Pearl - October 10, 2025


This Is How Men End Up Paying For Every Broke Woman


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Length

8 minutes

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167.31932

Word count

1,467

Sentence count

149

Harmful content

Misogyny

48

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Toxicity

30

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Hate speech

32

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In this episode, we talk about why men accept terrible deals in relationships and why women should have a bad deal in a relationship. We also talk about how women should not have bad deals and why men should have good ones.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Today we're going to talk about why men accept terrible deals in relationships.
00:00:06.600 Now, you might think, I would never accept that.
00:00:10.660 And that is a common trope that I've heard men in my experience interviewing a thousand people.
00:00:16.240 Many men would say, I will not accept a woman with X, Y, and Z.
00:00:19.900 And I would think they meant it.
00:00:22.040 But much like women, when they say they won't, that they're different than other girls, 1.00
00:00:27.220 they don't always, you know, what they say doesn't match what they do.
00:00:31.000 My observation was that a lot of times the guys that said, I will not accept that, did in fact accept that.
00:00:38.560 So what happens is, we're going to divide this into three categories.
00:00:42.820 The mids, hot people, uggos. 0.98
00:00:46.960 Okay, so we're going to start with the men. 0.94
00:00:50.840 So women only think like 20% of men are hot.
00:00:54.760 So let's put two chads here. 0.97
00:00:58.360 Now, hot is a little bit more fluid for women. 1.00
00:01:02.820 So like comedians, for example, may be ugly, but they're funny.
00:01:07.780 So then we start to see them as hot.
00:01:10.260 You know, guys with microphones, they could like say anything.
00:01:14.080 And we're like, ooh, microphone.
00:01:15.320 Now they're hot.
00:01:16.460 So this is contextual a little bit.
00:01:19.180 A guy we might not find attractive.
00:01:21.380 Then he goes behind a bar. 0.95
00:01:23.020 Then all of a sudden we want to bang him.
00:01:24.320 I don't, I don't make the rules.
00:01:25.660 I just tell you what they are.
00:01:26.860 Now, these are the mid men.
00:01:28.360 These are guys that are normal looking, normal with like charming women.
00:01:34.780 You know, they're just, I would say like average men.
00:01:38.100 So let's say there's four of these.
00:01:41.740 Actually, I think more accurate.
00:01:43.180 We're going to make three average men. 0.97
00:01:44.800 And then you got the rest of them.
00:01:46.300 These are the guys that are left out.
00:01:47.960 We're going to be frowning.
00:01:49.520 Aw.
00:01:51.120 Aw. 0.96
00:01:52.240 You know, I'm too ugly to get in the game. 0.98
00:01:55.560 Sad. 0.98
00:01:56.360 All right.
00:01:56.980 So now for women, we're going to divide it here. 1.00
00:02:00.960 So we're going to make a nice chart.
00:02:03.240 Now we're going to have the hot women. 1.00
00:02:05.520 And I'm actually going to have a third category, but what you'll see.
00:02:08.980 So this is just looks alone to start.
00:02:12.160 So she might be hot. 1.00
00:02:14.500 These are like the hot, let's say like 20 year old women. 1.00
00:02:17.740 You know, we got the hot women here. 1.00
00:02:20.600 Now there's the hot women, but. 1.00
00:02:22.980 So maybe like hot, hot people I'm putting as eight pluses.
00:02:29.820 Mids I'm putting as four to 6.5 to seven.
00:02:35.020 Maybe I'll do seven, eight pluses.
00:02:36.640 Yeah, fine.
00:02:37.640 And the ugos, sub fours.
00:02:40.180 There could be a hot woman, but she's got like 100K of debt. 1.00
00:02:44.360 So, you know, her initial looks, we're not going to take away from her.
00:02:48.380 She is really hot, but she's got $100,000 in debt, you know. 1.00
00:02:53.680 Then we have another hot woman. 1.00
00:02:55.480 She's hot, but she's got a kid. 1.00
00:02:58.260 So over here are the hot women, but. 1.00
00:03:01.400 And then we got the mids.
00:03:02.480 And it's the same kind of thing, right?
00:03:04.160 Because men are, it's a lot more unanimous, like the looks. 0.84
00:03:10.960 It changes based on the context.
00:03:13.220 Like a guy could be mid in one context, but really attractive in another.
00:03:16.500 And then the mids, but, you know.
00:03:21.600 And then I'm just going to put the belugas. 1.00
00:03:24.040 We're just going to, yeah, these are the fat women, obviously. 1.00
00:03:28.280 So these are the circles. 1.00
00:03:32.840 These are the ugly. 0.99
00:03:33.820 Let's give her a big nose. 1.00
00:03:35.880 And she's fat. 1.00
00:03:39.000 Okay. 0.98
00:03:39.560 So these are all the women. 0.99
00:03:40.840 These are the guys.
00:03:41.980 There's more women than men on the planet. 1.00
00:03:43.980 So maybe there's a little bit more.
00:03:45.780 So the men, they kind of are looking at the menu. 0.97
00:03:48.380 And the problem is the women keep ruining themselves. 1.00
00:03:53.060 Like we might have a mid, right?
00:03:54.760 And they think, this guy thinks, ooh, I'll take the mid.
00:03:58.240 But then, you know, she ruins herself a little bit. 0.78
00:04:02.260 You know, she has a kid. 0.55
00:04:03.940 She gains 20 pounds. 0.92
00:04:05.860 And now she's a mid butt. 1.00
00:04:09.140 And then we have, you know, a mid that may be turned into a fat chick. 1.00
00:04:13.520 She becomes a sub four. 0.98
00:04:16.140 And men realize that in order to get the mids without a butt or a hot chick, 0.99
00:04:23.240 there is just a cost they have to put up with.
00:04:26.620 And the hot men might not put up with it, right? 0.98
00:04:29.300 They'll bang this girl. 1.00
00:04:31.000 And she tries to broadcast their relationship.
00:04:34.060 And he's like, let me go bang.
00:04:36.760 So the women, we bang this guy. 1.00
00:04:39.400 You know, like I know a guy who goes through 100 women a year.
00:04:43.120 100.
00:04:43.900 So he banged all of them, right?
00:04:45.840 He's banging, banging, banging, banging, banging, banging, you know.
00:04:48.940 Goes, runs through the women. 1.00
00:04:52.780 And so you might think, well, who's going to do that?
00:04:55.540 Who's going to put up with it?
00:04:56.480 Well, it's called the lonely men here.
00:04:59.620 Because Tom here, he might say, I am not putting up with an OnlyFans 0.99
00:05:04.400 just so I can be with a hot chick. 1.00
00:05:07.220 But Henry says, hey, I'll do it. 0.99
00:05:09.480 Henry says, shut up, Tom. 0.96
00:05:14.520 And then we got Dick over here. 1.00
00:05:16.480 And Dick says, OK, I just want this mid right here.
00:05:20.320 And she doesn't have any debt.
00:05:22.000 She's not fat.
00:05:22.880 I'll take her.
00:05:23.600 I'll take her.
00:05:25.360 That one.
00:05:25.920 I want that one.
00:05:26.520 And she's like, well, could we just do a little bit of a tick-tock?
00:05:29.320 And at first he says, no.
00:05:30.760 And she says, please.
00:05:33.180 And then he bangs her a few times.
00:05:34.860 And he's like, and then all of a sudden he's on a tick-tock relationship, right?
00:05:42.500 So what happens is the more men are iced out, like the less men that are in the hot category,
00:05:47.780 which is becoming less and less every year, the worse women get, 1.00
00:05:51.820 which women are getting fatter and fatter every year, so there's less mids to pay. 1.00
00:05:55.640 The more rare beauty becomes, the more men are willing to accept in order to get beauty.
00:06:03.040 Now, you might say, but Pearl, what about character? 0.96
00:06:05.420 Well, you can get some character from the fat women. 1.00
00:06:08.900 So not to say, and you know what?
00:06:13.220 The women that do have character, the line for them is out the door. 1.00
00:06:18.200 You know, because even the hot men at some point will say, OK, I just want a cute girl 0.99
00:06:23.300 with some character, I'll take her.
00:06:25.240 And Tom is like, no, no, that's my girlfriend.
00:06:28.520 I met her in high school.
00:06:30.500 And then, you know, we got Tyrone or we got Brad over here that says, no, I want that one.
00:06:36.900 I'm going to take your girl. 1.00
00:06:37.860 And Brad and Tom over here saying, no, no, no, don't take my girlfriend. 0.91
00:06:43.400 Don't, I have her. 0.90
00:06:44.760 I got her first.
00:06:46.520 And Brad's like, you know I can just take your girl.
00:06:49.980 And then she'll gaslight, right?
00:06:52.760 She'll say, I would never leave as she's actively leaving.
00:06:58.000 So again, then this guy still, he runs through all these women.
00:07:03.360 And then the men are just forced to accept it.
00:07:05.920 That's why the average age of marriage keeps going up because men will accept it. 0.99
00:07:10.340 That's why IVF is being created because men will accept it. 1.00
00:07:13.880 Now, it might not be you.
00:07:15.180 I hope it's not.
00:07:16.140 But somebody will.
00:07:18.460 Somebody will.
00:07:19.020 And the quality of the people accepting it keeps getting higher and higher because the government needs men to accept it.
00:07:29.480 And society needs men to accept it to keep the economy going because who is going to pay for all these broads? 1.00
00:07:34.960 We can't pay for ourselves.
00:07:35.980 So someone's got to do it.
00:07:39.380 Yeah, and then, you know, one girl gets too damaged and then, you know, it just keeps getting more rare.
00:07:46.760 You know, one beautiful girl gets too damaged from Tyrone, Brad, whatever Chad she went for.
00:07:53.580 Because women will always go for Chad when given the chance, if they think they have a good chance of locking him down, which we're delusional. 1.00
00:08:02.220 So we do think that.
00:08:03.940 So then the more women get ruined, now there's like two girls to choose from. 1.00
00:08:09.800 They both want Brad.
00:08:11.720 Brad might take one.
00:08:13.060 And then, really, the men here are like, all right, I want a kid.
00:08:18.600 I guess I will accept whatever in order to get children.
00:08:22.000 I want children. 1.00
00:08:23.240 Men don't have the balls. 1.00
00:08:24.900 Like, women have the balls to do IVF by themselves. 1.00
00:08:28.440 If women are losers and we cannot get a man, we'll go buy one. 1.00
00:08:34.400 Men won't do it for whatever reason. 1.00
00:08:36.080 They won't get a surrogate.
00:08:37.020 Even though we have made their lives living hell on earth, we have made their, like, if they choose to reproduce with an American woman. 0.99