Pearl - The Born Again Virgins Need MORE ATTENTION

00:00:00.000 i mean if you're so unintelligent that you just believe women at their word uh i don't feel bad

00:00:04.860 for you what up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to born again virgin so a

00:00:11.960 lot of times what happens is women waste um their purity on men um that either don't deserve it or

00:00:18.800 that are out of their leagues they get nothing out of it and the cope strategy is to basically

00:00:22.880 raise their price do a higher price for a product that's been used and um that's going to create a

00:00:27.820 bubble when really they should be giving it away for free and then just behave like a wife with

00:00:32.100 the guys they give it away for free for um and then there's going to be a buyer right what if

00:00:37.680 i've had sex what if i've done other stuff can i re-wait for marriage what's a born-again virgin

00:00:41.400 how does that all work we shall talk about it first and foremost what god makes clean is clean

00:00:46.620 baby girl second christians 5 17 says this means that anyone who belongs to christ has become i

00:00:51.700 hate all the sim pastors that are pushing this you guys are terrible you guys are terrible you're

00:00:57.160 terrible people these women are gonna die alone waste years of their 20s where they're attractive

00:01:02.440 being doing this porn again shit and they're gonna get nothing out of it um you would have

00:01:06.760 more wives or women having families if you just told them to give it up for free sorry sorry not

00:01:11.440 sorry a new person the old life is gone the new life has begun when you give your life to the lord

00:01:17.680 you are a new creation like the person that you once were is literally no longer alive like that's

00:01:23.000 why it's called born again imagine you becoming a baby and going through your 19 years except you

00:01:29.360 just skip all the growing up part and you're the same age but you're just a completely new person

00:01:33.500 and you're living a completely new life that's what it means to be born again you need to show

00:01:38.120 some evidence of being born again though i gotta stop i'm tired of taking these women at their word

00:01:43.460 it's like how dumb can you be let's take a woman not a man a woman at her word get out of here so

00:01:50.640 you can be a born again virgin because what you did in the past who you were in the past does not

00:01:54.900 define you god defines you and he says your new creation when jesus died on the cross he paid for

00:01:59.820 all your sins so he washed you white as snow y'all so you can always rewrite for marriage by the grace

00:02:05.100 and the power of god i've met people who before christ did x y and z and now they are christian

00:02:10.000 they are re-waiting for marriage someone once said to me carly how am i gonna tell my future

00:02:14.460 wife that i've like had sex they were like what if she doesn't love me or what if they don't look

00:02:19.800 love you more again carly girl how long have you been waiting like five minutes the same i'm telling

00:02:26.520 you right now whoever you end up with is going to look at you with the purest intentions and

00:02:31.240 the purest thoughts that is so not true that is i mean why would you want that like why would you

00:02:36.760 want someone that looks at you with pure thoughts you know you can't judge someone for doing what

00:02:41.880 is wrong when they didn't know it was wrong your wife again you did know it was wrong it's just

00:02:49.800 it's very frustrating to me because the church people always tell i didn't know and it's it's

00:02:56.200 like i don't know every wrong thing i i've done um i'd say there was some things where maybe i was

00:03:04.760 lacking the other person's perspective um but you know i mean you kind of know when you're doing

00:03:11.080 something wrong i mean your future husband is not going to condemn you for your past and if they do

00:03:16.920 that's not the one baby girl because what god sets free is free what god makes clean is clean

00:03:22.760 so if you're someone who's holding a past over your friend over a family member over a boyfriend

00:03:27.720 a girlfriend or over a husband or wife check your heart please because yeah you can re-wait

00:03:34.200 and you can be a virgin again when you've fully committed your life to the lord and have made

00:03:38.280 that commitment to not go back to that you can't just say every time you have sex that i'm just

00:03:42.840 going to re-wait that's not how it works because god knows your heart god knows your intentions at

00:03:46.440 at the end of the day when you fully surrendered that to the lord and you're like okay yeah i'm

00:03:50.180 actually gonna strive for this and i'm literally living for the lord now he sees that he knows

00:03:55.120 your heart and it's performative um just re-wait and don't tell anybody but the people you're

00:04:00.260 dating if you're gonna do that don't make it a performance don't make it a show just do it and

00:04:05.440 then don't tell anyone you did it but they they can never do that it's it's always got to be for

00:04:10.560 their brand like like imagine how kind of messed up it is to use waiting for marriage as your

00:04:16.320 as your brand body count my body count was renewed when i turned my life over to faith

00:04:22.940 and even if i had 100 bodies i'm a virgin again if god can turn 120 gallons of water into wine

00:04:30.580 he can turn me into a virgin again so you slept with 100 people but i've been renewed

00:04:35.520 been renewed by my faith. I'm a virgin again. God did. A hundred people. Okay. Jeffrey Dahmer

00:04:41.800 goes to church. Oh, I haven't killed a hundred people. God renewed me. Do you want to be alone

00:04:47.500 with me? It's like, you guys are predators. You guys are not good people. I don't care. I don't

00:04:52.920 care if God renewed. Give me 10 years of good behavior and then we'll maybe trust you around

00:04:59.240 a guy oh hell no wish your body i mean honestly the church guys kind of deserve what they get

00:05:05.940 because they believe women i mean if you're so unintelligent that you just believe women at their

00:05:09.820 word uh i don't feel bad for you yes why one of the things that i've realized is none of the men

00:05:17.720 that i've been with intimately deserved to see me in that way none of them deserve to be with me in

00:05:22.440 that way and the only person that really does deserve to see me in that way is my husband the

00:05:25.940 who's committed to me for life um is going to know me and grow old with me and all that stuff

00:05:29.220 and what she's now selecting for is men she doesn't desire and she's not attracted to and

00:05:33.540 this is just the question uh i would say that marriages last longer when they're attracted to

00:05:38.100 each other um but in order for society to function women have to date men they're not attracted to

00:05:42.340 and marry them so it's just a question of um that's teach teach his own right do we force

00:05:47.140 women to have sex or not it's either forced or it's not forced right um and so now she's basically

00:05:54.420 she's going to be less attracted to the guys that wait because men that wait for marriage it's

00:06:00.220 generally because they can't get attractive young hot women any other way uh don't shoot

00:06:06.440 the messenger there's the occasional chad that does it but it's just not the norm men in church

00:06:12.380 even if they're attractive they're just known for not really understanding women that's why

00:06:16.640 they get bamboozled they're marks sorry fellas like now that i'm christian i've been learning

00:06:20.920 about god and how how god designed us like our bodies don't belong to us and god he created our

00:06:26.440 sexuality he created our desires and his perfect design for us is to be with one person he wants

00:06:31.840 us to obey his command i know but i i really think that you either did it that way and if you didn't

00:06:37.800 you got to give it away for free um sorry that i didn't create this world um but re-waiting it's

00:06:45.600 just going to select for men that are stupid like that's what you're selecting for because

00:06:50.240 who would be unintelligent sorry sorry for the fellas that did it i know you'll be offended but

00:06:55.040 like that's just not the most intelligent thing to sign up for and to flee from sexual sin and

00:07:02.260 only have sex in the situation of you know marriage and stuff how would that feel if you

00:07:08.060 saved yourself for marriage and then you you him and you got married and you did all this and then

00:07:12.760 the end it ended in divorce it's statistically proven women who have lower body counts have a

00:07:17.400 lower rate of divorce you're a born again virgin yes yeah but how what body count did she get to

00:07:23.880 before she waited you know talked about a lot before i'm basically like a born again virgin i

00:07:29.880 call myself a born again virgin all the time because like five years ago i made a pact myself

00:07:34.440 that i'm not going to sleep with any man who doesn't care if i live or die i'll only sleep

00:07:40.600 with men who are actually interested in me and interested in dating me now did i think it was

00:07:45.400 gonna take more than five years to find somebody like that yeah but uh again all all you can do

00:07:53.560 you're not gonna know till after sex sorry not sorry a man will wait for three months get the

00:07:59.880 sex and then bounce if he doesn't like you or if you put him through hell if anything they'll want

00:08:04.760 to bounce more the more you put them through before sex no i didn't but like i had

00:08:10.360 my hookup phase in college i got it out of my system i was screwed over by a situationship

00:08:16.360 so i'm like yeah i'm not putting myself through that i'm not risking my peace and my sexual health

00:08:22.760 for men who don't care about me and when i tell people that i'll be like yeah i'm a born again

00:08:28.200 virgin for like five years at this point and they're like i can never do that and then they

00:08:33.320 look at me like i'm some kind of weird prude but i'm like how am i the weird one for protecting my

00:08:39.560 peace like maybe it's worth your peace and your sexual health but every time a woman is just like

00:08:47.020 friends with benefits with a man or a situation ship like it always ends up bad nine times out

00:08:51.940 of ten more like 99 times out of 100 it doesn't work out and the woman always ends up crying about

00:08:57.720 it which is fucked up men shouldn't screw over women but it's not worth going through that all

00:09:03.440 the time. Like most men aren't even very good at it. They're not, they're not doing anything for

00:09:11.860 me that I can't do. So it's always super weird to me when women, especially, it seems like this

00:09:17.160 judgment mostly comes from women where I'm like, well, it's just not effective, right? This

00:09:21.380 strategy is just not effective. It's effective if you, you know, you're got a low body count,

00:09:26.760 you're young, you're, but when you're none of those things, it's just a higher price than most

00:09:31.340 men are willing to pay and it selects for the men that are either unintelligent or just not good

00:09:36.480 with women who you tend to not like anyway yeah i haven't slept with a man in like five years

00:09:41.860 like why are you judging me for protecting my peace if you want i'm not judging you i just

00:09:46.900 think you don't want to be in a relationship that's fine give up your peace and your sexual

00:09:50.740 health for a man that doesn't care if you live or die knock your socks off but i yeah but again

00:09:56.260 most men aren't going to care about you right away. The reason situationships exist is because

00:10:02.640 they do work. Women that stick it out do tend to, a lot of times they get commitment.

00:10:07.200 I've seen too many times and have experienced men screwing us over who A, aren't even good at

00:10:14.960 having intercourse and B, again, don't care if you live or die and C, will drop you and ghost you in

00:10:22.620 30 seconds yeah but that's usually not because of the sex that's the problem it's because you

00:10:28.500 have a trait that's unlikable or you present yourself in a bad way and you're never really

00:10:33.300 gonna figure out what your problem is um if you're like if you're you're just removing the sex i mean

00:10:40.580 that doesn't really change much i just never understood that judgment okay well all right

00:10:45.740 let's use next because i haven't actually done it in a year right i literally called

00:10:52.520 a born again virgin because i basically am right however this guy has messaged me and he has a very

00:10:58.760 big okay and he's like very like confident and like on the scene right and he's asked me to work

00:11:04.920 with him and i'm kind of terrified i'm looking at it and i'm like i actually don't know is this a

00:11:10.600 hooker if i could take it like i actually don't know if it's been a year i'm a born again virgin

00:11:16.040 like i actually don't okay that's cope she's just a woman says hey she's just marketing for them

00:11:21.400 i'm abstaining until marriage and i will date i'm my exes that's what that means

00:11:27.320 and participate in the process or um i can no longer bang alphas and this is my cope

00:11:32.360 of elimination so that i can make sure that when i choose my mate again this is fear this is fear

00:11:39.880 based it's a what could go wrong i'm not choosing him because of the mess that i'm in i'm choosing

00:11:45.480 him because i'm clear about who i am i'm choosing him because the universe god has ordained me to

00:11:52.200 say that is my mate but you know come on i gotta choose i can't just settle on the first thing

00:11:59.160 that come along and knock on my door no no no yeah you should the older you get i mean at that

00:12:04.840 at that point you might as well settle for whatever's at your door you know what i mean

00:12:08.280 so yes i do believe in dating as a process of elimination and i believe that women should

00:12:15.660 date more than one man and i believe that women should abstain from sex okay uh again ladies it's

00:12:22.680 not you can do that but it's really going to depend on your age and how much you've thrown

00:12:27.120 it back before um will a guy wait for a girl that's banged one other day even in principle

00:12:32.500 like who's going to sign up for that so anyways all right guys um like the video and subscribe

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Pearl - April 17, 2026

The Born Again Virgins Need MORE ATTENTION

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