Pearl - The Tradwife Bait and Switch - EVERY SINGLE TIME

00:00:00.000 Wrong take. She was never wholesome, just presenting to me. Where are the wholesome

00:00:03.660 women then? Where are they? Where are they? Let's talk about hoes. We love hoes. And the 1.00

00:00:10.100 newest ho is Ayesha Curry. She's getting back into the streets. But before we get into all 1.00

00:00:15.980 that, make sure you guys like the video and subscribe to the channel. Showtimes are going

00:00:21.500 to have to be all over the place. Sorry. Some days I have stuff, some days I don't. I hate

00:00:27.800 to say it. You guys are just going to have to roll with it. But I'll do a show pretty

00:00:34.360 much every day or film something. Okay. So today we're talking about Steph and Ayesha

00:00:42.260 Curry's relationship. So Steph Curry, the NBA superstar and golden state warrior, point

00:00:49.280 guard, and Ayesha Curry, an actress, author, and entrepreneur, cookbook writer, have one

00:00:54.500 of the most enduring and public celebrity relationships in sports. Their story began

00:01:00.360 as a wholesome teenage friendships at church and evolved into a partnership, partnership

00:01:07.360 built on faith, family, communication, and mutual support through fame for children and

00:01:13.340 career highs. So last show I covered the 304, right? I covered Lily Phillips, Lily Phillips,

00:01:22.920 not Lily Phillips, sorry. Nala Ray, an adult film actress that now is in the hoe to Jesus 0.99

00:01:28.600 pipeline. And one of the top comments on the video said, Pearl, Pearl, why don't you just

00:01:33.360 cover married women? But Pearl, get these married women in here that are having all these kids 1.00

00:01:40.080 and married young. Sure. You guys asked, you guys asked, why not? And you guys could tell

00:01:48.280 me, is this traditional enough for you? Because, you know, the pushback I get is, you know,

00:01:53.680 Pearl, but it's just those types of women. It's just those women there. You were just making 1.00

00:01:59.720 this up. You're drawing attention to the bad women. What about the good women? Well, it always 1.00

00:02:04.580 so happens that whenever you point out a good woman to me, she still has made a lot of modern

00:02:09.160 choices, you know? And I also would like to say, I personally separate people's romantic

00:02:16.200 decisions from who they are as a character. You know, Trump's been married three times. I could

00:02:20.600 say that he is not that good romantically, right? But now his third marriage seems to be going better,

00:02:27.920 but I could hold that and use it against him. But, you know, there's women that they might be nice 1.00

00:02:33.380 people. They might be good people overall, but they just suck romantically. There's winners and 1.00

00:02:38.280 losers in this game. So while navigating insecurities like Aisha's occasional feelings of being

00:02:44.320 overshadowed by Steph's fame, despite occasional rumors, they've emphasized therapy date nights and

00:02:53.380 prioritizing their bond. Aisha has described their key to success as communication and always dating

00:02:59.000 each other. Well, Steph calls her his everything. Their relationship has inspired songs like Cardi B's

00:03:06.200 Be Careful and serves as a model of black love in Hollywood. So they first met. Now I'm going to ask

00:03:13.700 you, is this marrying young enough? Is this good enough for you guys? Is this trad enough? Is this a good

00:03:21.180 enough example? I'm asking, if she met Steph at 14 years old at a youth church group in Charlotte,

00:03:29.260 North Carolina, Aisha subtly flirted with Steph, approaching him post-service and walking away, 0.69

00:03:36.900 leaving an impression. They became friends but didn't date yet. After high school, they lost

00:03:43.820 touch. Aisha moves to LA to pursue acting and modeling. And Steph attends Davidson College,

00:03:53.260 rising in basketball. Back in 2023, I was put on a government watch list for speaking out about men's

00:04:00.100 issues. The government spent who knows how much money trying to shut me up. And honestly, to some extent,

00:04:05.880 it worked. I was demonetized on YouTube. I had three Instagram accounts deleted, seven TikToks

00:04:11.280 accounts wiped out, and I was forced to delete three years worth of work, videos, interviews,

00:04:16.620 everything. The more honest I was, the harder I was punished. And eventually, I had to shut down my

00:04:21.680 show, move back home, and completely start over. But I'm not giving up. This time, we're doing things

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00:04:42.380 a network that refuses to be silent. The link is in the description. Join us and be a part of something

00:04:48.340 that fights back against censorship. Now, let's talk bigger picture. Why don't we have true free speech

00:04:54.740 in America anymore? Welcome to the female economy, where women make 80% of consumer buying decisions. 1.00

00:05:00.820 Have you ever wondered why women always seem to get their way? Well, here's the truth. Men tend to 1.00

00:05:07.300 care about the free flow of ideas. Men can separate an idea from the person who said it. But women, 0.98

00:05:13.360 on the other hand, have learned that they can control what gets said by controlling what gets

00:05:18.160 funded. Platforms like YouTube have one goal. They want to make money. And if that means catering to

00:05:23.240 the majority female audience, they will. That's why being a conservative creator today feels impossible. 1.00

00:05:28.720 This isn't just about me. It's about the future of online speech. With the Audacity Network,

00:05:33.880 me and my community will never have to worry about being silenced again.

00:05:38.320 They reconnect at the ESPY Awards in LA and hit it off. They start dating long distance with stuff

00:05:45.840 making frequent trips. Their first kiss attempt fails hilariously. But by 2009, they're fully together,

00:05:56.080 and they strengthen their bond through faith and shared values. Steph gets drafted by the Warriors'

00:06:01.960 number seven draft pick and proposes to Aisha in a private moment, though the official engagement is

00:06:09.860 later that year. The wedding. At 23, Steph was 23. Aisha, 22. They married at the same Charlotte church

00:06:20.780 where they met with 400 guests. They honeymooned in France, picking names for their future kids.

00:06:26.500 Their first child was born in 2012. And Aisha pauses acting to focus on motherhood.

00:06:36.060 Riley steals the spotlight at Steph's 2015 post-game press conference.

00:06:41.620 Daughter, Ryan Carson Curry, was born in 2015. Steph wins a unanimous MVP and first NBA title award back in

00:06:55.180 2015. Back-to-back MVP. Aisha releases her cookbook, The Seasoned Life. So this is a trad wife putting out 0.98

00:07:05.440 cookbooks. And I don't think you guys understand. I understand the public perception of Aisha Curry

00:07:13.080 today. But you have to understand, back in the day, I mean, she was in songs. Like, I think Drake had

00:07:21.620 a song about wanting a wife like Aisha. That's how she was viewed. So how on earth could Steph have done 0.99

00:07:31.560 better? For all of you people out there that say, Steph just picked the wrong woman. He went to church.

00:07:40.780 Where did you want him to go? He got a girl at 14 years old. He knew her. He knew her from childhood.

00:07:50.440 Okay, let me share my screen. I made a PowerPoint. Actually, I'm going to go. So 2018, they have their third

00:08:00.760 child. And they have their eighth anniversary, 2019 to 2021. Where Steph breaks Ray Allen's three-point record

00:08:10.900 with Aisha posting, to God be the glory. And they attend their first Met Gala together in quarantine during

00:08:18.460 COVID. Now, it's not until 2022 where Aisha starts embarrassing him. Before that, she was a picture-perfect 1.00

00:08:29.380 wife. And I think that's why it's so interesting for people to watch. I'm going to show you. Let me share

00:08:37.260 my screen. Just, you know, how different her persona was back then. Because a lot of times, they always say

00:08:44.220 there were warning signs. And I want you to know that sometimes there are no warning signs.

00:08:50.980 There is nothing else a dude could have did. Nothing. I mean, what, what did he want to get

00:08:58.940 her straight out the womb? You know what I mean? It's like, all right, so this is my PowerPoint 0.98

00:09:03.460 called Women Change. Remember, this is her. Look at them. And I want you to understand, a lot of times

00:09:12.560 when women marry men young, marrying young, it really is not beneficial, I would argue, for most women or 0.96

00:09:18.740 most men. The reason being is, I think women have to get pumped or dumped once or twice to realize that 1.00

00:09:27.620 these men flirting with them are not going to take them seriously. I do think that's an important

00:09:34.360 thing for women, we have to understand. But unfortunately, you know, when guys get us before 1.00

00:09:39.300 the pumping and dumping, we don't get humbled at all. Now, you might say, Pearl, but do women need 1.00

00:09:45.420 to be humbled? Oh, yeah, we do. Oh, hell yeah, we need to be. The reason we need to be humbled

00:09:51.660 is because, remember, society is going to tell her that you can get anything, that you can do better,

00:09:58.400 queen. So remember, this was her, what she talked about back then. So a lot of times when women don't 1.00

00:10:04.920 have a hoe face on the front end, they will have it on the back end. And I'm going to talk about what 1.00

00:10:09.240 the red pill says about this phenomenon. So everyone's into barely wearing clothes these days,

00:10:15.600 huh? Not my style. I like to keep the good stuff covered up for the one who matters.

00:10:19.840 I mean, this is what she was doing. You know, that is a wholesome woman. 1.00

00:10:26.280 And like, I had somebody say to me the other day, that I said that body count doesn't matter.

00:10:33.080 Now, I actually believe that body count does matter when a woman isn't damaged. But in 2025,

00:10:38.760 it doesn't matter that much. What it does give men is a longer subscription. So like a woman that's 1.00

00:10:45.360 banged a bunch of dudes, your subscription is going to be pretty short, your free trial. You

00:10:50.660 know, she'll be like three months. Men can get a lot more out of a woman with a low body count. That's 1.00

00:10:57.180 why I would obviously encourage you guys to go lower. But even the women that don't have a lot 1.00

00:11:04.940 of bodies, they just have a hoe face on the back end, which is what we're going to see here. 1.00

00:11:08.840 Wrong take. She was never wholesome. Just presenting to me. Where are the wholesome women 1.00

00:11:12.980 then? Where are they? Where are they? Mileage matters. Oh, it matters. As I said, it's like you

00:11:18.940 get a longer test drive on the lower miles. But it's not a guarantee is my point. It's not a guarantee

00:11:25.740 in any way. Yeah, like there are women that are virgins and then they go bang. You know, 1.00

00:11:33.140 how do are hoes made? They start as virgins, you guys. They start as virgins and then they 1.00

00:11:40.380 see all the women doing ho shit. Just like Aisha. Okay, now this is her now. Remember her now. 1.00

00:11:52.420 Like she posted a naked picture on Instagram. Now this is her going to a Drake concert.

00:12:04.600 She's looking for her next guy. So it wasn't until obviously we do the bait and switch. So

00:12:12.200 all right, so we're gonna go through. This is the clip that's going viral right now.

00:12:18.520 Now, the more traditional a woman is required to be, the more we have a tendency to make you pay 1.00

00:12:24.920 on the back end. So the more youth and beauty we give you, the more we resent you for it later,

00:12:31.080 especially if we don't feel like we got a good deal. Now this doesn't mean we didn't get a good

00:12:36.020 deal. Obviously she got a great deal. But that doesn't change her feelings because remember,

00:12:41.880 she views Steph as the guy, the dorky guy from high school. You know, now she's in Steph's social

00:12:50.700 circle, which has men that are way more alpha, more high status. And now she wants to get their

00:12:58.200 attention. So she's whoring, obviously. I didn't want kids. I didn't want to get married. I thought 0.98

00:13:08.040 I was going to be career girl and that's it. And I had my eyes set on my goals and I was never the

00:13:16.100 little girl that like dreamt about the wedding dress and all of that. And then it happened so

00:13:20.640 early in my life. Did you talk to Steph about it? He tries to resonate with me, but he just can't.

00:13:34.040 Now, again, if we feel like we could have been more successful on our own. Now there's no evidence

00:13:41.720 that would suggest that she was really going anywhere. I think she was in like one music video. 0.99

00:13:48.280 She was in a episode of Hannah Montana. There was no evidence that this woman was destined for

00:13:54.080 stardom. I mean, child actors have a very low shelf life. If anything, she's going to have more

00:14:01.000 success as an actress because she's married to Steph if she wants to do it now. They're going to keep

00:14:05.640 casting older women in movies because young, because women love looking at older women on screen. 0.82

00:14:11.880 So there's going to be opportunity to make money. But she's just going to keep, she's just going to 1.00

00:14:19.200 keep taking credit. That's what we do best is we take credit for men's success. You know,

00:14:24.500 we're very good at it. And he also comes from a place of like, it's effing stupid. Like 1.00

00:14:30.660 he's thinking, bitch, I make a hundred bajillion dollars. We can live anywhere. We could do anything. 1.00

00:14:37.940 What more do you want? It's not true. So why? And I'm like, but wait, like, listen to how it makes

00:14:44.660 me feel. And he's like, but why does it make you feel like that? It's not real. After we got married,

00:14:50.800 we found out we were pregnant with our daughters so quickly. It, I didn't even have time to think

00:14:57.440 about what I wanted anymore. It's so interesting. I spent my entire life like trying to work towards

00:15:03.840 something and then it kind of just disappeared. And I didn't think twice about it. But after my

00:15:10.800 daughter turned one, I remember there being a shift and being like, uh, I have goals for myself.

00:15:20.080 Like this doesn't feel right. I love being a mom. That's called the bait and switch. So again,

00:15:24.800 she put his needs before hers in order to get the resources and the quality of guy she wanted. 1.00

00:15:33.960 But, um, deep down, I don't think she was honest with herself that she didn't really want to be a

00:15:38.500 wife and a mother. And a lot of times this isn't even clear to us. It's not until we have a kid that

00:15:43.500 we get like post not clarity where we, we look at the guy and we say, did I actually like him?

00:15:50.500 Do I actually, is this the guy I want to be with? And you know, even this is why men don't want to

00:15:56.000 get married. Cause if Steph Curry can't keep a woman happy, you guys think you have a chance?

00:16:01.500 too. Yeah, you don't, you don't.

00:16:10.500 Yeah.

00:16:12.500 Yeah.

Pearl - October 09, 2025

The Tradwife Bait and Switch - EVERY SINGLE TIME

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