Pearl - Their Husband's Left THEM!

00:00:00.000 they've been married for nine years okay wait if she says this story what do you think's the actual

00:00:06.080 story what up guys welcome to my reaction series so i love it when men leave their wives uh because

00:00:12.160 you know it takes a lot for a man to leave so you must have been pretty insufferable for him to

00:00:18.080 leave so anyways i really like seeing men grow a pair and divorcing their insufferable wives so

00:00:24.560 i'd love to see an increase in this it's been literally hopped on a train and left me two days

00:00:28.960 after i gave birth to our daughter what did you do in that two days ma'am like what did you do in

00:00:35.560 that two days i remember being told they found our vehicle at a train station and i remember when i

00:00:41.320 gave birth he was overly nice and it all kind of makes sense now because at the time he had this

00:00:47.160 huge plan to hop on a train and leave me shortly after i gave birth to our daughter he was gone

00:00:52.760 for about a month and he blocked me so that i couldn't talk to him and he was staying with his

00:00:57.600 best friend at the time I was in contact with and we would talk and he would always tell me that he

00:01:02.560 had no idea where he was at but we couldn't find out where he went for the longest time come to

00:01:06.960 find out he went all the way across the country I remember feeling so hopeless it was probably one

00:01:13.080 of the most depressing moments of my life because I was so young I was so terrified to raise a child

00:01:18.900 on my own and my expectation was to raise a child with my husband and have a small family and I also

00:01:25.960 remember when he called me about a month later and i thought the whole time that i just wanted

00:01:30.900 him back when he came back i could barely even look at him so it was a toxic relationship yeah

00:01:36.260 i mean he probably just thought that this was going to be hell on earth and bounce some men 0.75

00:01:40.260 actually uh grow a pair and leave so good on him you know i'm just going to assume she was 1.00

00:01:46.160 insufferable third 22 years into our marriage we woke up spooning just like every other night 0.95

00:01:54.620 for the past 22 years and we enjoyed being married that particular morning. Then we get up to face

00:02:03.300 the day and get ready. It's summer so no school and my husband was a horse trainer. He was getting

00:02:12.660 ready to leave and I asked is she going to be at the show this weekend, the horse show. He looked

00:02:21.040 at me in disgust, like, not this again. I said, well, is she going to be there? Because I don't

00:02:28.400 want our son there. If she's going to be there, you don't need to be hanging around with her.

00:02:33.720 I don't even remember what he told me, but I'm sure it was a lie. All he wanted to do was get

00:02:38.800 out of the house and get to the barn. Our marriage was on the line. He needed to be a father to these

00:02:44.040 three sons that we had. They were 11, 12 and 13. So he went on to the barn. And then later on that

00:02:51.560 day, I took the boys to the movie. I got home, went into the bathroom to grab my tennis shoes,

00:02:59.360 to go back out, to go walking with my friend. And there was a note in the bathroom. I make up

00:03:07.880 make it mirror and i thought oh he's he left me a note how sweet like who doesn't love getting a

00:03:17.440 note from their husband right uh-oh and so i opened it and i couldn't believe what i was reading

00:03:24.680 went something like i'm leaving don't try to find me don't try to contact me don't contact my

00:03:31.680 parents just let me be he went on to say how i deserve so much better than him should find 0.76

00:03:39.100 someone else that means that you don't deserve better and you're insufferable and move on yeah

00:03:45.100 because men they don't correct women they're not honest with women ever racist i have the most 0.98

00:03:51.000 insane story that i need to tell i need what you think is going on this is crazy a friend of mine

00:03:57.180 on february 12th decided that she was gonna go get tacos for dinner really quick she had been

00:04:02.140 working all day her husband had been golfing and she was like hey i'm starving i'm heading like

00:04:08.340 10 minutes away to go get tacos i'll be back in a second he texted her out of nowhere and said i'm

00:04:12.840 leaving and i'm not coming home tonight and then blocks her cell phone he doesn't come home oh that

00:04:17.580 is diabolical he doesn't come home for two weeks i bet he found her cheating and he blocks her on

00:04:23.020 phone the only way she can communicate with him is like emailing him after two weeks he shows up

00:04:27.900 and the only thing he says to her as she's like you know ready to have like a very serious topic

00:04:31.740 what where have you been what's going on he goes oh i got a job and he was like being like really

00:04:36.620 nice about this job and all this stuff and she's like uh maybe we need to talk about the fact that

00:04:40.780 you've been gone for two weeks where you've been and like what is going on and you did this all

00:04:45.020 via text message and it blocks me he goes oh yeah about that i just don't think we're compatible

00:04:49.820 they've been married for nine years okay wait if she says this story what do you think's the

00:04:55.420 actual story i think that's what we need to do when women tell stories is we need to get like

00:05:00.220 a panel of men that have dated women for a while to tell us what is the real story together for

00:05:05.500 11. i have no autonomy in this marriage and we have to sell this house by june because the mortgage

00:05:11.100 is going up and i don't feel like paying the taxes so yeah sounds good also if you're not

00:05:15.900 going to give me one of the dogs they have two dogs she was like i'm not separating the dogs

00:05:19.100 he's like fine they're your financial responsibility i don't want them benny tells her i'm moving to

00:05:24.460 greenville i got an apartment that's where i'm for reference we live in charles with what money he

00:05:29.660 also didn't have a job this entire time and she was just like the complete breadwinner of the 0.95

00:05:33.900 entire like household luckily they don't probably demasculating him kids because this would have

00:05:38.780 been a absolute then basically he says to her like you've got to get out of the house while

00:05:44.140 it's on the market she has the two dogs okay so it's not so easy to just find a place to live now

00:05:50.380 he's living in greenville and he all of a sudden hands over his she's like listen i need all your

00:05:58.060 financial records they have like separate bank accounts but like she is he has access to her

00:06:04.060 social security number like anyways he was like she was like i can subpoena for it or you can just

00:06:07.660 give it to me for free so he hands them over and she doesn't even get all of it she's like i

00:06:11.260 definitely didn't get all of it 40 something thousand dollars worth of debt credit card debt 1.00

00:06:15.500 again she was to go get a taco and comes back and there's no husband and her husband has her blocked 0.93

00:06:21.180 so he hires a lawyer so he definitely has a lawyer and she's now trying to find one for herself

00:06:26.140 because she needs to protect her business and everything else because he's already like kind

00:06:29.500 of said that he was full of money because he invested like probably five dollars uh so yeah

00:06:36.300 he's living in greenville we don't know what he's doing he works remote so you tell me what

00:06:41.420 you think lastly if there are any divorce attorneys who are sure so many women um have

00:06:46.860 starter husbands he has starter wife and he you know built himself up and then decided that he

00:06:54.060 was gonna go find his real wife so let's see this lady your husband left you i get it my husband

00:07:01.500 been left me too. So what's next? Well, you have some options here. Option number one is you can

00:07:07.640 lay down and die. Numb the pain, just allow your kids to watch you literally die. Now, sure, 1.00

00:07:15.320 obviously you need to grieve, cry, all the things, but there's something called what I call a toxic

00:07:21.360 cry and a washing cry. The toxic cry is when you just wallow and victimize yourself and blame your

00:07:27.340 husband for every single little thing. And a washing cry is you're releasing the trauma,

00:07:34.060 the toxicity that was in your life and your marriage. And that's needs to be washed out.

00:07:38.640 Obviously option number two, surrender it completely to the Lord. You want to have peace

00:07:43.540 and joy, regardless of the circumstances, regardless of what's going on around you,

00:07:47.800 regardless of how messed up the circumstances may be. Surrender it to the Lord. That's your option.

00:07:53.780 that is the best option trust me when i say that they'll say surrender to the lord but they will

00:07:58.740 never say obedience you know what i mean they won't obey i'm gonna do this without the lord

00:08:05.020 without surrendering it to him so you're about to enter into your wilderness season and you can

00:08:10.300 definitely prolong your wilderness season just like the israelites did or you can allow the lord

00:08:16.240 to work through you by surrendering it all. And I mean like face in the carpet, snot crying, 0.95

00:08:24.280 surrendering it to him. It's going to be a hard road. I'm not going to lie to you,

00:08:28.580 but this is when we learn. This is when we actually grow. So what are you going to decide to do?

00:08:35.640 Here are some things that I wish I would. All right, let's see what this lady, I see why you 1.00

00:08:40.580 left you you're overweight to go my husband my partner for life i thought of five years

00:08:48.420 decided he wasn't happy anymore and left um and as they're talking i want you guys to say what

00:08:56.300 is the real story he decided he wasn't happy um i nagged him incessantly maybe you put in the

00:09:01.700 comments it was a normal day he woke up saying his knees hurted um it was the day after mother's day

00:09:08.700 well at least you didn't do it on mother we had an argument about how he loaded the dishwasher

00:09:14.600 oh see i was right i was right about the nagging and next thing you know he's gone

00:09:21.280 and two days later i got a text message saying he was done

00:09:26.360 so now it's the end of the month i'm trying to figure out rent and my bills and all kinds of

00:09:38.020 stuff and my kids are out of school and i have four kids and it's gonna be two months of me 0.96

00:09:45.780 trying to hide all these emotions that i'm going through but every day it's a goddamn roller coaster 0.79

00:09:52.020 and i'm trying to hold together and i have a five-month-old and i have a die-back daughter 0.97

00:09:58.340 an autistic child

00:10:03.140 i'm just going through a lot and i would appreciate it if you just like or comment

00:10:07.860 or stay to watch this video it would help me a lot because i'm trying to figure out

00:10:15.220 what to do with my life right now again 0.99

00:10:22.260 please stop crying baby yeah again um women take men for granted and they don't think they'll leave 0.78

00:10:28.740 and then when they do then all of a sudden it's oh he was so awful and so mean and blah blah blah

00:10:36.180 so anyways um put in the comments what you think the real story was in all these like the video

00:10:40.880 subscribe thank you so much for watching and i'll see you next time

Pearl - May 25, 2026

Their Husband's Left THEM!

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