Pearl - May 08, 2026


The Left Won't Tell You This: Having A Sugar Mama Is BASED!


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Length

7 minutes

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179.01045

Word count

1,364

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

30

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Toxicity

3

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Hate speech

18

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Summary

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On today's episode, the brother and sister duo of the are joined by special guest and friend of the show, Jackson to discuss dating in your 20s and 30s. The guys discuss what it means to be a young man in the dating world, what it takes to find a woman, and how to deal with the realities of dating in the 21st century.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 sugar mama i'd like um some money and i would like you to teach me some basic you know maybe maybe 1.00
00:00:07.280 she could teach you how to cook right the opportunity to be the side dude is only going 1.00
00:00:11.920 to increase instead of decrease so usually we learn how to navigate this now because more women 1.00
00:00:18.720 they're just there are more women who who want side dudes who who who are married especially as
00:00:24.880 you get older so at least you you got this out of the way now yeah it's a learning experience i'm
00:00:31.600 like much wiser yeah i've had the invitation to be the side dude from the husband yeah well no it's
00:00:40.000 more like i mean this is what i you know me and sorry i need to just go on one one small rant
00:00:47.360 me and leo and i were disagreeing on something the other day where i was like she thinks every
00:00:53.840 man can lead a woman i'm like i don't think so some of these guys just can't i've had two
00:00:59.760 invitations to be decided you just tell me like i'm like give that wife to some other guys because
00:01:08.160 you can't do it dude yeah yep and there's no logical reason why that guy chooses to stay but 0.99
00:01:16.320 he deserves to be there dude he deserves it and once he did jackson that woman cheated before you
00:01:23.360 and she's gonna cheat after you oh yeah so this whole feeling bad thing man like i'm sorry people
00:01:30.480 you're you're too young to realize this but right around 35 to 40 people are at where they're gonna
00:01:37.120 be most people between 30 and 40 you end up where you're gonna be period 100 i agree with doug that
00:01:46.080 this experience is doing you a favor it's helping you to stop being an idealist and be more of a
00:01:51.760 realist yeah i grew up as an idealist reality i had to fix that real quick by showing me the
00:01:59.760 truth of human nature yeah and honestly you should get ready odds are if you get with
00:02:07.200 especially in your 20s and you get with a woman who's semi you know a six or a seven she's
00:02:13.440 she's probably gonna cheat on you dude so just get ready for it be ready for the worst
00:02:19.200 you know no expect the worst and get the best in dating you get out of it what you what you need
00:02:26.760 most of the time doug i would disagree a little bit i wouldn't say expect the worst i would say
00:02:32.700 leave the door open for the worst to happen because if you're expecting the worst you're
00:02:37.220 looking for it that's true and this is why we correct it this is why we have women who have 1.00
00:02:42.620 ick lists they're literally looking for reasons to disqualify to justify why they're incapable 0.87
00:02:48.900 of having a relationship don't do that don't expect the worst just leave the possibility open
00:02:54.260 and know that it can happen still let it surprise you if you're an idealist it's going to destroy
00:03:00.180 you more if you if you're a realist you say the worst can happen this is what can happen i'm not
00:03:05.060 waiting for it i'm not looking for it but i understand it can happen it doesn't destroy
00:03:09.620 you as much if it actually happens all right i agree thanks for calling in jackson appreciate 1.00
00:03:16.260 thanks for having me on the show again yeah that's what i mean see these these old women they 1.00
00:03:20.980 can get these young kings they can get them but then they'll get older and uglier and then the 1.00
00:03:26.500 glasses will wear off it's crazy you know just remember hold on the wall is undefeated and and
00:03:33.860 like i think we're honestly believe that younger guys are on a clock all men are on a clock with
00:03:38.180 women all especially if they only have limited limited or no respect for them and there's nothing
00:03:45.460 worse see a guy would never marry a housewife and then seven years later say you need to go out and 1.00
00:03:53.580 get a job a woman will marry a man who ain't shit and all he brought was good sex and then a couple 0.99
00:03:59.900 years down the road why aren't you making any money why aren't you like what do you think was 1.00
00:04:04.980 going to happen okay so again this girl on the right she can do whatever the hell she wants and 1.00
00:04:09.360 she'll have no consequences just because she looks like that you know yep 20 years go to her pageant 0.98
00:04:14.380 pictures yeah look beautiful scroll down they're all folded look at that dude come on she can do 1.00
00:04:22.220 whatever the hell she wants anything yep yeah she's in newspaper articles yeah so anyways
00:04:30.820 all right guys i think i'm gonna close out the show on that um any final thoughts on the topic
00:04:37.640 why can't old women take the l mark go ahead reality hasn't hit them hard enough yet for
00:04:44.100 to stop coping this is why the wall is undefeated it's coming yeah doug mpa i think that there's 0.85
00:04:53.220 there's an infrastructure in place like i said for women to kick harsh realities and major life
00:04:59.540 decisions down the road and this whole dating younger men thing is one of the of the latest
00:05:07.540 and biggest copes most men will want kids and what and will actualize and then they won't be 0.67
00:05:14.260 conducive to dating uh uh older women because older women they want to control you they want 1.00
00:05:19.540 to do all this crazy stuff that the older women do so guys bang them clang them you know even stay 1.00
00:05:25.380 with them for for a couple years and get free rent but make a plan in fact in fact how about 1.00
00:05:31.540 about this pearly you see women with their husbands who plan a divorce like two three four years ahead 0.99
00:05:38.560 if you're if you're a younger guy with older woman you can make a plan i'm gonna be with this older 0.83
00:05:44.500 woman for two three four years and then duck out how much money could you save as a young guy you
00:05:50.200 could get a mortgage for your future family and one day you know you could say she built me you 1.00
00:05:56.740 know women always say they build men but they never actually do now you can actually put her 0.91
00:06:00.540 money where her mouth is yes exactly you could you could say you can build me um sugar mama i'd like 0.98
00:06:08.200 um some money and i would like you to teach me some basic you know maybe maybe she could teach
00:06:14.540 you how to cook right if you're a young guy and you don't know how to cook she could teach you
00:06:18.200 how to cook what else could uh could an old woman teach you um honestly honestly if you're if you're 0.95
00:06:26.480 in class if you're in college and she has a master's degree or a phd she could do your homework 0.99
00:06:34.540 for you that's a good one she could take your online courses for you yeah yeah hey you know 1.00
00:06:41.320 we need to start putting women to work i i worked with this woman one time who who um she she was 1.00
00:06:48.720 like this four foot eleven black girl but but her attitude made her like seven feet tall right and 1.00
00:06:55.140 she would date black girl and she'd date these ninjas that like and she had a law degree and 1.00
00:07:00.980 then she went to like cambridge for a year to do all this whatever but she did ninjas with legal 0.91
00:07:05.860 problems and so while they were sleeping together she would help them with their legal problems and 0.66
00:07:11.300 once she helped them with their legal problems once they got their case resolved they'd leave 1.00
00:07:16.100 her behind so she didn't learn start putting these ladies to work you know what i mean 1.00
00:07:20.900 i just had a thought why does society like enable women to cope well think about who are the biggest 0.99
00:07:28.480 enablers other women why because it's easier to enable another woman to cope so then she
00:07:34.500 enables you to cope then both of you facing reality 1.00