Pearl - March 24, 2025


The Epidemic Of Modern Women HUMILIATING Their Husbands On Social Media ｜ Pearl Daily


Episode Stats

Length

15 minutes

Words per Minute

201.25351

Word Count

3,104

Sentence Count

288

Misogynist Sentences

30

Hate Speech Sentences

17


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Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Now, I got a couple things that have been normalized.
00:00:03.400 Women bitching about their husbands on the internet.
00:00:05.980 So this woman gets divorced after shaming her husband online.
00:00:11.820 So she decided, she decided I want to vent to the internet.
00:00:15.780 And she messed around and found out.
00:00:17.560 I can leave because trust me, I am leaving.
00:00:20.560 But people can't just walk out and leave one day when you have kids
00:00:24.040 and 12 years of life wrapped up together.
00:00:26.640 You got to have a plan.
00:00:27.920 You can't just walk away with nothing.
00:00:30.640 You have to have a plan.
00:00:31.740 I'm just going to make a little update video because people have been asking.
00:00:35.600 My husband left the night that I posted that original video.
00:00:41.060 But things changed drastically and I'm feeling less than positive today.
00:00:46.140 I am exhausted and I'm just tired.
00:00:50.320 Hello guys, welcome to this episode.
00:00:52.540 Today we will review a woman who got divorced by her husband
00:00:55.020 for airing her private family matters on TikTok for her followers.
00:00:57.880 The husband saw the video and left her for good.
00:01:00.220 When people are sharing about their marriages on TikTok
00:01:02.200 and are getting support for their atrocious behavior,
00:01:04.620 you know society has gone insane.
00:01:06.540 It's usually best to avoid dating anyone who spends that much time
00:01:09.040 sharing their personal life over social media.
00:01:11.520 Kindly help us grow by hitting the like button and subscribing.
00:01:14.140 Let's get started.
00:01:15.100 So today is my three year wedding anniversary and I can without a doubt say that this has been
00:01:23.560 hands down the most depressing, miserable, horrible three years of my life.
00:01:31.200 I have literally never been so depressed.
00:01:34.980 I've never hated another person more than I hate the person that I married.
00:01:39.980 Well, I run my ass off and I do everything for everybody in my life.
00:01:46.820 Like me, my kids, him.
00:01:49.460 He goes to work and works enough.
00:01:52.840 That's it.
00:01:53.620 He works.
00:01:54.920 Yeah, his job's hard.
00:01:56.220 Yeah, his hours suck.
00:01:57.780 Martini says love you.
00:01:59.400 Love you from a twink.
00:02:00.840 Thank you.
00:02:01.840 But he works.
00:02:03.060 That is all he does.
00:02:04.460 Her husband works diligently to provide her with a comfortable life and protect her from
00:02:08.000 the daily stresses that come with it.
00:02:09.720 Yet she often finds reasons to complain.
00:02:12.200 Staying at home to take care of the kids is surprisingly easy.
00:02:15.320 Preparing meals, doing a bit of laundry and putting away dishes only take about two hours
00:02:19.580 a day and there's no commute to worry about.
00:02:22.280 Let's say she goes grocery shopping once a week and the rest of the day is spent enjoying
00:02:26.000 time with the kids, which is more fun than challenging.
00:02:29.200 However, it seems they always manage to express that life is tough, even when it's far from
00:02:33.500 it.
00:02:34.080 Let's continue.
00:02:34.840 I tried taking care of myself and went on a walk, but you know, when I started realizing
00:02:38.360 I hadn't heard from him, I'm calling and calling and calling and begging for the
00:02:42.500 bare minimum of him to watch our daughter.
00:02:44.980 Excuse my language.
00:02:46.180 I'm just so upset.
00:02:47.100 To watch our daughter, to cut up a watermelon and to make dinner.
00:02:53.020 I am 30 years old and I'm literally begging for the bare minimum every single day.
00:03:00.020 I am a married single mom.
00:03:02.200 That's what I am.
00:03:03.000 Yeah, I don't work.
00:03:05.880 Why do you guys, you guys are married and calling yourself single mothers.
00:03:10.080 Oh my, oh my God.
00:03:11.500 But the amount of weight I carry, I mean, I can tell you right now, the reason women
00:03:16.380 I can see she does carry some weight.
00:03:18.640 It's time to get on the treadmill, Chica.
00:03:20.460 I see that double chin coming in.
00:03:22.500 Stay in shit relationships is one because they don't have the means to leave financially,
00:03:29.040 like a house.
00:03:30.400 Two, the idea of a family.
00:03:32.260 I can tell you why I've stayed.
00:03:33.620 Money.
00:03:34.520 It's that simple.
00:03:35.300 I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom.
00:03:36.800 He used to want me to be a stay-at-home mom.
00:03:38.500 Now he just doesn't care because he doesn't care about anything.
00:03:40.380 She expects her husband to work hard to provide for the family, but at the same time, she
00:03:44.860 wants him to take on the responsibilities of a stay-at-home dad.
00:03:47.880 If he struggles to earn enough money, she will probably criticize him for being broke
00:03:51.300 and not a good husband.
00:03:52.700 She needs to buy a mirror before she endangers her marriage.
00:03:55.920 He puts in extra effort to bring in more income so that she can stay home and ensure their
00:04:00.040 family's financial security.
00:04:01.660 She still complains that he's not around enough to help with household chores.
00:04:04.960 How hard is being a stay-at-home parent compared to a regular job?
00:04:08.300 This comment says,
00:04:09.580 I can speak personally on both sides of this.
00:04:11.760 I used to be the only provider and used to bring home the only paycheck.
00:04:14.880 My wife used to complain about the kids, even though when I got home, I would help with
00:04:18.040 them.
00:04:18.440 Now she works and I help with the kids while working part-time, and now she complains I don't
00:04:22.620 provide enough.
00:04:23.240 I was a stay-at-home dad for about six months when I was laid off.
00:04:26.560 My daughter was an infant.
00:04:27.900 It was stupidly easy.
00:04:29.160 I scheduled a multi-tour.
00:04:30.360 I've read this from so many guys where they thought that watching the kids was so hard,
00:04:34.480 and then they did it, and they're like, this is easy.
00:04:37.060 What are they complaining about?
00:04:38.400 Past my days, I got all the stuff done and had free time where I could watch multiple
00:04:42.000 hours of TV.
00:04:43.160 Women are either lying about what they do for sympathy, or they straight-up suck at it.
00:04:47.020 Took all the kids to school, cleaned the whole house in a couple of hours, picked up
00:04:50.120 some groceries, and played video games or took a nap until picking up the
00:04:53.240 kids in the afternoon.
00:04:54.700 Feed them a snack, then dinner, and the rest is easy.
00:04:57.040 Those couple of months were really an eye-opening experience because it was not hard at all.
00:05:01.060 And yeah, I know I can leave because trust me, I am leaving.
00:05:04.800 But people can't just walk out and leave one day when you have kids.
00:05:08.560 Did she not think her husband would see this?
00:05:11.700 There's a life wrapped up together.
00:05:13.520 You gotta have a plan.
00:05:15.160 You can't just walk away with nothing.
00:05:17.700 You have to have a plan.
00:05:19.320 I mean, I'm trying so hard not to be bitter, but like, I've just never disliked somebody
00:05:24.200 so much that I should love, that I just don't.
00:05:27.480 And sickness and health, better or worse?
00:05:29.800 Like, no.
00:05:30.960 Like, so destroy myself and my kids to keep a vow?
00:05:34.780 Well, thank you, Olive.
00:05:36.180 Just supporting.
00:05:37.020 The irony is, once she gets that divorce, she gets to go back into the workforce, do
00:05:40.460 an 8- to 12-hour shift, come home, and do the exact same thing she is complaining about.
00:05:45.200 Make it make sense.
00:05:46.380 Marriage these days is just nothing more but a bunch of burdens, financial hardship,
00:05:49.780 this for a therapist.
00:05:51.080 Yikes.
00:05:51.500 Hardship, mental strain, headaches, lack of...
00:05:53.520 Hit that like button, guys.
00:05:55.120 There's 800 in here.
00:05:56.500 We should have at least 600 likes.
00:05:58.120 Empathy for...
00:05:58.620 It's free.
00:05:59.240 ...men in general, and a huge liability.
00:06:01.640 In the comment section of her video, she got a lot of support from the women.
00:06:04.740 Here are a few.
00:06:05.660 The first comment says, manage the money in the household.
00:06:08.500 Give him a cash allow.
00:06:09.340 The women's advice...
00:06:10.460 Do you see how tough it is as a woman?
00:06:13.120 Now, I know what you guys are thinking, right?
00:06:14.840 You're thinking, Pearl, she just told...
00:06:17.060 What do you mean it's tough as a woman?
00:06:18.260 It's tough as a man.
00:06:19.200 Well, yeah, obviously.
00:06:21.180 But women, it's like, we go to each other, and it's like the blinds leading the blind,
00:06:25.920 right?
00:06:26.440 This woman is advising her, like, she'll go...
00:06:29.620 Now, this is a bad example.
00:06:30.680 But you'll go to a woman to, like, console about your problems, right?
00:06:35.340 And so you'll go, and you'll be like...
00:06:37.120 And then the woman will be like, leave him!
00:06:40.420 Go fuck his best friend!
00:06:42.600 Give him an allowance!
00:06:43.780 It's like...
00:06:44.660 Yeah, you gotta...
00:06:45.600 You gotta go.
00:06:46.400 And then it's like some of these women don't have dads!
00:06:49.240 And then, do you know what's even worse?
00:06:50.860 They just...
00:06:51.860 They, like, back each other up, and then it just gets worse.
00:06:55.080 Allowance.
00:06:56.580 Other than that, pretend he doesn't exist.
00:06:58.640 Do for only you and the kids.
00:07:00.360 Don't expect or ask him to do anything.
00:07:02.340 Lawyer up and make a plan.
00:07:03.700 When he started talking about having kids, I got a dog instead.
00:07:06.680 He wouldn't help take care of it.
00:07:08.140 He'd let the puppy soil itself right next to him in the living room, and not clean it up.
00:07:12.140 Okay, but that means you also let the puppy soil itself in the living room.
00:07:16.220 You guys just seem like a dirty couple.
00:07:18.220 And so fast.
00:07:19.640 What you just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard.
00:07:24.560 It's better to admit you went through the wrong door than to spend your whole life in the wrong room,
00:07:28.760 says the Shakespeare from Temu.
00:07:30.540 If he doesn't check the bank account, start taking money, and stash it away, he will never know.
00:07:34.760 Think of it as paying yourself...
00:07:35.640 What the F is this chick stressed?
00:07:37.300 All she had to do is make a couple of sandwiches and walk the kids.
00:07:40.880 She's no hero.
00:07:42.140 There are no housewives and foxholes.
00:07:44.080 ...for being a maid, chauffeur, cook, or accountant.
00:07:46.900 The biggest red flag is that she's making this all public,
00:07:49.780 and then letting these idiots on TikTok determine how she's going to handle it
00:07:52.780 rather than thinking for herself and having some respect for the relationship and her spouse.
00:07:56.780 Well, the guy did the Lord's work and dealt with her like he should.
00:07:59.500 Let's have a look.
00:08:00.200 I'm just going to make a little update video because people have been asking.
00:08:04.080 Ignore my stuffy voice.
00:08:06.600 I have, like, some kind of cold going on, like a head cold.
00:08:09.100 But my husband left the night that I posted that original video.
00:08:14.600 I can't remember the timeline.
00:08:16.000 He had stayed here twice.
00:08:17.180 One night that I was here because it was just late,
00:08:20.900 and then another night, why I didn't stay here.
00:08:24.680 Other than that, he's been gone.
00:08:26.340 I think he was here, like, during the day once or twice while I wasn't here.
00:08:29.820 He needs to get his stuff still.
00:08:31.540 He hasn't did that.
00:08:32.400 One of the saddest aspects of this entire...
00:08:35.420 Yes, roulette wheel.
00:08:36.780 My channel is monetized.
00:08:38.440 Thank you for the super chat.
00:08:39.980 ...expedition is that after she finished sharing about her family,
00:08:42.760 no one seemed to care and simply moved on with their lives.
00:08:45.640 She now has to confront the reality of her actions and the part she played.
00:08:49.140 Imagine having enough free time to go online and complain about your spouse
00:08:52.740 while every single thing in your life is taken care of by that same person.
00:08:56.260 One of the most important rules for a relationship is not to publicly air your issues.
00:08:59.740 You should get counseling or have a private and confidential third party to handle issues.
00:09:04.480 You should never talk poorly about your spouse and your relationship with others if you haven't...
00:09:08.200 Okay.
00:09:08.940 Yeah.
00:09:10.200 Now we got another one.
00:09:11.780 A woman saying she wasn't attracted to her husband.
00:09:14.500 To the creator.
00:09:15.360 Men and women, we both lie.
00:09:17.260 Can we just...
00:09:18.420 I'm going to be honest with you guys in the chat.
00:09:20.660 Men lie and women lie.
00:09:22.020 Now, how do men lie?
00:09:23.320 Now, what men will do is they'll go for the hottest woman that they can get, right?
00:09:27.440 So they'll go in high school.
00:09:28.580 They'll try...
00:09:29.060 They'll say, let me go for that hot woman.
00:09:30.840 And then they'll get brutally rejected, right?
00:09:32.680 And they're like, okay, that didn't work.
00:09:35.140 And then...
00:09:35.600 So then they go a little lower.
00:09:36.760 They go for the second hottest woman, right?
00:09:39.280 And then they're like...
00:09:39.860 They get brutally rejected or maybe they get...
00:09:42.700 Like, they simp for her, right?
00:09:44.480 So they simp.
00:09:45.620 Maybe they get a brutal marriage or whatever.
00:09:48.360 And it just doesn't work out.
00:09:49.740 And that doesn't work.
00:09:50.960 And ladies, he's with you because you're the best that he could do.
00:09:54.100 And usually...
00:09:55.220 It usually kind of goes like this.
00:09:56.800 You know a guy's ready to settle down when he goes like one or two notches uglier than
00:10:01.200 he normally goes, right?
00:10:03.660 So like he'll bang an eight.
00:10:05.240 He'll bang a nine.
00:10:06.420 And then like they obviously like it's just a one-time thing because the nine is like,
00:10:10.980 I'm going to go do better.
00:10:12.100 And so then they get like a six and they're like, good enough.
00:10:14.820 Or a five.
00:10:15.480 And they're like, good enough.
00:10:17.260 But they don't tell us that, right?
00:10:19.080 They're not going to say, look, my ex was way better in bed.
00:10:23.780 Or my ex is just like, she was way hotter than you.
00:10:27.100 But you're nicer to me.
00:10:28.180 So good enough.
00:10:29.100 You know, they're not going to...
00:10:30.080 They're not now...
00:10:30.940 There's exceptions to this rule.
00:10:32.660 I mean, some men do marry the hottest woman they've ever been with.
00:10:35.340 But like, that's not the rule.
00:10:37.300 Like, let's just be honest.
00:10:39.460 Now, Brandon Daniels, I'll look at your thing, Doug.
00:10:47.340 Now, the way women lie is, you know, women kind of go through the same thing, right?
00:10:52.060 Women go for hotter and hotter and hotter.
00:10:54.080 And that's how they get alpha widow.
00:10:55.260 The difference is men can be like content.
00:10:57.660 So they're like, when they say good enough, they mean it, right?
00:11:01.000 So when they find a mid that's nice to them and like cooks them a meal now and then,
00:11:05.540 they're actually content.
00:11:07.180 They actually mean it.
00:11:08.720 Where the women, you know, they really don't mean it.
00:11:13.320 And so, but the difference is the men like keep it to themselves.
00:11:16.600 They know to lie.
00:11:18.160 They'll say, you're the most beautiful woman in the world.
00:11:21.340 You're so special.
00:11:23.300 I always knew it was you.
00:11:26.280 Liars.
00:11:27.520 You were just the woman that said yes was easy enough and nice enough.
00:11:31.560 But they're not going to say that, right?
00:11:33.600 The women...
00:11:34.780 Now, some guys, you know, it's just not like immediate for us.
00:11:38.720 Like we do become attracted to, but it takes time.
00:11:41.760 But men don't want to know that, right?
00:11:45.200 They don't...
00:11:46.040 They want to be the guy that you...
00:11:47.960 Like they want...
00:11:48.660 You said no to him, him, him, and him.
00:11:51.080 But him, you let raw dog on the first date after a cheeseburger for $1.50 in the alleyway.
00:11:58.540 Do you know how much of a legend they would be to their friend group if all of their friend
00:12:02.640 group hit on this said chick?
00:12:04.640 She said, no, not you, not you, not you, not you.
00:12:07.760 And then him, you're like, you gave no rules for.
00:12:12.420 He's going to be a legend.
00:12:14.080 So what they do is the women will say, I wasn't attracted to him, which we all know what that
00:12:19.000 means.
00:12:19.800 And men will accept this, right?
00:12:21.800 They'll be like, do you know what?
00:12:22.640 Maybe she wasn't attracted to me at first, but like, I did like her and, you know, she's
00:12:28.260 a good mom and she's going to, she's a good person, whatever.
00:12:31.860 It's fine.
00:12:32.280 I'll get over it.
00:12:33.300 But now they're bragging about it.
00:12:35.600 They're bragging.
00:12:36.660 Oh, wait, hold on.
00:12:37.680 To the creator that's getting dragged on here for not being attracted to her husband when
00:12:42.360 they first met.
00:12:43.920 Same.
00:12:44.520 Me too.
00:12:45.540 Seriously.
00:12:46.220 I totally get where you're coming from.
00:12:47.940 And I'll just tell you how we met real quick.
00:12:50.080 Like, basically, I had been out of prison for like a year and I saw him, like I met
00:12:56.120 him through some mutual friends.
00:12:57.860 And apparently Tim Poole responded to my tweets.
00:13:02.460 Can we guess, is he going to have simped or not simped?
00:13:05.740 Whose side is he going to be on?
00:13:07.500 We already know.
00:13:08.720 Like, but maybe it'll surprise me.
00:13:10.300 He's like kind of cute.
00:13:12.020 And, but he was like, I'm tall and he's tall, but he's like really tall.
00:13:16.080 And he was like super skinny at the time and awkward and just like, just super, like not
00:13:23.320 a whole lot of social skill.
00:13:25.580 He's also a country boy.
00:13:27.640 Grew up farming, tractors, all that.
00:13:30.140 He could like fix anything.
00:13:31.600 But yeah, he's just really awkward and strange.
00:13:34.180 And I was like, like, this is never going to work.
00:13:37.260 Like, also he was a corrections officer at the time, like, which is a really weird because
00:13:43.140 I had already been out of prison for like, so yeah, basically we're just like complete
00:13:48.260 opposites.
00:13:49.080 And I don't know, it took about like nine months for us to actually like date after we had
00:13:55.700 like seen each other, like in groups, you know, groups of friends a couple of times.
00:14:00.120 And then finally I was like, okay, like I'll give it a shot, I guess.
00:14:04.660 And when I like did, he like, didn't even know I existed.
00:14:10.480 Like I was nowhere on his radar.
00:14:12.960 Um, he was completely like oblivious that I was even like, Joel, thank you for the super
00:14:19.680 chat.
00:14:20.040 Just showing support, going back to the audacity chat now.
00:14:23.340 Thank you, Joel.
00:14:24.660 Thinking about anything like that.
00:14:26.480 Right.
00:14:26.820 So yeah, I get it.
00:14:28.220 Like I was just, wasn't like, he was awkward.
00:14:32.760 I don't know how else to explain it.
00:14:35.040 And I was like this, you know, he got friend zoned by a felon.
00:14:39.000 Can you imagine guys?
00:14:40.260 What an L and not only that, she's bragging about this.
00:14:42.960 Well, I don't know, like, I don't know.
00:14:44.740 Coming out of prison, I was just coming from the streets to prison and then coming home
00:14:50.040 and then meeting him like a year later, I was like, no, this is just definitely not going
00:14:56.680 to work.
00:14:57.100 But it did.
00:14:57.900 And we've been together for almost eight years now.
00:15:01.520 Okay.
00:15:01.860 Now this is the practical advice women give each other behind the scenes, right?
00:15:06.640 Go to your friend zone, give the guys a shot.
00:15:08.740 You might actually have a good marriage that comes out of it.
00:15:11.020 Here's the practical advice men give each other behind the scenes.
00:15:14.940 Look, I know she's hot, but you might want to get a less good looking girl so they don't
00:15:21.120 have as much of an ego.
00:15:22.320 Now the mids are starting to get ego.
00:15:24.020 It's over.
00:15:24.440 Okay.
00:15:24.640 Okay.
00:15:24.660 Okay.
00:15:24.680 Okay.
00:15:24.700 Okay.
00:15:24.720 Okay.
00:15:24.920 Okay.
00:15:25.200 Okay.