Pearl - The Distinction Between An Alpha Male and a Beta Male

00:00:00.000 and to start the show i really wanted to read my best friend in the entire world rollo tomasi's

00:00:07.840 article talking about women's reproductive schedules and of mating and i just thought

00:00:20.080 i thought this was such a good article to sum up why women have hoe phases and why at times 1.00

00:00:26.880 hoe phases do benefit women this isn't what i wish to be true before i get into it um

00:00:33.760 this isn't what i wish to be true this is not what i hope to be true

00:00:39.920 but a lot of women find love during a hoe phase i gotta be honest i gotta be honest here i've seen it 0.99

00:00:45.920 i'm not prescribing this but i will tell you the benefits and the cons

00:00:51.280 all right so rollo tomasi wrote this article in 2011 called the schedules of mating there are

00:01:01.520 methods and social as most of you know i have been fighting on the front lines of the simp epidemic

00:01:08.720 for years but i need to tell you about a quiet weapon being ratcheted up against men that is

00:01:13.360 rarely talked about it's not just the relentless anti-masculinity propaganda and only fans hoes 0.99

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00:02:45.280 contravances women have used for centuries to ensure that the best males genes are selected and secured 1.00

00:02:53.520 with the best male provisioning she's capable of attracting ideally the man should i exemplify both but 0.92

00:03:00.480 rarely do they exist in the same man particularly these days so he's starting off talking about alpha

00:03:07.600 fox beta box i'm gonna share my screen so in the interest of achieving her biological imperative

00:03:15.120 and prompted by an innate need for security the feminine as a whole had to develop social conventions 1.00

00:03:21.040 and methodologies to affect this men are not only up against a female genetic imperative but also

00:03:28.320 centuries-long feminine social conventions established and adapted from a time long before 0.98

00:03:33.920 human beings could accurately accurately determine genetic origins i've detailed in many prior threads

00:03:40.560 that mate selection is psycho biological function that the millennia of evolution has hardwired into both

00:03:47.200 sexes so internalized and socialized so internalized and socialized is the process into our collective psyches

00:03:52.800 that we rarely recognize we're subject to these motive motivators even when we continually repeat the

00:03:58.640 same behaviors manifested by them such as having a second kid with the alpha fox bad boy so it's like

00:04:05.280 you know when you see that single mother and she just keeps having kids with these criminals well that's the alpha 1.00

00:04:12.720 fox guy um you know her biological imperative is to get the best genetics possible for her kids so saying that 1.00

00:04:19.920 we're not subject to conditions where we're two conditions we are only vaguely aware of is a bit naive

00:04:28.160 it's simple deductive logic to follow that for a species to survive it must provide its offspring with

00:04:37.680 the best possible conditions to ensure its survival either that or to reproduce in such quality that it ensures

00:04:45.520 survival the obvious application of this for women is sharing parental investment with the best possible 0.97

00:04:52.720 mate her own genetics allow her to attract and who can provide long-term security for her and any potential

00:04:59.840 offspring thus women are biologically physiologically and sociologically the filters of their own 1.00

00:05:06.080 reproduction whereas men's reproductive methodology is to scatter as much of his genetic material as 0.97

00:05:12.480 humanly possible to the widest available quantity of sexually available females he of course has his own

00:05:19.280 criteria for mating selecting and determining the best genetic pairing for his reproduction she's got 1.00

00:05:26.080 to be hot but his criteria is certainly less discriminating than for women i.e no one's ugly after 2 a.m this is 1.00

00:05:34.480 evidenced in our own hormonal biology men possess between 12 and 17 times the amount of testosterone

00:05:40.800 um the primary home hormone in sexual arousal women do and women produce substantially more estrogen

00:05:47.760 instrument in sexual caution and oxytocin fostering feelings of security and nurturing than men

00:05:54.480 that stated both of these methodologies conflict in practice for a woman to best ensure the survival 1.00

00:06:01.040 of her young a man must necessarily abandon his method of reproduction in favor of her own 1.00

00:06:07.040 this sets a contradictory imperative for him to pair with a woman who will satisfy his methodology

00:06:13.200 a male must sacrifice his reproductive schedule to satisfy that of the woman he pairs with 0.98

00:06:18.720 thus so much potential genetic or thus with so much genetic potential at stake on his part of the risk

00:06:26.320 he's he wants not only to ensure that she is the best possible candidate for breeding and future breeding

00:06:32.400 but also to know that his progeny progeny will benefit from both parents investments a side note is

00:06:41.200 one interesting outcome of this psycho biological dynamic is men's ability to spot their own children

00:06:46.640 in a crowd of other children more quickly and with greater accuracy than even their mothers studies have

00:06:52.960 shown that men have the ability to quickly and accurately identify their own children in a room full

00:06:58.160 of kids dressed in uniforms than the mothers of the child again this stresses the subconscious

00:07:03.920 importance of the genetic trade-off there are rudiments of human sexual selection and reproduction

00:07:09.440 there are many social emotional psychological um intricacies that are associated with these

00:07:16.800 fundamentals but they are underlying motivations and considerations that subconsciously influence sexual

00:07:23.040 selection um okay so i'm going to skip to the part where he talks about the genetic material um

00:07:33.680 oh i actually know that this part's good too he is a great writer to counter this subconscious

00:07:38.640 dynamic to their own genetic advantage women initiate social conventions and psychological schemes to 1.00

00:07:44.080 better facilitate their own breeding methodologies this is why women always have the prerogative to change 1.00

00:07:51.440 her mind um and the most fickle of all behaviors become socially excusable while men's behavior is 0.99

00:08:00.560 constrained to a higher standard of responsibility to do the right thing which is invariably to the

00:08:06.080 advantage of a woman's reproductive scheme this is why men who are players and fathers who abandon

00:08:10.880 mothers to pursue their innate reproductive method are villains and fathers who selflessly 0.97

00:08:15.520 sacrifice themselves financially emotionally and life decision wise often to the benefit of the

00:08:22.160 children they didn't father are considered heroes for complying with women's genetic imperatives this 0.96

00:08:28.000 is also the root motivation for female specific social dynamics such as ljbf rejections women's propensity for 1.00

00:08:36.320 victimhood um as they've learned that this endangers the safe savior mental schemes for men's breeding

00:08:43.600 schedules captain sabaho and even marriage itself so there's good gene good dads versus good genes

00:08:50.960 and so this is the problem that women face right the two greatest difficulties for women to overcome

00:08:57.600 in their own methodology is that there is that they are only at a sexually viable peak for a very short

00:09:05.360 window of time generally their 20s and the fact that the qualities that make a good long-term partner

00:09:12.000 the good dad the good dad and the qualities that make for good breeding stock good genes only rarely

00:09:17.520 manifest themselves in the same male provisioning and security potential are fantastic motivators for

00:09:24.560 pairing with a good dad but the same characteristics that make him such are generally a disadvantage when

00:09:32.080 compared with the men man who better exemplifies genetic physical attraction and the risk-taking qualities

00:09:39.360 that would imbue her child with a better capacity to adapt to its environment i.e stronger faster more 0.57

00:09:46.800 attractive than others to ensure the passing of her own genetic material to future generations 0.99

00:09:51.840 this is the jerk versus nice guy paradox writ large on an evolutionary scale 0.63

00:09:58.000 men and women innately though unconsciously understand this dynamic so in order for women to have the best that 0.96

00:10:04.640 the good dad has to offer while taking advantage of the best that the good genes man has she must invent

00:10:10.400 and constantly modify social conventions to keep that advantage in her biological favor 1.00

00:10:16.720 this paradox that this paradox then necessitates that women and by default men must subscribe to 0.85

00:10:22.960 short-term and long-term schedules of mating short-term schedules facilitate breeding with the good genes male

00:10:29.280 while long-term breeding is reserved for the good dad male this convention and the psycho psychosocial schemes

00:10:36.560 that accompany it are precisely why women will marry the nice guy stable loyal doctor and still f the pool 1.00

00:10:43.280 boy or the cute surfer she met on spring break and our genetic past a male with good genes implied an

00:10:48.720 ability to be a good provider but modern convention has thwarted this has throttled this so new social and

00:10:55.120 mental schemes had to be developed for women for this dynamic for this dynamic in the practicality of 1.00

00:11:02.800 enjoying the best of both genetic worlds women find it necessary to cheat this cheating can be done 1.00

00:11:08.880 proactively or reactively in a reactive model a woman who is already paired with her long-term partner

00:11:15.280 chooses to engage in extramarital or extra pairing sexual intercourse with a short-term partner the

00:11:21.280 cheating wife or girlfriend that's not to say the short-term opportunity can't develop into a second 0.90

00:11:26.560 long-term mate but the action of infidelity itself is a method for securing better genetic stock than

00:11:33.200 the committed provider male is capable of supplying proactive cheating is the single mom mommy dilemma this

00:11:40.480 form of cheating relies on the woman breeding with a good genes male bearing his children and then 1.00

00:11:45.200 abandoning him or having him abandon her in order to find a good dad to provide for her and the

00:11:51.600 children of the good genes partner to ensure the security i want to stress again that most women do 1.00

00:11:56.720 not have some consciously constructed and recognized master plan to enact the cycle and deliberately trap

00:12:02.880 men into it rather than motivations for this behavior and the accompanying social rationales invented to

00:12:09.360 justify it are unconscious in the process for most women for for the most part women are unaware of this 0.98

00:12:15.760 dynamic but nonetheless are subject to its influence for a female of any species to facilitate methodology 1.00

00:12:22.880 methodology for breeding with a genetic partner she's able to attract and to ensure her own offspring 0.95

00:12:28.800 survival with the best provisioning partner this is an evolutionary jackpot on some level men innately

00:12:36.640 sent something is wrong with the situation though they may not be able to place why they feel it or

00:12:42.320 miss or they may misunderstand it in the confusions of women's justifications for it or they become

00:12:47.680 frustrated by social pressures to do the right thing and are shamed into martyrdom um to a feigned

00:12:55.360 responsibility to these conventions nevertheless some see it well enough to steer clear of single mothers 1.00

00:13:01.600 either by prior experience or by observing other male cuckolds saddled with the responsibility

00:13:06.560 of raising and providing for another man's successful reproduction efforts with this woman men often 1.00

00:13:14.240 fall into the okay um men often fall fall into the role of proactive or reactive cuckold he will never

00:13:21.360 enjoy the same benefits as his short-term partner's mates wait he will never he will never enjoy the same

00:13:29.600 benefits as his mate's short-term partner to the same degree in the way of sexual desire or the immediacy of it

00:13:36.240 while at the same time enduring the social pressures of having to provide for this good genes father's

00:13:42.480 progeny it could be argued that he may contribute minimally to welfare but on some level whether it's

00:13:48.160 emotional fight physical financial or educational he will contribute some effort for another man's

00:13:54.800 genetic scots stock in exchange for a limited form of sexuality and intimacy from the mother to some

00:14:01.680 degree he is sharing parental investment that should be borne by the short-term partner if nothing else

00:14:06.560 he contributes the time and effort to her that he could be better invested into finding a sexual

00:14:11.440 partner where he could pursue his own genetic imperative needless to say there is no shortage of men

00:14:17.600 sexually deprived enough to see past the long-term disadvantage and not only rewarding but reinforcing 0.91

00:14:23.280 a single mother's bad decisions with regard to her breeding selections and schedules in exchange for 1.00

00:14:28.560 short-term gratification furthermore by reinforcing her behavior he reinforces the social convention for

00:14:35.120 men and for women it's important to bear in mind that in this age women are ultimately solely responsible 1.00

00:14:41.600 for the men they choose to mate with and giving birth to their children men do responsibility for their 0.86

00:14:46.800 actions no doubt but it's ultimately ultimately the decision of female and her judgment that decides the children's fate 0.54

00:14:53.440 okay okay let me read the other part um

00:15:03.040 uh there's one more how are you doing guys how are you doing like the video on your way in thank you for

00:15:11.040 being here tonight

00:15:19.760 okay this one

00:15:26.480 all right i want to read these articles because i do think they're relevant to the topic today

00:15:32.000 and then we will get into the show okay if you follow me on twitter and are a semi-regular viewer of my

00:15:39.440 show access vegas you've likely seen me be critical of what's known as the mate switching hypothesis

00:15:45.040 this hypothesis has pro offered as an alternative or a counter to the prevailing hypothesis known as

00:15:51.200 the dual mating strategy mate switching theory was popularized by the godfather of evolutionary

00:15:56.880 psychology dr david buss in 2017. the theory made its way into his 2021 book men behaving badly which in my

00:16:04.800 opinion was an effortless an effort in apologetics for conventional masculinity this book's release

00:16:11.440 conspicuously coincided with dr buss's pre-selling his now defunct the first date course in 2020. okay

Pearl - August 26, 2025

The Distinction Between An Alpha Male and a Beta Male

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