Pearl - September 12, 2024


Some Things In Life Are MORE IMPORTANT Than Changing The World ｜ Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

12 minutes

Words per Minute

177.2918

Word Count

2,197

Sentence Count

131

Misogynist Sentences

36

Hate Speech Sentences

21


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In this episode, I talk about why politics doesn't matter as much as you think it does, and why you should stop caring so much about politics. I also talk about how women have far more power to oppress men than they did 100 years ago.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 So today I want to talk about why politics doesn't matter as much as you think.
00:00:04.780 Now, I don't want you guys to misunderstand me.
00:00:09.440 The laws that are passed today do greatly affect our lives, right?
00:00:14.320 Like if you live in a town where they're letting in a bunch of illegal immigrants, that is going to affect your life.
00:00:19.600 If you want an abortion and they pass a law that makes you, that means you can't get one, it won't affect your life that much.
00:00:25.940 You can just drive to a different state, but hypothetically it could, right?
00:00:29.000 but how much influence do you personally have as a person? So the presidential debate was yesterday
00:00:38.660 and I saw conservatives going to Twitter to give their political takes. Trump destroyed Kamala.
00:00:44.780 The moderators were unfair, et cetera, et cetera. I used to follow politics very closely. I loved
00:00:51.800 watching the Daily Wire, Charlie Kirk, and any Candace Owens political debate. Their work is
00:00:57.280 important and I'm not going to pretend it's not, but my conclusion is none of the debates matter
00:01:02.320 as much as we think. Working in media, it blows my mind how two people can watch the same debate
00:01:08.340 and both believe different people won. When I was working and doing debates, there would be debates
00:01:14.840 where we would both use the same title, Pearls Destroyed or Pearl Destroys, meaning we both
00:01:23.000 could use the debate for our content, where we both would say that we won the debate, and both
00:01:29.060 of our followers would agree. The female voting bloc will walk away from this debate thinking
00:01:34.740 Kamala won, and conservatives will think Trump won by landside. Trump is a misogynist from the
00:01:40.660 liberals. Conservatives will think that Trump destroyed Kamala. Both will walk away and still
00:01:45.880 vote for who they vote for. So why would I, as a normal person, put a ton of energy into it?
00:01:52.420 From my experience, people do not change their worldview until reality forces them to change it.
00:01:58.800 The educated liberal will not vote Republican until liberal policies come for her paycheck.
00:02:05.440 Do not get me wrong, I am not arguing that media is not powerful, but I am arguing it does not
00:02:12.100 affect us as much as we think. So many media personalities make money off of drama. Don't get
00:02:18.780 me wrong, it is entertaining. I have participated. Watching Charlie Kirk debate 20 college kids is
00:02:25.020 hilarious. Watching Jordan Peterson destroy a feminist is even inspirational. Watching me go
00:02:31.840 online and say that a certain voting bloc shouldn't vote in a room full of liberals is too
00:02:37.280 funny. Don't get me wrong, it may be useful when you are younger and trying to formulate your
00:02:43.100 opinions, seeing people debate both sides. But overall, this stuff is entertainment and should
00:02:49.780 be looked at as such. I have no problem doing debates from time to time, but you will see my
00:02:54.840 content has moved away from that. There's a couple of reasons I have reached this conclusion. The
00:02:59.940 first being that I read a men's rights group from 1920s. The men were complaining about much of the
00:03:06.220 same things that they complain about now. Basically, in 100 years of asking for men's rights, we have
00:03:12.000 little to no progress. Don't get me wrong, you do see small changes in the laws updating and the
00:03:17.560 occasional woman getting put on alimony, but overall, I would say that women have far more
00:03:22.820 power to oppress men than 100 years ago. I am conservative. I know I'm going to vote Trump.
00:03:28.760 How is following the election closely going to affect my day-to-day life? It won't. You will
00:03:34.300 have a far greater impact building lasting relationships with the people around you than
00:03:38.940 following politics for the average person. I'm not talking about people that have YouTube channels,
00:03:45.280 okay? The last month, I have been learning recipes in order to be a better cook. The time I learned
00:03:52.140 spending how to cook will make my life better because I have better meals. It makes my friends
00:03:56.400 and family's lives better because they get food too. And potentially, you have deeper relationships
00:04:01.580 with the people around you and you can be far more influential over time than fighting or even
00:04:07.360 watching a podcast. The women who do this over time have a tendency to become masculine.
00:04:14.340 I don't think women are meant to think about the world's problems. What I did not realize when I
00:04:19.240 was debating six days a week was how masculine and how stressed it made me, thinking about the
00:04:24.860 world's problems. Women try to separate it, but I just cannot imagine these trad wives talking about
00:04:29.940 war in Ukraine and coming home and being peaceful for their families and their husbands. Dealing
00:04:35.880 with this firsthand, I can say that it masculinizes you. And I see a lot of these women getting sort
00:04:41.220 of a God complex. Many of these women view themselves as guided by God and almost have
00:04:46.800 a savior complex. They talk about banning corn and become the Karen at every school meeting.
00:04:53.900 One of my mentors and one of the most feminine women I have ever met said something to me that
00:04:58.440 struck me a couple of months back. She said, Jesus could not convert the world. Why would I think
00:05:04.280 that I could. Most women in politics lack femininity and deep down are fueled by fear
00:05:10.020 and anxiousness because part of femininity is letting things go outside of your control.
00:05:15.740 You do not get that warm feeling of motherliness from any of the political commentators.
00:05:21.060 And hey, maybe they can turn it on when they get home. I don't know. They may be nice people,
00:05:26.460 but you don't get that warm feeling. Many people use politics as a way to virtue signal.
00:05:33.100 I see this in conservative men and women especially.
00:05:36.720 The next strategy political parties use is an us versus them complex.
00:05:41.180 If you are in the conservative group, then that signals to you you are automatically deemed as a good or better person.
00:05:48.120 I am embarrassed to say that to some degree I used to buy into this.
00:05:51.300 I used to think that people have a higher morality if they are conservative.
00:05:54.700 But one of the realizations that I came to was that conservative women and liberal women are really not different.
00:06:01.720 People are people, and if anything, I saw conservative women as being much more deceptive.
00:06:07.120 Liberal women are much more upfront with their downfalls.
00:06:10.300 Take the Hillary Crowder case, for example.
00:06:12.760 She was crying on the internet about how Stephen Crowder was abusive while taking $25,000 a
00:06:18.680 month from him in alimony and child support.
00:06:22.720 Candace Owens backed her up.
00:06:24.300 Lauren Chen backed her up.
00:06:25.540 All of these so-called conservative women band together to take down a man they did
00:06:30.340 not white like. Candace Owens even invited Hillary to come on her show to spill the tea on Crowder.
00:06:37.200 These are supposed Christian women who put internet drama above the Crowder's children's
00:06:42.440 well-being. The reason I keep bringing up this case is because it shows that conservative women
00:06:47.620 are conservative until they have to put their money where their mouth is. And if the woman has
00:06:52.340 to choose between her reputation and the man's, she will always put her reputation first and use
00:06:58.380 the tools the state has in order to do so. These are the conservative women that the men have to
00:07:04.300 choose from. They may not have their tits out or say that they hate men, but their behavior is
00:07:10.080 often the same and at other times worse. The reason that it is worse is because these conservative
00:07:15.340 women care more about their reputation in a way that liberal women do not. If a liberal woman is
00:07:22.640 found out to be a bad wife, she does not care. She will tell you up front that she does not need a
00:07:27.680 man. But if a conservative woman is found out to be a bad wife, then the man must be abusive,
00:07:33.160 because it certainly cannot be her as the problem. And this was what I found in my experience men
00:07:40.420 that were victims of divorce rape. More often than not, they were religious to some extent.
00:07:46.680 Again, women's reputation fuels a lot of our behavior. These women tend to be less upfront
00:07:53.920 and their aggression, but they are more sneaky with it as we saw in the Crowder case.
00:07:58.780 Another example is a conservative woman I know personally did not like the things I was saying
00:08:04.420 online. Instead of just ignoring it and not watching my show like the liberal woman I knew,
00:08:09.740 she proceeded to call all of my friends and family in order to destroy my reputation.
00:08:14.560 She even called my old college roommate that she barely knows. Sure, the liberal woman would maybe
00:08:19.960 yell and scream at me, but at least that was upfront instead of a sneaky attack that you did
00:08:24.300 not know about until years later. Taylor Swift, for example, is pretty open with her failure of
00:08:30.280 relationships. At least Travis can see that coming. But oftentimes, the good girl in church
00:08:36.300 is more sneaky because she has built her reputation on being a woman of God. The other thing I
00:08:42.340 noticed was that sex workers and slutty women understood men more than conservative women.
00:08:48.620 The sluts study men and what they like.
00:08:50.620 You can see this by how they dress and the way they would describe their interactions
00:08:54.580 with men.
00:08:55.700 On the other hand, they did have a lot of sexual experience to come to this conclusion,
00:09:00.700 but I found that they at least understood the basic seduction of men where conservative
00:09:05.280 women often did not.
00:09:07.300 Conservative women, based on what men have told me, are far more likely to weaponize
00:09:12.120 sex as a method of control.
00:09:14.240 They are taught to withhold sex in order to get marriage.
00:09:16.960 so why would that stop after marriage? Now, at least when the liberal women are asked,
00:09:22.260 do you obey your husband, they say no, and the men know what they are getting. But conservative
00:09:28.060 women, on the other hand, have found funny workarounds like, I will only obey my husband
00:09:33.240 when he follows God, and conveniently forget about being obedient to your husband in all things.
00:09:39.520 Now, your experience may be different, and I don't mean this to rag on conservative women,
00:09:43.520 as liberal women have a different set of problems. But these experience caused me to see people
00:09:49.220 beyond politics. Politics does not make you a better wife or a better person. A conservative
00:09:55.680 man is not automatically going to be a better husband and a conservative woman is not automatically
00:10:00.960 going to be a better wife. But this leads me to my next point. The people that tend to want to
00:10:06.780 change the world tend to go crazy. I'm going off the script here because I wanted to tell this
00:10:11.440 story. So I interviewed a man a couple of months ago that had been dead set on changing the world.
00:10:17.960 He was an older guy, and he brought me a stack full of papers proving his point. Now, his point
00:10:24.160 may have been right. It may have been wrong. I don't know. I just knew what he told me. But I
00:10:29.800 could tell that him trying to save the world over time made him completely lose his mind.
00:10:36.380 Even if he was right, it didn't matter because he had lost his mind over time trying to change
00:10:45.120 everyone's mind around him. A better strategy is to make a ton of money and then try to change
00:10:51.540 things. Trump became a billionaire, wasn't overly political, and then he ran for office. Elon Musk
00:10:59.060 did more for free speech than any political pundit, and he was a liberal. Sure, there are
00:11:05.740 different strategies, but in my opinion, the people that think they can control the universe
00:11:10.740 tend to go insane. So what is my point today? Because we did cover a broad range of topics.
00:11:18.160 Vote Trump and move on with your life. If you're unsure, watch the debate. But outside of that,
00:11:23.720 it's far better to focus on how to be a better person and improve your life.
00:11:28.680 Being a conservative woman or man does not make you a better wife or husband.
00:11:33.040 Many of these men and women see themselves as having already won because they are married
00:11:39.100 and now spend very little time trying to improve themselves.
00:11:43.260 Women that truly like a guy will change their political beliefs over time.
00:11:49.300 You get one vote for president and you can be far more influential in local politics.
00:11:55.100 Many people use politics as a buffer for things they cannot fix in their personal life.
00:12:00.360 It could be relationships, money, or something else.
00:12:03.040 It's far better to spend time fixing your money, relationship, or weight problem than spending your life fighting a political battle.
00:12:10.500 The presidential debate is another example of one gender, won't say which one, having to become a billionaire to be in their position, and another gender, could be either, using sexuality to get ahead.