Pearl - The 304 To Church Pipeline w⧸ @jasonevert

00:00:00.000 yeah well i don't think many wives aspire to be treated like a child 1.00

00:00:04.160 oh i mean maybe someone might want to act like it you know but i think to be treated like it and 0.59

00:00:09.840 just talk down to and like you will do this or you're in time out to me is it's treating

00:00:13.760 you more like a possession you'd be surprised these days i don't know many happy marriages

00:00:20.080 where that's the dynamic at play okay right so i forgot what you're saying before that

00:00:26.480 but i i just it's risky yeah and i'm not gonna downplay that at all it's i mean i've heard

00:00:32.800 they're in my inbox right now of the husbands and and the wives too of them sending because i'm

00:00:38.160 hearing both sides of the stories yeah there's a huge risk you could lose everything but if you're

00:00:43.760 not willing to i think you already have lost it all well obviously you're gonna say that because

00:00:48.160 you need a safe future for your kids so i can understand your incentive for that um but again

00:00:54.800 average men are going to hear this and like lower status men and they're just not going to do it so

00:00:59.760 they're free to make their choices yeah i know but i would i would recommend you know i really

00:01:04.400 think i would like to encourage conservatives to fight for marriage reform and telling women to

00:01:09.280 shut up i think that would be amazing yeah yeah well i mean what i would want to fight for is for

00:01:13.840 the guys to understand like your freedom is best measured by your capacity to love and if you're

00:01:19.120 living in fear you're not free if you're living in lust you're not free only a man who has self

00:01:25.920 control and who can actually face his fears can be free to love a woman and build something

00:01:29.920 beautiful it's possible but not if you're scared to death that it'll never happen you got to face

00:01:34.480 your fears if you're a man you really do it doesn't mean you have to get married not everybody's

00:01:38.000 called to get married but your vocation is the definitive direction of love in your life who

00:01:42.880 you're going to make a gift of yourself to and if it's like you're not safe i'm just living in this

00:01:47.280 shell and there's like a cage because it's it's safe over here but that cage is going to become

00:01:52.000 a coffin i think the cage is going to become a coffin for the guy you're saying that if men don't

00:01:56.080 want to get married they're in cages if it because of fear if it's fear that's making him run away

00:02:02.160 from marriage then yes that's not the calling what if they they say i get nothing out of this

00:02:07.440 it's not worth it i would say guess what marriage isn't about you and if you think it is it's

00:02:11.840 probably the wrong vocation for you yeah i think happiness isn't something marriage gives me

00:02:16.240 happiness is something i better bring into my marriage okay well i just want you to know that

00:02:19.840 mindset is going to be why more men are going to hear that and not get married and leave the church

00:02:24.400 so i think guys will hear it and realize like no there's some things in life worth fighting for

00:02:28.880 and marriage happens to be one yeah well if you look at church attendance um i know there's been

00:02:33.200 a slight spike but overall the last 20 years it's lower than ever it hasn't been slight it's 0.66

00:02:38.480 astronomical what's happening all these young people who have binged the hookup lifestyle all

00:02:43.600 that stuff realized it promised me everything and it gave me nothing now there's something transcendent

00:02:49.600 i was just looking at the numbers the other day it's still like eight to one in terms of like

00:02:54.400 leaving versus coming i have to look it up again i don't know at the top of my head

00:02:59.760 overall overall in america church attendance is down yeah not in the catholic church uh it's going

00:03:06.160 it's starting to see this massive boom of young people coming back into young adults in their

00:03:11.200 20s and 30s still going down i just tweeted about this the other day i mean i could pull it up if

00:03:16.000 you want but it's it's no overall the catholic church is losing attendance sometimes what they

00:03:22.640 do is they still like look at like 2020 to 2023 and show it's like oh it's booming from 2020 but

00:03:29.200 overall the trend is still down well if you look at like the last 50 years the global population

00:03:34.000 of catholics is increasing not decreasing okay it's now the largest christian denomination in

00:03:39.120 the world at about 1.2 billion yeah so like it's it's growing but i mean i don't know there's a

00:03:44.160 point of argument this direction that direction it's my only point was that i think what we're

00:03:49.200 starting to see i believe is that a generation of people who've just been so sick of the noise

00:03:54.960 of social media hookup cultures godlessness that they want something transcendent and sacred and

00:03:59.840 stable and they're coming home to the church and if that were true then only fans wouldn't be here

00:04:05.040 so oh no i mean yeah it's getting worse it's more accessible than i'd like i'd like to say i don't

00:04:10.160 sell hope um it's gonna get worse and enjoy the decline well you know to me it's just making sin

00:04:15.840 easier to get because like when i was a kid if you want to see porn it took time money and effort to

00:04:20.560 go get that stuff you need to take a lot of risk to steal your friends dad's porn collection out

00:04:24.880 of his nightstand now we're giving it to our 14 year old boys in their smartphone with no filters

00:04:30.080 and by the time they get to 28 years old they don't even know how to say no to temptation

00:04:34.000 while they're in a bathroom by themselves for five minutes i think for every conversation we 0.66

00:04:38.000 have about porn there should be five okay for women on social media what do you mean on like

00:04:45.040 you're on social media yes so should you not be on social media in a perfect world i wouldn't be 1.00

00:04:49.920 okay that's why can men be on social media um men it's not as detrimental because women feed off of

00:04:56.240 male attention where men um like sex okay so women we don't um want sex as much as men unless it's 0.99

00:05:02.880 It's from like the top guys genetics, but yeah. 0.71

00:05:05.500 So basically you're giving men access, 0.96

00:05:08.820 like women access to replace their husbands easily 0.54

00:05:12.420 with social media, it's marketing. 0.94

00:05:14.160 No, I mean, you're not gonna get me to argue with you.

00:05:16.760 We need a heck of a lot less social media. 1.00

00:05:18.720 Yeah, for women though, it's gotta like, 1.00

00:05:20.480 the church has gotta start talking about female sin. 1.00

00:05:23.520 And that's like the number one way women are doing it now 1.00

00:05:25.760 in social media. 1.00

00:05:27.100 I never see the churches call out women

00:05:28.820 dressing half naked on it ever. 1.00

00:05:31.280 I mean, they'll do it to church.

00:05:32.640 i see him at the churches nowadays dressed half naked and the men are too weak to call him out 0.57

00:05:37.040 yeah so like we need to have more conservatives talking about female sin the men have heard it

00:05:42.960 they know so yeah no i mean we just put out a video a couple days ago on modesty and women

00:05:47.840 in bikinis if they're christian you know we're not afraid to speak out on it not because we're

00:05:52.000 shaming the women but rather male modesty is an issue too and i think we both need to work on this

00:05:56.960 virtue it's not the same like that's almost like feminism right there because you keep saying

00:06:01.680 every time i talk about female sin we always have to say men why it's a female sin men don't

00:06:09.040 immodesty is a female the immodesty of a man's intentions could be far more immodest than any 1.00

00:06:15.040 outfit she could ever put on and so what's the cause of robbery the presence of women in the 1.00

00:06:20.400 window of the store or the presence of greed in the heart of the rock now women get naked far

00:06:24.400 before men even ask them to i go to gyms the men will look down oh yeah oh come on the men are

00:06:29.600 looking down trying not to look at the women women get naked first far before the men even 1.00

00:06:34.240 in the mirror with her phone and dressed women are the predators we gotta stop treating them 0.90

00:06:39.040 most of the time they are so it's like yeah like for we gotta stop talking about porn men know 0.90

00:06:45.520 most men aren't excited that they're watching porn it's kind of an l they couldn't get a girl 0.62

00:06:49.280 yeah they're not excited they know do you know who doesn't know women how detrimental their social

00:06:54.880 media habit is so it's like for every yeah so i i just would like conservatives i think like i don't

00:07:05.600 know why none of them will talk about this stuff but it's just yeah no i'd like you to keep speaking

00:07:10.640 on it because social media just rots you yeah i mean how much one of the rule of thumbs i try to

00:07:15.440 give young adults is only use social media standing up don't use it lying down because if you're

00:07:22.240 throwing that up 45 minutes go by whoa where did my life just go married married women no pictures 0.94

00:07:27.520 on social media no no pictures stop torturing your family single women because they put pictures 0.67

00:07:33.780 on social media yeah okay because you're single okay because you're putting yourself out there

00:07:38.300 yeah yeah to be found but once you're married you put it away okay yeah if that's your okay

00:07:43.700 but what if they're putting pictures that they're not doing it to be found um they're just like

00:07:49.840 sharing with their friends they torture the kids by posting their family on social media okay and

00:07:54.400 invading the kids privacy no i don't recommend creating around your children i'm sure yeah i 0.97

00:07:58.480 don't think you guys do that it is but there's a lot of women that do yeah and like i've seen women

00:08:04.160 especially in the conservative circles like they yeah it's terrible yeah so yeah i mean hopefully

00:08:10.000 their intentions are good i just wanted to show people a beautiful family is possible but you

00:08:14.720 know i i'm with you if you get off as much as possible intentions who cares yeah results yeah

00:08:21.120 yeah so so anyways i think we're at about time did you have fun i did yeah i want to thank you

00:08:27.200 for coming out here i had a great time would you want to do it again i'd be honored yeah okay um

00:08:32.720 where can they find you and what do you have a speaking tour yeah no we're traveling globally 1.00

00:08:38.400 can we add in the speech social all the things women are doing wrong 1.00

00:08:44.160 hopefully i i don't hold back i don't pull punches with the guys or the girls the whole

00:08:48.480 assembly i'm i try to be happy but demanding of both of them so for equal time about porn

00:08:55.280 we're going to talk about women's social media have equal time well i don't go into the habits

00:09:00.240 of social i go into modesty with the women i i'm very forthright and challenging the women on that

00:09:06.000 social media is gen z that's the number one problem oh no we bring it up social media but

00:09:11.440 women not both just women yeah women but not men they don't need to worry about how much time they're

00:09:16.320 spending on social not at all not at all not at all okay so he could just just just sit down

00:09:20.400 and doom scroll all day and just rot yes just bed rot is good for a man yes okay that's okay

00:09:25.840 bed rot is good for yeah because they're not that's not gonna all the expectations you have 1.00

00:09:29.360 of women's bodies yeah that's good yeah that's fine they can don't get a job don't feed the poor no 1.00

00:09:34.000 men's social media it's when they go on it the women get naked like women men will watch anime 0.99

00:09:39.760 and then women get naked and come into it yeah they're not even looking for it well they're

00:09:44.320 putting themselves in an occasion where they know it just might happen but oh my goodness no i'm

00:09:48.240 telling you like if you look at reels and scroll them it's like fishing anime if you look at their 0.98

00:09:54.080 reels and then the the women just get naked and go into them well that's why they get they like 0.57

00:09:58.880 then the girl's like here's how i fish and then her tits are out i'm like you've got to be kidding 1.00

00:10:02.320 me i think it's smart for couples this is my thing total transparency on phones oh god 110

00:10:10.000 and if i can't be transparent with my phone then i'm not transparent with you i would say the

00:10:13.760 women have to be transparent and the men don't because the women the women will find something

00:10:18.640 to complain about i bet i bet you've been i bet you've been the perfect husband no i never i bet 1.00

00:10:23.440 you've never even strayed right i've never had any affairs yeah yeah and i bet she still found 1.00

00:10:29.360 something to complain about because that's women. That's women. 1.00

Pearl - August 24, 2026

The 304 To Church Pipeline w⧸ @jasonevert

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