00:00:00.960All right, what's up guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. Today we're going a little bit earlier for a few reasons. The first, I need to test out this studio. The producer came yesterday and showed me how to use this stuff so hopefully we'll have less equipment problems in the future, but I'm trying to learn to do the equipment myself so I will need you guys' patience this show.
00:00:24.680and to let me know in the comments if you can hear me and the audio is okay it might be a little
00:00:29.440echoey because um uh it shouldn't be super bad but the room is a little big so if there's a
00:00:35.440little echo that's okay also um the next thing we're going to talk about0.97
00:00:40.200we're going a little earlier because i got asked to go on the news tonight so i'm like fuck it0.50
00:00:45.900We might as well just get going, get the show rolling, but let me, can you put a one in0.68
00:09:28.540The cost of everything has gone up.1.00
00:09:30.680I would attribute this to women voting for Democrats and unnecessary spending.1.00
00:09:37.200Now, this can go inside of the home and outside of the home.1.00
00:09:40.200What's happening in society is actually what women do inside of the home.1.00
00:09:43.820How many of you fellas paid for your wife's useless subscriptions, spending habits,1.00
00:09:50.560living in areas that are too expensive, moving around and just bullshit you don't need?1.00
00:09:55.200right that's going on in society we just keep spending and buying bullshit we don't need1.00
00:10:00.760because women are too lazy to think about the consequences of our actions it's not that we1.00
00:10:08.040can't do it because i can think about a consequence of an action and honestly if i've ever made a0.99
00:10:14.080monetary mistake and i'll use my i'll throw myself under the bus for this i'll use myself
00:10:18.600in 2023 I made a ton of money I had too much overhead as a business and it was because I was
00:10:25.380trying to do my shows and I was too lazy to do the hard thing of maintaining overhead uh you know1.00
00:10:32.860being a better boss meticulously watching employees whatever lazy female laziness right0.54
00:10:38.840um now a lot of women push back and say well that doesn't mean I'm a lazy person I work hard in1.00
00:10:44.860these other areas, it's like, well, you can be a hard worker, but you can still be a lazy1.00
00:10:49.820bitch when it comes to the hardest things, right? Crime and homeless, right? Again, women1.00
00:10:59.760keep voting for politicians that leave criminals in the streets. Oh, okay. Laziness. And then1.00
00:11:07.400And the other issue, actually, is wanting to look, not be a good person, but look like a good person.1.00
00:11:23.820So what will happen is, right, women will vote for Democrats that allow criminals to basically rape your ass, right, beat you up, whatever.1.00
00:11:34.540because we want to look like a good person, not be a good person, look like a good person.1.00
00:11:42.520College debt. Again, women are too lazy to study STEM and even if we get STEM jobs, we quit0.99
00:11:49.800and therefore we have a lot of college debt. We are also too lazy to think about the consequence1.00
00:11:56.880and read the fine print of the loans we're taking out. We have a tendency to go out of state
00:12:03.160and even out of the country for academics0.99
00:19:17.500All right. So first of all, I could do like a happy dance. Like imagine we start the show and it's like, no, wait, wait, wait. We start the show and it's like, oh no, I'm going down the stairs. I'm going down the stairs. Oh no. Oh no.
00:19:34.320my dad says i'm immature at times is this not is this not how a grown woman is supposed to
00:39:42.640You taught me to shoot my first basket. You made us fifth grade conference champions. I never cared about the fans. I just love seeing you in the stands.
01:07:02.860After the lawsuit became public, generated widespread attention, Van Horton announced to the criminal investigation was reopened.
01:07:09.920His plans to present the matter to the grand jury, he has described events that night as untowered and morally disgusting while noting the difference between a moral wrongdoing and a legal element of a crime based on the original statement.
01:07:25.200He also acknowledged that the trauma can affect how a person processes events.
01:07:29.120The accused have not been criminally charged.
01:07:31.540Some have denied the lawsuit's characterization of events.
01:07:34.600The civil case and any potential criminal case are ongoing.
01:07:38.420Accounts from the 2024 police statements and the 2026 lawsuit differ in material respects.
01:07:45.360Those differences are a central reason the prosecutor cited for the original charging decision and later reopening.
01:07:54.640So again, this is going to get political and now the prosecutor is going to have an incentive to basically ruin these boys lives.
01:09:02.440um and apparently now they're saying that she did not in fact kill her kids0.97
01:09:10.560so i think if we select a trial date now that might not actually be a real trial date depending
01:09:20.420on how this case proceeds and what happens with any appellate rights from from either side
01:09:25.400well let me hear from defense believe it or not i agree with it
01:09:31.040So we'll all stand together and say we'd rather defer until you make your rulings and then any appellate arguments are presented, rather than pick a trial date.
01:12:00.800Jane Doe texted one of her alleged gang rape assailants that she enjoyed the sexual activity
01:12:29.860wanted to meet up again and none of the sex stuff was illegal.
01:12:32.980A sworn statement in November of 2020 the woman identified only as Jane Doe in the lawsuit
01:12:39.620gave a sworn statement to the woman identified only as Jane Doe in the lawsuit
01:12:45.300gave a sworn statement to Cornell police in 2024. The DA says quote Jane Doe's sworn statement in
01:12:52.180November of 2024 did not allege that she was drugged against her will or gang raped.
01:12:57.700The D.A. says she, quote, described her participation in drug use and sexual conduct as voluntary, conscious and consensual.
01:13:06.300Tonight, CBS News New York has exclusively obtained screenshots from a source presented as text messages between Doe and one of the defendants accused of rape in the lawsuit.
01:13:18.480The man begins by apologizing for, quote, how things went down.
01:13:22.620He says his memory is, quote, kind of fuzzy and that he and another man feel bad for being
01:13:28.720too intoxicated to, quote, shut it down and kick people out before it got way out of hand.
01:13:35.160The female in the text chain replies that her memory is, quote, super clouded too and
01:13:40.680says that they had all been heavily intoxicated.
01:13:43.640But she also writes, quote, none of the sexual stuff was illegal.
01:13:48.720She says she liked being with him and another man.
01:13:51.520Later, she suggests they smoke together again, quote, but like leave out the extra 5 billion men and ketamine.
01:13:59.380Doe's attorney, Thomas Jifra, confirms she exchanged text messages with this defendant shortly afterward.
01:14:05.620We sent him excerpts of those text messages.
01:14:09.000In response, he says he could not confirm whether these were the specific texts.
01:14:13.860Jifra says Doe was in denial and traumatized shortly after the alleged assaults.
01:14:18.860He says on that night she was intoxicated to the point of incapacity and was trying to find out what happened.
01:14:26.220Doe's attorney says she felt she could not take an aggressive tone with this defendant if she wanted answers.
01:14:32.900Not one of these guys was arrested. Not one. That I can tell you for a fact.
01:14:36.560We spoke with Driffer last week before we obtained these screenshots and before the district attorney announced he was reopening the case.
01:14:44.540He told us what Cornell had meant to Doe.
01:14:47.100Her dream was to go to Cornell. Since she was a little girl, she wanted to go to Cornell.
01:14:50.900She worked really hard in school, worked really hard to get there.
01:14:54.140This was the pinnacle. This was the realization of her dream.
01:14:59.400See, this is what I mean. The white guys always simp for these women.1.00
01:15:03.220Never a consequence. They couldn't just say, honey, you got a train ran on you, move on.0.99
01:15:17.100that's going to be one of my projects this weekend cleaning my backyard yeah it's kind
01:15:29.900of messy I'm not even gonna lie to you guys well
01:15:34.740we can watch cga's debate I think for a little bit today because I think I kind of ranted about
01:15:45.220everything I wanted to rant about today.
01:16:15.220is at stake in a long-term marriage the man may feel like he's being investigated
01:16:33.060and be made a criminal because he earned more money and he got less custody most men don't
01:16:38.760know that that's going on until the divorce right they have a wife then they find out who the new
01:16:46.360wife is in family court okay and they were like who is this woman and why is she telling me i don't
01:16:52.620get parentage what ends up happening is the parentage the woman's incentivized to fight for
01:16:58.440more custody therefore he's vulnerable making more money over the term of the marriage to pay
01:17:04.560more child support. Statistically, just to be clear, less than 15% of women are payees of child
01:17:12.800support. Overwhelmingly, men pay child support. 85 to 90% of all child support dollars are paid
01:17:20.380by men. In that case, there's an incentive for a woman to drop him off at the family court pay
01:17:26.560window, fight for custody, and him lose access to his children and pay child support.
01:17:32.720you know what you're right here's the problem though coach everything you said has everything
01:17:38.780to do with a horrible legal system bad choices and immaturity that isn't an argument against
01:17:46.340marriage or it's not even an argument for marriage being a financial trap it's more of an argument
01:17:51.460about what the legal system is set up to do and we all know the government gets involved in anything
01:17:56.060whether it's child support whether it's marriage it becomes a contract between three individuals
01:18:00.800it's you your spouse then the government you're making a phenomenal argument against the system
01:18:07.760that takes advantage of people who do not know the law and that's in every single line of work
01:18:12.460give me the argument about the institution of marriage because everything you said has
01:18:16.940everything to do with legal and financial ramifications not
01:18:30.800Not necessarily the marriage itself being a bad institution.
01:19:16.580It is people believing that the person across from them isn't going to stab them in the back for the benefit of some dollars.
01:19:21.740So what the institution argument is based on versus what happens in the court, we can't determine that because we know statistically probably what 800,000 divorces occurred.
01:20:16.500So the thing that I'm trying to understand is when you're talking about all the things, and of course, you know, I've read both of your books, the thing that always intrigues me and kind of seems like a catch 22 and I need you to break it down for me is you tend to spend a lot of time telling men to prepare for all of these things and prepare for, you know, eventualities that can happen.
01:20:38.360My question to you is if that's the case
01:20:40.960Why go through all this trouble of writing books in order to prepare men for something that you ultimately believe more often than not?
01:20:48.480Isn't a good deal for them in the first place even in the best of circumstances you have means I have means if my wife decides to divorce me today
01:20:54.800It's gonna be a painful situation even though i've known this woman since I was 17 years old
01:21:00.220Even though we're best friends, even though we have two children
01:21:03.520How do you justify one by contradicting the other? Do you understand what I'm saying to you?
01:21:08.540I'm not sure where the contradiction is
01:21:10.160The contradiction for me is if you're telling people specifically men like you and I right that that marriage in and of itself is a financial trap
01:21:19.000But you spend so much time in both of your books showing them ways to prepare if they're going to get into it
01:21:25.480Why go through all that if it's just such a volatile situation? Well, I know men and I know their ego, you know when it comes to women
01:21:32.760men have a particular ego to believe that their love is better than the other love their sex is0.72
01:21:40.420better than the other man's sex they got more game stop talking about me great yeah you know
01:21:44.560i'm describing you so men believe that what happened to you is not going to happen to them
01:21:50.280generally women don't believe that they have overwhelmingly sounded the alarm on any issues
01:21:56.640domestic violence now you're hearing things related to um um the the postpartum depression0.75
01:22:02.860when women silence the alarm they put every woman in the position to say you can be in this position
01:22:09.340when men sound the alarm then we start to fracture and we start to say well that wouldn't happen to
01:22:15.100me and obviously i know how to hit it right and i don't know how to treat a woman and i know how
01:22:18.940to love a woman and then essentially what happens is they find out that it's not about him his ego
01:22:24.620was not his amigo he led himself astray and now he's sitting in a situation which a lot of men
01:22:30.720come to me and they want me to figure out how to get him out of the situation and i said well i'm
01:22:35.660not batman okay listen i'm not trying to get you out of jail i'm not trying to get you to escape
01:22:40.740the system what i was trying to do was warn you of the system so i know you have free will to do
01:22:46.300whatever you want you can marry whoever you want so i would like men to be prepared
01:22:49.600coach let me ask you this tell me three things that you think are absolutely wonderful about
01:22:58.380marriage aside from love well the benefits of family raising i'm a big patriarch i love family
01:23:05.520yeah i think the ultimate reward of marriage is when you become grandparents and you've been
01:23:11.220fruitful and multiplied and you can see your kids and your grandkids producing good citizens
01:23:16.500are we doing that today? Probably overwhelmingly not. We're producing horrible citizens. We're
01:23:24.040producing criminals. We're producing split households. So therefore, I would say that0.59
01:23:28.900would be a benefit, but it's not a guarantee. I believe monogamy would be good because that
01:23:34.460would prevent the spread of sexual diseases. So if you can keep one partner with one partner,
01:23:39.920that will possibly present that and prevent that. However, we've seen people cheating on each other.
01:23:45.700We're seeing people staying single until they're 30 and 40 and fornicating with as many people as they can do and then trying to get in marriages after that.
01:23:54.540But the benefit would be we would probably prevent both of those issues that I brought up.
01:23:59.520And then I think a third one is you're talking about building wealth.
01:24:02.820It is statistically proven that people that stay in marriages long term and do not divorce, those families thrive over generations.
01:24:11.440And you can see people in poverty now and you can trace it back to broken homes, four and five generations.
01:24:16.980If you see the people who are thriving now economically, you can trace it back and possibly say they had a high proportion of two parent households that were married.
01:24:26.280So those are three, three great benefits.