Pearl - Stop Jestermaxxing Women

00:00:00.000 you know just be who you want to be and women should not change who you are based off if 1.00

00:00:04.480 they're twerking or giving out sex for ten dollars a month for an only thing 1.00

00:00:09.440 no i mean you were on point uh i definitely agree the part where you just said look i don't want

00:00:14.160 anybody who doesn't want me like it's almost crazy right to try to be with somebody who

00:00:20.240 completely doesn't want to be with you and i think most of what you stand was a lot of being stoic

00:00:25.920 like just accepting the reality and then figuring out the best position and the cards you can play

00:00:30.880 from this angle so i don't think traditionalism is coming back like i said even if you were amish

00:00:36.960 they would just you know call it a cult and then you know write you up on charges eventually

00:00:41.760 so at the end of the day it's just like accept the reality move from that paradigm because i

00:00:47.280 don't think everything sucks because of that i think we still have a bunch of options so

00:00:52.000 So definitely traditionalism is not coming back anytime soon and hoping and dreaming or trying to bring back.

00:00:58.740 What's it called? No fault. Divorce. These are just pipe dreams like that's just cope.

00:01:03.840 Guys, leave it alone and figure out where do you go from here?

00:01:07.320 That is the best strategy. And there's flights overseas and everything.

00:01:11.500 There's a lot of options, but they still suck, too. So just know that. 0.89

00:01:16.280 Get you a Ling Ling, fellas.

00:01:18.080 they're crazy too yeah yeah yeah they're still gonna be women there's some guy you got the 0.64

00:01:25.520 tie wife in the chat i'm like why don't we wait a decade and see let's wait and see 0.87

00:01:30.680 um again pa go ahead yeah i'd say guys um you know feminism freed women up from being barefoot 0.97

00:01:39.900 and pregnant uh in the kitchen but it also freed you got it also freed men up from their obligation

00:01:46.780 from society too it used to be you know bachelors and playboys were like rich men but guys honestly

00:01:52.780 if you you know if you become the best version of yourself even if you're making sixty seventy

00:01:56.780 thousand dollars a year and you're not in like a primary housing market if you're in like a

00:01:59.980 secondary tertiary housing market you can live a good life you get to choose guys you your life

00:02:07.180 used to be set you know my dad's generation you graduate high school you start working at the

00:02:11.900 plant or you join um the military and that's it you know if you got married and you had kids

00:02:18.860 so are you the rich kids went off to college guys we have all these options now and holding

00:02:23.260 on to this whole traditional like why so yeah i think that we just need to embrace it and just

00:02:32.060 embrace the fact that we have options now with women i was talking about the obligations that

00:02:35.420 women had to society and how they were shackled down men used to be too but now we're not anymore 0.99

00:02:41.340 so enjoy it you used to inherit a farm now you're forced to be a farmer oh my god

00:02:46.860 i would hate being a farmer couldn't be me shout out to doug mpa he's been here since the pre-game

00:02:53.420 days um anyhow do you guys have situations when you were younger where you thought of

00:02:58.460 something one way and then changed your outlook yeah for sure i mean i used to be a dummy who

00:03:06.380 was like yeah man i'm gonna give me a black queen and build my blood queen i mean like that's what

00:03:12.700 i was taught from my culture like and then she gotta be like my mama which is also weird that's 1.00

00:03:18.300 kind of like incest vibes but net net that's what i was told from the jump and it wasn't until i

00:03:23.900 started traveling seeing the world that i started to change my mindset in particular and then started

00:03:29.260 to see a pattern amongst all women of all cultures and then i was just like oh my gosh you know like

00:03:34.780 what i think and hear is not matching with reality so is there a problem with me or reality you know

00:03:41.020 i sound kind of lunatic if i'm saying the problem is reality and they don't conform to my mindset

00:03:47.420 so i decided to start shifting it you know started to look at the relationships different

00:03:52.220 started to accept that people will leave you make decisions that don't make sense in comparison to

00:03:57.500 the options they have and that's people people have free will and so once you kind of understand

00:04:02.860 like okay they just have free will then just allow them to have that and you're either going

00:04:07.580 to be the guy you want to be or just act like you're that person what i mean by guys often

00:04:13.100 say like man i want the kids i i want to just i don't want to be a degenerate and womenize women 1.00

00:04:19.020 okay cool so doug mine and i offered you a solution of saying just go out and be yourself

00:04:23.820 then just stand on who you are you know just be who you want to be and women should not change 1.00

00:04:28.620 who you are based off if they're twerking or giving out sex for ten dollars a month for an

00:04:33.260 only thing i shouldn't change you i used to take it really personally if someone did something to

00:04:38.620 me i'm like how do they not feel guilty and my dad one day he was like murderers don't feel guilty

00:04:44.700 what like he's like that's on them they even have a justification for it yeah he's like a lot of

00:04:51.580 people don't feel guilty like if you see people after they commit crimes they're like yeah i did

00:04:56.780 it you know when they confess they're almost like happy or they're dancing in front of the victims

00:05:03.580 and everybody's like i can't believe it like what do you expect them to be sad they did it

00:05:08.860 because they did it and that's how they think they think differently and so you got to accept that

00:05:14.700 oh doug mpa snow bunny in the chat says cheers oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah i want her to come

00:05:20.620 up she's the one that i told you wants to come on the show i think it would be a good conversation

00:05:26.780 um do you have a story for us i know you do who me yeah you know about what's changed yeah if you

00:05:36.780 have a story from when you were younger oh shoot so where do i start so um i thought that women 1.00

00:05:43.580 were victims and i thought that men had to make up for it somehow um like we owe this

00:05:50.620 i'm from western washington guys come on now so you know i believe in that feminist past where 1.00

00:05:57.680 men were nothing but but trauma and uh towards women so men had this debt and then um i also

00:06:06.620 believe that your your wife or significant others should be your equal uh you know i used to not

00:06:14.860 think about you know the the fact that men bring more to the table and are more of a utility the 0.95

00:06:23.900 women i didn't i didn't really realize that i didn't realize that until later on in life

00:06:28.780 i'm trying to think and then um you know honestly i thought that um marriage meant forever

00:06:36.940 that was the best

00:06:41.220 pearl pearl sorry there was a big one i was talking about that go ahead if the internet

00:06:47.180 stopped working worldwide with traditional relationships return no i don't know negative

00:06:53.500 no negative they'll do it by pigeon mail pay like they'll figure it out power grid across the world

00:07:01.200 would have to go out i heard like peasants used to just like the king would just steal the girl 0.88

00:07:06.200 and she would just go bro pearl he used to go in there and clap cheeks and the guards would just be

00:07:13.160 standing there and you would have to stay there with your kids and just wait for the king to be

00:07:17.560 done or the lord or the duke and then they'll just leave so i'm like bro the past was pretty

00:07:23.240 aggressive like you don't want that like a dude like me could just have a west wing abroad

00:07:27.960 that's where the f word came from f-e-c-k was fornication under commandment of the king 0.98

00:07:37.480 so um men of status would just go go to your village and just start banging chicks 0.96

00:07:45.800 because they were um royalty or of status and all you can do is sit there and just watch it

00:07:53.300 sean what were you going to say that doug had an important one oh no no no yeah i said uh

00:07:59.640 yeah story actually when i was growing up i just remembered it i was just sitting like pov

00:08:05.720 realizing that my mom was a bopper like she would like that for real like i forgot what maybe i was

00:08:14.240 like about 15 i was just sitting there and she like we were going to the city called baltimore

00:08:21.260 city i think you might know where the violent crimes are and i'm like why are we going here

00:08:26.140 i hate going here and she was like rolling up on this guy that was on the corner he was a drug 1.00

00:08:31.900 dealer right and we in the car i'm looking like an idiot my sister is too and she's talking to 0.96

00:08:39.260 this drug dealer out the side of a window he like what's up little ninjas and then net net maybe like 0.96

00:08:45.580 a couple months later this guy move into the crib why he starts selling drugs in the community yeah

00:08:51.820 it's pretty bad bro he starts selling drugs in the community like he got like i'm telling you

00:08:56.540 i used to chase tadpoles in my community but when he came like kids returning from this to like this

00:09:02.940 they were selling drugs and stuff it was mad crazy and i remember my sister was trying to stop it

00:09:08.380 like trying to tell my other family trying to be like get them involved and my mom at one point

00:09:15.260 told my sister like she was a jealous little bee like she was hating and dirty macking on her 1.00

00:09:23.580 and i was like yo what i didn't know this until later and it transpired so i just understood

00:09:30.540 like people can make the f'd up decisions and be on their time like my mom dated a guy who had a

00:09:36.540 clutch of laundry mats he was successful he was nice to us but she decided to let the drug dealer

00:09:43.180 move in and live with him and have him inject and that dude used to beat me like a runaway slave

00:09:49.660 but i just understood from early on that people make decisions and it is what it is especially as

00:09:54.780 a young boy um my sister she didn't have much issues because she was a woman but most of my 0.78

00:10:00.700 family um protected her but for me you know he had free range with me because nobody you know nobody

00:10:07.260 really cared so i just learned from early like man you have to be wise even the people who say

00:10:12.780 say they love you the most, like my mother, right? They'll make decisions all on their

Pearl - March 08, 2026

Stop Jestermaxxing Women

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