Pearl - Women In The Workforce： A TOTAL FAILURE!

00:00:00.000 women don't understand hierarchy if your husband or boyfriend is supposed to be your boss and he's 1.00

00:00:05.200 supposed to be able to say whatever he wants and you can't say whatever you want and that's

00:00:08.640 called a hierarchy what up guys women wanted the right to work in fact women begged to work women 1.00

00:00:16.560 saw men in suits and we just thought oh i can do that and now that we've entered a man's world

00:00:22.240 it's harder than we thought so today we are reacting to women talking about how they hate 0.54

00:00:29.280 their nine to fives now mind you notice how the women will always complain about the nine to fives 0.99

00:00:35.440 even though these are way better work conditions than the men like i don't know cutting down trees

00:00:40.320 working on oil rigs and you never see them complaining i am not doing well today this job

00:00:45.600 literally eats away in my soul every day literally feel like it is just deteriorating me crumbling

00:00:51.920 right in front of my eyes right in front of my eyes but he pays me good money so i stay

00:00:56.160 so i fucking stay i'm gonna calm down now we're gonna take a deep breath we're gonna have a good 0.95

00:01:01.120 rest of the day okay good pep talk jess follow me i don't notice this says more about her than 0.97

00:01:07.040 the workplace there is no nine to five job that is that bad i sold copiers during covet and that

00:01:12.240 wasn't that bad it was okay they're zero nine to five you guys gotta stop believing these women 1.00

00:01:18.640 you guys gotta stop believing these women when they say they're just burnt out from a nine to 1.00

00:01:22.720 to five what are you doing you're sitting at a desk from nine to five it's like you send three

00:01:26.280 emails you have a few meetings i mean women put what they do in a day in corporate america and 1.00

00:01:31.800 it's really not what you think it is it's not them like burning out or whatever women like this um 0.99

00:01:38.260 what she's really saying is i'm lazy i am lazy and i don't like working about nine to five jobs

00:01:44.180 first we have having to go to the office so many jobs don't require that why are you being asked

00:01:49.200 to commute for an hour, commute back to your home for an hour for a job that is done at

00:01:54.080 a computer. If it's done in a computer, it can be done at home too.

00:01:58.200 Yeah, but here's the challenge. It's people just naturally don't do as much at home.

00:02:02.140 My dad, he owned a company and he just, it's something more collaborative. Like when you're

00:02:08.280 doing meetings, no one can be on their phone secretly or like on other tabs when you're

00:02:13.340 in person but when you're virtual you just don't know fake niceties oh my god most people can't

00:02:19.680 stand each other in the office but everyone pretends that they care about you when they don't

00:02:24.380 number three is making drinks for everyone i absolutely hated it why is it my responsibility

00:02:29.040 to make 10 15 coffees do you see that this is the like that that's the worst you had to deal

00:02:34.400 with you had to let me check my notes make coffee that was the do you like you we got to stop buying

00:02:40.320 this and we got to stop shame we got to start shaming women that are complaining over nothing

00:02:44.820 it's annoying so people just go make your own i don't want you to make one for me but i don't

00:02:50.320 want to have to go and make coffee for loads of people unless boss is being able to say whatever 0.99

00:02:54.800 they want i just feel like we're not supposed to say what we think women don't understand hierarchy

00:02:59.740 um if your your husband or boyfriend is supposed to be your boss and he's supposed to be able to

00:03:05.200 say whatever he wants and you can't say whatever you want and that's called a hierarchy

00:03:09.360 but we don't really understand that concept think why should bosses be i had this horrible boss in

00:03:15.440 the past that was just talking about his political beliefs that were completely opposite of mine and

00:03:20.660 i hated it made me feel very uncomfortable he was targeting minority groups all the time and 0.52

00:03:25.080 and just say all these things everyone would agree with him because he's the boss i think

00:03:29.140 there should be the same rules for everyone whether you're a boss or not so yeah this is

00:03:33.700 things i hate about 95 jobs let me know in the comments do you agree with me and what's something

00:03:38.380 that makes you hate nine to five jobs all right we got lizzo 2.0 here yeah every other day i've

00:03:45.360 been crying and i don't know why i'm thinking it's for me this is what i'm thinking that it's

00:03:53.280 a burnout because i'm extremely tired um just with juggling everything juggling life juggling kids

00:04:01.260 and it's not even i hate crying because i feel so weak when i cry because i to me crying gives

00:04:07.540 lack it gives weakness and all of that and that's none of that i'm not weak i'm actually very strong

00:04:12.680 i'm not lacking anything but i still cry typically during the work week um i haven't even made it to

00:04:22.700 work for today yet and i'm crying so again she's fat right a lot of these women they're just lazy 1.00

00:04:29.260 they don't want to do basic like working you know and it's not that like what would be the

00:04:35.360 difference at home if they had a work from home job i mean they would just be working at home

00:04:39.000 sitting on their laptop i just don't see these women as like motivated go-getters that are always 1.00

00:04:44.140 going to be doing something and i know women like that i know women that are lazy um and i know 1.00

00:04:48.620 women that are go-getters and they always have to get something done like maybe it's the job 1.00

00:04:52.180 to the stress i don't know i just i don't know i don't necessarily feel fulfilled in life like i

00:05:00.860 just i don't i don't feel fulfilled i don't feel like i create my days i feel like my days are

00:05:06.260 created for me um being that i have kids being that i got a full time okay only women feel that 1.00

00:05:12.320 they're entitled to liking their job men know that they have to like work and die women fought to be 0.98

00:05:19.000 you know women wanted to live in a man's world but we just cannot take really what comes with 0.99

00:05:25.200 being in a man's world job my days are made for me i don't choose what i'm gonna do each day it's 0.94

00:05:30.460 it's you know what i'm saying i don't need no bullshit people if you talk you get my comments 1.00

00:05:35.740 talking shit i'm gonna block you you know why you have kids and all that let it the fuck go 1.00

00:05:39.620 my oldest daughter is the fuck about to be 16 baby let it go i've been busting it open years 1.00

00:05:44.480 the fuck ago and had a kid like you know i don't want to hear that but this is i'm just um 0.99

00:05:49.660 i don't know what it is uh it's just the same mundane shit over and over and then it's like 0.99

00:05:57.720 i do self-help things i write down things or different like stuff that i want to start or

00:06:02.880 that i want to try to help make my life better like i'm not one of those people that just complain

00:06:07.360 and don't do nothing to fix it like i actually be trying to fix it i got this filter on thing

00:06:13.160 guys so y'all can't catch the tears that was kind of scary did you see her go from like and then to

00:06:18.100 like it's them they're covering up the tears but um yeah i yeah i don't know y'all i try to plan

00:06:26.900 and do things like to self-help myself but i feel like i can't even catch a moment to even start the

00:06:31.700 to start the things like like i said my days aren't filled with what i need to get done or 0.96

00:06:37.700 want to get done it's the fuck is telling me what to do the job's telling me when to go 0.98

00:06:42.520 these last few weekends baby they ain't been mine they've been for the kids okay they need this they 0.99

00:06:48.120 need that go like you know what i'm saying it's constantly doing for others um i don't know i am

00:06:55.380 just I just need a second y'all I just need a second all right let's see all right I want to

00:07:01.660 see the comments go to your primary doctor and have them take you out a few days oh my gosh

00:07:06.840 so they're gonna oh my gosh I've been at my current job for three months and I cry every

00:07:10.820 other day and now I have panic attacks the amount of time we spend at work is ridiculous we're all

00:07:15.580 overworked isn't it crazy how women have these bs jobs that aren't even hard and we still complain 1.00

00:07:21.520 oh my gosh i cried for 10 minutes in my office wednesday but the job availability in my area

00:07:27.060 is small it's horrible to look for job opportunity i think many of us feel the same way girl same

00:07:32.240 um there's a lady on tiktok who's 60 and quit her job after 50 years she's 60 and she cried

00:07:37.740 because she was so happy and i felt that you're never too old to start over breathe and here's

00:07:43.300 the issue we will women will always have echo chambers to just tell us we're right all the time 1.00

00:07:48.680 and that's you got to be careful for for the two women that watch my channel you have to understand 1.00

00:07:53.440 that all women are going to sabotage you i wouldn't really invest in female friends um 0.80

00:07:57.560 it's just not a good long-term investment make part two of what my feelings are before i start

00:08:03.700 this job and oh i'm gonna miss the tick tock of you talking about your feelings oh what up guys

00:08:11.220 welcome to my reaction series today we're reacting to women going back to their nine to five so i 0.99

00:08:18.200 actually don't think nine to fives are that bad i think that women grossly over exaggerate how hard 1.00

00:08:23.160 it is because especially at white women that are pretty a lot of times a man's doing the work at 1.00

00:08:28.600 work anyways here's why after three years of freelancing and essentially being my own boss

00:08:34.140 i am going back to a nine to five job i wanted to share this because a lot of people romanticize

00:08:39.440 being your own boss um but when you're your own boss sometimes you don't get paid um some people

00:08:45.040 have the personality for it some don't it just depends what kind of person you are i feel like

00:08:49.080 it's super relatable especially in a time where everyone wants to be a content creator or influencer

00:08:55.040 they might be thinking of quitting their nine-to-five job or they're about to do exactly

00:09:00.420 what i'm about to do main reason why i am going back to a nine-to-five job after freelancing

00:09:06.120 and being my own boss is to become financially stable again and that holds a lot because a lot

00:09:13.100 of women don't have the skill um to make money on their own especially to be a youtuber um tick 1.00

00:09:19.040 tock is not the money you think it is it maybe is for a short periods but i i don't really see that

00:09:24.800 as overly sustainable as a full-time thing a lot of embarrassment for me for some reason quick

00:09:31.980 backstory i actually worked a nine-to-five job for six years and felt like i was in a good place

00:09:41.060 with all of the side gigs that I had going on at the time to quit my nine-to-five. So a lot of

00:09:47.660 people think in the past three years the only thing that I've been doing is maybe photography

00:09:51.860 and some social media like TikTok but I've had so many different jobs in the past three years

00:09:58.120 but freelance. I don't really recommend that because I just don't think you can get good at

00:10:02.120 that many things if you're focused on like five things um but hey I mean I'm not saying I have

00:10:08.260 the answers for different nonprofits or different companies i was and still am doing a ton of

00:10:14.500 photography i'm a certified travel agent i babysit at night and then i was a nanny in new york city

00:10:19.940 i feel like everyone thought i was messing around all day frolicking around new york city or

00:10:24.980 traveling the world doing absolutely nothing but i had about six years the more women try to signal 1.00

00:10:32.020 that they're not doing something it just seems like the more likely they are to do it have you

00:10:35.620 you noticed that? I've been jobs I was doing all at once. Some months were so good financially

00:10:40.900 that it honestly was kind of mind blowing. And then there were months that it was the very

00:10:44.720 opposite. Someone who grew up playing soccer, college soccer, I had so much structure that I

00:10:52.260 kind of lost it in the past three years. Although I'm super on it with my work, I get everything

00:10:57.340 back in time to clients. I just think I lost my schedule and that part of my life kind of started.

00:11:03.540 again this is translation and this is um some people are not built to work for themselves

00:11:10.580 they can't turn down events and like fun stuff in order to get stuff done to get a little crazy

00:11:17.220 so i think having structure again is going to be super helpful for me i'm not going to be on

00:11:22.180 everyone's beck and call like i feel like i have been in the past three years as someone who is 30

00:11:28.100 years old, it's kind of crazy to have a nine to five, not have a nine to five, and then go back

00:11:34.700 to a nine to five. More people do this more frequently than I thought or I think. And it

00:11:40.060 has been a roller coaster of emotions in the past two weeks. I'm going to make part two of

00:11:45.100 what my feelings are before I start this job. I'm going to miss the TikTok of you talking about

00:11:53.980 your feelings. Oh, no, no. I'm devastated. I failed at quitting my nine to five and pursuing

00:12:05.320 my dream and my dream did not come true. Here's the pros and cons of working a six figure tech

00:12:11.200 job versus quitting everything, quitting your job, moving abroad to chase after your dream,

00:12:17.780 start your own business moving abroad unless you have something lined up there it's like a reason 0.66

00:12:25.380 for your industry just seems like it would be expensive um a lot of women get really good 1.00

00:12:29.780 paying jobs out of college because they're young and hot they don't realize that those jobs aren't

00:12:34.740 going to come forever and then they leave them and then they don't get them again ground zero

00:12:41.140 i can now say i've done both and i have failed at both and maybe in some people's eyes succeeded a

00:12:49.780 little bit at both too so that's my credibility i have about nine years of experience in corporate

00:12:55.940 tech and then i also have and tech is kind of like women doing nothing i i don't know i i have 1.00

00:13:03.060 friends that are male that work in tech and i've just heard that the women are like grossly overpaid 1.00

00:13:09.700 and the men do a lot more work. I guess I don't know from experience, but I have seen women go 1.00

00:13:15.880 into tech and get insanely paid jobs that were like really good. About three and a half, almost

00:13:22.620 four years of being an entrepreneur in like a small business type of deal, but not like tech

00:13:30.820 related or anything. Hobby becoming a business that didn't really go anywhere. I'm rambling.

00:13:35.340 sorry let me get to the point but i really was serious at it and went full time with it i quit

00:13:40.460 my career quit everything didn't pursue trying to find a new job or anything for about a year and a

00:13:47.180 half and here are my thoughts yes corporate or the nine to five grind is a rat race yeah you do the

00:13:55.480 same things you barely make enough where you make enough where it gives you a sense of stability but

00:14:02.240 like is it ever going to scale the challenges i don't think it's making enough it's um

00:14:09.520 the lifestyle that comes with corporate america is very expensive and women don't say no to 1.00

00:14:16.240 drinks after work um women don't say no to going out to eat women don't say no to a pilates class 1.00

00:14:26.640 the lifestyle in a lot of these cities is expensive and women just keep signing up for 1.00

00:14:31.120 expensive things in my experience in the same sense as like a business owner like would you

00:14:37.640 have the potential to become like financial free yes if you're very smart and careful no not on

00:14:44.960 the scale if you build a successful business and that business kind of you know explode but

00:14:51.100 a corporate job does give you the stability that everyone talks about gives you health care 0.95

00:14:56.120 benefits depending on where you are might be shit might be not might be great but like it just gives 0.87

00:15:01.000 you something because like without it you're on your own you have nothing gives you 401k match 0.56

00:15:06.520 social security and let's not get into whether or not that's good or not like it's an option okay

00:15:13.960 we can get into the nitty-gritty at some point but it's an option and you have a schedule you have

00:15:20.840 somewhat a sense of community if you are in a healthy working culture you can make friends

00:15:26.760 with your co-workers you can relate to a lot of your friends and a lot of women kind of marry

00:15:32.200 their work and that's kind of the new uh series it's like we have all these jobs that are

00:15:37.080 essentially babysitting for women um and they make friends at work they go out after work then they

00:15:43.080 backstab each other and find a new job repeat family and other people i would say though there's

00:15:48.680 some like the obvious perks with building a small business i got to pursue my dream

00:15:56.280 my hobby as a full-time gig but then like you're free with your time yeah you can dictate how much

00:16:04.680 you work how little you work but you're trying to build something and if you're not doing it

00:16:12.280 nobody else is sorry about the background noise i live on top of a mechanic shop so you end up

00:16:17.560 really just working full time like not the nine to five more like a lot of i would say you work

00:16:23.480 more hours um but you do have flexibility like if you do if you want to do like growing up my

00:16:32.840 parents owned a business and they we they would take vacations like with the whole family but

00:16:39.480 it's not like they weren't working on these vacations like they my dad still had to take

00:16:43.480 calls they still had to do stuff but like other jobs they couldn't take like three weeks off and

00:16:49.280 just hang out the kids the minute you wake up to the minute you sleep don't have a routine you

00:16:54.780 could set a routine but it's not the same as like knowing you have to go to work you know money is

00:17:00.440 always coming and going you don't know when the next paycheck is you don't know if you're gonna

00:17:05.400 to make it i this is where i failed i did not make enough i not making enough for it to become

00:17:13.860 something that can sustain my life like i it doesn't pay all my bills like doesn't pay to

00:17:19.680 you know stay alive i'm not giving up but it's hard i've been at it since 2021 i've learned a

00:17:27.120 lot for sure i'm not a business oriented person i'm really just an artist and i wish i could just

00:17:33.580 make art for the rest of my life and not worry about money i don't even care to have a lot of

00:17:37.900 money really i just want to make enough where i can't be alive and do what i love to do and so

00:17:44.160 homegirl cannot just live on her savings forever and make jewelry and try to make this business 1.00

00:17:50.720 work because set savings does run out and i don't have a very supportive family so i can't just move

00:17:57.680 home to pursue my dreams so the reality is i have to go back to corporate and here we are we're back

00:18:06.340 it feels good but yeah a lot of women we just think that running like again we want to be men 0.99

00:18:12.180 to look cool but we don't want to do the responsibility that comes with being a man

00:18:17.940 and living in a man's world so anyways guys let me know what you think of the comments um

00:18:22.200 have you ever had your own business or gone in corporate america what was the difference what

00:18:26.460 would you prefer? Like the video and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - January 10, 2026

Women In The Workforce： A TOTAL FAILURE!

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