is not what
00:01:09.460 femininity is about it's not when we think of you know grandmothers and
00:01:16.580 great-grandmothers that just had that aura that essence of just being like a
00:01:21.580 a kind feminine woman. Very rarely did they have the latest fashion trends. Very rarely
00:01:29.460 did they have, you know, latest clothes, makeup, all of that stuff. That wasn't what made them
00:01:37.980 feminine. What made them feminine was the cookie recipes. You know, my grandma would bake us all
00:01:44.940 cookies and we would go to her house and everything. It was just like a warm environment.
00:01:51.680 And so what is femininity in its core? It's actually being selfless.
00:02:00.280 It's being selfless and it's serving the family before you. That is true traditionalism. I know
00:02:08.100 a girl who can't cook can't clean doesn't do any of that her husband they outsource everything
00:02:15.920 they have a cleaner a cook but I would still consider her traditional and feminine why
00:02:20.800 because she listens to her husband and she always thinks of the family
00:02:25.760 she always thinks of the family first and that's what so many women are missing
00:02:32.060 they they they post their their makeup selfies their nails when really that stuff doesn't make
00:02:40.860 you a kinder better person the second thing second thing is i've noticed just the lack of
00:02:50.220 humility with the women on twitter there was some chick you know single mother shocker um
00:02:57.620 who, who tweets at me, you know, a video of her sewing and is saying, Pearl, I can sew. Can you
00:03:07.380 sew? And it's so interesting because she misses the point. And you guys tell on yourselves based
00:03:14.100 on the way you behave. What is, what is tweeting your, you guys as old lady selfies at me
00:03:22.280 and your your videos of you doing trad stuff doing it's saying i want the recognition
00:03:29.500 you know for being trad or whatever and what does that show a lack of weight for it humility
00:03:37.360 and when we think of our grandmothers and our great grandmothers who were on the more
00:03:44.200 traditional feminine side when we think of feminine women they're selfless they're humble
00:03:50.040 and they think about the family before themselves that's what femininity is at its core it's serving
00:03:59.380 others the community and your husband case closed pearl case closed case dismissed
00:04:08.780 men would prefer a woman that doesn't know any of the fashion trends or the makeup
00:04:16.040 but has a good attitude a kind heart and they would they would prefer it because
00:04:22.760 working on a farm there's a reason they have lower divorce rates because people that work
00:04:29.260 on a farm know how to work hard and you know hard work builds character so case closed let
00:04:37.800 me know your thoughts in the comments right wrong either way let me know subscribe i'll talk to you
00:04:42.840 next time.