Pearl - The Christian Feminist Women and The Blue Pilled Simps

00:00:00.000 What is up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.

00:00:07.760 Thank you guys for tuning in. You guys can bring your time and attention anywhere and

00:00:11.740 you choose to bring it to me. So I thank you guys so much. I think that I am kind of behind

00:00:17.540 on this live stream. I think this is long overdue, but I have a ton of topics to get

00:00:24.260 into today. Now, the first topic I really wanted to bring up, we have a couple things we're going

00:00:30.400 to go over. And the first is I want to talk about people being on the internet.

00:00:37.980 Now, I've said it before on this show. I believe that being a YouTuber and a streamer

00:00:44.840 is one of the best jobs that you can have. I mean, I get to talk for a living and you guys

00:00:51.180 can listen and donate if you like it. Do you know how many, how few times that's happened

00:00:57.140 in my life where I get to talk and people are, you know, so excited to hear me talk

00:01:04.420 that I get paid. And I think for us talkers and idea people,

00:01:14.580 we're all very lucky to be here but we all understand there is a cost to doing um the

00:01:24.980 cost of doing business you could say the cost of being on the internet i can work on my own schedule

00:01:30.560 i don't have to go into an office i get to do this from the comfort of my own home i get to

00:01:34.980 wear what i want do what i want say what i want within youtube guidelines um and the cost

00:01:41.860 is that um people make fun of me people are overly invested in my personal life you know

00:01:50.080 people are mean to me people insult me they call me ugly um you know they they say i'm not

00:02:02.640 a traditional woman which i never did claim to be but i could see how maybe they would think

00:02:07.580 that with some of the arguments I do make. Um, but people can be very mean on the internet.

00:02:23.500 And I think that's a reality that as YouTubers, really, we just have to accept and deal with. 0.96

00:02:30.520 Um, and I think as women, we have an especially hard time because we care a lot more what people 0.99

00:02:34.780 think about us. Men know that they're hated and not liked from a young age. They're kind of used

00:02:38.860 to it. But as we get on the internet, we're like, someone thinks I'm ugly. And men, they just think,

00:02:44.140 well, that's the default. People always think I'm ugly. People always think I'm ugly. 0.68

00:02:52.440 And with that being said, I need to call out some people on the internet that I think it might be

00:03:04.160 time for you to log off. I think it's time for you to hit that log off button to put the internet

00:03:12.440 away because you can't handle it. And I think Nick F is somebody that really shows people's

00:03:20.400 true colors on if they are strong enough for the internet. And I think it's really revealed that

00:03:26.600 just a lot of people, you guys don't have it in you. You know, I have three hour hit pieces made

00:03:32.800 about me I'm not even joking okay I'm really not oh it's not this one I share this tab I'm not even

00:03:40.460 kidding like if I YouTube my name and I haven't seen these because in all honesty um you know

00:03:48.740 you kind of have to have best practices and I you know I don't really watch the hit pieces on me but

00:03:53.740 I know they exist and if I YouTube my name um you know like every time one drops I get like a string

00:04:01.660 of whatever you know share this tab rollo tomasi says he cut just pearly things off

00:04:10.300 um pearl davis davis and the anta and the red pill to alt-right pipeline

00:04:17.740 two hours this woman did an essay video on me but i think she's kind of fat so it's kind of like 1.00

00:04:24.620 do i care what a fat woman has to say like really you're gonna i mean i'm i'm supposed to worry 0.52

00:04:31.100 this. Look at her. This is whose opinion I'm supposed to worry about. 0.98

00:04:41.300 I'm supposed to, you know, it did numbers. It's got a million views of two hours of my life.

00:04:50.460 And I don't mean this in a way to, how do I put this, to make you guys feel bad for me. I don't

00:04:55.920 think you should feel bad for me at all. This is the cost of being on the internet.

00:04:59.180 just early things is a danger to her hey everyone

00:05:03.360 really this is who you know what i mean and that's kind of you how you have to put it into

00:05:09.120 context like i am going to be worried about this woman with purple hair his opinion of me

00:05:14.020 truly

00:05:16.440 really anyways now there's this guy on twitter named dave limbaugh now i don't know who dave

00:05:25.580 limbaugh is but it looks like he has half a million followers he says a lawyer and an author

00:05:30.960 more impressively a progressive media titan rush limbaugh's even oiler so apparently they're

00:05:37.760 comparing him to rush limbaugh i never even watched that guy and um all right so nick f

00:05:46.060 is known i think we kind of have the same sense of humor he's known for making edgy jokes right

00:05:50.920 Now he's making jokes about J.D. Vance's wife, okay?

00:05:56.860 So we're going to watch this.

00:05:59.180 All right. 1.00

00:06:00.020 Why would we let this fat guy who's married to a jeet and works for a gay CIA fed, 1.00

00:06:05.900 why would we let him grow? 1.00

00:06:07.500 It's like so insane.

00:06:09.300 The J.D. Vance operation is in full swing, man.

00:06:13.480 Think about it.

00:06:14.560 Andrew Tate and Bronze Age Pervert and all these people for years, 0.99

00:06:19.000 All they talk about is going to the gym, being a vitalist, fighting the Matrix, India smells bad, all this kind of shit. 1.00

00:06:27.220 And now they're all in favor of a fat race mixer who's married to Ajit, who named his son Vivek, who was mentored by a Jew. 0.99

00:06:36.880 Okay, I'm not going to go into the J stuff. 0.66

00:06:40.300 But in all honesty, Dave, he said anyone who's not repulsed by this evil lowlife, please do the courtesy of, oh, I guess this is Rush Limbaugh's brother.

00:06:47.520 okay whatever i don't know who he is i just skim up on twitter how can anyone approve of his heinous

00:06:52.160 views much less his low low class manner of expression i'm no prude but i'd have to be a

00:06:57.280 gutter rat to tolerate this and you know what i thought about i just thought david i don't know

00:07:02.060 if you're strong enough to be here you know i you know if you can't handle that one you can mute him

00:07:09.780 and two i just wonder like why are you here it's time to log off

00:07:14.980 and officer tatum was another one everyone just seems to be bad at nick um hey candace put some 1.00

00:07:24.180 respect on nick's name you want to call me out sit sit down and shut the f up bitch that's what 1.00

00:07:29.460 oh this was funny this is funny you know and nick has that kind of show and above all else uh you 0.99

00:07:35.500 know put some respect on my name and i hit the nail on my head at the end i kind of went off

00:07:41.660 and i said look i was 17 what's your excuse you know you got married later than me you got red

00:07:50.280 pilled later than me you became a truth teller later than me and you haven't gone through a

00:07:54.720 fraction of what i've gone through and you and she wants to call me out that's what she texted

00:08:00.040 of me. She goes, I'm calling you out. And my response to that is, bitch, you have no right 1.00

00:08:05.800 to call me. And maybe it's time for you as a woman to sit down and shut the fuck up. That's me, 1.00

00:08:12.680 a man. You want to say, make me a sandwich. Okay. This is me, a man telling you a woman to sit down 1.00

00:08:20.620 and shut the fuck up before you call out anybody else. Sit down and shut the fuck up, bitch. 1.00

00:08:27.760 i'm so sick of it she's got her book make me a sandwich that's the book cover her book cover 1.00

00:08:35.080 is her sitting cross-legged i'm gonna sit her her book is her sitting okay so now 0.98

00:08:41.500 brandon tatum and this is a guy uh with almost a million followers he says calling candace a bitch 0.99

00:08:50.920 in 2025. I just, I sometimes think these men must be henpecked by their wives. 0.99

00:09:00.600 Why are you on the internet? Why are you here?

00:09:06.100 What? Like, I just don't think you're strong and I think it's time to log off.

00:09:12.280 And I'm really tired of seeing these men fighting on behalf of women's interests. 0.95

00:09:17.440 Women are the ones that police speech, not men. 1.00

00:09:20.080 Men talk it out. 0.77

00:09:21.200 Maybe they fight it out. 0.95

00:09:22.860 Women are the ones that henpeck and nag. 1.00

00:09:24.820 Why are you guys henpecking for women?

00:09:27.880 You know, Hannah Cox is another one. 1.00

00:09:31.520 The brought problem is making Twitter completely unusable.

00:09:35.000 Right now, every single large conservative account in my feed is denouncing the Tucker, Fuentes, Heritage racist grift and separating from them. 0.97

00:09:43.540 I don't know a single conservative in real life who would support that trash. 0.99

00:09:47.440 And yet in the public square, Elon claims to have built there are countless anons trolling those pushing back and defending the racist trash. 0.98

00:09:57.420 If you can't tell who is real and who is American on here, then it's impossible to gauge where the public truly lies on the issue. 0.84

00:10:05.600 My guess is the majority of the conservative base is on the good side and the bad side is being driven by foreign interests.

00:10:11.340 But who can say? Either way, the damage is done because now the perception is now...

00:10:17.440 I heard something.

00:10:40.800 Okay. 0.99

00:10:43.720 Is that there is huge support for this trash on the right? 0.95

00:10:47.920 and i just want to remind you guys the law got this is all 0.95

00:10:51.040 you're opting in to all of this especially us ladies like if you're not strong enough to be on 1.00

00:10:57.600 the internet oh this they have lost

00:11:03.760 It says it lost the audio. So I got to stop sharing and then reshare. Okay.

00:11:23.420 This woman says, I will not defend this. I won't debate this. 0.98

00:11:28.440 It's just like my whole life. I'm not surprised why women don't support me. Women are 1.00

00:11:33.220 irrational and sensitive it's just like my whole life my whole life because i was always like the 0.98

00:11:39.540 class clown i was always like bullying women and women women have always been like simultaneously 0.98

00:11:48.100 charms but also uh like oh stop it oh oh you're so annoying you know you know what i mean that kind 0.93

00:11:56.020 of thing that's oh it says my browser could you guys hear that

00:12:00.340 could you guys hear that all right don't play into this chat it's fine

00:12:08.160 can you guys hear it because it's saying it lost connection to the audio

00:12:13.500 oh you hear it okay you know and so my my number one point right now is what happens is men

00:12:25.260 make something cool. They want to share ideas or whatever. And then women and simps, just they 1.00

00:12:30.820 always have to nag men. And I just think, why are you on the internet? Okay, so today's topic we are 1.00

00:12:40.920 going to talk about, and this is a topic I love, the trad con dating scene and just the general

00:12:48.480 dynamics of religion nowadays. Now, this is something I'm pretty familiar with because I

00:12:54.980 did do 12 years of Catholic school and conservative Christian women. I just know like the back of my

00:13:01.100 hand, those women tortured me growing up, whether it was relatives of mine, people I went to school 0.99

00:13:07.280 with your tactics, aren't going to work on me. So the red pill is undefeated. I'd like to say

00:13:20.540 first and foremost, I am not red pilled because I am a woman and I can't be. The red pill is not

00:13:27.500 tricking people into some kind of idea that you're going to change the world. It's the study

00:13:31.880 of human behavior. Conservatives are selling you salvation. They generally have an ego investment

00:13:37.940 in selling you their religion. They want people in the pews. Liberals are selling you some sort

00:13:43.120 of empowerment, whether it's LGBT, black empowerment, whatever minority you are. But I am

00:13:49.660 not selling you anything except the belief in being accurate, which you can support at the

00:13:55.100 audacitynetwork.com, 10 bucks a month. So let's take a look at the female behavior of the week. 1.00

00:14:02.420 Remember for years, we have heard from conservatives that not all women are like

00:14:07.020 that. That's just those evil red pill guys and the sluts you guys talk about. 1.00

00:14:12.180 Now they're trying to sell you on the dream and being able to order something that is not on the 0.97

00:14:17.980 menu family family is not on the menu in 2025 it does not matter if you want to blame weak men

00:14:24.300 crazy women or the jays family is not something most people will be able to get and that's 1.00

00:14:29.720 something you can either accept. Oh, it's my washer. I was like, what is that noise? 0.94

00:14:51.600 that is something you can either accept or pretend it doesn't exist so you can either say you know

00:15:01.780 uh we're probably all going to be single parents um whatever relationship i get into it's probably

00:15:07.100 not going to work um we're going to do our best we're going to make a plan we're going to look

00:15:10.980 at people that maybe made it work and hope for the best but um you can either live in delusion

00:15:17.120 and do make a wish and pretend that you're not going to be a statistic or understand that you

00:15:22.100 probably will be. And this is okay, right? You know, some generations had world wars where they

00:15:28.900 died in battle. Our generation, our struggle is we can't buy a house and we can't get into

00:15:34.040 relationships and we hate each other. Women cannot be happy with or without men. Conservatives keep 0.96

00:15:40.180 selling you that if you just pray enough, you'll find a trad way. Now, here's the thing. Men that

00:15:45.600 aren't smart or um have an ego investment in religion tend to get caught up in movements or

00:15:52.320 groups whereas smart men have a tendency to think for themselves until reality you know hits the

00:15:59.280 men that aren't as smart now remember when charlie was alive rest his soul everyone was settled he

00:16:06.400 was selling to you that you just had to find a good woman like erica kirk but anybody that's 1.00

00:16:11.840 red pill aware knows that erica kirk was in her late 20s looking to settle down after getting 0.90

00:16:16.160 banged out in new york city and in arizona state we did not get her information from books or

00:16:21.760 studies again we get her information from real life experience who would you rather listen to

00:16:28.240 you know the men that said i tried this this didn't work it's kind of like um somebody who

00:16:34.400 did a study on how to shoot a basketball versus the guys playing the game that's the difference

00:16:40.720 between a lot of the red pill guys and the commentators. Feminism is women using men's 1.00

00:16:51.920 protector instinct against them in order to get resources. Men respond very easily to shame,

00:16:57.000 guilt, and their want to be a hero. This is how we are in this mess. Now let's look at women on 1.00

00:17:04.180 the right who are red pilling us in real time. Again, the red pill is undefeated because the

00:17:10.380 women in these positions are going to red pill men. Christian women that are pointed to as 1.00

00:17:16.200 conservative are crashing out in real time. We're going to do a few examples. Erica Kirk was sold 0.70

00:17:21.940 to us as this Christian trad wife we should all look up to. I believe that if Charlie did not

00:17:25.900 pass away, she would have divorced him at some point. Erica Kirk was half naked when she was 1.00

00:17:31.340 younger competing in modeling competitions. She has a tramp stamp. She went to Arizona State 0.83

00:17:36.040 University. She'd not married till her late 20s, and she had kids in her 30s. She was very public

00:17:41.120 facing and even giving speeches at TPUSA. This is not to say that any of this was immoral or wrong

00:17:48.480 of her to do, but this is not what they were selling you. They were selling that she was

00:17:52.740 some Christian conservative woman. And the challenge you get, especially in religious

00:17:58.440 circles is they shame the male sex drive. So you get a lot of sexually inexperienced men 0.97

00:18:07.240 because the question is, how many women have you slept within the past year?

00:18:12.460 And if the answer is zero, one, sorry, you're in the sexually inexperienced men category.

00:18:17.820 You're not in the category of men playing the game. And this isn't bad or good, right? But

00:18:25.220 But again, it's people commenting on basketball versus people playing.

00:18:31.580 It does not matter how much you watch the game.

00:18:33.560 When you go up against a woman who has an adversarial mating strategy to you, you are a mark. 0.95

00:18:39.760 This is the difference between the conservatives and the guy in the red pill.

00:18:43.320 In my professional opinion, Erica picked her mark.

00:18:46.700 Now, in the red pill, they have something called widow's fire.

00:18:49.620 Now, widow's fire refers to the intense and often disoriented surge of sexual desire experienced by widows, windowed individuals after the loss of a spouse.

00:19:01.240 This feeling can be a confusing collision of grief and physical longing for intimacy, including both both sexual and non-sexual touch and a natural part of the grieving process for many.

00:19:12.820 this term is used to destigmatize the experiments and also there's the name for online communities

00:19:18.800 for widows and widowers to connect and discuss romance and intimacy and dating after loss

00:19:24.180 there's a surge of desire i mean basically it's a whole phase i mean i mean that's to summarize

00:19:31.880 um now while the conservatives are out here moralizing we're out here describing

00:19:38.700 and i have some empathy for erica she is a young widow with two kids and um she probably feels

00:19:48.680 guilty to some extent that she doesn't feel a ton of loss for charlie and it's very apparent

00:19:53.520 in her the way she's acting um this isn't to pick on erica um because i i think on some levels women 0.99

00:20:01.680 have a tough choice we have to pick between who we love as women which is alpha fucks and who we 1.00

00:20:07.360 have to be with which is beta bucks um this is a choice men will never understand they are 0.90

00:20:12.260 pragmatic we are emotional um not all women are like that the red pill is undefeated because of 0.99

00:20:17.400 all the people's wives all the people who said well not all women are like that and there are

00:20:22.160 still good women their wives are acting exactly like that women will run cover and inexperienced 1.00

00:20:27.420 men will defend it to no end so this week erica kirk is going viral um because she's kind of um 1.00

00:20:37.360 we're gonna we're gonna show some clips that are going viral of erica kirk

00:20:44.640 no one will ever replace my husband no but i do see some similarities of my husband

00:20:56.880 in jd and vice president jd dance i do and that's why i'm so blessed to be able to introduce him

00:21:06.800 tonight because okay now men like you zesty this is gaslighting this is all speculation some people

00:21:18.340 show their sadness and grief in weird ways my brother starts laughing when someone tells him

00:21:22.140 something sad give erica a break they want you to not trust your eyes and your gut feeling

00:21:26.780 because they're always running cover for women that won't sleep with them 1.00

00:21:30.400 i don't understand it i don't get it they're not she's not gonna you know

00:21:35.040 um now again it's really obvious she was at the right age um I mean she was a hot girl

00:21:45.000 in pageants she probably had opportunities to date a level celebrities she gets banged out 1.00

00:21:51.960 by them Charlie's her her bailout plan now women it's not like we consciously think oh no um I

00:22:00.360 I don't love this guy and I just want to use him for resources, but at some point, women 1.00

00:22:10.660 have to make a choice, you know, um, he understands the fight that we're up against and he can

00:22:19.000 articulate that in a way that transcends.

00:22:25.260 He's an amazing man.

00:22:27.340 No one will ever replace my husband.

00:22:30.440 Okay.

00:22:32.600 I see a lot of my husband in J.D. Vance.

00:22:35.440 Now, she's also getting super touchy with all these high-level men on TV, you know.

00:22:40.900 She's wiping tears that aren't there.

00:22:42.780 She's got, like, a whole face full of makeup.

00:22:45.280 She's wearing leather pants.

00:22:50.060 Now, this isn't...

00:22:55.260 yeah I mean it's a little bit late I have a little bit of coffee forgive me Michael you know and

00:23:01.720 again this isn't to credit you know she probably feels guilt on some level that she's not as sad

00:23:08.000 as she should be I mean what would you do if you're in a situation where you married someone

00:23:14.540 you didn't really love he dies and now you have to pretend to be sadder than you are

00:23:25.260 yeah you feel charlie here okay you know y'all are nasty for this whole thing don't you have 0.64

00:23:36.800 better stuff to do no mal that's why i'm here if you're not strong enough for the internet you

00:23:41.100 got to get out be gone see right now i know you do too i feel him too well god bless you

00:23:49.000 And God bless Turning Point USA.

00:23:54.000 What do you hope to achieve for Charlie and for the country?

00:23:58.000 Oh, my goodness. All of his wildest dreams for this organization and more.

00:24:03.000 He left me a blueprint in all of his journals.

00:24:07.000 But more so than that, I was his vault for literally everything.

00:24:12.000 He shared everything with me, his vision, his dreams.

00:24:16.000 and i know now more than ever i mean he was always a hard worker but now more than ever he's up in

00:24:22.180 heaven orchestrating and sitting and strategizing and i can just feel it i can feel it and so now

00:24:29.160 red pill guys they know women don't accidentally touch you have you ever seen women touch an ugly 0.99

00:24:34.400 man no hot men yes look at i don't have an israel pipeline i don't really know what that means i

00:24:43.580 i'm staying out of that i just think that if nick has his opinions i don't understand if you don't

00:24:50.060 like him mute it you know what i mean i'm not even like all i want is to be able to make sure

00:24:56.060 we honor charlie we keep fighting the good fight and we do it in such a bold and powerful okay so

00:25:03.980 that's one oh wait sorry i didn't mean to x that early but it's almost done now the next thing

00:25:09.740 thing that's going viral on Twitter is, you know, her past is kind of coming to bite her in the 0.99

00:25:14.440 butt. Um, and none of this would be bad. Look at, she's got a tramp stamp. None of this would be 1.00

00:25:20.840 bad if she didn't signal purity. The problem is the women's signal that they're different. 1.00

00:25:28.580 Um, all right, here's her, you know, this is the outfit she's wearing now. 1.00

00:25:34.140 You know, she knows what she's doing.

00:26:04.140 Let me see the next one. Hold on. Where's the one of her? Oh, do you know what? Sorry. Then she hugs J.D. Vance like this.

00:26:24.840 now again this isn't like a close family friend and what happens is again sexually

00:26:34.780 inexperienced bet so you know and i like um i see miss i think i did a stream with this guy

00:26:40.440 a few years ago but he'll even tell you you know he's not out there slaying hoes he's out there 0.99

00:26:45.540 banging chicks he doesn't know um and these guys don't understand the true nature of women they 0.56

00:26:50.980 just don't they can't the same way a guy that's you know commentating on basketball for years

00:26:57.140 will never know what it's like to to shoot the game-winning shot the party of empathy

00:27:02.760 empathy geniuses is failing to understand the phenomenon of agreement grieving widow

00:27:08.100 hugging her husband's friend um yeah you guys just are not beating the blue-pailed allegations

00:27:18.260 You're not, I don't think you're ever going to beat it.

00:27:20.400 And this is why Christianity to some extent is really dying in 2025.

00:27:31.240 All right.

00:27:31.980 So, uh, wait, let me go back to full screen.

00:27:36.040 Some tenants I see in Christian women, Christian women have never seen an ounce of masculinity 1.00

00:27:41.640 in their lives.

00:27:42.600 And it's very apparent by their behavior.

00:27:44.600 They overshare online because they have no fear of recourse from their husband.

00:27:50.180 They shame men that are selfish and act in their best interest.

00:27:53.900 Examples of this are when Brett Cooper crashed out on Fresh and Fit.

00:27:57.940 Candace Owens crashed out on Nick F. 1.00

00:28:01.640 These are women crashing out on men living life on their own terms because they're not 1.00

00:28:06.960 used to seeing men live life on their own terms.

00:28:10.100 And they think it's appropriate to nag other people's boyfriends and husbands. 1.00

00:28:14.600 Um, usually their husbands are very feminine looking, um, motherhood is a side quest. 1.00

00:28:20.820 The purpose of their life is to do the show or do whatever on social media.

00:28:26.500 Motherhood is just, uh, it's just like, uh, a thing they do on the side. 0.99

00:28:34.620 Oftentimes they very obviously have nannies.

00:28:37.140 you can see that they are not what they say they are by how they react to correction or being told

00:28:45.260 no there's a lack of humility a need to be right all of them are like this they all overshare

00:28:51.020 every other story is oversharing about how they are different and not like the others even though

00:28:57.060 they are exactly like the others all of them claim if they sinned they were tricked now um

00:29:04.100 this leads to Allie Beth Stuckey. Now, Allie Beth Stuckey is going viral this week because she 1.00

00:29:11.920 just cannot help herself. She can't stop nagging men. Now, Allie Beth Stuckey is a Christian woman

00:29:20.140 or she claims to be a Christian traditional conservative that stands up for Christian

00:29:24.040 values. But the thing is, she benefits from feminism. And in terms of her life decisions, 1.00

00:29:29.360 She still made choices very similar to liberal women, and her behavior really isn't much different.

00:29:37.200 She's the primary breadwinner in her house. 0.97

00:29:40.600 She's traveling all over instead of raising her kids. 0.99

00:29:44.140 She's speaking to and nagging men. 1.00

00:29:47.600 And we're going to watch the speech in full that everyone's reacting to.

00:30:00.240 and then look at the internet's response so hold on share screen

00:30:07.760 feminism has failed women okay so notice from the beginning feminism has failed women it's not 1.00

00:30:15.840 women's choices it's not women failing women it's this they're getting tricked never any

00:30:21.200 accountability on the women never first one feminism has failed women 0.99

00:30:29.360 Now, feminism, in theory, might sound good because it's supposed to be about equality, 1.00

00:30:37.200 and we like recognizing the equal value of people, of course, but in practice, it has

00:30:42.520 nothing to do with equality.

00:30:44.880 It doesn't have to do with being equal to men.

00:30:47.260 It has to do with being the same as a man.

00:30:50.920 It has fed us this lie that in order to be respected, that we women have to talk like

00:30:55.580 men that we have to act like men that we have to be like men and feminism but you and yourself

00:31:03.100 you're taking away um a spot from a man that could say the same thing that you're saying

00:31:09.180 you know part of if you really want to say i'm not a feminist then 0.75

00:31:14.700 don't accept the opportunity to be a speaker at these events

00:31:17.980 but they'll never do that you know brett cooper don't accept the fox news opportunity

00:31:26.020 just say give it to a man they won't do that though which is fine i'm not saying they shouldn't

00:31:30.380 but you know you're still benefiting from it has been advertised to us as pro-woman 0.93

00:31:36.560 but the ideology over the past several decades has convinced us has attempted to convince us

00:31:45.160 that babies are a burden convince us a third of women are having abortions and we're convinced 1.00

00:31:52.100 that babies are a burden babies are a burden can we just keep it a buck here

00:31:57.200 children are a major inconvenience they're not this blessing that conservatives like

00:32:04.060 crack it out to they're hard they're really inconvenient to your life now you could say

00:32:08.480 they're fulfilling long-term right but let's we just got to keep it like a buck here they are a

00:32:17.100 burden they are like let's let's just speak in reality you know um women see them as a burden 1.00

00:32:26.620 because they are they are sorry kids you guys are annoying um very cute right uh they are fulfilling

00:32:34.080 but I mean my dad had 10 kids my dad's more trad than all of you people that's the annoying thing

00:32:40.580 I'm from one of 10 kids do you know what my dad said growing up he said have less kids

00:32:45.640 my sister my youngest sister just turned 18 he was so happy he's like I'm done being a dad

00:32:51.880 and my dad loves us so dearly he really does but the day-to-day like the responsibility of parenthood

00:33:04.080 Do you know what I mean?

00:33:22.200 Okay, let me continue. 0.87

00:33:24.900 Femininity is weak and gender is a construct. 1.00

00:33:28.340 feminism has spent billions of dollars glorifying abortion and promoting promiscuity and it's left 1.00

00:33:36.140 each and every one of it promotes promiscuity it's not something women want to do right it was 1.00

00:33:41.760 just oh women don't want to be whores they're they're just tricked really 1.00

00:33:48.560 come on every time we've whored we wanted to whore can we just can we just keep followers 1.00

00:33:56.740 lonelier and more broken. Feminism laid the groundwork for transgenderism 1.00

00:34:03.280 because you cannot get to a woman can be a man without first believing that a woman can be 1.00

00:34:12.280 like a man. Let me tell you the truth, women, that feminists will not tell you. 0.99

00:34:21.360 And remember, Allie did not have kids young.

00:34:24.700 She did not have kids between 18 to 24.

00:34:27.860 She still prioritized other things. 0.99

00:34:31.940 They'll tell you that your equality, that you're worth, that your value comes from their activism, their ideology,

00:34:40.200 your ability to exercise your bodily autonomy, even if that means your child paying the price.

00:34:46.900 they'll tell you that your value your recognition comes from the government or some kind of

00:34:52.580 superficial form of representation in the media but your value your worth comes from the god who

00:34:59.220 created you that you women well now she's coddling the women you you are worth so much

00:35:08.340 god like you don't have to do anything to be worth a lot god just made you worth a lot

00:35:12.340 you have a special purpose and you have infinite worth and equality

00:35:22.500 inherently because you were made by a god who loves you because you were made in god's image

00:35:30.720 and your equal worth your inherent worth comes from that reality it doesn't come from feminism

00:35:38.740 it doesn't come from any political ideology so i just want to tell you that you can be strong

00:35:44.820 and you can be courageous and you can be brilliant and you can be hard working

00:35:49.540 and you do not need to act like a man to do that you don't need

00:35:54.820 you don't need to forsake your gentleness or your softness or your femininity to succeed to be

00:36:09.320 fulfilled god has made you a woman and the god that we serve no i didn't mean to i didn't mean

00:36:17.780 to click it out okay so again it's kind of like expert gaslighting because she's saying

00:36:25.220 you don't need to be a man while being a man okay hold on uh i didn't mean to i didn't mean to do

00:36:34.620 that. Let me go back. Okay. Full screen. Fulfilled. God has made you a woman and the God that we

00:36:59.640 serve doesn't make mistakes. He does nothing accidentally or arbitrarily. He does everything

00:37:05.340 with purpose. Now, in my opinion, Christian women are worse than regular women. 1.00

00:37:12.000 And the reason is because women that are actually godly, they don't have to quote scripture all the 1.00

00:37:17.000 time. They let their behavior speak for themselves. But you'll notice with Christian women, 1.00

00:37:21.640 they're always running cover on their reputation. They're always quoting you scripture. They're

00:37:26.060 always telling you about what they did differently and it's just like shut up god shut up 1.00

00:37:36.780 i don't care you're all hoes all of you attention 1.00

00:37:45.420 and your chromosomes which were determined at the moment of your conception

00:37:49.900 and cannot change tell you so much of who you are women you were given this unique capacity

00:37:57.180 to create and then sustain life and for so long feminism has told us that this is an obstacle 1.00

00:38:03.820 that this actually inhibits our fulfillment but actually it is a vehicle of fulfillment

00:38:09.580 and we have to start seeing motherhood and being a wife as the high callings that they are

00:38:15.820 Yeah. And here's the thing. Again, she says this, but you know, the amount of effort she's got to

00:38:24.540 put into doing her show. I know your first priority is not your kids or your husband. 0.66

00:38:32.200 Now I'm not saying that's wrong. People need to make sacrifices to make ends meet.

00:38:36.680 I don't know what their family's priorities are, whatever.

00:38:40.200 but again it's it's kind of like you're saying one thing but doing another we have to honor

00:38:48.180 these roles as the high callings that they are but here's what i want to say because god doesn't

00:38:53.900 always promise to give any of us exactly what we want what i want to say to you women that even if 1.00

00:38:59.860 you are not a wife or a mom maybe you will never be a wife or a mom maybe that's not the road that

00:39:06.380 god has for you that you are still called to mother you are still called to mother okay well 0.85

00:39:12.860 now all right so you see she's coddling the women now we're going to get into the the porn argument 1.00

00:39:20.780 okay porn has weakened men

00:39:31.900 and you know charlie charlie was so good at talking about this and so good now

00:39:41.260 is she going to address the fact that if you really include female romance novels

00:39:49.740 all these netflix shows that are basically cornos for women and females consumption of corn 0.97

00:39:57.660 women watch it more than men 0.99

00:40:01.500 women consume it more than men do if you include all those avenues i talking so courageously and

00:40:07.900 sternly and does she address women's social media addiction no no it's always nagging the men clearly

00:40:14.700 to the young men here's what we know about porn and why it is so detrimental not only to men

00:40:20.460 although it disproportionately affects men porn objectifies women and children

00:40:25.900 it commercializes sex which is the women love being objectified ali women are it doesn't porn 0.58

00:40:33.180 doesn't objectify the women women objectify themselves and i'm tired of this christianity 0.99

00:40:39.900 why don't you hold the women accountable why don't you stop nagging the men 1.00

00:40:44.540 why don't you watch your kids a gift from god

00:40:48.220 for a married couple between one man and one woman and it glorifies violence 0.94

00:40:57.340 women are the ones consuming the violent porn it's actually not even the men 0.96

00:41:03.660 the really messed up porn that's the women 1.00

00:41:10.520 that's what i'm telling you guys this christianity women like this are going to 1.00

00:41:16.740 run christianity into the ground they are going to run christianity and the simp men are going 1.00

00:41:22.780 to let them it creates addiction and shame it destroys marriages it ruins your perception of 1.00

00:41:31.660 Now, she blames porn for destroying the marriages, not the women being insufferable bitches, 1.00

00:41:38.360 not the women not having sex with their husbands, not the women getting fat. Oh, it's the porn, 1.00

00:41:44.400 really? But why don't we talk about the reasons men are watching the porn? If you're an insufferable 0.70

00:41:48.860 fat bitch of a wife and your husband watches porn, what's his other choice? He can't divorce 1.00

00:41:55.480 in Christianity. He can't cheat on you. And now he can't even rub one out to some random chick

00:42:02.220 on the internet. Really? Fuck you. Fuck you. And that's how I feel really about Christianity.

00:42:14.820 You know, I just want you to know that stuff like this has, it has pushed out the most reasonable

00:42:20.980 people from the church because Christians are just so unpragmatic in 2025 and again they shame 1.00

00:42:29.940 the male sex drive they do people it is the legal loophole for sex trafficking it is evil 0.86

00:42:35.680 in every way okay let me get this straight uh 10 of gen z women are on only fans who trafficked 1.00

00:42:44.640 them. Women are fucking trafficking themselves, Allie. Jesus Christ. Like, God, this stuff just 1.00

00:42:53.640 pisses me off. Sorry. This really gets me angry because we're tired of hearing about this.

00:43:07.440 You have no right to nag men about anything, Allie. You don't. That's not your place as a woman. 1.00

00:43:13.380 and you know it's especially evil because you drive away the most the people that want to be

00:43:20.380 a part of the church the most and it will destroy or sorry the people that would be the most useful

00:43:25.640 to churches you drive away with this stuff life and this is what i would want to say to men and

00:43:32.760 i hope that you hear it from strong men in your life that men we need you and we need your

00:43:38.540 masculinity. Nothing about what we need from women. With women, she says, you deserve more. 1.00

00:43:44.860 You are valuable because of God. God gives you this value. Men, we need you to do more, men.

00:43:51.380 Do more. Do more. Do more. I don't know, Allie, men are running all of society. Is that not enough?

00:43:59.380 They built all the buildings, all the infrastructure jobs they pretty much do.

00:44:03.620 They make the money. What more do you want? And we need your strength.

00:44:08.540 and we need your boldness and we need your courage and we need those things to be harnessed for good.

00:44:14.640 We need you to be solid pastors. We need you to be strong leaders. We need your voice. We need

00:44:21.580 you to bravely stand up for the most vulnerable, to stand up for women and children and for the

00:44:26.680 unborn, to raise. We need you to stand. We need you to do more. Allie, men can't do more while

00:44:34.140 you're actively taking their positions. And I know the pushback they get, well, she was offered

00:44:41.380 a slot, what she's supposed to do, not take it. Yeah. Demand, demand has that spot. Say it's not 1.00

00:44:47.220 my place as a woman. It's like I grew up Catholic. It would be like if somebody, what if they

00:44:53.780 offered me the spot of being a priest? Should I take it? When it's not my place as a woman

00:45:00.100 to do that job. But she's preaching, you know.

00:45:04.180 He's a respectful ruckus for the things that matter. We need really

00:45:08.180 strong men and porn makes you weak. 0.98

00:45:20.800 Chivalry is not dead. Virtue is not extinct.

00:45:25.120 And you, men, and your wife 0.71

00:45:28.300 and your future wife deserve better than porn. 1.00

00:45:32.980 And what I heard Charlie say over and over again, 0.88

00:45:35.660 take responsibility, work hard, find a Christian woman,

00:45:40.280 a solid Christian woman who loves her Bible.

00:45:43.280 Where, Allie?

00:45:45.500 Where? 0.52

00:45:46.380 These Christian women don't exist. 1.00

00:45:47.780 Were you a virgin on your wedding day? 0.81

00:45:49.960 Because, and she was married in her late 20s,

00:45:55.240 past the age of like 22.

00:45:56.660 I can't remember the exact age, but it was like, she was 22 to 26 age range round.

00:46:03.880 Nothing wrong with that. 0.99

00:46:05.700 But I'm not these stupid church simps, okay? 1.00

00:46:10.280 You're not going to convince me you are 100% pure. 1.00

00:46:14.280 Who loves spending time in God's word.

00:46:17.160 Who loves to pray.

00:46:19.520 Who loves to go to church.

00:46:22.280 Find someone like that.

00:46:24.120 Women be someone like that. 1.00

00:46:26.660 Get married. If you can have babies and lead your people. Well, men, because we need you. 0.97

00:46:33.300 That's the second lie. Okay. So now this erupted a war

00:46:41.380 on, on Twitter, everybody

00:46:48.700 is crashing out. Apparently Allie Bestucki does her show prep after at night after the kids go 0.96

00:47:00.400 to bed. That means her husband gets zero time with her apart from the kids. Very healthy marriage

00:47:05.100 recipe for success. Allie Bestucki puts on this base trad wife facade while girl bossing around 1.00

00:47:12.160 events and her podcast and lecturing men on, on stepping up while telling women it's okay to be

00:47:17.860 imperfect. She's spiritually no different than the, the shit, shit lib HR later who talks about 1.00

00:47:24.220 toxic masculinity in the workplace. Just feminism with conservative talking points. Absolutely 1.00

00:47:30.160 insufferable. Now, then you get the women, but now, so there's a mix of people on Twitter. You 0.84

00:47:43.400 have the men saying what needs to be said. Shut the fuck up, Allie. Then you get the women coming 1.00

00:47:49.420 in. And this is from Kaylee Triller. Allie Beth Stuckey is as conservative and complementarian 0.71

00:47:59.800 as they come. No female pastors, wifely submission. Nearly all of her activism is aimed at women. I

00:48:05.180 strongly disagree with her on plenty of sex and gender role, but she's undeniably a conservative

00:48:11.340 of heavyweight. Then this last week, she had the audacity to tell men to stop watching corn.

00:48:16.320 The backlash was instant and brutal. Men came crawling out of the woodwork, demanding her

00:48:20.200 head on a platter. How dare, she presumed, to instruct men. Overnight, the poster of a female 0.97

00:48:25.780 submission became a covert feminist. These are exactly what many of us have been warning about.

00:48:30.780 The misogyny in these circles don't just target liberals. It devours its own women. 1.00

00:48:35.780 It devours its own the moment a woman dares to step out of line. So what you'll see, 0.98

00:48:40.520 is the women will run cover because women we can't give up this power we have all this power 1.00

00:48:46.100 being on social media we have all this power you know um you know girl boss or whatever

00:48:52.520 and instead of just being honest about it and saying hey i like talking on the internet it's

00:48:57.420 fun i probably like it more than i should we just you know we just gaslight

00:49:02.880 okay then she reads all these

00:49:11.740 verses I don't care

00:49:13.160 hold on let me do the latest

00:49:33.840 We do not, Ali Bestucki, whom I respect is wrong.

00:49:37.620 We do not have a corn problem.

00:49:38.900 We have a women will not assume their role problem where men for six decades, decades 0.99

00:49:43.820 have been scolded for being men.

00:49:45.700 The brutal provocateurs are the brutal protectors. 0.98

00:49:49.340 We are designed to be told to sit down and shut up. 0.61

00:49:51.640 It is time for women to shape the world in our image, not yours. 1.00

00:49:54.860 Now we have a matriarchal society. 1.00

00:49:56.720 Now we have castrated men, massive divorce, high crime, drug abuse on an epic scale, 0.98

00:50:01.440 rape through the roof birth rates falling to extinction levels and 12 year old prostitutes 1.00

00:50:05.840 women in their desire to make all things equal have become rather successful at failure 1.00

00:50:10.880 it's time for men to set the world right as the godly sheep dogs kills the last wolf 0.61

00:50:20.480 okay let me get some of the other ones hold on

00:50:22.480 now oh my gosh I did it again now what happens is what you can see um when you can really see

00:50:35.040 what a woman's about is how does she react when she's offended 1.00

00:50:44.520 now I want you to know um that I think that's the number one tell of women it's not really 0.80

00:50:50.560 political beliefs, I don't think that means a ton. It's really when she is corrected or offended,

00:50:57.840 how does she react? Does she crash out or does she accept the correction?

00:51:02.940 And it's interesting because Allie Bestucki, who's arguing that women should be teachable 0.98

00:51:08.340 and have a gentle spirit, she actually crashes out when men do correct her, when they say,

00:51:15.140 hey, we don't want to hear this from you. Can you stop nagging us about porn?

00:51:22.100 Can you just stop? We don't want to hear it from you. And she could have option A said,

00:51:29.120 oh, you know what? She could have like taken a step back and said, hey, you know what? Maybe I 1.00

00:51:34.900 was in the wrong. Maybe men don't want to hear from me. Maybe I should talk more about women. 0.99

00:51:39.380 That was option A. She could have had a gentle, teachable spirit. Or B, she could have

00:51:44.960 gaslit and crashed out. What do we think that she chose?

00:52:02.420 Most of this speech is about how feminism has infected the minds of women and how there's a 1.00

00:52:07.980 better, more fulfilling direction women should go. If you'd like a lecture, I'll give it to you. 1.00

00:52:12.680 don't nitpick speeches without looking at the context this is part of my talk about how porn

00:52:18.120 is weak in men and how men's masculinity and strength is good and necessary and should be

00:52:23.240 channeled towards better things than cheap sexual objectification ally so was there any um she could 0.90

00:52:31.080 have stepped back and said you know what maybe i was wrong or she could double down and she just 1.00

00:52:36.760 double down. And it's just, you know, it's just incredible. It's just incredible.

00:52:47.540 So then a man comes in and says, men, we need you. Proceeds to talk instead of stepping down

00:52:52.580 for a man to leave. These girl bosses are stuck. These girl bosses suck up all the funds and oxygen 1.00

00:52:58.120 that qualified men could be using to make a public stand. Then what does she do? She gaslights more. 1.00

00:53:05.520 no one is stopping you or anyone else from speaking or leading i know many of you imagine

00:53:09.940 that if i stopped speaking suddenly you'd have a bigger platform that's a fantasy that's not how

00:53:14.220 it works if you have something to say that people want or need to hear and have the ability to

00:53:18.920 convey it well you will have an audience no matter how many other commentators are out there if you

00:53:24.360 don't you won't so this is again she thinks that she's really special and awesome and that's why

00:53:28.940 she has this platform that she's really good at what she does it's just not true um women we're 0.92

00:53:35.020 just we have an easier time on social media so we just kind of get platforms we're not doing very

00:53:42.240 much um and then the problem is we get this big ego like she's getting where she thinks she's 1.00

00:53:48.120 really smart but she's not that smart and it's really apparent to everybody you know it's not 0.78

00:53:52.260 like she's this awesome entertaining personality she doesn't um she's okay but it's really just

00:53:58.020 pretty blonde girl says conservative talking points it's kind of she's kind of like a clone 1.00

00:54:03.660 of tommy lauren brett cooper they're all kind of the same right um turning point asked me to speak

00:54:10.060 charlie asked me to speak as they have many times over the years so many of y'all who y'all hate who

00:54:15.500 charlie championed and champion who charlie hated yeah ali but here's the thing charlie was a simp

00:54:22.460 i you know he was a good man but he was a simp so you know just because he championed you it

00:54:28.860 It doesn't really mean much to me, if I'm being honest.

00:54:38.740 Here's another guy coming at Allie. 0.97

00:54:42.580 And again, she could go back and say, you know what, guys?

00:54:46.780 You know, let me think about what you guys said.

00:54:49.800 She just can't help herself.

00:54:51.320 She will find a way to preach to men.

00:54:52.800 She's a feminist in the conservative garb. 1.00

00:54:55.100 Men counsel men, period. 0.97

00:54:56.760 Men preach to men, period. 0.97

00:54:58.080 me at a campus event men you are necessary we need your strength we need you to be strong leaders 0.53

00:55:03.860 and solid pastors you are better than porn unhinged critics this is feminism women just 1.00

00:55:10.240 cannot read the room she can't at lsu i explained five of the most controversial truths charlie 0.99

00:55:16.960 taught feminism has failed women so it's not women being whores it's feminism failing women 1.00

00:55:21.940 remember none of the accountabilities on women porn is weakened men remember um again even though 0.98

00:55:27.520 women consume more porn if we include romance novels than men um it's still the men are watching 0.95

00:55:35.680 the porn merit trumps dei america is a christian nation jesus is the only way to heaven 0.98

00:55:41.840 then you get liz wheeler um it's kind of like an alley beth stucky clone if i'm being honest 0.84

00:55:50.800 the women the women and the simps will always run cover for this stuff it's weird 0.87

00:56:00.760 and this is why men walk away they just see it's a clown show every religion has this 0.76

00:56:05.560 and i'm really tired of people selling their religion is not having this catholics i grew 0.63

00:56:11.680 up around you guys you have it orthodox i know people in the orthodox faith you guys have these

00:56:18.100 same problems. Oh, but it's to a lesser degree, not by much. Really not by much. It's weird to

00:56:26.640 falsely accuse Allie Beth Stuckey of being a feminist. Allie is obedient to Jesus, submits 0.92

00:56:32.360 to the headship of her husband and their happy marriage, and strictly limits her working hours

00:56:36.880 to be present to her children whom she adores. She elevates masculinity and celebrates femininity. 0.88

00:56:42.580 contrast that with feminists who hate men hate women hate marriage hate god 0.99

00:56:47.940 hate children are promiscuous and money-seeking unstable refuse to tend their homes at homes and 0.99

00:56:53.620 outsource their children child care to strangers they pay okay when she's traveling who's watching

00:56:59.260 these kids husbands or your husband your wife you know the this absurd claim comes from a pastor

00:57:10.940 that women shouldn't speak publicly certainly contradicts the Bible. Should Mary Magdalene 1.00

00:57:16.080 not have proclaimed Jesus' resurrection to the apostles? Should she have stepped aside so a man 0.91

00:57:20.880 could do it? Sometimes it seems these so-called pastors are triggered not by actual Allie,

00:57:25.840 but by the truth she's speaking. So again, women will always find a way to manipulate the Bible 1.00

00:57:31.020 to do whatever they want, whatever's convenient. Here's another woman. The comments show you that 1.00

00:57:36.700 when you speak against porn the golden calf men get angry be easing on them they've bonded with

00:57:41.060 it as they should have bonded with a wife they hate anything that gives men power porn gives

00:57:48.160 men power to some degree because when the wife's nagging them they can just i'm gonna rub one out 1.00

00:57:52.700 you stupid bitch mal you're just simping too much i'm banning you from the chat you're you're in a 1.00

00:58:04.280 time out right now you're just simping i just can't i can't take this simping why don't you 1.00

00:58:11.460 go defend a woman who will sleep with you please god um and then we got lila rose who's another 1.00

00:58:18.320 one this is a false representation of ali's speech the majority of her messaging is woman

00:58:23.220 specific cheering you on and you guys are the same people that had nala ray on all your podcasts

00:58:29.020 so she crashes out for like two days straight saying how she wasn't wrong

00:58:38.040 oh five dollar super chat you're very attracted not hitting but wow stop hitting on yes that is

00:58:49.220 hitting on me that is hitting on me that is i mean stop at one i'm a mid i know i'm a mid 0.96

00:58:55.620 I'm not that attractive I'm like I'm like an ugly post-wall woman okay so you know so stop it you 1.00

00:59:05.500 know what I mean it's just like please you're giving me money for what for what go that that

00:59:13.760 should have been used to buy a girl a drink at the bar that at least oh I'm an eight now so you need

00:59:21.460 go see hotter women because i'm certainly not an eight i'm certainly not oh my god

00:59:34.500 oh i'm better than mid yeah well then why don't why don't i why do i have to work

00:59:41.540 i'm a six yeah that's generous generous okay

00:59:51.460 it was a woman you gave me energy on this app today if you want to lead lead if you want to 0.99

00:59:59.680 speak up speak up if you're worth following and listening to people will if you're not they want

01:00:04.300 again it's they get this big ego i know i'm here pretty much because i'm a woman

01:00:08.820 and um somebody's got to come at these other women because they get way too big of egos i 1.00

01:00:15.960 got to tell them that they're mid you know somebody's got to do it somebody's got to nag 0.99

01:00:21.500 these other women but you know I you know I just like to say I'm not that special I'm not I'm

01:00:30.320 entertaining to some degree for a woman but it's still for a woman I'm not the smartest you know 0.99

01:00:36.020 I could be better in a lot of ways uh but I just I don't really have an ego like that you know

01:00:42.600 I really don't um I've never had a huge ego but it's just very obvious that none of these women 1.00

01:00:51.180 have soft teachable spirits I'm not even saying I do but we gotta you know this whole argument of

01:00:57.960 oh if you're really good at your job people will follow you if you're really smart that's just not

01:01:01.800 true Rolo Tomasi is smarter than me in every way Ryan Stone those guys um nuke I mean they're all

01:01:09.000 smarter than me, they know the material better, I have more followers. I, you know, I kind of have

01:01:18.880 a more commercial look than them because I have a more trustworthy face. I was really described

01:01:25.340 this actually. My face apparently is very high in the trustworthiness because I'm not too hot

01:01:31.940 and that's good for conservative media i actually had a i had um not my man he's not actually my

01:01:39.340 manager rollo tomas he always spreads this this lie about me that i have a manager i don't but

01:01:45.560 but i was actually told he thought i would be famous because i had the right look

01:01:52.740 because the other he he compared me to another chick and he said she's too hot to be that famous

01:01:59.760 in the conservative sphere. And, um, she was pretty hot. She was much hotter than me. 0.99

01:02:14.680 She was, and that's the problem. All these women get these huge egos. Um, 1.00

01:02:24.860 but to be honest, my boyfriend says I have a big ego sometimes, so maybe

01:02:28.920 maybe i do you know sometimes he he's like

01:02:33.540 and i think it's because he knows this material so much better it's not really

01:02:41.220 fair that my following is bigger than it you know it's not really fair um

01:02:46.260 you know because it's kind of like why do men follow me i haven't even ever taken a woman on

01:02:52.100 a date pearls of four at best thank you that's really i think where i stand

01:02:58.180 rollo isn't at all that smart pearl will call it simping but she's smarter than rollo when it

01:03:08.460 comes to religion and politics oh no i'm not i'm definitely not smarter than him but i'll tell you 0.98

01:03:15.180 what it is he is stupid when it comes to certain things like i remember um when he there was a few 0.99

01:03:22.420 years ago through the grapevine i knew about he got like set up by britney venti because they 0.99

01:03:28.740 sent him like fake abortion documents i think he got real ones too i don't know

01:03:34.020 but it was basically some nurse came to him and gave him like lauren southern's abortion

01:03:40.020 documents allegedly and i remember telling our mutual friend that that was a setup there's no

01:03:45.940 way someone would violate hipaa no way some random streamer no way and um then he went on stream and

01:03:54.580 showed the like fake email that britney venti's and he ended up looking kind of dumb now i think 0.96

01:04:00.020 she really did abort destiny's baby to some degree but he's like kind of dumb but like 0.93

01:04:05.220 smart i don't know if that makes sense i don't know if that yeah you know that would get you in 0.95

01:04:13.380 serious trouble with HIPAA yeah and he's got to stop talking about how he should be more famous

01:04:20.560 he probably should be but it's you know really you're just not

01:04:24.760 you you just don't have that like it factor you're not that like and I

01:04:30.940 I'm a big fan of him but you just you're not the

01:04:35.000 I don't know how to put it you're just not that likable

01:04:41.160 like I just can't you know if I showed your stream to like intelligent men that I know

01:04:49.680 like the richest ones and they would look at you and um

01:04:55.500 and you talk for 20 minutes about how you should be more famous they're just 1.00

01:05:01.840 gonna think you're an idiot anyways 1.00

01:05:03.500 you should talk about nick f and how he thinks he is special when it comes to woman 1.00

01:05:12.540 no nick's gonna have the same problems um again

01:05:17.220 nick can't really talk about it because i don't think he's ever really taken women on a date or

01:05:24.300 like like that you know so again he's still a guy commenting on dating instead of like the dating

01:05:30.300 Nothing short of a Christian Taliban who can lead to any meaningful change. 1.00

01:05:34.860 Any Christian women not calling for this are either controlled, opposition, limited hangout, or self-serving. 0.99

01:05:42.880 I love Rolo.

01:05:44.660 I really do.

01:05:45.620 But I just...

01:05:48.120 How do I put this?

01:05:54.580 I know.

01:05:55.600 He's just got a...

01:05:56.980 I hope he gets his...

01:06:00.300 Nick will get Steven Crowder treatment. Yeah, he will.

01:06:09.840 I thought about something that women are better at than men queef. I don't know what that is. 0.99

01:06:15.020 Yeah. You know, I hope Rolo one day gets over his, um, obsession with me,

01:06:21.640 you know, and I'm not one to say that lightly, but he's done a lot of streams on me and Rolo.

01:06:28.000 you know I really only offered you my friendship I understand you were upset with the Nick I put

01:06:34.620 him on a stream with Nick F because I asked him if I could bring other YouTubers on he said yeah

01:06:40.220 Nick F's a YouTuber now he saw it as a setup and I really I didn't really understand why he saw it

01:06:46.820 that way because I really did defend Rolo I really did on this stream that we all did together

01:06:52.360 and it's been years and he just has not let it go i'm like roll it you gotta you gotta move on

01:07:00.160 we didn't even date you know we didn't even like you think we like hooked up or something

01:07:08.580 with the way that you just smirked me you gotta you gotta um you gotta get over it my guy

01:07:18.760 I get it. You know, I'm an attractive woman mid, but attractive, you know, um, for, you know,

01:07:31.740 for America and, but you got to let it go. You know, you gotta, you gotta move on.

01:07:44.060 I beg you.

01:07:48.760 Now, another thing that you get from these conservatives is they always think they're changing the world because they get Instagram messages.

01:07:59.420 Now, I don't really think because Ali Bestucki, she's going to say, you're a feminist making a speech. 1.00

01:08:04.820 How dare you say porn is bad. 0.60

01:08:06.540 Instagram, thank you for changing my mind about hormonal birth control.

01:08:09.920 Here's a sonogram picture of our new baby.

01:08:11.980 now people again youtubers get these big heads and they get these big heads because they think

01:08:19.660 everybody that messages them um like they take credit for all the changes like if some you know

01:08:27.820 i've had a lot of people message me and say oh you were responsible for me losing weight for my

01:08:32.360 husband or you're responsible for this this or this the only person i'll take credit for for

01:08:38.360 being responsible for their weight loss or any change in their life is my little sister

01:08:41.920 she was a blue-haired fat feminist and i did fix her i did i spent a lot of time with her and i 1.00

01:08:47.540 did that's the only one i'll take credit for because i think people seek the information 0.82

01:08:52.140 they want my sister i did shove it down her throat i did um and i i always want better for 0.85

01:09:00.140 my sister than i you know some of the fuck ups i've done in life i really try to warn her and 0.98

01:09:04.680 her better information and that i did shove down her i really in my heart of hearts i shoved it 0.97

01:09:11.400 down my down her throat i really did i did and um but everybody else 0.92

01:09:21.320 you know you found the information you wanted so if you found me you wanted conservative channels

01:09:25.880 it was on you uh you're a solid six for me with the red hair i agree that rollo is very

01:09:31.400 informed and educated he's great but he needs to cool out a bit i know i just i need you to

01:09:43.480 and you know it's crazy i tell everybody to buy his book if he was smarter like you know what i

01:09:49.320 mean he's just a little bit emotional it's like if you were smarter i actually would have worked

01:09:54.360 with you and funneled people towards your book you could have used me for marketing oh but and

01:10:00.200 And like, do you know what's so crazy?

01:10:02.260 I wanted him to mentor me so, but you don't even, I could give you a list.

01:10:05.800 I'm going to list out.

01:10:08.700 I traveled across the country.

01:10:11.300 I paid all this money to go interview him a few years ago.

01:10:15.300 He canceled on me a few days before and said he had COVID.

01:10:18.720 And then within a week, he was filming with someone else.

01:10:23.660 You know, I don't, forgive me if I'm a little hesitant and I don't think he had COVID.

01:10:30.200 And then he's like, Pearl's a hater. I'm like, I don't know. I just, I don't really believe that

01:10:35.480 you had COVID. I don't, I'm sorry. You know, and like, I remember his dog died and I sent him money

01:10:52.340 for the surgery for his dog. He sent it back. I was like, all right. I raised like 15 grand for

01:10:58.820 his friend who was dying and he refused to show up to the fundraiser and even see his dying friend

01:11:06.640 i mean i i don't and and then he's like pearl's a terrible person i'm like i just

01:11:13.940 and i don't do it for the recognition but i'm you know i didn't get anything out of raising

01:11:21.600 money for your friend your friend was just really nice to me um or before he died 15 grand i raised

01:11:28.220 And by the way, I haven't even raised enough money for my divorce documentary, by the way, by the way, by the way, that was while I was demonetized. I was hurting for money. It wasn't like I got, but he's just had this fixation on me for years.

01:11:45.220 years. Rolo published books before it was cool 20 years ago, and he's salty. I get it. I understand

01:11:54.340 it. I really do understand. I understand that. Like, I understand it, but I'm like, Rolo,

01:12:02.340 if you were a little bit, if I were you, I would have just worked with me.

01:12:08.340 and you know as a funnel but you know whatever whatever he's a crazy 0.56

01:12:16.880 sorry this really hurt my feelings when i was younger now i don't care

01:12:21.080 now i don't care i've gotten a little older but when i was younger

01:12:26.720 i was very hurt by this i think i actually i really cried the first time you made a video

01:12:32.840 about me i was so hurt i wasn't strong enough for the internet

01:12:35.260 i know pearl get over rollo and spend years i can't get over him he's just got my heart

01:12:44.740 sorry okay pearl some people you can't reach i like you both i know i know okay and i remember

01:12:55.540 and then he was going around telling everybody i was on i was a daily wire employee and i'm like

01:13:03.600 really? I'm losing a lot of money right now. That would be really nice. I would love to

01:13:14.560 be a, anyways. All right. So back to the, so anyways, we're going back to the porn argument.

01:13:28.000 Allie Beth Stuckey has never had an ounce of masculinity in her life. That's why she 0.99

01:13:32.080 is reacting the way that she is. Um, she out earns her husband. She travels for work and she

01:13:39.840 clearly does not take correction from men. Um, when it comes to porn, women watch more violent 0.99

01:13:45.320 porn than men. If we include romance novels, women watch more porn than men. If we include 0.98

01:13:50.060 Netflix shows that, that may as well be pornos, women watch more porn than men. There's no 0.57

01:13:55.960 accountability on the women for blame. There's no accountability on women for creating the porn 1.00

01:14:01.480 and actually we blame the men for objectifying them 0.91

01:14:05.300 instead of them getting naked to be objectified.

01:14:08.780 Getting naked comes first. 0.99

01:14:10.440 They can't rape us. 1.00

01:14:11.660 You know what I mean?

01:14:12.300 They can't legally traffic us.

01:14:14.120 We get naked first. 0.99

01:14:15.960 There's no emphasis on women having sex with their husbands. 1.00

01:14:18.700 They just blame men for watching porn. 0.99

01:14:21.640 There's no emphasis on women being hot for their husbands. 0.98

01:14:29.220 Christianity is done. 0.62

01:14:31.480 Not just the non-denominational ones, all of them. 0.60

01:14:35.840 When it comes to Erica Kirk, why is a woman who's supposed to be mourning acting so thirsty? 0.61

01:14:41.980 Christian men are in unhappy marriages because they punish women that opt out of their mating strategy for theirs. 0.99

01:14:50.100 Women that make you wait for sex, the sex is not worth the wait because she does not desire it to some level. 1.00

01:14:55.760 As much as we try to suppress it, we are slaves to our biology.

01:14:59.160 You can see this because even the men that are celibate and the women that are celibate, they watch porn or some sort of outlet.

01:15:12.280 This is why you even see pastors and priests succumb to their morality.

01:15:16.520 They may preach one thing, but they do another.

01:15:19.660 And to some degree, I think Christian men want to be cupped. 1.00

01:15:22.520 it's not reasonable to ask people to wait for sex um till their late 20s and 30s

01:15:32.260 most people can wait till they're 18 or 20 but most people cannot wait until their late 20s

01:15:52.520 oh yeah and on top of that women are currently advertising on social media 1.00

01:15:59.840 they have open open instagrams while being married

01:16:22.520 And the red pill remains undefeated because the women in conservative media will red pill you faster. 1.00

01:16:49.360 oh my gosh wait 0.99

01:16:53.440 holy crap wait wait wait wait 0.82

01:17:00.000 she charges 30 grand 0.99

01:17:07.840 And holy crap. 0.95

01:17:37.840 30 grand that's crazy for god's word 0.98

01:17:44.940 no one red pilled me faster than tommy lauren

01:18:01.460 should i drop an only fans and red pill you guys even faster i'm just kidding

01:18:06.180 why would a man pay to get lectured it's all about money baby yeah you know they say they

01:18:15.800 care about their families but when it comes down to it they use their families to build their brand

01:18:22.260 and they never put it away when they have the children brett cooper doesn't ally beth stuckey

01:18:29.560 doesn't none of them none of them

01:18:37.160 i should do um only fans and use the money for the divorce documentary well

01:18:53.320 is there anything else you guys want me to react to i i kind of got through all my talking points

01:18:58.280 today, but I'm kind of having fun. You know, I might do a segment right now on the, um,

01:19:07.760 I kind of wanted to do a segment on losing weight because I used to be a fat ass 0.94

01:19:13.700 and I don't like the current weight loss stuff. Although it's not like I have a great body, 0.92

01:19:22.280 like I could be a little thinner. So maybe I shouldn't talk about this,

01:19:26.520 But I think the way that people go around about losing weight is like, I was on a nectar

01:19:39.880 dating video.

01:19:41.040 If it has more than like, maybe, no, I have done no, um, Ozempic or anything, but what

01:19:52.260 what annoys me about the fitness community is when you go to personal trainers,

01:19:56.480 it's like, they want you to do everything at once. They want you to do mobility. They want

01:20:01.120 you to learn to lift. They want you to like, okay, if you're fat, you need to learn to eat,

01:20:07.120 in my opinion, before you need to learn to lift. And I always, I learned to work out before I

01:20:13.320 learned to eat healthy. So if you're fat, there's probably a few skills that you lack in.

01:20:21.160 you probably eat too many carbs, you probably eat too much sugar, and you probably eat too much food

01:20:28.040 in general. Now, the first skill you have to get, and I would really recommend doing this for one

01:20:35.680 to two months, is weighing your food and training your body to eat like 2,000 calories a day.

01:20:43.620 um, depending on how fat you are, but like roughly 1500, I'm tall, so I can eat a little

01:20:52.020 more and I'm like athletic, um, because you'll actually get to the point where you can feel,

01:20:58.600 um, there's people that can intuitively eat, right? And if you're fat, it's probably not you,

01:21:09.520 but there's people who their their whole childhood was very structured and they ate three times a day

01:21:15.620 they ate within a certain window and they ate a certain amount of food so they don't have to count

01:21:20.140 calories if you're fat you likely missed out on that and this is going to take you a few months

01:21:27.300 to get the hang of because you're going to do it for a little bit you're probably going to crash

01:21:30.740 and you're going to go again you know um for me it took me one to two months and you need to figure

01:21:37.800 out what strategy most people don't eat enough that is just not true that is just not true so

01:21:45.220 before you even worry about working out or anything I think I personally I have only have

01:21:51.180 so much problem solving and learning ability a day I cannot mentally keep up with a workout plan

01:21:59.820 and a food plan at the same time until I get past a certain level of skill it's kind of like um

01:22:07.120 when I first when you know how to play piano and you play a song it doesn't take you a long time

01:22:16.600 to play but when you're learning the song it takes you forever that's kind of how you have

01:22:21.380 to feel about eating there's all this stuff you have to think about and learn I can't keep up

01:22:27.080 with a workout plan a stretching plan all this for me it was too much and I actually lost the

01:22:33.540 most weight. And I swear to God, I'll swear by this. I, my best cut was eating two meals a day

01:22:43.800 and I ate Culver's and Chipotle every day. And I said, do you know what? I'm actually not going

01:22:49.280 to worry. I'm not going to worry about the nutrition level. I'm going to learn that stuff

01:22:58.260 later, I'm first going to worry about the calories. And it really simplified it because then the next

01:23:06.020 step was, okay, I need to learn to cook healthy foods better. So I'm not eating Chipotle and

01:23:11.020 Culver's all the time. Right. Um, but by that point I didn't, then I didn't have to sit and

01:23:17.580 I had the money obviously to buy it, but I didn't have to think through like weighing every food and

01:23:23.440 all this stuff like i just said i know these are each 800 calories each it's 1600 calories a day

01:23:30.720 um because in my opinion the worst part of weight loss is the cut

01:23:35.120 now i i want to lose 15 more pounds and the problem is i really hate eating 1200 calories to

01:23:43.520 1500 calories a day but you only do that for like two months then you can go back up to your

01:23:49.280 maintenance. It's just the cuts that suck. So when you're fat, you eat less than when you're 0.94

01:23:54.700 just want to maintain the weight. So like the way you got to really prioritize what's important to

01:24:02.120 you. And again, you got to ignore this intuitive eating bullshit. Intuitive eating is for people 0.99

01:24:11.800 that grew up with a very like I did not grow up eating at the same times every day. My mom didn't

01:24:18.860 really always cook. I didn't learn how to cook as a kid. So, you know, I didn't have that, you know,

01:24:27.660 your stomach is like a muscle, I think. This is my real life experience. This is not based on

01:24:34.780 studies. I used to be able to eat just so much. It felt like a bottomless pit. Like I could just

01:24:40.900 eat. I could eat and eat and eat. And I really had to train and I did the math on how much I used to

01:24:47.820 eat based on how much I used to work out. Cause I could always eat a ton, but I also worked out a

01:24:52.640 ton, but I was still overweight. And I think it said I was eating like 3000 to 3000 something

01:24:58.420 calories a day. But remember I used to work out like four hours a day. So I was like chubby,

01:25:03.220 but I knew. And every time I stopped working out, I would just blow up really fast. And then I'd

01:25:08.320 work out a lot and it was just a cycle that never ended. And I realized I'm like, I already know how

01:25:13.340 to work out. I can pick that back up later. I have to learn how to eat. And it's really a math

01:25:20.280 equation. And for me, with my BMI and whatever, I lose weight at about 1,500 calories, give or take.

01:25:28.040 I lose weight really fast at 1,200. 1,500, I'm losing 2,000-ish, I maintain. 2,500, I gain.

01:25:38.960 so my first step if I had to do it all over again if I was if you're eight if you're a young woman

01:25:47.940 this should be your number one priority in life ditch like look it if I could tell you the level

01:25:54.400 of attention even being older I get more attention now that I'm thin

01:26:01.160 i wish it's such a waste i was chubby in my early 20s it's such a waste

01:26:10.540 so your first step is you want to train your body to do the calories

01:26:16.180 and you don't so what i noticed is if my maintenance is 2000 when i get 500 calories less

01:26:27.020 than what I'm used to eating, that's when I'm really hungry. When it's 300 calories less than

01:26:34.520 what you're used to eating, you're not that hungry. So you have to decide how fast you want

01:26:38.440 to lose the weight. I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm, I don't know if I'm making sense.

01:26:49.280 So I don't know. So you got to, so, okay. The way I did it personally was my first step

01:26:55.440 was eat the same amount of calories every day. I started at about 2,000 calories, which when I was

01:27:03.260 a little heavier, I would lose weight at, but now is my maintenance. And then I just kept going lower

01:27:08.800 and lower and lower. And if I was too hungry, then I would just eat a little bit more.

01:27:14.440 And I personally hate doing food logs, but what I would do is I would use chat GPT and grok.

01:27:20.280 I would use the talk to text every day. I would tell it what I ate. Now, obviously this is not

01:27:26.260 going to be exact, but over time, if you tell Grok and ChatGPT what you ate every day, you start to

01:27:34.560 notice patterns of what makes you fat, what makes you not fat. Two, you need to weigh yourself every

01:27:39.120 single day. If you're afraid of the scale, you're just not ready to lose weight. You're not ready

01:27:43.340 to be thin. If you're too soft to weigh yourself every day because, and I wasted a lot of time

01:27:51.200 on all these stupid diets. I've really done every single one. I've done juice cleanses, 1.00

01:27:57.400 I've done carnivore, I've done keto, I've done all of them. They're all just ways to get less

01:28:01.820 calories. Um, if I had to recommend one, maybe keto, but what usually those diets are people

01:28:11.260 that are too lazy to count calories. So they want a shortcut. So they just think, oh, I'll do these

01:28:16.420 diets. And then now I don't have to do the work of learning to count calories. Look, if you struggle

01:28:23.860 with weight, you need to know everything you're eating autistically. Yes. Yes, yes, yes. It is

01:28:34.160 really annoying. But my experience with carnivore, you lose weight fast, but you gain it because you

01:28:45.220 don't do the work. You don't do the work of learning. And I just know this time I will never

01:28:51.420 gain the weight back because I know too much. I know everything I'm eating.

01:29:04.160 $50 super suit. Thank you, William. Okay. You know what? I'm going to actually do a little,

01:29:11.340 a little, a little sidestep about weight loss. Okay.

01:29:17.400 So what I realized with weight loss is that being fat meant I was lacking in a skill.

01:29:29.200 Okay. I'm going to share my screen. Oh, wait.

01:29:34.160 I'm going to, I'm going to, so I'm going to do a bigger thing so you can see it.

01:29:42.040 I realized that I was fat because I was lacking in a skill. Now these were the skills that I lacked.

01:29:49.160 Um, I knew how to work out, but let's say you don't. Okay. Working out. So wait, wait,

01:29:55.080 so let's, but let's actually break down lifting cardio. Um,

01:30:02.880 Um, eating less, um, uh, lifting, cardio, mobility, um,

01:30:15.800 counting calories. And by the way, if someone wasn't fat and they just say, oh, eat less,

01:30:24.560 um, tell them to go fuck themselves because they don't understand. Sorry. This is a skill. 1.00

01:30:30.680 it. Look at, if you don't naturally do this, this is going to take a lot of time and energy and

01:30:36.760 effort and it's really annoying. But once you have the skill, okay, calorie counting, cooking healthy

01:30:43.420 foods, um, knowing your macros, nutritional, like, um,

01:31:03.420 cooking healthy food. So I'm just going to put cooking.

01:31:14.700 All right. So the way I personally prioritize this stuff, when I had to like figure out what

01:31:23.120 I cared about, because again, I only mentally can solve and think about so many problems in a day.

01:31:30.400 I've noticed I can solve three things generally in a day in like four to six hour blocks.

01:31:37.940 So if I want to learn music for an afternoon, four to six hour block, four hour block, four

01:31:45.440 hour block, whatever.

01:31:47.160 Calorie counting, and you can do this in two ways.

01:31:49.780 You can either make the food yourself and weigh it at home or you can eat out.

01:31:54.360 I opted to eat out at first.

01:31:56.700 my first choice was to eat out because then I don't have to think about cooking this is if you

01:32:02.280 have the money to do that I actually found that it's I find when it's one person it's actually

01:32:07.500 cheaper to eat out I ate Chipotle and Culver's every day I had a grilled chicken sandwich from

01:32:14.240 Culver's um and or spicy depending on what I got from Chipotle and then either a burrito from

01:32:22.120 chipotle or burrito bowl. Um, what you'll find with most eating out is actually it can be healthy,

01:32:28.680 but you can't get the fries with it. So like you can eat a spicy chicken sandwich. That's not bad

01:32:33.780 for you in terms of calories, but if you eat the fries with it or like the Coke, it's just the

01:32:39.400 sandwich and water and you're good. Um, then my next option was I wanted to learn how to cook

01:32:46.520 the same foods I was eating out, but that was later. I personally stopped working out

01:32:53.760 knowing your macros. Actually, that was probably second.

01:33:00.680 Knowing your macros is knowing. First, I wanted to track protein,

01:33:07.440 um, carbs. So then it's usually, wait, whoops. It's usually increasing protein,

01:33:16.920 lowering carbs. Um, and then cooking. If you're going to cook, um,

01:33:27.000 I recommend some of the meal prep stuff first, cause it's very overwhelming. You want to like

01:33:33.180 cook everything. Um, there's a few Instagram accounts I'd recommend. So once you get through

01:33:39.740 these three skills, then, um, the nutritional stuff that like vitamin A, like vitamins and

01:33:48.520 minerals, I just think that's later minerals, whatever. That to me was last. Um,

01:34:03.180 so for me personally counting calorie was first knowing your macros was second cooking was third

01:34:13.020 um increasing cardio fourth and i've liked to start i just liked getting 10 000 steps a day

01:34:25.960 and the reason i liked it was because i didn't have to think i didn't have to think oh what am

01:34:30.140 I lifting today? What am I doing? It was just easy. It was simple. Um, I never brought back

01:34:38.340 lifting. I probably will this year, but I actually wanted to do mobility. So, but that that's a

01:34:44.500 personal thing. Yeah. So if you want to lose weight, you cannot learn it all at once. If you

01:34:55.300 spend three months learning something, then you can add another thing. So if you spend three months

01:34:59.940 count, learning to count your calories, whether you cook or you eat out, either or. Um, then number

01:35:07.240 two, then you can, now you can do your macros or whatever. Um, calorie counting and macros

01:35:15.760 can be one in the same. Um, those can kind of be combined, but, um, Chipotle would be

01:35:29.700 better if the rice was salted. Oh no, it's pretty high in sodium actually. Cause a few things you

01:35:35.040 should know if you're trying to lose weight as a woman, um, if you do the eating out route, 1.00

01:35:41.320 um, your weight's going to go up at first because you're eating high sodium stuff, but it's not,

01:35:46.460 you're not gaining fat. It's just like water weight a little bit. Um, as a woman, you are 1.00

01:35:52.340 going to gain weight the week before your period of it tends to go down on like day three or four

01:35:56.920 of your period. So don't, um, don't get discouraged that week. Um, other people have done this in

01:36:14.780 different ways. I'm just saying what worked for me was again, I only have so many hours in a day.

01:36:21.520 And like, if you don't know how to cook, it's going to take you longer. Like they'll say it's

01:36:26.980 a 30 minute meal. And I'm like, yeah, it takes you 30 minutes if you know how to cook. But if

01:36:32.100 you don't know how to cook, you might mess it up one or two times. So I'd rather, you know,

01:36:38.660 cause even the gym, I just consider it like a four hour time block. You're going to have to

01:36:43.000 shower. You're going to have to go to the gym. You have to do the workout, drive there, drive

01:36:47.380 Like, you know, and same with cooking. You got to cook. You got to wash the dishes, whatever.

01:36:58.320 Meal prep once a week. Yeah, I personally think that's the best way to do it.

01:37:04.440 I've done sauna. I don't really think that helps that much.

01:37:07.800 um again i don't know because i've lifted for over a decade so the way i thought about it was

01:37:17.720 taking a year off of lifting like i already know how to lift and i can get really strong again if

01:37:23.800 i need to i don't know how to eat so i'm just gonna stop lifting i know i ran a marathon like

01:37:28.800 i know how to do cardio i know how to lift i don't i don't need those skills what i don't know

01:37:35.660 how to do was I didn't know how to cook. And there's a few skills, even in cooking, like

01:37:42.460 one skill that you're going to learn is cleaning while you cook. That's when you know you can

01:37:48.820 really cook. It's because you start to actually clean up after yourself as you cook. Because

01:37:52.480 that's the, that's the challenge. You start learning to cook and you're trying to figure

01:37:55.880 out that problem, but you're also messy. Because most people that can't cook aren't the cleanest. 0.99

01:38:00.980 i wasn't anyway but the last few years i've improved so much it's amazing it's like amazing i

01:38:08.260 can't even um mobility i still suck at but i i'm working on that now

01:38:21.220 this is crazy talk well let me know how much weight you lost

01:38:33.140 what uh let me think because i lost wait 200 to

01:38:39.260 40 pounds. And then I want to lose another 15. I'm about to do another cut. I'm going to be crabby

01:38:51.900 soon. I'm going to do a full video on everything I know about this, but

01:39:01.040 and this is mostly for women I know men like maybe they want to do lifting first because

01:39:14.680 muscles more important to them but as a woman I mean really guys your biggest enemy is just like

01:39:21.120 eating she's right about everything except not lifting had she well okay I might have a different

01:39:30.160 opinion if I didn't lift, you have to understand I could lift when I stopped lifting, I was almost

01:39:35.480 at like a 300 pound deadlift. So like how much stronger do I need to get? I think I was at like

01:39:42.100 three. I don't remember. Cause I would do sets of six or seven, but I calculated what my one rep

01:39:49.520 max. And I think when I ended, it was like three something. So I just thought, you know,

01:39:55.420 if I'm at like two something, when I get back to it, it's fine. But I really want to learn how to

01:40:01.040 eat because my whole life, that was my problem was I just always ate too much. Um, a couple

01:40:08.480 things. Oh, you know what? I'll show you guys things that were keeping me fat. Um, number one,

01:40:18.560 I would put sugar coffees. I would get like venti lattes, um, caramel lattes. They have

01:40:25.900 like 40 grams of sugar, um, which I still haven't personally gotten over my sugar addiction. I'm

01:40:31.880 still pretty addicted. Um, I am just really good. I'm good at high protein and I'm, I know my macros

01:40:38.200 and I'm good at calorie counting sugar. I just, my sister, she cut sugar like a year ago and

01:40:45.300 she's much better at it than me. I, that's my kryptonite. Um, she's still high carb where I 1.00

01:40:52.460 can like cut carbs, but I'm still high sugar, um, sugar coffees, um, sides. So if you go through a

01:41:00.860 drive through, um, it's okay to have like, um, it's okay to have eat, eat out, but you just need

01:41:14.380 to make sure that you're, um, not getting sides. If you drink, you basically need to be zero carb.

01:41:30.180 Um, if you drink, you need to take shots instead of like sugary drinks, vodka. So it's, I mean,

01:41:37.940 honestly guys you can have one to two beers maybe and vodka sodas but alcohol again i'm addicted to

01:41:45.680 sugar so you kind of got to pick your poison i think you can have one bad habit and still be

01:41:51.680 relatively thin but not two and i've just never been able to cut sugar um so i i've never been

01:42:01.760 a big drinker because I just, I really struggle with eating. Let me find the, I wonder if I'm

01:42:20.300 logged in on this computer on Instagram, I can show you guys the page. Oh yeah, I am. Okay. Let

01:42:26.840 me show you the page that I, this is the guy that I like his, I like his meals the most.

01:42:38.340 I don't know how I just derailed this whole show, but I've been wanting to talk to you guys about

01:42:44.040 this forever. Okay. I like this guy's meals because they're high protein. They're pretty

01:42:53.660 good and they don't take a lot of time to cook and if you're a beginner cook um it's hard to explain

01:43:01.260 but there's hard ways of making things and easy and i think in the beginning um there's there's

01:43:07.980 another guy i follow on instagram where he's called that's not cooking that's just mixing stuff

01:43:12.860 and i think in the beginning it's not the worst idea to just kind of mix stuff until you can build

01:43:19.660 your way into like cooking more intense things well me let me show you this guy 12 eggs one cup

01:43:26.460 of egg whites peppers and onions pre-cooked sausage kinder's cowboy butter mix it all up

01:43:32.380 once your eggs are cooked a full bag of fat-free mozzarella and a cup of salsa verde and then put

01:43:37.980 this onto six low-carved tortillas wrap them up and heat them up and enjoy all week long

01:43:43.720 yeah i mean i like i really like his food i've made like three of these oh i love this

01:43:51.440 for the starbucks people this is good frozen bananas pumpkin cold brew greek yogurt cinnamon

01:43:58.660 protein powder pumpkin spice blend it you get the best way to start every fall morning caffeine

01:44:04.420 and 45 grams of protein i like this guy's food um if you want abs stop going out to eat for lunch

01:44:12.560 instead take some chicken fajita seasoning enchilada sauce diced tomatoes bone broth

01:44:18.580 peppers and onions cook on and see i actually did it the other way around i learned to cook

01:44:24.480 um not meal prepped stuff and almost like i almost did step 10 before i did step one

01:44:32.860 when it comes to cooking like i was doing all this multi-step cooking and i learned how to do

01:44:39.420 it. Like I learned how to make bread and it's kind of a useless skill. Um, it's not a bad skill to

01:44:45.660 have, but I mean, even for men, this, if you're a girl and you want to cook for a guy, men find

01:44:55.360 these type of meals way more pragmatic anyway, cause a lot of them want to be in shape.

01:45:01.540 Oh my God. Women's he's a hot guy. I love his food. No, I'm telling you I've, I've, 0.86

01:45:06.320 I've tried a lot of different foods. Stop it. It's not the abs.

01:45:16.320 Oh my God. Stop it. What's wrong with making bread? Um, there's nothing wrong with it. It's

01:45:24.000 just not the best use of your time because I didn't find a huge difference. I know there's

01:45:29.240 this like school of thought where like the pre-made stuff isn't as good for you. There's

01:45:34.240 chemicals, whatever. All I can say is what I experienced. So when I cooked with pre-made stuff

01:45:39.620 and like making it myself, when I made the bread myself, a lot of times I would eat the whole loaf

01:45:47.220 because remember, if you're here, if you're listening, you're probably a food addict to some

01:45:50.940 degree. So if you're baking a lot of really good stuff, you want to eat it, you know, but if I just

01:45:58.260 get a loaf of normal bread that doesn't taste that good. I mean, I'm not, I'm not going to be

01:46:04.840 that tempted to eat a whole loaf of 80 calorie pieces of bread. Yeah. There's a little chemicals

01:46:11.920 in it, but that's probably better than downing three things of flour. You know,

01:46:18.540 this guy, this guy is my favorite, um, pre-made meal guy. Um, again,

01:46:33.520 I have found that when I want to overcome a bad habit, and I'll give you some bad habits that I

01:46:51.740 have, that I'm either in the process of overcoming or I overcame them. I have found that it takes

01:46:59.000 a significant amount of effort and work to overcome something you're naturally bad at.

01:47:04.960 At times, it might not even be worth the effort. I'm naturally a messy person. I spent like six

01:47:11.200 hours cleaning today and I thought I could have hired somebody and gotten some reactions done.

01:47:15.340 This is cost-benefit analysis. You've got to weigh in your life.

01:47:18.840 um i have become a lot less messy as a person i'm still a naturally i'm just a messy person

01:47:31.780 i've gotten a lot better a lot better and it's taken me about one to three years i would say

01:47:39.600 it takes to overcome eating i started overcoming my bad eating where i paid really close attention

01:47:46.260 to it. It was about a year ago. I'm about a year in. I've gotten a lot better. I expect it'll take

01:47:54.800 me another one to two years. I think that bad habits take two to three years to figure out a

01:48:05.680 good system for you. In the last two to three years, I did a lot of trial and error. I only

01:48:11.780 ate out for a while. I actually personally, for my weight loss, I found the most success

01:48:17.880 eating out twice a day to two places I really liked.

01:48:24.440 Currently, I'm going the cooking route where I'm just pre-making meals.

01:48:28.120 There are benefits to that.

01:48:36.380 We're going to see if I have a better cut this time around. In the past, the struggles I have

01:48:41.260 had is it is, I have found it was more expensive to cook and more time consuming. You know, but

01:48:53.120 the challenge is I'll just want to eat more. So like if I make a really good meal, I'll want to

01:49:01.640 eat more of it and it's right in the fridge. You got to treat yourself like a food addict, right?

01:49:06.220 So I would find the eating out would be better because I don't have it in the house.

01:49:11.260 so i can't go to the fridge and like grab more does that make sense now you might say but pearl

01:49:19.540 why don't you just have self-control well you're an addict i mean that's like saying

01:49:23.540 you know you're an alcoholic and you have beer in the fridge

01:49:26.960 cooking takes less time than commuting to eat out for me it didn't i'm just being honest

01:49:40.920 because I was so close to Chipotle and Culver's. Like it was like down the road.

01:49:47.820 It didn't take long at all. I would eat it in my car. It would be like a 20 minute ordeal. It would

01:49:53.280 be so fast. Um, but I did find, so I found that the eating out was a good first step to just do

01:50:05.760 the calorie management. And then once my body got used to eating that much, then I switched to

01:50:12.660 cooking because now I have a little bit more willpower. I don't know, you're men, so you might 0.71

01:50:17.380 just have more willpower. You know what I mean? Like I'm saying this from the point of a woman.

01:50:27.180 I also tried, I've tried a lot of different things. I did not like the meal prep delivery

01:50:32.460 services. I just didn't think any of them tasted that good. I wasted a lot of money on those and

01:50:39.240 I hated most of them. That's my experience. Um, maybe there's some exceptions, but I tried like

01:50:49.320 three and I thought they were all disgusting. They all taste bad. Yeah. Um, so if I had to

01:50:56.980 recommend it, if you were like a fatty, this is what I would tell you to do. This is what I would

01:51:01.580 tell you to do. And you can take this or leave it because I am sure people have done this in like

01:51:08.060 better ways than me. I am sure that people like, I am positive. I am positive there are better ways

01:51:21.460 to do this, but this is just from somebody that's tried every way. Number one, I would pick, I would

01:51:30.320 do the route of picking two meals, um, you, first you got to figure out how many calories you eat

01:51:38.880 in a day. Now, if you don't want to track it, what I would do is go under grok, tell it your

01:51:44.560 height and your weight and say, how many calories do I likely eat in a day? Now, what you're going

01:51:51.240 to want to do is subtract 500 from it and see if you have the willpower to eat a 500 calorie

01:51:57.920 deficit from whatever you're eating before now you might not you might have to do 300

01:52:04.080 um it depends how fast you want to lose the weight and then you want to tell grok say i'll

01:52:13.360 you tell grok the meals the foods out you like to eat and ask it to give you a meal plan

01:52:20.400 eating twice a day maybe three or whatever

01:52:27.920 And then I would do that for three months.

01:52:30.140 If you can afford it, that's your meal plan.

01:52:33.220 It's a ready foods, you're ready.

01:52:34.200 I liked, I did Culver's, Smoothie King, Chipotle.

01:52:37.120 Those are my three.

01:52:38.660 And I loved them so much, I could eat them every day.

01:52:42.200 Then step two, you can, if you like that, you can keep eating out.

01:52:47.560 But step two could be to learn to meal prep.

01:52:50.060 So then you switch it to meal prep where you're cooking in the house.

01:52:53.060 um and cutting your sugar or increasing your protein or your macros

01:53:00.720 consistency beats variety yeah but I wanted to the thing is you need to have a system

01:53:09.440 for all aspects in your life because there's going to be times in your life where you're

01:53:13.080 eating out all the time you need to have a system when you go out drinking and that's what I

01:53:19.060 realized is there was all these different environments I would be in. And I really

01:53:24.040 needed a system for all of those environments. So if I eat out all the time, and I'm going to

01:53:29.900 like, if I'm being taken out to a nice dinner, I need to know what I can eat before the dinner.

01:53:38.000 If I'm going out to the bar with friends, I need to know how much I can eat before going out to

01:53:42.880 the bar. Why is there a broom on the side? Because I was sweeping today. All right.

01:53:49.060 And so you really, and you need to figure out every single environment that you're in that leads to a bad choice.

01:53:56.920 And what I found was, so one weekend I went out with my cousin and we had a lot of fun and I just ate a ton and I drank a ton and it was just bad.

01:54:06.660 And I put in grok and I said, can you calculate how many calories I ate this weekend?

01:54:10.480 I listed everything I ate and I realized that when I went out and I drank and I also got food,

01:54:17.120 I was in a 1,000 calorie like surplus.

01:54:21.720 And that's if you're in a 300 calorie deficit daily,

01:54:25.100 that's going to ruin your week.

01:54:26.940 And if you do that once a week, you're cooked.

01:54:30.700 You've got to cut alcohol if you're committed to weight loss.

01:54:35.920 Not, there are people that are, that still drink,

01:54:41.500 but they do really low carb and low sugar.

01:54:47.120 i didn't have that type of willpower um coffee i also found that if i just what you can do so

01:55:00.680 you're not like the weird one in social situations you can order a drink and just not drink it you

01:55:05.780 get some red wine that you don't really i mean personally like i'll just order a drink i don't

01:55:09.760 like and i'll drink half a drink nobody really is paying attention that closely

01:55:14.160 um alcohol is not high calorie if you do a shot it's like 60 calorie or 100 calories you know it's

01:55:22.800 not i look at i know it's bad for you i'm not a big drinker um because i can't be i'm saying i

01:55:30.780 know people that drink and still do cuts so i'm like there's a way to do it um

01:55:37.940 yeah I've heard some people smoke or do coke

01:55:48.620 not me

01:55:52.140 but yeah that's my two senses I really recommend cutting working out in the beginning

01:56:04.140 unless you have eight hours a day to spend on this

01:56:07.940 Um, for the first three months, for the first three months, I don't, you need to learn how

01:56:14.960 to eat first. You can add in working out later. That's a later problem.

01:56:19.320 trying to think if there's anything else

01:56:38.000 um you can't you cannot work a bad diet but it takes about four hours a day of working out and

01:56:46.340 you'll still be a little bit chubby. So you can be like, okay. Um, weight, like not obese,

01:56:53.960 but you'll just be like slightly overweight. You cannot work a bad diet, but it takes a lot of

01:56:58.280 time and a lot of energy. Um, like I was still a healthy BMI in college when I was playing

01:57:12.100 basketball, but those were like three hour practices and I was really tired after. So

01:57:18.000 build your own system. Yeah. Um, I would not outsource the work of a lot of times people

01:57:28.760 want to buy other people's like diet systems or meal plans or whatever. Um, and it's because

01:57:35.160 they don't want to count the calories and learn the nutrition themselves. That's what you're,

01:57:40.180 you're trying to skip that step. I don't recommend skipping it. And the reason is

01:57:46.760 the reason is like, it's just going to be easier to fall back into bad habits. If you don't know,

01:57:58.720 like if you are a food addict and you know, every calorie you're eating, you just naturally start

01:58:05.580 to make better choices because you know how bad it is. But usually it's a lack of knowledge of

01:58:11.460 how bad you're eating. Like I used to get these venti chai lattes from Starbucks and I don't

01:58:18.100 remember the last time I got one. I'll either make my own coffee at home or I'll get like the

01:58:24.060 ice brown sugar latte, which is like 150 calories. It's still high sugar, which again, um,

01:58:31.300 yeah, you got to retrain. And it takes, I think it takes one to three years.

01:58:43.900 There are people that do it faster, but let's just say you're an idiot. Cause I'm kind of an 1.00

01:58:48.100 idiot. One to three years. And also the worst part, in my opinion, is the cut because remember 1.00

01:58:59.420 like, okay. So the weight I want to be at right now, how many calories? I'm not going to show

01:59:06.040 my screen because I don't want to say my weight. Um, how many calories do I have to eat a day,

01:59:11.440 a day to maintain

01:59:14.840 be at a hundred and or at six feet tall. Okay. Let's see.

01:59:36.800 Okay. So if I'm active, the weight I want to be at, um, and I would say I'm always going to be

01:59:42.680 lightly active. So it's roughly 2000 calories a day. If I want to lose, and this is what I want

01:59:50.040 to get to 20 pounds to get, um, in let's say three months, how many calories do I have to eat a day

02:00:03.640 to go from, uh, 20 pounds is 70,000 calorie deficit. So I, this is, this is the worst part.

02:00:22.560 it's the losing it because um okay so it's telling me to lose one to 1.3 pounds a week five um

02:00:43.680 1700 calorie oh it's actually not as bad as i thought no no no no 1500 to 1700

02:00:50.800 yeah so it's like once like once you get to the weight you can eat a normal amount of food not

02:00:57.160 like you're eating before but you're not hungry but i've found and i've calculated this when i

02:01:03.160 get to like a 500 calorie deficit that's when i'm freaking hungry two to three hundred you're

02:01:10.160 not hungry but you lose the weight so slow it's kind of demotivating

02:01:14.040 um but i'm about to i'm i'm about to lock in these next three months

02:01:26.820 um so you have to understand if you're overweight it's gonna take you longer

02:01:43.760 than you think because you have unless you're willing to starve yourself um it's gonna it takes

02:01:49.320 forever and usually when you starve yourself you gain it back because you didn't go through the

02:01:54.460 proper learning period which is learning to cook slash clean up after yourself learning to naturally

02:02:01.360 be able to count calorie once you can count calories and your body's used to count counting

02:02:05.640 calories now i can kind of intuitively eat but it was a skill i had to learn like i could not

02:02:12.340 intuitively eat two years ago because I would intuitively eat fricking everything. But now,

02:02:19.440 because I've weighed myself every day for a year and counted my calories pretty much every day for

02:02:24.400 a year. Um, now if I, I can feel how many calories I ate in a day based on how hungry I am,

02:02:32.260 but that took me, nobody starves themselves. No, you kind of do starve yourselves. Like if you

02:02:40.560 lose 10 pounds in a month, you're going to be pretty hungry, which is fine. You know, you can,

02:02:46.660 some people get used to it. You look fine at your current weight. I don't care. I'm, I'm getting

02:02:52.480 there. Yeah. The challenge is if you're overweight, just do strict keto and eat as much as you want

02:03:04.740 for three months. Challenge is again, you're still gonna, you're still not gonna, when you go off

02:03:09.640 keto, you're not going to have the systems in place. Eat when you're hungry. Yeah, that that's

02:03:18.560 for thin people. There are thin people that can eat when they're hungry. When you're fat,

02:03:21.900 you're always freaking hungry. Always. Always. Like, I mean, that's the worst lie ever. 0.88

02:03:30.860 anyways. Okay. I'm ending the show. I'm ending the show. That's my nutrition rant. Take it or

02:03:44.600 leave it. Um, I'm not an expert. I'm literally, um, I'm literally just, you know, as someone

02:03:52.280 that's done trial and error for pretty much everything. Oh, wait, let me see something.

02:04:03.700 Someone's I'll do Pearl looks lovely. No simping or pimping. Just the truth. Well, thank you.

02:04:09.800 Here we go. Pastor, I guess I did not. I saw someone say, I did not like that. My wife was

02:04:17.020 listening. This is like a pastor, I guess. I did not like that. My wife was listening to Allie

02:04:20.780 ducky it's not because of what she said all these people say the same thing what she says is right

02:04:27.260 what she says is true but i don't like how she says it me me me me boo hoo that's what i hear

02:04:36.220 wah wah you sound just like the little high school progressive girls with their pronouns 0.56

02:04:42.840 in their profile who say you have a mean tone when you say yeah she women just are not strong 1.00

02:04:50.880 enough for the internet anyways okay thanks for watching do you have a picture I'll show you guys

02:04:57.780 when I finish this last cut when I finish this last cut I'll show you my fattest the problem is

02:05:05.880 my fattest picture was a really good picture of me back then I was in this beautiful dress

02:05:13.160 and i was very done up and i was 23. um and so the reaction i always get from men is you weren't

02:05:21.800 fat it's usually black guys they're like oh you weren't fat i'm like yeah because you date fat 0.88

02:05:26.520 women yeah of course but and when you're younger um i don't know they just give you a pass because 1.00

02:05:33.800 they don't see it like you have the nice skin so the men like kind of look up um yeah i know 23 is

02:05:39.960 peak and i spent i was 210 pounds yeah i always had a lot of muscle though because i was always

02:05:48.360 really strong but but i blew up right after college because i was an athlete and i worked

02:05:54.360 out like four hours a day and again i was still a little chubby but i got kind of fat right after

02:06:00.520 because i didn't know how to eat i didn't know how to eat if you're happy with yourself that's

02:06:06.920 all that matters go yourself oh my god nothing wrong with a few healthy curves it wasn't healthy 1.00

02:06:14.920 i mean i had a huge gut um this last cut though i'm telling you it's gonna be over with

02:06:25.400 because i can eat 2 000 calories a day easy it's the i hate i hate going down to 12 to 1500 i hate

02:06:32.600 it. Oh, the cuts. I hate them. But my sister, she lost over a hundred pounds. She was fat, 1.00

02:06:41.160 fat. She said, we're going to lock in. She said, we're going to lock in. And she's like, 0.98

02:06:47.100 I'm catching up to you and wait, I'm going to, I'm going to get thinner than you. And she's

02:06:50.900 like, we got to lock in. And I'm like, I guess we're locking in. I was like, all right. If my

02:06:58.740 sister's locking in that I'm locking in. And, um, I remember like, I would even, I wouldn't even want

02:07:07.720 to go on dates because they would be too high calorie. I didn't want to drink. And, um, you

02:07:13.040 know, or I didn't want to go get dinner. Cause I'm like, I'm afraid to like eat out. So I don't know.

02:07:22.200 that's actually another system as a girl you should have um because you're gonna want to date 1.00

02:07:29.340 your young woman um and really I would say you should go to the dating apps because I mean that's

02:07:35.140 it's just going to be easier than going out and doing all this stuff people don't really meet in

02:07:40.240 person anymore but then on dates it's either dinner or drinks for the most part and I would

02:07:49.040 just recommend shots vodka soda that's it that's it uh twice a week you can get away with more than

02:07:58.800 that as long as it's literally three body look at you can't do that you can do one sugary drink and

02:08:06.320 then two vodka sodas if you go up to three drinks eat skittles okay you're probably fat yeah red wine

02:08:17.600 that's another it's hard to do dating without drinking it's hard because women we get too 0.98

02:08:24.520 anxious to like have anything especially if you're young so anyways

02:08:30.260 all right guys i gotta go i gotta i gotta end this stream i'm just i'm i'm having a good time

02:08:41.080 with you guys tonight even though i'm going real off topic um anyways guys like the video please

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Pearl - November 02, 2025

The Christian Feminist Women and The Blue Pilled Simps

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