Pearl - The Women Who Hate Their Husbands Finally Admit It

00:00:00.000 they married average men that they don't really like and they want a hotter, better guy in some 1.00

00:00:04.800 way. What up guys? Welcome to my reaction series. On this channel, we react to women taking L's and 0.99

00:00:10.340 one L is that a lot of women, they want to have a kid, but they're just so insufferable and not 1.00

00:00:15.940 very likable people. So they have to like rush to marry whoever they can and they don't marry a guy

00:00:22.100 they like. And that's kind of an L. And so today we're going to react to women talking about how 0.67

00:00:26.700 they hate their husbands. And it's probably just because they weren't that hot or likable.

00:00:30.000 so you know here point proven not that hot but we'll see if she's charming but we stuck it out 1.00

00:00:35.740 give her head my marriage was a bad match from the very beginning and we probably shouldn't

00:00:42.840 have gotten married but we stuck it out for really not that long but when it finally came to its

00:00:50.780 conclusion we had moved into a house that we bought and remodeled it had been there for about

00:00:57.980 too much we remodeled so he remodeled it and then you pulled the rug huh things were pretty bad

00:01:05.300 i had been sleeping on the couch we really were not getting along very well a friend of mine had

00:01:11.420 told me that you know it's time to to leave and i said no no no i gotta stick it out i just got

00:01:18.440 into this house we have to we have to figure out a way to make it work so my yeah we're not

00:01:24.900 biologically designed to see this many hot men and then like the men in front of us we just don't do

00:01:31.340 well social media's kind of cooked us came home late one night he said he'd been working late

00:01:36.420 he i was in the bedroom at least you guys know though before they would have just been tortured

00:01:40.200 by their wives and thought oh she loves me you at least know that women hate you i think it's

00:01:44.860 better to know how women feel about you than live a lie actually and he walked into the bedroom and

00:01:48.960 he greeted me with the words I think we should separate and at first I was really mad I was

00:01:55.460 furious I got up I took off my rings I threw them into my jewelry box I said what are you doing how

00:02:01.200 could you make this decision without me he told me that he'd been talking to his mom about it his mom

00:02:06.600 thought it was a good idea I was really his mom hated her right mothers know when the daughter 1.00

00:02:11.400 in-law is a bitch agreed that he was discussing our marriage with his mother I found out later 1.00

00:02:15.740 it wasn't his mother it was his girlfriend that he'd been talking to but anyway i was really mad 1.00

00:02:20.620 oh so he was cheating with younger hotter more pleasant i stormed out of the room i went down

00:02:25.660 the hall i walked into our office i sat down in the office chair in front of the computer the

00:02:30.300 lights were out this desktop dell was just glowing so everything was blue and uh he followed me and

00:02:37.900 he stood there in the doorway to the office and he was illuminated by that blue light from the

00:02:43.580 the computer and he said to me isn't this what you want don't you hate me and in that moment it

00:02:49.340 was like a light bulb went off in my head and i realized how right he was yeah she did hate him

00:02:56.180 right and she was torturing him and that's the thing a lot of times they say to stick it out but

00:03:00.260 have you ever been with a woman that hates you it's torture you can't make her not hate you

00:03:05.540 might as well just get on to the next um and stay with her until as long as she likes you 1.00

00:03:10.300 and I looked at him and I said yeah I do hate you and we agreed at that moment

00:03:18.100 that we needed to end our marriage and from that moment on I could stop hating

00:03:25.840 my husband because he was no longer my husband I was no longer trapped in this

00:03:30.940 miserable marriage with him he was my partner in untangling this thing and we

00:03:35.980 were releasing each other so that we could go our separate ways and and live

00:03:39.520 our lives the way that we wanted to. And I didn't have to hate him anymore. That's great. It's like

00:03:45.740 no second husband. Well, take that Elsys. Okay. Yeah. Usually when we hate you guys, it says more

00:03:51.800 about us. It's really, we just don't like anybody. Have you seen like our friends? I mean, we go

00:03:57.240 through so many friends. You know what I mean? Like we hate each other. It's just, it's not even

00:04:02.380 you guys. Don't take it personal. I still stand by the fact that my husband is the ugliest man

00:04:07.880 that i have ever met five years into our marriage if you are single i would she say that right now

00:04:13.120 it's because you want to be attracted to your partner and that is just not realistic i don't 0.99

00:04:18.100 know how many times women on this app are going to have to say it find an ugly ass man yeah because 1.00

00:04:23.320 you're going to use him for resources the only leverage men have is women's attraction to them 1.00

00:04:28.180 and being charming unfortunately in this environment because you can't hold money over

00:04:32.320 their head how embarrassing is this why is she saying this publicly and marry him and i'm not 0.97

00:04:37.800 talking about a guy that just needs a little brush up okay i'm talking about a terminally

00:04:41.640 unattractive yeah because she can't get the you know there's winners and losers in the game of 1.00

00:04:45.240 love and women that can't get better men and they can't be more likable or better looking

00:04:50.520 they just tell people they just tell the women to settle you know man i sleep and then i actually

00:04:56.620 think it's terrible for both because then they just torture each other i mask at night so that

00:05:00.920 i have time in the morning to mentally prepare before i make eye contact with my husband

00:05:04.520 but here i am married and you're not so who's laughing yeah and so again she gets an ego boost 0.92

00:05:12.280 from saying that she's married that's why you know a lot of women are married but they're not wives 1.00

00:05:16.620 so the the title doesn't really mean much anymore but again women care about titles and status and 1.00

00:05:22.840 not just like being good people she's a good person she wouldn't embarrass her husband on

00:05:27.040 the internet a woman grows to dislike or hate her husband in a marriage please understand

00:05:32.940 the only person who is responsible for that is her husband right it has nothing at all to do

00:05:39.840 with her friends with her family with random women and so that's what happens is women go 1.00

00:05:46.280 like online for help and again everyone's trying to sell us something nobody's going to be honest

00:05:51.560 with us so all of these divorce coaches are going to come up that just want to take all these women's 1.00

00:05:56.980 money and tell them what they want to hear because that's how you make money and online talking about

00:06:02.220 their own personal experiences inside of their own dysfunctional marriages. It has nothing to do with

00:06:08.960 coaches. I don't know who you're talking about. I'm not a coach. I'm just an asshole with a phone

00:06:14.500 who talks about her personal experiences. Yeah, well, it doesn't matter if it's a coach or 1.00

00:06:19.240 like whatever. It's the hive mind, right? And the hive mind is always going to tell women 1.00

00:06:23.020 that they're right because a lot of people are trying to take our money or women aren't never, 1.00

00:06:28.080 we're like we're never brutally honest with each other online to support other women and help

00:06:33.700 validate their own experiences which means if a woman hates her husband that's her experience

00:06:41.520 i am here talking about how i hated my husband and the comments on this video that talk about

00:06:49.280 why women don't have intimacy with their husbands because they married average men that they don't 0.99

00:06:56.300 really like and they want a hotter better guy in some way they'll find some deficiency it's not you

00:07:02.340 guys they don't like their husbands and there's many personal stories of those women's experiences

00:07:11.180 of why they grew to dislike or hate their husband and why they were completely repulsed by their

00:07:17.400 husband it's not because of what they heard their neighbor say what they heard their sister say what

00:07:23.780 they heard their friend say on a girl's night when a woman starts to hate her husband it is

00:07:29.700 completely the fault of her husband well what about when the why is it that women they blame the 0.97

00:07:35.680 husband when the woman hates the husband and when the husband hates her they blame the husband like

00:07:40.280 everything's always the husband's fault and trying to help me while i'm struggling with like nausea

00:07:44.100 and all these symptoms that he's been offering to like cuddle with me and just like have me lay with

00:07:47.600 him why like why do you okay so when women hate their husbands and they get pregnant it's because 1.00

00:07:52.220 they are not happy with the genetic pool that they chose to reproduce with to be a support

00:07:57.100 system but for some reason the last few you can't undo it like you can't make her like you i've been

00:08:03.000 like low-key like avoiding him a couple of weeks ago i was hugging him and it just seemed off i

00:08:09.240 know what it was but i was kind of like just like and then i was noticing i was like i feel like he

00:08:13.700 just like like smells like it was just bothering me and my finger on it like it's not like he's

00:08:18.880 like stinky but i'm like like repulsed by his scent oh my god like does this mean i don't love

00:08:23.720 my husband anymore like again what if he said this on the internet about her she would she 0.89

00:08:29.080 would kill him he would be on the local news but women feel the need to not only like our mating 1.00

00:08:35.540 strategy is enacted into law also women have to do a victory lap and throw it in their faces a sign 0.95

00:08:43.160 like the 10 signs that you need to go and get a divorce and i felt so guilty and yeah and there's

00:08:48.600 all this literature that whenever women feel like this it'll just tell the women that they're right 0.99

00:08:53.560 and that they should divorce their husbands so bad and i just told him and i was like i love you so 0.94

00:08:59.480 much and i don't think that it's you but i'm not quite sure but you just stink to me like your

00:09:05.320 smell is just i need to keep avoiding it i felt so bad like the worst wife ever you felt bad why 0.64

00:09:12.360 are you smiling like look at she's getting joy out of you know saying that i mean he's like wow

00:09:16.760 and he's like that's normal it's like it's pregnancy and i looked on a bunch of pregnancy

00:09:20.680 forums and saw that other people were talking about this as well and how women were literally 0.87

00:09:24.440 like holding their breaths while they were like kissing their husbands and stuff and then i did

00:09:27.640 that post on instagram asking people what their like weird pregnancy symptom was and no one said

00:09:32.200 the same symptom so then i got concerned again i was like is this like just a me thing when women 1.00

00:09:36.440 are unsure they go to the group hate my husband by women that post their husbands online are trying

00:09:41.560 trying to get confirmation from the group that their husband's awesome but i guess i'm being 0.97

00:09:45.660 told that this is normal all right let's see all right let's series of shit that people don't tell 0.97

00:09:50.700 you about pregnancy but i'm gonna tell you anyone else just hate their husband i did i found myself 0.96

00:09:56.500 googling why do i hate my husband when i'm pregnant because you're not happy with the

00:10:02.020 quality of genes you're reproducing with it was something hormonal but that man would breathe 0.90

00:10:06.380 and it was the wrong way everything he did just annoyed the shit out of me and i was like oh my 0.84

00:10:12.320 god what have i done and i googled and everyone was like yeah i didn't like my husband either

00:10:16.980 i was like oh all right so maybe it's normal and then the baby was here my hormones settled and

00:10:22.300 most women aren't going to be happy with who they reproduce with like time again so is that like 1.00

00:10:26.500 she's pregnant she's thinking about the genetics the kids there now she needs someone to take care 1.00

00:10:30.820 the kid so now she's okay with him he's still here we're good but if you're pregnant and you're 1.00

00:10:36.740 looking at your husband or significant other and you're like dear god you annoy me you're not alone

00:10:42.580 what an l all right let's see because usually it's the husband's just not attractive

00:10:46.500 nowhere to be found this husband on tiktok nowhere to be found okay well all right not a good sign

00:10:54.020 anyways guys let me know what you think of the comments did your wife act really poorly towards 1.00

00:10:58.900 to you when you were pregnant let me know in the comments like the video subscribe to the channel

00:11:02.060 and i'll see you next time

Pearl - February 25, 2026

The Women Who Hate Their Husbands Finally Admit It

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