Pearl - October 09, 2025


The Tradwife Bait and Switch - EVERY SINGLE TIME

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Steph Curry Aisha Curry Lily Phillips Pearl Cardi B's Be Careful Ryan Carson Curry Hannah Montana Ray Allen Nala Ray Daughter Drake
Modern Women Are Having Their Hoe Phase at 40 How Conservatives TRICK YOU into Marrying Modern Women

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Length

16 minutes

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155.98

Word count

2,532

Sentence count

242

Harmful content

Misogyny

26

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Toxicity

5

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27

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Steph and Ayesha Curry have one of the most enduring and public celebrity relationships in sports. Their story began as a wholesome teenage friendship at church and evolved into a partnership built on faith, family, communication, and mutual support through fame, success, and career highs.

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00:00:00.000 Wrong take. She was never wholesome, just presenting to me. Where are the wholesome
00:00:03.660 women then? Where are they? Where are they? Let's talk about hoes. We love hoes. And the 1.00
00:00:10.100 newest ho is Ayesha Curry. She's getting back into the streets. But before we get into all 1.00
00:00:15.980 that, make sure you guys like the video and subscribe to the channel. Showtimes are going
00:00:21.500 to have to be all over the place. Sorry. Some days I have stuff, some days I don't. I hate
00:00:27.800 to say it. You guys are just going to have to roll with it. But I'll do a show pretty
00:00:34.360 much every day or film something. Okay. So today we're talking about Steph and Ayesha
00:00:42.260 Curry's relationship. So Steph Curry, the NBA superstar and golden state warrior, point
00:00:49.280 guard, and Ayesha Curry, an actress, author, and entrepreneur, cookbook writer, have one
00:00:54.500 of the most enduring and public celebrity relationships in sports. Their story began
00:01:00.360 as a wholesome teenage friendships at church and evolved into a partnership, partnership
00:01:07.360 built on faith, family, communication, and mutual support through fame for children and
00:01:13.340 career highs. So last show I covered the 304, right? I covered Lily Phillips, Lily Phillips,
00:01:22.920 not Lily Phillips, sorry. Nala Ray, an adult film actress that now is in the hoe to Jesus 0.99
00:01:28.600 pipeline. And one of the top comments on the video said, Pearl, Pearl, why don't you just
00:01:33.360 cover married women? But Pearl, get these married women in here that are having all these kids 1.00
00:01:40.080 and married young. Sure. You guys asked, you guys asked, why not? And you guys could tell
00:01:48.280 me, is this traditional enough for you? Because, you know, the pushback I get is, you know,
00:01:53.680 Pearl, but it's just those types of women. It's just those women there. You were just making 1.00
00:01:59.720 this up. You're drawing attention to the bad women. What about the good women? Well, it always 1.00
00:02:04.580 so happens that whenever you point out a good woman to me, she still has made a lot of modern
00:02:09.160 choices, you know? And I also would like to say, I personally separate people's romantic
00:02:16.200 decisions from who they are as a character. You know, Trump's been married three times. I could
00:02:20.600 say that he is not that good romantically, right? But now his third marriage seems to be going better,
00:02:27.920 but I could hold that and use it against him. But, you know, there's women that they might be nice 1.00
00:02:33.380 people. They might be good people overall, but they just suck romantically. There's winners and 1.00
00:02:38.280 losers in this game. So while navigating insecurities like Aisha's occasional feelings of being
00:02:44.320 overshadowed by Steph's fame, despite occasional rumors, they've emphasized therapy date nights and
00:02:53.380 prioritizing their bond. Aisha has described their key to success as communication and always dating
00:02:59.000 each other. Well, Steph calls her his everything. Their relationship has inspired songs like Cardi B's
00:03:06.200 Be Careful and serves as a model of black love in Hollywood. So they first met. Now I'm going to ask
00:03:13.700 you, is this marrying young enough? Is this good enough for you guys? Is this trad enough? Is this a good
00:03:21.180 enough example? I'm asking, if she met Steph at 14 years old at a youth church group in Charlotte,
00:03:29.260 North Carolina, Aisha subtly flirted with Steph, approaching him post-service and walking away, 0.69
00:03:36.900 leaving an impression. They became friends but didn't date yet. After high school, they lost
00:03:43.820 touch. Aisha moves to LA to pursue acting and modeling. And Steph attends Davidson College,
00:03:53.260 rising in basketball. Back in 2023, I was put on a government watch list for speaking out about men's
00:04:00.100 issues. The government spent who knows how much money trying to shut me up. And honestly, to some extent,
00:04:05.880 it worked. I was demonetized on YouTube. I had three Instagram accounts deleted, seven TikToks
00:04:11.280 accounts wiped out, and I was forced to delete three years worth of work, videos, interviews,
00:04:16.620 everything. The more honest I was, the harder I was punished. And eventually, I had to shut down my
00:04:21.680 show, move back home, and completely start over. But I'm not giving up. This time, we're doing things
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00:04:48.340 that fights back against censorship. Now, let's talk bigger picture. Why don't we have true free speech
00:04:54.740 in America anymore? Welcome to the female economy, where women make 80% of consumer buying decisions. 1.00
00:05:00.820 Have you ever wondered why women always seem to get their way? Well, here's the truth. Men tend to 1.00
00:05:07.300 care about the free flow of ideas. Men can separate an idea from the person who said it. But women, 0.98
00:05:13.360 on the other hand, have learned that they can control what gets said by controlling what gets
00:05:18.160 funded. Platforms like YouTube have one goal. They want to make money. And if that means catering to
00:05:23.240 the majority female audience, they will. That's why being a conservative creator today feels impossible. 1.00
00:05:28.720 This isn't just about me. It's about the future of online speech. With the Audacity Network,
00:05:33.880 me and my community will never have to worry about being silenced again.
00:05:38.320 They reconnect at the ESPY Awards in LA and hit it off. They start dating long distance with stuff
00:05:45.840 making frequent trips. Their first kiss attempt fails hilariously. But by 2009, they're fully together,
00:05:56.080 and they strengthen their bond through faith and shared values. Steph gets drafted by the Warriors'
00:06:01.960 number seven draft pick and proposes to Aisha in a private moment, though the official engagement is
00:06:09.860 later that year. The wedding. At 23, Steph was 23. Aisha, 22. They married at the same Charlotte church
00:06:20.780 where they met with 400 guests. They honeymooned in France, picking names for their future kids.
00:06:26.500 Their first child was born in 2012. And Aisha pauses acting to focus on motherhood.
00:06:36.060 Riley steals the spotlight at Steph's 2015 post-game press conference.
00:06:41.620 Daughter, Ryan Carson Curry, was born in 2015. Steph wins a unanimous MVP and first NBA title award back in
00:06:55.180 2015. Back-to-back MVP. Aisha releases her cookbook, The Seasoned Life. So this is a trad wife putting out 0.98
00:07:05.440 cookbooks. And I don't think you guys understand. I understand the public perception of Aisha Curry
00:07:13.080 today. But you have to understand, back in the day, I mean, she was in songs. Like, I think Drake had
00:07:21.620 a song about wanting a wife like Aisha. That's how she was viewed. So how on earth could Steph have done 0.99
00:07:31.560 better? For all of you people out there that say, Steph just picked the wrong woman. He went to church.
00:07:40.780 Where did you want him to go? He got a girl at 14 years old. He knew her. He knew her from childhood.
00:07:50.440 Okay, let me share my screen. I made a PowerPoint. Actually, I'm going to go. So 2018, they have their third
00:08:00.760 child. And they have their eighth anniversary, 2019 to 2021. Where Steph breaks Ray Allen's three-point record
00:08:10.900 with Aisha posting, to God be the glory. And they attend their first Met Gala together in quarantine during
00:08:18.460 COVID. Now, it's not until 2022 where Aisha starts embarrassing him. Before that, she was a picture-perfect 1.00
00:08:29.380 wife. And I think that's why it's so interesting for people to watch. I'm going to show you. Let me share
00:08:37.260 my screen. Just, you know, how different her persona was back then. Because a lot of times, they always say
00:08:44.220 there were warning signs. And I want you to know that sometimes there are no warning signs.
00:08:50.980 There is nothing else a dude could have did. Nothing. I mean, what, what did he want to get
00:08:58.940 her straight out the womb? You know what I mean? It's like, all right, so this is my PowerPoint 0.98
00:09:03.460 called Women Change. Remember, this is her. Look at them. And I want you to understand, a lot of times
00:09:12.560 when women marry men young, marrying young, it really is not beneficial, I would argue, for most women or 0.96
00:09:18.740 most men. The reason being is, I think women have to get pumped or dumped once or twice to realize that 1.00
00:09:27.620 these men flirting with them are not going to take them seriously. I do think that's an important
00:09:34.360 thing for women, we have to understand. But unfortunately, you know, when guys get us before 1.00
00:09:39.300 the pumping and dumping, we don't get humbled at all. Now, you might say, Pearl, but do women need 1.00
00:09:45.420 to be humbled? Oh, yeah, we do. Oh, hell yeah, we need to be. The reason we need to be humbled
00:09:51.660 is because, remember, society is going to tell her that you can get anything, that you can do better,
00:09:58.400 queen. So remember, this was her, what she talked about back then. So a lot of times when women don't 1.00
00:10:04.920 have a hoe face on the front end, they will have it on the back end. And I'm going to talk about what 1.00
00:10:09.240 the red pill says about this phenomenon. So everyone's into barely wearing clothes these days,
00:10:15.600 huh? Not my style. I like to keep the good stuff covered up for the one who matters.
00:10:19.840 I mean, this is what she was doing. You know, that is a wholesome woman. 1.00
00:10:26.280 And like, I had somebody say to me the other day, that I said that body count doesn't matter.
00:10:33.080 Now, I actually believe that body count does matter when a woman isn't damaged. But in 2025,
00:10:38.760 it doesn't matter that much. What it does give men is a longer subscription. So like a woman that's 1.00
00:10:45.360 banged a bunch of dudes, your subscription is going to be pretty short, your free trial. You
00:10:50.660 know, she'll be like three months. Men can get a lot more out of a woman with a low body count. That's 1.00
00:10:57.180 why I would obviously encourage you guys to go lower. But even the women that don't have a lot 1.00
00:11:04.940 of bodies, they just have a hoe face on the back end, which is what we're going to see here. 1.00
00:11:08.840 Wrong take. She was never wholesome. Just presenting to me. Where are the wholesome women 1.00
00:11:12.980 then? Where are they? Where are they? Mileage matters. Oh, it matters. As I said, it's like you
00:11:18.940 get a longer test drive on the lower miles. But it's not a guarantee is my point. It's not a guarantee
00:11:25.740 in any way. Yeah, like there are women that are virgins and then they go bang. You know, 1.00
00:11:33.140 how do are hoes made? They start as virgins, you guys. They start as virgins and then they 1.00
00:11:40.380 see all the women doing ho shit. Just like Aisha. Okay, now this is her now. Remember her now. 1.00
00:11:52.420 Like she posted a naked picture on Instagram. Now this is her going to a Drake concert.
00:12:04.600 She's looking for her next guy. So it wasn't until obviously we do the bait and switch. So
00:12:12.200 all right, so we're gonna go through. This is the clip that's going viral right now.
00:12:18.520 Now, the more traditional a woman is required to be, the more we have a tendency to make you pay 1.00
00:12:24.920 on the back end. So the more youth and beauty we give you, the more we resent you for it later,
00:12:31.080 especially if we don't feel like we got a good deal. Now this doesn't mean we didn't get a good
00:12:36.020 deal. Obviously she got a great deal. But that doesn't change her feelings because remember,
00:12:41.880 she views Steph as the guy, the dorky guy from high school. You know, now she's in Steph's social
00:12:50.700 circle, which has men that are way more alpha, more high status. And now she wants to get their
00:12:58.200 attention. So she's whoring, obviously. I didn't want kids. I didn't want to get married. I thought 0.98
00:13:08.040 I was going to be career girl and that's it. And I had my eyes set on my goals and I was never the
00:13:16.100 little girl that like dreamt about the wedding dress and all of that. And then it happened so
00:13:20.640 early in my life. Did you talk to Steph about it? He tries to resonate with me, but he just can't.
00:13:34.040 Now, again, if we feel like we could have been more successful on our own. Now there's no evidence
00:13:41.720 that would suggest that she was really going anywhere. I think she was in like one music video. 0.99
00:13:48.280 She was in a episode of Hannah Montana. There was no evidence that this woman was destined for
00:13:54.080 stardom. I mean, child actors have a very low shelf life. If anything, she's going to have more
00:14:01.000 success as an actress because she's married to Steph if she wants to do it now. They're going to keep
00:14:05.640 casting older women in movies because young, because women love looking at older women on screen. 0.82
00:14:11.880 So there's going to be opportunity to make money. But she's just going to keep, she's just going to 1.00
00:14:19.200 keep taking credit. That's what we do best is we take credit for men's success. You know,
00:14:24.500 we're very good at it. And he also comes from a place of like, it's effing stupid. Like 1.00
00:14:30.660 he's thinking, bitch, I make a hundred bajillion dollars. We can live anywhere. We could do anything. 1.00
00:14:37.940 What more do you want? It's not true. So why? And I'm like, but wait, like, listen to how it makes
00:14:44.660 me feel. And he's like, but why does it make you feel like that? It's not real. After we got married,
00:14:50.800 we found out we were pregnant with our daughters so quickly. It, I didn't even have time to think
00:14:57.440 about what I wanted anymore. It's so interesting. I spent my entire life like trying to work towards
00:15:03.840 something and then it kind of just disappeared. And I didn't think twice about it. But after my
00:15:10.800 daughter turned one, I remember there being a shift and being like, uh, I have goals for myself.
00:15:20.080 Like this doesn't feel right. I love being a mom. That's called the bait and switch. So again,
00:15:24.800 she put his needs before hers in order to get the resources and the quality of guy she wanted. 1.00
00:15:33.960 But, um, deep down, I don't think she was honest with herself that she didn't really want to be a
00:15:38.500 wife and a mother. And a lot of times this isn't even clear to us. It's not until we have a kid that
00:15:43.500 we get like post not clarity where we, we look at the guy and we say, did I actually like him?
00:15:50.500 Do I actually, is this the guy I want to be with? And you know, even this is why men don't want to
00:15:56.000 get married. Cause if Steph Curry can't keep a woman happy, you guys think you have a chance?
00:16:01.500 too. Yeah, you don't, you don't.
00:16:10.500 Yeah.
00:16:12.500 Yeah.