Pearl - This Is Why Conservatives Are DETACHED From The Dating Reality

00:00:00.000 So the topic today we're going to talk about is how traditional conservative mothers ruin their

00:00:06.960 children with sexual shame in the modern dating market. So in 2025, traditional conservatives

00:00:13.440 are still expecting their children, especially their daughters, to wait till marriage to have

00:00:18.720 sex. America is not one, not two, but three generations into hookup cultures. Whores are

00:00:25.260 showing everything they have on Instagram. 1.4 million American women are on OnlyFans and

00:00:31.900 traditional conservatives are still pushing this unrealistic expectation. I did a coffee thought

00:00:37.980 about radical acceptance the other day. And in this coffee thought, I spoke about how I'm just

00:00:43.340 letting the world burn now. Burn, bitches. I don't care. I don't care. I have had too many. Do you

00:00:51.580 know, I think this is how you guys feel, right? I've had too many hoes just try to ruin my life

00:00:56.940 that like, I feel zero inclination to help, to feel bad. Women cry on the internet about getting

00:01:06.560 pumped and dumped. I say, yeah, your own fault. I don't care. I don't. And you know what? Ever since

00:01:13.620 I've had this position, I'm happier. Do you know the most unhappy people? The people that think they

00:01:19.480 can save the universe? I have radically accepted that whores are going to be whores. Players are

00:01:25.780 going to play and the relationship guys are going to take some L's. Sorry, fellas. At some point,

00:01:31.720 you know, they're going to get W's, you know, too, but you know, it just is what it is. I'm in my

00:01:37.080 radical acceptance phase. So, you know, women are going to get abortions. I'm not going to fight them

00:01:42.900 on it. Kill your kids. Don't care anymore. I'm not going to, you know, go out, say, please don't abort

00:01:49.280 your kids like these traditional conservative women. I say, I don't care. Ruin your life,

00:01:56.300 whatever. And if I were to talk to a full room full of traditional, you know, traditional,

00:02:01.260 they're really, it's fake trad, conservative mothers, I would tell them radical acceptance

00:02:05.860 is better than perpetuating the false narrative that being a virgin on your wedding night is the

00:02:13.660 only thing that you should strive for and realistic in today's times. The only reason I can think about

00:02:20.760 why traditional conservative mothers expect their daughters to stay virgins in the modern day is

00:02:26.400 really to control them. And that's really what the church is doing and women are doing in the church.

00:02:32.800 Their goal is to control the male sex drive. They cannot acknowledge, and we're going to get into

00:02:38.980 this, that sex is a need. Young girls and men start to feel sexual urges 10 to 13, that young.

00:02:48.020 The urges clash with the traditional concert, with what the conservative mother is saying and creates

00:02:54.000 shameful feelings towards sex. The dynamic teaches women to weaponize sex against men to get what they

00:03:00.980 want. So they don't trust the man. They say, I will only give you sex if I get the commitment that I want.

00:03:06.800 There's really no incentive for them to be good people, right? The whores, they're like, I'm giving

00:03:12.820 it up on the first night. I'm giving it up to everyone. So they got to work harder. They got to

00:03:18.180 like, that's why you see them dressing like they dress the way men like. They're willing to go get

00:03:23.400 these surgeries to look like the men want them to look. They're willing to learn the gluck, gluck 5,000,

00:03:29.060 okay? And it teaches traditional or young conservative leaning women that sex is the

00:03:36.080 only thing to offer men. And it leaves them very unprepared for the modern dating market. So I

00:03:41.940 made a PowerPoint, right? So I want to first point out, this is my PowerPoint, that sex is a need for

00:03:49.100 men and for women. And the only people that don't acknowledge this are complete simps. And as you guys

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00:05:56.360 up all night. It is pre-workout, but you know. Back to the PowerPoint. So, sex is a need for men

00:06:04.360 and for women. Now, the church does not acknowledge this. This is a basic drive. The same way we need

00:06:11.200 food, humans need sex. Now, you might think, Pearl, what is your evidence for this? You wouldn't think

00:06:18.380 this if you weren't just a 304 whore and you just had some self-control degenerate. That's what they

00:06:25.280 would say to me. And that's what they say to men, too. They say, don't sleep with these women. Have

00:06:33.300 some self-control. Now, I want to talk about the data that backs this up. So, I asked the two

00:06:40.200 question, what percent of Americans masturbate? I know it's kind of an awkward topic, right? No one

00:06:47.000 really wants to talk about that at dinner, but I'm just, let's get this out in the open. 84% of

00:06:53.680 Americans are feeling, and this is admitted, this is surveys, are feeling themselves. 91% of men who

00:07:00.360 identify as men engage in sexy self-care. I don't like these words. It's probably a liberal who got

00:07:06.440 this study, whatever. And those who identify as women come out in 78%. So, what we're seeing, 80% of

00:07:14.100 women, 91% of men. Can we assume the rest are fucking? Can we assume, like, according to surveys

00:07:20.200 of users conducted in the U.S. between September and October 22nd, 62% of male respondents reported having

00:07:28.760 a habit of watching? So, 6 out of 10. And remember, this is admitted, and to be honest, I don't think

00:07:35.920 men love admitting to watching porn, like, porn. I mean, is that like a W for you guys? Or you guys,

00:07:41.280 you guys aren't proud of that. Do you know what I mean? Like, so, now, I started to think, okay,

00:07:47.000 what about the priests? Now, I'm a Catholic, and I'm a bad Catholic. I don't like to use it,

00:07:52.780 but I just want to give you guys the, like, worldview I come from a little bit. But all

00:07:58.620 these churches are simps. They're all simps, all of them. And they've really lost my faith in

00:08:04.120 institutions. I think you're better just treating your husband like a god. I think your life will be

00:08:09.520 better from treating your husband like a god. That sounds nice, doesn't it, fellas? Than going to church

00:08:15.580 and listening to whatever the Jesus man says. Yeah, Charlie says, God literally commanded men to be

00:08:21.080 fruitful and multiply. Now, look, I don't want to interpret the Bible. There's people that know

00:08:25.860 more about the Bible than I do. And that's how women confuse you. They say you're not qualified

00:08:32.420 to read what's in front of you. It's the same way they don't want you to, like, look at your personal

00:08:37.500 experience to come to conclusions, and they're like, my study, my study. It's because they can

00:08:41.400 manipulate the studies. They do the same thing with the Bible. You could open the Bible, and it says,

00:08:46.160 be fruitful and multiply. It's time to bang. And they'll say, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's

00:08:52.020 interpreted. He meant this. And you're like, I don't know. Like, I think that's why they switched

00:08:56.840 the languages of it. I think the only way we're going to get the truth is if we learn the original

00:09:02.240 language of the Bible. Because I've just seen how, like, there's no group that's not manipulated by

00:09:07.980 women. And I just don't believe it didn't happen in the past. I know what, maybe I'm too blackpilled.

00:09:13.820 I don't know. Okay. So, according to research, what percent of priests admit to being celibate

00:09:21.500 and, like, hitting that goal? Only 2% of people way more religious than any of us in the chat.

00:09:29.220 A 25-year study of 1,500 Catholic priests found that fewer than half of priests in the U.S. even

00:09:36.700 attempted celibacy. Um, they have estimated over 100,000 men have left the priesthood worldwide since

00:09:45.200 the 1960s. Cyp, you know, okay. Yeah. Okay. I don't care about this part. So, 2% of men that are,

00:09:55.360 like, trying to do, you know, to avoid having sex admit to achieving it. What do I, what do I think?

00:10:03.340 It's so funny. If you guys watch videos of me, like, three years ago, I'm like, yeah, I believe

00:10:08.000 people. I just believe them. The world has taken that out of me. Half of them, at least, are liars.

00:10:13.320 The world, I don't know. I think women, this is, like, delayed by a decade. We don't, we don't see

00:10:18.120 the world for how it is until later. That's why you guys like the young women. You can just tell them,

00:10:23.840 you're like, baby, I'll give you the world and they'll believe it. I'm old now. I'm like, you know.

00:10:28.560 Anyway, so the church says, wait till marriage. Now, I see the value in this, right? Women having

00:10:34.980 a lot of sexual partners leads to problems. They're more, they're more likely to be on SSRIs.

00:10:40.840 They're more likely to have mental issues. They're more likely to crave that variety and go back.

00:10:47.020 And so there's a whole abstinence culture. And what the church thought is they thought,

00:10:50.900 if we just shame the sex, if we just say no sex, no sex, no sex, that's the solution.

00:10:55.340 The challenge you get is waiting till marriage gives the women the leverage, okay? Because what

00:11:01.780 it does is men want, like, on average, the research is saying, men think about having sex 19 times a

00:11:09.400 day. Women, it's less, allegedly. Women are very sexual and we do downplay their sexuality. Men,

00:11:17.400 men's testosterone is 300 to 1,000 nanograms per deciliter. Women, it's 15,000 nanograms.

00:11:25.340 So men want sex 10 times more than women. So if you say, wait till marriage for sex,

00:11:32.660 this puts the man at the disadvantage because he wants it 10 times more. It's like a man, like,

00:11:37.400 let's say a guy needs food. It's like a guy that's starving. It's like you put food in front of a guy

00:11:45.000 that's starving versus a fat guy. The fat guy can live off of his blubber for like three months.

00:11:50.520 But the guy that's starving is going to be like, give it to me. I'll do whatever. I'll do whatever.

00:11:56.300 Just give me the food. And on top of that, the women that Lee says only 19 times a day, Elliot in

00:12:01.760 the chat on the website, don't be cheap. Go to the websites. Okay. You guys can't be, you know,

00:12:06.840 I'm just, I'm not the best salesperson. Anyways, Elliot, 19 times a day. That's a lot. So I guess

00:12:11.920 there's disagreements. I don't know. So now what did they do before? Now, what was the solution

00:12:17.060 to this diabolical sex drive that both men and women, we want to be like, you know,

00:12:24.020 we have these urges from very young, you know, I'm not going to say the first time that I had the,

00:12:30.020 you know, but I think we could all say it's younger than we all want to admit. It's a little

00:12:34.840 bit uncomfortable. Ron, Ron Dolpho says, Jesse Lee Peterson says, women can't admit men are right

00:12:40.480 until men are on their deathbed. Podcasts are going to be interesting in 25 years. That's true.

00:12:45.900 I don't know how I came to this conclusion. I think it's because I got treated like a man.

00:12:50.600 I'm still a woman. I'd still be skeptical of me. It's fine. Anyways, arranged marriages was what the

00:12:56.220 case used to be. So first off, families used to know each other. And what would happen is they'd say

00:13:02.900 your fam, like the two families would be near each other. And they'd say, let's set our kids up.

00:13:08.580 Sometimes if there was an older guy like nearby, and he like peeped, he said, Oh, that daughter,

00:13:14.300 she's got a nice piece of ass. Or she's cute. She looks like she was raised wife, right? Hey,

00:13:20.340 dad, can I marry her? And the dad would be like, what are your intentions? And they would go back

00:13:25.940 and forth. And he'd be like, all right, he's a nice guy. Sure, you can have her. And the kids waited

00:13:31.800 till marriage because again, they were getting married at like 16 years old. So the average age

00:13:37.480 of first sexual experience in the US is 16. Or maybe they would fool around before, but they just like,

00:13:43.700 it would be private. They would do the soaking or whatever the hell. And they just wouldn't tell

00:13:49.220 anyone and they'd get married after, you know, that's why we had shotgun weddings, right? The

00:13:52.940 dad would say, all right, you're pregnant. That's fine. Do the right thing. Do the right thing. And

00:13:59.400 it wouldn't be that big of a deal that they had sex outside of marriage because they just

00:14:03.020 got married. They had the kid and they just lived. They stay, you know, the problem wasn't the sex

00:14:09.220 outside of marriage. The problem is the women leaving and we keep thinking we can do better,

00:14:13.900 right? That's the problem. Because when you give us ladies like a bunch of choice, it's always the

00:14:19.660 same thing. We go for the top men. We go for 10% of men. That's the real problem, right? It's not like

00:14:27.580 this. I mean, what's the difference if they hook up before the wedding and they get married anyway?

00:14:32.980 And the dad was also a buffer because he could say, you know, if a guy came to him and said,

00:14:38.440 I want to take care of your daughter. He's like, no, this guy's no good. He's going to smash. Like

00:14:43.380 women cannot, we have no discernment in who is smashing and, you know, going to just pass

00:14:49.900 versus who's going to stick around. None. I mean, that's what, you know, women are like,

00:14:54.320 you know, they'll say they're egregious body counts. And it's like all the same guys. Like if you go

00:15:00.660 on a panel, like I would venture to guess if you took a panel of 10 women on whatever,

00:15:06.760 two have had sex with the same guys if they live in the same city. Yeah. This is arranged marriages.

00:15:12.140 This is what I'm describing. Now there would be a dowry involved, but the thing was men knew that in

00:15:18.340 the past that women were not good with money. Like it's no, it's no coincidence that women like

00:15:25.880 pandering to women pays. If you lie, women buy. And so the men didn't think it was a good idea for

00:15:31.520 women to like have the inheritance or have the money. So what they would do is they would,

00:15:36.440 they would pass the, the money onto the son and say, look, she is a liability. All women they viewed

00:15:43.180 as liability. I mean, you guys still do, right? But you can't say it anymore. You can't say it.

00:15:47.920 So now they would say, here's the money. Here you go. Here you go. Daughter's husband.

00:15:54.420 Now the husband is a son to the dad. Um,

00:15:57.520 um,

00:16:01.520 the equivalent of this would be like several thousand dollars in today's earnings, um, or

00:16:07.520 and a bride price, which is like 300. Um, and if the women said no, you know, the dad would say

00:16:13.560 like, this was seen as a insult to the dad. Now I'm sure there were some dads that were a little bit,

00:16:21.860 you know, nicer and said, okay, we'll try the next one. But at some point, you know, at some point,

00:16:29.540 the dad is going to say, okay, you are just too picky. You are not listening because again,

00:16:35.740 this, it was patriarchal before. So the men decided not the women, but when you give women choice,

00:16:41.680 that means the women decide. And how are we with decisions? And so what he would do is say,

00:16:46.480 if he had multiple kids, which they had like seven back then, he would say, okay,

00:16:49.700 your sister gets the inheritance. And you know how competitive women are with our sisters.

00:16:55.100 We're like, Oh, I'm not doing that. Or if the woman wanted to do it, she really couldn't make

00:17:01.600 money as much. Like there would be a consequence. Like if she wanted, she might have a scarlet letter.

00:17:07.820 She'd have to work super hard to get the next guy to marry her. Cause now he knows she's not

00:17:11.860 going to listen. She didn't listen to her dad doubt. She'll listen to me, but Hey, I'm sure some women

00:17:17.300 went out and found the guy or, you know, she would die. Cause she's not under her dad's protection

00:17:21.800 anymore. So most women did it. You know, that's why women got married in the modern day. Um, now

00:17:28.380 in the modern day, really. And I was just disagreeing with someone before the show. They, they think

00:17:35.100 that no one will marry these women. I've seen too much. Someone will always do it. There's always a

00:17:40.020 simp always, always, always. I mean, they might not marry, but they'll at least get a long-term

00:17:44.860 girlfriend for like, it'll be basically like, I consider if a couple lives together over a certain

00:17:51.660 amount of time, like you're married basically. Um, I mean, there might not be a certificate.

00:17:57.280 You might not have the last name. There's always anyways. Now there's pros to this. Um, women are

00:18:02.940 forced to make a responsible decision. There's no single mothers. There's not all this crazy stuff

00:18:08.640 going on. Um, the con women may not really want to be there and resent the guy. I think that's why

00:18:16.500 they fought so hard for this feminism stuff was because, you know, they wanted the choice. Now we

00:18:22.680 have the choice. It's not going too well. I mean, that's like, you know, the downside. And I don't

00:18:28.500 tell you guys what to do, but I'm just saying, so if the church cared about purity, they would go

00:18:34.900 back to this model because again, sex is a need is a need. But what they want to say is, Hey,

00:18:42.340 enter the modern dating market. Now this is the modern dating market. So couples nowadays meet on

00:18:47.960 dating apps through social settings or social media sometimes work, but that's, it's mostly dating apps

00:18:54.860 or social media. Usually they're going to sleep together pretty much immediately within three dates

00:19:00.360 tops. Generally speaking, unless you're a super simp and some girl bamboozled you into waiting

00:19:06.500 months. I'm sorry to inform you fellas. You took an L unless she was like 20. She's given it up to

00:19:12.940 somebody else immediately or close to it. Have sex casually for a couple months to two years. Some

00:19:21.800 guys it's like three, you know, I've had a different, I asked my male friends, some of them will have sex

00:19:27.320 for like three months casually before like to vet her, see if she's worth making a girlfriend.

00:19:32.300 I've heard up to two years. We're getting pretty bad. They're like these women, I got to make sure

00:19:36.220 she's not in any SSRIs, no anger issues. And these women can be chameleons for damn near forever.

00:19:45.160 They keep increasing this time. The average number of years to date before you get a ring is three.

00:19:51.240 I'm not sure if they include situationships, but that's the average. Then you get married and

00:19:56.720 divorce after three years or after not three years, seven years, then you repeat. So the total

00:20:02.600 time of this life cycle can be three years to a decade. The more cautious men draw it out longer,

00:20:10.020 the less cautious men make it shorter. So the benefit of not giving women what they want in the

00:20:16.500 modern dating market, so no ring, is you get to see if the woman's there for you or is she there for

00:20:21.580 like the wedding? Cause the wedding is like our currency, right? We get the, we get the high off

00:20:26.380 of the wedding. We get the high off of the husband. We get the high off of the baby. We get all this

00:20:30.100 attention on us. It's like women that don't get this stuff. That's why they say girlfriends are

00:20:35.040 better than wives. I have met so many men. Like it's ridiculous that dated a girl for 10 years,

00:20:41.460 married her, and they got divorced in a year. I'm like, what are we doing women? What are, it's like,

00:20:45.940 we wanted to see if we could get them. And then once we got them, they're like, next, next. Okay.

00:20:51.700 So next is the wait until marriage in the modern dating market. Now this is mostly for Simpson suckers.

00:20:59.200 I hate to break it to you guys, but you are getting bamboozled and the women, they're really

00:21:06.040 taking you for a ride. I know you think your wife is special and different, but unless you met that

00:21:11.480 bitch in high school, she's not, you don't know what she was doing. She could have been getting

00:21:16.080 tag teamed the year before she met you. You don't know. And if your answer is, I know my wife is

00:21:21.420 special and different because I take women's word for it. I know you're a mark. Sorry. Sorry,

00:21:27.920 fellows. Maybe if you've known her since she was young, but again, you know, like older men that

00:21:33.660 have been dating these young broads. One of the reasons they say they're able to get the young broads

00:21:37.720 is because the young broads can get casual sex outside of their social circle. So, you know,

00:21:43.360 they can go, you know, if you, if you go hook up with a 50 year old, nobody in your friend group's

00:21:47.880 going to find out you don't have the reputation of a whore. And, you know, men have said this in

00:21:53.620 different races too, you know, that the women will go try that. They don't want anyone to find out

00:21:59.280 the data guy in a different like racial social circle. Cause you know, races like tend to segregate a

00:22:05.220 little bit, just naturally you're getting bamboozled. Christian simps. This is your red

00:22:10.600 pill. There is no guarantee that your woman was not a whore before she met you. You might as well

00:22:15.720 just assume. Um, okay. So that, but this is the life cycle. What they're going to do is meet her

00:22:21.260 on a dating app. Generally, um, maybe through social circle school, um, generally not more likely a dating

00:22:27.840 app. Give the woman the benefit of the doubt that she has given zero blow jobs, no anal, or found some

00:22:33.840 other workaround at the age of 27, despite having sexual desires at at least 16. Remember the average

00:22:40.460 age people are losing their virginity is 16. If a woman's 26 and she hasn't had sex, something's

00:22:46.440 off. Something is wrong with her. I'm just being honest. Something's wrong. Something's wrong. I

00:22:51.520 don't look, she's automatically, again, she automatically, because of testosterone difference,

00:22:57.600 he wants his, he wants sex 10 times more. So he's willing to basically bend to her will. Um,

00:23:03.360 wait, basically worship her. She also says, you know, masturbating for him. You know, that's why

00:23:08.480 you get these trad women saying, ah, evil, evil. Let the man look at some tits in peace. Do you know

00:23:15.140 what I mean? It's like, God damn, what do you want him cheating? Do you want him to go find the

00:23:19.540 real thing? You know, metal rack says she was 32. Idiot. That's your own fault. Some of you guys,

00:23:26.260 you, you sign up for destruction. You really do. God, you believe anything. Lee says, you can always

00:23:32.160 tell if she has anal, it shows. What does that mean? Wait, I want you to, I want you to detail.

00:23:38.640 It's like, women will be virgins. You're going to be a virgin with AIDS. Like, what do you, you know,

00:23:43.260 that's how you get it. You know, get AIDS or gonorrhea. It's like, you're going to get something

00:23:48.220 doing that stuff. Let's see. What is needed is a new arranged and matched marriage based on the

00:23:54.800 reality that women are romantics and men are romance seekers. I'll answer the cop, answer the

00:24:00.300 copier question later. Yeah. Lee can serve a purpose. And what they'll do is they'll say,

00:24:05.780 yeah, men that watch are more likely to get divorced. Well, the study they won't do, I'll tell

00:24:11.460 you the study they won't do. How much do those men that are watching, how much do their wives weigh and

00:24:16.980 how much are they putting out? They've, I've never seen that study. I've never seen trad women say

00:24:22.380 women, please fuck your husband. Dear God. You know, Christian men are the ones on OnlyFans and

00:24:30.880 it's because the women have been taught to weaponize sex from before the wedding. Okay. And if he does

00:24:37.560 watch masturbate, she'll say he's not godly enough and call it off. Also, the pastor gets to interpret

00:24:43.800 the Bible for you and your wife gets to manipulate him into interpreting it her way. So what she'll do

00:24:49.960 is, um, you now have to submit to another man and he gets to tell you how to treat your wife in your

00:24:57.240 house. Yeah. So now, and she gets to go complain to him when you're not behaving the way that she

00:25:02.780 wants. Then wait till marriage and hope she puts out after, even though she didn't put out before.

00:25:10.500 So you just pray that she has a good sex drive.

Pearl - February 18, 2025

This Is Why Conservatives Are DETACHED From The Dating Reality ｜ Pearl Daily

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