Pearl - This Is What Happens When Moms Bring the WRONG Men Home

00:00:00.000 when i was 12 years old and i went to to bed and um it was pretty dark out so i would say

00:00:05.600 it was probably nine o'clock or so probably 30 to 45 minutes after i started laying down

00:00:10.880 i heard my door open and i didn't move because like there was no reason to i was trying to go

00:00:16.560 to sleep somebody was coming into my room it wasn't a big deal to me but then the next thing

00:00:21.040 i know like i was getting massaged and all of a sudden my heart started going really fast and i

00:00:27.200 And I was like, and I didn't quite understand why.

00:00:28.980 Like, I really didn't.

00:00:29.780 I was young.

00:00:30.760 And as he was massaging my back, he started going down further and further.

00:00:34.860 Yeah, and that's the thing.

00:00:35.620 It's not a good situation.

00:00:36.960 If I ever had a daughter and I end up a single mom someday, God, please give me sons.

00:00:41.840 Please give me sons.

00:00:42.760 Don't do that.

00:00:43.440 I know.

00:00:43.980 I know it would be so funny to give me a daughter.

00:00:46.180 I know it'd be hilarious.

00:00:47.380 But I beg you, please give me sons.

00:00:49.700 Oh, please, God.

00:00:50.700 So anyways, assuming that I do that, like if I ever end up a single mom, I like to think

00:00:55.200 I wouldn't, but you never know.

00:00:56.220 i like to think that i would just leave my problem somewhere else so you got to go to the other

00:01:01.360 person's house why are you bringing the kid these men around your kids you know what i mean and the

00:01:06.260 next thing i know that's when things are happening and i froze like they always talk about how you

00:01:11.280 have this fight or flight response well there's also a freeze response and i didn't move i was

00:01:16.620 stuck and i just waited till it was all finished and when he was done he left i laid there for a

00:01:22.180 minute and I started crying. And I didn't know how to verbalize what had just happened to me.

00:01:28.060 That was one of the things that my mom got upset about in the book is that I talked about some

00:01:32.480 like experiences as a kid. My stepdad was really abusive. He was a real piece of shit. And I'm

00:01:37.880 glad he's dead. As bad as that sounds, he deserves to be dead. That's fair. Yeah. But I remember 1.00

00:01:43.640 distinctly listening to my mom cry. You know, my bedroom's across the house on the whole left side

00:01:49.540 of the house and hers is on the right side and i remember hearing her cry from that far away and

00:01:55.180 i think that still fucks me up to this day like and that nobody grew up to be a simp instead of 0.56

00:02:01.000 being mad at the mother because that was the mom's fault you cry and blah blah blah but it was your 0.90

00:02:04.980 fault and that's what i really want to encourage for women i think i'm a true feminist because

00:02:08.960 i really believe that women need to be responsible for the choices that we pick including who you

00:02:13.460 bring into your kids life my stepdad did they were not normal part three number one is he was 0.98

00:02:19.220 schizophrenic and did not take his medicine he also was using an upper substance and he would

00:02:26.660 carry a pew pew around at all times like all times he would sleep with it in his hands and

00:02:33.180 he pulled it out on us quite a few times i'll get into that in some other videos number two

00:02:37.840 is when i was 15 he started giving me sleeping pills i did not notice they were sleeping pills

00:02:42.480 at the time and i would just staff them away in my drawer because i didn't like pills but a few

00:02:47.240 years later when my friend was prescribed them i found out what they were he just told me they 0.99

00:02:51.200 would make me happy and feel good number three what the fuck who the fuck are you guys bringing 0.99

00:02:55.640 around your kids is when he first moved in i was 13 years old and i was super involved in church 0.99

00:03:00.640 my favorite hobby was to write scriptures and read the bible and put the scriptures all over

00:03:05.560 my walls in my room well when he moved in he told me i was no longer allowed to read the bible

00:03:10.620 talk about the bible or write scriptures down and hang them on my walls my mom allowed him to do

00:03:15.600 this and our house got very dark very soon. Number four is when I was 16 and the cops had

00:03:21.420 come to my school so he knew he was going to get arrested. He sold my laptop. My dad had bought me

00:03:27.040 that laptop in fourth grade and I'm a writer and it had all my books and poems and songs on it from

00:03:32.640 fourth grade through sophomore year and he sold it or gave it away. I still to this day don't know

00:03:38.440 what happened to it but it wasn't there and I got home. Oh that's so sad. I mean that's what I mean

00:03:42.840 the kids suffer that's why you gotta you gotta divorce your ex-wife divorce your wife get custody 0.98

00:03:48.600 and go super hard for custody do not do this 50 50 bullshit you need to go for full because the 0.99

00:03:53.900 mothers will torture the kids and as a father it's your responsibility no fucking mercy divorce that 1.00

00:04:01.040 bitch and get full custody literally suspend her parental rights if you can because you know you're 1.00

00:04:06.860 a good dad and you will allow the mother to see the kids if she's acting right but you need to 0.99

00:04:11.780 as much power as you possibly can to one of my abusive stepfathers today and it was weird

00:04:18.660 the universe just decided to throw me a curveball because i was supposed to go to therapy

00:04:23.300 but had to reschedule because one of my wife's family members ended up in the icu

00:04:27.220 so we were going sorry but however i had to stop and get gas these gas prices and as i was walking

00:04:32.660 into the quick trip this old man on this little miniature motorcycle came riding past me and we

00:04:37.700 locked eyes and he recognized me so he turned around growing up i knew this guy is i love dave

00:04:44.100 because my mom dated a lot of daves which is really weird there was like a fat dave a machinist dave

00:04:49.540 this is what i mean it's rotating men in and out of these kids lives it's not good for the children 0.52

00:04:54.180 and it's confusing like and you know i can just relate excited nannies and it wasn't good for me

00:04:59.140 as a kid to have these like rotating caretakers in and out of my life it was really sad you either

00:05:04.260 love them or you hate them if you love them you're so sad when they leave if you hate them

00:05:09.060 then it's like hell on earth like you're every day at home is hell on earth waiting for this nanny to 0.54

00:05:14.020 leave dave there's a lot of daves but this one specifically used to be a meth head and he beat

00:05:20.260 the at him i'm talking broken nose which is what that scar is from and why my nose lays over like

00:05:25.780 that he went to prison for trying to kidnap my mom at knife point not a nice guy and i had such

00:05:31.620 a weird flooding of emotions standing there talking to him about nothing a lot of memories came back

00:05:39.780 it was just really weird because i wasn't afraid of him anymore i actually felt sorry for him

00:05:45.780 because he's 76 years old and he's borrowing somebody's miniature motorcycle and he still

00:05:50.820 lives in a trailer park he still does tattoos out of his kitchen his teeth are rotting out of his

00:05:56.260 head and he just seems unhappy so i guess he got the light i'd imagine i mean that's the type of

00:06:02.340 woman that we pick they always say women want 666 but yet we pick meth heads don't listen to us

00:06:08.260 we're not serious people if that he deserved and i do feel bad for him but i feel happy for me

00:06:15.460 because i don't live like that anymore and i don't live in fear my children live in a nice home with

00:06:22.500 the present father who loves them you don't think the cycle of abuses i think that it's an 0.98

00:06:27.780 asshole father or stepdad that beats the f out of the mom and is just awful to the mother so then 0.99

00:06:33.060 the kids identify with the mother even though a lot of times the mother brings out the evil out 0.99

00:06:38.020 of the father so then but all the kids believe the mother and they feel bad so then a bunch of 0.52

00:06:42.100 super simps are raised and that's how that's how that's the society we have is before the mothers

00:06:46.980 weren't were beat you know maybe the men were allowed to beat their wives and it was better

00:06:51.700 for the kids but then um the you know the kids saw the mom get beat and they thought the dad was bad

00:06:56.260 but really she probably deserved it where now um we wish that our mothers got beat a little bit

00:07:01.860 it would have made everything more peaceful you know so anyways all right guys i love you thank

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Pearl - September 16, 2026

This Is What Happens When Moms Bring the WRONG Men Home

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