Pearl - September 25, 2026


“She’s 31 and Still Can’t Get Over the Man Who DIDN’T Choose Her” @JustPearlyThings

The Life of a Real Ninja “Single Moms Keep Bringing ABUSIVE Men Around Their Children” @JustPearlyThings

Episode Stats


Length

1 minute

Words per minute

201.72

Word count

383

Sentence count

2

Harmful content

Misogyny

2

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Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
00:00:00.000 and he said that like with long distance there's really no certainty which is so ironic coming
00:00:05.760 from somebody whose ocd stems from uncertainty and i can't even really be mad about that either
00:00:11.120 because even though i'm sitting here telling him like oh i'm going to be living in texas by next
00:00:16.880 summer like we don't know what can happen over the course of a year and honestly what makes this
00:00:21.120 situation hurt so badly is the fact that like i do wonder quite often had i been able to stay
00:00:28.960 in texas would this person and i be together right now and like i said probably not he probably you
00:00:34.640 know it was probably a different personality trait that he found you to be insufferable
00:00:39.040 so then um you know he at that point he probably just thought nah let me just blame it on the
00:00:43.920 distance you never know why a man dumps you honestly it doesn't matter how many times i
00:00:48.080 try to go through all the scenarios i will never know the answer to that because maybe i did stay
00:00:53.520 in texas and he still didn't ask me to be his girlfriend even though he said he would have this
00:00:58.080 is really just one of those situations where i will never get the answer that i'm looking for
00:01:04.160 and it is eating me alive because and there's also that part of me that's like okay well
00:01:08.640 when i do live there next summer are things gonna pick back up again like my mind is really just
00:01:14.240 going through all the what-ifs even though like i'm fully over this person but i think what really
00:01:19.440 she's not over him at all with me in the back of my mind is the fact that this person told
00:01:24.240 me multiple times and told several of my friends multiple times like if i knew that you were
00:01:30.640 signing a lease here in austin that i would make you my girlfriend and just based on how this
00:01:37.440 person and i interacted together and based on how things were going when we were seeing each other
00:01:45.600 it definitely was headed down that path and it just really sucks that okay she's gonna 1.00
00:01:50.880 find something to complain about. Get on the apps, move on. 1.00