Pearl - October 03, 2025


The Conservative E-Girl Marriage Playbook


Episode Stats

Length

7 minutes

Words per Minute

179.48369

Word Count

1,321

Sentence Count

100

Misogynist Sentences

15

Hate Speech Sentences

17


Summary

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In this episode, we discuss why women are delaying marriage because they don t want to have kids, why they don't want to get married, and why they are choosing to date outside of the traditional marriage box.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 And often they chalk it up to the education.
00:00:02.360 They're getting banged by somebody, Brett.
00:00:04.980 It's all play pretend.
00:00:08.000 It sounds good.
00:00:09.440 It sounds good on paper.
00:00:10.560 But again, that's not traditional.
00:00:13.440 Been a profound, huge cultural shift
00:00:15.740 because marriage is no longer the default for young people.
00:00:19.080 However, people do still want kids.
00:00:22.440 Allegedly, they say that they do.
00:00:23.900 They say that they crave families.
00:00:25.120 They say that they crave big families
00:00:26.520 with three or more children.
00:00:27.780 However, they are simply not forming
00:00:30.360 the stable relationships that enable it.
00:00:32.560 And I think that this is an important point to touch on
00:00:34.460 because I think for people, especially on the right,
00:00:36.300 we often talk about how our culture
00:00:38.220 is just so backwards and progressive
00:00:39.840 and nobody even wants to have a family anymore
00:00:42.880 and everybody's having children out of wedlock.
00:00:44.920 But the truth is the number of people having children
00:00:47.120 outside of wedlock not being married has not increased.
00:00:51.000 It's just that people are not getting married.
00:00:53.620 So delaying marriage therefore means
00:00:56.040 delaying children in our culture.
00:00:57.540 I guess we're still a little bit traditional.
00:00:59.220 Good for us.
00:01:00.160 Which also...
00:01:01.320 Just such a dumb...
00:01:02.820 Brett, marriage is getting delayed
00:01:05.580 because women want to party before having...
00:01:10.060 And I could see it.
00:01:11.700 I mean, clearly, because she...
00:01:14.180 I think she's pregnant or she had a quick kid.
00:01:17.020 And I don't mean this to be rude,
00:01:18.820 but I just...
00:01:19.400 We need to be honest.
00:01:20.340 We need to be real here.
00:01:23.660 Marriage and family is not the center of your life.
00:01:26.260 It's not the center of Candace's...
00:01:27.940 It's not the center of any of these e-girls' lives.
00:01:31.160 Because if it was, they wouldn't be doing it.
00:01:33.540 And maybe it's not pragmatic that it is.
00:01:36.040 I mean, she can make a bunch of money
00:01:37.720 of generational wealth for the kids.
00:01:40.320 Again, but it's not what they're selling.
00:01:43.360 Ultimately leads to higher infertility risks
00:01:45.660 and fewer total births.
00:01:47.920 That right there is the crux of our fertility decline,
00:01:51.080 the fertility crisis that we are seeing in America.
00:01:53.480 So why is that happening?
00:01:55.700 Now we get to get into all of the really interesting
00:01:57.520 socio-cultural stuff that we see on social media.
00:02:00.100 All of the debates, all the discourse between men and women.
00:02:02.900 Now, in another episode, we covered the red pill movement
00:02:05.200 and why men are having a hard time finding women.
00:02:07.160 I'm not sure when we're going to be releasing that episode
00:02:08.720 because this is pre-maternity leave, Brett.
00:02:10.900 But in this episode specifically,
00:02:12.780 I want to get into the femcels and their side of things.
00:02:16.220 But before we keep going, I want to thank today's sponsor.
00:02:18.680 All right, guys, here's the deal.
00:02:20.100 Sainthood is not just for the perfect.
00:02:21.700 It is for the family who are either accidentally
00:02:24.860 or intentionally exiting the dating pool,
00:02:28.060 kind of like the flip side to the incels
00:02:29.940 that we see on the internet.
00:02:31.120 These are women who are not dating.
00:02:32.560 And often they chalk it up to the education.
00:02:35.000 They're getting banged by somebody, Brett.
00:02:37.060 I mean, let's call a spade a spade here.
00:02:41.480 And the thing is, we don't talk about social media
00:02:44.500 gives women the attention from men.
00:02:48.240 So we don't need it from, like, a lot of women,
00:02:54.300 we get attention from so many men in our lives,
00:02:57.560 either men in the friend zone, online, whatever.
00:03:01.660 You don't need attention from the husband anymore, unfortunately.
00:03:05.640 Between the two sexes.
00:03:08.040 And to be fair, a lot has changed in that regard.
00:03:10.760 Because for centuries, women had always married across and up from their status.
00:03:15.980 But what happens when women start outperforming men?
00:03:19.400 What happens when they become more educated than their male counterparts?
00:03:23.420 Because women now in America in 2025 outpace men
00:03:26.280 in terms of college graduation and advanced degrees.
00:03:28.580 And according to a Bank of America report from back in January,
00:03:30.920 women are also outpacing men in both income and in spending growth.
00:03:35.500 And what this inevitably creates is a bottleneck.
00:03:38.260 Because women are claiming that there aren't enough high-status men to go around
00:03:41.760 because they still want to date across or up from their perceived status,
00:03:45.460 which they define through their education and income,
00:03:47.920 which obviously makes sense.
00:03:48.840 But in my opinion, I think that the bigger issue here
00:03:51.080 is not the college degrees or the income,
00:03:52.900 but it's the fact that these women do not want to get married at all
00:03:55.980 because they require whoever they marry
00:03:58.680 to fit into this box and this life that they have created with no compromises.
00:04:03.600 Now, again, Brett Cooper married a six-foot-tall Aryan-looking white guy
00:04:10.180 worth millions of dollars.
00:04:12.140 This is not to criticize.
00:04:13.760 If anything, that's an inspiration.
00:04:16.000 I mean, she went from being emancipated at 16
00:04:18.380 to marrying into a bunch,
00:04:22.700 being a celebrity e-girl marrying into all this wealth, right?
00:04:25.660 But for her to say,
00:04:30.320 ladies, date average men,
00:04:33.200 date the men outside of the box,
00:04:35.840 while having married
00:04:38.060 a guy that's probably three points looks higher than her
00:04:42.880 is a little bit hypocritical, right?
00:04:45.780 I would say that's a bit hypocritical.
00:04:48.620 Candace did the same, you know, we can't,
00:04:50.760 it's, you know.
00:04:51.980 They are not willing to take any responsibility
00:04:53.640 to take any kind of accountability.
00:04:55.520 They need you to fit in with them.
00:04:57.160 No bending or anything.
00:04:58.180 Now, to be fair, she cashed out young,
00:04:59.840 and I thought,
00:05:01.020 wow, that was,
00:05:02.000 I'm surprised.
00:05:03.100 I did not think she would cash out young.
00:05:05.100 I did not.
00:05:06.140 I thought she would wait till a little bit older.
00:05:09.120 But here's the e-girl life cycle.
00:05:11.160 If they cash out young,
00:05:12.420 they will give out nothing.
00:05:13.800 And then she took a Fox News commentator position,
00:05:19.300 and I thought, well,
00:05:21.160 can't say I'm shocked.
00:05:25.280 Can't say I'm shocked.
00:05:26.840 Why?
00:05:27.520 And then she started posting, like,
00:05:29.280 personal family stuff on Twitter,
00:05:31.080 and I just thought, well,
00:05:32.540 she's using the family to build the brand.
00:05:35.620 And, because women,
00:05:37.800 when men go to work,
00:05:38.700 like, Tucker Carlson is an example.
00:05:40.820 Tucker Carlson goes to work,
00:05:42.260 and he just, like,
00:05:42.880 focuses on the news, right?
00:05:44.360 He just says the news.
00:05:45.920 Now, he does have the occasional family photo,
00:05:48.740 whatever.
00:05:49.060 Like, I'm not saying he doesn't do it at all,
00:05:50.800 like, a little bit.
00:05:51.620 Fine.
00:05:52.640 But it's women.
00:05:53.540 We just have a tendency
00:05:54.480 that we always use the family
00:05:56.260 and the marriage
00:05:57.060 to help us look like good people.
00:05:58.700 We can never let our actions
00:06:00.440 speak for themselves, right?
00:06:03.040 It's got to, we have to use the kids
00:06:05.200 and the husband
00:06:06.000 to build our reputation.
00:06:07.720 Now, a lot of the e-girls,
00:06:08.760 they get mad at me.
00:06:09.540 They say, oh, but Pearl, that's good.
00:06:11.980 That's a good thing.
00:06:12.760 Isn't that what we want?
00:06:13.860 We can make the culture better.
00:06:15.300 And I think, well, yeah,
00:06:16.260 but it's at the expense
00:06:17.160 of driving everybody insane around you.
00:06:20.340 I mean, as a man,
00:06:21.660 can we do a poll in the chat?
00:06:22.860 Do you want to be marketing
00:06:23.980 for your girl's Instagram?
00:06:27.320 And I think as women,
00:06:28.380 we just have no idea
00:06:29.400 how many concessions men make
00:06:31.620 in order to make us happy.
00:06:33.040 They have such a need
00:06:34.200 to solve our problems
00:06:35.560 that they say they don't care,
00:06:38.280 but really deep down,
00:06:39.560 I mean, it's kind of like women,
00:06:43.080 when you pretend that you like Bitcoin
00:06:46.060 or whatever,
00:06:47.200 like the random history thing.
00:06:48.800 I like, I'm weird.
00:06:49.900 I like the history stuff,
00:06:51.300 but in general, politics,
00:06:54.180 to appease the guy,
00:06:56.280 but really deep down,
00:06:57.600 we don't make many concessions,
00:06:59.200 so that's all I could think about.
00:07:00.440 I think we give up pretty much nothing
00:07:02.020 to be in relationships.
00:07:03.700 But men give up stuff all the time.
00:07:05.680 They give up their friends,
00:07:06.800 their free time,
00:07:07.280 a lot of times even their family.
00:07:09.180 And now they're giving up their privacy,
00:07:11.060 and that's the future,
00:07:11.900 men giving up their privacy
00:07:13.200 to be in relationships.
00:07:14.260 And that's the future.
00:07:21.220 Thank you.