Pearl - February 25, 2026


The Women Who Hate Their Husbands Finally Admit It


Episode Stats

Length

11 minutes

Words per Minute

207.23357

Word Count

2,290

Sentence Count

27

Misogynist Sentences

27

Hate Speech Sentences

19


Summary

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In this episode, we react to women talking about how they hate their husbands and how they stayed married to them. Do you hate your husband? What do you do when you realize that your husband is just not that hot anymore?

Transcript

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Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.000 they married average men that they don't really like and they want a hotter, better guy in some
00:00:04.800 way. What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. On this channel, we react to women taking L's and
00:00:10.340 one L is that a lot of women, they want to have a kid, but they're just so insufferable and not
00:00:15.940 very likable people. So they have to like rush to marry whoever they can and they don't marry a guy
00:00:22.100 they like. And that's kind of an L. And so today we're going to react to women talking about how
00:00:26.700 they hate their husbands. And it's probably just because they weren't that hot or likable.
00:00:30.000 so you know here point proven not that hot but we'll see if she's charming but we stuck it out
00:00:35.740 give her head my marriage was a bad match from the very beginning and we probably shouldn't
00:00:42.840 have gotten married but we stuck it out for really not that long but when it finally came to its
00:00:50.780 conclusion we had moved into a house that we bought and remodeled it had been there for about
00:00:57.980 too much we remodeled so he remodeled it and then you pulled the rug huh things were pretty bad
00:01:05.300 i had been sleeping on the couch we really were not getting along very well a friend of mine had
00:01:11.420 told me that you know it's time to to leave and i said no no no i gotta stick it out i just got
00:01:18.440 into this house we have to we have to figure out a way to make it work so my yeah we're not
00:01:24.900 biologically designed to see this many hot men and then like the men in front of us we just don't do
00:01:31.340 well social media's kind of cooked us came home late one night he said he'd been working late
00:01:36.420 he i was in the bedroom at least you guys know though before they would have just been tortured
00:01:40.200 by their wives and thought oh she loves me you at least know that women hate you i think it's
00:01:44.860 better to know how women feel about you than live a lie actually and he walked into the bedroom and
00:01:48.960 he greeted me with the words I think we should separate and at first I was really mad I was
00:01:55.460 furious I got up I took off my rings I threw them into my jewelry box I said what are you doing how
00:02:01.200 could you make this decision without me he told me that he'd been talking to his mom about it his mom
00:02:06.600 thought it was a good idea I was really his mom hated her right mothers know when the daughter
00:02:11.400 in-law is a bitch agreed that he was discussing our marriage with his mother I found out later
00:02:15.740 it wasn't his mother it was his girlfriend that he'd been talking to but anyway i was really mad
00:02:20.620 oh so he was cheating with younger hotter more pleasant i stormed out of the room i went down
00:02:25.660 the hall i walked into our office i sat down in the office chair in front of the computer the
00:02:30.300 lights were out this desktop dell was just glowing so everything was blue and uh he followed me and
00:02:37.900 he stood there in the doorway to the office and he was illuminated by that blue light from the
00:02:43.580 the computer and he said to me isn't this what you want don't you hate me and in that moment it
00:02:49.340 was like a light bulb went off in my head and i realized how right he was yeah she did hate him
00:02:56.180 right and she was torturing him and that's the thing a lot of times they say to stick it out but
00:03:00.260 have you ever been with a woman that hates you it's torture you can't make her not hate you
00:03:05.540 might as well just get on to the next um and stay with her until as long as she likes you
00:03:10.300 and I looked at him and I said yeah I do hate you and we agreed at that moment
00:03:18.100 that we needed to end our marriage and from that moment on I could stop hating
00:03:25.840 my husband because he was no longer my husband I was no longer trapped in this
00:03:30.940 miserable marriage with him he was my partner in untangling this thing and we
00:03:35.980 were releasing each other so that we could go our separate ways and and live
00:03:39.520 our lives the way that we wanted to. And I didn't have to hate him anymore. That's great. It's like
00:03:45.740 no second husband. Well, take that Elsys. Okay. Yeah. Usually when we hate you guys, it says more
00:03:51.800 about us. It's really, we just don't like anybody. Have you seen like our friends? I mean, we go
00:03:57.240 through so many friends. You know what I mean? Like we hate each other. It's just, it's not even
00:04:02.380 you guys. Don't take it personal. I still stand by the fact that my husband is the ugliest man
00:04:07.880 that i have ever met five years into our marriage if you are single i would she say that right now
00:04:13.120 it's because you want to be attracted to your partner and that is just not realistic i don't
00:04:18.100 know how many times women on this app are going to have to say it find an ugly ass man yeah because
00:04:23.320 you're going to use him for resources the only leverage men have is women's attraction to them
00:04:28.180 and being charming unfortunately in this environment because you can't hold money over
00:04:32.320 their head how embarrassing is this why is she saying this publicly and marry him and i'm not
00:04:37.800 talking about a guy that just needs a little brush up okay i'm talking about a terminally
00:04:41.640 unattractive yeah because she can't get the you know there's winners and losers in the game of
00:04:45.240 love and women that can't get better men and they can't be more likable or better looking
00:04:50.520 they just tell people they just tell the women to settle you know man i sleep and then i actually
00:04:56.620 think it's terrible for both because then they just torture each other i mask at night so that
00:05:00.920 i have time in the morning to mentally prepare before i make eye contact with my husband
00:05:04.520 but here i am married and you're not so who's laughing yeah and so again she gets an ego boost
00:05:12.280 from saying that she's married that's why you know a lot of women are married but they're not wives
00:05:16.620 so the the title doesn't really mean much anymore but again women care about titles and status and
00:05:22.840 not just like being good people she's a good person she wouldn't embarrass her husband on
00:05:27.040 the internet a woman grows to dislike or hate her husband in a marriage please understand
00:05:32.940 the only person who is responsible for that is her husband right it has nothing at all to do
00:05:39.840 with her friends with her family with random women and so that's what happens is women go
00:05:46.280 like online for help and again everyone's trying to sell us something nobody's going to be honest
00:05:51.560 with us so all of these divorce coaches are going to come up that just want to take all these women's
00:05:56.980 money and tell them what they want to hear because that's how you make money and online talking about
00:06:02.220 their own personal experiences inside of their own dysfunctional marriages. It has nothing to do with
00:06:08.960 coaches. I don't know who you're talking about. I'm not a coach. I'm just an asshole with a phone
00:06:14.500 who talks about her personal experiences. Yeah, well, it doesn't matter if it's a coach or
00:06:19.240 like whatever. It's the hive mind, right? And the hive mind is always going to tell women
00:06:23.020 that they're right because a lot of people are trying to take our money or women aren't never,
00:06:28.080 we're like we're never brutally honest with each other online to support other women and help
00:06:33.700 validate their own experiences which means if a woman hates her husband that's her experience
00:06:41.520 i am here talking about how i hated my husband and the comments on this video that talk about
00:06:49.280 why women don't have intimacy with their husbands because they married average men that they don't
00:06:56.300 really like and they want a hotter better guy in some way they'll find some deficiency it's not you
00:07:02.340 guys they don't like their husbands and there's many personal stories of those women's experiences
00:07:11.180 of why they grew to dislike or hate their husband and why they were completely repulsed by their
00:07:17.400 husband it's not because of what they heard their neighbor say what they heard their sister say what
00:07:23.780 they heard their friend say on a girl's night when a woman starts to hate her husband it is
00:07:29.700 completely the fault of her husband well what about when the why is it that women they blame the
00:07:35.680 husband when the woman hates the husband and when the husband hates her they blame the husband like
00:07:40.280 everything's always the husband's fault and trying to help me while i'm struggling with like nausea
00:07:44.100 and all these symptoms that he's been offering to like cuddle with me and just like have me lay with
00:07:47.600 him why like why do you okay so when women hate their husbands and they get pregnant it's because
00:07:52.220 they are not happy with the genetic pool that they chose to reproduce with to be a support
00:07:57.100 system but for some reason the last few you can't undo it like you can't make her like you i've been
00:08:03.000 like low-key like avoiding him a couple of weeks ago i was hugging him and it just seemed off i
00:08:09.240 know what it was but i was kind of like just like and then i was noticing i was like i feel like he
00:08:13.700 just like like smells like it was just bothering me and my finger on it like it's not like he's
00:08:18.880 like stinky but i'm like like repulsed by his scent oh my god like does this mean i don't love
00:08:23.720 my husband anymore like again what if he said this on the internet about her she would she
00:08:29.080 would kill him he would be on the local news but women feel the need to not only like our mating
00:08:35.540 strategy is enacted into law also women have to do a victory lap and throw it in their faces a sign
00:08:43.160 like the 10 signs that you need to go and get a divorce and i felt so guilty and yeah and there's
00:08:48.600 all this literature that whenever women feel like this it'll just tell the women that they're right
00:08:53.560 and that they should divorce their husbands so bad and i just told him and i was like i love you so
00:08:59.480 much and i don't think that it's you but i'm not quite sure but you just stink to me like your
00:09:05.320 smell is just i need to keep avoiding it i felt so bad like the worst wife ever you felt bad why
00:09:12.360 are you smiling like look at she's getting joy out of you know saying that i mean he's like wow
00:09:16.760 and he's like that's normal it's like it's pregnancy and i looked on a bunch of pregnancy
00:09:20.680 forums and saw that other people were talking about this as well and how women were literally
00:09:24.440 like holding their breaths while they were like kissing their husbands and stuff and then i did
00:09:27.640 that post on instagram asking people what their like weird pregnancy symptom was and no one said
00:09:32.200 the same symptom so then i got concerned again i was like is this like just a me thing when women
00:09:36.440 are unsure they go to the group hate my husband by women that post their husbands online are trying
00:09:41.560 trying to get confirmation from the group that their husband's awesome but i guess i'm being
00:09:45.660 told that this is normal all right let's see all right let's series of shit that people don't tell
00:09:50.700 you about pregnancy but i'm gonna tell you anyone else just hate their husband i did i found myself
00:09:56.500 googling why do i hate my husband when i'm pregnant because you're not happy with the
00:10:02.020 quality of genes you're reproducing with it was something hormonal but that man would breathe
00:10:06.380 and it was the wrong way everything he did just annoyed the shit out of me and i was like oh my
00:10:12.320 god what have i done and i googled and everyone was like yeah i didn't like my husband either
00:10:16.980 i was like oh all right so maybe it's normal and then the baby was here my hormones settled and
00:10:22.300 most women aren't going to be happy with who they reproduce with like time again so is that like
00:10:26.500 she's pregnant she's thinking about the genetics the kids there now she needs someone to take care
00:10:30.820 the kid so now she's okay with him he's still here we're good but if you're pregnant and you're
00:10:36.740 looking at your husband or significant other and you're like dear god you annoy me you're not alone
00:10:42.580 what an l all right let's see because usually it's the husband's just not attractive
00:10:46.500 nowhere to be found this husband on tiktok nowhere to be found okay well all right not a good sign
00:10:54.020 anyways guys let me know what you think of the comments did your wife act really poorly towards
00:10:58.900 to you when you were pregnant let me know in the comments like the video subscribe to the channel
00:11:02.060 and i'll see you next time