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- July 27, 2025
The Tea App And It's Consequences
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24 minutes
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182.01898
Word Count
4,450
Sentence Count
7
Misogynist Sentences
37
Hate Speech Sentences
12
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the other thing that i've seen on these apps is women will say like talking to or dating but
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they've barely dated the guy and they they almost feel entitled to his time in the early stages of
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dating even though a lot of women date multiple men at the same time men also date multiple women
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and it's just you know um so for those of you that don't know the tea app is an app that was
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made um by basically this guy trying to protect his mom that's always how feminism starts this guy
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his mom was getting ghosted she's banging criminals i guess and so this guy said you know what i'm
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gonna do i'm gonna make an app where she can do background checks on guys essentially so
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what it offers is you can look up the guy by name phone number um and women write basically reviews
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on men which is kind of funny um i mean it's kind of crazy actually uh but i when i heard about
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this app i thought why don't i offer a service where i could write good reviews for men or bad
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depending on what you want you know uh but anyways it's come crashing down so women complain about the
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modern dating market and how unsafe it is they talk about guys ghosting sleeping with multiple women at
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the same time lying about how much money they make and not being consistent it's funny how they
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complain when they're when it is their fault that dating is how it is in the first place men were
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perfectly fine with knocking on a woman's front door asking her father to take her on a date men were
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fine with courting a woman and men were fine with waiting for sex until marriage but women called all of
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that patriarchy and dismantled the entire dynamic with feminism now we are left with the dumpster fire
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that is modern day dating 80 of women want 20 or less of men and those men have a ton of options
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of course women hate when things don't go their way or when they have to take an l so they do whatever
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it takes to shame men into not doing the things they used to be able to get away with when they were
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young and hot the latest tactic is the tea app tea is an app where women can share stories of men that
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they've gone on dates with and whether they are green flags or red flags and the purpose of the tea
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app is to keep women safe when it comes to dating but women don't like it's like we argue we're like
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keep us safe right that's so that's so
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if we really cared about safety why are we flying to dubai by ourself to get poop down
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by billionaires do you know what i mean so the purpose of the tea app is to keep women safe
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when it comes to dating but many men are upset about the fact it's a place where women can share
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a man's name pictures also phone number and say disparaging things about them without the ability
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to defend themselves well there have been places like are we dating the same guy on facebook this is
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the ultimate form of that because it's anonymous this app is the number one downloaded app on the app
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store with thousands of women signing up this virtual woman only app lets you anonymously spill
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tea on men it could actually make dating harder relationship experts say women across social media
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are buzzing about tea an anonymous dating safety app where they spill the tea typically gossip secrets and
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juicy information on the men that they're dating but the app has gone viral for all the wrong reasons
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tea was founded in november of 2022 by a software engineer sean cook to help women feel more protected
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he was inspired by his mom's bad experiences with online dating by the way it's always the mother
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because um mothers raise simps right and it was actually a guy who voted for women to have the vote
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because he was guilted also by his mother connecting with a catfish and even a criminal he wrote on
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linkedin this women-only platform became available for download in 2023 with features like a criminal
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background check and reverse image search and it's currently the number one lifestyle app with 4
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million users in a 4.7 out of 5 star rating okay the app requires a user to verify that they are
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women to be able to use it so many women were required to upload their driver's license and other
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sensitive information to sign up to ensure they were women a couple of days ago the creators and owners
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of the tea app put out a press release release that said the app was hacked and over 72 000 photos and
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other sensitive information has been leaked online okay so hackers have breached the tea app which was
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which recently went viral as a place for women to talk safely about men and tens of thousands of
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women's selfies and photos ids have now been seemingly leaked online a spokesperson confirmed the hack friday
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afternoon and a company estimates that 72 000 including 13 000 verification photos and images
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of government ids were accessed t is designed to function as a virtual whisper network for women
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allowing them to upload photos of men and search for them by name users can leave comments describing
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specific men as a red flag or a green flag and share other information about them it's recently gained
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such popularity that it became the top free app in the app store that week the app claimed thursday
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to have recently gained nearly a million signups signing up for tea requires users to take selfies which
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the app says are deleted after review to prove they are women all users who get accepted are promised
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to be anonymous outside of their usernames that they choose taking screenshots of what's in the app is also
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blocked the hacker accessed the database from more than two years ago the tea spokesperson added that
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the data was originally stored in compliance law enforcement requirements to um cyber bullying prevention
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okay so the response from women is kind of funny because they have no problem sharing public information
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behind about men but when their public information gets leaked they get upset or their information gets
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leaked they get upset so let's talk about the tea app on today's show i want you to call in and tell
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me what you think of the app is it a good idea do you think women are using it for using it for what it
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was meant for and why do you think that men haven't come up with a similar app for women like imagine if
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there was body count app you know where you could verify you slept with her you they could start keeping
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track um eric says i wonder how the authorities will treat the app if any of the women use it to report
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a sadv will the cops come to knock on your door to cuff you on the basis of an anonymous app um that
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you can't even access okay another one is sorveria so his mom was getting rammed by chads yeah he yeah
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let's look at the tick tocks of the women talking about the tea app and see what women are saying
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this tea app is lame as fuck to me for a lot of different reasons and you can see so she's more
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attractive now the thing is what i've noticed is that the women that are better looking and i've seen
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i've been in the i checked out some of the are we dating the same guy groups and oh my god it makes such
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good content i i don't want to get kicked out but sometimes i want to do a show with some of the stories
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but i like to look for like patterns in these groups and what i've noticed is the better looking
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the woman the less crash out there is like it's like the ugly women that are like oh he was the
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worst where the hot women are like yeah it didn't work out it's too bad uh sigh and someone has to
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fucking say it now i understand the app was fully intended to expose like predators abusers you know
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people of that nature and for that fully support it what we all have turned it into is something
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completely different for one you are letting other talk you out of exploring pursuing dating whatever
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seeing these men and you're doing this based off of their experiences the other thing that i'll talk
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about is a guy treats women differently based on how attractive and likable they are he might not want
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something serious with the four but the seven he's he might want something serious with and that's why
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beautiful women tend to have less trauma my experience because they're not really used to
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being pumped and dumped that's the mids beautiful women they don't get pumped and dumped like that i
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mean most men at the very least are going to want a long-term situationship with them you literally could
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be blocking your own blessings like i fully believe that people change for who they want to change for
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right and i can wholeheartedly say that not every man that i've talked to dated whatever has received
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the same version of me it hasn't been a consistent version of me they get different versions of me
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based off of how comfortable or how vulnerable um i can be with them man one can say i'm a liar right
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man two could say i'm the most honest truthful straightforward person and they both could be
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valid i could have not really seen going anywhere with him and played him or not wanted to be as
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honest and i could have liked this one over here and been more intentional why would i assume that a
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man doesn't do the same thing then what happened to taking l's in peace like apparently y'all are
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getting on this app and saying how a man dogged you the out i would be damned before i get up here in
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front of strangers and list in detail how a man did me dirty what happened to just taking your l chalking
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it up to game to the game learning from it and moving on like go call your home girl if you can't
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take it to the grave like the rest of us do like what happened to being prideful and mind you we've all
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been in situations where our judgment was clouded or we were a little foolish for a man whatever the
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case is i'm not saying that i haven't but i'm not about to tell yeah and you don't like if if the roles
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were reversed and we had every annoying bad thing that we ever did um in a file about us that'd be pretty
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embarrassing i think women would have worse files than men would be like she took off her makeup and
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i didn't recognize her y'all how i was and i'm definitely not exposing it so that the next man
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can think that he can run game on me and think that i'm green like if the roles were reversed
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and men were doing this we would be calling them we were and oh my gosh we would oh there would be
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protests women will guard their reputation with their life saying they're gossiping and that they're
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that they're losers what makes it anything like imagine if there's an app called body count
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friend like girl come on then you have women exposing men's secrets and or lying on them or trying
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to ruin their reputation it's just like it's not that serious ever it's never that serious over a man
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there's too many in the world to do all that over like stand the up and i don't know maybe because i
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just treat dating so casually like it just if it's not meant to work out it's not meant to work out and
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it is what it is like we you live you learn you move on like whatever's done in the dark is always going
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to come to light so granted the app might be valid in saying like oh this man is a manipulator and he
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might be a manipulator across the board or he might be unfaithful across the board regardless of what
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person he's with i don't know i just feel like i rather find it out for myself could the app have saved
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time yes but at the same time yeah but it also can like you're letting threes like women that like
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okay if someone told me they had a bad experience with someone i was dating right
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and i looked at them and they were like overweight or old or ugly i'd be like well yeah of course you're
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gonna have a bad experience you look like that i've worked way too hard in the gym to have the same
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experience that you have i have worked way too hard for this it's kind of like when guys um say
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they've had bad experiences with women and they don't you know treat them right it's like you you
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look at the difference in looks level to some of the guys that say they they don't know what that
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they're talking about um and women are great it's like yeah you see the the difference unfortunately
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women treat chads different men treat hot women different men are much more nicer and forgiving and
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aren't as judgmental to be fair it's not really the same but i'm just sometimes i use metaphors in
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both like i said i'm not the same person that i am with every person so i owe every man that i am
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interested in you know the opportunity to be his best self with me and if he's not then cool it's whatever
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but see she's pretty so pretty women will just hop on to the next like pretty women of choice and
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people act different when they can replace you they're less insecure they're less crazy but when
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when women have no other choice and it's going to be a year before you meet someone on the same caliber
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it's like yeah as most of you know i have been fighting on the front lines of the simp epidemic for
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years but i need to tell you about a quiet weapon being ratcheted up against men that is rarely
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canceled like today we need to start a petition something needs to go on because so she's a mid
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but um it seems like she's happy with her choices she's a young mid young meds are are okay this tf is
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getting out of control so basically this lady was talking to this single father and he was posted on a tf
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five other girls was under the post saying that they talked to him too and the other thing that i've seen
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on these apps is women will say like talking to or dating but they've barely dated the guy and they
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they almost feel entitled to his time in the early stages of dating even though a lot of women date
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multiple men at the same time men also date multiple women and it's just you know and she went ahead and
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asked him about it he basically said like i don't got time for all of these i raised my child and that's
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that so she sent her homeboy to go convert him he ended up through the house and unalive the little
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girl which was a three-year-old i heard a story talking about it it was a three-year-old and it was
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also um him ended up injured at first the t app was for a good cause it was just an app to enlighten women
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on abusers grape is um who's doing like you know stuff that needs to be talked about stds stuff like
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that but now y'all using a t app as a t page like just being messy as oh who with this
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who like that is so childish you if you secure with yourself you shouldn't have to do
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all of these back no i just want to go ahead all right let's see who's next um
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yeah see these are the prettier women women are anonymously spilling the tea on men they dated on
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a new viral app which has just been hacked after gaining a huge influx of new users ryan in newport
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beach here's his review dated him for two years to find out when he went on his work trip he was
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actually going on his honey moon upon opening tea users can see photos of local men along with their
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names they can leave red flags or green flags as well as comments including about negative
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date experiences or even vouching for them as a friend the app also lets users run background
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checks search for criminal histories and even reverse image search to check if a man is catfishing
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i just found out the guy i've been seeing has a whole girlfriend like he's in a relationship of
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five years and i'm not the only other girl he's talking to while the company says their mission
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is to keep women safe they've also faced backlash from men i want to say something funny so i joined
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a bunch of different cities and are we dating the same guy because i wanted to see there's there's a
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guy i know i wanted to see if he was on it because i just know he's always been he's always had a lot of
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women and with the numbers that he runs through i'm like you've run through so many women there's no
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way you're not in these pages and i looked at him in like five different cities
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ghost nothing nada
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and i'll just say a good friend of mine who's actually a very good person
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and i i would say is not that way um i would say he's pretty respectful of the women he dates in
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general ends up on the page and i'm like how they fear being misrepresented or doxed on the platform i had
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a female friend of mine go undercover on the tea app and i found that there are some women talking
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about me they were clearly just upset they felt that they got slighted is there anything we could
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do about this this is defamation this is entirely untrue tea promises anonymity to its users but on
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friday morning it confirmed to nbc news that 72 000 photos were accessed without authorization including
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13 000 account verification photos that were supposed to be kept private now it's possible that some of
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those identifying images are being leaked online online spaces for women to talk about men they've
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dated are not new you may have heard of the are we dating the same guy facebook groups which have
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received their own share of controversy and have even faced lawsuits which were later dismissed but
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some on the app are now saying they feel the app is geared more toward gossip than safety concerns and
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that can lead to cyber bullying especially since the women are supposed to be anonymous while the men remain
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in public as of now it's still the number one app on the apple app yep
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yeah one of these days maybe i'll i'll do are we dating the same guy for a show and i'll show you guys
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some of the some of them are funny oh my gosh some of them are like oh i talked to him i dated him
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some guys get like good reviews uh so like girls will say that if a guy has herpes or something
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which i'm pretty sure is illegal pretty sure you can't say that y'all are literally showing us why
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we needed this app in the first place yes some people are making it messy some people are making
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a mockery out of it but this app was created for women's safety you know how many women would have
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been happy if they could have got a warning before talking to a man like how much time have we wasted
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and how much time could we have prevented from being wasted if we had this app sooner and then
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y'all wonder why we always complain about men and always say how men ruin everything men like to take
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over everything like y'all prove it every single time so because y'all got triggered now all of our
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information is at risk of being exposed like if it was the other way around though we would not
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like that we would freak out too it's like an invasion of privacy you don't want it to be
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searchable that all your friends family and whatever can see how you date all right stop
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roasting this shirt you guys don't i guess you guys don't like the puffiness huh i thought it was cute
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i guess you guys don't feel the same i thought it was like ooh like a a show talk you know i felt like
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i'm like i'm in show business i'm gonna wait wear fashion pieces and then as soon as i do you guys are
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roasting me in the comments roasting me i'm like all right all right all right um
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hold on all right let's go to the next one um let's see what these women but you see that was
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the least on the team the the last woman was probably the least attractive and she was the
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one saying the t app should exist so she's ugly so let's see what she says gap if you didn't hear
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please delete it immediately girls it is not safe people at fortune app have unfortunately
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leaked a lot of people's photos and addresses even making a map doxing where some of the t
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users are living this is breaking news and happened yesterday the t app was using an insecure server
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kind of like the people at fortune posting innocent people's information online but the servers are weak
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people started hacking them and getting information like photos addresses of course all the information
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that was given to t which could be really dangerous if given into the wrong hands it seems like another
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thing that was ruined by a man as this app was made to protect us the guy who runs it made the
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app because his mom had a hard time dating growing up and he just wanted to make things a little easier
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on women perhaps he didn't have to make the server that easy to hack but a beautiful thought process
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nonetheless i'm coming on here today to let everyone know to delete their t app asap i know a lot of
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people on this app that follow me and engage in my videos are a part of it oh and i had such a good
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business model going i was so ready to write whatever all right yeah see that last girl was
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ugly do you see the difference um she's not full ugly but she's kind of ugly all of the women on the
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t app have just been doxed and it is available for everyone to see whoever leaked the data also made a
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searchable map pinpointing each and every last user mind you these are exact locations so people can
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find out where you live work etc mind you if you did not know the t app is used only by a woman to
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warn okay they're saying it wasn't a hack it was not encrypted in public woman about men that they
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have had bad experiences with or just to find out if someone's cheating or just t in the name and there
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are some men saying that the woman deserved it because of the things that they would talk about in
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the app but no one deserves to have their privacy taken and exposed like that and these men don't
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realize how dangerous this situation really is these women have had their ids and locations leaked to
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public access making them more vulnerable for things like human trafficking but if you are one of the
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women that has been doxxed i recommend that you screenshot everything for when you report it to the police
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and if you don't have any security invest in some i have hope for nothing but the best and thank you for
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for watching
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you
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