00:00:30.000with being a retired 304 is you are going to go through experiences like this one but y'all know
00:00:36.220i don't be giving it up honestly unless it's a fucking emergency your girl is retired i am out
00:00:41.200the game so i go into i go out of town where i normally trap at or whatever and i'm going to
00:00:46.400order my smoothie bitch since i got you know a little couple hours off this guy literally when
00:00:51.040i'm going in he goes in when i come out he comes out he's like oh he walks in front of me and he
00:00:55.740looks back and he's like oh let me get your number i'm like why because one thing about it i feel
00:00:59.900if a guy wants my number and he wants to like take me out like make it known because i'm not
00:01:03.340giving you my number just for conversation go conversate with yourself oh he's like oh i got
00:01:07.900some money for you like you already know and i'm like i don't know obviously let my job i know yeah
00:01:13.020i mean i think if she's dressed like that you're gonna think in my ass but it's obvious common
00:01:17.500sense you know when you see me in person to put two and two together especially if you're really
00:01:20.780investigator gadget and i get to my car he's like oh that's your car don't ask me why the
00:01:24.380i said yeah i should lie bitch this is not the first time this happened to me like this happened
00:01:27.900to me when i was with my child and my mother and my family and this caucasian man was like
00:01:32.780i remember like going into white guys were doing this oh my god it's worse than we thought 7-eleven
00:01:38.380and like coming out and he was like oh hey baby one of the white little creepy there that is
00:01:43.260what's gonna happen literally since you put yourself out there people are gonna recognize
00:01:46.940you just play it safe i mean it might be more like i mean you might be a little bit more discreet
00:01:51.340considering if you don't have tattoos unlike myself but yeah that's what could potentially
00:01:55.100happen this is yeah when you're retired hoe okay let's see retired hoe edition i've been
00:02:01.580gonna post this video for a long ass time but this is just gonna work with me or whatever
00:02:06.540um right now as you say i'm at work or whatever i'm just showing y'all what i got going on
00:02:11.740scanning clothes out i'm actually tired if i like what do you think is hard or suck it like
00:02:17.260a lot of times people say that um you can prevent a woman from being a hoe but i don't know if a
00:02:23.660a woman's lazy enough because what do you think is harder sucking a guy off for 30 minutes or
00:02:27.940folding these clothes now i'm not saying that folding the clothes is like easy or i'm like
00:02:34.360it's that difficult it's not but it would be easier just to you know gluck gluck 9000 oh my
00:02:40.260motherfucking god man i'm just getting clothes folding clothes off christmas because y'all
00:02:44.920my job has been motherfucking packed with christmas shits y'all everybody been ordering
00:02:49.980and shit and i know that's motherfucking right because we gotta have that shit for these
00:02:54.280motherfucking kids you know right here i'm just showing y'all like what bag i use and shit like
00:02:58.100that the sticker i'm printing out you know what i'm saying stuff like that and i'm just working
00:03:03.120y'all i think this order right here had like 80 80 something packages like y'all i'm not over
00:03:09.780just right i'm just waiting on the ticket right here y'all but what y'all getting me for Christmas
00:03:13.560i got two of my little sheets getting me something um of course i know i don't i'm not
00:03:18.500three or four anymore but i still have you know they still like they still like to get me stuff
00:03:23.540like you know what i'm saying like so one of my little she's gave me my coach bag and the other
00:03:29.340i haven't thought about it yet i haven't thought about what i want yet so yeah but i'm just showing
00:03:34.620you like that's how much more i got on the cart to do i'm almost done i really work fast or whatever
00:03:40.180like i have my how fast are you working if you're tick tocking it you know what i mean all right
00:03:45.160Yeah. And that's what I'm saying. Women, it's like they have the choice to hoe either sugar
00:03:49.500babying, prostitution, having a bunch of boyfriends and getting them to take you out. I don't know
00:03:54.920how when they can do it in different ways. Right. But after hoeing and it's a lot of people
00:04:02.520pathologize it and say it's because they're so broken. It's really not that they just don't
00:04:06.840want to get a job. You know, why would you like, why would you when you could not speak a little
00:04:11.660bit about the discourse or the misconception of 304 is not having any respect for themselves
00:04:16.900because i can tell you that i honestly have more respect for myself now than before when i was just
00:04:24.340before i was doing this because you know you pretty much just went for anything like or i
00:04:28.820used to go for any yeah because you know once they hoe they know what their poonanny's worth so
00:04:33.420they're like oh i would they would just do it for free right so at least they're making money
00:04:38.140thing you know we need hose i think we got to stop shaming hose i know i think when i was younger i
00:04:42.860used to say shame the hose but it's annoying because it's harder to get into relationship
00:04:47.420because of hose you know so it's like annoying but i get a little older i'm like they're kind
00:04:51.180of needed because somebody's got to bang these guys i don't want to do it somebody's got to do
00:04:54.940it you know until i started to realize that there were people who saw value in me and whether they
00:05:00.460put a value on me um or i put a value on myself you know they obliged to it like you know me
00:05:06.700setting rules and me like you know just being low tolerance for and stuff like that like sometimes
00:05:12.540like even if they do have x amount of money and stuff like that i i wasn't always quick to take
00:05:17.500every dollar you know uh definitely like the whole saying of our money is not good money that is very
00:05:23.420true that's true for anything in life but so i like how a ho like a ex hooker is telling us all
00:05:29.500money isn't good money like when people go around making it seem like you know we're worthless or
00:05:34.780you know just do i actually disagree that you guys are worthless um i think they it's a value
00:05:39.900add to society um if women were getting married at 18 we wouldn't we still even might need them
00:05:45.580because you know um some women aren't going to bang their husbands so i don't think hoes are
00:05:51.980these like terrible people by the way a lot of hoes get married by their favorite client we
00:05:56.620got to stop acting like they even they i know someone that does sugar babies and even sugar
00:06:03.100baby's ghost even sugar babies get marriage proposals like yeah hoes get marriage proposals
00:06:08.620too any and everything like some do i can't say some do but the ones that really have a mission
00:06:15.260and a goal to get out like no we really stand on business so like i see some people sometimes say
00:06:21.340like oh you have an inflated ego you know the pride and it was like well am i supposed to think
00:06:26.300less of myself like am i not supposed to think i'm the like the thing is i'm so comfortable
00:06:31.180and confident within myself that can't nobody bring me down because I know what type of woman
00:06:35.180I am at the end of the day. Like, I always have to tell people, don't confuse what I do for who
00:06:39.180I am. Okay. Because if you know me, I've done a lot. I've been to the army. I've been to nursing
00:06:44.400school. Like, you know, I've always been a hard worker. I've been working since I've been 16
00:06:47.260years old. So making money, that's like a natural, it's like. Yeah. And they, they try to paint it
00:06:52.680like they're as hard of a worker as people with real jobs. And it's just like, honestly, I think
00:06:58.580hoeing is a necessity right we need it in society but let's not pretend that hoeing is more difficult
00:07:04.240than having a real job you know what i mean maybe if you were like the madam maybe we could argue
00:07:09.460that you know managing hoes i bet that would be kind of difficult but just hoeing no um an
00:07:14.940involuntary type thing for me like i do it without thinking you know so the fact that people think
00:07:20.500that like oh like i had to do that like i won't say that it was like i didn't it's funny because
00:07:24.700the hoes will even say they're not broken and they didn't have to do it um but then the
00:07:29.420conservatives will say oh they're broken it's because they didn't have a dad some women just
00:07:33.260got that dog you know some men just got that dog in them some women just got that hoe in them
00:07:38.300and it's there from a young age it's always the neurotic like conservatives that think they can
00:07:43.180control the universe my daughter would never do that uh-huh there's a lot of preachers who thought
00:07:49.180that too have to do it but after i saw the perks and benefits that it could award me yes i continue
00:07:55.260to do it and i also met a lot of people in the life that have put me in different positions and
00:08:01.740hope like you know navigate me through certain things like gave me certain you know game and
00:08:06.700knowledge and tips like that like i've been around like very very successful people like
00:08:11.260people think that you just mess with the low down dirty scumbag and stuff like that while you can
00:08:16.300that was never my forte like it was never i was always wanting to be around people that were
00:08:21.580higher than me because they can give me more insight like even just when it comes down to
00:08:26.060like my vernacular like i love to learn new words i love to fit in with those type of people because
00:08:33.020you are who you hang with you know interesting because you know it's funny black people care
00:08:39.420about status and they don't have it white people just in general maybe not white women but white
00:08:44.700men have the most status in society and they care the least about it like um white men will be rich
00:08:52.540and nobody will know where black men will try to appear rich nobody buys it um and they'll really
00:09:01.580be broke you know so it's interesting i white women do care about women always care about status
00:09:06.780but white men um like when you look at the real positions of power like the president um even just
00:09:13.680like the i would guess the majority of millionaires are white billionaires are white or jewish right
00:09:19.320um i don't know enough jewish people i know people have their feelings about them i i don't have
00:09:24.160enough um i don't know enough jewish people to make generalizations about that group um i know
00:09:31.940like two one two i don't know i don't know many i can only think of one but i feel like i know two
00:09:37.140i'm forgetting so and that guy it's like if he understands that's why like oh no i know too
00:09:43.060one cares about status one say he's like in the middle feeling like you know i'm at a point in
00:09:47.540my life where i'm i'm like i'm kind of above it because i feel like it's got me to a certain
00:09:54.100point but it's not going to get me to my final point so like and then also like with just men
00:09:59.540just thinking like they can just say and do whatever to you and stuff like that like no
00:10:03.860like i'm so stingy with my cootie cat like oh my a 304 is telling us a hooker is telling us
00:10:12.100that she's stingy with the cootie cat i'm sorry you just can't be that stingy
00:10:18.660if for a thousand bucks or less i don't know what your price is i doubt it's over that i could get
00:10:23.780you for an hour you know if it cannot get close to me i don't like to text people i don't like you
00:10:27.940know i don't like meaningless interactions because all my interactions have been about something
00:10:32.340whether it was money fueled all right let's let's go to the next hi jasmine here with journey with
00:10:38.820jasmine and as a retire call everything a journey like it used to be a hero's journey you know and
00:10:45.940the man would like overcome all this stuff women's hero's journey is overcoming our bad decisions
00:10:51.140whether it comes to financial dating etc 304 i've been sharing a bit about my transition from being
00:10:58.180in a 304 back into the square world the civilian world back into regular life and one of the
00:11:05.880questions or some of the feedback i have gotten has been concerns around financial stability like
00:11:12.280how did you manage how did you survive let me tell y'all this as a 304 you already know one
00:11:19.380of the pros the biggest pro the industry is the money how much money you can get how much cash
00:11:24.920you touching, how much you're making in a day, how much you're making in an hour. One of the things
00:11:30.000I used to say, and it was a common thing to say is like, basically like, at least I don't have to
00:11:35.500work a nine to five. I'm making what y'all make in a day. Boom, boom, boom. Remember that? It
00:11:40.860sounds familiar. And so that's not going to change when it comes to you thinking about transitioning
00:11:46.980out, but that is something you're going to have to come to terms with and seriously do some inner
00:11:52.340work yeah because they're gonna go from having to work i mean how long does a bj really take
00:11:57.460i mean especially for a sexless guy because he's probably paying for like how long is that really
00:12:02.900gonna take now you're gonna have to deal with less money less free time with when i left the
00:12:07.700industry in 2021 i was staying in a two bedroom one bath luxury apartment that i had just got
00:12:13.300when i knew i was leaving already in my mind i knew i wouldn't wouldn't be able to to sustain
00:12:19.620that apartment and it didn't make sense to try to sustain it knowing that i was going to take a big
00:12:24.980hit to my finances so i gave up that apartment i moved in with roommates now i have had my own
00:12:33.620apartment since the age of 21 i had never not lived with roommates like i i didn't have roommates
00:12:39.940and so to be nearing 30 i think i was 30 at the time how convenient right when you hit the wall
00:12:46.020now you want to retire time or i was about to be there i think it was like 28 or 27 so to kind of
00:12:52.820have to revert back i took a big heat to my ego and it's not something that i wanted to do i knew
00:12:58.980it was something that i had to do and to be quite honest i've taken multiple ego hits i've had an
00:13:05.940ego death and i really had to relearn who the head ego deaths are actually good for people
00:13:12.020i've had ego deaths my god yeah no is jasmine without all of these material things like two
00:13:18.900years ago i had to sell the wall is actually good for women because it's when women start being
00:13:25.060treated like normal people and they're no longer spoiled right um even though there's always going
00:13:31.460to be a guy that's going to do it you're going to have to do more to get that guy right there's
00:13:36.180always going to be an alpha that's running through 40 year olds 50 year olds 30 you know what i mean
00:13:40.180and a lot of times those alphas i've even seen like 30 something year old women lock him down
00:13:45.68040 something year old women but the ego has to die because in order to be a woman that locks him
00:13:51.820down they have to do way more like at 20 you could just breathe at 30 it's like you got to
00:13:58.780cook him three meals a week at 40 you got to basically be a slave that i bought cash from
00:14:04.640the industry I had to sell that and I ended up getting a very ugly Mitsubishi and like even that
00:14:12.120so I am someone that is very big on change and change is hard but you can either make the change
00:14:19.040to be somebody who you know you can be and get the life that you desire or you can stay the same
00:14:25.140because being the same is comfortable going into the unknown is scary and especially being in the
00:14:31.180industry you live and you leave and you don't have all these things that you thought you should
00:14:35.740have had or you don't have things to show for it that was the biggest the biggest turmoil and
00:14:42.260biggest lie in my mind to keep me in that industry i would not be where i am today if i hadn't left
00:14:49.460like i am about to be a master of social work graduate oh my god she left again a master's
00:14:56.860degree why can't women just get real jobs in nine months what would you tell an ex how to do what
00:15:04.460industry could they go into an industry do you know what i would do i would learn some service
00:15:10.500and i would sell it to rich people or middle class maybe you can't she looks too thotty really to get
00:15:16.540into these rich areas but like that's what i would do i would learn a skill that i could set like
00:15:22.360doing laundry for people like something where you could bypass having to work for someone else
00:15:27.600um because you could be a cleaner you could that's what i would do that is only because i've taken a
00:15:32.880dog walker break because i would have finished in four months you know what i mean so i am on my way
00:15:40.200to the life that i desire um these last four years have definitely built character but it's also
00:15:47.620humbled me in the sense of like it's brought me back to reality as a 304 life is like a lala land
00:15:55.840like you're literally not really connected to the lives of like the everyday person or the average
00:16:01.840person because in what other worlds are you bringing in thousands a day thousands and a half
00:16:06.740a day thousand an hour it's just unfathomable but what i can say is the work the work ethic
00:16:13.540that makes you a successful three and four can be transferred to other athletes please don't say
00:16:20.340that hoeing is work ethic can we just can we just be real here it's not that much work to throw it
00:16:26.220back it's just not you know men do even when throwing it back men do most of the work you know
00:16:32.600and something i say is if i can be blessed by giving of myself black people always say that
00:16:40.300they want to be blessed white people want to work this way and obtain all of these things by being
00:16:45.960in the industry I'm gonna be blessed tenfold if I leave the industry and apply myself a different
00:16:52.560way baby I am on my way to a Porsche in the next year or two that see what I mean black people when
00:16:59.240they make money they just spend white people are not like this maybe white women right but white
00:17:04.260men like black people just spend money like water like whatever white people like a bad trait that
00:17:10.280white this is how it goes it goes white men have like the best traits and the white women and the
00:17:16.120black men that listen to white men they tend to adopt those traits and they're kind of entered
00:17:21.760into the better decisions hierarchy where um those that listen to other women or black people tend to
00:17:31.100you know crash out like i don't know it's just it's going to completely surpass the beamer that
00:17:36.860I paid for in cash. The amount of money that I am about to be making in the next year or two
00:17:42.680is insurmountable. As a social worker? Okay. Social worker salary. Isn't that incredible
00:17:51.160that $60,000 to $70,000? I'm not. It's kind of incredible that you can be an ex-ho and then
00:17:57.960become a social worker. Okay. In comparison to the amount I made by selling CooterCat.
00:18:02.480So trust and believe that that is not the only way that you can get to where you're going.
00:18:07.520Trust and believe that you will have to get over your fear of being broke or not living high and mighty for a little bit to get to where you're going.