Pearl - The recap： Sadia Khan on the The Pregame.

00:00:00.800 What is up, guys? Welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily here on the Audacity Network.

00:00:06.820 Thank you guys so much for tuning in. You can bring your time and attention anywhere,

00:00:10.580 and you choose to bring it here. I appreciate you. If you want to support me, go to theaudacitynetwork.com.

00:00:16.140 We do read all Pearl Reads on the website, so all you got to do is go to the live chat,

00:00:22.200 put Pearl Reads in the comments, and we will read it.

00:00:25.100 So today we are talking about a little bit of my origin story.

00:00:29.940 I had one of the biggest YouTube channels in the United States about two years ago.

00:00:34.280 I had a billion views on the channel, 100 million views a month.

00:00:37.740 And I had a show called The Pregame where I interviewed and debated women. 0.94

00:00:42.140 Now, the left really did not enjoy this show and they were trying to ruin my life.

00:00:48.440 Basically, they flagged a bunch of my old videos and got me demonetized for two years.

00:00:53.120 I had to delete two years worth of work. Oh, it killed me. Killed me. Oh my gosh, it was terrible.

00:01:01.540 And a lot of the backup is on the website, but today we're going to be reacting to one of my

00:01:07.120 old shows where I debated Sadia Khan. Now, Sadia Khan is a relationship expert. She gives men 1.00

00:01:14.320 advice on how to be men, which I am very critical of. I don't think women should be telling men 1.00

00:01:19.420 what to do or how to live. I do try to give men the correct information, and I do reporting on

00:01:25.780 society, but here at the Audacity Network, your choices as a man are your life, and I'm not here

00:01:31.460 to judge them. So anyways, I had a feeling that she was a little bit off because she crashed out 0.64

00:01:39.900 on my producer, okay? I can't remember exactly the ins and outs. I keep wanting him to call in

00:01:46.280 and tell the story I'm gonna actually send him a link if he's free my old producer in England

00:01:51.380 if you guys remember King he was on the show and he um she was she was calling him a brokey

00:01:58.600 and all this stuff over Instagram and I just thought it was weird considering he was the

00:02:04.500 one setting up her mic and all that stuff um so anyways today we're gonna react to Sadia Khan

00:02:14.120 coming on the pregame and giving our thoughts on the episode now today i have my co-host with me

00:02:20.520 um doug mpa who he moderated all of my chats and actually remembers all of the shows better than i

00:02:28.440 do yeah i i was there this is he he's the best because i was there okay i was in studio doug mpa

00:02:39.000 was in america in another country and he remembers like he could quote word for word every show and

00:02:47.000 i'm like i don't even remember it yeah you guys i've done a couple of um a pre-game recap shows

00:02:53.240 on the channel so check those out and leave a comment and see if you like that kind of thing

00:02:58.440 because i i remember what was going on i could set the table because i i have a memory like that

00:03:04.280 so i like doing shows like this and this is fun that your pregame show was one of the best things

00:03:09.480 and still well before i took it off it's one of the best things on youtube and just watching your

00:03:14.280 whole journey has been great so yeah they want me to bring sadia on to explain her side of the story

00:03:21.560 actually i'll send her a link hell yeah yeah go for it after yeah let's send her a link what 0.79

00:03:29.000 should my opening message be the um uh it has to be want to tell your side of the story

00:03:40.040 the story

00:03:43.320 or you or make a public statement on the situation or make a public

00:03:48.600 like statement

00:03:54.360 feel free to call in i don't think she'll do it but hey yeah so the this show was maybe she'll

00:04:05.980 start calling me on there and calling me a brokey maybe she'll call you like 45 times 0.95

00:04:11.400 that would be pretty funny actually women like her scare me because you just don't know what 1.00

00:04:17.720 they're willing to do do you know what i mean like you don't know there are certain women that like 1.00

00:04:23.400 they'll send their followers after you and you just don't know the extent of what they'll do

00:04:29.040 if you anger them you know what it is is because okay you have to ask yourself a couple of questions

00:04:36.280 about sadia khan guys she's pretty enough to win but she's out here grifting so that's a red flag 0.63

00:04:45.460 enough i understand i'm saying okay give me once can you entertain them for one second the internet

00:04:51.000 person is there hold on sorry yeah sure sure hello so so i'm gonna set the scene for this episode so

00:04:58.980 um i um this episode we're gonna review this is right around the time where um tom brady was

00:05:08.460 trying to decide if he was gonna play his last season with the tampon with the buccaneers because

00:05:15.140 guys remember tom brady went to the buccaneers and they they won the super bowl and giselle

00:05:20.240 wanted him to quit playing football because he promised he'd stop playing and then um tom brady

00:05:28.000 went went to play anyway and giselle left him for the jujitsu instructor because i actually

00:05:34.220 uh if you see pearl reading on the show i actually contributed to this show on that one anyway so um

00:05:41.680 but yeah so they're going back and forth about should tom brady quit being a quarterback because

00:05:47.600 his wife told him to it's like no and i remember putting the chat if you remember that time and all

00:05:57.040 the women were trying to say tom brady promised his wife that he would leave football behind say

00:06:03.280 he was playing football before he met you he's gonna be playing football long long after you're

00:06:07.920 gone so anyway so she and listen to how fake and how grifter she sounds on this show sorry the they 0.81

00:06:18.560 got locked out of the studio sorry it's okay they got in um sorry i didn't hear what you said but i

00:06:26.700 agree no no i was just telling that this show was about this was the one where um tom brady

00:06:35.600 went to the Buccaneers and won the Super Bowl

00:06:38.120 and he wanted to play another season

00:06:40.240 but Giselle was like, you said

00:06:42.040 that you'd retire and Tom Brady

00:06:44.080 went to go play anyway and she

00:06:46.020 divorced him? 0.99

00:06:48.180 Do you want to see some boobs? 1.00

00:06:50.900 Of course. 0.99

00:06:52.880 Look at the girl, 1.00

00:06:53.960 tits and a Jesus cross. 1.00

00:06:55.960 Look at the orgasm. 1.00

00:06:59.980 Does she have a Jesus verse in her bio? 0.96

00:07:02.660 Someone said this to me

00:07:03.840 and I just thought it was funny.

00:07:05.600 it's like

00:07:08.740 the audacity of these ladies 1.00

00:07:12.080 the boobs looked good

00:07:14.560 you know I don't blame her

00:07:15.900 you know 0.88

00:07:17.040 I call boobs on 1.00

00:07:20.680 Christian women milk jugs 1.00

00:07:22.020 it's more distinguished 0.90

00:07:23.080 oh my gosh

00:07:26.420 okay let's pull up the show

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00:08:08.980 of pearl's channel it's a little more than a cup of coffee uh uh around me pearl no it's not

00:08:17.940 not around i'm in the suburbs yeah man i live in a dmv man no you can't get a cup of coffee for

00:08:25.860 less than eight bucks around here all right here guys welcome to the just pearly things youtube

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00:08:54.500 show the first is that we have two clips channels um the first is pearl daily and the second is

00:08:59.940 just pearly clips on top of that guys we have four memberships membership tiers the first

00:09:05.380 second you know it's bad when you're skipping yourself account it's just pearly things dot

00:09:13.300 five and just always if it's not i'm sure my manager will put it in the chat um you get my

00:09:18.740 autograph it's your uh fun fact about me um i interviewed uh i wonder what she says her

00:09:26.100 relationship status is we're gonna find out on be honest because wait what was the year of the side

00:09:33.460 chick i guess we're gonna find out yep i heard i remember she said he was a brother if you catch

00:09:43.940 my drift oh yeah that wouldn't surprise me at all yeah she kind of has the body built for 1.00

00:09:54.340 mario um and i interviewed craig david and when i interviewed craig david i told him he might be my

00:10:00.260 dad i see that yeah yeah um now he ranks uh my facebook status is complicated and um i'm 27 um

00:10:13.700 yeah i'm sorry i kind of did a bit of intro my last one um i am in a they're kind of vibing

00:10:21.620 i feel like you feel the relationship and my fun fact that was my recruiter have the right

00:10:26.580 actors uh nathaniel used to be she said she was in a relationship my personal trainer yeah so

00:10:31.700 my fun fact is he used to train me back in the day when i used to live in london wow yeah you

00:10:37.700 know women and personal trainers are you there doug yeah yeah they they're saying that my mic

00:10:47.540 is too loud and yours is too low really okay let me see if i can make it higher ld thanks i appreciate

00:10:54.580 i was trying to find her first appearance on your show because i think it was a little more

00:11:04.320 contentious but i couldn't find it in time this one's good too but we can do when i find her

00:11:11.180 first appearance on your show we'll be able to do a another reaction like mine a little bit higher

00:11:16.600 and you guys tell me if that's better okay um i'm alia i'm 24 i'm single fun fact i took shrooms this

00:11:28.040 morning my name is iman i'm 21 i'm single and fun fact

00:11:46.600 about me is i have a brother who is one years old so 20 years she's probably one of the only girls

00:11:52.040 on the show that i would have my brother date yeah she was great man she she made a lot of great

00:11:59.080 her and then who is the who is the the middle eastern looking girl that was the the new lawyer

00:12:06.440 do you remember her oh i know her yeah she was good too that was that was one of the ones i'm

00:12:13.000 like i see why we're losing to these asian women i see why they're kind of like swooping in 1.00

00:12:21.080 yeah they're like white women you want to work we're going to the asians 1.00

00:12:29.320 oh wow yeah okay so um who knows who tom brady is yep yeah

00:12:35.640 you don't know you know tom brady is you know oh what all right tom brady is one of the argue i'm

00:12:47.320 gonna chat don't don't kill me i'm not a huge football person but um arguably the greatest

00:12:52.600 quarterback of all time um or one of depends who you who you ask they'll argue about that i don't

00:12:57.560 really care um so um tom brady married giselle and i giselle boon chin i don't know you actually

00:13:07.800 said it right there i thought it was buddha chin no no it's boon chin you said it right

00:13:13.560 i still can't pronounce names it's never gonna change basically supermodel okay fun fact about

00:13:20.200 her she dated leonardo dicaprio for like five years before before tom brady um so um you know

00:13:28.120 those exes just never do well tom brady is one of my fans sent this the greatest nfl quarterback

00:13:34.200 of all time with seven championships rings and five mvp awards in his 22 year career

00:13:41.960 tom brady is 45 years old and worth 250 million dollars giselle is 42 year old two years old and

00:13:50.120 is worth 400 million dollars they have two kids and they are seeking um they just got divorced

00:13:56.840 or they're filing for divorce and they're seeking joint custody tom brady has one child from a

00:14:02.600 previous relationship giselle states that the plan was that after the 2021 season tom was supposed

00:14:09.400 to stay home with the kids so she could go back to work as a supermodel at 42 it's a little delusional

00:14:16.920 do you know what it's actually not delusional hindsight 2020 because they hire all these old 1.00

00:14:22.760 models now so well well so here's the thing about it though that was her reasoning at the time

00:14:30.440 but then she gets pregnant by dude like you said we just say things yeah exactly so oh yeah

00:14:38.840 she wanted to leave him no she she wanted to be with a jujitsu instructor and have another kid 0.93

00:14:43.960 and i guarantee you tom got a besetting he's like i ain't doing that again

00:14:48.760 well i guarantee he won't say but i guarantee you that's what happened

00:14:54.760 um things to consider giselle was alpha widow do you guys know what an alpha widow is 1.00

00:15:00.440 so it basically just means okay you ever seen a girl that can't get over that ex

00:15:05.160 you like that girl like she always goes back the x every time she breaks up going back to that x 0.62

00:15:09.160 back to that it's just like basically a girl sees him as the best she could have done and that guy

00:15:13.320 had like the biggest imprint or impact on her life basically um allegedly alpha widowed by leo

00:15:19.960 leonardo dicaprio she was with leo before tom she had no idea who tom was when they met and didn't

00:15:25.240 know about his status as a quarterback for the patriots when he was courting her what was tom's

00:15:30.920 home life like that he didn't want to retire rumors were that giselle was impossible to deal 1.00

00:15:35.320 with she said i don't want to have to be his caretaker when he gets old because of his injuries

00:15:41.160 tom brady that is terrible thing to say when you're the beneficiary of those injuries

00:15:49.160 by the life you live wow that's crazy he has doubled down on his commitment to the tampa

00:15:55.560 bay buccaneers and says that he isn't retiring anytime soon so question for the men is he still

00:16:02.680 playing no he he had one more season but he has like a 100 million dollar espn deal or something

00:16:10.760 like that for the so for 10 years of broadcasting so she broke up the marriage over one extra year

00:16:17.960 yeah yep like even how much longer was he even gonna go one well yeah go ahead like yeah like

00:16:31.200 i just don't understand she i mean obviously she didn't mean it she was just gaslighting him

00:16:36.540 but yeah i'm just thinking like yeah okay if you became a one percent man or maybe ten percent

00:16:46.120 and you had to choose between your purpose and your wife what would you choose purpose purpose 0.64

00:16:53.500 purpose straight away why well she's not going to stay around when i'm finished with my purpose 0.99

00:16:59.080 from the sounds of it um you can always get another wife respectfully respectfully you can

00:17:03.900 always get another wife but it's just that the purpose is going to last longer you're going to 0.97

00:17:08.520 be more fulfilled um i think everything you get from your purpose she'll be getting all the

00:17:14.260 benefits so that to some degree you'll be a happier happier husband you'll be a better father

00:17:18.180 and it'll impact their family positively yeah you got you got things to do as a man and i think um

00:17:24.840 well i strongly believe that if you put a woman or relationship above your purpose then you're

00:17:30.520 destined for failure because it's you got to be able to keep that relationship going and um yeah

00:17:37.200 you'll be sorry how would you feel about your wife having you make that choice are ultimatums

00:17:43.960 ever good in a relationship yeah it speeds up it speeds things up that's actually kind of funny

00:17:52.360 i don't want to i don't want to like be in a situation where you're giving me these trying

00:17:56.040 to give me these ultimatums when um like we have kids together or i've already um taken you down

00:18:01.800 the aisle and then you're coming with these random ultimatums and stuff like that yeah give them to

00:18:05.560 me early so we can get this um we know where we're at and she should have known she knew what she 0.76

00:18:09.480 signed up for like she knew the game she knew that this is important to him and if she's also

00:18:13.880 like impossible to deal with it's like what we spoke about on i was on here before she's just

00:18:18.680 giving him a headache is this more reason for him to go and play sport and and follow his purpose

00:18:23.560 have you guys ever been given an ultimatum

00:18:31.160 no no no no not even like small ones like i want you to not serious not serious ones

00:18:39.480 not serious ones it's just like you know what i have been given those um those uh random questions

00:18:46.840 you know them games that you play like what would you do if i you know those are the worst games to

00:18:52.280 play ever like oh what would you do like if i got with megan good and like i mean just stuff like

00:18:56.360 that stuff that's never really gonna happen but they just breed a little bit of fear into your

00:19:00.360 relationship so uh yeah i don't play those games but um well yeah question for the women you're 1.00

00:19:07.480 wealthy and your husband is wealthy you want him to spend less time at work or retire and he doesn't

00:19:12.760 do it do you stay or do you leave kids or without kids um both give me both uh with kids you stay

00:19:22.200 without kids you compromise and so i think um what does compromise mean in womanies doug mpa 0.75

00:19:31.720 it means you do what i want or else that's what that means if you're both wealthy i get a man

00:19:39.080 without a purpose is less attractive anyway you want a man who's got a purpose and he's got those

00:19:43.080 things but um part of the purpose should be to build a happy marriage as well i think that should

00:19:48.280 be embedded in his purpose and if it involves completely neglecting the marriage and the kids

00:19:53.720 that's also it requires some compromise i wouldn't want it to just be you go do your thing and then

00:19:58.840 we don't matter because the kids need you i need you we need you and we need that foundation at

00:20:04.040 home as well so i would say without kids compromise with kids stay for kids is it more to do with

00:20:10.440 time then time yeah you just need their time a bit more okay what about you um i don't think i

00:20:18.360 would ask him to retire anyway because as she said like a man without purpose it doesn't like

00:20:22.600 you need to value the purpose of the man as in like he needs to value that as well right so i

00:20:28.120 don't think i would ask such questions because i know how important that is for him and i chose him

00:20:32.840 when he had the purpose so what's the point of me asking that later but if he's neglecting the

00:20:37.960 marriage then we need both of us to be in common ground if that makes sense so maybe we can find

00:20:42.840 a solution to it but so i would say i would i would say i would stay what about you um yeah i

00:20:48.360 agree with you i think i probably wouldn't ask anyway just because i don't know we don't want

00:20:52.840 him to be there with like i don't know sounds boring sorry what'd you say she was a good guest

00:20:59.960 too i i know she has piercings and long you know and all sorts of craziness but she was 1.00

00:21:05.400 on your show multiple times and she was actually pretty sensible yeah she was especially for a 0.96

00:21:12.680 a b-dub i mean she was on shrooms really that's what she said at the beginning of the show as i

00:21:19.720 that's funny then if that is what i wanted and he didn't do it i would probably leave

00:21:28.520 just because it's what i wanted and it didn't happen and i get bored easily so i don't know

00:21:33.640 you think we should leave every time we don't get what we want i think me personally if it

00:21:38.680 was something very serious where it's like i feel like it could either go this way or i

00:21:44.680 can't do it anymore then i'd rather not do it anymore but i don't see myself getting to a point

00:21:50.040 don't know okay have you ever been with a guy that's really busy and really on his purpose

00:21:55.400 because it you almost feel like you're single when you are with someone that busy as a woman

00:22:00.360 you do feel like you're well i watched i watched my dad do that growing up yeah and as a woman you

00:22:04.600 just you you live like you're single it's okay if you're okay with it but it does feel like you're

00:22:09.000 a single woman and if you've got kids it does feel like that's where you get the single mother 1.00

00:22:14.760 do you know your husbands used to go to war like you used to not see your husband for months

00:22:23.720 what do you have to say about that so guys women just wait wait i'm so sorry i gotta say this

00:22:32.600 she's a side chick 1.00

00:22:33.720 women just make up words to like twist reality it's the new witchcraft guys they have this term 1.00

00:22:51.840 called a married single mother where women are like oh yeah my man doesn't do anything or he 1.00

00:22:56.800 doesn't contribute enough so i feel like a married guys first off just don't have kids

00:23:01.340 with these broads and second off um if a woman has a nerve to call you if you walk down the aisle 0.84

00:23:10.500 with a woman marry a woman and she has a nerve to call you a man child or a peter pan or or a 0.65

00:23:17.380 married single mother you gotta leave right then and there guys right then you you're better off 1.00

00:23:22.880 dealing with the court and getting visitation than you are to trying to make a household with

00:23:28.400 a woman that would dare say that being married to you feels like she's a single mom you you got a 1.00

00:23:35.660 bail right there being a single mom it's just that you get the perks of a good life and you know you

00:23:42.280 get that financial but in terms of your day-to-day it's just like well that's the thing modern women 1.00

00:23:46.660 are sold to dream like you can have everything and you you can't if you want a guy that's

00:23:50.380 successful you think he's not gonna work a ton that's madness yeah that's madness oh my gosh

00:23:56.640 i hear these british terms i'm like i was in britain too long i'm like my dad worked i don't

00:24:04.640 know 80 hours a week most of my life you think you're gonna be the center of his worlds oh my

00:24:09.760 god no yeah makes sense all right question for the girls if a guy had everything you wanted 1.00

00:24:18.400 would you overlook cheating no because that wouldn't be part of what i wanted yeah

00:24:24.560 everything okay oh my gosh

00:24:30.000 how did she say that knowing that she has overlooked cheating

00:24:40.640 or she's been the person that the person is cheating on his wife with

00:24:54.560 interruption it's the cap alarm yeah it's the cup alarm right there

00:25:01.520 i guess um what do you mean um because like if he had everything i wanted then he would be loyal

00:25:11.680 i guess and he wouldn't oh yeah but outside of that so so okay okay let's let me let me

00:25:16.640 do you how tall you want a guy to be um i like same height or taller okay so how tall are you

00:25:22.560 five nine five eight let's give him what was you seem like a six three kind of girl six four 1.00

00:25:29.280 six three six okay i deal um taller but i can settle for same height yeah okay so let's say

00:25:38.400 six three he's got money status could you overlook cheating you don't think you could

00:25:44.000 and you don't have to work again i could yeah

00:25:46.800 yeah i don't know you know i think i probably could just because i i don't know okay and you

00:25:56.400 said if it's like everything i wanted in advance like my career and all of that then sure okay

00:26:00.960 what about you no it's not something i would accept to be honest would you prefer a guy you

00:26:05.600 liked less and that was faithful yeah 100 okay i believe her i don't i don't know how you still

00:26:13.840 at these broads you gotta stop doug you are too smart to believe her 1.00

00:26:23.280 the girl with the glasses i like her it doesn't mean i believe her when she says that

00:26:31.100 i've seen more pure acting women than her do side chick level stuff like i can see 1.00

00:26:40.600 i can see you are the expert my friend you are the expert they'll all do it all women 1.00

00:26:47.860 unhealthy women won't do it healthy women do it because that's the programming that's like 1.00

00:26:55.340 our hard wiring okay you too yeah i think you know what i wish i was and this is not because

00:27:01.720 there's anything wrong in forgiving and moving on i wish i was more forgiving but i think um

00:27:07.400 i'm not strong enough and i'm not forgiving enough as a person and it makes me too insecure if i was

00:27:13.080 more secure in myself and i was more able to let go it'd be fine but because i'm already not the

00:27:18.440 most secure person there is adding that to it i just won't be a good partner going forward

00:27:23.000 i won't be the best version of me you'll get a different version of me and one that is not worth

00:27:27.880 staying with so i wouldn't be able to for his for the sake of us i i don't think it would work

00:27:33.160 i think yeah um i hear what you guys are saying but yeah um i believe that i think it kind of

00:27:43.320 just depends on how you discover that he's cheating if you know that when he says he's

00:27:47.400 going i don't know to manchester or to liverpool or something like that then that's what he's doing

00:27:52.520 um but you don't have like actual evidence i don't feel like you would go looking for the

00:27:57.000 evidence if he's got your whole situation set up yeah now if you get embarrassed and someone's

00:28:02.280 coming up to you like yo then i feel like maybe it's different it's a bit different but i feel

00:28:07.400 i think a lot of women would play a blind eye to it as long as they don't feel publicly disrespected 1.00

00:28:12.760 i think the thing is they you know what um the thing is women share men all the time if you're 1.00

00:28:20.680 dating someone casually for example if you're in a situationship you're usually sharing them and

00:28:24.120 you kind of already know i think it's just like what you said about they don't just want it rubbed

00:28:27.640 in their faces but you'd be surprised really surprised on what some women will put up with 1.00

00:28:33.240 if they're with someone they actually like do you think that sometimes they prefer if they do know

00:28:37.720 the situation rather than oh my gosh if they do know you've got a main person on the side yeah

00:28:52.680 do you think they are more comfortable i think women would be more comfortable with that because 1.00

00:28:56.280 there's no suspicion involved it's actually like that's what you're doing he's cheating on you and

00:29:01.240 he wants you to be faithful though that's the thing it's not like a free for all it's just like okay

00:29:06.360 i'm doing my thing but hey you got you got a pattern as well it depends at the stage as well

00:29:10.200 and answer your question so um you can tell them from the get-go this is the situation yeah and

00:29:15.400 then they have how soon into dating do you expect monogamy um i mean

00:29:22.440 if there's a label on it but until then i mean it's to the point well i don't expect monogamy

00:29:35.800 really until you until you like move in together or something like that i'm not saying that you

00:29:41.480 should move in together but what i'm saying is that's what you should really if if if two people

00:29:47.080 are living in different houses i mean they can do whatever they want at their house

00:29:54.040 so yeah yep the choice if they want to get on board yeah or sometimes it doesn't come out until

00:30:01.640 later and then they have to find out and i've i can't speak for anyone else but i've had i've

00:30:06.520 had someone say to me i don't care i just don't want to see it so in general modern women like 1.00

00:30:12.680 are side chicks for sure 100 i mean if you look at dating app data it's you can't deny it we swipe

00:30:18.760 right five percent of the time on the same guys basically and then on top of that like what what

00:30:23.240 comes first typically typically and i know i know there's exceptions but sex or relationships

00:30:28.200 six so yeah so he's right you start off as a side chick do you think modern men are side

00:30:32.120 men without realizing because men go for the top women as well the kind of yeah

00:30:42.680 actually agree with that especially really hot people it's a free-for-all man

00:30:49.400 oh my gosh i want to show you something actually that kind of shows things

00:30:55.320 i'm just showing you the free-for-all you know derek jeter apparently gave like half

00:31:00.360 of new york herpes and they made a herpes chart allegedly allegedly look at this

00:31:07.560 all the people that got herpes from Derek Jeter

00:31:12.860 Jessica Alba Mariah Carey Scarlett Johansson I don't know these actresses names Eminem

00:31:23.000 indirectly Mark Wahlberg that's uh Zac Efron Justin Timberlake oh yeah um yeah uh yikes

00:31:34.880 oh my god well i sent i sent you the article where uh usher had to settle out of court with

00:31:42.620 with two women and a guy that he gave herpes to

00:31:46.680 i wonder do you think there will be laws

00:31:51.540 um that start to do you know what i think maybe hot women are more likely to get herpes now that 1.00

00:32:02.160 thinking about it because okay hear me out derek cheater is a guy with herpes he's gonna be more

00:32:08.880 likely to bang the eight to tens multiple times where they he'll probably just have a one night

00:32:16.480 stand or see like the fives and sixes once a month which they could still get it from

00:32:22.800 but your odds are because you can only get it 20 of the time like i mean not only but like that's

00:32:29.200 when they shed or whatever i i put the usher story in the private chat okay

00:32:37.680 oh yeah and the usher's story was really hot or sorry really um not hot why did i say that

00:32:44.720 really um the lady was really ugly i was like yeah well they said the usher was 0.95

00:32:52.080 a sex addict so he was banging anything that moved 0.99

00:32:54.960 that's so gross 1.00

00:32:59.280 let me see 0.94

00:33:02.940 yeah but are men sharing women yeah of course they are of course yeah of course

00:33:13.480 yeah i think he has to be 20 million dollars total

00:33:19.980 and like myron said myron said well this is one of the only good things that i think fresh said it

00:33:26.940 i can't stand fresh but you know a broken clock is twice is right twice a day he said that

00:33:32.620 a lot of guys get with the same women because they all have stds and if you give a woman if a 0.98

00:33:40.900 guy gives a woman who doesn't have an std an std he could lose a bunch of money but women in the 1.00

00:33:45.320 industry all have the same stds as the man so they can have raw sex what industry 0.97

00:33:54.440 this is uh hollywood the music industry all that oh yep all right i'm gonna it says it

00:34:03.800 disconnected from the audio so i'm gonna exit and then come back wait hold on i don't know how to

00:34:10.520 um it's okay we can move on it's fine no but it's not the problem is even when i play the

00:34:19.640 other one it's going to do the same thing because it said it disconnected from the audio for some

00:34:24.860 reason um hold on

00:34:32.220 uh-oh now she dropped out of the thing oh no guys if you haven't liked the video already

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00:35:04.400 Okay. I have the turn.

00:35:05.900 Do we want to continue Sadia or see Usher herpes?

00:35:10.720 Let's do the Usher herpes real fast. 0.99

00:35:13.460 Okay. Let me see. Can you put it again in the private chat?

00:35:16.840 Yeah. Yeah. Give me one second.

00:35:18.140 i got it right here one second guys

00:35:25.520 because remember guys usher and um the girl from uh from tlc were together what was her name the

00:35:38.980 the dark single that was actually pretty hot and uh she had to break up with him because he said

00:35:44.400 that he was a sex addict. He just

00:35:46.380 banged everything into that mood.

00:35:49.460 So she has herpes

00:35:52.400 too.

00:35:55.620 What is your name?

00:36:00.160 Naomi Campbell has herpes then.

00:36:06.060 TLC group.

00:36:09.180 Girl group.

00:36:12.340 Yeah.

00:36:14.400 what does she call herself again oh oh chili from TLC singer Usher is facing a

00:36:24.960 lawsuit tonight two women and a man claim he didn't tell them he had and a

00:36:29.220 man oh and now they want him to pick one of the plaintiffs shared her story 0.90

00:36:38.520 today I would just use reporter Lauren Glassberg is here with the details Lauren 0.75

00:36:43.100 Sade and Charlene, the woman who spoke today, never contracted genital herpes.

00:36:47.960 But she says if Usher does indeed have herpes, he should have warned her first.

00:36:53.360 We spoke for a while.

00:36:54.920 Ah!

00:36:55.320 We engaged in sexual contact.

00:36:58.220 He never warned me about any STDs.

00:37:01.740 It was just after my 19th birthday.

00:37:04.960 And then she said she didn't get it. 1.00

00:37:06.660 Well, then why are you here, bitch? 1.00

00:37:08.580 Come on. 1.00

00:37:09.760 Yes, you did.

00:37:10.920 yes you did

00:37:13.800 I never heard from him again

00:37:16.800 it was a one night stand with an R&B star

00:37:19.520 more than two years ago

00:37:20.920 but when Quantasia Sharpton heard reports 0.99

00:37:23.240 that Usher settled a lawsuit

00:37:25.280 she's 21 looking like that 1.00

00:37:27.080 ah damn B-dubs man 1.00

00:37:30.960 holy crap 1.00

00:37:31.720 last month with a woman who accused him of giving her herpes 0.99

00:37:34.840 Quantasia hired an attorney

00:37:37.000 I'm speaking out today on behalf of myself

00:37:39.560 and others

00:37:40.720 some of whom are positive and are embarrassed to speak out publicly.

00:37:46.360 I am doing this so that he does not do this to anyone else.

00:37:50.020 Quantasia does not have the virus, which is contagious and incurable.

00:37:54.860 And someone infected with herpes is legally required to tell sexual partners,

00:37:59.620 something the lawsuit alleges Usher did not do.

00:38:02.680 Everyone, even ordinary people who find themselves swept away by a superstar,

00:38:08.220 has the legal right to be respected, which includes being warned about STDs so that each

00:38:16.740 person can make a decision about her own health and her own body.

00:38:22.060 Usher, who's considered one of the most successful R&B stars of all time,

00:38:26.300 hasn't commented on this lawsuit or allegations that he has herpes or is known since 2009.

00:38:32.620 The plaintiffs in this lawsuit claimed they had sexual contact with Usher after 2012.

00:38:39.020 I would not have taken the risk of getting an incurable disease.

00:38:42.740 My health is very important to me.

00:38:45.160 Yeah, yeah, we could tell.

00:38:46.900 Yeah, I was thinking too.

00:38:49.260 I'm like, is your health important to you?

00:38:55.160 Especially now that I am a mother.

00:38:57.860 I feel that my rights are violated.

00:38:59.720 Of course she is!

00:39:00.600 Now this suit was filed i

00:39:04.140 there was a precedent sett

00:39:06.300 decades ago, a jury award

00:39:08.980 from the estate of rock H

00:39:11.620 actor's ex lover, Mark C

00:39:14.820 McGinnis rather convinced

00:39:17.820 he did not contract HIV,

00:39:21.320 knowingly exposed him to a

00:39:23.780 him he had the disease. E

00:39:26.520 aids no no no no rock hudson the actor oh he was gay and his former lover um sued his estate 0.61

00:39:37.480 uh because he died of hiv he sued his estate for money he said well i don't have it but i said

00:39:43.960 i'm telling you i don't think that you should i mean okay you should have to disclose 100

00:39:49.560 but should you get money if you don't have it i think that she if she got money she she does have 0.79

00:39:54.920 it yeah well oh come on i know yeah she has it like come on the freaking herp derp dude oh no 0.98

00:40:05.080 okay well let's see california is one of the few states with specific laws criminalizing the

00:40:09.560 willful transmission of herpes under california health and safety code intentionally spreading

00:40:15.960 an std like herpes without disclosure is a misdemeanor but couldn't they just say it was

00:40:21.080 unintentional. Punishment by up to six months in jail. The state must prove the person knew they

00:40:27.480 had herpes intended to transmit it, engaged in conduct to transmit it and the partner became

00:40:33.720 infected. In Minnesota, it's a crime to knowingly engage in sexual penetration without disclosing

00:40:44.840 infections like herpes wow yep there you go yeah but that's one of the reasons why you'll see like

00:41:01.640 one nba player or one rapper's wife or her girlfriend break up with one and get with

00:41:06.440 another nba player or another rapper or something because they all have the same stds

00:41:09.960 it's so nasty yeah cool okay i just wanted to share that little story there

00:41:16.560 i don't think no that's not no no that's not statistically true they swipe right 45 percent

00:41:22.080 of the time and it's higher who do they like who do they actually want to be with

00:41:25.300 men really aren't that picky to be fair like honestly like i mean you you guys can correct

00:41:30.500 me if i'm wrong if you're hot enough nice enough young enough they're they're cool what if you're 0.96

00:41:34.520 not hot majority women are not hot i know it looks like it looks like it because the majority 1.00

00:41:46.260 of women we see i think the majority of women we see publicly on tv on instagram these are the 0.80

00:41:51.720 women the beautiful women put themselves out there but the majority of women when you're 1.00

00:41:54.860 walking into tesco are not stunners you don't walk into tesco's and be like oh my god it's usually

00:42:00.860 it's usually it's usually but it's usually based on their own poor choices though if even in the

00:42:05.020 u.s here and everyone will call america fat but i looked at the data here it's not much better

00:42:09.740 yeah but you're in the top 20 of women if you're in shape yeah so all you have to do is be in 1.00

00:42:14.700 shape most guys are fine but i do think it's not um just women that go for high crap the way men

00:42:20.220 flock to beautiful women and high quality women is no different to how women flock to high quality 0.99

00:42:25.020 men if you take a girl who's not attractive and is not in shape she doesn't have that same success

00:42:30.460 online dating she doesn't have that same success with men she doesn't have many ideas okay that's

00:42:35.580 not true you get thousands of matches even if you're fat come on yes that's true no no no i'm

00:42:43.260 telling you you're wrong like that's statistically no no no no no no no it's statistically wrong an

00:42:47.980 average chick has more options than a top man if you look at dating if you an average girl so 1.00

00:42:53.580 average chick he gets more matches than the top men but matches is sex we're talking about 0.99

00:42:58.620 investment women don't care about sex you've got to remember that you're measuring men 0.99

00:43:03.420 such a grifter dude 1.00

00:43:07.180 i think women care more about sex than men yeah in 2025 100 like i think men will accept bad sex 0.96

00:43:16.300 from women and date them if they're nice enough i don't think women do that for men 100 guys 1.00

00:43:21.980 how many of you guys know a married guy where he he just puts up with getting a handski every once

00:43:33.340 in a while and you know a little bit of sex on new year's and his birthday and that's it and

00:43:39.180 guys will go for years doing that years women don't do that no way not anymore nope no way 1.00

00:43:47.180 who gets so malevolent sex yeah okay of course sex fine but women value investment men value sex 0.93

00:43:55.340 so if you look at the investment an unattractive woman gets like how many dates does she get taken 0.96

00:43:59.660 on does she get taken seriously do they introduce her to her friends and family that is comparable

00:44:04.620 to you know that's a form of investment right yeah but we just we just but what do we say

00:44:12.700 relationships start with in 2022 six yeah so so that that's are we measuring success in dating by

00:44:19.580 sex because if that's what we're measuring i'm fine that's a different thing but i don't

00:44:23.900 measure success i just think it's delusional to think that like the top men have all the leverage

00:44:29.100 they do it's not comparable the top women do not have as much leverage as the top men i think and 0.79

00:44:33.340 if they do and if they do give it five years i'm sorry like totally you hit 30 it's not the same

00:44:38.620 yeah but i do think top women get the same reaction as top men and they have the same

00:44:43.740 and i think more because you know what a top value man will most top value men that i know of

00:44:50.780 have very silent instagrams they are busy they are ceos you don't see them posting up and this

00:44:57.100 whereas beautiful women they're in your face all day every day so their dms are insane yeah but 1.00

00:45:02.060 the difference is men are happy with like two or three girls like i think three is most men's

00:45:10.380 most men that i know run that run rotations like having three girls um okay insane so on a day-to-day

00:45:20.940 basis without any effort that woman can have five six seven men paying her not just going on dates 0.96

00:45:26.140 with her cash up this that and the other i don't think a top value man has it as easy as a top

00:45:30.940 value women and men flock to top well i just think i think the difference is the top value man is

00:45:35.660 satisfied with like like like the top like they say that eights nines and tens are for the streets

00:45:41.740 forever like i've just heard this phrase in red pill because like if a girl's an eight she needs

00:45:46.860 a nine or a ten if a guy's an eight he's okay with a six i know i know rich guys he's okay with

00:45:52.460 i know yeah you know you know i mean most most men will cheat most men have given beautiful

00:45:59.420 models every day they're going to say yes one day so an eight will be happy with the six where the 0.89

00:46:05.420 eight that's a girl needs a nine or a ten so it's a smaller pool that she's going to be satisfied 1.00

00:46:09.580 with i think guys are just a bit more realistic like long term with like they're just content with

00:46:15.740 how things are do you pursue a pretty girl the same way you'd pursue an average girl would you

00:46:19.820 invest the same do they get the same nathaniel out of you a pretty girl and an average girl yeah um

00:46:27.420 i probably are we talking about i'm sexually attracted to both no your one is average you

00:46:32.380 can take it let's make one a six one and eight one's a six you can't use seven yeah

00:46:39.500 all right um one's a six one's eight the six i don't really see me checking for the six i'll

00:46:44.380 i'll be honest thank you um the eight but there's i'll say this yeah because there's makeup yeah i

00:46:49.620 feel like money is the man's makeup because there's makeup a lot of women can look like i 1.00

00:46:53.160 could think about three different kind of women that all women can look like if they if they had 1.00

00:46:57.300 the right makeup at the end of the day if we're talking about like you know uh in the morning

00:47:02.040 at her peak she's six that's yeah listen i've seen i've seen some serious transformations

00:47:09.260 the one thing though i'll say is that men

00:47:12.380 i don't think when i say six and when men say six that we're talking about the same thing

00:47:20.340 i don't know how to put it like i've noticed that men like they tend to overrate women

00:47:28.080 actually i think more than women do especially if it's women they're banging they always add 0.89

00:47:34.260 like two points to a woman they're banging yeah and you know and in the black community we have

00:47:40.340 that thing where you'll say something about a woman you know one of her short shortcomings 1.00

00:47:45.000 physically or something and they'll be like yeah but she got a fat ass though you know that's what 1.00

00:47:49.700 men do it's like we usually focus on one aspect of a woman instead of holistically a woman and 0.99

00:47:55.820 it's not unless you're in showbiz show business like you where you've had to like rate women and 0.97

00:48:00.640 stuff that men will or it becomes the industry to holistically look at women but men will just

00:48:06.560 focus on one aspect of a woman and give her a whole bunch of credit for that so if at your best

00:48:13.320 your six then you need to think so like i'd put sadia at a 6.5 probably like a hard six i'd have

00:48:22.300 to see what she looks like under makeup go ahead i think that maybe because she's in her late 30s 1.00

00:48:27.680 now if she was in her early 20s she's probably a seven in her early 20s eight when she was in her 0.98

00:48:34.240 early 20s i'd actually say but part of the six rating is because i think she's a little overweight 1.00

00:48:42.300 but wears spanks yeah slightly chubby a lot of girls wear like shapewear and it actually changes 0.94

00:48:49.660 more than you think and then remember that guy showed how she uses that waist filter on all of 1.00

00:48:55.940 her videos yeah it's because she's a little bit i mean she's not like fat but i'd still put her 1.00

00:49:01.300 she looks like she's a 10 dress size to me which just isn't thin you know it's crazy you ever seen 0.97

00:49:08.640 terminator i used to be a movie you ever seen terminator 1 or terminator 2 pearl

00:49:14.400 no so you know the terminator 1 and 2 the ai was skynet and skynet turned against humankind and 0.95

00:49:25.540 trying to take out humankind so there's always been this joke that when ai comes it's gonna 0.99

00:49:30.980 take out humankind like steinette and now we have ai snatching women's race on instagram 1.00

00:49:40.980 yeah hilarious yeah because i feel like there's a lot of talk about high value men but do you

00:49:47.300 know what it's like with you 18 19 year old like pretty girls getting thrown out in private jets 1.00

00:49:52.660 and so look how men treat high value or beautiful women they drop all the rules for beautiful women

00:49:58.740 and the same applies for high value men that's true but it's for a period of time

00:50:03.780 the difference is the men can keep banging the 19 year olds the women are only the 19 year old

00:50:10.740 girl for at best a decade you know like like looking like that at best and but they drop 0.56

00:50:17.540 every rule for a beautiful girl so are you arguing that beautiful women have the same 0.98

00:50:22.020 leverage that high value men have guys this is this is a little off topic yes pearl has never

00:50:37.300 seen terminator one or terminator two or star wars and all these movies and i keep telling her

00:50:42.980 that she should be doing that she should do watch parties on her website of her react she's never

00:50:48.980 seen a lot of i need a lot of these to convince me to do that a lot of these ma traditional

00:50:56.100 masculine movies she never she's never seen predator she's never seen commando guys sign

00:51:02.500 up to her website if we have enough people over there i'll get her to to react to some of these

00:51:08.740 movies for you are there any pearl reads on the website let me double check uh no i'm sorry go

00:51:16.660 ahead bro okay what percent of women are beautiful like i'm saying no there's there's a new girl 1.00

00:51:23.540 turning 22 every day high value men are rare and women women they age out at like 28. it was rare 0.95

00:51:29.940 but now we've got an instagram which means a rich guy in nigeria can send you millions a rich guy in

00:51:36.100 kata can send you millions we have polarized it so that high value men uh who aren't bait or aren't

00:51:42.260 big on social media are limited to the women around them whereas beautiful women are exposed 0.98

00:51:48.740 to the world but yeah right right so they might get sex from him but she's not the main chick 1.00

00:51:53.220 but she's not she's not but we established that you can be side chick even if you're average 0.83

00:51:58.100 you can be a side chick we're saying yeah you're right you're right you're sharing 0.98

00:52:02.420 dang that's ironic yeah that's what i'm saying but that but that man still has the leverage

00:52:10.580 because he gets to pick who is who gets commitment that's why he has the leverage her leverage is in 0.93

00:52:15.060 the fact that she doesn't want commitment from him she wants lifestyle from you right now 1.00

00:52:18.580 so her leverage is okay i think i think we're talking about two different things so i'm talking

00:52:23.620 about women that want a ring and men men and men that want sex okay okay so if you're okay we're

00:52:31.860 measuring it by investment and sex then but yeah can pretty girls get money yeah yeah like can they 1.00

00:52:38.340 they get lifestyle yeah how long what is about right it's about the maintenance how long can

00:52:42.660 how long can they keep that up if they can they have these rules that they don't want to get

00:52:46.660 cheated on and you know they want to be uh they want to keep this up and and there's no one else

00:52:51.620 and they want that's high value man how long do you reckon uh women have that that um leverage 1.00

00:52:57.060 for if she's pregnant forever if she's not pregnant forever no forever there's nothing

00:53:01.540 is pregnant baby yeah for as long as the baby's alive for as long as the baby's not what wait 0.95

00:53:07.460 a faithful a faithful high value man no no no you're saying you're saying a baby mama no

00:53:16.420 stop it that leverage because you get that leverage it's not that a case of that's a

00:53:21.780 good life but she gets that leverage for as long as she has that child is that all women 1.00

00:53:25.780 want just not to work i think so i think that's what people want in general no they want to work

00:53:32.180 but they want a man that can make a life that if she didn't work it'd be all right yeah basically 1.00

00:53:39.220 they want the best of everything yeah if you tell them that i don't want you to work you're

00:53:43.700 you're controlling them or you're oppressing them we want or you're the patriarchy but if you say

00:53:48.340 look if you can want if you want to work it's cool if you want to work that's cool as well we're good

00:53:51.780 for money there's a different conversation yeah we don't want to have to it so speaking of money

00:53:58.420 okay so so you could argue right women want the rich guy until can you pull up the picture 1.00

00:54:06.180 um trouble in paradise oh wait wait hold on sorry that's a guy from extenders

00:54:13.620 oh can you can you put on the screen blessing okay so back to back to tom brady

00:54:18.580 giselle buduchin i think i said that wrong i'm gonna just call her b and jiu-jitsu instructor 0.76

00:54:26.840 jomaine valente have raised a lot of suspicion as the possible to possible romantic ties

00:54:32.520 but we at least know one of the reasons he's traveled to her with costa rica he's training

00:54:37.560 her and tom brady's kids so basically she was cheating on the rich guy with what an l 1.00

00:54:45.380 what an l yep jiu jitsu that's what's gonna happen though yeah that's what's gonna happen

00:54:55.640 i think um when when you're around um like when you got if a woman has a high value man 0.55

00:55:01.740 she she's gonna cheat with someone close because there's not you have to be in the circle to kind 0.97

00:55:07.780 of be around anyway she's gonna have to look around at who's available and it's going to be

00:55:11.300 someone close it kind of feels a bit vindictive you know because when men if men go and cheat you

00:55:16.480 know the the the men that go and cheat they'll maybe go outside of the circle far far away

00:55:22.500 where we're with the women actually the biggest toes are women on work trips and vacation 1.00

00:55:28.440 there's like a good reputation at home but they in other cities they go buck wild yeah or travel

00:55:35.920 nurses yikes they're in hospitals and they're traveling i i want to do a hierarchy of cheating 1.00

00:55:46.160 what professions where you should just accept that you're gonna get cheated on

00:55:53.040 and i was thinking and i'm like at the top i would put any athlete and then i would go like down you

00:56:00.080 know um dance instructors djs club promoters etc here you go well as a preview because i had this

00:56:12.880 saved um i put it in the private chat the top 10 cheating professions so this is by a survey oh wow

00:56:25.520 finance two one um aviation health care business sports oh wow you're more likely to get cheated

00:56:38.920 on by a pilot and a and a finance person than an athlete arts six nightlife seven wow

00:56:49.280 white collar is goes okay eight communication nine legal ten other sectors okay

00:56:57.840 i have a question would you rather him a stranger or your best friend

00:57:10.460 no i'm just saying with the with it being worse but more vindictive for women to find someone 0.97

00:57:16.620 around because it's like okay it's maybe been bubbling and the tension was there and then it

00:57:21.040 happened with the guy you're saying he left town went town over town and tried to look for somebody

00:57:26.100 that you won't find out like that's worse that's like more consideration yeah it's more

00:57:32.660 the reason why i said why is consideration more forgivable than like a happy accident because

00:57:38.400 you're not that's not a happy accident that's literally someone in this case said training

00:57:41.960 her kids so this guy is around her kids he's paying to get cheated on essentially 0.88

00:57:48.960 yep you got it 0.96

00:57:52.960 and him and he's got she's got the balls basically to get involved with this guy 0.97

00:58:01.120 who's around his kids around him maybe like him and trust him 0.94

00:58:05.440 like okay like put yourself if all right you have a boyfriend you're really into your husband

00:58:14.640 husband let's say husband he cheats it's just a one-time thing no feelings involved this girl

00:58:20.640 just threw it on him and he he went with it because he's he's a dude okay thought she was 0.82

00:58:24.560 hot that's it never talk to her again or he screwed a girl he has feelings for yeah 1.00

00:58:29.600 I think they're both as bad as each other. 0.97

00:58:31.600 Which one do you want to know?

00:58:33.600 But I would say, yeah.

00:58:39.600 Probably the one that he doesn't have feelings for,

00:58:41.600 because it's like, why are you throwing it away?

00:58:43.600 If he had feelings for someone, it's like, okay,

00:58:45.600 fine, act on your feelings.

00:58:47.600 But if it's some random person,

00:58:49.600 that feels a bit worse to me.

00:58:51.600 Really? That's interesting. For me,

00:58:53.600 if it's just a random girl, whatever,

00:58:55.600 I can get over it.

00:58:57.600 i don't know because it's like if you have i don't know if you have feelings for them

00:59:03.040 and how invested am i yep the other thing too is women i feel like women when we get cheated on 1.00

00:59:12.080 women will never leave right away but women will start looking for the branch to swing 1.00

00:59:18.880 i have a question so okay you see it's like a woman will find out that a man's cheating crash out 1.00

00:59:27.600 uh you know try to hit him key up his car and stuff but it's like if she gets it if a guy 0.64

00:59:38.600 should a guy leave if she's busting up his property or because most of these women once 1.00

00:59:43.820 they get it out they'll go back to the guy but should a man tolerate a woman crashing out and 0.99

00:59:49.840 freaking burning up his stuff and keying his well i think oh i think how she acts when she's angry 0.82

00:59:55.960 says something about her so it depends how far she crashes out like i'll give you an example like

01:00:03.920 i've been cheated on before and i've never hit like it's just not my personality i'm not somebody

01:00:11.380 that hits you can't bring out beating you out of me because i'm not that type of person

01:00:16.420 now there's messed up things i probably would do

01:00:20.940 but i just that just wouldn't be my you know and so i think it's like how women are when they're 1.00

01:00:30.080 spiteful like that's kind of their character so it depends what she does i'll tell you when i was 0.76

01:00:36.500 in middle school because um you know i was in middle school in the 90s and there's a whole

01:00:40.240 bunch of movies like uh disclosure and a bunch of movies like where a guy would get caught cheating

01:00:47.800 or there's potential cheating all this stuff so i asked my dad one time i said hey dad what would

01:00:51.480 you do if you came home and you saw mom cheating he says i just pack up my stuff and leave now i

01:00:57.400 thought my dad would say that he'd crash out you know but but as i just pack up my stuff and leave

01:01:02.120 and i was shocked you know i was what you're you're like 12 uh in middle school and uh he's like

01:01:11.400 nothing's worth my freedom nothing you know let's say i crash out and i fight together

01:01:17.320 or whatever and stuff now i'm in jail so i got cheated on and now i'm in jail too it's not worth

01:01:23.300 it and then that's what he told me some of the best advice guys listen to me and listen to me

01:01:29.240 well my dad said consider yourself in an advantageous position when somebody something

01:01:35.860 or some organization tells you everything that you need to know about them if your woman cheats

01:01:41.900 on you she just told you everything you need to know pack your stuff and leave nothing is worth

01:01:49.640 your freedom yeah i agree it's like okay there's reason behind it but you're gonna do that for no

01:01:56.480 reason that just seems this one has betrayal and public disrespect yeah but you know what i noticed

01:02:03.300 women that have high value men once they've had kids with high value men they will sleep they have 0.99

01:02:08.020 same mating strategy as men they will sleep with young guys that make them feel attractive that's 1.00

01:02:12.660 true i don't know if i agreed with this at the time but that's true yeah yeah i may have argued

01:02:18.660 this at the time but that's i would say that's true he doesn't have to have money kim did it

01:02:23.940 madonna's doing it she's yeah because once once they get the paternal investment then they just 1.00

01:02:32.100 go for whatever they find attractive or they maybe wanted to try when they were younger and didn't

01:02:40.020 there's nothing more than a divorced woman who's still kind of hot 1.00

01:02:46.820 i actually um my first job in public service i had this woman who was married to this guy

01:02:53.940 for years and she finally divorced him and she was the first person i knew that was on

01:02:59.220 on um on plenty of fish and we worked in the same office and she would get on plenty 0.94

01:03:05.780 of fish and meet all these guys and just whore herself out so every single monday we go into 0.96

01:03:10.580 the office we get coffee and we turn around she just tell us all of her why would she tell you 0.74

01:03:16.580 guys that at work it was crazy she's like yeah i met whatever blah blah blah and it's just like

01:03:24.420 she's just all over the place yeah doing it once they have their kids and they've got the father 1.00

01:03:30.340 of their child and he's high value then she goes back to just whoever i want and that's

01:03:39.060 they become just like men yeah so that's like what do you think women value more money or looks 1.00

01:03:44.660 feelings they marry how a man makes them feel and when he spends a lot of money on you you feel

01:03:48.500 expensive one or two i didn't say feeling no no no no answer the question i asked money or looks

01:04:00.740 i'm always gonna say the way they feel if you're an attractive okay okay then next

01:04:11.700 looks yeah i'd say looks money or looks uh so why they cheat basically right no no i'm saying what

01:04:18.180 do you think women prefer i guess money these days money you think what do you think money 0.99

01:04:23.060 i think looks i i think looks too actually it's looks for sure you know you you know how you know

01:04:29.540 that's cap so now you know that's cap general that bar that um uh jhan says where where he's

01:04:34.500 talking about i'm an ugly man making pretty money they they don't look at you because he was a trapper

01:04:41.540 because your trapper and the lifestyle that he portrays like oh man even if you may not have

01:04:44.820 money come with it that portrays money so it's money regardless it wasn't it's the look of the

01:04:50.660 money and the look of the day this is what i think i think that like okay this is this is my theory

01:04:57.300 um this is i don't i don't know if this is facts or whatever but i feel like if a girl is dating a

01:05:01.700 guy and she's not like genuinely attracted to him she'll cheat yeah with the guy with the look she's 0.99

01:05:08.100 still gonna cheat if that guy comes along and he's yeah if he doesn't have money she can still cheat 1.00

01:05:12.820 I think women are going to cheat regardless, actually. 1.00

01:05:16.360 Yep.

01:05:16.880 It's my updated take.

01:05:18.400 It doesn't matter if you have money or looks.

01:05:20.440 She'll just cheat. 1.00

01:05:21.920 You know why, right?

01:05:22.960 It's because there's so many social conventions in place to keep women from having to take responsibility. 1.00

01:05:29.880 Guys, if you're in a relationship with a woman or you're married and you cheat, it's your fault.

01:05:38.600 If she cheats, it's your fault.

01:05:42.180 if you're willing to tell me people who will be looking at you like what did you do to drive her

01:05:49.060 into the arms of another man it's just like if you get married and divorced guys who've been

01:05:54.900 divorced in the chat tell me this isn't true you tell sonia you've been that you're divorced and

01:06:01.220 the person will say oh why did your wife leave you no i left her well did you try everything

01:06:08.100 maybe you should have tried harder what the heck is going on that's why women will cheat 1.00

01:06:13.640 for man with that has investment because like if a girl values looks more chances are that's 0.99

01:06:21.380 something that she feels more attractive when she's with an attractive man if she values money

01:06:25.320 more she really knows she's attractive she wants lifestyle more so that's why pretty girls go for 1.00

01:06:29.000 rich men let's look at this i do i do women are always broke i do i do i mean women marry a 0.99

01:06:36.040 lifestyle i do agree with you yeah but i just i just think the more like like genuine connection

01:06:41.160 comes more from looks but but if it's but if it's money like i've just noticed that girls 1.00

01:06:48.180 seem to be using him more where she's not really attracted to him and like doesn't

01:06:53.760 rate him like that also using someone look at that uncle in your dm that is sending you a

01:06:58.840 madness and he's a prince of somewhere and he's saying he'll he'll buy you this and do all this

01:07:02.920 kind of stuff yeah and look how you're treating him compared to this person that you feel like

01:07:06.820 like let's say eight let's say yeah exactly let's say you girls like aj same way that girls were 1.00

01:07:11.880 over aj right if he didn't have the money right yeah they'll pick that over this uncle sending

01:07:17.160 you a random dm promising you however many however much money and stuff like that so i think if the

01:07:23.500 woman has her own money as well money doesn't even matter yeah well just even your own values 0.99

01:07:29.060 i'm not gonna lie the money won't matter money always matters in some degree not as much and

01:07:35.620 nah i think nah i don't i don't believe this guy's jobs to look good that's the women's job to look 1.00

01:07:41.140 that's why it's so hot when they do i kind of disagree with that one still as a self-respecting

01:07:45.780 as a guy you definitely need to keep yourself up in maintenance oh yeah i'm saying that but i'm

01:07:49.460 saying that looks like the levels are different in regards to look so the importance you don't

01:07:54.820 have to do too much compared to the females yeah and we can supplement it in other areas 1.00

01:07:58.660 right so that's why i said about that so you can be funny you can be like yeah stuff like that

01:08:04.500 we can but we don't if we're if you're not attracted to us her funniness is not going 1.00

01:08:08.500 to make you more attractive yeah funny i think for men it does no i just think money is the

01:08:12.340 man's makeup that's it money if he's not good if he's not like muscles what do you think more

01:08:18.180 or even human stuff like even if a guy's ugly and he's funny but then if a guy is like oh yeah

01:08:23.540 comedians be funny funny signals social status and women are very attracted to status like why 0.67

01:08:29.780 do you think what do you think a check mark does wonders yeah on instagram

01:08:36.340 how many how many ugly guys have gotten attractive girls with that check mark 0.93

01:08:43.380 can you have status without money can you have social as well oh yeah oh yeah there's a lot of 0.57

01:08:50.580 broke streamers yep and remember um you know nug nug and gavin they don't have a lot of money but 0.90

01:09:00.020 they have a lot of status amongst them they have magical powers over these women let me tell you

01:09:04.660 what's the craziest nug nug story you've seen um 0.99

01:09:12.260 he's never gonna watch this i i have a crazy gavin story okay right so um one of my best friends

01:09:20.580 um a professional kickboxer well no he was an amateur kickboxer dude dudes you know he's not

01:09:28.400 the smartest guy but he's he's charismatic and he's one of those old school honorable type you

01:09:34.480 know he's the kind of guy i wouldn't want to have my back in a fight you know um and um he married

01:09:41.240 this woman and she started making more money than him and they're together for four or five years

01:09:46.680 before they got married and he was actually about to break up with their two years in but then

01:09:50.940 she magically got pregnant and then they got married five years later they had two kids

01:09:55.260 so he's like this traditionally masculine guy that ended up with a wife that made more money than him

01:10:00.960 so she would emaculate him and belittle him all throughout their marriage well that they finally

01:10:07.380 got divorced right and uh she was convinced by her friends that she needed you know a gavin the

01:10:13.700 starving musician you know one of those man bun wearing skinny white guys that work at a coffee

01:10:20.960 shop okay you know so even before they fully got divorced she got with this guy that had his own

01:10:27.420 like he worked at a coffee shop and did yoga and all this stuff so she went from like

01:10:33.920 my friend's pretty awful to to this gavin and so a couple years later because they only

01:10:42.520 they stopped talking they would just talk about the kids and stuff and that's it

01:10:46.120 well they um he ended up going to this bar after work and you know with some mutual friends and

01:10:55.320 his ex-wife and her friend were there and they were kind of off to a side table and he saw them

01:11:02.540 and he sent her and her friend a drink over like hey you know i hope things are going well

01:11:06.720 and um she said hey can i talk to you he's like are you upset that i'm here because i'll leave

01:11:14.040 she's like no no i want to talk to you outside right so they go outside and she grabs him and 0.74

01:11:20.060 just gives him this big hug and starts crying you know how a shorter woman will grab you and like 1.00

01:11:25.820 and cry into your shirt so you have tears into your shirt but she was just like crying and

01:11:31.960 holding on to him because she's dated all these gavins and they're not like him like he's he was 0.99

01:11:38.440 a traditionally masculine man but she left him behind because she made more money than him

01:11:43.460 and now she's out here a single mom or two in liberal land washington state dating all these 0.98

01:11:51.060 all these gavins and so she she wouldn't say it but she keep if she wanted to say that she never

01:11:58.840 should have left him but she had too much pride to say but she literally grabbed a hold of him

01:12:04.760 and cried into his shirt for literally for like two three minutes didn't say a word just grabbed

01:12:10.440 onto him what did he do he he just let her cry it out and then she just like and you know and her

01:12:18.520 friend that she was with didn't like him very much so she like cried into his shirt and then you know

01:12:24.760 gave him a kiss on the cheek and then like ran back into the restaurant and then ran back into

01:12:28.600 the bar didn't say a word wow

01:12:34.760 yeah now yep i still don't think women regret anything

01:12:44.760 they just want the sympathy i think she blew it again well i think that you you have to weigh

01:12:53.080 regret with pride i think that modern women even if they do regret it it'll never outweigh

01:12:59.800 their pride but they have to stick to their horrible decisions and remember regret means

01:13:05.000 accountability yeah exactly gb just put it and it's a mixture of pride and lacking of accountability

01:13:13.240 yep yeah how many people you can yeah because y'all don't believe it no i don't think so

01:13:20.360 because their status is intangible it's imaginary but with money it means that you've actually put

01:13:25.240 in some work and you've got somewhere it doesn't mean money alone can give you status because you

01:13:28.680 could just win the lottery or you could just you know get one yeah but i don't think status alone

01:13:33.480 is enough you know what's interesting women are more attracted to men that have made money lost 0.90

01:13:38.360 it and then made it again yeah like i forgot there was some like poll done where it's like

01:13:42.920 you would you rather have a guy that like made money lost it and then made it again or a guy

01:13:46.360 that just like slowly grew no no slowly like grew money over time or something it was something like

01:13:51.640 that but women picked number two because we're attracted to risk takers risk takers implies 0.99

01:13:55.880 that they're able to um recalibrate yeah and protect in the future yeah why are you laughing

01:14:02.600 women women make so much um like decisions based on how they feel yeah at that time yeah it's just 1.00

01:14:12.780 hilarious why is that funny yeah why is that funny design by god i just hope is it working for you

01:14:19.580 guys i just hope it's working it's working i do agree earlier what you said about the it's about

01:14:24.780 how you make someone feel i don't think it's relevant to that exactly the money and looks

01:14:27.960 however how you make them it's all about how you feel how they make you feel and the experience

01:14:33.320 that you bring them and what triggers in their mind i'll give you an example so my

01:14:43.000 block list is full of people yeah men women whoever yeah but if i was down blocks i'm going

01:14:47.960 to start talking to them again the they're instantly going to romanticize any experience

01:14:52.280 that we've had and that's that's more important so if you've made them feel even if you made them

01:14:56.200 feel shitty yeah but it's similarly like why women that didn't grow up with money if they meet a 1.00

01:15:01.960 really rich guy he's most attractive man in the room for him because she feels now financially 0.72

01:15:06.200 secure which she hasn't felt for in a long time most women that marry for money come from broken 1.00

01:15:10.920 homes statistically statistically wait wait wait and most escorts you said women that come from

01:15:15.800 money who don't come from money oh if they said come yeah sorry no don't come from money yeah i

01:15:19.720 was like because what's money just yeah whereas girls that grew up less attractive are more likely 1.00

01:15:24.200 to be invested in a man who's a check looks is more important so it's about how you make someone

01:15:28.600 feel rather than just generic interesting women are more picky physically than men nowadays 0.99

01:15:34.280 there's different studies that say like women are pickier when it comes to looks them yeah 1.00

01:15:38.440 is that weird not really but it is when you're you're not actually going towards the guys so

01:15:43.800 you know you're just shooting in your gene pool yeah but that's why um you know body positivity

01:15:50.280 is not for men it's just for women yeah fat guys are still fat guys short guys are still short guys

01:15:55.160 yeah no one cares about that body positivity is there is a short man shaming like five was it

01:16:03.080 five seven energy or whatever i actually think is it is being a short man the equivalent of

01:16:08.600 being an overweight woman hair is real no they look like extensions to me 0.98

01:16:21.240 the bottom it could be but i don't think so do you think it is no someone put in the chat that

01:16:28.120 her hair looks fake yeah i mean no my hair wasn't fake at that time but i don't think most guys can

01:16:38.040 tell if hair is fake you know what that's actually well well unless they're black girls 1.00

01:16:43.880 b-dubs haven't we can tell it's fake that's the one thing oh my god sorry um i noticed the biggest 0.91

01:16:51.160 difference in attention from men like i actually if i was going to say the biggest roi that i see

01:16:57.960 women in like fake things that increase attention from men it's not lip filler it's fake hair and 1.00

01:17:04.040 a boob job and say that's your highest roi when when do you think do you think that women should 1.00

01:17:12.040 make that type of investment uh in in fake hair and well easily accessible stuff well i wouldn't 0.97

01:17:19.000 say fake boobs are easily accessible that's cheaper than college it'd probably get them in more doors 1.00

01:17:25.400 so do you think that a woman should do that earlier or later on pearly like earlier i think

01:17:36.680 if you have a job dude at 18 yeah because i think they look more natural and men can't tell

01:17:42.840 as much get them young cool um because they like drop more naturally

01:17:47.960 um it depends like what are you willing to do to get what you want you know I think that's kind of

01:17:57.980 the question because you could sacrifice your health for doing it but um fake hair I can show

01:18:06.940 you guys pictures of me when I had fake hair I don't um I don't think when I had it I'd never

01:18:13.720 had a man be able to really tell um because it's like here this is when i the hair was fake

01:18:21.620 share this tab on the right i had fake hair there okay

01:18:27.820 because they sew it in at the top it's so uncomfortable though

01:18:34.360 that's why i had to have it taken out this is fake too that's a clip in though because

01:18:39.460 there's clip in and there's sew in um yeah so I my experience was that men couldn't really tell

01:18:50.980 I only had it for a little bit though because it's very expensive though that's the problem

01:18:56.240 it like you either have to get the clip-ins that you put in like every single day which is pretty

01:19:04.460 annoying, or you have to, or you have to get it sewn in, which

01:19:16.220 feels really uncomfortable, and it probably will cost you a

01:19:18.900 couple grand a year. Hence why I just took it out. It was just

01:19:23.540 too much work for me. I was like, I don't want it that bad.

01:19:28.220 How much? How far? Because especially for B dubs, I think 1.00

01:19:32.700 for b-dubs it has never been easier to stand out from the pack as an american b-dub because all

01:19:39.860 you have to do is have a have a single digit dress size and you're in the top 20 that's so true 0.94

01:19:47.400 yeah so you know because they say doug and p what's your favorite um um trait on a woman 1.00

01:19:56.560 what's your favorite physical trait i said a small waist

01:20:00.880 a small way that goes a long way let me tell you what do you think age is better women that stay 1.00

01:20:08.400 thin or women with a good face card oh that's a good question because the two girls there are two 1.00

01:20:17.120 girls that you showed me i'd say one had a better like face card and one was thinner 1.00

01:20:21.760 uh you should put a poll in the chat what age is better

01:20:26.680 i would say i'd say a good face card age is better

01:20:32.420 because life is going to prevent you from look if you have to work a regular job you have the

01:20:41.560 regular stresses of life your weight is going to fluctuate the no woman can stay i mean you 0.99

01:20:49.520 you can stay like a woman's weight is going to fluctuate but her face if she has a good face 1.00

01:20:56.880 card her face isn't going to fluctuate unless she does some dumb shit like gets a septum piercing 1.00

01:21:02.340 or a tattoo on her face or some stupid shit so maybe a face card someone said my favorite trait 1.00

01:21:10.300 in a woman is a lack of i think some women do stay thin for life usually like i can think of 1.00

01:21:18.200 couple moms i knew that were always thin like always um i think some women just don't eat that 1.00

01:21:26.040 much like i think their parents from a young age just didn't feed them a lot i think it really

01:21:32.280 messes up kids when like like i think your eating habits if they're not developed from a young age

01:21:38.680 it's like a lifetime of problems well you know that um if if the mother is fat when she's pregnant

01:21:46.280 with the child the the child will have more genetic um a predisposition to be obese no i

01:21:54.980 didn't know that yeah it's literally the mother guys if your mother is in the if the mother is in

01:22:02.660 the obesity range when she's pregnant um the the kid is gonna end up being fatter over over its 0.99

01:22:09.720 life short men are allowed to be angry and overweight women kind of aren't allowed to be 0.99

01:22:19.860 angry oh my god that was the dumbest thing anyone ever said of my show overweight women aren't 1.00

01:22:26.620 allowed to be angry what are you talking about they're like the they're not even nice anymore 1.00

01:22:31.800 they're just yeah yep it used to be that pretty women were bitches and then uh ugly and fat women 1.00

01:22:42.280 were nice but now you have the single mothers the ugly women the fat ones all having the same 1.00

01:22:48.400 attitude what are you talking about 0.99

01:22:52.800 as in short women are always angry 1.00

01:22:55.840 if a fat woman's angry 0.97

01:22:59.080 it's like oh it's weird 0.90

01:23:01.080 it's worse than a short man being angry

01:23:03.260 you see a short angry man every day 0.95

01:23:05.460 a fat woman has to be like a bit cuddly 1.00

01:23:08.180 a bit more loving 0.99

01:23:09.060 a bit like nurturing and stuff

01:23:11.160 you could at least like do something to be able to change it

01:23:13.320 but when you're short as a guy

01:23:14.300 short as a gentleman anyway

01:23:16.040 that's why I call it short people syndrome as well

01:23:18.380 because they just go mad for no reason

01:23:19.300 I think that 0.96

01:23:20.860 i've been attacked by a fat chick i will first hand experience i've never been attacked by a 1.00

01:23:31.280 short man they have these egos because the whole world tells them they're not fat 0.99

01:23:36.360 so many fat women don't even think they're fat 1.00

01:23:40.640 but don't ever forget they know there's something wrong but there's such a social

01:23:48.360 infrastructure in place to tell them different there are times because these are the same women 1.00

01:23:53.880 where they won't look in the mirror when they get out of the shower or late at night they'll be

01:24:00.840 right before they go to sleep they'll be like man i'm fat i might do something about it tomorrow but

01:24:05.680 they never do so they know something's wrong but the sad part about it is when they're awake and

01:24:11.040 people are talking to them and social media will tell them if they're not but all of them know

01:24:15.860 there's something wrong and but the fat chicks come for you why it's like a trigger basically 1.00

01:24:27.700 yeah with all this body positivity that is going on but you know what's worse about this and what's

01:24:32.020 the frustration that comes from it like that's something that can be done but women will like 1.00

01:24:36.900 ridicule guys for their height and they think there's nothing they can do now you can get you 0.61

01:24:40.180 can get you can get um your shins what the surgery to make you taller oh when your shins and stuff

01:24:52.180 is 96 000 go ahead right what now i was just thinking like that's ow like that just seems 0.98

01:25:00.580 painful oh yeah what do you think would happen i'd just bang fat chicks if i was a short dude 1.00

01:25:08.100 what else you got of more of a public uproar so i say i don't date short guys men don't like fat 0.99

01:25:16.600 chicks second one yeah of course the men don't like fat chicks uproar from who the media where 1.00

01:25:22.480 i feel like the media is controlled by no no by both groups yeah like i say i don't date short 0.80

01:25:31.720 guys and i never really have a reactions i don't like it but if i say men don't date

01:25:37.420 fat chicks typically i have this in real time i said i have never dated a girl over time 12 0.80

01:25:43.200 it got picked up by uk gossip and everyone slated me for it do you guys ever date fat chicks i 0.99

01:25:48.360 like listen i see you you he's black 0.98

01:25:52.820 he's really smashed come on now it's so true it's true that guy in the back is the exact 0.98

01:26:05.080 archetype of guy that dates fat chicks yep the trainer will smash them privately 0.98

01:26:10.800 he says size 12 now i know some girls are size 12 and god damn they're voluptuous good juicy i 1.00

01:26:20.900 wouldn't call that fat you got fat on you but that's not fat to me yeah so like it kind of 0.97

01:26:24.820 depends you could be fat and shape what is actually fat what no shape no shape you're not

01:26:30.500 attractive like that's that's something that needs to be worked on that's yeah i think that

01:26:33.700 it's okay to accept that being overweight even when i put on weight i accept that i'm not attractive

01:26:37.760 in this moment like if i put on weight i don't think it's how much weight you put on why you

01:26:41.420 don't think you're attractive um i've never been that big the most i've ever been is probably 65

01:26:45.600 kg i think that's not how much i mean for me that's that and then i do just accept i'm less

01:26:52.600 attractive i don't think i don't get offended how how do you like are there any indicators like

01:26:56.660 within like the guys that approach you depending on what your weight is yes you know it is

01:27:01.560 i know what she's gonna say i won't talk about it but yeah i know i've lost weight when i

01:27:09.180 appeared to a certain demographic yeah when the white guys started you up

01:27:12.860 okay let me show you guys my brothers i remember when i was in school i showed my brother a

01:27:26.000 picture of a girl and i was like oh do you like her like she's single and then he was like no

01:27:30.680 she's too fat and she was like six foot probably 185 and i'm like and i was the same weight at the 0.98

01:27:40.560 time i'm like damn but i'm like white guys they really do not mess with these chubby chicks 1.00

01:27:48.820 they don't talking about the final boss of not dating chubby women are middle eastern guys 0.99

01:27:56.920 middle eastern guys do not play i'm talking sadi arabia iran you know all those guys and then

01:28:04.820 second to that are asian guys asian guys do not date fat women they have to here because no one's 0.96

01:28:11.580 checking for them yeah but my brother um white guys do end up dating fat women but it's never 1.00

01:28:21.040 on the front end like a lot of women pull the bait and switch and get fat after the ring but 1.00

01:28:26.340 white guys never sign up for it there's there's a ton of guys that end up married to fat women but 0.98

01:28:31.860 they were never fat up front i agree too good a people they won't leave the black guys are 1.00

01:28:37.700 will at least cheat you know with another fat chick obviously 1.00

01:28:44.180 just a slightly less fat but yeah um second i know i've gained weight when i appeal to a different 0.84

01:28:52.580 demographic and make of that what you will yeah okay okay okay okay so following tom and tom and

01:29:00.900 giselle how long is too long to move on or do you think that after a divorce there's a certain amount

01:29:08.500 of time you should wait to move on yeah no absolutely yeah the girl in the back is honest 1.00

01:29:15.060 women yeah when is the standard amount of time to move on after a divorce six months before it ends 1.00

01:29:20.820 that's the real exactly yeah that's the real i i could i could moralize and say it's wrong but

01:29:27.740 i mean it doesn't really matter if it's wrong like women are gonna do what they're gonna do 0.96

01:29:33.040 you know i i i got a little tired of being the moral police it just got boring guys it's

01:29:39.420 i can't stop these hoes do you think like 60 percent of women or 70 women have a 1.00

01:29:45.760 a backup dude on deck oh yeah something like that oh yeah okay so how how long is that i'd say

01:29:57.840 maybe a year i know if you want to see someone before then just don't

01:30:02.960 be super bait about it i think women tend i actually think that's true there's some level okay 1.00

01:30:09.880 nuke had a really good point about this where there's a difference between the lawyer who

01:30:19.080 does coke and the crackhead because the crackhead is throwing it in your face

01:30:24.620 where the lawyer who does coke is still trying to maintain a facade of being like a respectable 0.71

01:30:31.500 person, there's something more disrespectful about doing it in your face. Do you know what

01:30:41.560 I mean? So like, you know, if women aren't going to move on after a divorce, there's something 0.96

01:30:47.460 disrespectful about like getting pregnant, throwing it on social media, making him a

01:30:51.560 whole spectacle. Do you know what I mean? Then like quietly dating in private.

01:30:57.500 okay to move on quicker than men anyway but um yeah i'd say about a year if you're doing

01:31:05.540 something there just try and keep it under wraps a little bit i'll say five to seven working days

01:31:10.100 do you know do you know what it is yeah like women this is what i kind of read about women 1.00

01:31:16.140 women will go through this emotional transition straight away and kind of get over it and you 1.00

01:31:21.360 know they'll have their girls kind of gas them up away along the way where guys will kind of 1.00

01:31:25.580 brave it out and then maybe like six months down the line and just he just gets a shot in his chest

01:31:29.900 when he just remembers like you lost you and it's like one of those things it kind of hits men a bit

01:31:33.760 later on yeah but I think um yeah just get out there man because if you're gonna spend time

01:31:38.520 thinking about that person and you know that time is gone I would say a year especially if you've

01:31:43.620 got kids I don't think you should bring I think when you start distracting yourself with men when

01:31:47.660 you've got kids your priority no longer becomes your kids so I think the priority post-divorce

01:31:52.900 should be their well-being and that should take a year for both of them they need to

01:31:56.420 yeah women don't care about these kids wasn't the guy she was banging didn't he have kids 1.00

01:32:01.360 yeah

01:32:03.640 did she respond to my request let me see she didn't

01:32:15.880 she did not adapt and adjust so if you're out there meeting new men immediately your kids are

01:32:22.380 suffering and i don't think that's a good look yeah actually what's the marriage situation

01:32:25.880 because she's right because it's different if you've got kids and if you don't have kids for

01:32:29.200 with kids okay what about you guys um yeah i would say a year as well i mean uh you should

01:32:34.900 give yourself a break as well to understand what's going on and you shouldn't just like

01:32:38.340 like complete the void of the previous man yeah but they're not going to and with another one or

01:32:45.460 the woman if that makes sense so give yourself a break to understand because he said emotional

01:32:49.380 you know you go through some emotional transitions and all that so you need to give yourself a break

01:32:54.720 to understand what's going on what about you so i think yes you were like go go right away

01:33:00.200 because one i feel like if it's a divorce then it's probably been like a long time coming so

01:33:05.560 you know i don't know you probably are in a mental space where you're already ready to

01:33:10.020 step out of the relationship but then with having kids it makes it a bit more sticky

01:33:14.100 because like yeah you can't really be bringing random people around with your kids

01:33:17.960 but you know you don't have to they can and they will yep just expect if you get divorced

01:33:26.620 she's been cheating for six months or at the very bare minimum eyeing men to cheat with 1.00

01:33:33.240 doesn't necessarily even bring them home or anything i was i would say as soon as you feel

01:33:38.760 like it yeah think about how it broke down and try and fix that god bless honest women 1.00

01:33:46.420 by yourself like what you paid a part in that yeah and then when you kind of feel like you're

01:33:51.980 making headway with it then get into a relationship but i feel like all you lot are capping with the

01:33:56.720 moving on in terms of like physically i think emotionally like maybe yeah give it a bit of time

01:34:02.100 after you've actually figured out what happened he's a trainer he's been the guy they've moved on

01:34:06.720 with he's like you hoes are capping you know it's funny i think it was him he came on a show 0.99

01:34:12.920 and we had this other girl who would always argue about red pill and i'm pretty sure it was him she

01:34:19.460 hit on and this was like a single mother of four kids she asked me about like i think it was this

01:34:25.280 guy or someone that was like a trainer i just remember and i'm famous clean house dude they

01:34:31.060 freaking put him down no but my point was like yeah you're gonna be a side chick to this dude

01:34:36.380 as she was arguing not all women are like that yep i'm like you're exactly like that 1.00

01:34:45.580 do you guys think that women mentally leave before they break up a relationship 0.95

01:34:50.780 forgot to say this i don't want to have guaranteed sex with you anymore 0.98

01:34:54.060 regardless of your headache too much you're doing way too much 0.97

01:35:00.140 so have you guys ever mentally broken up with someone before you've broken up with someone

01:35:05.100 yeah okay so um i'll start start with you when um how long were you together like

01:35:14.460 like five four years okay and mentally when did you break up with him

01:35:19.500 like when did you know you were gonna dump him like i'm gonna guess six months to a year

01:35:26.220 oh i probably like

01:35:30.140 um okay can i just scrap that one because that one was actually a really of a mess

01:35:33.900 on and off one so this one we were together about like three months and i knew oh okay in two months

01:35:41.980 that i wanted to dump him okay that's not that bad yeah so a month and the the four or five

01:35:48.540 or the four year one you you don't know it's like we were on and off throughout the whole four years

01:35:52.540 so i don't think it really counts us okay i was the first time we broke up i was over it

01:35:58.380 after the first time yeah and then how many times you get back together

01:36:03.900 couple yeah what's that the alpha ghost is that the alpha ghost

01:36:07.880 what about you um i would say three months before breaking up three months what about you

01:36:20.180 i haven't been in that situation okay okay what about you guys have you guys ever done that

01:36:25.260 yeah yeah i had a strike system that's kind of funny

01:36:29.940 she didn't even last two weeks and you know what it's not it's not about her though like that was

01:36:35.680 just my bad vetting stage in it like i had a terrible vetting process at that time and so

01:36:40.720 because she didn't last the two weeks so i think that's more to do with me were you dating her two

01:36:44.220 weeks no i was dating her for a little while and then she was like yo i'm gonna do all these things 0.98

01:36:47.780 let me get serious so i'm like all right cool let's see in it and yeah that two weeks was just

01:36:52.620 went quick it was like you know when yeah free strikes what did she do i'll give you i'll give 1.00

01:37:01.400 you one i'll give you one um uh she just did she just disrespected herself on online oh okay i'll 1.00

01:37:11.520 put it that way i don't want to get into it oh yeah a booty pic something in that atmosphere

01:37:17.120 all right and what she did that three times no no no no no there was the same week no they were

01:37:24.320 just other things you know what you know it is it's like some some people's behaviors might be

01:37:29.040 triggers for you to act out our character or mess up your vibes and your energy and all that kind

01:37:33.440 of stuff so if someone's showing you that they don't yeah all right doug mpa what are your final

01:37:39.120 thoughts on this episode um well i'll have to search through the archive and find because

01:37:47.820 i forgot what you guys were talking about the first time that she appeared i just wanted to

01:37:52.440 pick this one because she was talking about you know men dealing with cheating and all that stuff

01:37:56.860 like that when she was a side chick but anyway um she just so grifter man like and guys she's 0.96

01:38:07.120 attractive enough to have one but she's still out here 37 no kids trying to get eight thousand 1.00

01:38:16.080 an hour out of men there's a big problem there and for so if you just looked at the signs you

01:38:24.000 should have saw this coming and guys don't ever listen to female dating coaches ever 1.00

01:38:30.080 what could they possibly teach you as a man like what what no what's worse pearly 1.00

01:38:37.120 a man paying a woman for for dating advice or a man paying for only fans what's worse 0.94

01:38:42.580 probably the second at least he's get something out of the hooker 1.00

01:38:48.220 no no no no no only fans so like he's better yeah because he's got something out i don't yeah

01:38:58.000 well my final thoughts is that i kind of saw this coming because she crashed out on king

01:39:04.720 and that's why i didn't let her on the show a lot of people said i didn't want to debate her but

01:39:09.660 i just think you can't disrespect my employees and contrary to popular belief i'm actually not

01:39:16.140 a colonizer so so yeah if they if they disrespect somebody that works for me i just can't have

01:39:25.260 you on here let me double check and make sure there isn't anything on the website before we go

01:39:32.340 just real fast nope no read so we're good to go cool well thanks for watching guys um if you have

01:39:39.960 an old episode you want me to react to let me know in the comments like the video and i'll see you

01:39:44.160 next time bye-bye have a good one bye

Pearl - August 31, 2025

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