Pearl - Single Moms Will NEVER Stop Losing

00:00:00.000 again they all talking about money and makeup is discretionary spending i know it doesn't seem like

00:00:05.360 it in the social media world but you don't actually have to wear makeup what up guys

00:00:09.520 welcome to my reaction series today we are watching women do what women do best which is 0.99

00:00:14.080 complain and today the single mothers have taken another l again um that's all right ladies let's 1.00

00:00:19.120 see how you're doing they're saying they're working too much so i don't really know many

00:00:23.680 single mothers that work too much if anything they work too little but you know maybe today they're 1.00

00:00:30.400 they really did have a job and aren't living off their baby daddy or the government

00:00:34.160 questions all the single moms out there how are you affording life okay i love it when women that 1.00

00:00:41.120 say they can't afford life have lip filler botox potentially dyed hair at least styled hair heavy

00:00:48.000 makeup and stylish clothes i just if you're going to complain about money i need you to look poor

00:00:53.440 i mean i look i think i look poor i mean i'm not i don't know how to put it like i look more poor

00:00:58.720 than she does okay because i'm not wearing makeup i'm wearing a hat you know i mean maybe the trump

00:01:05.840 hat makes people think i have money but you know honestly how are you affording rent or mortgage

00:01:13.920 repayments food then kids sports school fees life like i'm not even thinking about other things like

00:01:22.320 clothes and all that sort of stuff like how are we affording it because i don't think most people

00:01:28.760 can survive you don't have botox and lip filler of one wage unless that wage is ginormous oh my

00:01:33.840 gosh she has implants too i can see them that's how like and it is so stressful and what i'm

00:01:41.160 struggling with is the guilt then of like i'm working a lot at the moment and then i'm not as

00:01:46.400 present with my boy and then i feel guilty about that and i'm like oh i should be more present with

00:01:51.080 him but i'm just working because i gotta work because i gotta put a roof over his head and

00:01:56.260 food on the table if you've got any tips let me know genuine question to all the single mums out 1.00

00:02:04.300 there okay all right again they all talk about money and makeup is discretionary spending i know

00:02:12.720 it doesn't seem like it in the social media world but you don't actually have to wear makeup

00:02:17.220 and you do save money not wearing it i barely wore it for years i wear it now here and again

00:02:23.380 but i really i just hate the way it feels on my face real talk how are we making ends meet

00:02:30.260 i have a full-time job i work 40 minimum 40 maximum 50 hours okay that's not like crazy

00:02:38.380 week and i am still struggling it is really hard out there right now rent in new york where i live

00:02:48.500 is absolutely outrageous so i feel like i am working exclusively just to pay rent and then

00:02:57.680 even that i don't think i'm making enough i mean it's getting paid but with little leftovers you

00:03:06.880 have like a face cream i mean she's not as bad as the last the last one had implants i'm like that

00:03:11.480 was diabolical i've got bills and i'm out to feed so i'm looking for ways i mean that's not 80 hours

00:03:21.100 and look i'm not trying to i mean i'm a youtuber who am i to say what working a lot is but

00:03:25.580 my dad worked 80 um and i just think if you're not working like if you're working 70 to 80

00:03:30.920 like you can uber afterward there's stuff you can do i mean it sucks but if you need to do it for

00:03:36.260 time being to save money just is what it is to make a part-time job on the weekends extra i thought

00:03:43.220 about door dashing there you go how many days off she'll just start selling poonanny it'll probably 1.00

00:03:49.460 be easier i'm trying this tick tock thing i'm just really like i want to know what other moms are

00:03:57.460 are doing out there or dads if you're a single dad and experiencing the same thing what is it

00:04:06.780 that you do in addition to your full-time job to make ends meet I know there's a lot of people out

00:04:13.460 there who make a decent salary and don't need that extra help but I know there's a lot of people out

00:04:19.660 there like me who do and i am posting this so everyone can exchange ideas and maybe help all of

00:04:29.540 us to make better lives for ourselves and for our children our dream is to make it here on tiktok

00:04:38.120 our dream is to make this our okay let me let me see how well she's doing 4 000 followers because

00:04:47.280 you can kind of see the spending habits of the women. At least she looks kind of poor, but 1.00

00:04:51.640 Starbucks cup in the back. All right, guys, if you're going to complain about money, I need you

00:04:57.140 to not have on makeup, Starbucks, or anything expensive. Otherwise, I'm just not going to take

00:05:04.080 you seriously. But yeah, I mean, we just got to get into the habit. I don't know why we take women 1.00

00:05:11.400 seriously on anything. I know that's hypocritical in my position, but we're women. I mean, we just 1.00

00:05:16.200 make stuff up. Anyways, guys, what do you think? Let me know in the comments, like the video,

00:05:21.540 subscribe, and I will see you next time. Well, you have a sleeve tattoo and now you're a single

00:05:27.620 mother. It's time to learn some Gluck Gluck 9,000 and get into you a new man. You can do it. I

00:05:32.180 believe in you. You're still pretty. What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series today. We are

00:05:38.120 talking about how single mothers are still broke. Yes. As you guys know, a lot of women leave the 0.99

00:05:46.920 father of their children and think financially they'll be all right, but we don't really know

00:05:51.460 how to do math like that. So, all right, let's see. You know, I'm sitting at the ATM about to

00:06:01.800 make my house payment 0.99

00:06:04.020 After I just worked in 90-plus degree weather shitty dirty fucking warehouse and got paid 0.99

00:06:11.200 Not even $700 for the week after taxes and everything and now I got to give all of it to the ATM 0.99

00:06:17.840 For my house payment. I really don't want to deposit this. I really don't

00:06:24.800 Feel like giving over all of my money and being broke again for another week

00:06:30.640 what gets me even more pissed off is i'm a single mom okay two baby daddies three kids that i have 0.93

00:06:38.260 none of them pay a fucking dime never have the state never made them either so okay well that's 0.95

00:06:44.080 just an l you should have got pregnant by someone richer if you have three baby daddies i mean 1.00

00:06:49.120 that's just not intelligent on your part you really should have um tried to get pregnant by 1.00

00:06:54.480 someone with a little bit more going on here i am scraping just to put gas in the car and to make it

00:07:01.820 week to week scraping to just put a tiny bit of food in the house because everything's 0.98

00:07:07.620 fucking outrageous and they're buying new cars doing whatever the fuck they're doing living life 0.98

00:07:13.640 not worrying not worrying about the kids how we live as single parents 0.99

00:07:18.480 i wish i could just be like no i'm not fucking paying it he should pay it because it's housing 1.00

00:07:27.320 his fucking kids i don't care split it between the fucking both of them for all i give a fuck 1.00

00:07:32.660 since you don't pay child support maybe you should pay for them to live in a fucking house you know 1.00

00:07:37.660 what that should be it since men across the board like it doesn't matter what state there's a bunch 0.99

00:07:44.700 of them that don't want to pay for their children because they feel like they shouldn't have to so

00:07:50.880 you know what i feel like for someone that's paid for all of them they're their entire life all on

00:07:56.560 my own by themselves uh by myself um they eat do you want brownie points for doing what you're

00:08:03.600 supposed to do look if you are too insufferable if you don't a know how to pick a good guy this

00:08:09.420 is the consequence if you are so insufferable that the good men run away this is the consequence

00:08:15.100 um you are responsible for your choices and pick what you pick but pay for it so you know 0.99

00:08:22.640 you are supposed to pay for your kids if you choose to have them more than i can fucking supply 1.00

00:08:28.480 like i should be able to say fuck you and they should pay for the house payment 1.00

00:08:35.100 how about that how about you pay my house payment and i'll pay for the children to eat 1.00

00:08:43.600 and clothes and and whatever let's get to the next one i love watching single mothers taken 1.00

00:08:51.400 out it's just hilarious uh all right y'all i'm looking for all my uh single mamas single daddies 0.99

00:08:57.580 the ones that ain't making shit the ones that work they ass off and still stuck at 13 14 15 0.96

00:09:02.500 an hour where y'all at because i'm right here okay living it down income-based housing but i 0.96

00:09:08.260 live it i wouldn't change it for nothing but the my point is like there comes a point at the

00:09:13.900 workplace where you get the opportunity to prove yourself right but at the same time that may come

00:09:20.440 with a small raise so with that small raise you may like your income may increase so therefore

00:09:26.340 your rent may increase your daycare may increase you may lose medicaid you may lose food stamps

00:09:31.460 they may decrease whatever the case may be so there comes a point in your life where you have

00:09:36.480 to make that decision do i not take this opportunity to continue living the financial

00:09:43.300 life that i'm living now that i know i can't afford or do i take the chance and go in between

00:09:49.780 needing services and getting help to you know barely making it but on your way up to the top

00:09:58.520 you feel me so i have made the decision to make my way up to the top and like if i gotta eat

00:10:05.080 noodles so my baby can eat that's fine okay this is turning into gibberish um you can't really say

00:10:11.160 you're making your way up to the top when you're on income-based housing okay i'm not i'm not saying

00:10:15.560 you're at the very bottom but we cannot say that is the top we got to be honest here you were just 0.94

00:10:21.400 like realize you're a loser but it doesn't even matter like who cares if i'm a loser i made poor 0.89

00:10:26.840 life decisions and here we are somebody was like you should make your own decisions and then i made 0.98

00:10:30.600 my own decisions and then look where we're at now who thought that was a good idea they should have

00:10:38.480 you should have a permit for that you know i should have been cleared first nope it's called

00:10:46.440 being an adult well you have a sleeve tattoo and now you're a single mother it's time to learn

00:10:51.280 some gluck gluck 9 000 and getting you a new man you can do it i believe in you you're still pretty

00:10:56.000 you're still pretty pretty gluck gluck 9 000 go ahead 0.89

00:10:59.660 mental illness in it that's all right we're right everything's fine 0.98

00:11:07.760 i'm only four months into this single mom thing and i still haven't found a job because even

00:11:14.180 entry-level jobs don't want me probably because i was a mom for a while and they're like i don't

00:11:19.400 know if you're capable of doing anything i don't know i mean it's gonna be fine i start

00:11:25.940 school in the spring i will take care of her no matter what hill or high water but i'm all right 0.98

00:11:33.080 moving on to the next mom living with her baby oh my god she's shaking ass with the kids in the 1.00

00:11:39.700 background this just is not we need to do better lady i am a broke single mom living with her baby 0.99

00:11:46.020 daddy still because i have no job and i am a full-time student well part-time i am a full-time

00:11:50.480 mom guys i've been applying everywhere and no one has fucking called me back i don't know why it's 0.96

00:11:54.440 so fucking hard for me to get a job and if you keep dropping the f-bomb i can i i know i i really 0.96

00:11:59.140 i shouldn't be one to talk because i'm a swearer at times too but i just can't you know i think 0.94

00:12:06.260 when i did this job i understood that traditional employment is out the window for me but it's not 0.98

00:12:11.500 easy fucking staying here in the same house as my baby daddy he is fucking hostile as fuck one day 0.99

00:12:16.960 he loves me and he wants to get back with me and the next day he fucking hates my guts and he's 1.00

00:12:21.160 being mean as fuck to me and treats me like shit yeah so that is projection i bet she is the one 1.00

00:12:26.620 who decides every day if she wants to get back with him and is mean to him it's her it's her 1.00

00:12:31.720 usually the behavior women describe about men is the stuff they're doing honestly guys we were back

00:12:36.640 together but he didn't let me go through his phone so i gave him an ultimatum i was like let me go

00:12:40.900 through your phone or you're gonna be single in the next two minutes and he didn't let me he kept 1.00

00:12:44.600 yapping his fucking mouth telling me why i needed to go through his phone blah blah blah okay bitch 1.00

00:12:49.120 you're fucking guilty get the fuck out my face and you're single like i'm not playing around 1.00

00:12:53.120 with you anymore i don't not have fucking time and i do not have fucking patience anyways guys 1.00

00:12:57.160 i'm gonna start door dashing so i'm gonna start doing door dash content because i need some money 0.87

00:13:01.920 tiktok is not fucking cutting it for me anymore and i'm also gonna start doing my old content 0.95

00:13:06.680 because loki lows were giving me fat checks every month and let me know i would just work it out with 0.97

00:13:13.040 the father of your kids um that's what i would do i would work it out with the father of your kids

00:13:18.380 because i don't know if youtube is going to be the career path for you but hey i could be wrong

00:13:24.060 anyways guys make sure you like the video on your way out please subscribe to the channel and i'll

00:13:28.220 see you next time bye-bye but as a single mother the idea that i pay child support so therefore

00:13:35.480 i should get to have half of the tax returns when i am full-time her mom pisses me off oh my god 1.00

00:13:43.300 she pays child support that's hilarious well guys welcome to my reaction series today we are going

00:13:49.780 to watch single mothers crash out because life is hard so men kind of understand that life is

00:13:55.700 just a difficult thing you know you got to be alive you got to get through life and it's just

00:13:59.940 it's just kind of part of life is suffering a bit uh but women have had pretty easy lives now and

00:14:05.620 kind of historically to be honest um and now women have fought for the right to be men and

00:14:10.980 we're kind of understanding that living like a man is difficult it's not easy um so anyways the 0.65

00:14:17.440 single mom said she could do it all by herself and apparently she's crashing out and i'm excited

00:14:21.080 to see it hi hello i'm a single mom and oh yes cry cry i am so tired so oh all the time all the

00:14:34.180 time I'm tired and I feel like I cannot be the only one cry cry and it doesn't matter

00:14:41.020 that you know my ex pays child support oh my god of course he does city of my kids of wait so

00:14:49.040 her ex pays child support and she's got full custody of two of them the third one's grown

00:14:54.600 full custody of them and I have a boyfriend who will pop in and he will support and help if I

00:14:59.820 ask him do i have a really hard time asking anybody for it okay let me get this straight so

00:15:04.640 you have an ex-husband paying you child support even though he has full custody of the kids 0.97

00:15:09.700 and you have a boyfriend what the fuck are you complaining about late like what i just sometimes 0.99

00:15:15.940 people talk and i just think do you hear yourself any kind of help but i am so tired i am so freaking 0.99

00:15:23.160 tired of just the mental cost and i was thinking about this and i was like you know

00:15:29.720 i was equally tired as a married one the mental cost what the heck is the mental cost like is

00:15:37.320 thinking hard for you i was equally tired so as a married mom i still had to make all the doctor's

00:15:43.640 appointments i might like cajole my ex into going if he didn't have anything else to do meanwhile

00:15:49.720 you know he wasn't working i was running a business but like it was it was my job it was

00:15:55.080 everything was my job. And at least now everything is my job, but I don't have him, right? I don't

00:16:00.700 have to deal with the drama of him, but that doesn't mean I'm not tired. That does not mean

00:16:08.480 I'm not tired because I am exhausted. I'm exhausted all the time. Exhausted. I am sitting

00:16:14.540 here constantly going, Oh, how do I make it through to the next thing? Um, there you go,

00:16:21.200 puppies and you know the thing is I love my kids I love them and I wouldn't want it any other way

00:16:30.320 than what I have now right but that doesn't mean you're not tired moms isn't it kind of crazy how

00:16:36.400 mothers now can openly go on the internet and talk about how much they hate their kids and we still

00:16:41.380 call them nurturing that is the biggest lie I've ever heard women are not nurturing we're not good 1.00

00:16:45.720 with kids we're not good at anything and you know and people come at me and they say pearl but you're

00:16:52.040 a woman like but hear me out when i was growing up i was a cubs fan i mean i don't really care

00:16:58.440 but like my family was that's what i grew up um my dad my mom they loved the cubs but i always knew

00:17:04.260 they sucked and if they told me about a game i'm like we lost didn't we and until i was like 21 or 0.77

00:17:12.240 22 that's kind of how it was and that's kind of how i feel about my gender we just can't we just 0.86

00:17:19.120 can't really do much right sorry ladies we can't um we got to get good and then maybe we can come

00:17:24.960 back around and have some women power but right now like women's empowerment is just us celebrating 0.71

00:17:29.840 l's trying to make l's not be l's and complaining about problems that don't really exist so until

00:17:36.240 my team gets a better pitcher you know better catcher until my team starts being better i just

00:17:41.440 got to keep dunking on them because it's it's way easier to just make fun of my team like well i'm

00:17:46.080 gonna be this i'm you know i'm a woman i'm i'm a woman and that means i am um hypergamous and i

00:17:55.040 just you know men are winning now i'm gonna go on the better team i'm gonna go i'm gonna go on the

00:17:58.320 winning team because we can't win no matter how hard society helps like us to win they'll try to

00:18:04.720 give us welfare we still can't win they'll give us child support still can't win now she's got a boy

00:18:09.600 So this girl's got a boyfriend, an ex-husband, and her kids have full custody, and she's 1.00

00:18:14.340 still tired. 0.98

00:18:14.940 It's like, well, we're just losers. 0.99

00:18:17.680 We don't call women losers enough. 1.00

00:18:19.200 Today was supposed to have been my daughter. 0.99

00:18:21.620 She couldn't even be hot.

00:18:22.880 You know, at least if you're going to do all that, be hot.

00:18:25.960 Can't do that either.

00:18:27.100 She was supposed to have had like a dental appointment. 0.76

00:18:30.220 I had to actually pay for general anesthesia because she handled the numbing agent so 0.98

00:18:38.320 poorly that they were like, nope, we got to do this. So I did that. I went through everything

00:18:42.900 and it was like, okay, this is what I'm doing. This is how I'm doing it. This is fine. I can

00:18:46.980 manage this. Right. And then you bake bread and there's no smoke, but the fire, like you put your

00:18:54.200 oven high and the fire alarm just goes off for no reason. Okay. No, I can't manage it because

00:19:01.440 you can't manage it oh my god i woke up and she stayed with her brother for the morning and then

00:19:09.200 her sister came and kept her and i got back and met now you have a brother you can one of the

00:19:15.840 kids is old enough you can offload it just never ends her to take her into this general anesthesia 0.99

00:19:21.280 appointment and she had a wet cough she did not have a wet cough yesterday but she had one today

00:19:26.080 So like at noon, I get told, hey, sorry, we're not going to go ahead and do this treatment.

00:19:32.240 She has to come back in a month.

00:19:34.560 So four weeks from now, she'll be back doing the same thing again.

00:19:37.580 And by that time, I mean, what do I go back?

00:19:40.140 I had taken a full day of work off or six and a half hours of work off.

00:19:44.540 At that point, do I try to get her to school?

00:19:46.820 Which means I'm going to take her, get her dressed out of her PJs, into her uniform, drop her off at like one.

00:19:53.780 school's out at 3 15. leave her at daycare go in and work and try to like and dig you have too much

00:20:00.800 help woman we don't call women and she's on glp bruh recoup some of it hi hello for daycare go in

00:20:11.040 and work and try to like recoup some of it she doesn't do it that's the whole reason she 1.00

00:20:16.460 have this general anesthesia procedure and i just sat there thinking to myself you know

00:20:22.700 we are over here as a society acting like paying child support is somehow like

00:20:31.500 what's necessary without paying attention to any piece of the fact there is a social emotional cost

00:20:38.220 to parenting which i fully take on and i'm responsible for but as a single mother the

00:20:45.580 idea that i pay child support so therefore i should get to have half of the tax returns when i am full

00:20:53.340 time her mom pisses me off oh my god she pays child support that's hilarious oh i missed that 1.00

00:21:00.940 i must have missed i must have missed her because i'm so used to women taking and you have to 1.00

00:21:06.300 understand she's gonna be really direct is absolutely her to like i got out of an abusive

00:21:11.900 marriage and i got full custody of my kids oh she did get full custody okay i'm so um and that was

00:21:20.060 not cheap i have been trying to balance the idea of making everything that i'm doing work for me

00:21:27.660 and also how do i pay off a 27 000 so she's got full custody put him on child support and call 0.99

00:21:35.420 them abusive bill to my lawyer oh my god and she's still saying now she's got a boyfriend to help

00:21:41.580 she's got child so women always think that the grass is going to be greener on the other side 1.00

00:21:46.300 just take a hit once a month it's fine just deal you know but here's the the challenge 0.97

00:21:51.900 she's obviously insane and she's going to torture her kids and she's paying for ozempic it's like 1.00

00:21:58.460 all right well guy she's only 40. she did not age well okay well all right guys let me know 0.97

00:22:05.100 what you think of the comments um you know being a woman as i've said it's just like i'm on the

00:22:10.780 losing team and i understand i'm on the losing team and maybe one day my team will win but that

00:22:15.020 day just is not that just that day just is not today maybe tomorrow i don't know but today we're

00:22:22.380 just going to keep on losing so keep taking up keep taking owls ladies um i love documenting

00:22:27.180 them and reacting to them and making money on my channel. So I'll see you. Thank you.

Pearl - January 11, 2026

Single Moms Will NEVER Stop Losing

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