Pearl - This Is Why Men Should Never Date SINGLE MOMS!

00:00:00.000 women uh first of all react positively to being treated lousely number two hell yeah we do 1.00

00:00:05.940 treat me like shit baby barely like me somebody got pregnant at 22 as a result of a one-night 0.99

00:00:15.720 stand should have an abortion get the master's degree what up guys welcome to pearl's reaction 1.00

00:00:25.600 series today i am going to be reacting to tom likus single mothers are damaged goods here's an email 0.67

00:00:33.880 for a listener named jennifer jennifer writes it says dear tom i've been listening to your show for

00:00:39.400 about six months and i am in complete agreement with your viewpoint on single mothers i'm writing

00:00:45.580 to you because i don't know what i can say to my best friend who just found out she is pregnant at

00:00:50.580 22. i don't know how to get her to get an abortion the father is 24 and of course wants nothing to 0.99

00:00:56.860 do with her since this is the result of a one-night stand she argues that she can take care of it 1.00

00:01:02.020 herself since she has a job and she's finished with college but after listening to all the dumbass women 1.00

00:01:07.440 who call you a show i know that is not the case she is living with her parents and she is of the 0.96

00:01:13.480 mindset that they will help her i've told her that they probably will it's a simpidemic right

00:01:19.900 they totally will why rise why raise your kid when your parents could do it for you

00:01:24.780 totally almost stereotype her as she's probably right what and no man will ever want to date her 0.97

00:01:31.200 she of course thinks that i'm a complete bitch for saying it by the way men have no problem with 1.00

00:01:35.880 women being sluts unless it's a matter of marrying them no man wants to marry a slut but we do love 1.00

00:01:41.180 having sex with sluts the problem is when you are damaged goods that's the problem years ago when i 1.00

00:01:47.800 lived in phoenix and did a local radio show there was a local car dealer who once a year this is 0.99

00:01:53.420 true and you know dean will remember because dean uh dean lived in scottsdale there was a car dealer

00:01:58.700 let's just say he was on the outskirts of phoenix he wasn't quite in phoenix itself this might give

00:02:03.440 you a hint as to who it is every year he used to his own radio commercials and he would advertise the

00:02:08.500 big sale that we're having on cars that got stuck out in the annual hail storm they were just slightly

00:02:13.740 damaged by hail you get great deals on those cars and that's how i think of 22 year old women who 1.00

00:02:20.160 have babies they might still look hot but they've been damaged damaged by the hail storm so you know

00:02:25.920 of course you get them at a good price i mean if you want hot chicks cheap you have to get them in the 1.00

00:02:34.120 slightly damaged department if you want hot chicks cheap you get them in the slightly and that's what 1.00

00:02:41.120 these chicks are they are damaged goods damaged goods are for poor guys i mean if you're me you

00:02:46.380 got money power and fame you don't take slightly damaged goods you don't take somebody with baggage

00:02:51.300 you don't have to you would be amazed how many women take a run at me you have some kind of baggage 1.00

00:02:55.540 or some kind of damage going on i don't have to put up with that stuff find a poor guy

00:02:59.840 find a poor guy you kidding me there's some guy delivering papa john's in your neighborhood

00:03:07.560 that's your man and the reason he's working at papa john's because he knocked up his high school 0.98

00:03:15.720 sweetheart and then now he's ready to marry you

00:03:18.300 that's so funny i know it sounds ridiculous but think about it it's the 100 truth we did a whole

00:03:28.040 show about that the kind of jobs guys take when they knocked up their girlfriend and there's a whole

00:03:32.840 uh line of jobs where you look the guy in the eye and you see that that beaten like a dog look

00:03:38.920 hang dog look you can tell the guy is only there like whatever dream he had has evaporated it's been

00:03:44.820 vaporized because he had 30 seconds of ejaculate with uh one particular individual and now he's

00:03:50.220 going to pay for it for the rest of his life hoping you give him two bucks for your brooklyn pizza

00:03:55.180 it's domino's isn't it yeah what's the it doesn't matter which pizza place where are the wealthy pizza

00:04:00.240 delivery guys working yeah exactly by the way speaking of which did you see that story about the

00:04:05.920 fast food industry there's apparently going to be a commercial on the super bowl i forget what they're

00:04:10.540 advertising but i guess it's uh kevin federlein who realized how far he sunk because he's working

00:04:15.740 in a burger place and now like the fast food restaurant association is up is that the guy that

00:04:20.620 got britney spears pregnant i'm not sure certainly what this commercial pulled like imagine implying 0.89

00:04:25.920 that that's as low as you could go for a job guess what that's pretty goddamn low the roto 0.96

00:04:31.200 rudiment's got a disgusting job at least he gets 30 bucks an hour 0.89

00:04:34.100 imagine implying that a job flipping burgers is about as low as you could drop so anyway dear uh

00:04:42.100 yes the letter writer is absolutely right her friend is damaged goods if she has this baby she 1.00

00:04:47.900 will be damaged goods that's how guys will see her her email continues yeah her best strategy here

00:04:54.740 is going to be to get the abortion and lie now i'm pro-life okay i don't believe in abortion i think

00:04:59.600 it's wrong but we're not talking about morality here we're talking about strategy and for her to

00:05:04.480 get the best outcome in life yeah that's what she's gonna have to do she had plans to go to london how

00:05:09.680 do you like this her friend had plans to go to london and get her master's degree now she'll be stuck in

00:05:15.520 ohio working at her uncle's light factory the rest of her life we're both educated attractive girls

00:05:22.040 and she deserves better she just can't fathom that her best friend is only trying to look out for her

00:05:28.460 tom pregnancy has made her insane 1.00

00:05:31.260 i wish i could lock her in a padded cell of a psychiatric ward and make her listen to your show 1.00

00:05:39.240 for weeks to get a real education if you read this on the air i'm going to record it and play it to her

00:05:45.500 with all the comments people will make when they call in so that they can see what her life is going

00:05:50.400 to be like if she doesn't get an abortion sign jennifer jennifer i just want to say i completely agree

00:05:55.660 with you somebody who got pregnant at 22 as a result of a one-night stand should have an abortion 0.92

00:06:01.080 get the master's degree it doesn't mean don't ever have a baby or don't ever get married

00:06:05.980 get the master's degree get the career going get your life in order have babies when you're ready

00:06:12.560 don't be having babies now because you are going to live a life of poverty you're going to be married 0.58

00:06:17.980 to the papa john's delivery guy that's going to be your husband you're going to hate it 0.92

00:06:21.840 yeah but oh because the papa john's guys who's gonna take her it's so funny oh i could do it on

00:06:30.100 my own yeah she's gonna have to lie um guys there's no incentive to be a good person i'd like to say in

00:06:36.900 this world i don't know what age i i'm to the age that's what i found out where there's no incentive

00:06:41.980 to being a good person i'm gonna be honest so recently i checked back and i was having a conversation

00:06:49.360 with someone to talk about hoes versus prudes who has better outcomes and i thought 0.98

00:06:54.600 well i was on a team in college and i had a pretty good idea of who was and who wasn't

00:07:00.300 more you know more or less it's like a scale and you know what's crazy i looked them up the other day

00:07:05.680 and percentage wise more of the hoes were married than the prudes and i sat there and i was like 0.99

00:07:13.280 there is no incentive to be a good person zero like and it wasn't close guys i'd like to say

00:07:21.500 that it it wasn't like like let's say we divided it five and five right it was not like three to four

00:07:30.700 it was so and i thought i sat there and i thought to myself and i was like wow

00:07:37.140 then i covered bankruptcy the other week and i guess after seven years you can get a bankruptcy

00:07:44.520 off your record and you cannot pay back the money i thought so i don't have debt for what i should

00:07:51.380 have just gotten into debt why not i could get bankruptcy at 25 and be done with it by 35

00:07:58.300 i'm i could have even cash and i thought about this i'm like couldn't i make money off of the debt

00:08:03.100 if i just cashed out invested in it i don't know how it works but there's no incentive this girl 0.93

00:08:09.500 the incentive for not killing the kid is like a life of poverty and marrying the papa john's delivery

00:08:15.540 driver the incentive for killing this kid is she could marry better she could get a career she can go 1.00

00:08:21.820 to england there's way too much incentive poor little johnny is kicking in their womb saying please 0.99

00:08:27.200 don't do it mom don't do it cooked sorry johnny you're cooked you're done naseki nada she's she's

00:08:36.140 yeah done make it on my own who needs a man yeah watch when you find out how much it costs to raise a 0.99

00:08:41.460 kid watch it when you find out how much you have to pay for an apartment with a larger uh square

00:08:46.640 footage so you can fit a nursery or a crib or whatever but you find out the cost of feeding clothing

00:08:52.320 educating and insuring a child that we are talking about hundreds of thousands of dollars for the

00:08:58.520 life of that kid much more money than you've ever seen in your entire life get the abortion you will 0.96

00:09:03.960 step up your life dramatically i'm not the guy i'm not the one night stand so i don't have to pull a

00:09:08.780 hail mary on you darling all i'm going to tell you is this if you have that baby every guy you try

00:09:14.320 to date is going to see you as damaged goods you're going to date guys of lesser education lesser salaries

00:09:19.540 and if you've got a master's degree which it doesn't sound like you're going to bother to get

00:09:23.080 now you can probably end up making more than the loser you'll be forced to marry if you insist on 0.99

00:09:27.660 getting married it's pathetic so i i do think the hormones are driving you crazy and what you really 0.99

00:09:32.240 should do is get that abortion i mean am i all that wrong this is sarah on the tom like a show hello 0.99

00:09:38.380 hello mr like it yes um i actually have a brief question that doesn't have anything to do with a

00:09:45.960 segment that you just introduced um well then why are you calling oh yeah that's how i feel

00:09:52.780 sometimes that's how do you know what they're like well i disagree with you on this i'm like

00:09:59.140 did you hear the 30 minute monologue well no

00:10:03.500 i put on all this time into writing this monologue did you hear the question well i don't know the topic

00:10:12.380 what i just wanted to see you what you can book time with me you can book a session yeah did you

00:10:21.100 decide to change the format of the show here or something no of course not but i do have a question

00:10:25.660 that i've been wanting well if it isn't relevant to what we're talking about uh you shouldn't be

00:10:29.720 calling in oh well then your screener should not put me through well what exactly are you calling

00:10:36.240 that let's find out what that is okay um i listen to like it's 101 all the time right and agree with

00:10:44.080 many of the things that you profess on your show however in practice they're sometimes easy to or

00:10:50.560 sometimes hard to live by to actually like go out and and do the things that you say every guy and

00:10:57.600 every single girl how do you know they're hard to do i i do them well and that's where i'm going has

00:11:05.600 anybody ever been able to watch you all day to actually actually last the yes that the answer

00:11:12.080 is yes last valentine's day i invited listeners to join me at lola's bar on fairfax on it was the

00:11:20.320 night of valentine's day and right in front of right in front of a crazy watch no no no this was not

00:11:26.880 sponsored by the radio station was no broadcast okay uh there was nothing going on except i went with dean

00:11:32.640 and the two of us hung out there and of course the evening i picked up two chicks 1.00

00:11:39.680 and people saw me there so you've never taken for instance a young gentleman under your wing

00:11:45.600 and shown him the likeest way like from six o'clock in the morning when you get up and no no no it's not

00:11:51.280 necessary i i i was at a bar i picked up chicks i did it my way anyone who's ever seen me with chicks 1.00

00:12:00.000 anyone who's ever seen me with chicks in public knows it must be working where can we view you 1.00

00:12:07.200 working this magic well i valentine's day i'll probably do it again interesting i would like to

00:12:15.120 see you in action i i think it's real easy to she wants him she wants to be picked up by him she's down 0.68

00:12:22.240 background background and where you get your information forget about my background i'm

00:12:27.040 talking about the callers who call in and say i did what you said and it worked for me

00:12:33.360 it's women's worst fear that men can learn game we think that like men need to come 1.00

00:12:41.840 we want the men that are popular to be popular from the beginning

00:12:46.640 we don't like game because it like bypasses our filter because we basically filter you out if you're

00:12:52.880 weird if you're awkward if you're feminine like we just i mean you guys know how it is you guys will

00:12:58.080 say one thing and we're like and so we hate that men can learn to be charming because it's a workaround

00:13:07.040 and it does work it does it really does okay now you don't listen as much as you say if you've never

00:13:13.920 heard a call like that you don't listen as often as you say oh of course i've heard calls like that

00:13:18.560 but what about them are they all lying i'm lying they're lying we're all lying no oh absolutely not

00:13:25.920 i'm not being hostile at all i'm curious i think that you have to dig deeper though into your mentality

00:13:32.000 in order to understand where you're coming from and i don't yes where i'm coming from is women 1.00

00:13:36.400 women uh first of all react positively to being treated lousely number two women like hell yeah we 0.97

00:13:44.000 do treat me like baby

00:13:51.440 barely like me confidence and a competent man is one who says i don't care if you sleep with me or you

00:13:57.920 don't or i fine go back to your ex-boyfriend that's okay with me that women women can't get enough of that 1.00

00:14:05.920 because generally men are a bunch of sniveling pussies who will tolerate any crap from her hell 1.00

00:14:11.040 yeah they are majesty and the minute a man comes along who is confident and calls her on her crap 1.00

00:14:20.640 and tells her go ahead fine sleep with someone else i don't care i'm telling you that's refreshing but i 0.56

00:14:25.680 haven't seen very many men doing it in public dear understand our show in the highest rated markets

00:14:32.720 because like in l.a there's 82 radio stations okay the highest rated uh the show would be 10

00:14:38.800 of the audience so in any city 90 of the men are not listening

00:14:45.520 i i would i just think that there's a lot of things that are left

00:14:50.240 questionable sometimes there's nothing questionable about it if you met one of my listeners you would

00:14:55.040 know it well do you understand i know women have a very hard time with numbers do you understand that

00:15:00.400 if the highest rated show has 10 of the audience that means 90 of the people you meet don't listen

00:15:07.200 you understand there's 82 stations a station with two percent of the audience is a higher than average

00:15:13.280 audience so the station with a higher than average rating 98 of the listening is not to that station

00:15:21.280 i guess what i'm getting at is you're you seem to be a very intelligent businessman

00:15:26.080 and i sometimes wonder about how you implement the practices that you say you do in a society

00:15:32.320 the way i say i mean how i implement them i tell you how i implement them it just seems very hard to

00:15:38.320 do a lot i get very specific i get very i tell men how to avoid eating dinner with a woman and why to

00:15:44.960 avoid it i tell men to avoid going to concerts avoid going to movies i tell men to keep the conversation

00:15:52.000 he really is before his time yeah you guys really are taking l's when you take a girl to a concert

00:15:57.920 because most likely the guy on stage could take your girl it's like we our brain is just who's the 0.99

00:16:05.360 most popular man right we're so dumb you guys care about like character and big boobs you know what 0.99

00:16:13.120 i mean like that's you guys so you guys care about the character big boobs but you guys have seen a 1.00

00:16:18.080 man that's blinded by a woman with big tits right i mean you've seen it where you can't even believe 1.00

00:16:23.040 the simp shit he's doing for the big boobs you wouldn't believe the simp shit that we do for a 1.00

00:16:28.400 guy that we perceive to be popular you guys could be faking it and men do fake it they buy instagram 1.00

00:16:34.960 followers and it works have you seen the picture or the video of the guy who got fake live stream viewers

00:16:42.560 where he got like a camera and he put like a fake like fake viewers and all the girls were all over 1.00

00:16:48.720 it he lived like a king this night dumb do you know what that's the age you get to as a person i think 0.97

00:16:54.400 when you realize all this dumb works that you think you're above it's like you know there's a girl on 0.97

00:16:58.960 my team in college right and do you know what she was dating one of the like more attractive men 0.82

00:17:05.440 um at our school i'll say and i couldn't understand how she pulled this off because i found her to be

00:17:10.560 annoying and if i find you to be annoying you're pretty annoying so because like if i'm saying

00:17:19.520 that then that's pretty bad so do you know what she had like two personalities and it was so crazy

00:17:25.360 she would have like two voices where she would talk normal and then she would talk like slow and like 0.98

00:17:31.120 like it would be like a second talking to him and i'm like what the fuck just happened 0.99

00:17:35.520 do you know what i mean but this shit it worked she had like she had one of the best looking 0.99

00:17:40.840 boyfriends on campus did he cheat yeah he did do you know what i mean but i mean he was publicly with 0.99

00:17:46.800 her so she figured something out um and it wasn't like and so i think men have this too where they

00:17:55.120 it's like they can be themselves around men and then women they have to develop this second personality

00:18:00.160 of just like men can't even give their heart to a woman right because that's a terrible idea as soon

00:18:05.920 as you do that we'll abuse it you can't even you can't even truly like love us because if we if you

00:18:12.240 actually love us you kind of have to hate us a little bit so that's the like the part of life when

00:18:17.280 you realize there's no incentive to be a good person i'm not saying you shouldn't be a good person

00:18:22.080 everyone's got their own morality but there's definitely no incentive right men and women really truly like

00:18:27.680 i was thinking about this the other day what incentive do women have to be modest zero none 1.00

00:18:34.240 women get like a whole attractiveness point if they're like naked enough where what is the incentive 1.00

00:18:39.440 to not be naked if you have a good body it's always convenient the women that are modest never have good 1.00

00:18:44.320 bodies anyways that's my two my rant today short say as little as possible and when you do talk to a

00:18:50.880 woman be unpredictable and unreliable because that is what gets the best reaction what if this situation 1.00

00:18:58.240 were reversed and you needed to you because because you seem to have all the answers to everything

00:19:03.040 what if you had to tutor a woman i would tell this this is advice for it this is advice for anyone who

00:19:09.520 can admit that they want to get laid the thing about most women is they'll give you some candy coated thing 1.00

00:19:17.120 that they're looking for love or they're looking for the man of their dreams or they're looking for a

00:19:20.320 soul mate or blah blah blah i know there's women who want to get laid because i've been with them 1.00

00:19:27.120 but women will rarely admit that you see no and it makes perfect sense i just i wonder about how

00:19:34.080 you don't repeat your material you've already said this five times there it gets tiresome and you've

00:19:38.560 said that five times all right okay you're skeptical fine we get it all right thank you very much thank you

00:19:45.600 you only have uh 90 seconds of juice at most yeah okay well guys i like tom likus i like him i've

00:19:53.680 never actually you know i think i listed him it was a while ago but it's been a minute and um he really

00:19:58.960 is ahead of his time this is from like the 90s or something that's what people were saying anyways guys

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Pearl - April 16, 2025

This Is Why Men Should Never Date SINGLE MOMS!

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