Pearl - July 08, 2026


The Feminist DOWNFALL of Dating Apps


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Length

10 minutes

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211.59

Word count

2,321

Sentence count

13

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Misogyny

18

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Toxicity

25

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Hate speech

28

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00:00:00.000 someone who has dated someone online and it has actually worked out like they got married and
00:00:04.740 everything it happens all the time happens every day honestly as a woman you should be open to
00:00:08.720 meeting someone anywhere what's up guys welcome to my reaction series today we are reacting to
00:00:13.360 women complaining as we do about everything so get this you can download hinge you can filter men by
00:00:19.200 height uh race age you can literally filter men all the men in your city you can get them a nice 0.99
00:00:24.960 list and you could go on a date with them no matter how old fat and ugly you are yes you're
00:00:30.000 not going to match with all of them right but i would argue dating apps benefit women and because 0.98
00:00:35.200 imagine if you as a man had that amount of power like you could just filter out all the women in 1.00
00:00:39.040 your city and find the exact ones you want that'd be pretty nice right um and yet women still have 1.00
00:00:44.960 the audacity to complain about it right because we do complain about everything men women kids dogs
00:00:51.360 cats etc we'll just always find a way to complain so uh before we get started though the link is
00:00:56.320 in the description please fill out the google form um we are trying to come to your city but
00:01:01.600 we got to know what cities people are in and we want to do private events but i got to make sure 0.69
00:01:05.280 you're not crazy so fill out the form in the description the link is below sucks dating 0.97
00:01:10.000 nowadays is just horrible i hate it i hate small talk i hate texting okay well you hate it because 0.99
00:01:14.880 you're fat again um the fatness if you were thin you have a cute face i see the vision you have big 1.00
00:01:20.160 tits uh yeah but you're fat so i hate swiping on people i hate the shopping aspect of it but i'm 0.99
00:01:25.440 also an introvert and i'm really shy and i don't know how to meet people irl so i'm kind of like 0.54
00:01:29.280 stuck in a situation where i have to do that i think dating apps are amazing you can meet on
00:01:34.640 your terms at whatever time you want to like with the type of guys that you want like you've way
00:01:40.320 less choice in real life if i want to try to find love i mean is there a higher ghost rate i mean
00:01:45.280 yeah but like you know what i mean just keep going keep it pushing you know so i've really
00:01:52.960 been trying to be bound to say yes even to you fatty come up with ways to try to actually meet 0.93
00:01:57.360 people irl which means i need to get out of my head black men are available black men are available 0.90
00:02:02.240 keep going ladies house and i actually have to do stuff so i live in south dakota i'm not going to 0.86
00:02:07.280 say we're in south dakota but i do live in south dakota i can get to any of the major towns pretty
00:02:11.040 easily it's not that big of a state so does anyone have any ideas of how to actually meet people
00:02:15.680 in person in a place like the gym that's true that's where you should meet your next man at
00:02:20.560 the gym someone that sees the vision like south dakota um i don't really go to the bar very often
00:02:26.180 i do like to go occasionally i have been getting the itch to go recently so maybe at some point
00:02:30.580 i'll do that but i don't go regularly and i'm also really shy in person so i don't really know
00:02:36.440 how to like put myself out there to meet people and make friends is anyone else struggling with
00:02:40.460 this right now like how are we dating where are we going there's not really any like third places
00:02:45.440 for us to go aside from the bar and I don't really do that so I need ideas please all right um let's
00:02:51.700 see what ideas did I give her okay you want to go to male hobby places so like okay number one I
00:02:58.560 would just do the dating apps I think that's easier just get some drinks it'll be fine but
00:03:04.080 if you're really okay you're gonna do the gym and you want to do gyms that are tailored more towards
00:03:08.840 men so i would do like a bodybuilding gym um and then maybe you could learn something there
00:03:16.200 but if you really want to stay fat then i would go to places that are high protein
00:03:20.760 steakhouses even mcdonald's like men like things that are cheap easy quick
00:03:25.020 okay wait so let's see the next lady we all know where did men get this idea that they shouldn't
00:03:32.000 be going up to women or that it's like a creepy thing well women wanted this and honestly i think
00:03:36.660 it's better for the ladies uh because then you don't have to reject them in front of everybody
00:03:40.300 because women just don't like men that much and we're not being honest about it um so at least
00:03:45.380 on the app she can be honest guys are like if i walk up to this girl she's gonna think i'm weird 0.90
00:03:51.400 but like you said that's the that's the worst that's gonna happen but guys think like girls
00:03:55.260 will go on walks and talk about it like here's what i tell people i'm like you're not that
00:03:58.740 important i've known guys women will talk about it but it's fine we're like no i don't like
00:04:04.240 approach women out in public at all i think that it makes the like fear around dating work and i
00:04:11.120 don't know where this is coming from most guys are just like comfortable they're like i'm just
00:04:14.400 gonna go on dating apps and hope for the best most guys are ugly you're not gonna do well on dating
00:04:18.880 apps you're not gonna meet the girl that you want and they're like you know what something's gonna
00:04:21.840 fall in my lap and the reality is for girls you have a better chance of meeting someone like just
00:04:27.120 based off your luck guys you don't have that luxury i think they would have a better chance 1.00
00:04:31.600 if they would put themselves out there more yeah so what she's saying is i want the hot men to put 0.99
00:04:36.320 themselves out there and not the ugly simps all right let's see this lady here someone who has 0.69
00:04:42.240 dated someone online and it has actually worked out like they got married and everything it happens
00:04:47.040 all the time happens every day honestly as a woman you should be open to meeting someone anywhere
00:04:51.760 anywhere anywhere it happens it happens usually you hear the horror stories about people meeting
00:04:58.080 online it never really works out and you're forcing it you're yeah yes it can not work out
00:05:05.400 but also people find love all the time looking for it isn't it better to just have it happen
00:05:09.440 naturally anyways let me know if you know someone that has actually had a good experience or if you
00:05:15.540 recommend it if you actually had a good experience i'm just asking for a friend no i'm kidding i mean
00:05:21.000 i'm not gonna do it okay i'm curious i just want to know you should do it because you would get
00:05:25.760 access to the best men in your city why not and you'd have a shot you're still cute and young not 1.00
00:05:30.480 not have a shot uh this looks like the type of bitch you would meet on a dating app apps 1.00
00:05:35.120 but i'm banned from all three of the big major oh my god dating apps don't you as a woman 1.00
00:05:41.960 send in the comments now i want to ask um and i got on this other one tell me why i forgot that 0.99
00:05:50.700 Everyone is UGLY! 0.96
00:05:52.700 You have an ELO score, so it's based on how cute you are. 0.98
00:05:56.700 I forgot that everyone is hideous.
00:05:58.700 Recently, I got back...
00:06:00.700 Alright, let's see who's next. Let's see this lady here. 1.00
00:06:04.700 Okay. 1.00
00:06:05.700 A little insight into my online dating journey this year.
00:06:09.700 I've been trying to give it another chance since January.
00:06:13.700 And still prioritizing myself, but if someone wants to take me on a date, I'll do it on a date.
00:06:18.700 uh someone i've been talking to for three weeks continues to reschedule this is the third time 0.95
00:06:23.200 of a reschedule and women do this so much that men have started doing it back where they just 1.00
00:06:28.480 schedule like three at a time to see who shows up so you were just the ugliest one on the list 0.92
00:06:33.140 sorry chica so like don't really want to meet them anyway like i kind of do but like if it's 0.98
00:06:37.780 inconvenient to me i don't want to right yeah see they they sense that energy see this is what i
00:06:42.240 mean we don't like men enough to be like in like a slightest inconvenience we're just not going to
00:06:48.720 do it everybody has a nightmare by the way um anyway he's texting me and i start realizing i'm 0.93
00:06:57.920 like why the fuck every time he wants to plan something he's like let's go get drinks at this 0.82
00:07:01.800 location around 7 p.m and then he just texted me today like he's following up he's doing like 0.96
00:07:07.180 quote unquote the right things but like when he texted me today and he was like are you still good
00:07:11.440 meet around five can you not like commit to a time i want like let's meet at 5 p.m let's meet
00:07:17.760 at 5 30 if you can't meet about like why are you saying around five why are you saying all right
00:07:22.560 let's use next this lady here okay online dating sucks how do i meet men golf golf courses golf
00:07:31.520 driving range simulators it depends what's your type like if you'd like latino men go to a salsa 0.99
00:07:36.400 place if you like white guys go to a golf um dive bar maybe uh if you like black guys 0.97
00:07:46.080 you're gonna want to go to the unemployment office 0.99
00:07:49.920 it's so funny it depends what type of black you like thugs and you go to the hood you know what 0.99
00:07:55.760 i mean if you like a polished black guys they're gonna be more in academia or law talking profession 0.99
00:08:03.200 i hate online dating i hate it like from time to time i'll sign in again like imagine looking like 0.82
00:08:08.720 her and hating online dating she's still cute she's gonna get thousands of matches and i will
00:08:13.320 get so overwhelmed so quick because there's so many messages so many of the same conversations
00:08:19.220 and like i rarely ever meet up with anyone first of all i don't really have time second of all
00:08:27.380 she won't make time it just never happens but how not these girls are i just want you guys to know
00:08:35.000 they're lying dating apps are great it's for women it's literally it's literally else am i
00:08:41.740 supposed to meet anyone i don't do anything i work from home the only thing i really do during the 0.52
00:08:48.340 week is volunteer at my kids at school go to the grocery store don't go mother okay well the black 0.64
00:08:53.220 guys will take you don't worry about it honey it's like that yeah i'm not that's it black and the
00:08:58.000 white guys will take you i'm bad i'm bad okay so far i've been on none um i just don't know where
00:09:07.760 people are meeting people these days like i don't drink i don't go to the bar it's so it's it's kind
00:09:12.660 of crazy to me that you don't want to go out right and you're too lazy to go out and meet people fine
00:09:18.320 i get it we're all busy so you can't and now the the men give you an app to where you can literally 0.90
00:09:23.440 get dick to your door if you want and you don't want to do that you know and online dating is
00:09:28.240 like the absolute worst thing in the entire world like based off your profile we're just gonna start 0.99
00:09:33.040 texting what are we talking about i know you are like and oh you want to hang out like are you 0.72
00:09:38.880 going to kill me um i don't know about all that so like how do i meet someone 1.00
00:09:49.200 not on the dating apps and like again i can give you ladies some real life places if you want you
00:09:56.720 want to go to maybe a train it depends what city you're in but there's major train stations find 1.00
00:10:00.560 the finance it's like what's your type so you got tattoos you like bikers i think there's biker
00:10:04.880 groups i'm guessing musicians um you can kind of look up the local bands in your area maybe
00:10:10.880 you know sleep with some of them dating apps are everyone looks so scary on there anyway
00:10:18.880 so like where are you meeting people where do you meet people
00:10:21.680 i don't know where to go i'll give her 10 places and she'll go to none of them
00:10:26.800 and i'm getting way too comfortable being alone like this is this is nice um yeah so again she's
00:10:33.280 happy with whatever situationship she's picked up and then she can live life on her own terms but 0.98
00:10:37.680 she doesn't look like a so she's like oh no i need to meet people blah blah but she's lying
00:10:42.000 okay guys um let me know what you think of the comments um am i wrong or do dating apps not
00:10:47.520 favor women let me know in the comments please like the video on your way out and subscribe to
00:10:51.440 the channel i really appreciate you watching um and sign up to the google form in the description
00:10:56.720 I love you. See you next time.