Pearl - January 18, 2026


This Is The DEFINITION of Nagging


Episode Stats

Length

19 minutes

Words per Minute

180.49107

Word Count

3,499

Sentence Count

43

Misogynist Sentences

44

Hate Speech Sentences

28


Summary

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In this episode of Thick & Thin I talk about why women should stop nagging men and why men don t want to get married. I also talk about the recent debate I did on CNN where I was accused of being dumb.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 it's ridiculous especially coming from a girl who grew up in an affluent situation
00:00:07.120 with incredibly wealthy parents you don't know anything about struggling economically or and
00:00:14.320 it's like you do you're you're a podcast talker all right so the definition of nagging a person
00:00:22.960 constantly harassing somebody to do something or painfully persistently worrying so i did a
00:00:31.440 compilation of nagging now a lot of times women when we want to argue or debate we have a tendency
00:00:41.120 to use the tactics that you know the female tactics shout out to kevin samuels shame guilt
00:00:47.920 insult, need to be right, nagging. I'm going to add nagging. Shame, guilt, insult, need to be
00:00:54.320 right and nagging. Shaming, a painful feeling of humiliating or distress caused by the consciousness
00:01:01.260 of wrong or foolish behavior. Guilting, making someone feel guilty, especially in order to
00:01:08.100 induce them to do something. So remember, feminism uses guilt against men. It makes, it says women
00:01:16.220 are victims uses guilt to get whatever they want i'm being raped let's throw men in jail insulting
00:01:23.580 to speak or treat someone with disrespect or scornful abuse the need to be right in a rational
00:01:31.020 way of thinking characterized by a person's need to always prove themselves right often by proving
00:01:37.260 others actions and opinion opinions wrong so i was thinking more about this debate right and i was
00:01:42.780 thinking how their goal was kind of to make me look dumb and it definitely worked right I did
00:01:46.680 I did look dumb I got really nervous got crashed out on stage a little it happens right happens to
00:01:52.740 the best of us and I was thinking about this a little bit more because I mean this was kind of
00:01:56.900 an L for me I am a bit embarrassed but it just is what it is but I was thinking about how Anna went
00:02:04.080 up there she might have won the debate but she proved why men don't want to be married and the
00:02:09.800 person in the chat said, Pearl, Pearl, Pearl, money can't buy happiness. Well, it depends if
00:02:15.200 there's a nagging wife in that big house. There's a lot of rich men imprisoned by their nagging
00:02:20.480 wives. And so what keeps happening is women keep proving the red pill, right? And men don't even
00:02:26.480 have to argue it. You know, me, I'm like the DEI hire, right? I mean, in a way, I know you guys
00:02:33.260 support me. You say it's not just DEI, but there's so many men that are smarter than me, better
00:02:38.820 debaters more intelligent um but i know that these guys are correct because when i heard this
00:02:45.220 information it really made everything in my life and that i'd seen my entire life make sense
00:02:52.180 it made it make sense why men just look so depressed when they're married it made it make
00:02:56.900 sense why every girl i knew growing up figured out that their mom was crazy around 16. i knew one
00:03:03.380 girl i mean her dad was a soldier and he was deployed all the time and when she was 16 i mean
00:03:10.100 all the lies she heard growing up about her father he comes back from deployment she's like he's
00:03:15.220 pretty cool and generally speaking men um women think that they have authority over men to tell
00:03:22.340 them what to do it's why you know i really don't like telling men to do anything because men look
00:03:28.500 at the cost and the benefit or the cost and the benefit of something and pick themselves um i
00:03:33.620 don't really have to tell men not to get married they're just not gonna do it right i don't have
00:03:40.180 to tell men not to you know save a woman in the streets they're just gonna stop right men can do
00:03:46.100 that on their own they don't need a woman a woman a mid woman at that to tell them what to do right
00:03:51.780 and so but what happens is women they have a tendency to go on these stages
00:03:56.740 and show men exactly why they don't want to get married and i i just kept i keep thinking about
00:04:03.080 this debate my my manager says to just move on stop talking about it but do you know what there
00:04:08.860 was so many just moments where she really revealed her cards right where i might have looked nervous
00:04:17.720 or dumb or whatever but she revealed the way she felt about she feels about men and feminists will
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00:07:21.960 are going to make the decision so i actually don't think men are necessarily afraid of getting
00:07:29.720 married and getting divorced right i think most men can deal with a divorce and recover it's not
00:07:37.240 even necessarily about the money because their wives spending habits are so bad that a lot of
00:07:43.160 men get on child support and still have more money left over but what men do have do fear in marriage
00:07:50.200 is being trapped in a sexless marriage with a nagging bitchy wife that talks to them the way
00:07:58.440 that anna spoke to me and so it's really interesting because you know she's gonna say
00:08:04.680 she won and she did right and do the victory lap but because she was a bitch she proved why men
00:08:11.960 don't want to get married because she nagged because she used shaming guilt insulted me need
00:08:17.160 to be right um then on top of that she embarrassed her husband publicly she said that i was responsible
00:08:25.720 for what she said i'm like i didn't make you say that ma'am she called her her she implied her
00:08:31.400 husband was a couch surfing bum when she met him she could have said former professional athlete
00:08:36.440 she said couch surfing bum and is so out of touch that she doesn't see the problem with that and you
00:08:44.200 know again men aren't gonna say anything they just watch and silently make decisions so let me let me
00:08:51.800 play the this compilation all right let's see we're gonna look if she proved her point you won
00:09:01.720 look i don't really care if i won or lost because it does that that doesn't really matter right it
00:09:08.600 matters i just want to know what's true i don't have an ego in this right i i really don't i don't
00:09:15.560 need to be right i want to know what's correct and that's really the point of my whole platform is
00:09:20.360 growing up all these commentators just confuse you and i'm going to show how they manipulate the
00:09:25.640 statistics um because i couldn't believe how much she manipulated her stats to have the ego
00:09:33.480 to yell at me i just couldn't believe it i'm like this is incredible this is incredible okay all
00:09:38.840 right now and you guys can watch this and see this is the type of nagging and this isn't just her
00:09:46.040 that makes men not want to get married um you're ridiculous make this bigger ridiculous anyway
00:09:53.720 next move on you said it's you said it's ridiculous it's ridiculous especially coming
00:09:59.320 from a girl who grew up in an affluent situation with incredibly wealthy parents you don't know
00:10:07.400 anything about struggling economically or and it's like you do you're you're a podcast talker
00:10:14.840 do you know what i mean sorry okay okay or financially you know so to tell i'm not gonna
00:10:21.240 be able to not dot i love people were trolling me they're like pearls used to the mute button i love
00:10:26.200 the mute button because what women do is they scream louder than you and then whoever screams
00:10:31.000 gets the most in yeah i mean that's how that's how they win they scream louder and that's how
00:10:37.800 that's how marriage is yeah tell a single mother who decided to stay home and raise her children
00:10:45.240 instead of work that she doesn't deserve a penny to raise her kids after divorce is the most
00:10:51.940 privileged piece of shit thing to say do you see me i'm like standing there like this is the nagging
00:10:57.940 are you saying men should never get married how would it does a man know if his girl is safe to
00:11:03.520 marry and won't steal his money. And so what happens, he doesn't, it's up to the man. And by
00:11:10.520 the way, I am so proud of my background. I am so proud of my father. There is nothing this woman
00:11:16.620 could say to me to make me feel bad about where I come from. Look at, I'm sitting there. And here's
00:11:23.180 the thing, the women, because women are bitches, right? They clip this and because they don't like
00:11:28.220 me, they think they won because they want to see someone scream at me, right? Because they can't,
00:11:32.680 they can't stand me so this is very exciting to them which is fine i understand that um i do
00:11:38.920 understand that but again you're showing because men aren't stupid right they know you can't
00:11:45.880 necessarily turn that off at home a lot of the commentators pretend they're like a joy to be
00:11:50.920 around this is you know there's a reason i haven't taken as many debates in the last two years
00:11:56.520 um because i'm not really fun to be around before and after these i get stressed before
00:12:01.860 after i'm like a little embarrassed i i get like the ups and the downs
00:12:07.880 you definitely bring this stuff home to your boyfriends and husbands there's no like i'm the
00:12:14.200 only one that's honest about this stuff there's a reason i don't take the high stress stuff as
00:12:19.180 much anymore the only number you needed was kentucky divorce rate dropping by 25 after 50 50
00:12:25.320 custody. No other stats would have meant anything. Do you know what? I got tripped up. And I said
00:12:30.540 this last time because I knew she was just going to keep going. And there was going to be some
00:12:36.100 number that I didn't know the name. Names are going to be the death of me. I don't remember
00:12:41.240 people's names. I don't remember like if someone tells me a story that I meet on the street or if
00:12:47.240 I read a study, I'll remember the study and the story for the rest of my life. I have like a great
00:12:53.500 memory for that but for whatever reason names bruh and they all know it they know they can get me on
00:13:00.720 this and that's why i froze yeah i did so all right so but look at when you know when she speaks
00:13:08.360 like this women are gonna see it and cheer because they're like oh this is amazing i love seeing pearl
00:13:14.740 get obliterated um but men are gonna see it and say wow she's kind of mean you know hey except
00:13:21.360 black guys they're kind of simps you know let me ask you something pearl man would you be willing
00:13:26.080 to marry a guy who's poor men because i married a guy who was in debt and love the hell out of him
00:13:33.200 best thing in my life so remember she could have said no no here she could have said i married an
00:13:39.040 xmlb baseball player and you know after the the reason i actually clipped this so after the the
00:13:46.000 debate I said if I took an L in this debate Anna's husband took two he's the biggest loser of this
00:13:52.360 debate and she goes online and she says oh Pearl you know she was a good sport but she attacked my
00:13:58.500 husband and I'm like Anna you have never paid attention to what men want or care about that
00:14:04.660 you don't even understand how much you're humiliating you're you're humiliating your
00:14:09.520 your husband by describing him this way and do you know how I came to that conclusion I was trying
00:14:15.380 to read during this so i wasn't really listening i was i when women nagged to a certain point i
00:14:20.100 tuned it out but like three guys came up to me after the show and said why did she roast her
00:14:27.780 own husband i'm like anna i didn't do this to you i i did not would you marry a guy who is broke
00:14:35.460 that's very no career and i mean i dated a homeless guy no i did it but that's what they
00:14:41.640 say right i almost said that there i almost said it i know professional debaters know how to play
00:14:48.460 the audience i know they do they do and i mean they professional debaters in a way are just
00:14:54.500 professional naggers they just know how to nag like that's their in debt that's very that's very
00:15:00.660 nice anna would you so i'm going back answer the question would you marry a broke guy in debt all
00:15:05.540 right so we're going back to would you would you all right this is the nagging this is the nagging
00:15:10.900 again okay so what did i say go ahead and quote me because you make shit up yeah and you just
00:15:17.920 think like it's gonna stand now remember and i'm gonna show you guys later look at the authority
00:15:24.200 she's screaming this at me she's saying i make stuff up this is such confidence such authority
00:15:30.760 and i'm gonna show you how she manipulated her stats it's such bullshit these people they don't
00:15:37.680 they don't care that's the thing i'm totally willing to be proven wrong but what drives me
00:15:43.160 nuts when they say this stuff with such confidence that i'll think that they're right and then after
00:15:50.520 i'll look into their stats and i'm like why would you even quote that but they won't they'll never
00:15:55.200 submit their stats ahead of time so i can look into it so it's like anyways you've never had a
00:16:01.360 strong woman challenge your bullshit assertions so go ahead and tell me what what have i complained
00:16:08.000 about okay give me the quote the nag you said women's opinions are not taken seriously women
00:16:14.080 are 85 percent women are 85 percent of consumer spending we lead when it comes to luxury brands
00:16:21.520 men have more mortgage debt car loan debt personal credit card debt right because they're
00:16:26.960 they're expected to provide women make 80 percent of consumer buying decision again if feminine and
00:16:34.000 men put women put their expenses on their husband's credit card yeah i mean when it's really
00:16:42.240 cared about equality they would provide for the men come on all right first of all i know you've
00:16:48.240 missed me mark first of all this study was conducted by mostly men and when men conduct
00:16:53.440 anything they talk about their finances because men judge themselves by this the size of their
00:16:58.960 wallet toys dare i say so you put all your toys together in a parking lot and it makes you happy
00:17:05.200 if they were to ask other questions in this study about spirituality about the other aspects of our
00:17:09.600 lives that women would have taken over i mean first of all a woman is her sexual prime at 35
00:17:14.160 things get much better for us hey i'm 35 this is good for me all right mark what i mean all right
00:17:20.560 go nuts because I know you're going to go nuts. It's not like men are given advice that is not
00:17:26.460 on morality. It's not like there's a special morality just for men when it comes to sex and
00:17:30.720 a special morality for women. The sexual morality that we're given, not by me, not by you, by God
00:17:37.020 and natural law, God's natural law. And also you can see it through divine revelation in the
00:17:41.180 tradition of the church is a morality for both men and women, married and unmarried. And its
00:17:45.700 poor is chastity which is virtue men are called to it and women are called to it and when men aren't
00:17:50.900 living virtue or women aren't living in virtue both of them can become increasingly haywire we
00:17:55.940 hurt each other then the war of the sexes commences so speaking against porn is not just about men
00:18:01.860 it's about men and women yeah i think that you will lose more people than you help because no
00:18:07.780 men want to be nagged by women um about what they should and shouldn't do and as i've said before
00:18:13.460 any woman that tells men what to do is a feminist because you are applying that you have authority
00:18:18.740 and you are so again all these women right they're pushing marriage saying marriage is so good
00:18:23.480 and yet then they nag and they tell men what to do and they don't understand why men don't it's
00:18:28.840 like a circle right it's like it just never ends and i don't think you are so i think i would say
00:18:34.700 we are subordinates well i think men and women are made equal in dignity before god and they're
00:18:40.680 both are made in the image of God. Do you believe in the natural order of the world? I absolutely
00:18:52.800 do. So that would be a hierarchy, correct? It includes order and hierarchy. Yes. I agree with
00:18:59.740 that. So again, it just goes back to the same question. The war of the sexes, I would say,
00:19:05.660 is women challenging men's authority and i would argue that you are the same as a blue-haired
00:19:10.860 feminist because by nagging and telling men what to do you are doing the same thing you
00:19:20.060 You are implying that you are equal, which is what feminism fought for.