Pearl - Modern Women Are Having Their Hoe Phase at 40

00:00:00.000 what is up guys welcome to another episode of pearl daily you guys requested it you guys begged me

00:00:10.520 to cover this topic you know a lot of times i'll think to myself don't you guys want me

00:00:17.020 to cover anything else don't you want me to cover i don't know like the academics

00:00:22.500 i don't know the get get some journalists in here but you guys say no let's talk about hoes 1.00

00:00:33.960 we love hoes and the newest hoe is ayesha curry she's getting back into the streets but before 1.00

00:00:40.920 we get into all that make sure you guys like the video and subscribe to the channel um show times

00:00:46.940 are gonna have to be all over the place sorry um some days i have stuff some days i don't

00:00:52.500 I hate to say it.

00:00:54.040 You guys are just going to have to roll with it.

00:00:58.520 But I'll do a show pretty much every day or film something.

00:01:03.120 Okay.

00:01:04.520 So today we're talking about Steph and Ayesha Curry's relationship.

00:01:09.520 So Steph Curry, the NBA superstar and golden state warrior, point guard,

00:01:15.360 and Ayesha Curry, an actress, author, and entrepreneur, cookbook writer,

00:01:19.820 have one of the most enduring and public celebrity relationships in sports.

00:01:25.160 Their story began as a wholesome teenage friendships at church

00:01:30.340 and evolved into a partnership built on faith, family, communication, and mutual support.

00:01:39.860 Through fame, four children in career highs.

00:01:43.380 So last show, I covered the 304, right?

00:01:49.200 I covered Lily Phillips, um, not Lily Phillips, sorry, Nala Ray, an adult film actress that now 0.97

00:01:56.580 is in the hoe to Jesus pipeline. And one of the top comments on the video said, Pearl, Pearl, 0.91

00:02:02.800 why don't you just cover married women? But Pearl, get these married women in here 1.00

00:02:07.840 that are having all these kids and married young. Sure. You guys asked, you guys asked, why not?

00:02:15.660 and you guys could tell me is this traditional enough for you because you know the pushback i

00:02:22.780 get is you know pearl but it's just those types of women it's just those women there you were 1.00

00:02:29.260 just making this up you're drawing attention to the bad women what about the good women 1.00

00:02:33.100 well it always so happens that whenever you point out a good woman to me she still has made a lot

00:02:38.760 modern choices you know and i also would like to say i personally separate uh people's romantic

00:02:46.360 decisions from who they are as a character you know trump's been married three times i could say

00:02:50.840 that he uh is not that good romantically right but um now now his third marriage seems to be

00:02:57.400 going better but i could hold that and use it against him but you know there's women that they 1.00

00:03:02.600 might be nice people they might be good people overall but they just suck romantically there's

00:03:08.920 winners and losers in this game so um while navigating insecurities like aisha's occasional

00:03:19.640 feelings of being overshadowed by steph's fame despite occasional rumors they've emphasized

00:03:27.000 emphasized therapy date nights and prioritizing their bond. Aisha has described their key to

00:03:33.200 success as communication and always dating each other. While Steph calls her his everything.

00:03:39.260 Their relationship has inspired songs like Cardi B's Be Careful and serves as a model of black

00:03:45.580 love in Hollywood. So they first met. Now I'm going to ask you, is this marrying young enough?

00:03:51.760 Is this good enough for you guys?

00:03:54.320 Is this trout enough?

00:03:56.700 Is this a good enough example?

00:04:00.920 Is it?

00:04:06.140 I'm asking, if she met Steph at 14 years old

00:04:10.380 at a youth church group in Charlotte, North Carolina,

00:04:16.360 Aisha subtly flirted with Steph,

00:04:19.780 approaching him post-service and walking away,

00:04:23.060 leaving an impression.

00:04:24.960 They became friends but didn't date yet.

00:04:28.400 After high school, they lost touch.

00:04:30.920 Aisha moves to L.A. to pursue acting and modeling.

00:04:35.840 And Steph attends Davidson College, rising in basketball.

00:04:42.000 They reconnect at the ESPY Awards in L.A.

00:04:45.980 and hit it off.

00:04:47.220 they start dating long distance with Steph making frequent trips. Their first kiss attempt fails

00:04:53.940 hilariously, but by 2009, they're fully together and they strengthen their bond through faith and

00:05:02.200 shared values. Steph gets drafted by the Warriors number seven draft pick and proposes to Aisha in

00:05:09.260 a private moment through the official, though the official engagement is later that year.

00:05:15.140 The wedding, at 23, Steph was 23, Aisha 22.

00:05:21.680 They married at the same Charlotte church where they met with 400 guests.

00:05:26.300 They honeymooned in France, picking names for their future kids.

00:05:31.120 Their first child was born in 2012, and Aisha pauses acting to focus on motherhood.

00:05:39.120 Riley steals the spotlight at Steph's 2015 post-game press conference.

00:05:46.940 Daughter, Ryan Carson Curry, was born in 2015.

00:05:52.840 Steph wins a unanimous MVP and first NBA title award back in 2015,

00:05:59.720 back-to-back MVP.

00:06:01.700 Aisha releases her cookbook, The Seasoned Life.

00:06:04.640 So this is this is a trad wife putting out cookbooks. And I don't think you guys understand. I understand the public perception of Aisha Curry today. But you have to understand back in the day. I mean, she was in songs like I think Drake had a song about wanting a wife like Aisha. That's how she was viewed.

00:06:30.940 so how on earth could Steph have done better for all of you people out there that say Steph

00:06:39.340 just picked the wrong woman he went to church where did you want him to go he he got a girl at

00:06:48.820 14 years old he knew her he knew her from childhood let me let me share my screen I made

00:06:56.640 i made a powerpoint actually i'm gonna go so um 2018 they have their third child

00:07:05.840 and they have their eighth anniversary um 2019 to 2021 where steph breaks ray allen's three-point

00:07:14.080 record with aisha posting to god be the glory and they attend their first met gala together

00:07:21.040 in quarantine during COVID. Now, it's not until 2022 where Aisha starts embarrassing him. 1.00

00:07:35.960 Before that, she was a picture-perfect wife, and I think that's why it's so interesting for people

00:07:40.420 to watch. I'm going to show you, let me share my screen, just, you know, how different her persona

00:07:49.420 was back then because a lot of times they always say there were warning signs and I want you to

00:07:56.580 know that sometimes there are no warning signs there is nothing else a dude could have did

00:08:03.320 nothing I mean what what did he want to get her straight out the womb you know what I mean it's

00:08:09.800 like all right so this is my powerpoint called women change remember this is her look at look

00:08:18.040 at them. And I want you to understand a lot of times when women marry men young, marrying young,

00:08:23.380 it really is not beneficial, I would argue, for most women or most men. The reason being is I 0.99

00:08:31.780 think women have to get pumped or dumped once or twice to realize that these men flirting with them

00:08:37.580 are not going to take them seriously. I do think that's an important thing for women we have to 0.98

00:08:44.340 understand. But unfortunately, you know, when guys get us before the pumping and dumping,

00:08:48.820 we don't get humbled at all. Now you might say, Pearl, but do women need to be humbled? Oh yeah, 0.99

00:08:55.100 we do. Oh hell yeah, we need to be. The reason we need to be humbled is because remember,

00:09:02.840 society is going to tell her that you can get anything, that you can do better, queen. 0.99

00:09:08.160 So remember, this was her, what she talked about back then. So a lot of times when women don't 0.99

00:09:13.380 have a whole face on the front end, they will have it on the back end. And I'm going to talk

00:09:17.320 about what the red pill says about this phenomenon. So everyone's into barely wearing clothes these

00:09:23.740 days, huh? Not my style. I like to keep the good stuff covered up for the one who matters.

00:09:29.400 I mean, this is what she was doing. You know, that is a wholesome woman. 1.00

00:09:34.800 And like, I had somebody say to me the other day that I said that body count doesn't matter.

00:09:41.580 Now, I actually believe that body count does matter when a woman isn't damaged. 1.00

00:09:46.200 But in 2025, it doesn't matter that much.

00:09:49.240 What it does give men is a longer subscription.

00:09:52.600 So like a woman that's banged a bunch of dudes, 1.00

00:09:55.180 your subscription is going to be pretty short, your free trial.

00:09:59.080 You know, she'll be like three months.

00:10:01.060 Men can get a lot more out of a woman with a low body count. 1.00

00:10:05.480 That's why I would obviously encourage you guys to go lower.

00:10:07.920 But even the women that don't have a lot of bodies, they just have a hoe phase on the back end, which is what we're going to see here. 1.00

00:10:21.440 Wrong take.

00:10:22.320 She was never wholesome, just presenting to me.

00:10:24.320 Where are the wholesome women then? 1.00

00:10:25.840 Where are they?

00:10:31.300 Where are they?

00:10:33.140 Mileage matters.

00:10:34.120 Oh, it matters.

00:10:35.100 As I said, it's like you get a longer test drive on the lower miles.

00:10:40.140 But it's not a guarantee is my point.

00:10:42.460 It's not a guarantee in any way.

00:10:45.280 Yeah, like there are women that are virgins and then they go bang. 1.00

00:10:50.200 You know, how do her hoes made? 1.00

00:10:51.780 They start as virgins, you guys. 1.00

00:10:55.760 They start as virgins and then they see all the women doing ho shit. 1.00

00:11:01.420 Just like Aisha. 1.00

00:11:02.940 Okay, now this is her now.

00:11:04.820 remember her now.

00:11:13.800 Like she posted a naked picture on Instagram. 1.00

00:11:18.080 Now this is her going to a Drake concert.

00:11:21.940 She's looking for her next guy. 1.00

00:11:26.040 Okay.

00:11:26.640 so it wasn't until obviously we do the bait and switch so

00:11:35.500 all right so we're gonna go through this is the clip that's going viral right now

00:11:43.420 now the more traditional a woman is required to be the more we have a tendency to make you pay 1.00

00:11:49.780 on the back end so the more youth and beauty we give you the more we resent you for it later

00:11:55.820 especially if we don't feel like we got a good deal.

00:11:59.080 Now, this doesn't mean we didn't get a good deal.

00:12:01.280 Obviously, she got a great deal.

00:12:03.800 But that doesn't change her feelings because, remember,

00:12:07.300 she views Steph as the guy, the dorky guy from high school.

00:12:13.420 Now she's in Steph's social circle,

00:12:16.120 which has men that are way more alpha, more high status,

00:12:20.760 and now she wants to get their attention. 0.89

00:12:23.440 So she's whoring, obviously. 0.93

00:12:25.820 I didn't want kids. I didn't want to get married. I thought I was going to be career girl and that's

00:12:35.580 it. And I had my eyes set on my goals and I was never the little girl that like dreamt about the

00:12:42.720 wedding dress and all of that. And then it happened so early in my life. Did you talk to

00:12:50.860 steph about it he tries to resonate with me but he just can't now again if we feel like we could

00:13:02.220 have been more successful on our own now there's no evidence that would suggest that she was really

00:13:09.100 going anywhere i think she was in like one music video she was in a episode of hannah montana there 0.97

00:13:16.460 There was no evidence that this woman

00:13:18.020 was destined for stardom.

00:13:19.600 I mean, child actors have a very low shelf life.

00:13:23.900 If anything, she's gonna have more success as an actress

00:13:27.200 because she's married to Steph if she wants to do it now.

00:13:30.000 They're gonna keep casting older women in movies 1.00

00:13:32.380 because women love looking at older women on screen. 1.00

00:13:36.920 So there's gonna be opportunity to make money.

00:13:43.320 But she's just gonna keep...

00:13:47.020 she's just gonna keep taking credit that's what we do best is we take credit for men's success 1.00

00:13:52.700 you know we're very good at it and he also comes from a place of like it's effing stupid like 0.99

00:14:00.540 he's thinking i make a hundred bajillion dollars we can live anywhere we could do anything 0.98

00:14:06.540 what more do you want it's not true so why and i'm like but wait like listen to how it makes

00:14:13.260 me feel and he's like but why does it make you feel like that it's not real after we got married we

00:14:19.820 found out we were pregnant with our daughters so quickly it

00:14:25.980 i didn't even have time to think about what i wanted anymore it's so interesting i spent

00:14:31.180 my entire life like trying to work towards something and then it kind of just disappeared and

00:14:37.180 And I didn't think twice about it.

00:14:40.420 But after my daughter turned one, I remember there being a shift and being like, I have goals for myself.

00:14:51.200 Like, this doesn't feel right.

00:14:52.480 I love being a mom.

00:14:53.800 That's called the bait and switch.

00:14:55.160 So, again, she put his needs before hers in order to get the resources and the quality of guys she wanted. 0.83

00:15:02.880 but deep down I don't think she was honest with herself that she didn't really want to be a wife

00:15:09.400 and a mother and a lot of times this isn't even clear to us it's not until we have a kid that we

00:15:14.340 get like post not clarity where we we look at the guy and we say did I actually like him do I

00:15:21.520 actually is this the guy I want to be with and you know even this is why men don't want to get

00:15:26.840 married because if Steph Curry can't keep a woman happy you guys think you have a chance yeah you 0.98

00:15:32.780 don't sorry you don't hate to hate to be the one to say it

00:15:37.700 but I love no I don't I love being the one to say it doing other things too and I need to get

00:15:47.200 my shit together and figure out what that looks like for myself now if I have a career and I'm 0.54

00:15:52.980 not home like did you experience that I still experience that I still experience that I'm 0.97

00:15:58.220 almost like i'm always in therapy she's in therapy over this now remember men never say

00:16:06.940 my wife held me back even though wives generally hold men back that we're not support systems 1.00

00:16:13.500 we're resource draining energy draining systems even the better women we just have a tendency to 1.00

00:16:20.380 suck sorry we do talking about this if you lose all of those things that were interesting about

00:16:29.700 you even for yourself like even the things that made me some women are just do not have the 1.00

00:16:35.860 personality to be married to high value men we don't uh because we can't take that loss of

00:16:43.980 attention now he gets all the attention feel confident and cool then what like what are you

00:16:50.900 doing yeah okay but by the way this is a string this is not the first time that she's embarrassed

00:16:59.480 him so remember this is the bait and switch she started as like a traditional trad way okay

00:17:07.360 my husband really loves my feet and so like the light was hitting him just right that day

00:17:13.820 and so i was like let me just snap this photo and send a picture of my feet

00:17:17.240 so i always say like when he says to send nudes like that's what he's getting a picture of my

00:17:21.300 bare feet so she's bragging about how when her husband wants a nude she sends that we're like 1.00

00:17:31.020 asking

00:17:31.960 to get cheated on. I really think

00:17:35.320 we are. We're like, please cheat on me.

00:17:37.080 We're so unbearable. Wowza, Steph's wife 0.54

00:17:39.340 is actually lost.

00:17:41.240 Yeah, I know.

00:17:43.820 Yeah, so let me

00:17:44.840 continue. Let's see what else we got.

00:17:49.160 Oh, yeah.

00:17:49.520 Time for a drink. What do you say?

00:17:51.720 Absolutely. Yes, we get to drink.

00:17:53.700 Marcel?

00:17:54.860 Marcel?

00:17:56.260 Oh, yeah.

00:18:01.020 so she's taken off her wedding ring again this is a woman married to a superstar this is just

00:18:11.540 a dude with muscles because women look at most women have it in them women will deny this to 1.00

00:18:22.660 our core this is an uncomfortable truth about women when we're with the same guy for a while 0.85

00:18:27.440 we get we just want to go bang a bunch of dudes we have that in us men do too but they're honest

00:18:33.820 about it women will do not will gaslight you into eternity and it's interesting because we'll we'll 0.98

00:18:39.200 gaslight men so hard where they're like babe you've banged the personal trainer you cheated 1.00

00:18:46.260 on me with that guy that guy that guy you you're you're a whore oh my bad 1.00

00:18:57.440 Sorry. Sorry. I'm making breads. That's like my timer. I'm trying to be trad. So I trad at 29. 1.00

00:19:11.540 Sorry. You guys are too. Okay. So you can't hear the video. Oh, that's not good. All right.

00:19:22.400 I'm going to try it again. I'll try playing it again. Tell me if this is better.

00:19:26.560 Oh, all right, Aisha, I think it's time for a drink.

00:19:29.400 What do you say?

00:19:30.200 Absolutely.

00:19:30.960 Yes, we get to drink.

00:19:32.140 Marcel?

00:19:33.320 Marcel?

00:19:36.760 All right, but she, sorry, I had to throw a shimmy in there. 1.00

00:19:46.780 Did I let it rise long enough?

00:19:50.920 Probably not.

00:19:51.640 I'm not very good at bread.

00:19:52.980 bread isn't my um it's not my best dish if i'm being honest uh but i'm trying to get better at

00:20:00.020 it if people could say a lot of things about me but i do try in life i am a trier um

00:20:08.180 so sorry enough about me i'm trying to make this about me and my bread

00:20:14.740 okay so like my bread matters all right whatever so

00:20:19.140 So, you know, a lot of times women that give a lot of beauty and youth on the front end, they make the men pay on the back end. 1.00

00:20:30.320 So now she got the kids, she got what she wanted.

00:20:35.680 Now she's just going to kind of waive her power. 1.00

00:20:38.800 When you're afraid of your husband, sorry, when you're afraid of your husband, you're not doing this.

00:20:45.240 Do you think Melania Trump is trying this with Trump?

00:20:47.740 melania do you think she's gonna go on a show and say that she wants to bang young guys look 1.00

00:20:55.120 i'm sure she has that urge but she's afraid of trump she's like oh no i got a good thing going

00:21:00.900 i am not messing this up i'm not

00:21:05.600 why do you guys keep going on about the bread you're gonna distract me i'm trying to i'm trying

00:21:11.180 do a show here i'm trying to do a show okay so regardless um 0.52

00:21:23.660 where was i oh women women will gaslight men 1.00

00:21:28.940 that we don't want to bang a bunch of guys art that's our nature now what will happen is the 0.95

00:21:33.420 conservative men usually dorks who've never banged a lot of women men that have banged 0.80

00:21:38.620 a lot of women and no offense the conservative guys but that's your archetype your archetype 1.00

00:21:42.940 of man is kind of like sexless not that liberal men um are sexless in a different way now

00:21:51.820 conservative men are usually tricked in a way by religion to not date a lot of women and still give

00:21:58.780 women traditional treatment even when they don't deserve it so they kind of have the fear and god 1.00

00:22:03.500 of god of them you know an alpha is not gonna let god an alpha guy in general is not really gonna

00:22:10.060 fear god i hate to say it i hate i sometimes wonder i don't know what i believe um over the

00:22:16.300 years i i just i don't know anymore but sometimes i i wonder if women invented religion to control 0.62

00:22:24.300 men sexuality they're like okay we cannot get these guys to stop banging all the tribe girls 1.00

00:22:29.580 Let me just, there is somebody in the sky that said, you can only be with me, even if I've been with other people and you're going to hell. 0.65

00:22:45.720 I'm not saying that's what it is, but sometimes I think that that sounds like something women would do. 1.00

00:22:52.480 Does that make sense? That sounds like something women would do. So women just have this tendency. 1.00

00:23:01.160 We want to bang a bunch of dudes. We want to bang a bunch of Tom, Dick, and Harry. We want to bang 0.99

00:23:05.760 the comedians. We want to bang the streamers. We want to bang the rock stars. We want to bang the 0.89

00:23:10.920 ballplayers. We want to bang the accountants. We want to bang the guy that helps us move. 0.98

00:23:15.560 We want to bang, bang, bang, bang, bang. But we have to hide the fact that we want to bang,

00:23:19.300 bang bang and so what guys that haven't really slept with a lot of women or have been sold a

00:23:25.120 dream by their wife um they're like no there are these different or special women no all women have 0.86

00:23:32.280 this some women are too afraid uh to use it so for example you know again religion was like all right 0.99

00:23:40.380 we got to do something with both of these slutty people that just love banging let's tell women 1.00

00:23:45.120 they'll go to hell. Yeah, we got it. This is getting unstable, but let's tell women they'll 1.00

00:23:49.760 go to hell if they bang the dude. So some women fear, and the younger women are, the more afraid 1.00

00:23:55.720 we are, right? We're going to talk about this later. That's why women's second hoe phase is 1.00

00:24:00.060 so powerful, because the fear is kind of gone. You know, when you're young, you fear everything.

00:24:07.780 You don't know what's going to go. You're not going to meet up with a stranger off a tent. Well,

00:24:10.980 women do do that, but that may deter some women. But by 40, they've seen the hoes that have done it 1.00

00:24:18.100 and they didn't die. A lot of them still got married. So they're like, fuck it.

00:24:24.280 Sorry. They're like, dang it. It's time to throw it back. It's time to do this. They see the 1.00

00:24:31.000 divorced women that are fine. They're like a child support. Okay. Ayesha Curry stopped by 1.00

00:24:37.300 Jada Pickett-Smith to talk about being married and dealing with groupies.

00:24:44.180 Oh, I thought this was the...

00:24:48.940 Let me pull it up on this other tab.

00:24:57.940 Ayesha Curry, red, table talk. 0.74

00:25:07.300 here we go can you guys hear my dog snoring she's really happy i didn't want to let her

00:25:14.100 she was sleeping so peacefully i didn't want to make her move but you guys may have to suffer

00:25:20.980 someday when i'm being a bad mom it'll be my kid crying

00:25:28.420 oh i'm kidding i'm kidding

00:25:29.780 and um more understanding something that really bothers me and like honestly has given me a sense

00:25:42.960 of a little bit of an insecurity is the fact that yeah like there are all these women like 1.00

00:25:47.600 throwing themselves but me like the past 10 years like i don't have any of that like i have zero

00:25:55.100 this sounds weird but like male attention and so then like i begin to internalize and i'm like

00:26:01.080 is something wrong with me now a lot of people now the pushback i get i'm going to defend black

00:26:07.700 women for a second here the pushback um that i keep getting is that hey this is just black women 1.00

00:26:15.460 you know if he if steph curry this is this is the black couple first it was first it was 0.72

00:26:20.820 they're not traditional enough then it was well you should just go white or go asian 1.00

00:26:25.380 i heard a lot of these same i grew up in a conservative catholic community

00:26:31.240 and a lot of the women there had these same talking points white women are much better 1.00

00:26:36.560 at hiding it we might not do it on camera i mean we're we're getting more and more bold 0.98

00:26:41.380 i'll tell you that but we're more likely to not do it on camera black women um they don't care 1.00

00:26:48.220 for whatever reason they just don't um asian women those are the hardest to get to get say 1.00

00:26:52.460 it on camera but we're getting more and more bold so we can we can go through some other examples

00:26:57.900 another show but i'm gonna tell you something else too when your radar's turned off because

00:27:05.180 i dealt with that for years too like and i was young like you yeah like oh my god i mean because

00:27:10.540 i don't want it but it'd be nice to know that like someone's looking yeah because we don't we don't

00:27:16.460 like becoming invisible plus she at this point she had the post baby weight gain

00:27:21.180 i think she's lost it now her body's looking good i won't lie

00:27:29.500 women don't mature ever a minute that it ain't no some men out there looking at you like i wish 1.00

00:27:36.540 and i'm gonna tell you who knows that more than anybody 0.93

00:27:38.940 okay so yeah she's just embarrassing she this is a humiliation ritual we're gonna keep going 1.00

00:27:54.940 um so again the women are defending her because a lot of women can relate to this a lot of women in 1.00

00:28:01.820 this country women do not want to be mothers as much as conservatives pretend women want 0.93

00:28:08.620 a kid for status i don't see women wanting a kid for the right reasons i really don't 0.84

00:28:14.460 women want it to feel included and for status so the women will say no she's a woman who settled 1.00

00:28:20.620 down too fast and gave up her own dreams and now she resents that choice hope it helps

00:28:25.260 i actually would say that's true this was not a woman that should have had kids 1.00

00:28:31.100 some women are not meant to have children i i have said that time and time again

00:28:38.820 because you know who pays for it the kids and the husband 1.00

00:28:42.240 probably the dumbest comment i've ever seen you're telling me aisha regrets marrying a 6-3 1.00

00:28:50.040 multi-millionaire athlete in steph curry and a thousand seven hundred idiots agree with this 1.00

00:28:55.340 comment. These hoes are delusional. Well, and I want to push back. I would say maybe she's not 1.00

00:29:01.320 right to regret it, but it's very obvious to everybody involved that she does. It's very

00:29:07.300 obvious. She is a woman that missed out on her ho phase. Here's another comment. Aisha Curry is 1.00

00:29:16.060 living proof that no matter if you're rich and successful, women will still find a way to 1.00

00:29:20.040 complain. The red pill doesn't need marketing. It markets excel. All right, so let's share this

00:29:28.040 there. Now let's see some of the responses from the Twitter women. The video volume is low still.

00:29:45.680 Can you guys in the signal chat tell, Doug MPA, is it low?

00:29:50.040 Pearl is too loud? 1.00

00:29:53.800 Damn. 1.00

00:29:59.360 All right, hold on. 1.00

00:30:00.980 I'm too loud now.

00:30:05.280 Sounds fine.

00:30:06.260 Doug says it's fine.

00:30:08.340 You know what?

00:30:09.380 You guys are so annoying sometimes.

00:30:11.980 I love you.

00:30:12.640 Thanks for watching.

00:30:13.980 But the woman is me is going to be ungrateful 1.00

00:30:16.400 because it's like if the audio is not perfect,

00:30:20.040 you know the united states government has audio issues and you guys want perfect audio all the 0.95

00:30:26.140 time just has to be perfect shit about that man she craves the attention that steph curry gets 1.00

00:30:32.340 because she believes that she deserves it and she believes that he doesn't she can't fathom that he 1.00

00:30:38.300 gets the attention that he gets because how can this motherfucker that's underneath me get all 1.00

00:30:42.860 this attention she still believes that she's better than him to this day babies and marriage 0.99

00:30:48.420 and all like the recent interview that she did she was like she wasn't even like she didn't really

00:30:53.700 think that he was even the best for real like she was like what's the hype about like she boldly said 0.99

00:30:59.540 this shit out her fucking mouth about her own husband that she has kids with so yeah that's 1.00

00:31:05.360 just what that is she sat there she married the guy beneath her because she knew it would be easier 1.00

00:31:11.020 to be with him because of um the things he would bring her you know and she still can't seem to be

00:31:17.700 satisfied because it has nothing to do yeah because one um she's gonna crave dominance and 1.00

00:31:24.260 stuff is just obviously he likes her a bit too much so when men like women it just doesn't

00:31:31.760 usually go well for them they kind of have to hate us slightly for us to stick around

00:31:35.920 and then when they start to like us we bounce do what the physicality of how comfortable life is

00:31:43.480 has everything to do. All right. Thank you, lady, for being honest. I didn't think I'd ever meet an

00:31:48.820 honest woman. All right. So I have a couple notes that I've taken. I'd like to credit

00:31:56.160 Brian Stone, Rolo Tomasi. A lot of them talk about these ideas. So, and some of these are

00:32:05.360 just my own personal notes. So it's just a combination. So all women have a pull to be 1.00

00:32:11.140 promiscuous especially the ones that you think are not that like that they are we are all like

00:32:17.540 that it's our dna it's our hard wiring but what happens is a lot of women that cashed out early 1.00

00:32:23.060 and married young older women are less scared they can get away with more so what happens is 0.99

00:32:29.860 women when you're beautiful and young there's a lot of eyes on you men can be invisible and no

00:32:37.540 And it's actually a benefit to some extent.

00:32:40.160 It's very hard for a young woman to manage her reputation 1.00

00:32:42.940 because there's all these eyes watching.

00:32:45.720 She goes into a room, everybody's looking at her, everybody.

00:32:50.320 She can't flirt with the bartender without people knowing. 0.99

00:32:56.140 So where a guy can flirt with a woman, he can get rejected by a woman.

00:33:01.900 Nobody cares.

00:33:02.680 Nobody's going to remember. 0.94

00:33:03.480 where women um but when women get uglier over time they're going to use their newfound power 1.00

00:33:10.000 which is that they can move more invisibly they can bang more dudes they can get away with more 0.88

00:33:15.360 um older women realize they're not going to die from stds their reputation doesn't matter as much 1.00

00:33:21.720 especially if they already have the kids they're not shamed as much because who cares what an old 0.79

00:33:26.100 woman does i mean if a woman's throwing it back at 50 does anybody care does anyone give a rat's 1.00

00:33:31.260 ass. You're old. No one cares. A lot of times at this age group, you'll see them start to do the 1.00

00:33:36.880 swinging stuff. Then they'll start to regret what they could have been. A lot of times it's not even

00:33:41.860 what they could have been. But, you know, say a woman was going to be a writer, she'll feel as

00:33:47.400 though the husband held her back if she gave that up, even though it was going nowhere. A lot of

00:33:53.140 times therapy will start at this age and women will resent the husband for what they probably 0.94

00:33:58.300 couldn't have done anyway. Okay, so the epiphany phase occurs generally between the ages of 27 to

00:34:08.020 34 when a woman's SMV begins declining during her early to mid-20s. A woman typically prioritizes 1.00

00:34:16.440 short-term mating with high-value alpha lovers for excitement and validation, what is called the

00:34:21.860 party years or the cock carousel. The phase allows her to explore, experiment, and indulge

00:34:27.360 without long-term commitment, often leading to a sense of unbrittled freedom.

00:34:34.160 However, by the epiphany phase, however, biological clock ticks louder, triggering baby rabies.

00:34:42.760 She shifts from seeking a lover to a provider, and any regret about her youth is framed as an

00:34:49.440 authentic introspection, but any regret about her youth is not framed as an authentic introspection,

00:34:57.400 but as anxiety over lost options, realizing her most attractive years are waning and the

00:35:03.340 high value men from her party years are not lining up for marriage. She may romanticize 1.00

00:35:08.560 a fresh start, downplaying her history to secure commitment from a nice guy who she overlooked

00:35:14.120 before. Stone illustrates this with a case of a 30-year-old man suddenly attracting interest from

00:35:20.400 women in his age range. Now the guy is 30 and the women surrounding him are 27 to 34. They have baby

00:35:26.160 rabies. They have reached the epiphany phase of their sexual strategy. Now they don't want the 0.56

00:35:30.760 lover. They want the provider. This isn't perceived as a case of serendipitous aligning of

00:35:37.920 interest to the guy but the culminate culmination of his life's work he implies that these women 0.61

00:35:44.080 aren't suddenly waking up to the man's value they're adapting to scarcity if she feels she

00:35:48.640 missed out it often it's often because she didn't fully capitalize on her youth for fun 0.90

00:35:54.880 or she did indulge but now faces the hypergamous backlash fewer elite options for long-term pairing 1.00

00:36:02.160 women's regret are transient and self-serving fuel for branch swing swinging trading up partners 0.99

00:36:09.740 rather than deep remorse he um they warn men against buying into the narrative for men dating

00:36:17.600 these women it's a red flag her epiphany is less about you and more about her timeline 1.00

00:36:21.780 maintaining dread subtle reminders of your options to avoid being the post-wall safety net

00:36:30.700 In Practical Female Psychology for the Practical Man, Stone emphasizes that women's attractions are contextual.

00:36:38.680 A post-epiphany woman may seem reformed but reverts under stress. 1.00

00:36:46.740 Women that underindulged in youth may envy peers' stories during the epiphany phase, amplifying the fear of missing out.

00:36:58.160 Conversely, those who partied too hard often cope with the hamstring to appeal to providers.

00:37:05.220 So this is rationalizing flings as youthful mistakes.

00:37:09.580 Either way, it's a lose-lose for her happiness.

00:37:12.740 Youth's freedom can't be recaptured, and settling breeds resentment.

00:37:23.140 Don't pity or pedestalize her regret.

00:37:25.640 Use it to your advantage if pursuing, but prioritize your own SMV peak for women feeling this way.

00:37:34.580 Oh, if you're a man navigating this, hold on, hold on, hold on, keep going, keep going. 0.78

00:37:41.540 Okay.

00:37:44.660 Yeah, so.

00:37:45.620 the downside of women marrying young particularly their feeling of missing out in their youth which

00:37:57.080 ties to his concept of hypergamy and the epiphany phase women who marry young early 20s may feel

00:38:03.240 they missed out on their party years or opportunities to explore their smv at their

00:38:07.380 peak their regret often surfaces in their late 20s to early 30s and i would say now i'm seeing 0.71

00:38:12.600 more late 30s early 40s they'll get like some fake tits and botox and go when they realize their smd 1.00

00:38:20.120 is declining and they crave crave the excitement or validation they didn't pursue stone sees this

00:38:25.960 as a losing deal for women because early marriage while securing stability can make them feel trapped 1.00

00:38:31.240 if they later compare their life to their peers who chased alpha experiences or career freedom

00:38:37.320 So, again, the women that marry their high school sweetheart, a lot of times he has not had the life experience to be a dominant guy, right? 1.00

00:38:46.860 So he doesn't have the life experience to tell a woman to shut the fuck up, bitch, get off of these podcasts. 1.00

00:38:52.660 That's a muscle. 1.00

00:38:53.600 That's a skill men have to develop, right?

00:38:55.960 So a lot of times young marriage for women when they marry a guy from their high school, it doesn't end well because he doesn't have the frame to maintain it.

00:39:04.820 That's something men have to learn.

00:39:07.320 Um, so to be honest, the most successful marriages I see are when women go for a guy in school 1.00

00:39:14.800 that's a little bit older or in the city that's a little bit older.

00:39:17.640 The high school, I mean, those fizzle.

00:39:20.300 Um, this stems from hypergamy, women's drive to seek higher value partners, which can make 1.00

00:39:24.920 them resent a young marriage to a safe provider if he lacks the dominant or excitement they

00:39:29.880 desire.

00:39:30.740 For example, a woman who marries a beta at 22 might hit 30 and feel like she missed out

00:39:35.200 on dating high-status men, leading to behaviors like branch swinging or initiating conflict to

00:39:40.380 test her husband's frame. Stone advises women to marry a vetted high-value guy to avoid this

00:39:52.000 regret, but warns that without a strong male frame, the marriage risks becoming a losing deal when she 0.99

00:39:57.200 hits the epiphany phase to reclaim her youth. So this is why I say to some extent body count

00:40:02.220 doesn't matter. Because if the man doesn't have the frame to maintain a relationship,

00:40:08.360 she's going to bounce later. She's going to bounce either or. And that's a skill. 1.00

00:40:17.200 That's why the marriage rate for people under 25 is what it is. It's because women 1.00

00:40:21.940 realize a lot of times they think, they believe they could have done better with their youth.

00:40:28.220 Now, another example.

00:40:29.920 Now, a lot of people, they give me pushback.

00:40:31.920 They say, well, this is just black women. 1.00

00:40:33.840 It's just black women. 1.00

00:40:35.760 And to that I say, Susan, Tom, and I was like, do you know what?

00:40:41.120 I'm going to show you guys.

00:40:42.240 I'm going to use such an example of a white woman doing the same thing. 1.00

00:40:51.000 Podcast.

00:40:52.780 That you guys cannot.

00:40:55.080 This is a wife of a billionaire. 0.88

00:40:57.800 Susan Thompson Buffett left her husband, billionaire investor Warren Buffett, in 1977 to pursue a singing career in San Francisco.

00:41:07.100 They married in 1952, raised three children, and legally remained married until her death in 2004.

00:41:14.160 But they lived apart after her move.

00:41:17.000 Warren Buffett, worth over $100 billion, supported her decision despite the emotional toll.

00:41:24.080 as she performed cabernet-style music, releasing CDs and appearing in venues like New York clubs.

00:41:30.140 She also became a philanthropist, directing the Buffett Foundation and focusing on causes like civil rights and women's health.

00:41:38.000 They just want us to be happy for that.

00:41:40.100 Okay, let's react to this interview.

00:41:42.580 Let's react to this whole thing.

00:41:46.140 frame is considered abuse by the family courts judge look there's no winning in this game

00:41:58.660 i mean there's just choices and trade-offs that is that's a risk yeah that's a risk

00:42:03.480 okay well it's like no you knew yourself when you were young

00:42:09.720 and then life happened and did you always knew you wanted a big family no so

00:42:15.300 i i didn't want kids i i didn't want to get married i thought i was going to be career girl

00:42:26.440 and that's it and i had my eyes set on my goals and i was never the little girl that like dreamt

00:42:33.940 about the wedding dress and all of that and then it happened so early in my life so it's like it's

00:42:40.520 one of those things like you don't you don't know what you you actually don't know what you want

00:42:44.460 Well, it's so interesting you say that, because I want to talk a lot about that today, because I relate to you in that way. Like, I really, really never thought I was going to get married. I'm like, there is actually no way that's ever going to happen. And then it happens, and you're like, maybe I do.

00:42:57.500 So remember, women envy Alex Cooper.

00:43:01.160 They do not envy Ayesha Curry.

00:43:04.180 Because Alex Cooper got to do her own thing. 0.58

00:43:06.620 She got to spend her youth in herself.

00:43:08.120 She got to have those exciting experiences with alphas.

00:43:10.800 And she got to settle with the faithful provider after.

00:43:14.160 She dated the athletes.

00:43:15.800 Women envy that. 1.00

00:43:18.160 Women do. 1.00

00:43:19.320 I don't make the rules.

00:43:20.920 Didn't know myself that well.

00:43:22.300 And it's like, no, you knew yourself when you were young.

00:43:24.060 And then life happens.

00:43:25.440 And then you grow up.

00:43:26.300 and then you have different wants and needs and that's okay to change your mind yes but it's still

00:43:30.560 shocking it's still shocking okay wait quickly back to parenting i'm gonna ask you a couple

00:43:36.920 random like parenting manual questions okay what is the time one of your kids embarrassed you in

00:43:42.320 public my daughter ryan we were in a very public place i'm trying to remember where i'm blanking

00:43:49.060 because i think this just like overshadowed the whole thing but she yelled out like mommy do you 1.00

00:43:55.200 have weaves is that a weaves like with an s do you have weaves in your hair

00:44:05.120 yes you're like ryan thank you so much mommy loves you

00:44:11.520 kids will humble you every day okay what's a bribe you used recently to get your kids to do

00:44:17.600 something oh i paid uh my daughter my 13 13 year old riley and my niece ava i paid them 20 to clean

00:44:27.760 up the kitchen in the living room back in my day i wouldn't have had that opportunity i would have

00:44:34.960 just had to do it okay what is the weirdest thing you found in your kid's backpack or pocket 0.95

00:44:40.560 i just found okay i found my nipple covers in my son's pocket he's kinky he must have found 0.96

00:44:53.060 my purse throughout the counter and he's like you could always tell like what he's and then 0.60

00:44:58.920 he walked in and he goes mommy do you know what's under here and i had forgotten that fast that he

00:45:06.240 had put them in his pocket he's like do you know what's under here and i'm like no canon what are

00:45:09.620 you doing and he goes i said take them off and he's just like smiling ear to ear he thinks it's

00:45:15.460 hysterical oh my god that is that is actually yeah women we don't mature i mean this sounds

00:45:22.700 like a 19 year old woman like conversation we don't mature we don't we are the same

00:45:29.020 hysterical definitely leave the room like this is not happening you don't want to laugh too hard

00:45:35.700 because then they'll just keep doing it he was like that was like i am leaving you're like

00:45:42.480 mortified it's so bad call her daddy is brought to you by t-mobile don't care so experience

00:45:49.320 magenta status we were seeing like sussing out men boom and a potentially anxiety inducing first 0.66

00:45:55.460 the industry since i was three years old i was always working i commercial print like doing tv

00:46:03.460 stuff always so other kids were at like soccer yeah so she got used to be in the center of

00:46:09.020 attention from a young age i know this is counterintuitive because i am in entertainment

00:46:14.940 but i if i were you guys i would not touch women in entertainment with a 10-foot pool

00:46:20.120 i really would not we are not the best to date um one it's a tough schedule because um

00:46:28.880 obviously a lot of us work at night too it's just yeah it's just not doing the extracurriculars and

00:46:36.640 i was on the set working and so it was second nature for me and quite honestly growing up

00:46:42.860 the only thing that i thought i could do and so i would enter all of these competitions

00:46:50.700 i entered this one in north carolina and they were like hey move to la

00:46:54.540 um and i grew up i think it's really important to preface i grew up in like

00:47:00.300 the most strict environment like didn't get to go to high school football games

00:47:06.860 didn't get to really hang out with my friends damn sure i couldn't like walk around the mall

00:47:13.540 by myself but when these people were like hey you want to move to la they were like yeah go

00:47:19.840 your parents really have fun honey you're like go like you're gonna do it and i i appreciate it

00:47:25.040 because i that means they believed in me so much but at the same time our entire family was like

00:47:30.100 this is crazy like you can't even carpool okay wait you starting at three did was it because

00:47:37.640 like your mom just saw something in you like we we the story is because obviously i have no

00:47:44.420 recollection uh we were in a grocery store and a talent agent said oh she should be in commercials

00:47:50.500 and so it started from there and then kept going and and when you started working that young and

00:47:57.540 then kind of became aware of it like did you love it like i loved it i i loved it eat sleep breathe

00:48:05.740 okay so you come from the strict family then you get on a plane after graduating high school early

00:48:11.300 you're what 17 yeah i was 17. my dad set me up for like a month i got an apartment

00:48:20.580 ridiculously expensive so i was shocked had to pick up three jobs i worked at a frozen yogurt

00:48:28.100 shop i worked at abercrombie and fish farmer's market on the weekends so like just to be able

00:48:36.900 to make that happen and i feel like when you have the dream of la yeah we're gonna move on to stuff

00:48:45.520 we're gonna go to steph curry let's talk about how you met mr steph curry you yeah met him in

00:48:52.040 high school yeah so i'm canadian okay so i grew up in markham ontario um and i moved to the states at

00:49:00.380 14 to north carolina and that's actually where we met he's one of the first people that i met in

00:49:07.740 the states but we just friends uh obviously we were 14 um went to the same church shared the same

00:49:16.620 friend groups um at church and then when i moved to la he facebooked me did he write on your wall

00:49:25.340 or it was like a private message it was a private message but he was like hey do you still live in la

00:49:31.020 uh that's a lie the first message was i was in this music video and he was like hey who

00:49:38.860 is that in the in the music video in the picture that you're in and i'm like oh it's young berg

00:49:44.060 and he goes oh i should have known he always has all the sexy ladies and i was like what is

00:49:49.820 happening right now you're like steph i knew you said you're 14 i was 15. what are you trying to

00:49:55.020 do right now at this time so at this time now we're night 19. okay 18 19 and so he goes do you

00:50:03.420 still live in la i'm here uh for a camp do you want to hang out and i'm like freaking out because

00:50:09.420 this guy he was like the guy at church like all the girls loved him i thought you were going to

00:50:17.020 say like in high school like on the court you're like at church he was the guy so okay

00:50:22.140 he's the most popular guy in the high school right and at times at times this can work

00:50:27.740 but the challenge is when he keeps getting better and better and now she's meeting the

00:50:31.820 most popular guys in the world you're you're kind of cooked ellie baby i have to wake you up

00:50:38.780 I'm sorry I'm sorry pup oh she's not happy oh she's so cute I have a dog that's the challenge

00:50:49.680 you get um also guys we are trying to fund a divorce documentary so the GoFundMe link is

00:50:57.780 in the description we actually got a $10,000 donation we're trying to get my lowest quote

00:51:02.820 is around 100k for the documentary and we're we're getting closer to it so if you want the link is

00:51:09.700 in the description to save you from women like this was he's the basketball guy in high school

00:51:15.860 or no i apparently he was but i i did i genuinely didn't pay attention to that because i i grew up

00:51:22.580 in such an arts driven family that sports outside of like doug flutie playing for the buffalo bills

00:51:28.660 like wasn't a it just wasn't a thing in my in my house and so um

00:51:36.580 he said so we've made plans to hang out and then i said where are you staying and he said anaheim

00:51:41.780 and i was like i was like so you're coming to me because i'm not at this way yeah so again he

00:51:50.660 probably liked her more because she was probably the prettiest one of the prettiest girls at their 0.97

00:51:54.820 little church or high school but the challenge is now we start to compete on back then it was

00:52:01.160 probably at that city scale she's getting attention from these rappers these entertainers 1.00

00:52:06.020 stuff to her in her head is the guy from her high school um yeah at what cost stuff could start

00:52:15.580 stand to lose a hundred million dollars yeah stuff doesn't want to lose that money 0.81

00:52:19.260 he's gonna he's gonna say you know what baby be a hoe you want you want a cooking show i'll get 1.00

00:52:25.680 you a cooking show this is he's gonna be in the negotiation phase where she might where she he's

00:52:33.260 gonna basically beg her monetarily to not ruin his life they'll have the other jobs like trying 0.98

00:52:40.100 to pay the rent gas is expensive so i was like i'm sorry i can't this time but if you're ever back

00:52:45.940 let me know and we'll go hang out and he's like oh i'm back in two weeks and i'm like

00:52:53.080 oh my god he's still in anaheim so no this time he was in hollywood so he stuck with it he hit me

00:53:01.580 i gotta say black women age so much better than white women i think aisha looks way better than 1.00

00:53:07.900 the caller daddy girl but the caller daddy girl i think probably did harder drugs and like 1.00

00:53:14.420 partied a lot harder what do you guys think yeah let's get a man's opinion um who's hotter 0.86

00:53:20.260 aisha curry or um what is her face the call her daddy girl um you could just put alex cooper

00:53:29.620 who's hotter pull in the chat two weeks later we hung out and we've literally been together since

00:53:35.460 that day okay hold on you go and you hang out with him what is your headspace are you seeing

00:53:42.820 him in like a could this be something kind of way or are you like no no i was and this is like my

00:53:49.780 first real date so i was just nervous you see that slip first real date because other guys you know

00:54:00.740 got it for free i mean she was on the in the all this in all these music videos and stuff she was

00:54:06.980 living in la she was living life i was nervous it was like years of having a crush and then years

00:54:14.660 like i just never thought that he would like someone like me i just didn't think it was going

00:54:21.140 to be a thing i thought we would be friends yeah did you ever have any thing in high school at all

00:54:28.100 or was legit just friends no just friends just friends yeah i get what you're saying like you

00:54:34.420 never saw him as something but i'm like when you look back is there any memory that you're like

00:54:39.220 maybe there was something or no never i i had a friend over who had a crush on his brother at the

00:54:46.900 time and she decided to call him and they were giggling and then they put we're maybe like 15

00:54:55.300 at this time and they put um stefan on the phone and somebody said something about canada and so

00:55:01.140 I was like oh I'm Canadian and he's like oh do you like Canadian candy and I'm like I love Canadian

00:55:06.760 candy and so my aunt was coming into town from Canada and so she brought some for me and so I

00:55:14.200 was like oh I'll bring you a bag to church the next time we're at church so I bring the bag and

00:55:22.260 I literally black women just age so much better than us I mean the fact that it's close and Aisha 0.99

00:55:27.880 is almost a decade older than alex everybody's watching i hand it young love i don't know

00:55:35.160 i remember it like it was yesterday i feel like when you have one of those first dates though

00:55:39.880 like i feel that way about my husband i always say that to him like oh my god what i would give

00:55:44.600 to relive that night or at least i say the same thing just watch it like i wish i could just yeah

00:55:50.360 because it's so romantic and cute to know then what comes from that story so that's really cute

00:55:56.360 because it is so innocent you had no idea what it was going to lead to and nobody could predict

00:56:00.920 like what the future no held holds did you guys kiss first date no did he try no he tried

00:56:10.680 so shortly after that i got a really bad bout of laryngitis stop this is so random

00:56:17.720 my throat was so swollen it was like and i panicked and i was like mom dad i want to come home

00:56:23.400 and so i went home and he was like i'm home and so you're laid up with laryngitis

00:56:32.840 i got a little bit better and then we like continued dating from there obviously and like

00:56:37.480 i want to say it was maybe like the fourth day he came like i was mid-sentence and he like came

00:56:45.000 flying at my face and i i turned to the side i'm still nervous at this point like i you and

00:56:52.280 it's like butterflies and he's like oh oh and i just look at him and i'm like i didn't know that's

00:56:58.420 what we were doing like i i didn't know you liked me like that and he was like he was like yeah i've

00:57:03.920 just been coming over to your house for the past two weeks to play video games with your brothers

00:57:07.460 oh try again try again one more time wait and so did he try again yes oh you okay so you did okay

00:57:16.540 cute cute i'm like this poor man gets rejected no no it was fine it was like a split second but

00:57:20.260 it's cute too because like in that moment okay i i can't anymore with this we're gonna move on

00:57:25.960 to a different topic but yeah i iisha curry i predict a divorce in the next five years she's 1.00

00:57:32.700 gonna or maybe swinging or something weird like that like uh you kind of saw jada do that uh some

00:57:39.400 women they just gotta have a hoe phase okay so i want to go through some of my tweets today 1.00

00:57:45.780 All right, so Patrick Bette David said they are excited about the future of Her Take podcast.

00:57:56.960 Now, this is a podcast that has Anna Kasparian, Amy Dangerfield.

00:58:01.800 I think I've met Amy once or twice.

00:58:05.440 Lindy Liu.

00:58:07.860 I think I would be the perfect person to be on this show.

00:58:11.780 I don't know if I could do it regularly.

00:58:13.700 that'd be something that we have to work out but every day I do a show and I entertain a whole

00:58:19.560 group of people I think I could cook and I think it would be hilarious so um next we got Frankie 0.95

00:58:28.260 saying I know a bitch that wants to have a hoe phase when I see it talking about Aisha Curry 1.00

00:58:33.500 yeah she's trying to you know alphas are a lot more understanding of women because they understand 0.99

00:58:39.020 there's a sexuality that women just cannot show to their husbands. We would die. We would literally 1.00

00:58:44.440 die if men knew how much of whores we are. Do you really think that men, if they knew the depth of 1.00

00:58:54.380 our whoredom, they would give us anything? I should be on The View. But if you guys want to 0.98

00:59:00.420 go to PPD and spam their comment section about having me on, it would be cool. I think I'd be

00:59:08.820 a good fit. Now, the next thing is Christian women black pill me every day. So there was a 1.00

00:59:15.600 woman on Twitter who said, pregnancy destroys your body. And she puts this in quotes. And she 1.00

00:59:21.060 wants to explain to us that she's very traditional. She's very trad. Never have I dreamed of having

00:59:27.360 this cleavage. Thank you to both my husband and baby for these destructive effects. Now, at its 1.00

00:59:33.160 surface, this tweet might seem innocent. I mean, she's trying to market motherhood. That's always 0.96

00:59:39.300 the, that's always the go, but why are you marketing motherhood with your boobs? What is, 1.00

00:59:47.940 like, what would be, why? Do you know what I mean? Your Christian trad wife is bragging about 1.00

00:59:57.220 having bigger boobs to strangers on the internet. Now, my critics and distractors, 1.00

01:00:02.920 they'll say she's a wife and a mother two things or not and that's true you could say she's better 1.00

01:00:07.880 than me in some way um you could say that right but i just think as a woman or as a child i would

01:00:19.800 be very embarrassed if my mother was going on the internet and bragging about having big boots 1.00

01:00:25.480 you're just inventing something to whine about they say well

01:00:30.100 i'm not really whining i just think it's odd

01:00:34.580 and this is this is what i mean when i say the white knighting the simping it will never end

01:00:40.920 simps will defend women's bad behavior they will beg to be cocked they will beg so traditional 1.00

01:00:48.540 women can't be happy about being more curvy these types of conversations come up all the time when 1.00

01:00:53.580 moms talk in normal circles now you might say pearl but these conversations happen privately

01:00:58.260 why not publicly well i might with my girlfriends discuss i mean we discuss a lot of things

01:01:07.220 privately that really it's distasteful to talk about publicly now i'm not saying i personally

01:01:12.180 do this i plead the fifth but women we discuss positions we like sizes we i mean come on we 1.00

01:01:20.080 discuss a lot of things publicly that i don't know would be the best idea to put on twitter 1.00

01:01:29.040 now next they'll say you know pearl's a super slut pearl's a whore 1.00

01:01:34.160 you know to that i say so was your wife before she met you do you know what i mean so was i 1.00

01:01:41.920 mean this idea that or maybe she'll have it on the back end most women have something um so 1.00

01:01:50.080 yeah you know whores um this girl whored around her 20s suddenly becomes righteous and godly in 1.00

01:01:58.140 her 30s you know i'm it's it's just like it's it kind of gets old i'm like well if that's what you 0.93

01:02:06.500 think that's what you think you know i can't really i can't really defend and say i didn't

01:02:13.840 do something when people you know throw stuff at me it's like i i can't really what's your

01:02:19.720 evidence. Oh, an interesting thing, an interesting poll I found. 60% of women between the ages of

01:02:27.500 20 to 49 say they're not dating at all right now. And 24% would say they're going on one to two

01:02:33.520 dates a year. And this was from a female content creator. And this had 41,000 votes. And it was

01:02:40.480 this girl asking um single women 20 to 39 are you actually dating um obviously i'm dating someone so

01:02:50.180 i i put i put the not date like no dick i thought it was a single women question so i was wondering 0.51

01:02:56.920 if it did skew the results because there's women in relationships and it's like what would you put 1.00

01:03:02.580 so it would have been better to have a fifth poll which is like i'm dating somebody or i'm in a

01:03:07.600 relationship. So anyways, 60% of women are saying that there's no dating at all for me right now.

01:03:17.900 And I actually think that's somewhat true because I think some women are too fat to get alpha 1.00

01:03:22.880 attention. So they're just opting out and they'll, they'll take the like once a month bang from an

01:03:28.460 alpha guy um gm mccool says waiting set for sex until marriage is a fast track to divorce if she 0.99

01:03:38.300 withholds it before marriage she'll weaponize it later yeah i agree with that um unfortunately i'm

01:03:43.480 sorry to the christian conservative men we're in a different time i i would say that waiting

01:03:48.000 till marriage is you are fast tracking to get cucked but um you know i i think like you bang

01:04:00.080 her and then the burden of performance you know you could bang her right and then i i don't really

01:04:05.780 understand what this obsession is with making a promise to stay if the promise we know the promise 0.95

01:04:11.420 means nothing so i i always think this through i'm like why don't you just bang her and then if 0.56

01:04:16.620 she sticks around and is nice to you, then she can stay and be your wife. And if she doesn't 1.00

01:04:21.160 listen to you or stick around, then that's on her. You gave her the chance to be a wife, you know? 0.99

01:04:28.240 You gave her the chance.

01:04:38.140 So a lot of times we talk about the incentives of women. Here is what girls think guys want, 1.00

01:04:43.680 what guys actually want. Uh, the girl on the left is going to get flown out where the girl on the 1.00

01:04:48.480 right gets left out. That's why women behave the way that we do. Uh, beauty and sexuality is very 1.00

01:04:54.580 powerful. So if a woman hides her figure, it doesn't do her any favors. It does women no 1.00

01:05:01.360 favors to hide their figure. Unfortunately. Um, I thought that Lana Del Rey and her alligator 1.00

01:05:09.560 crocodile taming husband were hilarious just watching this redneck go to this event that 1.00

01:05:17.420 people try for their whole lives to get into and fail i thought it was hilarious

01:05:22.300 i i thought this was just a funny video i thought this was hilarious these cats were fighting

01:05:39.560 they tried to separate them and they kept fighting it's like these toxic couples you

01:05:55.280 know you try to separate them oh it's so funny um this is another another tweet i got pushed back

01:06:02.540 for isabella brown says having a baby is by far the greatest adventure i've gone on

01:06:07.700 don't let the naysayers fool you babies are the biggest blessing we could ever receive like it's

01:06:12.500 just very obvious what she's doing here she's using the baby to build her brand and get clout 1.00

01:06:17.500 which is fine um you know i'm not saying it's wrong but uh conservative you know but i i'll

01:06:24.740 keep repeating the point which is conservative women will always use their marriage and family 1.00

01:06:28.620 for personal gain like building their online brand now tim pool has come back at me and he

01:06:33.860 and I said, Pearl, Pearl, can women do anything right? 1.00

01:06:41.500 And you know, my initial thought was,

01:06:44.280 no offense to him, but they're not gonna sleep with you.

01:06:47.880 Okay, you don't need to white knight,

01:06:49.220 you don't need to defend these women. 0.93

01:06:51.760 I don't understand what your gut reaction is

01:06:54.820 to always defending women.

01:06:56.080 Often at my expense, you know, I went on his show

01:06:58.200 and he comes back and he says,

01:06:59.680 Pearl is super insecure because she's tall. 1.00

01:07:03.860 excuse me, Tim, excuse me, I'm six foot. And when I was a kid, I wanted to be six two.

01:07:11.960 I love being tall, you know, just cause you're short. I do. I could have, I could have brought

01:07:17.260 that back and said, Tim, you're insecure. Cause you're short. My kids are going to be on varsity.

01:07:22.940 Yours are going to be on JV. Okay. So I don't understand this energy always. Now,

01:07:31.880 Aubrey Hoffa, a divorced guy, says it's never with the husband in the background either,

01:07:36.680 but she'll use the kids as pawns to get every penny she can during the divorce, which 1.00

01:07:40.540 you have to understand a lot of this clout building, it's to signal that she's a good

01:07:46.620 person. So during the divorce, nobody can question her ruining the guy's life because 0.97

01:07:50.860 she's just an amazing wife and a mother. Now, I'm not saying that she will do it, but

01:07:56.000 It's just in case. Right. Joel Webin said, if a woman is truly conservative, you haven't heard of her. I agree with that. 0.99

01:08:09.020 I made a salad the other day. If anybody cares, you don't. But I did make that. It was pretty good.

01:08:18.740 Oh, I thought this I thought this was messed up here. Look at this.

01:08:22.720 a new york city concierge has been arrested after it was revealed she had food poison hundreds of

01:08:27.120 guys who came to the hotel to cheat on their wives whenever a guy was checking into the hotel with a 0.99

01:08:32.140 woman she would take the reservation information out of the computer and search them up on social 0.99

01:08:37.160 media and if the guy was checking into a woman who was not his wife on social media she would then

01:08:44.100 dm the wife she would then offer the wife a list of services ranging from minor annoyances to a 1.00

01:08:50.640 with bed bugs to food poisoning of their room service this was a very profitable side hustle

01:08:55.680 for her and when people would pay for the food poisoning she felt like she was doing a good

01:08:59.360 service because they would get food poisoning from dinner and then you know no one's getting

01:09:03.760 busy with that kind of action going on she got caught because one of the wives decided to go 1.00

01:09:08.400 full nuclear and come down to the hotel herself and handle this she gave the concierge twenty 0.96

01:09:14.720 thousand dollars and said give me a hotel uniform or i'm gonna blow your cover so the wife got 1.00

01:09:19.120 dressed up in a hotel uniform and said i'm delivering their room service tonight she put

01:09:24.080 on the uniform in a wig kind of disguised herself then put her head down and started wheeling in 1.00

01:09:29.040 their food service her husband was in the restroom so she was having the side piece sign for the meal 1.00

01:09:34.560 and she goes you know he's married right and the side piece was like how did you know that 0.99

01:09:40.480 but yeah his wife's an absolute beast then the wife proceeded to beat the ever-loving crap out 1.00

01:09:45.520 of the side piece the husband came out to a full melee between both of his women and the police 0.99

01:09:50.800 were called yeah a lot of the women are saying a lot of the guys are saying to lock her up and

01:10:01.120 the women are saying that he's a hero um hit me with the hardest truth men don't delete sex videos

01:10:10.560 because things ended there are nudes and of your wife and some guy's phone most likely 1.00

01:10:19.520 um all right we have these trad we have these trad women back at it again here we go sex how 1.00

01:10:25.280 does it make sense to do the most sacred act ever of all time the most spiritually emotionally and

01:10:31.680 physically binding thing you can again if sex was a sacred act that was physically and emotionally

01:10:37.200 and spiritually binding then why are these women leaving like do you know what i mean if again i 0.63

01:10:44.480 don't think it's as bonding as people think because if that was true most women would stay 1.00

01:10:49.040 with the guy they lost their virginities to but we don't we bounce we bounce i'm just being honest

01:10:56.880 i gotta look at the actions not with like the you know i i have to go with what my eyes see first

01:11:04.720 over what the book tells me. I got to be honest. Because otherwise, you kind of stand to be

01:11:11.480 manipulated. And if the book backs up what I'm seeing, I'm more likely to believe the book. But

01:11:15.940 I don't know if sex is this sacred. I don't know if it's this binding thing because of the way

01:11:23.900 women act after we lose it. I'm going to be honest. So in high school, I'd say there's three 1.00

01:11:29.960 types of women that lost their virginities one girl did not care at all um one girl stayed with 1.00

01:11:35.840 her high school boyfriend for like one girl lost it in a hookup or something one girl lost it to

01:11:41.720 a situation ship one girl had a boyfriend usually the hottest women would have a boyfriend and then 1.00

01:11:46.900 for a few years and then leave them so do with someone it's dangerous to do that outside of

01:11:56.240 marriage there is no cover and inside of marriage it is the most beautiful thing that literally got

01:12:01.700 its work and then you know it's funny these girls will say for years they're looking for a godly man 1.00

01:12:05.880 and they just happen to find one that's like a ken doll so worship like god maddie said that it's

01:12:11.400 worship god is in you while you do it it's the number one way chad veach said that that's how

01:12:16.600 he fights spiritual warfare with his wife if there's an attack on their marriage you know

01:12:20.800 that's a way to fight spiritually yeah to bind yourselves back together to say to the devil no

01:12:26.060 you're not tearing this apart we're coming together yeah the way that god intended yeah

01:12:29.900 but outside of marriage it is the most dangerous harmful thing you can i i just don't because

01:12:35.940 marriage is essentially a promise to be together for life and that's really what it is it's a

01:12:40.840 promise i i don't enjoy giving that information um the other thing i do on twitter is i post

01:12:53.880 pictures of women where you get to guess if their plastic surgery is real or not.

01:12:58.660 And generally, it's like 50-50. So this girl's boobs, are they real? Yes, no. Now, people are 0.92

01:13:05.920 leaning towards no at 39%, but still 36% said yes. 24% said see results. I don't think men are 0.99

01:13:14.320 as good at detecting this stuff as they think. If they would, the results would be definitive.

01:13:20.600 Her boobs were not real. 0.98

01:13:21.880 She was talking about her boob job. 0.98

01:13:28.720 All right, that's all I got for you guys today.

01:13:31.440 Ayesha Curry is about to hit her hoe phase, and I wish her well. 1.00

01:13:35.040 I hope she enjoys it.

01:13:37.120 And she'll be fine, to be honest.

01:13:38.880 She'll get a bunch of money and get to bang hot guys until she's old, 1.00

01:13:42.480 and she'll have the money to kind of keep up with her looks. 0.99

01:13:45.260 So. And Steph Curry will be fine, too.

01:13:50.200 He'll go date younger, hotter women that are less of a headache and he'll have his hoe phase and they'll be happy. 1.00

01:13:58.080 Pearl, you're in denial. Not really.

01:14:02.960 I mean, what am I in denial about? Again, if if sex was a super bonding thing, where where's the evidence?

01:14:10.020 I need evidence. I need evidence. Not just the book says it.

01:14:15.260 Oh, you guys want to see my dog?

01:14:16.880 I'll introduce you.

01:14:17.960 Hold on.

01:14:18.800 Hold on.

01:14:32.840 All right, Ellie.

01:14:42.660 All right, this is Ellie.

01:14:44.100 Say hi to the people.

01:14:47.020 You want to be a podcaster?

01:14:48.580 Look.

01:14:51.460 You want to give the news?

01:14:52.700 Be like, woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.

01:15:02.340 A woof, woof, woof. 0.99

01:15:06.180 I got her for 800 bucks on Craigslist.

01:15:08.840 She's a purebred, too. 0.72

01:15:10.580 She's like eight now, though.

01:15:11.860 She's old.

01:15:14.100 Woof, woof, woof. 1.00

01:15:19.220 Woof, woof. 1.00

01:15:27.120 Should I bring her on more?

01:15:31.540 Look at her.

01:15:35.600 Ellie, what do you think about these hoes? 1.00

01:15:42.620 Really, that good, huh?

01:15:44.100 ellie what do you think about what do you think about the news so we got this woman here 1.00

01:15:49.400 snacks thank you for the super chat all right ellie so we got this woman here 1.00

01:15:56.100 look at we'll show her the news hold on pearl i'm sick of these scamster lying manipulator now 1.00

01:16:03.040 women my uncle killed himself over a girl so i know my cousin's wife gold digger marriage ended 1.00

01:16:08.760 two months ago and the laws need to change for men well the best i can do is give you guys

01:16:14.040 a documentary which if you i hate to you know beg for money but i do need like 100k to make it

01:16:21.080 someone asked me there's like a difference in in pricing i'm like well i'll i mean those are

01:16:27.980 the quotes i got 100k 250 and a million dollars um you know

01:16:32.840 i think she could do the news i think we could do it

01:16:41.400 She loves it here.

01:16:45.400 Look at this.

01:16:47.360 I almost don't want to end it.

01:16:48.920 Should we react together to something and see how long she'll sit?

01:16:57.060 Should we?

01:16:57.900 She is a good dog.

01:16:59.000 She's kind of annoying, though.

01:17:00.020 She barks sometimes.

01:17:02.020 Oh, boom, boom, boom.

01:17:03.540 Oh, boom, boom, boom.

01:17:04.360 Oh, boom, boom, boom.

01:17:08.660 Oh, boom, boom, boom.

01:17:11.400 I don't know.

01:17:17.140 Sometimes she won't stay calm, though,

01:17:19.060 so I never want to start the show

01:17:24.340 with her sitting in my chair.

01:17:25.960 I don't know if she'll always sit in the chair.

01:17:33.320 I don't know if she will.

01:17:34.920 She'll react to something.

01:17:41.400 she's just being so good now i kind of want to i kind of want to take advantage i got to milk my

01:17:52.940 dog okay we're gonna react to something and if it goes south if it goes south i'll end it i'll

01:18:01.120 end it but we'll do we'll do a last minute ditch effort oh wait um oh this is still playing

01:18:11.320 I won't torture Ellie with this.

01:18:13.660 What should I show Ellie?

01:18:16.220 What should I show Ellie?

01:18:19.400 Would I ever have open panels?

01:18:21.900 Yeah.

01:18:25.260 Did she ever have puppies? 0.95

01:18:26.920 No, I fixed her.

01:18:29.620 I thought about it, though, because I did get her unfixed,

01:18:32.240 and they had her scheduled to get fixed the following week. 0.99

01:18:37.820 That bitch is well-behaved. 1.00

01:18:39.300 I only have well-behaved bitches. 1.00

01:18:41.320 all right ellie what do you want to see 0.99

01:18:48.960 can i hear ellie i mean you can probably hear her breathing 0.98

01:18:54.660 bad bitch contest you're in first place all right let's see let me see what we got on here 1.00

01:19:11.320 All right, um... 1.00

01:19:32.320 Write a song about your dog. 1.00

01:19:37.320 Bad bitch contest, you're in first place. 1.00

01:19:40.320 I know a bad bitch when I see one. 1.00

01:19:44.260 I know a bad bitch when I see one. 1.00

01:19:48.120 I know a bad bitch when I see one. 1.00

01:19:52.620 Baby dog, will you believe him? 1.00

01:19:57.000 Oh, my God.

01:19:59.960 All right, she wasn't for this.

01:20:03.460 All right, I think that's all I got.

01:20:07.320 We'll be back later.

01:20:10.320 um thanks for watching i hope you enjoyed ellie that's that's eleanor

01:20:14.680 rosebark so like the video subscribe and i'll see you next time

Pearl - October 08, 2025

Modern Women Are Having Their Hoe Phase at 40

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