Pearl - Smart Men Don’t Debate or Argue

00:00:00.000 So I grew up in a really conservative and Catholic area.

00:00:04.680 I don't know, all the white nationalists and like that side of YouTube, Twitter, probably

00:00:09.740 would have really liked where I grew up because it was mostly white. 0.59

00:00:12.440 It was like Catholic, conservative.

00:00:14.980 And being that's where I was from, I always was very pro-life and I was pro-life for two

00:00:22.060 reasons.

00:00:22.640 One, maybe three, three.

00:00:24.520 One, my mother always dragged me to pro-life events.

00:00:27.660 so I actually got to meet Sarah Palin when I was like 12. My mom's part of the reason I'm

00:00:32.960 conservative because she was always in like those kind of circles, right? Second reason is because 0.99

00:00:39.340 my parents adopted. So I've been on both sides of adoption. I'm one of 10 kids, but I always say

00:00:45.760 I grew up with six and I was the second out of the original six. When my parents or when I became a

00:00:51.880 teenager, my parents started adopting kids that just weren't in the best situation. Most of them

00:00:57.440 were teenagers they weren't like setting out to adopt but one had a parent that was homeless one

00:01:03.740 had a parent that was an alcoholic and overall these were good kids just you know cursed with

00:01:10.200 bad parents you know my my parents were just really giving people so um they took them in

00:01:16.500 anyways fast forward I turned 22 I learned I actually have a brother that I didn't know about

00:01:22.440 so my parents got pregnant when they were really young and gave that kid up for adoption he grew

00:01:26.920 up with a different family. I met him as an adult. So all of these experiences made me pro-life

00:01:33.440 because I've been on both sides of adoption. And it really surprised me one day because I used to

00:01:39.980 do abortion debates on the streets. I would take a sign and I would say abortion is a cop-out.

00:01:44.800 It's not that hard to not get pregnant, which it's not. It's really not. But besides the point, 0.80

00:01:50.280 my dad, it really surprised me. He told me to stop wasting my time.

00:01:56.920 and i'm thinking dad you're more pro-life than i am right you um

00:02:04.600 you would you saved these teenagers and you gave a kid up for adoption how could you say that right

00:02:12.280 abortion is murder and that's kind of how i viewed it right i and i still view it that way i think

00:02:17.800 you're killing a lot i think you're killing a child and i think dad this is like a genocide 0.93

00:02:22.760 in front of our like eyes how could you say that and my dad said that conservatives need to give up

00:02:30.140 on the abortion issue because it's not going to change and he told me I was just wasting my time

00:02:36.000 and at first you know I kicked and screamed as women do no I'm not wasting my time but then you 1.00

00:02:42.420 know I did these abortion debates over and over and I showed women abortions and even after they 0.98

00:02:48.600 would see like limbs being ripped off of babies they're like no a woman should still have the 1.00

00:02:54.720 right to choose and I noticed all the women that are like pro-life now they're always like magically 1.00

00:03:00.520 pro-life after they've had three abortions you know I'm like I've been conservative my whole life

00:03:06.800 my entire life from the time I was like 12 I've always voted Republican a lot of women they start 1.00

00:03:14.000 off voting liberal, not me. So to me, I'm like, where have you bitches been? Like I was at rallies 0.99

00:03:19.660 when I was 14. What's your excuse? Um, you know, so it just seemed like a lot of women trying to 1.00

00:03:29.020 profit off of it, you know, and that's kind of my experience with the pro-life, you know, movement.

00:03:34.500 They always handle women with kid gloves. And, you know, I think a lot of you saw me debate Lila

00:03:38.640 rose um what you get with a lot of really right-wing women is whenever there's male sin like 1.00

00:03:47.560 porn they they crucify it oh it's a degrading degradation of society but whenever a former

00:03:55.720 porn star who probably had like three abortions come comes to the pro-life movement they're like

00:04:00.860 oh right this wet you know just incredible anyways back to back to so at one point I had

00:04:09.520 a debate show and I would do debates with women like six days a week at one point um every day 1.00

00:04:16.360 would be different topics sometimes it's like modern dating sometimes it was abortion like

00:04:20.980 it was just wrote it like at this point I have debated or maybe more like conversational like

00:04:28.080 had conversations around every single topic known to man. And what I realized is that intelligent

00:04:34.160 men, um, don't want to waste their time. And my dad's a very intelligent guy and intelligent men

00:04:41.440 are going to look at it and think, wow, you know, it's like WWE, you know, cool. It's fun to like

00:04:49.060 watch a debate maybe now and then, but intelligent men aren't going to try to change your mind

00:04:54.800 because they don't want to waste their time. And the way my dad would think about it is the amount

00:05:00.760 of work it would take to change abortion laws with women kicking and screaming, they can just 1.00

00:05:07.320 have it. I'm going to go make money. I'm going to go build, you know, my dad built a mega shed in

00:05:13.920 his backyard. I got better things to do. And I realized intelligent men in general do not like

00:05:19.900 debate. Debate's really for lower status men that have nothing to do, right? And it's not an insult,

00:05:27.900 right? Most people are not high status, right? But when you're young, you have nothing to lose

00:05:34.320 and nothing to do. You don't have a wife. A lot of young men now don't have a wife, don't have kids.

00:05:39.220 Okay, now they have the time to debate. But as men get a family and get better things to do,

00:05:44.600 they ultimately will choose anything else over arguing especially arguing with women because men

00:05:51.980 can be changed by logic women are completely illogical it's based on how we feel so if we 1.00

00:05:59.220 don't feel like abortion's icky we're just going to keep killing our kids if we don't feel like 0.97

00:06:04.700 it's a kid we'll just keep going till the end of time and intelligent men realize that and say do

00:06:09.900 you know what? The guy's getting paid off of debates. That's a different thing because they're

00:06:15.980 getting paid, right? They're getting money. Or women, we just love wasting time. So we'll just 1.00

00:06:22.140 keep doing that till the end of time. But in my experience, the most intelligent men, they just,

00:06:28.440 they look at the drawing board, they look at the chessboard and they see how they can move

00:06:33.240 the best in the current system that we have, but they are not going to waste their time debating

00:06:40.780 you. And I think that's the challenge you get in society is there's a lot of people, especially

00:06:47.700 in media, they move up in the ranks in society. So like the destinies of the world, the Anna

00:06:53.040 Casparians of the world, the, the common to the Brett Coopers of the world, Candace Owens of the 0.97

00:06:58.120 world. Um, even like the Matt Walsh is Michael Knowles. And generally they're low. They would

00:07:05.260 be low status anywhere else. Like they don't have a area of expertise or competence or like a body

00:07:12.640 of work. They're just actors essentially. Um, but they've gotten really good at the skill of

00:07:21.320 debating. But what isn't recognized, I guess, is that two intelligent men aren't even going to

00:07:28.420 argue with you. So what I found is actually, it's the least intelligent people that are in debates.

00:07:33.920 It's actually, it's actually women or low status men, because intelligent men,

00:07:39.840 high status men, they're just not going to waste their time. I think there was a clip a few months

00:07:44.380 ago I saw of someone from Charlie Kirk's cabinet debating destiny. And destiny is just talking

00:07:50.120 over everybody because he's gotten really good at doing that like that and I'm just thinking I'm in

00:07:56.420 such a cloud world because of no other universe would a guy with this little experience in

00:08:02.720 anything get to have an opinion this loud and you could just tell the most intelligent guy on the

00:08:09.240 panel he's not gonna over talk you he's not gonna he's just sitting there waiting for this guy to

00:08:15.060 shut up. And that's what I've noticed is the most intelligent men, they just are not going to fight

00:08:21.680 you to talk and you have to actively get their opinion because they are not going to fight you 0.99

00:08:26.920 for it because they view most of you guys as stupid and commentators too. Um, and so anyways, 0.99

00:08:34.200 my experience in panel shows and debates and all that stuff, even if you watch like Jubilee, right?

00:08:39.980 what intelligent people in general are going on jubilee and i got to a point where i'm going on

00:08:47.440 these debates and i'm thinking i was never meant to hear any of your opinions i'm not supposed to

00:08:57.380 be i'm in a clown world right i'm supposed to hear the opinion of the guy that's worked for

00:09:05.700 like 30 years and is an expert in the field on that topic but I have to listen to Brett Cooper

00:09:12.300 Anna Kasparian Candace Oh like these are the people I have to listen to and I just got to a

00:09:19.620 point where I'm like this is the biggest waste of time and I think men get to that point too because

00:09:25.460 nobody's opinion changes and the rules of the system aren't going to change anyway

00:09:30.480 um I get paid on it so I still do debates right you kind of have to but I'll even I'll even do

00:09:37.720 these debates and I'll think why am I here why isn't you know Terrence Popp has saved 500 men

00:09:44.300 from suit why isn't he here right um and it's because the experts and the most intelligent

00:09:52.880 people on the topic are never doing debates but all of them have huge egos they think they're

00:09:59.880 really important because everybody tells them they're important because they get the applause

00:10:04.480 but intelligent men they don't care about the applause they literally do not care they don't

00:10:10.600 need like i wish i could put into words how little my father cared about credit growing up

00:10:15.960 he did not care about credit he did not care about status he did not care he just wanted he

00:10:22.200 would always say just get it done what's the next step get it done what's the whenever i i tell him 0.81

00:10:27.460 sometimes I bitch about like, um, the Pajits or whatever. And he's just like, who cares? Like

00:10:33.880 he'll, he'll tell me who cares. You can't change it. What can you change? What can you,

00:10:39.860 and the most intelligent people, they don't bitch about problems. They just focus on what 0.91

00:10:45.340 they can change. And that's why. Um, and I think I could say this because I've done so many debates,

00:10:51.360 but the the most intelligent people are not debating they are not they have better shit to 0.98

00:10:57.360 do especially debating with women because they know you're just not gonna win because you could 1.00

00:11:03.020 win a debate with women and then everyone will still view you as a villain like um

00:11:10.640 yeah so I got to the end of the tunnel and my father was right just like he is about pretty

00:11:18.300 much everything. Abortion is a waste of time. It's not going to change in our lifetime. Anybody 1.00

00:11:25.700 that sells you that is kind of selling hope. And women win. You get to kill your kids. You've 1.00

00:11:31.760 aborted an eighth of the world population. And it doesn't matter. I could show them a video of 1.00

00:11:38.540 how disgusting and awful it is, and they're just going to do it the next day. They do not care. 0.86

00:11:43.380 And they don't really have remorse for it either. A lot of people say that women feel guilt. 0.97

00:11:47.580 they don't um they don't like the shame like when they say it publicly and people are like oh you

00:11:53.800 killed your kid they don't like that but in terms of like remorse feeling sorry um they don't care

00:12:03.660 they don't so anyways the most intelligent people don't debate like the video and if you have a

00:12:10.500 thought on the topic please put it in the comments I do read them and a lot of times the next day

00:12:15.340 when I do a coffee talk um I take directly your comments sometimes I like think of I think of my

00:12:22.340 next topic because of a comment like the video and I'll see you next time

Pearl - March 08, 2026

Smart Men Don’t Debate or Argue

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