Pearl - September 06, 2026


STDs Are RISING Among Women — But Nobody Blames Them


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8 minutes

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177.21

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1,471

Sentence count

6

Harmful content

Misogyny

8

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Toxicity

13

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23

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00:00:00.400 I'm Nephila and today I want to talk to you about the bias in medical and scientific research to
00:00:07.680 favor women. The reason I want to talk to you about this is because I just finished reading
00:00:13.360 some statistics about STDs and STIs and I was surprised by the language used for women.
00:00:22.720 I find it very curious to be honest with you. So what I was reading was about how
00:00:29.120 there are increases in stds and women in particular they've gone down a little bit in the
00:00:34.900 past year but over the past five years they've increased significantly and this is yeah that's 0.67
00:00:40.100 what they always do they always gaslight you because okay they'll say oh people aren't having
00:00:44.780 sex and i'll say well women are having sex and they'll say oh but women said they're not having 1.00
00:00:49.820 sex and i'm like oh gee well if women said it you know what i mean so this chica um you know 0.99
00:00:57.760 she says you know the s like that's what they'll do to manipulate you they'll say oh stds went down 0.99
00:01:02.960 yeah a little bit this year but not in general you know be true for congenital syphilis which is 0.98
00:01:11.420 where a baby is born with syphilis because the mother has it and that's the worst part syphilis 0.99
00:01:16.720 i'm pretty sure is curable so uh it's because women are lying to their providers and in that 0.61
00:01:23.960 article you know that's why they give the vaccine to babies um i forgot whatever the one riley 0.98
00:01:30.100 gains was speaking out about she was all oh no you like i don't have this std so we shouldn't 0.98
00:01:37.180 require the vaccine for babies it's because the mothers fucking lie so much but i was reading 0.99
00:01:41.680 they blame the fact that these women are carrying children and having them while having stds they 1.00
00:01:49.860 blame that on a lack of information a lack of knowledge and a lack of access to resources
00:01:56.900 which i find incredibly ignorant and totally false i i feel actually kind of angry about this because
00:02:06.440 it's women's choices yeah exactly and you know what okay so i was i was a real good girl when
00:02:13.640 i was young not all the time not all i'm not saying i was the best girl right but
00:02:17.940 i was kind of a late bloomer when it comes to that stuff and as a midwoman and just as a late
00:02:25.480 bloomer you watch all these women that make these awful choices just get rewarded and it's very
00:02:31.560 blackpilling i'm sure it's the same way you guys watch chad treat got like women terrible and get 0.74
00:02:36.560 rewarded um you'll because like you know i was taught to not have sex before marriage and at the 0.99
00:02:42.300 time when i was young i didn't want to do that obviously i gluck lucked and fucked fucked anyway 0.97
00:02:46.440 but you know what I mean but I did try I did give it a good old old old jolly try you know 1.00
00:02:52.460 and the issue the issue was I would watch all these women that were big whores get the commitment 0.99
00:02:58.640 from the top men that I wanted or like you know I didn't see any yeah I mean you can only here's 0.99
00:03:06.760 the thing I was talking to a adult a male virgin the other day he was like 35 or something and he
00:03:12.120 said that he was waiting until marriage and i said you're cooked my god i would just start 1.00
00:03:16.200 fucking hoes because and he's like well i'm not doing it to get a wife and i'm like okay well 1.00
00:03:20.920 what if you never get a wife because you wait till marriage and women are gonna run circles around 1.00
00:03:25.400 you are you gonna you're 35 will you be happy with this choice at 45. you're cooked just accept it
00:03:31.720 cooked that have gotten them there it's not a lack of resources we live in a time where we have
00:03:38.200 access to all the information we could possibly want you can look up studies and yeah that's why
00:03:43.960 i don't buy the brainwashed stuff if you're brainwashed you're brainwashed uh by what you
00:03:49.320 choose to consume these chat gpt but even that is biased at this point because if you look at the
00:03:55.320 answers it almost always protects women and it almost always doesn't have harsh truths in it
00:04:03.320 such as maybe sleeping with a bunch of men and not using protection isn't a good idea
00:04:11.520 but instead what we're seeing in these medical journals is we have to protect women from feeling
00:04:17.880 shame and embarrassment and the burden is being passed on to medical professionals
00:04:23.340 instead of the women themselves instead of having any sort of personal responsibility or yeah look
00:04:30.700 okay over a certain age in order to really you're gonna have to put out um and you're not really
00:04:37.100 gonna get around that so i would just understand the risks and and do with that what you may
00:04:44.140 get your health in check do the best you can limit it as much as possible it just is what it is
00:04:49.980 um yeah accountability we see the medical text saying oh we have to be careful discussing this 0.95
00:04:56.940 with women because they feel shame and they feel embarrassed and things like that no if you are
00:05:04.540 choosing to lay down with a man multiple men and not use protection or safe protocols then
00:05:13.260 you are responsible it's not the medical community's job to hold your hand gently and say
00:05:22.380 oh maybe you should get tested no if you are out here behaving this way yeah you gotta go
00:05:29.420 um what would i recommend every six months you can do three months depending on your level of 1.00
00:05:34.620 whoredom um and new partners i would do six months that's good enough depending on your money you 1.00
00:05:41.820 know what i mean you got to get tested for hpv once a year though then you have to be the one
00:05:46.940 to take care of the repercussions of the situation you have to take accountability ladies it's not
00:05:54.380 on your doctor to make sure you're safe it's on you so this weird medical language has made me
00:06:01.580 quite angry to be honest with you and i've been because everybody's lying to you 24 7. it's
00:06:07.740 do you know what i'm in the acceptance phase um where instead of saying oh no they're lying i say
00:06:12.940 yeah i mean that's expected you know what i mean but there is an anger period as a woman where
00:06:19.100 you are pretty angry because you just realize everything's a lie and for me it was when i
00:06:25.180 realized that my career every accomplishment i'd ever had was alive my career was a lot
00:06:30.780 not saying i don't work hard i do but just knowing that you are where you are because you're a woman
00:06:37.500 and you know my little brother i love him so much i love him so much he'll say to me he'll be
00:06:44.460 frustrated with his work and he'll say well you made this money and i tell him i'm like you're
00:06:48.460 smarter than me woman's money not the same as men's money you guys have to work way harder for
00:06:53.520 it is this in multiple fields as well i'm trying to not do the bird hands sorry i got distracted
00:07:01.020 i do the bird hands constantly i'm never gonna stop take me as i am but now every time i watch
00:07:07.020 of my videos i watch for it and i can't i can't unsee it but anyway we have to recognize
00:07:13.820 that when i say we i mean the scientific and medical community we have to recognize that
00:07:21.620 women are their own people it's almost insulting to me and infantilizing to me to see how they 0.97
00:07:30.260 talk about us and i don't know why more women aren't offended by this it's like the abortion 1.00
00:07:36.060 an argument yeah I mean that's kind of that's how I felt when I was talking to Jason Everett
00:07:39.880 he seems well-meaning but it's just I'll listen and I'll think yo you're coddling us I don't need
00:07:48.380 to be coddled and you know as a woman okay when you're coddled um as a woman who has accepted a
00:07:55.260 lot of harsh truths I don't really have a lot of sympathy for women that haven't because it was 0.98
00:07:59.720 difficult for me to accept so you have to accept it too but the simps are really the problem they 1.00
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00:08:10.620 description you can see a behind the scenes on the podcast and hang out with me doug mpa and
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