Pearl - October 03, 2025


The Tradcon View of The Natural Order is Skewed


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Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

158.24742

Word Count

1,842

Sentence Count

127

Misogynist Sentences

22

Hate Speech Sentences

14


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In this episode, we are reacting to the video "Get Married and Have Kids" by Brett Cooper. In this video, she explains why it is impossible to be in a traditional marriage in this country and why conservatives should push for reform of marriage.

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00:00:00.000 All right, what up guys? So today we're going to be reacting to Brett Cooper, but before we get too
00:00:06.900 much into it, the title of her video is Get Married and Have Kids. Now I want to make it clear that in
00:00:12.820 2025, all right, so in 2025 conservatives are always trying to push and sell marriage. Now you
00:00:20.320 might ask why would they do this? Who cares what you're doing with your, you know what I mean? Like
00:00:24.400 it's not their business, but what they'll do is they'll try to shove marriage down your throat as
00:00:29.140 a man. And I want to show you how it is actually impossible to have a traditional marriage in this
00:00:35.240 country. So anything that the conservatives are saying when it comes to having a traditional
00:00:43.540 marriage is actually playing pretend because it is impossible to have it. So a traditional marriage
00:00:51.180 goes God, man, woman, kid. Okay, so in a traditional marriage, the woman has to submit to the man.
00:01:06.460 The man is supposed to submit to God. Now the problem is in this country, women own the children.
00:01:14.320 Women get custody of the kids the majority of the time. They get alimony. They file for divorce the
00:01:20.120 majority of the time. They are the ones filing for divorce and often leaving the man in ruins.
00:01:26.620 So when there's a dynamic with two people, when you're in a deal, and you know that the other
00:01:33.000 person is most likely to leave, can leave you at any time, and has the power to really ruin your life,
00:01:41.580 you can't be in a traditional marriage because who has the final say on if the marriage is traditional?
00:01:47.460 As a man, I hate to break it to you fellas, it's not you. You do not have the final say. You have no say
00:01:56.180 because if the woman, now a lot of men like to flex their like masculinity here, and I don't mean to
00:02:01.860 insult you. I can't imagine what it's like to be a man in this country. I really can't. I think if I was
00:02:06.660 in your shoes, I think I would go crazy. I really would. I'm not, thank God. But you know, I think I would
00:02:13.140 go crazy. And so what happens in these situations is the man, you know, they think they have some way
00:02:21.140 to enforce and keep the woman and the child in line. But if we're being honest guys, another human
00:02:27.260 person, you can't fully control. You cannot control if your wife starts watching a TikTok
00:02:32.720 and decides TikTok's better than you and it's time to go. You can't monitor 100% who we're friends
00:02:40.400 with. I mean, hopefully you're a busy guy. You got better things to do than watch your wife 24-7,
00:02:47.140 you know. So at the end of the day, if the woman decides to be a good woman, that's up to her.
00:02:52.440 It's really her choice. Now, what conservatives will say is they'll say, get married. So we have the
00:02:59.020 ring here. And they'll say, you know, find some love. So here's a girl. Woohoo. Smile. Here's a man.
00:03:09.800 You know, we say, find love. Get married. Have babies. And that's really what the conservatives
00:03:17.000 try to sell you. And this would make sense if they would push reform marriage first. Now,
00:03:26.580 it's interesting because if you ask conservatives, they'll say, the laws will never change. We can
00:03:31.800 never fix family court. And that may be true. But it's interesting because they do not have that
00:03:37.020 sentiment with other issues. When it comes to trans issues, I mean, conservatives often draw a lot of
00:03:42.720 attention to and push reforming some of the school system that indoctrinates trans children. But when it
00:03:49.460 comes to family law, I mean, why does the Daily Wire only have, I don't know, one episode every 100
00:03:56.800 talking about family court? If they're so concerned about the birth rate and family court and the culture
00:04:04.080 today, why do they not push for marriage reform so that traditional marriage can exist? Imagine if
00:04:12.980 tomorrow, men actually owned their children. Okay, ladies, you want traditional outcomes? Well,
00:04:24.140 men get custody 100% of the time. Would conservative women be for this? Well, men always get the custody.
00:04:32.700 No. And so what you're going to notice is there's a lot of things that subtly give women,
00:04:37.240 there's a lot of things that subtly give women power in this country. So an example is if you have
00:04:44.860 social media, if you have social media as a woman, you have access to other men. You can be visible
00:04:53.000 and other men can message you at any time. The equivalent of this would be a man approaching women
00:04:59.220 in a bar trying to get laid is what men really are dealing with on full display. The other thing that
00:05:06.420 women subtly have is reputation. That comes with social media. So imagine Brett Cooper, if she so
00:05:19.520 chose, tomorrow she could come out and say her husband is an abuser and all the men would, you
00:05:25.180 know, coddle her and I'm not saying she would, right? I actually, she's one of the few divorces I
00:05:30.300 don't predict, actually, I think it might work out. I wouldn't bet on it, but I would put her on more
00:05:36.040 likely to work out than not work out. But that still gives her leverage. Earning her own money
00:05:43.480 gives her leverage. She has the money to leave if she so chooses. So the subtle gaslighting that
00:05:49.540 happens in conservatism is the women do not advocate for marriage reform. They don't advocate for deleting
00:05:58.360 the social media. They don't advocate for giving up any power at all. Zero, nip, nayski, none. And yet they still
00:06:10.260 market a traditional marriage. And when you ask, were you a virgin on your wedding day, that you would think
00:06:17.240 would be a prerequisite. The answer is always no, nayski, nada. Now, I'm not, I am not trying to impose
00:06:25.580 judgment, right? I am not one to be the one to judge. But I can't identify what I'm looking at.
00:06:34.640 And what I often get with conservative women is they market themselves as one thing, but they are not
00:06:42.080 that. Now, the equivalent would be me going to a store and I say, I want to buy bread. And they keep
00:06:48.800 handing me potatoes. And I say, that's a potato. And they say, no, no, no, that's bread. And I say, I,
00:06:55.640 I don't think that is bread. That's a, that's a potato. And it's just this subtle gaslighting that
00:07:03.040 goes on forever. Now, I'm not saying being a potato in this case is wrong or bad or not the way it's
00:07:09.220 supposed to be. But what I am saying is it's not what you're selling. And until there is marriage
00:07:15.300 reform, you cannot have a traditional marriage in this country. It does not exist. It is a thing of
00:07:23.360 the past because it's only traditional if the woman says it's traditional. If she wants to ruin your
00:07:31.380 reputation on social media, she can do it. If she wants to steal your money, your house, and your
00:07:37.400 children, she can do it at any time if she feels like it. I've even read stories of women going overseas
00:07:45.220 and abandoning their families. And I don't, I don't say this with a happy heart, even though I do have
00:07:52.400 a happy tone. It's just how I talk. But there is just, it does not exist. So when conservatives say
00:07:58.620 get married and have a family without the reform part, they're sending men to the slaughterhouse. Now,
00:08:06.020 I think you might think that is, you might say, Pearl, that is overdramatic. They are not doing
00:08:15.360 that. Well, I actually do take it that serious. The reason I take it that serious is because
00:08:20.920 men are nine times more likely to commit suicide after divorce. If you sell a bottle of pills, if you
00:08:29.000 sell a medical product, and one person dies out of 100, or even out of 200, 300, 400 men, even if it's
00:08:39.740 one out of 500, you can get sued for pushing that product or selling that product. But with conservatives,
00:08:49.880 they hold, they sell this product, but hold no responsibility over the outcome, and are even
00:08:57.400 dishonest about how bad your odds are. Your odds are worse than, we're going to have an essay video
00:09:03.000 out this week, but your odds are worse than what they're saying. The other, the other issue is
00:09:11.740 conservatives allow women to use sex as a weapon to get what they want. So the one leverage men do
00:09:21.520 have in this country, and I'm not saying they should use this, but we have to think, men do not have the
00:09:26.520 power of the courts. Men do not have the power of stealing her money. Men don't really have much power
00:09:34.040 when it comes to this dynamic. Now, the one power that men do have is sex, cheating, other women. We all know
00:09:42.240 women behave very different when they're jealous, completely different. And I'm not recommending men use
00:09:48.120 this, but conservatives say it's immoral to cheat on your wife, and you could say it is, but they do not have that
00:09:54.960 same energy for women that don't sleep with their husbands. And what a lot of men wind up in is they
00:09:59.620 don't want to be a bad person. But now they're in a sexless marriage, their wife's kind of fat,
00:10:05.400 and they're just kind of cooked because they want to be a good person. They're not even allowed to go
00:10:11.200 have sex with someone else forever. So any leverage that men do have, conservatives have a tendency to
00:10:19.320 shame them out of using and saying they're bad people. Now, I am not suggesting it's a good thing
00:10:26.440 that men do it, but I sometimes think, can I blame them? Can I blame guys for doing whatever means
00:10:35.980 possible to get any sort of leverage in this country? They have none. They don't have the
00:10:42.140 police on their side. They don't have the media. They don't have anything. So at times, I can see
00:10:47.420 where they're coming from. Conservatives are almost worse, in a way, than liberals, because at least the
00:10:55.260 liberal women are honest. They're up front. They say, I'm a whore. I like sex, yada, yada.
00:11:00.280 So conservatives try to shame men into doing this. They suggest there are bad people if they don't
00:11:08.100 want to enter in a contract that does not favor them. And you see the shaming language all the time
00:11:14.340 from men on the right. Even Candace Owens recently had an interview with Nick F., and she was shaming
00:11:21.120 him for not wanting to enter in a contract that completely favors the woman. It's not traditional.
00:11:27.960 It can't be traditional. And you can tell that the men have no leverage in these marriages
00:11:32.680 because of how their wives act. So anyways, that's my two cents for that.