Pearl - Traditional Conservative Mothers And Sexual Shame (Call-in Show)

00:00:00.000 good afternoon good evening ladies and gentlemen welcome to another episode of pearl daily here

00:00:19.720 on the audacity network i am your host pearl and boy do i have a show for you guys today

00:00:25.520 before we start if you guys want feel free to sign up at the audacity network.com we also are

00:00:32.520 on the app store for both apps or for apple and samsung or whatever other phone you got i'm an

00:00:38.720 apple gang so i don't i don't really venture outside of that um so that's the first thing

00:00:44.920 the reason i do this is because these women they really try to ruin my life they do they i'm

00:00:50.260 currently being actively threatened with a lawsuit by Nala because I called her a whore.

00:00:58.020 I said, you know what? Ladies, I don't know if you can do this porn star to God, Griff. I don't

00:01:05.040 know if you can do it. And she said, shut up, Pearl, shut up, Pearl, or I will sue.

00:01:13.040 And now I, you know, YouTube demonetized me because another woman decided to call me a pedo.

00:01:18.920 no evidence she's she spread a rumor an evil rumor about me calling me a pedo I know they

00:01:25.720 do this to you guys all the time they just throw this shit around and so what she did

00:01:31.020 was sent her um I'll tell you what happened actually I I'm on a I'm on an arc where I had um

00:01:38.040 I had a manager or not a manager consultant I always say manager and it gets me in trouble

00:01:44.820 because some people think I'm owned.

00:01:46.320 I'm owned by nobody but me.

00:01:48.400 But when I first started, I did work with a consultant.

00:01:51.100 You know when you can pay someone for your time?

00:01:54.160 And he's a really smart guy.

00:01:55.540 He gave me great, great advice.

00:01:57.900 However, one thing he would always say is to not focus on drama

00:02:03.140 and just focus on the content.

00:02:06.020 And I listened to that for most of my career.

00:02:08.300 I really just kept, like, focusing on the content,

00:02:10.660 not really giving too much time.

00:02:11.880 Like, I haven't even reacted to hit pieces on it.

00:02:14.820 but it leaves my audience to question situations I've been in

00:02:19.340 or how I got into these things.

00:02:20.780 And I never gave my side.

00:02:21.900 And recently, I just kind of, I don't care anymore.

00:02:27.880 You know, they took everything they could really take.

00:02:35.380 I had to let go most of my staff.

00:02:37.500 You guys win.

00:02:39.700 You win.

00:02:40.540 I went back to America.

00:02:41.800 You win.

00:02:42.420 You win, ladies.

00:02:43.240 You win.

00:02:44.380 Now, I'm going to tell you, this one lady, she, I interviewed this woman on the street,

00:02:52.000 right?

00:02:52.320 I'm doing street interviews.

00:02:53.480 I do them for random women.

00:02:55.680 And she was claiming that she was underage, right?

00:02:59.700 After, so we post the video, it goes viral, not after she's claiming she's underage.

00:03:04.580 And I was so nice that I, even though it's not illegal, you can interview whoever on

00:03:09.480 the street, but I mean, they looked...

00:03:13.560 old enough, right? I mean, you guys know how it is. And I felt like these women were lying for

00:03:21.560 me. I did not feel like they were underage. I felt like they looked stupid. And that was why

00:03:27.680 they wanted it to get taken down. They went viral for the wrong reason.

00:03:34.240 and so um i said show me the id and prove it and i'll take it down now they refused to show me the

00:03:44.120 id and instead decided to make a twitter thread calling me a pedo because this was a conversation

00:03:53.400 on abortion and responsibility of if you're responsible having sex came up

00:04:02.360 Can I do a show in a bikini?

00:04:05.480 What?

00:04:07.440 Can you guys hear me?

00:04:09.600 Is there no audio?

00:04:12.040 Really?

00:04:12.900 They're responding in the chat.

00:04:25.260 Do you know what?

00:04:29.440 Let's see.

00:04:32.360 it said they're saying it sounds loud and clear on the chat maybe it's the website

00:04:41.760 i can't hear it back in me you guys it's probably some women attacking me okay this is what i'm

00:04:49.840 telling you to go to the audacity network i'll go harder you know what i am now i am a scorned

00:04:56.400 woman these women have scorned me that i'm willing to go after your baby mama i'm willing to i'm

00:05:04.220 willing i'm willing but i need your support you know what i mean i'm willing but i need to get

00:05:09.840 we need 5k members on the website and i'll tell you what i you know i don't want to mislead you

00:05:14.700 guys on what i'm doing with your money um i will say my first year of business um i made a couple

00:05:22.520 mistakes and the first mistake I'll never make again was over hiring I got one guy in this room

00:05:30.120 with me I used to have like 20 I got one because if things go south if they ruin your life in some

00:05:37.640 way you're screwed yeah I got I got now I know Nala is hacking my internet I bet she is

00:05:46.060 but essentially what i would like in the future is i want to cover i'm just not a tech person

00:05:56.060 i know i guess it's a little ironic because we're having a tech issue but it would i'm telling you

00:06:01.920 if it was just me in here it'd be like 10 times worse i don't know what anything does so a producer

00:06:07.460 and an editor

00:06:09.800 producer and editor oh

00:06:16.640 I have um and one other guy who helps me um dig for clips that time and some other stuff I'm not

00:06:29.400 going to go into what everyone's doing but you guys get the idea and what would be nice is to

00:06:34.400 know that even if this sponsor drops me, I can say, hey, screw them. If they say,

00:06:42.660 Pearl, you can't go after that woman. I say, you know what? My guy's got me.

00:06:47.620 I could say, you know, I don't have to start pandering and saying, oh, women, you're so

00:06:51.400 amazing and special and awesome. Am I still cool? Yeah, I love Blessing. Blessing's a great guy,

00:06:59.040 but do you know what i don't know about these h1 everyone's saying these h1b visas are easy to get

00:07:06.320 like it was a visa thing you know what i mean but he's amazing you know he's a great guy

00:07:12.320 you know um no bad blood i'd give him i'd give him a video recommendation for anyone but

00:07:22.160 you know i had to go back to america because these women ruined my life and i couldn't afford london

00:07:28.480 anymore you guys win you guys win i have nothing you win you win i don't mean to whine i'm just

00:07:34.720 telling you guys the situation i'm lucky to even be here but my hope is to keep keep on representing

00:07:40.880 your issues because i am a protected class you know i can say things that

00:07:48.640 men can't really say in normal society i'm lucky right um

00:07:54.240 So I'm hoping to get 5,000 members on the website.

00:08:00.940 Now, what does this equate to a show?

00:08:03.040 It's $10, $10 a month sign-ups a show every day for the year.

00:08:07.320 And I think we're a little behind.

00:08:09.240 I won't lie to you guys.

00:08:10.260 But we could still catch up, you know.

00:08:14.200 Or a $100 membership.

00:08:18.580 A $100 membership, like a yearly show subscription.

00:08:22.220 now i want to go through the thank yous because i do i need to thank you guys because

00:08:26.980 really i mean you guys got so many women trying to steal money from you all the time i can't

00:08:32.160 imagine the life of a man because like you guys are like i need to get sex and the women are like

00:08:37.900 pay for my dinner and the women are like um and you're like look i really i need to get laid it's

00:08:46.560 Just, this is a need.

00:08:48.980 I am a man.

00:08:53.000 And the women are like, no, you got to pay, you got to take me to Nobu.

00:08:59.140 And you're like, bitch, you're like 32.

00:09:03.460 And then the 22-year-olds are like, I want a sugar date.

00:09:07.340 And then you got your family that, like, that sister that just can't take care of herself, you know.

00:09:13.360 It's kind of me right now.

00:09:15.000 Sorry, Dad.

00:09:16.560 these ladies ruined my life you know um but you know that you got to take care of too so it's

00:09:23.740 like your sister lost her job and she's unwilling to be a horse now she's got to live with you

00:09:28.960 now you got to pay for her bad decision I'm not saying you have to but you guys are good people

00:09:34.700 you do it I see you guys in normal society and everyone's so you know for me to ask for a $10

00:09:41.960 dollar a month membership from you is really it's like you know I give you guys shit where I'm like

00:09:47.160 I don't work for free but it's nice you guys to donate anyway you know I mean the reason men are

00:09:54.800 so much more stingy with money like again men two dollars women eight you make eight dollars off of

00:10:00.260 women two dollars off of men the reason you guys are stingy is because you work hard for it we're

00:10:07.120 just giving these things um but anyways i know i'm

00:10:11.320 i don't you know i do the best i can

00:10:17.760 but my goal is five grand and it's really to just cover our costs

00:10:25.120 and then i can move out of my dad's house

00:10:30.220 i shouldn't be this public about these l's i really should i gotta talk less you know

00:10:37.100 what i mean but you know that's really what it's for so if we get that many memberships then

00:10:41.880 you know it does they can't they can't take anything away from me anymore they can't ruin my

00:10:48.840 life that's the that's the point now um i want to say informalities i think that's the thank you for

00:10:58.820 the ten dollar membership last show stew fun um again another wait oh how did i i did the wrong

00:11:08.020 thing okay then we got uh and i only say first names don't worry matthew thank you for the ten

00:11:14.040 dollar a month membership um hundred bucks uh michael p damien and i'll give you guys exact

00:11:25.720 now i could tell you exactly how many members we have like next week uh 10 a month um john 10 bucks

00:11:34.080 a month another 10 from chris like we've been doing better these last shows 10 bucks a month

00:11:40.900 from izzy uh 10 bucks a month from richard um another yearly membership from terry

00:11:51.940 i cannot say your first name nadja yodi

00:11:58.660 thank you 10 bucks a month

00:12:02.320 and i don't know if i read charles or not last show when it gets to around 24 hours

00:12:08.520 um so thank you guys you know we're almost to the i know we're almost to the point where

00:12:16.240 one person's I don't know if I should be this open about this but

00:12:22.340 one person's salary is just secured through this we have like um other stuff but it's just

00:12:29.680 it's just a lot more stable if we can get enough on the website because then they can't delete me

00:12:39.400 I mean unless they take me off payment processors

00:12:46.240 i'm not giving you any ideas you lady i gotta stop talking now anyways that's the

00:12:52.320 that's the situation we're in that's what we're in so

00:12:56.460 almost two million on here you're getting paid they demonetized me a year ago because what the

00:13:06.500 women did was they called me a pedo and then all these women flagged all of my videos all of them

00:13:12.100 Based on a lie, a effing lie, I told her I would delete the video if you'd show me an ID.

00:13:19.340 Which I didn't even have to do because it's not illegal to film people and do interviews in public.

00:13:23.800 Not illegal.

00:13:24.500 The Tonight Show has done it for you.

00:13:28.780 Yeah.

00:13:35.340 That's my life.

00:13:36.060 How are we doing on sound?

00:13:36.940 Is it better?

00:13:39.200 But they can hear me on YouTube, right?

00:13:40.940 Is it just the, what is the network?

00:13:46.240 Zoom, is it?

00:13:52.160 So, probably.

00:13:58.060 Normally, oh, I should tell you guys what you get out of the website.

00:14:02.420 Is it live even?

00:14:04.200 It is.

00:14:05.320 What?

00:14:05.660 Oh, it's not live on the website?

00:14:07.880 So that's the...

00:14:10.940 And the audio is just not going for the Zoom.

00:14:17.180 Well, guys, should we just call the website and try again tomorrow?

00:14:21.460 This is a terrible sales pitch.

00:14:24.640 Well, you know, normally you're going to get unlimited super chats,

00:14:30.640 and normally that's the chat I read.

00:14:34.980 As I said, we are a little short staff here,

00:14:37.820 so everyone's doing their best.

00:14:40.940 So the issue is it's not live streaming either, or it's the audio?

00:14:53.940 OK.

00:14:54.940 OK.

00:14:55.940 Oh, they're going to, can we turn it to the normal feed,

00:15:00.940 or we just take it off the Zoom?

00:15:03.940 Yeah, why don't we just do that?

00:15:06.940 Yeah, I mean, we'll deal with the caller later.

00:15:11.020 We could just do all audio for the callers today.

00:15:17.360 Yeah, so you're still getting that.

00:15:20.740 You want the mic a little bit closer?

00:15:22.940 They're saying the audio is low.

00:15:30.880 Why did I choose this angle speaking on men's issues?

00:15:34.180 i can give you guys oh that's better i can hear it now i don't know what you did

00:15:38.820 wow that's way better zach just sponsored the show thank you zach

00:15:47.160 okay you know i do like to tell you guys these stories because i'm to the point

00:15:52.740 i'm telling you guys i feel i'm actually happy they ruined my life a little bit

00:15:59.820 because you know i like less eyeballs on me i'm not really look thank you for sponsoring

00:16:08.700 the show zach all right so there's a couple reasons i went into men's issues now i gotta

00:16:15.020 be honest at first i didn't realize how bad dating was for men but i remember the first

00:16:23.820 piece of content from red pill that i heard one of them i can't remember the first but one of them

00:16:32.060 was kevin samuel's high value men sheet and this triggered me a little bit

00:16:38.460 but also rollo tomasi's i remember alpha widow made a lot of sense because i would hear there'd

00:16:45.340 be women like on my volleyball team they all had an ex they couldn't get over even if they had a

00:16:50.780 new boyfriend and um i remember thinking that in college being like dang everyone's got that one

00:16:58.780 x that we just like cannot get over heard about the alpha widow that kind of like started making

00:17:03.820 sense then i saw kevin samuel's stream talking about high value men cheating triggered me a

00:17:10.140 little bit i thought he was a douche three years later he was right i feel a little bad i once i

00:17:15.820 reacted and i didn't post it because i felt so disrespectful because he passed away um the way

00:17:21.740 i reacted to the first one but it was because i felt like i knew better i didn't um then i had a

00:17:31.260 brother that had some like red pill issues i'll just say it says the audio is just low but it

00:17:38.700 sounds okay in my ears let me know if two if i sound okay before i get to the actual show i want

00:17:43.740 to make sure this audio is coming in okay yeah then i started interviewing men because i kept

00:17:50.620 hearing that men were victims of divorce grape and men shouldn't get married and i was like what

00:17:56.220 my parents are married then i started interviewing men and it was just like crazy then i started

00:18:03.980 seeing how men were treated because the women they started treating me like they treat the men

00:18:08.220 you know and i didn't know how privileged i was before you know like

00:18:13.440 you know like i didn't realize how met like okay i'll tell you so i was talking to my boyfriend

00:18:22.100 the other day and i was telling him how frustrated i was with this demonetization situation

00:18:27.460 and um how i felt like i should be able to just say what i want and da da da da da and he said

00:18:36.440 look at you're you're experiencing what all men go through he's like you're experiencing

00:18:44.620 what men go through and he's like because at some point we say what we want and we're honest

00:18:52.000 and we're punished for it you are in a protected class that is why you've gotten away with it as

00:18:57.600 long as you have I was like f and he's like that frustration that's how we feel when we see

00:19:05.960 a woman getting promoted over us or a woman just getting paid double what we should get paid

00:19:11.620 even though we did better work it's pretty demotivating isn't it

00:19:15.140 it makes you just not want to do it right i was like what right

00:19:27.440 um anyways i'm going to continue

00:19:30.440 yeah yep yep so you know now I just have a little bit more perspective and that's kind of how I got

00:19:39.880 into it um it's kind of a long story short but it was something that I just found one day

00:19:47.980 then my brother experienced something won't really get into it too much on this show but

00:19:55.120 maybe another day I don't want to I don't want to get depressed and um he said Pearl was

00:20:01.240 complaining to her boyfriend that's weird women never explain complain I'm still a woman all right

00:20:06.200 leave me alone you know I do the best I can oh he really is the best okay so

00:20:17.060 why can't I see the live on the website

00:20:21.620 am i oh here it is i got it let's pull it up okay thank you again to zach for sponsoring this show

00:20:31.120 okay so the first thing i want to read an email i got from one of my subscribers

00:20:38.460 and i want to know your thoughts on this guy so i'm kind of testing this now he said there's a

00:20:45.880 book titled Born to Win 1970 that psychology today called the greatest. The four pages

00:20:52.880 are all you need to read and winners and losers. Reading these four pages has changed a lot of

00:20:58.940 lives. And among all things, it says the winners in life have the right timing. There is a right

00:21:05.060 time to say, I love you. A right time to go to a job interview and a right time to ask for a pay

00:21:11.020 raised my idea is you are right about upgrading jpt to a call-in format but the timing would be

00:21:18.040 better 7 to 9 p.m for example i have attached screenshots of three radio call-in shows from

00:21:24.620 the 1990s on youtube and get their ideas um perhaps you can sample oh wait the 1990s all

00:21:34.200 came or were replayed from 7 to 9 p.m perhaps you can find their samples on youtube and get ideas

00:21:40.480 from their successful formats and styles you have a gift for speaking but most folks are working and

00:21:46.400 doing something and have low energy in the afternoon however your audience of mainly single

00:21:51.120 people is free seven to nine that is why radio shows were successful at night and i thought this

00:21:57.600 was a good point and i'm not i'm not too keen on the like i don't love night schedules

00:22:04.480 but I wanted to know your thoughts so put them in the comments. I'm considering it. I'm considering

00:22:11.720 it. Okay so the topic today we're going to talk about is how traditional conservative mothers

00:22:19.940 ruin their children with sexual shame in the modern dating market. So in 2025 traditional

00:22:27.160 conservatives are still expecting their children especially their daughters to wait till marriage

00:22:32.720 to have sex. America is not one, not two, but three generations into hookup cultures.

00:22:39.100 Whores are showing everything they have on Instagram. 1.4 million American women are on

00:22:45.300 OnlyFans and traditional conservatives are still pushing this unrealistic expectation.

00:22:51.380 I did a coffee thought about radical acceptance the other day. And in this coffee thought,

00:22:55.300 i spoke about how i'm just letting the world burn now burn bitches i don't care i don't care

00:23:04.940 i have had too many do you know i think this is how you guys feel right i've had too many hoes

00:23:10.840 just try to ruin my life that like i i feel zero inclination to help to feel bad women cry on the

00:23:22.460 internet about getting pumped and dumped I say yeah your own fault I don't care I don't and you

00:23:34.780 know what ever since I've had this position I'm happier you know the most unhappy people the

00:23:40.800 people that think they can save the universe I have radically accepted that whores are going to

00:23:46.160 be whores players are going to play and the relationship guys are going to take some L's

00:23:52.800 sorry fellas at some point you know they're going to get W's you know too but you know it just is

00:24:01.120 what it is um I'm in my radical acceptance phase uh so you know women are going to get abortions

00:24:11.120 I'm not going to fight them on it. Kill your kids. Don't care anymore. I'm not going to, you know,

00:24:16.380 go out, say, please don't abort your kids. Like these traditional conservative women.

00:24:24.360 I say, I don't care. Ruin your life, whatever. And if I were to talk to a full room full of

00:24:32.480 traditional, you know, traditional, they're really, it's fake trad, conservative mothers,

00:24:37.060 I would tell them radical acceptance is better than perpetuating the false narrative that being

00:24:43.500 a virgin on your wedding night is the only thing that you should strive for and realistic in today's

00:24:55.020 times. The only reason I can think about why traditional conservative mothers expect their

00:25:02.260 daughters to stay virgins in the modern day is really to control them. And that's really what

00:25:07.140 the church is doing and women are doing in the church. Their goal is to control the male sex

00:25:13.860 drive. They cannot acknowledge, and we're going to get into this, that sex is a need.

00:25:20.240 Young girls and men start to feel sexual urges 10 to 13, that young. The urges clash with the

00:25:29.280 traditional concert with what the conservative mother is is saying and creates shameful feelings

00:25:35.120 towards sex the dynamic teaches women to weaponize sex against men to get what they want so they

00:25:41.440 don't trust the man they say i will only give you sex if i get the commitment that i want

00:25:47.960 there's really no incentive for them to like be good people right the horrors they're like i'm

00:25:53.700 giving it up on the first night i'm giving it up to everyone so they got to work harder they got

00:25:59.200 That's why you see them dressing like they dress the way men like.

00:26:03.900 They're willing to go get these surgeries to look like the men want them to look.

00:26:09.260 They're willing to learn the Gluck Gluck 5000, okay?

00:26:14.860 It teaches traditional or young conservative leaning women that sex is the only thing to

00:26:21.560 offer men and it leaves them very unprepared for the modern dating market.

00:26:26.580 So I made a PowerPoint, right?

00:26:29.200 So, I want to first point out, this is my PowerPoint, that sex is a need for men and

00:26:38.420 for women.

00:26:40.960 And the only people that don't acknowledge this are complete simps.

00:26:44.260 And as you guys have known, as you guys know, I am on the front lines of the simp epidemic

00:26:49.400 for years.

00:26:50.400 And I need to tell you guys about a quiet weapon being ratcheted up against men.

00:26:53.600 It's really rarely talked about, it's not just the relentless anti-masculinity propaganda

00:26:58.020 and only fans hoes causing the societal destruction we see on the show that link is the first link

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00:28:30.960 and if we get 5 000 of you you know maybe although i really do like chalk i know you guys think it's

00:28:40.420 bs because i mean i always think every influencer's stuff is bs but

00:28:45.200 i used it before my marathon it gets your heart rate going i can't drink it during shows because

00:28:52.500 i'll be up all night it is pre-workout but you know back to the powerpoint so sex is a need for

00:29:01.260 men and for women now the church does not acknowledge this this is a basic drive the

00:29:08.360 same way we need food. Humans need sex. Now you might think, Pearl, what is your evidence for

00:29:14.720 this? You wouldn't think this if you weren't just a 304 whore and you just had some self-control

00:29:21.140 degenerate. That's what they would say to me. And that's what they say to men too. They say,

00:29:33.360 don't sleep with these women have some self-control now i want to talk about the data that backs this

00:29:39.580 up so i i asked the two question what percent of americans masturbate i know it's kind of an

00:29:48.660 awkward topic right no one really wants to talk about that at dinner but i'm just let's let's get

00:29:54.160 this out in the open 84 of americans are feeling and this is admitted this is surveys are feeling

00:30:01.660 themselves. 91% of men who identify as men engage in sexy self-care. I don't like these words.

00:30:09.260 It's probably a liberal who got this study, whatever. And those who identify as women come

00:30:14.460 out in 78%. So what we're seeing, 80% of women, 91% of men. Can we assume the rest are fucking?

00:30:22.780 can we just like according to surveys of users conducted in the u.s between september and

00:30:32.080 october 22nd 62 percent of male respondents reported having a habit of watching porn so

00:30:39.360 six out of ten and remember this is admitted and to be honest i don't think men love admitting

00:30:44.600 to watching porn like corn i mean is that like a w for you guys or you guys aren't proud of that

00:30:50.400 Do you know what I mean? Like, so now I started to think, okay, what about the priests? Now I'm a

00:30:56.540 Catholic and I'm a bad Catholic. I don't like to use it, but I just want to give you guys the like

00:31:02.460 worldview I come from a little bit, but all these churches are simps. They're all simps,

00:31:08.540 all of them. And they've really lost my faith in institutions. I think you're better just

00:31:14.040 treating your husband like a god i think your life will be better from treating your husband like a

00:31:23.400 god that sounds nice doesn't it fellas than going to church and listening to whatever the jesus man

00:31:30.240 says yeah charlie says god literally commanded men to be fruitful and multiply now look

00:31:36.800 i don't want to interpret the bible there's people that know more about the bible than i do

00:31:45.300 and that's how women confuse you they say you're not qualified to read what's in front of you

00:31:53.740 it's the same way they don't want you to like look at your personal experience to come to

00:31:58.360 conclusions and they're like my study my study it's because they can manipulate the studies they

00:32:02.180 do the same thing with the Bible. You could open the Bible and it says, hey, be fruitful and

00:32:06.900 multiply. It's time to bang. And they'll say, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's interpreted. He

00:32:14.080 meant this. And you're like, I don't know. Like, I think that's why they switch the languages of

00:32:20.380 it. I think the only way we're going to get the truth is if we learn the original language of

00:32:25.440 the bible because i've just seen how like there's no group that's not manipulated by women and i

00:32:33.040 just don't believe it didn't happen in the past i know what maybe i'm too black-pilled i don't know

00:32:39.060 um okay so according to research what percent of priests admit to being celibate and like

00:32:51.980 hitting that goal. Only 2% of people way more religious than any of us in the chat.

00:33:00.960 A 25-year study of 1,500 Catholic priests found that fewer than half of priests in the U.S. even

00:33:08.480 attempted celibacy. They have estimated over 100,000 men have left the priesthood worldwide

00:33:18.920 since the 1960s um you know okay yeah okay I don't care about this part so two percent of men

00:33:31.080 that are like trying to do you know to avoid having sex admit to achieving it what do I what

00:33:38.680 do I think it's so funny if you guys watch videos of me like three years ago I'm like yeah believe

00:33:45.960 people i just believe them the world has taken that out of me half of them at least are liars

00:33:53.720 the world i don't know i think women this is like delayed by a decade we don't we don't see

00:33:58.600 the world for how it is until later that's why you guys like the young women you can just tell

00:34:03.880 them you're like baby i'll give you the world and they'll believe it i'm old now i'm like you know

00:34:10.200 So, anyway, so the church says wait till marriage.

00:34:14.820 Now, I see the value in this, right?

00:34:19.680 Women having a lot of sexual partners leads to problems.

00:34:23.580 They're more likely to be on SSRIs.

00:34:26.400 They're more likely to have mental issues.

00:34:30.540 They're more likely to crave that variety and go back.

00:34:34.880 And so there's a whole abstinence culture.

00:34:36.860 and what the church thought is they thought if we just shame the sex if we just say no sex no sex

00:34:41.940 no sex that's the solution um the challenge you get is waiting till marriage gives the women the

00:34:50.440 leverage okay because what it does is men want like on average the research is saying

00:34:55.980 men think about having sex 19 times a day

00:35:00.240 women it's less allegedly women are very sexual and we do downplay their sexuality

00:35:09.820 men men's testosterone is 300 to a thousand nanograms per deciliter women it's 15 to 70 so

00:35:21.620 men want sex 10 times more than women so if you say wait till marriage for sex

00:35:28.000 this puts the man at the disadvantage because he wants it 10 times more it's like a man like let's

00:35:35.040 say a guy needs food it's like a guy that's starving it's like you put food in front of um

00:35:43.720 a guy that's starving versus a fat guy the fat guy can live off of his blubber for like three months

00:35:49.300 but the guy that's starving is gonna be like give me give me give it to me i'll do whatever

00:35:54.800 i'll do whatever just give me the food and on top of that the women that lee says only 19 times a

00:36:02.400 day elliot in the chat on the website don't be cheap go to the website it's okay you guys can't

00:36:07.280 be um you know i'm just i'm not the best sales person anyways elliot 19 times a day that's a

00:36:14.320 lot so i guess there's disagreements i don't know so now what what did they do before now what was

00:36:20.720 the solution to this diabolical sex drive that both men and women we want to be like you know

00:36:29.360 we have these urges from very young you know i'm not going to say the first time

00:36:38.000 that i had the you know but i think we could all say it's younger than we all

00:36:42.480 want to admit it's a little bit uncomfortable um ron ron dolfo says jesse lee peterson says

00:36:49.600 women can't admit men are right until men are on their deathbed. Podcasts are

00:36:54.160 gonna be interesting in 25 years. That's true. I don't know how I came to this

00:37:00.700 conclusion. I think it's because I got treated like a man. I'm still a woman. I'd

00:37:05.440 still be skeptical of me. It's fine. Anyways, arranged marriages was what the

00:37:11.320 case used to be. So first off, families used to know each other and what would

00:37:16.960 happened is they'd say your fam like the two families would be near each other and they'd say

00:37:21.720 let's set our kids up sometimes if there was an older guy like nearby and he like peeped he said

00:37:28.420 oh that daughter she's got a nice piece of ass or she's cute she looks like she was raised wife

00:37:35.380 right hey dad can I marry her and the dad would be like what are your intentions and they would

00:37:41.980 go back and forth and he'd be like all right he's a nice guy sure you can have her and the kids

00:37:48.020 waited till marriage because again they were getting married at like 16 years old so the

00:37:53.560 average age of first sexual experience in the U.S. is 16 or maybe they would fool around before but

00:38:02.360 they just like it would be private they would do the soaking or whatever the hell and they just

00:38:07.940 wouldn't tell anyone and they'd get married after you know that's why we had shotgun weddings right

00:38:11.800 the dad would say all right you're pregnant that's fine do the right thing do the right thing

00:38:19.480 and it wouldn't be that big of a deal that they had sex outside of marriage because they just

00:38:24.520 got married they had the kid and they just lived they stay you know the problem wasn't the sex

00:38:30.720 outside of marriage the problem is the women leaving and we keep thinking we can do better

00:38:35.080 right that's the problem because when you give us ladies a like a bunch of choice

00:38:40.280 it's always the same thing we go for the top men we go for 10 percent of men

00:38:46.220 that that's the real problem right it's not like this i mean what's the difference if they hook up

00:38:56.440 before the wedding and they get married anyway and the dad was also a buffer because he could say

00:39:03.680 you know if a guy came to him and said i want to take care of your daughter he's like no this

00:39:09.120 guy's no good he's gonna smash like women cannot we have no discernment in who is smashing and you

00:39:16.080 know gonna just pass versus who's gonna stick around none i mean that's what you know women

00:39:22.720 are like you know they'll say they're egregious body counts and it's like all the same guys like

00:39:29.200 Like, if you go on a panel, like, I would venture to guess if you took a panel of 10 women on whatever,

00:39:37.320 two have had sex with the same guys if they live in the same city.

00:39:43.140 Yeah, this is arranged marriages.

00:39:44.980 This is what I'm describing.

00:39:47.600 Now, there would be a dowry involved.

00:39:50.040 But the thing was, men knew in the past that women were not good with money.

00:39:54.860 Like, it's no...

00:39:56.040 It's no...

00:39:59.760 coincidence that women like pandering to women pays if you lie women buy

00:40:07.440 and so the men didn't think it was a good idea for women to like have the inheritance or have

00:40:12.480 the money so what they would do is they would um they would pass the

00:40:21.440 the money onto the son and say look she is a liability all women they viewed as liability

00:40:30.960 i mean you guys still do right but you can't say it anymore you can't say it so now they would say

00:40:37.860 here's the money here you go here you go daughter's husband now the husband is a son to the dad

00:40:45.160 um

00:40:51.440 the equivalent of this would be like several thousand dollars in today's earnings um or

00:40:57.300 and a bride price which is like 300 um and if the women said no you know the dad would say

00:41:05.540 like this was seen as a insult to the dad now i'm sure there were some dads that were a little bit

00:41:13.840 you know nicer and said okay we'll try the next one but at some point you know

00:41:23.360 at some point the dad is gonna say okay you are just too picky you are not listening

00:41:31.920 because again this it was patriarchal before so the men decided not the women

00:41:37.120 but when you give women choice that means the women decide and how are we with decisions

00:41:41.840 and so what he would do is say if he had multiple kids which they had like seven back then he would

00:41:47.580 say okay your sister gets the inheritance and you know how competitive women are with our sisters

00:41:52.800 we're like oh I'm not doing that or if the woman wanted to do it um she really couldn't make money

00:42:02.520 as much like there would be a consequence like if she wanted she might have a scarlet letter

00:42:09.140 She'd have to work super hard to get the next guy to marry her

00:42:11.980 because now he knows she's not going to listen.

00:42:13.920 She didn't listen to her dad.

00:42:15.460 Doubt she'll listen to me.

00:42:17.100 But hey, I'm sure some women went out and found the guy.

00:42:21.360 Or, you know, she would die because she's not under her dad's protection anymore.

00:42:26.980 So most women did it.

00:42:28.560 You know, that's why women got married.

00:42:29.920 in the modern day um

00:42:34.360 um now in the modern day really and i was just disagreeing with someone before the show

00:42:44.000 they they think that no one will marry these women i've seen too much someone will always

00:42:48.940 do it there's always a simp always always always i mean they might not marry but they'll at least

00:42:54.320 get a long-term girlfriend for like it'll be basically like i consider if a couple lives

00:43:00.800 together over a certain amount of time like you're married basically um i mean there might

00:43:07.360 not be a certificate you might not have the last name there's always anyways now there's pros to

00:43:15.920 this um women are forced to make a responsible decision there's no single mothers there's not

00:43:21.600 all this crazy stuff going on um the con women may not really want to be there and resent the guy

00:43:30.640 i think that's why they fought so hard for this feminism stuff was because you know they wanted

00:43:36.560 the choice now we have the choice it's not going too well i mean that's like you know the downside

00:43:42.880 and i don't tell you guys what to do but i'm just saying so if the church cared about purity

00:43:48.320 they would go back to this model. Because again, sex is a need. Sex is a need.

00:44:00.480 But what they want to say is, hey, enter the modern dating market. Now this is the modern

00:44:08.780 dating market. So couples nowadays meet on dating apps through social settings or social media.

00:44:16.620 sometimes work but that's it's mostly dating apps or social media usually they're gonna sleep

00:44:23.280 together pretty much immediately within three dates tops generally speaking unless you're a

00:44:29.000 super simp and some girl bamboozled you into waiting months I'm sorry to inform you fellas

00:44:34.940 you took an L um unless she was like 20 she's giving it up to somebody else immediately

00:44:42.020 or close to it um have sex casually for a couple months to two years um some guys it's like three

00:44:54.820 you know i've had a different i asked my male friends some of them will have sex for like three

00:45:00.020 months casually before like to vet her see if she's worth making a girlfriend i've heard up to

00:45:05.060 two years we're getting pretty bad they're like these women i gotta make sure she's not in any

00:45:08.980 ssris no anger issues and these women can be chameleons for damn near forever

00:45:17.380 where they keep increasing this time the average number of years to date before you

00:45:22.900 get a ring is three i'm not sure if they include situationships but um

00:45:30.260 that's the average then you get married and divorce after three years

00:45:34.580 or after not three years seven years then you repeat so the total time of this life cycle

00:45:43.300 can be three years to a decade the more cautious men draw it out longer the less cautious men

00:45:50.020 make it shorter so the benefit of not giving women what they want in the date in the modern

00:45:56.660 dating market so no ring is you get to see if the woman's there for you or is she there for like the

00:46:02.260 wedding because the wedding is like our currency right we get the we get the high off of the

00:46:06.820 wedding we get the high off of the husband we get the high off of the baby we get all this attention

00:46:10.980 on us it's like um women that don't get this stuff that's why they say girlfriends are better than

00:46:18.100 wives i have met so many men like it's ridiculous that dated a girl for 10 years married her and

00:46:24.580 they got divorced in a year i'm like what are we doing women what it's like we wanted to see if

00:46:30.580 we could get them and then once we got them they're like next next

00:46:38.500 okay so next is the wait until marriage in the modern dating market now this is mostly for

00:46:45.540 simpsons suckers i hate to break it to you guys but you are getting bamboozled and the women um

00:46:55.060 they're really taking you for a ride i know you think your wife is special and different

00:47:00.020 but unless you met that in high school she's not you don't know what she was doing

00:47:06.580 she could have been getting tag teamed the year before she met you you don't know

00:47:12.420 and if your answer is i know my wife is special and different because i take

00:47:16.340 women's word for it i know you're a mark sorry sorry fellas um maybe if you've known her since

00:47:26.820 she was young but again you know like older men that have been dating these young broads one of

00:47:31.940 the reasons they say they're able to get the young broads is because the young broads can get casual

00:47:36.660 sex outside of their social circle so you know they can go you know if you if you go hook up with

00:47:41.860 a 50 year old nobody in your friend group is going to find out you don't have the reputation of a

00:47:47.140 and you know men have said this in different races too you know that the women will go try that they

00:47:54.420 don't want anyone to find out they date a guy in a different like racial social circle because you

00:47:59.300 know races like tend to segregate a little bit just naturally um you're getting bamboozled christian

00:48:12.020 simps this is your red pill there is no guarantee that your woman was not a whore before she met

00:48:20.660 you you might as well just assume um okay so that but this is the life cycle what they're

00:48:29.700 going to do is meet her on a dating app generally um maybe through social circle school um generally

00:48:35.860 not more likely a dating app give the woman the benefit of the doubt that she has given zero blow

00:48:42.820 jobs no anal or found some other workaround at the age of 27 despite having sexual desires

00:48:49.860 at at least 16 remember the average age people are losing their virginity is 16.

00:48:54.820 if a woman's 26 and she hasn't had sex something's off something is wrong with her i'm just being

00:49:00.180 honest something's wrong something's wrong i don't look she's automatically um again she

00:49:10.100 automatically because of testosterone difference he wants his he wants sex 10 times more so he's

00:49:15.940 willing to basically bend to her will um basically worship her um she also says no porn or masturbating

00:49:23.940 for him you know that's why you get these trad women saying ah porn's evil porn's evil

00:49:28.340 let the man look at some tits in peace do you know what i mean it's like

00:49:35.460 god damn what do you want him cheating do you want him to go find the real thing

00:49:39.220 you know metal rack says she was 32 idiot that's your own fault some of you guys you you sign up

00:49:49.720 for destruction you really do god you believe anything lee says you can always tell if she

00:49:57.360 has anal it shows what does that mean wait i want you to i want you to detail it's like women will

00:50:05.240 be virgins. You're going to be a virgin with AIDS. Like, what do you, you know, that's

00:50:10.260 how you get it. You know, get AIDS or gonorrhea. It's like, you're going to get something doing

00:50:16.820 that stuff. Um, um, let's see. Uh, what is needed is a new arranged and matched marriage

00:50:29.520 based on the reality that women are romantics and men are romance seekers i'll answer the cop

00:50:37.040 answer the copier question later yeah lee porn can serve a purpose and what they'll do is they'll say

00:50:43.120 yeah men that watch porn are more likely to get divorced well the study they won't do i'll tell

00:50:48.640 you the study they won't do how much do those men that are watching porn how much do their wives

00:50:54.960 way and how much are they putting out they've i've never seen that study

00:51:10.080 i've never seen trad women say women please your husband dear god you know christian men are the

00:51:19.120 ones and only fans and it's because the women have been taught to weaponize sex from before the

00:51:24.240 the wedding okay and if he does watch porn or masturbate she'll say he's not godly enough and

00:51:32.700 call it off also the pastor gets to interpret the bible for you and your wife gets to manipulate

00:51:39.720 him into interpreting it her way so what she'll do is um you now have to submit to another man

00:51:46.980 and he gets to tell you how to treat your wife in your house yeah so now and she gets to go

00:51:53.100 complain to him when you're not behaving the way that she wants. Then wait till marriage and hope

00:52:02.280 she puts out after even though she didn't put out before. So you just pray that she has a good sex

00:52:10.340 drive. Rondolfo says the secret is to find the one that was big in high school that then got fit.

00:52:19.760 yeah and pray she doesn't go back good luck now we gotta ask some questions this is why the church

00:52:26.160 leaves men to destruction what can men do if their wife is not having sex with him

00:52:33.760 really his only choices are to remove attention watch porn instead of having sex remove money

00:52:42.400 unless she takes him to court then he's out of luck and i forgot to add this remove attention

00:52:48.880 and time i forgot to add cheat that's another option cheat or flirt with other women in front

00:52:55.360 of her to show that look bitch i can get another you we just we don't really treat you right if

00:53:03.840 you don't we don't think you can get another one of us i don't i don't like this i'm just saying

00:53:09.840 this is what it is what can a woman do if she does not get her way she put on alimony or child support

00:53:17.840 decide who is born she can abort your kid ruin his reputation and because we have this believe

00:53:24.000 all women um dang i forgot one and also nag um i mean there's a million just nag you which

00:53:34.740 endlessly for an eternity um call you an abuser i mean she's got the state behind her she's got

00:53:42.540 the community behind her you're on your own as a man the only like power that you have is a man

00:53:47.560 is removing your time and attention and one of the ways you can remove the sexual need

00:53:54.620 is cheating and porn and the church crucifies men for doing both

00:53:59.440 dane says pearl no she doesn't manipulate the pastor the pastor preaches feminine gospel to

00:54:07.780 attract women and tithes and give them a safe haven for their husband he becomes a the stunt

00:54:13.880 husband double when a bitch doesn't let me bang on the first date adios motherfucker that's from

00:54:23.860 yeah okay now i want to talk about some points that the church ruins sex for

00:54:36.080 um again the the church demonizes sex before marriage but they don't acknowledge sex as a need

00:54:45.660 and they don't give you options to take care of it for men and for women right i mean are the 18

00:54:52.500 year old guys i mean they're trying to go bang some hoes they don't say hey like go date those

00:54:58.020 30 year old men while the 20 year old men bang hoes and we'll arrange this marriage right

00:55:03.980 again sex is like food people need food and eating disorders come from mothers that give

00:55:11.420 their daughters a toxic view of it 70 of american men and 40 of women view online porn

00:55:18.460 talked about that earlier uh purity does not mean you are virtuous some men would pick

00:55:24.800 a whore then be with a virgin who weaponizes sex against them i mean think about it would you take

00:55:32.340 a whore who gives you enthusiastic sex on demand or stuck a stuck up bitch that gives you sex once

00:55:38.440 a month who are you picking right who are you picking i mean i'm not saying they're all going

00:55:46.140 to pick the whore right but i'm saying there's a good percentage of men that well that's how

00:55:50.600 these porn stars get married is because at least riley reed paid attention to what men like in bed

00:55:56.540 um she paid attention to what men um like the women to look like and she cared about what men

00:56:03.920 like where you know it's super obvious the in the church the women are very masculine they're not

00:56:11.120 very feminine in general um and it's because they think that virginity is an outlier for virtue

00:56:18.940 okay whores um okay many women want to be worshipped for being a virgin so now you see

00:56:28.160 these women popping up online that you know they use virginity as part of their brand and they do

00:56:33.680 this as a marketing tool to be worshipped by a lot of men in all honesty it's really a private

00:56:38.140 thing right it's really a private thing between you and your husband you know it's kind of a gift

00:56:42.960 for your husband and him to know and you're sharing it as like a with everybody

00:56:48.080 um which kind of speaks to a lot of conservative women they're more worried about their reputation

00:56:57.720 than they are about their children and their husband and it's why you see them use their

00:57:02.040 kids and husband for like virtue points like they use them for their social media following

00:57:07.280 They use them to brag to their friends.

00:57:14.880 They use it as part of their brand, right?

00:57:19.780 Churches tell people to feel shame about their natural sex drives.

00:57:24.220 Abstinence is seen as the only way to many conservatives,

00:57:27.220 and they talk about it like it's easy in this sexualized culture.

00:57:30.860 It's hard to even have a social life as a young, attractive woman

00:57:34.400 without participating in some type of sexual activity, especially in college.

00:57:39.540 Many traditional conservative mothers care more about their reputation than their family,

00:57:43.760 so they try to control their children so they don't make them look bad.

00:57:47.460 The lack of sex is more about the mother not looking bad,

00:57:51.880 and so she can brag to her friends.

00:57:53.500 It's not necessarily about the child and the child's best interests.

00:57:59.960 You can see this with Bernadine Bluntley.

00:58:02.420 Let me show you.

00:58:04.400 I'm gonna see Bernadine

00:58:06.120 bluntly birth I want to see

00:58:11.840 yeah like look at this shit you gotta be kidding me um like does this picture need to be shared with

00:58:23.240 the world and what the tradcon women are doing is they they keep saying I'm jealous I'm jealous

00:58:30.700 I'm jealous and I'm like lady I'm not jealous of somebody that's posting their most like

00:58:39.860 intimate moments on the internet um and I gotta find it there was like a video

00:58:46.200 maybe she deleted it god help lord help us uh media and it was like of this woman screaming

00:58:54.520 while giving birth I'm like what is wrong with you um and they use their kids like for

00:59:00.520 clout right and you see this look at birth it's like um all these people

00:59:07.880 like and i understand the intention maybe they're excited about it but you know at some point you're

00:59:13.880 kind of violating your kids privacy and you see this where like they have parenting channels

00:59:20.200 telling all the intimate stories in their life um

00:59:23.160 yeah and it's just like a worship fest I wish I could find this video god it was so funny I had

00:59:33.140 it on a different live stream maybe they removed it but it's like of her she's like screaming she's

00:59:37.900 like ah ah like of her giving birth and it's almost like sexualized I'm like what the f is

00:59:43.900 wrong with you there's pedos on the internet what is wrong with you ladies um anyways um so what

00:59:52.820 they do is they use their virginity as like a marketing ploy and to be worshiped um and you

00:59:57.980 can see this because they don't they don't put their money where their mouth is generally like

01:00:02.220 it's like if they get married they use their family for clout or or they use um

01:00:15.020 or they use it as a marketing ploy and wait till they're 30 ish to get married

01:00:22.380 uh and i'm not saying one's right or well i am saying the kids on the internet's wrong but i'm

01:00:29.500 saying i'm not saying modern dating or traditional dating it's you guys as kids you do what you want

01:00:35.340 with them but you're kind of like if you're not if you want your kid to wait till they're married

01:00:41.100 right if you want your daughter to wait and you're not giving her an arranged marriage in some way i

01:00:46.060 mean we could even meet a middle ground and give her like five men that you went out and found

01:00:52.380 that you believe are marriage material, like they're marriageable.

01:00:55.740 You know, they're good guys.

01:00:56.720 They come from good families.

01:00:58.700 And you say, hey, and they're willing, right?

01:01:02.840 Or I don't know.

01:01:04.880 There could be a middle ground, but all I'm saying is like right now,

01:01:10.540 the way you're doing it, the way that the church people are doing it,

01:01:13.640 it's setting the kids up for failure.

01:01:16.580 And you're having them associate a normal instinct with shame.

01:01:22.380 and i know i've said things like bring back shame and the way i mean that is not shame

01:01:28.380 around sex in itself it's around i don't know sleeping with a thousand men in a day that's

01:01:34.700 pretty bad right i mean that's like we're to the point that's not even shamed um but

01:01:43.420 the church it's like they're you know they're just the only advice they give isn't how to be

01:01:49.740 like a better wife how to be an asset to a guy it's just don't have sex don't have sex don't have

01:01:54.960 sex it's you are special and amazing and you have this amazing gift to give somebody and it's so

01:02:02.600 gynocentric because really the gift is him putting up with you as women were annoying like there's

01:02:08.180 no woman even the best women on earth are annoying and you guys know this inherently so you know

01:02:13.800 that's a more honest conversation the gift isn't giving him your virginity it's him putting up with

01:02:18.940 for a lifetime and dying for you i mean you know and this is the thing players go through

01:02:25.420 is they have sex with a virgin and realize it's really not all it's cracked up to be um anyways

01:02:33.100 these women will defend corn stars but refuse to call out women who don't have sex with their

01:02:37.980 husband and they can't help themselves from believing women at their actions where women

01:02:43.100 who withhold um wait they cannot help but believing women at their word where men who withhold their

01:02:52.780 sexual urges are told to toughen up they said and i've seen candace owens do this right she says

01:03:00.460 porn is so evil but okay candace did you wait did you marry young i didn't

01:03:07.740 if we're going to demonize corn if we're going to demonize porn then you demonize

01:03:14.460 marrying past the age i think even after 21 i mean again the sex drive starts at like 15 16

01:03:22.600 years old it's like 15 and a half average age people lose their virginity or do some sort of

01:03:28.160 sexual something uh so if you're pushing that out like 16 17 18 19 20 21 that's six years

01:03:36.520 somebody's doing it do you know what i mean and the dads hate this conversation they don't like

01:03:42.600 to think about it that's that's your baby i get it but you know and i don't think they mean to

01:03:50.820 right because they want their kid their daughter to be responsible they want her to make choices

01:03:57.500 like they don't want men don't want people to resent them for like making a choice for them

01:04:02.260 and I totally get that and you could even find a middle ground right but

01:04:07.360 anyways all I'm saying is the way we're doing it now you know you're sending women to college

01:04:16.880 to major cities these are where the players are okay this is like get pumped and dumped

01:04:24.040 central anyways um lee says the whore yeah they're all saying the whore

01:04:32.020 okay if conservative parents oh wait i said i said this already

01:04:40.600 some of these i go off script and then i gotta remember what i said

01:04:44.420 so what happens to a lot of these church people and i've met old virgin women okay and i've met

01:04:55.120 them and what happens with them is there's a couple of things one they kind of lie about

01:04:59.760 their virginity they don't count blow jobs they don't count getting ahead they get completely

01:05:06.020 naked and then say don't have sex with me right they do the fingering they do the hand jobs they

01:05:12.920 do fucking anal at this point it's like jesus i i don't know at what point and you guys got to put

01:05:18.980 in the chat at what point is oral worse than the bodies like how many men does she have to blow

01:05:26.240 until like it's worth a body and there's the purity doesn't matter anymore

01:05:30.920 um and so you know a lot of people end up really socially awkward and stunted they don't have

01:05:39.420 natural like um relationships with sex and it's just like you know like a lot of these guys and

01:05:49.420 girls are really messed up from this um again if conservative parents wanted what was best for their

01:05:57.480 kids they would arrange a marriage but generally it's just the mother wanting control over the

01:06:02.340 kids sex drives traditional conservative women um are taught from a young age to weaponize sex

01:06:09.320 if she's and you see this again with the women they'll say don't don't give him don't give him

01:06:16.180 wife treatment for girlfriend benefits and she's saying do it my way or i won't i won't obey you

01:06:26.580 I only obey when I get what I want.

01:06:29.560 That's what she's saying.

01:06:30.740 You know, if most women treated the men that they had sex with

01:06:34.920 like they were bonded for life,

01:06:38.220 a lot would, I'm not saying they would all marry them,

01:06:40.880 like some would get pumped and dumped.

01:06:42.820 But I've seen women, like in school there's this woman.

01:06:48.840 She was in a situationship for three years

01:06:51.960 and I thought to God he would never date her.

01:06:54.100 but men are better people they're like fine you know what i went for the eights they all said no

01:07:00.220 i went for the sevens they treat me like shit i'll take you 5.5

01:07:04.740 they're pragmatic they're like all right um get on the treadmill let's do it

01:07:11.820 um many traditional conservative families have beta fathers who are really not the head of their

01:07:19.580 household beta and i want to credit um fort worth playboy on um for this quote because i thought it

01:07:27.900 was really interesting beta fathers are the backbone of this country beta dads work the

01:07:34.340 shit job keep the fat wife buy the suburban house raise the kids and do the best they can

01:07:40.980 grinding through thankless shit if it was nothing but players playboys and puas this whole thing

01:07:47.880 would grind to a halt. There would be single mothers everywhere. So the reason why traditional

01:07:55.120 conservatives shame the male sex drive is because if men started being selfish and doing what was

01:08:02.660 best for themselves, society would crumble and the future would be effed for their children.

01:08:10.460 Somebody's got to be the cleanup man and they want it to be you. This is why conservative

01:08:16.340 pundits shame men that have power and can use the sexual market to their own benefit.

01:08:23.040 Conservative pundits preach traditional values but want men to remain weak and able to be

01:08:28.720 controlled by traditional conservative women.

01:08:32.520 Conservatives cannot let women fail.

01:08:34.480 They let the homeless men fail.

01:08:36.980 They let losers fail, but they refuse to let women deal with the consequences.

01:08:42.960 So before, if women said, I want to date for love, I want to have this romantic love, I

01:08:47.940 don't want to do the arranged thing, they said, okay, have fun, chica, pay for it.

01:08:52.620 I'm not helping you out.

01:08:53.760 I'm not bailing you out of shit.

01:08:55.100 You're your own responsibility.

01:08:56.500 You want to make your own decisions?

01:08:57.700 Go do it.

01:09:00.640 But society just can't let women fail.

01:09:05.180 Again, women have reproductive power.

01:09:08.080 They have the power of false accusations, family court, and just society believing them.

01:09:12.960 where men really the only power they have is sleeping with other women cheating flirting with

01:09:19.900 other women porn and they will demonize men for doing these things even though it's the only way

01:09:27.380 they have power nowhere else and removing attention and their sperm right you can get

01:09:33.160 like a vasectomy or wear condoms um and take away your resources but like the court can mess that

01:09:40.480 one up for you. Conservative women are generally a five to six range of attractiveness. They're

01:09:47.360 not attractive to monetize their beauty in other industries. They use purity as a way to virtue

01:09:52.300 signal instead of letting their character speak for itself. They become traditional when they

01:09:57.100 become fives, when they're sixes and higher. Women start aging and they can't get what they want out

01:10:05.180 of men oh sorry when women start aging and I have to quote my boyfriend because this was his um

01:10:11.700 his his quote um nuclear caudillo if you want to google his channel but

01:10:17.260 when women start aging they do not get what they want out of men and in their life they become

01:10:23.740 politically and morally active an example is Nala or evil Eva Lovia but even with all of that the

01:10:32.180 women can't help being hoes they pivot to another community where there's sexless men

01:10:36.300 so generally that's going to be like anime um some community community that has a lot of sexless men

01:10:45.060 most women try red pill but they can't i can take the heat they can't i mean i've been called a

01:10:51.500 a million times and i just take it they say you know i mean rollo's denounced me now he's he's

01:11:00.240 done like streams spurging out on me I say all right I like it here I'm staying sorry um

01:11:07.640 conservative women do not think their kids have a right to privacy and do and they need to know

01:11:20.760 what they're doing sexually so this is when you get the crate like you know if it's a conservative

01:11:25.200 of dad he'll be like look do what you want but if you do it in my house i'm gonna kill you

01:11:31.760 you do i can't stop you at school i don't have the time to monitor this if you want to go be

01:11:36.560 whores or a man whore if you do this in my house i will literally kill you but outside of that i

01:11:41.360 don't care the women will like go through the kids phones and like micromanage everything like they

01:11:46.160 don't think the kid has a right to privacy at all um yeah better bachelor took a dump on me

01:11:54.160 yeah did he did he do it again it's unfortunate it's like i'll be fans of guys but you gotta

01:12:00.400 you gotta have some touch tough skin better bachelor pearl um

01:12:10.560 yeah he's just not my biggest fan it's okay i understand it i mean

01:12:16.800 you know and there's some stuff in my life i regret so i am an old woman so

01:12:24.160 you know i get it it's all right maybe one of these days i'll give you guys the roll up my

01:12:31.580 perspective on the rollo beef i haven't said it for years because i just i love his work he's such

01:12:37.400 a great author um and i really wanted him to mentor me when i first got in the space but he

01:12:44.300 denied my friendship i don't want to think about it it's okay

01:12:51.980 okay uh you know i get it i could be a better person so you know it just is what it is

01:13:02.140 um so church women tend to use their religion for clout and virtue signaling they um post

01:13:12.900 pictures praying they use crosses and bible verses in their shows they simply um think not

01:13:19.260 having sex makes them virtuous, even though we can't confirm that. And they will defend

01:13:25.320 OF whores. Example of traditional conservative women, you got Mary from TimCast. She's like

01:13:35.040 23 and unmarried. And she uses her virginity as a way to like virtue signal and the Catholicism.

01:13:43.980 i can't verify that i don't it might be true can't verify lila rose is another one you know

01:13:51.440 she's been shaming men for porn she tells women don't give that wife benefits she just caught

01:13:58.760 got caught embezzling a bunch of abortion and pro-life money did you want me to forget that

01:14:05.760 bitch um yeah uh candace owens you know she she has let me look up candace owens porn i mean

01:14:15.680 really if you want to see um uh candace owens porn do they delete it they always delete this stuff

01:14:29.520 uh

01:14:34.320 I gotta find it but she had this whole tirade on how porn is evil and da da da da da da

01:14:44.200 and then I was like hey like what are the young men supposed to do the sex drive is real

01:14:52.740 and what they what they'll do is they'll say no it's not no it's not men don't need sex I'm like

01:14:59.500 do you guys are you married like are you guys like like when women say stuff like that I'm like

01:15:06.540 are you married like how are you married and you think this I mean I'm just like confused

01:15:14.600 do you know what I mean like this is just nature like a man's dream is to be like Leonardo

01:15:23.800 to dicaprio to have sex with a bunch of 18 year olds for life and like they can't say it because

01:15:30.560 nowadays like they don't want to come off as creepy and now women call everyone pedophile they

01:15:35.480 even call me a pedophile so um which i'm not obvious i hate that i even have to say it like

01:15:41.980 obviously not but the men can't you know so they're like haha we like 22 year olds and then

01:15:49.440 my women are like well 22 year old now you're a pedo and then they're like okay we like 25

01:15:54.880 year olds and then the lady the ladies are like well 25 your brain's not developed till 25 i'm like

01:16:03.920 my grandma had like four children by the time she was 18. like god anyways so

01:16:13.120 and i'm like they're like uh you know they're evil they're like they just can't control

01:16:18.400 themselves if they look at some tits i'm like i prefer he does that do you want him to go cheat

01:16:27.520 okay these are your choices these are your choices he's gonna because you know men always get tired

01:16:32.400 of sleeping with you i hear it's after two years which is really unfortunate um they just do you

01:16:37.520 know like they can love you but they do at some point they just like you just cannot like they

01:16:42.880 would just it's so sad it's like they desire an overweight five more than you it's like that it's

01:16:47.680 It's the worst thing as a woman.

01:16:49.180 There is nothing you could do.

01:16:50.360 You could be a 10, and he is going to wonder what that gluck, gluck, 5,000 is of a five.

01:16:54.720 He just is.

01:16:55.440 It's just so sad.

01:16:56.800 And it's like my worst.

01:16:59.320 I don't even like this, right?

01:17:00.880 Now, they said grandma was getting railed.

01:17:03.920 She was.

01:17:04.280 She had like nine kids.

01:17:05.740 And you know what?

01:17:06.160 On her deathbed, she said her only regret was not having more.

01:17:09.440 And I'm like, grandma, how many more did you want?

01:17:11.220 She's like, 12.

01:17:12.020 I'm like, Jesus Christ.

01:17:12.940 anyway so um so you know the men like these are your options he can go to porn to get that variety

01:17:22.840 he can think of his exes to get that I know you guys do it don't I know everything I'm so in I'm

01:17:29.760 so in the weeds on this topic I know everything he can go um he can go think of his exes or like

01:17:35.820 previous experiences or maybe even sex tapes he made I know you guys have a hard drive I know you

01:17:40.740 guys do i know you guys have a picture heart i know you have it you might be in the group chat

01:17:45.280 if he doesn't care about you ladies you might your nudes might be in a group chat they might

01:17:50.220 or number three and by the way let's not pretend we're not putting shit in our group chat so i

01:17:57.140 don't want to hear anything about virtue signaling i mean women will compare that like it's so much

01:18:03.140 worse the men will just be like look at she's hot i hit the women will go through like positions and

01:18:08.900 like uh anyway so you know so it's porn cheat or think of his exes am i missing anything or maybe

01:18:19.500 like women he wish he could have sex with like um i don't know that woman at work

01:18:25.060 maybe that girl on instagram he has a crush on he can like do that look at

01:18:34.780 there's so many choices don't say me that's disgusting stop it can you let me just have

01:18:45.280 you okay i know that happens but i don't like to think about it all right can you just

01:18:51.500 i don't like to think about it and just let me let me live dear god okay and i'm not gonna say

01:18:59.140 i just did it i said that's disgusting i shamed the male sex drive see it's like our dna

01:19:04.240 it's like our dna you know i i can't help you know

01:19:08.100 god god i'm caught i'm caught lacking you know

01:19:12.920 ah dang you know whatever um you got brett cooper's another one i say this because i know them and

01:19:21.460 brett cooper you can see the difference because she does shame men less right but

01:19:26.480 she went to a big school she lived in la she was emancipated from when she was 15.

01:19:33.220 she's done something i don't know what she's done before

01:19:37.700 but it's something right we can admit it's

01:19:42.580 and i don't care like i'm not gonna like pry but so for her to like go after fresh and like

01:19:55.060 you know shame him for sleeping with a hooker

01:19:57.780 which i mean he was dating her he didn't really know she was a hooker but you know

01:20:02.940 baddies am i right these are the you you date a baddie you get baddie problems

01:20:07.600 um it's like hypocritical because were you a virgin no so i decided to make a list of things

01:20:18.760 that are more more important than virginity and i want you guys to add um your thoughts

01:20:27.000 and i'm going to read the chat in a second one is coachability

01:20:34.380 uh you know if a woman listens to your direction that's way more important than virginity

01:20:42.580 way more important okay now let's oh god there's so many there's so many thoughts on this topic i

01:20:50.960 think i've hit i think i've hit a nerve are you guys are you guys relating to this topic who's

01:20:55.160 thinking of their mom no i can't do it i can't do it she'll kill me um okay um this is pretty much

01:21:03.960 okay okay okay the economic success of modern women is an illusion it's coming to an end as

01:21:09.180 we speak becoming depression will change dynamics for women um they will once again need men they're

01:21:15.060 it's going to be sex work i i'm way too black filled for you guys you know women want to be

01:21:19.940 sex workers over um like they'd rather women when giving choice are always going to go for a guy out

01:21:26.660 of their league with muscles right that's like the female dream um so given the choice they'll

01:21:34.840 just be like um they'll do it for pay and um still sleep with the guys they like for free

01:21:43.440 you know that's just what they'll do um if they allowed polygamy maybe guys like that

01:21:48.940 might marry them yeah oh i forgot that is an option you could do polygamy where the guys um

01:21:55.580 get multiple fazelle when home-cooked meals don't fully satisfy men they seek alternatives outside

01:22:03.100 a little oh okay lee says what is needed is a oh wait i read that i read that okay

01:22:08.380 lee romance seekers women live for attention you can always tell if she okay okay back to the anal

01:22:13.260 conversation um daniel says had a girlfriend who loved right next to the l while l set then

01:22:19.980 and then while the l sound just vanished ronaldo the secret is defined the one okay okay wait

01:22:27.420 i'm so sorry guys i read some of these already pearl i had a ba in theology i'm ordained and

01:22:33.620 licensed in ministry i served in ministry for years my conflicts in church were always because

01:22:38.260 i'm not a white knight or a simp um rodolfo my name's pearl lol you we know who names pearl we

01:22:47.080 know who i thought she was cool but she turned she turned loopy man twitter is going to be wild

01:22:52.660 tomorrow pearl we repeat adam's mistake over and over by listening to women instead of god

01:22:57.620 it's up to women to tell bitches to shut the f up shame has a place in society

01:23:02.660 preachers and have influence and power that's the combination that attracts

01:23:08.500 pearl men could have told women to shut the f up but they gave up that power a long time ago

01:23:14.780 yes a real sex is a gift for your partner

01:23:19.740 okay um let her blow the whole football team i don't care you're you guys are picking them

01:23:28.680 did you guys see lily phillips dead eyes when russell brand was speaking to her

01:23:32.920 strong fathers romantics all can change these dynamics no they can't um you have no control

01:23:38.740 if your daughter goes to be a whore remember there's millions of dollars invested into making

01:23:43.880 your daughter a whore and single mother if i were you guys i would just give up um and hope she

01:23:50.620 doesn't give her a couple options as a husband um if you can but she's 18 she gets to make her

01:23:58.320 own decisions. If you want to enforce it, you can tie your inheritance to it. If you have any,

01:24:05.760 I mean, it's most likely that your ex-wife stole it, but hey, maybe you do. That's really the only

01:24:11.000 leverage you're going to have. The will. Lee, it's all sex. Only Clinton sees it differently.

01:24:19.140 Blow jobs are sex. Pearl, you mean the whorehouse of higher education and it's mostly a waste of

01:24:24.340 good money i'll take a kind faithful day any day any any day steve says within a decade robots will

01:24:30.940 be commonplace with increased ai that will cook um rodolfo really rollo what a bitch attitude look

01:24:39.560 he's a i just can't help being a fan even though he hates me do you know what that's like he's like

01:24:49.260 i hate pearl she's a terrible person and i'm like really rollo because i love you like in a normal

01:24:54.620 way i'm a fan it is what it is pearl such is the life of the truth seeker when you find it no one

01:25:02.780 really wants to listen but you can't stop um i daniel says i know why rollo says that you have

01:25:08.940 two million subs pearl not you are not old how dare you well i'm kind of old you guys could

01:25:16.140 you guys could date the hotter 22 year you know i'm aged out aged out yup

01:25:23.260 um rollo um yeah i mean look he has his i can i will give you the rollo lure one day but i need

01:25:30.860 more yearly memberships because then he's gonna do like 10 streams reacting to him hating me and

01:25:36.380 i just i don't need that in my life but i will do it for money um he's like pearl's only in it for

01:25:42.620 money. And I'm like, I mean, we got to eat, don't we? I mean, a little bit. I'm not making

01:25:49.440 my, I'm making damn near nothing now. But, you know, Pearl, not true about conservative

01:25:57.280 fathers. And I've watched my peers. Conservative dad is monitoring the whoring daughters. Mom

01:26:02.060 is making excuses to live through their daughters. Okay. Why is there the Catholic school girl

01:26:10.660 and pastor's daughter reputation why is that a phrase what are you guys thinking of when i said

01:26:20.040 that pastor's daughter rollo digs at pearl just why high school he's immature in some ways

01:26:25.820 um pearl tell the story of why rollo was beefing with us well it goes back so many years i just

01:26:33.380 don't want to get the timeline wrong but i'm done i have not defended myself in years and i really

01:26:41.380 think it's been the wrong decision for my career the advice i was given is just to go higher

01:26:46.820 and ignore and some of them are i do ignore but like they get these waves of shit like

01:26:54.100 god he started a whole rumor about me that i worked for the daily wire

01:27:04.100 he also started a rumor about what was the other one he started one more

01:27:07.940 like jeremy boring had to come out and say she doesn't work for us

01:27:16.020 like there's one more like pearl was sent to take down the red but there's one more i don't

01:27:20.740 even remember what it was i don't care anymore i'm like you are nuts but i still love you

01:27:27.700 he's like that grandpa do you know what i mean he's like that grandpa at dinner

01:27:31.700 that's like going crazy and talking about like i don't know whatever but you still kind of love

01:27:40.640 him you're like you're kind of nutty but i still love you in a normal way he's like you're autistic

01:27:47.860 and fat and i'm like what are you good looking rollo like get the fuck out of my face i could

01:27:53.800 be thinner i could be less awkward you know what i mean but like i can i can carry it i can have a

01:28:01.340 conversation you know what i mean like i'm a bit quirky but have you met real autistic people do

01:28:07.100 you know what i mean like dear god you know i could be better you know but fuck i'm like

01:28:15.780 you're kind of quirky too we're on we're in this space everybody's a little nerdy here

01:28:22.920 okay you know okay perfect show for me to call in conservative dad raised five kids in south

01:28:30.900 alabama and south mississippi the bible belt i've lived it most night there's a lot of chats and

01:28:37.780 i'm reading all of them guys please like the video i know it decreases engagement but they you guys

01:28:43.380 paid for this chat i'm giving you this chat but i really would ask that in the future you put pearl

01:28:49.820 reed in front of them because some of these don't make sense and i don't think you want me to read

01:28:54.140 it most nights when the wife doesn't want to have sex with the man makes a late night visit to the

01:29:00.180 bathroom for years Paul Candace Owens is an evil bitch she should stay with politics I just want

01:29:07.440 an apology for her to crowd her you did call him a fucking abuser okay that's pretty serious

01:29:16.160 I just want an apology at least a retraction take the video down I'm pretty sure the Daily Wire

01:29:22.900 deleted it but guess what bitches i didn't forget i will nag you into eternity into eternity

01:29:33.220 till you give him an apology i'm team stephen crowder even if he's a bit of a super simp

01:29:41.940 he didn't deserve abuser he deserved a super simp insult that's what he deserved

01:29:47.940 he deserved to be called a simp not an abuser pearl women's sex drive is a man's time in manhood

01:29:55.380 they could light a cigarette a sig after that better than sex for them fazel i'm not a religious

01:30:00.580 person however the best prayer i indulges is from the for my morning prayer is their

01:30:05.860 lips around my mushroom what fazel why did you make me read i'm gonna read it you guys are in

01:30:12.260 in the chat i'm reading it but god damn dane pearl rollo is a disgruntled old man who failed

01:30:18.900 that long-term relationship he's been married like 30 years he's failed at saddle backing a woman so

01:30:24.820 he's pissed you represent every other woman in his life who has reminded him no i just think i'm less

01:30:31.140 like smart than him i think he takes a lot of ego and being like an intelligent guy he's kind of

01:30:37.540 like a know-it-all and it makes him less likable right like people like him less because he's like

01:30:42.820 i'm super smart i know everything and he kind of does right but and it's kind of annoying when

01:30:47.700 this like red-headed ginger he thinks i'm fat i guess i'm a fatty and um you know gets all these

01:30:55.620 followers and it's kind of annoying i get it you know i could be better um the 25 year old female

01:31:03.460 saying she's still a child is tarted. Glenn says, not Pearl. We don't want 18 year olds. We want

01:31:08.680 18 or 22 to 32 year old. They need to know how to cook and they can't have a gag reflex.

01:31:15.700 Thank you, Glenn. Thank you for that. Marriage used to be a matter of survival, but now it's

01:31:22.400 a matter of social media. Tell each other women, they tell women they have more options and that

01:31:27.920 their tens i'll have a hard drive um two full hard drives full of home videos don't tempt me

01:31:37.280 you could keep that to yourself glenn you really could you don't have to confirm i already know

01:31:41.880 um almost every guy uses some form of porn dane andrew wilson is the only man in the genre i

01:31:48.300 respect as much as a grown-ass man be and not just a disgruntled old dude well i like andrew but

01:31:55.520 he kind of does the same thing man up and marry these hoes you know

01:32:01.560 um andrew and rachel are a great couple yes they are they're a phenomenal couple and rachel is a

01:32:09.260 great example of what i was talking about he could have got a younger hotter woman with no kids but

01:32:14.720 he chose rachel why did he choose rachel because she listened god he put up with other men's

01:32:22.420 children in order to have a woman that listened that's how bad it is out there fellas um

01:32:29.540 glenn watch his own porn that he made with his exes that he ended up cheating uh um ended up

01:32:35.620 cheating on with one of the other girls in another home made porn that he made porn is an awesome

01:32:41.860 tool like i taught my daughters purity is a lot more than a hymen it's a mindset virginity is

01:32:46.660 important but if you're abstaining but you really wish you could be really wish you could then you're

01:32:51.860 You're not really that pure.

01:32:53.320 Glenn, every mid I know has a higher body count than everyone was above an eight.

01:32:59.940 Oh my gosh, you guys have a lot today.

01:33:02.020 I guess we're getting a lot of memberships.

01:33:03.480 This is good.

01:33:04.660 Polygamy only works in patriarchal society.

01:33:07.440 That's the mess we have now.

01:33:09.340 Pearl, if the virgin is sexless but otherwise indulging in worldliness, that's not purity.

01:33:13.840 Purity is not nailing your foot to the floor so you don't do the horizontal hustle.

01:33:17.800 It's a voluntary mindset.

01:33:19.780 yeah so part of purity is like not getting sexual attention from men

01:33:27.620 not you know i'm dressing like a hoe not making sexual faces

01:33:33.380 dane if the virgin is sexless but otherwise living in worldliness yeah like um doing like a

01:33:38.180 fast life purity is not nailing your okay wait i read that feminism has ruined all western women

01:33:43.700 especially in south korea pearl the never had sex women who is living out otherwise filthy life not

01:33:48.980 pure. Pearl is absolutely right on sex being in need. Increasingly, while the churches disagree

01:33:55.160 with this, they are at odds with the Bible. Read 1 Corinthians. Dane, the gospel Russell Brand was

01:34:01.700 preaching to her isn't biblical. It's the feminine gospel. You're awesome. The Bible is you suck,

01:34:07.880 but Jesus came to make you not suck. Only a catastrophic event would take out the entire

01:34:15.740 modern infrastructure including a world wide web that would send us back to the stone age and

01:34:20.780 end feminism overnight pearl your white knighting for that grumpy old man rollo i'm still a fan

01:34:26.860 okay look i i recently met another guy he doesn't like either you know where neither of us we didn't

01:34:35.260 mean to accidentally make him hate us but you know he's a hating guy he's a hater i don't know

01:34:40.060 it's funny to watch rollo and his wife bear t-shirt something's off with him this is why i

01:34:47.660 subscribe to you you tell the black pill truth rollo digs at you pearl but he knows he can't

01:34:53.820 have you think high school look uh i don't care why he does it i just

01:35:00.980 i'm i'm staying i told him like i said i'm not going anywhere and then he's like pearl pearl

01:35:09.720 She'll be out of here.

01:35:10.820 I'm still here.

01:35:12.260 Then he's like, she just couldn't go anywhere else.

01:35:14.080 Really?

01:35:15.840 Do you think conservative female media is that competitive?

01:35:20.860 I'm the most entertaining one in the space.

01:35:24.840 I really am.

01:35:26.360 I mean, I can write simp songs off the dome.

01:35:29.980 Okay, pastor's daughter is because dad's neglecting his family over the church.

01:35:34.300 One of the most attractive qualities of the woman is not shaming male sexuality.

01:35:38.200 part of why they do it is because they deny the power of the naked image to men here is he's the

01:35:45.340 crazy old uncle that everyone tells their girlfriends to stay away from he's like the

01:35:48.860 guy that wears tinfoil hats to keep the cia from reading his thoughts i get it he said a lot of

01:35:54.260 people come for him okay oh my gosh this is the most i mean i'm happy with this many people in

01:35:59.560 the chat but god that was a long one jonathan says bougie yeah like bad and bougie you know

01:36:06.240 okay

01:36:07.640 alright Pearl you're working hard

01:36:11.720 you're not siding on truth

01:36:13.160 Rolo should support you

01:36:14.400 trying to torpedo you over his feelings

01:36:16.700 is very womanly

01:36:17.820 look

01:36:20.680 I'm still a fan

01:36:27.660 I can't help it

01:36:28.920 I can't help it

01:36:31.720 I just can't

01:36:33.160 Okay, limited to one chat per day.

01:36:37.360 Well, what I need to do is I'm not going to read them anymore.

01:36:39.960 This is my new rule.

01:36:40.960 You've got to put Pearl read.

01:36:44.160 You've got to put Pearl read, because we're at two hours in,

01:36:47.960 and I'm not even through my monologue.

01:36:49.660 I didn't even get to the videos yet.

01:36:52.760 Okay, so let's look at some examples.

01:36:56.260 um and i want to put can you make a poll in the chat how many blow jobs does a woman have to give

01:37:07.800 before you don't consider her a virgin anymore i want to put i don't know how many options we have

01:37:14.600 but i want to put one um three and then put six plus

01:37:22.120 does this change i want you guys's thoughts in the chat does this change if she's only getting

01:37:31.880 like if she's getting oral but she's not giving it you know what i mean where when does the

01:37:37.460 virginity like go like come on we have to say anal counts like i know you can't get pregnant

01:37:44.540 it from it but like you can get literally get eights yeah how many blowjobs tell a woman's

01:37:53.680 not a virgin anymore i want to put the options as one three six plus

01:37:58.540 oh what are my long-term goals with the audacity network i'll do that at the end of the show i'll

01:38:10.080 I'll make a note.

01:38:13.840 The way this is going, I might have to get a snack, I'm starving, I might have to hold

01:38:18.700 on.

01:38:19.700 The Audacity Network, okay.

01:38:22.120 We're going to start with some videos about purity culture, because I am going to take

01:38:26.420 some call-ins, so this is going to go a while.

01:38:30.840 I'm not going to read this article, I'm going to go to the videos.

01:38:40.080 the audience pregnancy scare when I was 17 there we go in household growing up in a Christian

01:38:47.100 household uh you do not have sex you stay abstinent I had a pregnancy scare when I was 17

01:38:52.820 I was not pregnant but I thought I was and instead of telling my parents I was like

01:38:57.800 no it's probably better to just kill myself which I talk about that and I I say it out loud because

01:39:04.820 I know so many young women that go through the same thing

01:39:10.080 that is incredible i mean it's ideally in a perfect world of pregnancy is a happy moment

01:39:17.280 right but sometimes things aren't planned sometimes there's surprises and i think

01:39:22.080 it's very unreasonable for a person to say just don't have sex we are human beings it's literally

01:39:28.080 in our dna to be attracted to each other and to form bonds with each other and to express

01:39:34.240 love with each other and you know

01:39:38.640 the answer to this what it should be in a conservative household is okay you might be

01:39:42.800 pregnant it's not the end of the world let's get married that's it problem stall solved lady just

01:39:49.600 don't leave that's it it's okay it's not the big of a deal you're an adult sex feels good you know

01:39:56.720 go get married

01:39:57.520 okay let me keep going other and to simply put up a wall and say we don't acknowledge this we

01:40:06.420 don't talk about it it's dark it's sinful and shameful yeah can you tell we had a similar

01:40:11.160 background oh yeah it's not healthy no it develops a very high conflict relationship with your with

01:40:21.080 your own biology in a way sex ed is very important and in uh the household i grew up in there was no

01:40:28.560 now is sex ed important if she's entering modern dating it is so important if she's doing

01:40:38.440 traditional dating she doesn't have to worry about it modern holy crap and you got it like

01:40:45.860 What are actually, and they don't even tell them the useful stuff, you know what's a good

01:40:51.300 stat to know?

01:40:52.300 If your daughter enters modern dating, you know 90% of women will get HPV, which can

01:40:57.320 lead to cervical cancer, 90%.

01:41:02.820 Condoms don't prevent this fully, but they help a lot.

01:41:06.620 Women aren't the most careful, right?

01:41:08.240 I mean, what's your experience?

01:41:10.160 Are women careful?

01:41:12.160 90%.

01:41:13.160 There is a vaccine against it, but I do, like, there's a bunch of strands.

01:41:19.920 There's new STIs forming every day.

01:41:24.420 And pap smears don't necessarily, like, detect this stuff.

01:41:29.640 Sometimes it doesn't come until later.

01:41:32.100 Women will literally get cancer and die from this.

01:41:36.220 And 90% of women get the virus.

01:41:39.160 It doesn't always go to cancer.

01:41:40.460 Do they teach that in sex ed?

01:41:42.900 no um uh the fact that like one in three women has an active std

01:41:51.940 um one in four will get an abortion like these stats will affect your daughters they will

01:41:59.300 so you either go you go find her husband for her and force it or encourage it the best you can or

01:42:06.620 yeah you are leaving your daughters up to failure you are um and i'm not saying she will fail some

01:42:13.660 people and some women enter the modern dating market and they win that happens all the time

01:42:19.100 uh but at what cost how much debt how much

01:42:25.260 how much of everything you know all right let me go

01:42:30.780 said there was just you don't do it also i want to thank we have some users

01:42:36.620 Jonathan thank you yearly membership we got another show sponsor uh and Jonathan super

01:42:45.140 chatted twice I think I haven't read it yet but I will later um did I say Daniel already

01:42:50.500 oh Daniel no he was next Daniel thank you for the membership if we have five of these

01:42:56.200 to show you know I don't even have to do ads anymore like five yearly um no maybe 10 yearly

01:43:04.320 at some point I won't have to do ads and I'll be free although I do really like the chalk it's in

01:43:15.540 the description guys it's a good product I'm not even and by the way you know you can do everything

01:43:20.820 right and because women we have these easy jobs so like it's not like she has to listen and I

01:43:26.940 want to take the responsibility off of you like fathers because you can't like the world your

01:43:33.960 daughter is free will and you can't stop her if she wants to go be a whore but if you don't give

01:43:38.760 her the choice like if you don't go find a husband and at least like give her the choice you can't

01:43:44.560 say you did everything that like you could have you can't like there you guys know what goes on

01:43:51.400 in college you guys all went to college

01:43:52.900 i mean you can give her in better environments like um you can look for schools if i was a dad

01:44:05.380 and i didn't want to find an arranged marriage or i didn't think my daughter would listen what i

01:44:09.620 would do is i would go find a school that has like very husbandly like um jobs where there's

01:44:19.040 more men than women too that's what i would do and has a lot of stem jobs um there's there's

01:44:27.880 different choices we have here okay next we're gonna go off of these purity rings again like

01:44:33.440 again the purity ring is like a performance it's a show it's like to save your reputation

01:44:39.000 it's signaling for everyone else you know virginity it should be a private thing for you and your

01:44:44.600 husband. And not really used for clout. So this is a woman talking about her mother giving her

01:44:52.860 a purity ring. And this is, the dads find this weird. This is really pushed on by the mothers

01:44:57.700 mostly. Forget the absolute guilt and shame that I felt at 17 years old when my mother made me

01:45:08.300 take my purity ring off my finger and give it back to her so in the spirit of this whole you

01:45:16.220 know using the creator insights to tell you um you know what people are searching for on tiktok and

01:45:24.160 what you want to hear purity ring was one of them and boy do i have a story for you okay so like

01:45:36.500 many of you. I was raised in a good old Christian household, aka a incredibly hypocritical household

01:45:44.160 where it was do as I say, not as I do. So I think I started hearing about purity rings when I was

01:45:52.560 11 years old. And in the church that I grew up in, it was very much like, oh, this is a cool thing.

01:45:58.180 This is very exciting. You want to be a part of this. You want to stand up in front of the entire

01:46:04.660 church and claim your virginity publicly for the whole congregation god that made me so excited to

01:46:14.240 be proud of to be a part of so in the church that i grew up in which was called non-denominational

01:46:20.760 but it was very much evangelical christianity you were not allowed to be part of the purity ring

01:46:26.000 ceremony that took place entire in front of the entire congregation until you were a teenager

01:46:31.800 it was 13 when you were allowed to be a part of this what now I know is a very culty ceremony

01:46:39.180 but oh the hype they created around it like they wanted you to tell your friends and they wanted

01:46:44.420 you to be proud and like the boys in the church knew that the girls that were wearing the purity

01:46:49.740 ring were the ones that they were going to try to marry one day it was all very weird but I was in

01:46:55.320 for it i was sold on this purity ring idea so in the christian culture they put such an emphasis

01:47:02.540 on virginity like so that i mean they literally talked about it like tainted property i mean my

01:47:08.620 own father would say why buy the cow when you can get milk for free no i didn't want to be the cow

01:47:14.720 i wanted to be the prize that was won because they had convinced me that this was a good idea

01:47:21.200 so i think my mom got me my purity ring when i was 40. see again why buy the cow when you can

01:47:28.380 get the milk for free what are they saying the only thing you have to offer is sex weaponize

01:47:34.900 sex to get what you want

01:47:36.580 teen if i remember correctly and i wore that ring so proudly but you weren't allowed to be a part of

01:47:48.140 the actual ceremony where you like wear the white dress and you get up there and you make this like

01:47:53.860 public declaration that you're going to save yourself for your husband in front of the entire

01:47:59.680 church body um when you're 16 when you're 16 is when you're allowed to do that well in the meantime

01:48:05.260 those couple of years i started dating for the first time i had my first boyfriend i was so in

01:48:11.640 love but he was a good christian boy too so we were gonna wait right so we waited in fact we

01:48:19.640 waited two years um for the value of the story because i thought it was important back then

01:48:24.840 he was also a virgin um so you know you've got two holy children just waiting on the lord

01:48:32.980 okay in all seriousness i did see value in waiting i didn't want to you know to share

01:48:39.900 the most intimate personal parts of myself with just anybody. But me and said boy dated for two

01:48:46.280 years before we decided to do that. So me being the very honest person that I am and always leaning

01:48:55.840 into what my mother told me, which was, you can come talk to me about anything. I will never judge

01:49:03.680 you. I will always be here for you. You can literally share anything with your mother. I

01:49:07.960 hope you know that, right? I think a lot of parents have said that to their children, but do they

01:49:11.700 really mean it? I remember where I was standing when I told my mother that I had lost my virginity.

01:49:19.400 I was in the living room of the house that I grew up in, and I... So she's 17 in this. She's been

01:49:24.840 with her boyfriend for two years. If you find out your daughter had sex with her boyfriend after two

01:49:31.300 years is it that big of a deal okay that's fine when's the wedding that's it it's not that it's

01:49:44.420 normal okay said mom i need to tell you something she could tell by the tone in my voice and the

01:49:51.800 look on my face that it was something more serious and that um i was getting ready to

01:49:56.840 really vulnerable with her so i did i opened up and i said mom this last weekend i lost my virginity

01:50:05.160 to my boyfriend you know that we've been together for almost two and a half years and i i want to

01:50:10.920 be honest with you and i want to be able to have these conversations with you because you've told

01:50:14.760 me that i can talk to you about anything and she looked at me with the most disgusted look on her

01:50:23.240 face and said give it to me i said give you what your purity ring yeah so now what's her first

01:50:35.400 experience with sex shame again back in the day they would just get married but the thing is it's

01:50:43.800 the mother's wanting to control the sex drive that's what they're trying to do apparently the

01:50:52.120 chat says one blow job she's not a virgin anymore how men see it ladies we try to get all these

01:51:00.760 workarounds i was like wait what do you mean she said well i guess i'll be calling the pastors and

01:51:09.800 telling them that you won't be participating in the upcoming purity ring ceremony at church so

01:51:18.280 instantly guilt shame this is what religion is so good about guilt and shame around your purity

01:51:30.360 really guilt and shape around anything in that moment i learned really quickly that i could not

01:51:36.040 trust my mom with wait rollo got divorced she apparently doesn't know rollo got divorced

01:51:48.280 oh that's so sad

01:51:51.820 no is that true could you guys check in the chat that can't be true anything that she would in

01:52:00.340 fact judge me if i shared any truth with her i've heard story after story after story from women

01:52:10.180 that grew up the same way that i did that were basically taught that their body look

01:52:16.000 i i understand shame can be a good thing like we should shame women

01:52:21.820 that are fucking in public okay that's that's shameful we should shame women that are just

01:52:27.920 going for to get better and better men and just treating men like they're disposable

01:52:31.660 but shaming a woman for having sex with her boyfriend that she loves i mean like the shameful

01:52:41.200 behavior you have to understand it's not the sex the shameful behavior is leaving which is usually

01:52:47.760 women dump their high school boyfriends okay that's the general consensus is it worthy property

01:52:55.120 of their future said husband and if they said rollo is not divorced

01:53:00.960 okay sorry i don't i'm not trying to before he sparks out i was reading a chat i was reading

01:53:07.120 a chat i'm not trying to attack you in any way please don't do a three-hour stream on me again

01:53:15.520 it tainted that body they were damaged goods why are we teaching young women this

01:53:22.800 why are we teaching anyone that their body is tarnished should they choose to share it

01:53:29.440 with someone that they love that was just the beginning of the guilt and the shame that i spent

01:53:37.200 years undoing when it came to sex and my sexuality purity culture teaches that any

01:53:45.200 form of sexual expression expression or desire outside okay now i made a google sheet

01:53:54.400 and i wanted to just show you guys something i made a google sheet of all the traditional

01:54:00.360 conservative women don't show my screen right now but yeah hold on i gotta find it uh conservative

01:54:07.740 women influencers i think this one uh no not this one oh i think i did in my other email

01:54:15.240 oh yeah here we go I took the data of 80 almost conservative women to find their average age of

01:54:32.740 first marriage and it's pretty much the same some of these are just guessing based on what I found

01:54:41.500 online but like like for example lila rose age of first marriage 30. so she shames men for sleeping

01:54:50.060 around but she got married at 30. do you guys believe that she lost her virginity on her wedding

01:54:55.900 night three kids which really isn't okay i'm that above average age of first child 31.

01:55:04.060 you risked autism for your children so you could around

01:55:07.260 totally fine i'm not saying you should or shouldn't she did take her husband's last name

01:55:14.480 she is still married currently but it's only been six years so god only knows

01:55:20.120 which is the next clip i wanted to react to um

01:55:25.300 all right justin do you ever see yourself getting married no not on paper no so this is the player

01:55:35.500 and these are the conservatives trying to shame the player for exercising the only power he has

01:55:43.800 in society other women absolutely not i believe in love and marriage and in regards to taking

01:55:49.760 care of a woman fully and your this spreadsheet's given a bit of autism shut the fuck up i'm sorry

01:55:55.080 responsibilities of the father and a provider and protector 100 in fact i think that's probably

01:56:03.600 what's broken about the world but in regards of letting the state get into all my businesses that

01:56:07.920 took me over a decade to build absolutely not no how do you think you're gonna get to the place

01:56:13.860 of that marriage you want with that family and that lifelong love that you just i didn't say i

01:56:19.580 didn't have family or children i just said i'm running your business oh i see okay so you want

01:56:24.740 to keep it private is what you're saying that's what i said do you justin has i might have multiple

01:56:30.600 family oh you never know i might like family more than you so much i have five do you think that's

01:56:35.240 a good thing to have multiple families i think it's good if there's one dad and there's not a

01:56:38.920 bunch of step parents involved and the dad can be the hero and those five families live a 10x better

01:56:43.080 life than they would have otherwise yes ma'am i do but you don't think that it will be ultimately a

01:56:49.160 an opportunity for jealousy or disharmony amongst women are always going to be jealous so yeah so

01:56:53.480 this is like she's doing a typical female shaming tactic

01:57:00.120 i mean do you guys love that passive aggressive voice of women trying to guilt you for things

01:57:06.040 you don't think it's you don't think you're putting your work above your family by doing your job

01:57:13.640 you don't think you don't think you're

01:57:15.240 yeah and this is why they're the same

01:57:20.280 she's just got like a dress on you know what i mean what's changed about that women have been

01:57:27.600 jealous all the way through time so i'm not jealous in my marriage i don't care about your

01:57:31.260 marriage i'm talking about mine well my life is going to be so i don't answer to you so that's my

01:57:36.920 answer i'm gonna run my my situation exactly how i want to and generally when i do that that's when

01:57:42.460 I have the most happiness, let's say, in my life.

01:57:46.080 So that's all.

01:57:47.720 And you would want that for your daughters?

01:57:50.620 Yeah.

01:57:51.640 Yeah, I live my life unapologetically on my terms.

01:57:54.900 So if my daughters that are overly spoiled and educated in every way

01:57:59.220 and have friends all over the world and world-traveled in the best schools in the world,

01:58:02.340 if they have a problem with me at the end of the day, then they can kick rocks too.

01:58:05.420 I'm not going to simp for my daughters.

01:58:06.880 I'll love them fully.

01:58:08.300 But if they grow up and turn into a person that doesn't want to get in line with me

01:58:11.920 or look here's my goal as a parent teach my children how the world works give them the

01:58:17.180 skills so they can live on their own terms and give them choice if they choose not to make me

01:58:20.840 part of their life after I've given them those things I've still succeeded as a father but I

01:58:24.680 guess I'm asking if you're comfortable answering obviously but are you wanting to be a role model

01:58:28.600 for your kids is that so now she's shaming right she's like you're not a role model bitch

01:58:33.260 like could we justin waller built like a giant company

01:58:38.600 and he had to work 10 times as hard you you got caught embezzling money and you're gonna say

01:58:46.140 because he likes hot women with big tits don't all men watch you guys like hot women with big

01:58:51.620 tits one in the chat you're saying because he he doesn't he told his wife i'm not going to be

01:58:59.540 monogamous and she accepted it or his girlfriend whatever because because she accepted that she

01:59:07.240 said okay I love you I'm staying I'm gonna be monogamous too even though you're not she's the

01:59:16.120 the wife that's a choice but the thing is conservatives hate when men use sexuality

01:59:22.160 for their benefit they only like it when it benefits the woman it's why they don't shame

01:59:26.960 older marriage it's why they don't shame um it's why they shame porn it's why they shame anything

01:59:34.920 that gives men power a thousand percent a father should show up in every way for his children i

01:59:40.720 think i'll be better than most fathers regardless of how many children i have i might have a hundred

01:59:44.480 but you think part of being a role model it's okay for your kids not to know even their your

01:59:49.080 relationship status with their own mom they will know the relationship status with me and their

01:59:53.200 mother but you have other relationships with other women too what does that have to do with anything

01:59:56.800 but I'm just wondering if you think I haven't even said that I'm just saying

01:59:59.920 like if I want to I will but you don't think that's a problem for your dog

02:00:03.100 do you hear it like conservatives hate that if I want to I will

02:00:07.740 because they're so used to being able to control their husbands

02:00:13.320 if I want to I will

02:00:19.340 older marriages ascent well what do you think they're fucking doing before this

02:00:25.620 older marriage god you guys are oh my god the christian simps amaze me even in my own chat

02:00:37.060 i thought you were better

02:00:40.740 they also want to control how you have sex you know you're not allowed to get a gluck gluck

02:00:44.180 five thousand from your wife if the man in the jesus hat says not to can you imagine

02:00:49.780 You're like, honey, I want to gluck gluck.

02:00:53.600 And she says, no, the Jesus man says we can't.

02:00:59.200 That's why they say they don't admit, like, Justin's wife obeys him.

02:01:05.480 Lila obeys whatever priest.

02:01:08.220 That's the difference.

02:01:11.040 Pearl, this bitch can't admit she didn't have a brain to think for herself.

02:01:14.680 My church did all that shit, and I sat down and said no.

02:01:17.440 I stayed virgin of my own choice she is so traumatized that she made a hairdo video about

02:01:22.980 it Doug textbook sigh language Rondolfo have you seen the movie Joker I don't see how many people

02:01:30.160 didn't blame so if so I don't see how people didn't blame the mom in the movie Rodolfo she

02:01:37.180 is annoying it's not religion it was your church Jonathan oh yeah it's just my church yeah totally

02:01:47.320 I hate religious people.

02:01:49.160 It's like I have this special church where the things that happen in every single group

02:01:54.800 across time, ever, they won't happen.

02:02:00.720 We're immune to sympathy.

02:02:02.000 We're immune to these hoes.

02:02:05.120 Okay.

02:02:06.200 Jonathan, thank you for the donation.

02:02:08.140 I appreciate it.

02:02:09.000 Way back in the day when marriage was still sacred, highly valued, and not used as a

02:02:12.880 moneymaker, young men and women waited until marriage to have sex and naturally started

02:02:16.520 the family what age were they doing that at like 15 that was you guys realize that was when people

02:02:24.000 were married so you're saying do it the old way but without the old tools the old tool was hey

02:02:30.440 lady you have to marry him otherwise you don't get my money

02:02:34.980 now you're saying okay wait till marriage with the new tools here's dating apps here's the internet

02:02:42.220 i'm not telling you how to do it like it's your kids does it affect my life in the most

02:02:47.240 respectful way guys i'm black filled i assume all your kids are fucked

02:02:52.160 but it doesn't affect my life you know

02:02:58.840 the justin is saying i live my life unapologetically on my terms is not manhood

02:03:06.400 it's a statement of the little boy saying when i'm grown i'm eating cookies for supper he's a boy

02:03:11.980 i don't know he doesn't really look like he eats a lot of cookies

02:03:15.960 bitch please i'm not saying it doesn't happen i'm saying in the religion of itself

02:03:20.320 has commoners right let me interview at your church give me 10 honest interviews with the

02:03:28.580 men there where i can ask very personal questions from the men and the women

02:03:32.140 give me the age of the first marriage what age is gen z in your church marrying

02:03:38.820 otherwise we're just going on believing women which you church simps love to do i can't blame

02:03:46.920 you oh you're 27 you're totally a virgin sam sam sam sam to know that about their dad

02:03:55.280 that that he has multiple mistresses that's something my daughter man you know but do you

02:04:01.060 want your daughter to have a guy like that long term if he takes care of her in every way and she

02:04:04.880 has a much better life because of it yeah i'm cool with that wait do you want to have 100 kids

02:04:09.360 is that like i'm gonna have a bunch of kids yeah i believe in having kids man so there's there's

02:04:14.780 too many dumbass people having kids might as well so this is the perfect analogy it's the

02:04:19.180 wait no put it on the on the screen again on the right we have lila this is the trad con woman who

02:04:24.760 shames man's men's sexuality in the middle this is the simp who tries to make a campaign

02:04:30.500 he actually tried on twitter to have a campaign to make men stop having sex

02:04:35.020 like out of marriage and he's like oh i had all these these men message me that they're

02:04:43.240 gonna stop fucking i'm like std stats are going up there's an epidemic waller is the guy who lives

02:04:51.680 life on his own terms who society hates because he's honest guy in the middle um last time he

02:04:58.220 on the show he said he hooked up with someone i heard it was britney venti i don't know if it was

02:05:02.940 or not that was the rumor and i'm gonna spread it because i'm a woman and i hate britney venti so

02:05:10.140 um her and she got fat all my haters they they take themselves out um

02:05:19.100 long story short you know one of these days i might react to her video to tell you how she

02:05:24.620 misconstrued the story i need to get permission first but anyways the yeah okay we'll have a

02:05:35.520 smart person have some dude is justin low-key about to repopulate the world

02:05:39.360 single-handedly reverse the declining they got they got all these single women out here

02:05:46.820 talking shit about shit man well cool i'll have babies with you what's up

02:05:50.220 now part of it is being a smart ass right now right to be honest but look if if a guy decides

02:05:58.420 to have a bunch of children I mean you see it happen all the time guy gets married he's a

02:06:02.480 shitty father shitty husband ends up getting a divorce and then goes have and has babies with

02:06:06.920 the next chick doing the same thing I'm doing except I'm not a lying coward about it I hear

02:06:10.820 you I see that I see what it is but I think the big question is I mean it seems like you're really

02:06:14.980 focus so again they don't shame dennis prager who had three marriages when you could say that's worse

02:06:23.220 right a guy having three women at the same time benefits the man right

02:06:29.540 so in that way all the women love the father and the dad's in all the kids lives i'm sure

02:06:35.300 it comes with problems however it's a different set of problems where the guy who gets divorced

02:06:44.500 and then marries again, is doing the same thing, except he sees his kids two days a month, right?

02:06:50.680 I'm not saying one's better than the other. Jonathan said, I'm not religious, not a simp.

02:06:57.100 I dropped out of church because it was female-led. He said, bitch, please. Good. I'm glad you can call

02:07:02.760 me a bitch. I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I'm saying religion of itself uses common sense,

02:07:08.680 but the church leaders twist the meaning i'm not religious i'm indigenous cree first nations in

02:07:15.340 canada my people before colonies did not screw around especially the women spirit marriages

02:07:19.880 were for life and they were sacred dane this man says i live my life unapologetically oh dane

02:07:26.060 i do not want to go back and forth with you in this chat today i'm going to be here all night

02:07:31.860 oh my god guys can you give me a one more yearly membership to make up for danes

02:07:37.880 i'm just kidding you guys work hard for your money okay the man says i live my my life

02:07:44.620 unapologetically i do what's best for my family and community no matter how i feel men have duties

02:07:48.940 justin waller waller lives his life on his terms childish okay it's on self-improvement which is

02:07:56.360 awesome and so i guess my question would be is it ideal like what are we striving towards

02:08:01.280 individually right and what do we think is best for society oh we got another oh we know that was

02:08:05.820 the one the super chat i just read and i think kids want to know their parents love each other

02:08:10.700 and are committed till death do they part to each other yep didn't say any of that wasn't true but

02:08:15.820 you're the one saying that's not true okay but do you think it would be a little bit um confusing

02:08:20.300 for one of your kids if they found out let's say theoretically because if they trust me enough to

02:08:23.820 come to me i'll just tell them the truth what are we talking about i'm not hiding from anything i

02:08:27.020 just told you i understand that it seems like you're challenging because you have a problem

02:08:30.220 with it i simply don't care so your your kids you're saying you don't care if they find out

02:08:35.100 you have multiple mistresses if i had multiple women and then my kids came to me then i would

02:08:41.340 just talk to them like a like an adult if they're adult enough to ask i'm adult enough to tell them

02:08:46.060 well whatever they ask i'm there for you know that's it find somebody else i don't feel bad

02:08:57.020 you see like it's like the nagging right here's the difference between me and most men

02:09:01.660 most men are doing this shit behind people's back right like a fucking coward and they're not even

02:09:06.380 giving the family the life that they deserve so if i choose to do that in the future which i have

02:09:10.620 not said i'm going to do then so be it but if i don't i don't i hear you i i guess that you're

02:09:17.980 saying you don't want to share your relationship status but then you just said you people are

02:09:21.980 hiding it and being a coward so i guess i think there's a difference between not wanting to share

02:09:26.780 one's relationship status publicly on a platform like this versus when i have a big internet

02:09:30.780 following and like offices that you can google and all kinds of things like that i don't want

02:09:36.380 that i don't want that smoke for people in my life i see yeah that's gonna ask you one more

02:09:39.900 question he joined the zoomer now i don't know if i texted him i don't know if you saw it okay

02:09:45.420 just keep your eye on it okay um if you have a place and only one place in your heart for one

02:09:51.500 woman or you want to have one woman in your heart i think you said why don't you just commit to one

02:09:55.820 and choose to be faithful to her i'm just not wired that way i spent my whole 20s trying to

02:10:01.100 fix myself i thought something was wrong you have self-control you work out you do business

02:10:05.260 you can possess your own your own power yeah so then she's again men get variety somehow

02:10:14.060 they do they get it somehow and that's the thing at least the on the other side

02:10:19.660 they like they understand what men are that's how they get married is the woman

02:10:27.400 on the left doesn't understand what men are on the right they do okay there's

02:10:36.160 another example we're gonna do the Colin soon next we got a girl talking about a

02:10:46.240 purity culture the first time my parents messed her up and the first time my parents and i ever

02:10:53.440 had a con my parents the first time my parents and i ever had a converse the first time my parents

02:11:00.000 and i ever had a conversation around sex i was like i don't know 11 or 12. the second time my

02:11:04.320 parents and i had a discussion around sex i was 18 and pregnant i grew up in a religious household

02:11:09.040 so purity culture was king i was not allowed to attend the sex act classes at school and the

02:11:14.880 version my parents gave me was very very basic after that it was nothing but fear shame guilt

02:11:21.840 ignorance ignorance to both my body and my feelings and since we weren't supposed to be having sex we

02:11:27.040 weren't supposed to be curious about it which meant we didn't talk about it which meant we didn't know

02:11:30.640 what was healthy or safe which can lead to some dangerous situations but by then you're already

02:11:35.360 married to that person and i am not saying tell your kids everything up front keep it age appropriate

02:11:40.480 our kids change so much during their teen years and our approach and conversations around sex

02:11:45.440 should too it doesn't have to be serious it can be a quick check-in sometimes i just ask like hey

02:11:50.800 did you hear or see anything that you have questions about and if she says no cool but at

02:11:54.880 least she knows the door is open and i'm available but if she says yes that gives me an opportunity

02:11:59.520 to show up and support and guide her while also telling her hey this is a safe place

02:12:04.720 to discuss this topic all right i'm out of here happy parenting

02:12:10.480 Jonathan said, that man is living his life the way he sees fit and knows what the world

02:12:17.300 really is, which is full of people who don't give an F. In the end, you can only rely on

02:12:21.720 yourself.

02:12:22.720 Dane says, that's not true.

02:12:26.040 Engage with my argument or go away.

02:12:28.240 Pearl, his business success and internet following doesn't equate to manhood.

02:12:32.160 Men have duties.

02:12:33.160 Justin just doesn't seem to think he does.

02:12:38.160 we're three hours in I don't I'm not reading this argument between the two of you on okay

02:12:48.720 I think we're gonna take callers now um I might bring a couple of you at a time but I just want

02:12:55.800 your general like thoughts on the topic and um a couple rules we're gonna do number one

02:13:04.200 do not make it a diatribe um just try to keep it under like two minutes

02:13:10.080 I don't like cutting you guys off but we can't I really can't go forever um

02:13:16.200 second rule is that try to keep it I said Pearl needs coffee I know I really just I should have

02:13:26.060 got a snack before this but I'm like out of groceries because I'm leaving on Friday so I'm

02:13:31.020 I don't know but but I do want to do this show because this is really important the other thing

02:13:37.580 is please don't over talk me like if I tell you to shut up and you don't shut up me and you we're

02:13:44.080 gonna have problems okay I'm just gonna take you off I'm not I'm not here to argue I've given you

02:13:50.300 my position I'm not here to debate I just want to know your experience did it line up with this or

02:13:56.680 did it not? That's what I'd like to get. What was your experience and does it line up with what I

02:14:02.080 said? Your experience could be completely different from my experience and what I've seen. That's

02:14:07.420 totally fair. I'm not here to tell you guys how to raise your kids. I'm not here to tell you how

02:14:12.320 to live your life. You are grown men and please God, decide for yourself. If you want to marry a

02:14:18.040 porn star, go do it. If you want to marry a crazy woman, go do it. I do not care. I don't. But I do

02:14:26.480 want to know about your experience that's what I'm interested in do I need

02:14:29.900 to join the zoom or no

02:14:34.640 would it help or no does it not matter

02:14:39.100 okay as long as it's audio only we're not gonna do video today none of you are

02:14:45.380 gonna be on screen but

02:14:53.020 like I can still see them right like on this but they I can see them there to

02:15:00.000 verify that they're a person but okay yeah so I'll see you guys on screen but

02:15:04.940 you're not personally gonna be on screen

02:15:08.880 um okay yeah we can admit the first there we go oh wait let me turn the audio off okay it's muted

02:15:28.160 um yeah admit um i'll tell you let's do one at a time to start but if i think

02:15:34.960 two people would be interesting together i'll tell you

02:15:38.880 okay what's going on alex how's it going i'm having a good night how's your night going

02:15:52.880 i'm good um so what's your thought on the topic does this line up with your personal experience

02:15:59.680 does it not you have anything i missed maybe go ahead the floor is yours

02:16:05.040 Okay, we'll keep it into sound bites. If we're going to have kids as men, the most

02:16:12.660 important thing, in fact, the only thing that really matters is whether the man shows up

02:16:17.360 in their kids' lives. The stats are really clear. If you want a kid to be successful

02:16:23.240 and happy, then it's about having a two-parent household, or if that doesn't happen for

02:16:29.840 whatever reason, the guy's got to be present, the father's got to be present. Everything

02:16:34.220 else almost doesn't matter now in terms of for the kids in terms of the success for the coupleship

02:16:41.080 for me my experience is i've dated some incredibly successful women and my experience is if they're

02:16:50.660 not focused on moving in the same direction which usually they're not they've got their own careers

02:16:56.620 that causes friction in a relationship and and that's a big issue well what do you think about

02:17:02.500 the church culture did you grow up in a religion or um you're not you're not on you're not on

02:17:09.800 screen so you can talk shit if you want my my old man was actually a priest a jesuit so i had like

02:17:17.360 a mixed relationship with the church itself so yeah so i mean you know as a jesuit you can't

02:17:24.580 have kids he left the church then met my mom it wasn't as cool of a story as as maybe it could be

02:17:30.080 but certainly I've a significant apprehension around the church but you

02:17:36.080 know my work we're working with a lot of First Nations has me doing work

02:17:39.980 directly with the Vatican so you know I got to often I see a lot of issues

02:17:45.680 around at duplicity I see a lot of issues around how church leaders act in

02:17:52.080 one way and how their congregation acts in a very different way they say one

02:17:56.780 and they do something very different. And frankly, the stats on Christian couples aren't

02:18:06.920 really that much better than the stats for non-Christian couples in terms of long-term

02:18:12.180 success. And did you raise your, do you have kids? Did you raise them with like, what's

02:18:18.920 your current, like, do you, are you religious? What's your current, how do you, how do you

02:18:25.200 plan wait i'm so sorry i asked you like three questions at once i'll start with how many kids

02:18:30.340 do you have are they boys or girls i have a 16 year old girl and a 14 year old boy and what's

02:18:36.040 your plan for them like what do you plan on sending them to school do you plan on find to help and

02:18:42.920 find a guy being involved in that product what's your yeah what's what's the what's the process

02:18:48.840 you're looking at yeah so they go to school um where i am they go to a catholic school both of

02:18:55.640 them and they but yet that being said i've got a very strong conversation about you know the

02:19:03.200 difference between abstinence and uh contraception and those kind of things and do i want them to

02:19:10.180 have sex no i want them to not have sex until they're 25 or whenever their brain is fully

02:19:14.700 develop um but you know that being said the data is out there if you don't talk about it

02:19:21.260 then you're creating a risk of having early stis for kids or pregnancy and is that something any

02:19:29.760 parent wants yeah i'm just wondering are you encouraging your daughter to marry young are

02:19:34.800 you telling her to go to school like which because you know if she goes to school she's getting dug

02:19:39.660 out by somebody i mean i'm not trying to be rude but i'm just trying to be honest here

02:19:43.800 that's funny i'm not i'm not trying to be rude but i'm gonna my daughter's gonna get dug out

02:19:48.360 by somebody if you bring her to school i mean like who's a virgin by 22 when they graduate

02:19:53.300 like it's someone's gonna do it i was i was women come on nowadays yeah let's just like can we be

02:20:01.640 real yeah so so 100 so um i'm under no illusions that i think my daughter is probably going to be

02:20:12.240 a virgin by the time she gets married. I hope that's the case. But at the end of the day,

02:20:19.280 what I really want is I want her to be safe and I want her to make good decisions about

02:20:25.340 who she's selecting. Is she going to select someone who's going to be a long-term viable

02:20:30.020 partner? That's really all I care about. Where are you telling her? Are you telling her to date

02:20:34.760 at school? Are you telling her not to date yet? That's what I'm asking. What have you encouraged

02:20:40.480 her to like do like are you going to know are you saying are you going to send her to college to get

02:20:45.120 her mrs degree and say focus on accounting like what's your have you i've just have you thought

02:20:51.620 about it at all or no it's okay i i hope i hope at the end of the day she finds someone who is

02:20:57.780 going to be moving in the same direction as her i don't really care whether that's you know she

02:21:02.240 gets some alphabet soup after her name i have some alphabet soup after my name yeah but it's about

02:21:07.900 for me, I care less about the traditional, you know, is that, is she going to wait versus is

02:21:13.820 she going to choose the right partner? No, but I'm asking, how are you, are you planning on

02:21:18.080 being involved in picking because women make terrible decisions? I'm sure your daughter's

02:21:22.960 I think it's anyone under 25 when the prefrontal cortex isn't developed, everybody makes bad

02:21:28.260 decisions. No, they didn't used to like, I think, I think there were fewer decisions that you could

02:21:35.460 make in years ago my grandma had like four kids by 18 and she like lived a great life you know

02:21:42.900 she did the she had very different very different times i totally agree so am i going to control my

02:21:51.140 daughter to that point um unfortunately i can't i only have them about half time so the rest of the

02:21:57.220 time they're with they're with mom and you know what happens there and unfortunately you know

02:22:02.080 she's going to make some some different decisions than me yeah so do i think what it comes down to

02:22:07.500 is can we keep our kids in the same box that we could 50 75 200 years ago and the answer is no

02:22:16.320 it's just not reasonable so in that situation you got to arm them with knowledge arm them with

02:22:22.820 self-efficacy arm them with self-confidence and and high eq and then hopefully they make the best

02:22:28.920 decisions yeah show her the hpv stats that'll that'll scare her hey give give her you shower

02:22:36.000 you shower those is that the is that the vaccine that's that guards against it or whatever not

02:22:41.540 really i mean there's like two strands that are way worse those are you're cooked if you get those

02:22:47.200 you can get that vaccine they also but i do know someone else who's infertile from it it's like

02:22:52.060 pick your poison maybe cervical cancer maybe a little infertility you don't really there's no

02:22:58.060 good choice it's just like which i've got an undergrad in molecular biology and i'm not an

02:23:03.620 expert so i'll defer to experts on this very much like bill burr says what what the f are we doing

02:23:09.460 talking about vaccines when we're not really the experts on those no problem thanks for you've been

02:23:15.700 a good sport thanks for calling in i appreciate it oh good all right who we got next um

02:23:23.820 okay so yeah i'd like to hear you know what are you guys's plans with the kids i know a lot of

02:23:31.880 you guys got kids you guys didn't find my channel because your ex-wives were good to you

02:23:37.120 you know it wasn't an amicable divorce i'm just kidding it might have been

02:23:43.400 um

02:23:45.900 mine was amicable okay whatever i'm just kidding okay um

02:24:01.500 pearl is a busted up mostly homebound vet these podcasts show me i made the right choice

02:24:10.020 divorcing my evil cheating wife ex-wife 20 years ago i don't hate her i just don't like her thank

02:24:15.640 the 304s will always be 304s you can't save these hoes you can't it's gone you know don't care about

02:24:24.400 okay they're fighting back and forth gabe what's going on you're not on camera today but i did i

02:24:31.120 did see you're a real person how are you i'm uh doing fine it's very rainy out here in uh socal

02:24:39.520 so tell me um what are your thoughts on the topic what is your experience with the church is similar

02:24:49.120 not similar what's you don't have kids right i think you came on a different show

02:24:56.000 yeah i do not have children and i only recently started um embracing catholicism

02:25:04.000 recently i was baptized as a baby from my very little experience i do have around

02:25:12.860 religious people or the church i mean i kind of see what you've said before that you know

02:25:20.620 the church produces like the biggest 304s in a way i do think there are some hypocrisies but

02:25:29.860 it's also been a long time since I've been around anybody who is more like say religious than I am

02:25:39.520 okay so can you give me like a specific experience that you had that maybe like

02:25:48.360 what did you see that lined up with what I said or didn't line up maybe

02:25:52.200 So, actually, without naming names to respect some people's privacy, I have run into a few people that are more simpy than I am in terms of, you know, enabling or explaining away, say, the 304 behavior that you've mentioned before.

02:26:20.720 i actually had this conversation recently with a close with a close confidant who cited passages

02:26:29.120 about like i think it was the prodigal son or like the passages about yeah go ahead i'm sorry

02:26:38.000 go ahead i'm sorry did i interrupt no no i did i i'm sorry i just said i hate that one i was

02:26:42.860 agreeing with you keep going keep going yeah basically you know the typical like well i think

02:26:48.520 what i forget which one which book it was where there's like the one son is like pissed off that

02:26:55.480 the father's allowing the prodigal son to come back after being a knucklehead and whatever and

02:27:04.760 basically trying to just trying to explain away you know all of that so yeah i'm not

02:27:10.440 sure if what i've just mentioned that you must be familiar with answers your question or not

02:27:17.640 it does they use the prodigal son as a get out of jail free card for women

02:27:24.840 in the conversation i had with that close confidant yes in a way however to that person's credit um

02:27:34.360 i pretty much try to have my you know spiritual religious conversations with him because

02:27:40.200 he's more like devout than i am like i just mentioned how i'm just starting to come back

02:27:47.040 but on then also thinking back to like classmates who ignorantly will say well men who go to

02:27:54.120 religion are using it to uh justify misogyny and all that rhetoric and nonsense for lack of a better

02:28:04.540 term yeah got it well thanks for telling me the story gabe i gotta move on to the next caller okay

02:28:11.500 okay but all right that's all right it's a pleasure as always all right game yeah okay

02:28:17.180 thank you okay okay next when you put what oh yeah you gotta let doug in my moderator

02:28:30.460 what's going on doug

02:28:31.900 oh hold on my video well you're not on hello we're not you're no one's on screen today

02:28:40.860 oh so hey can you hear me yeah i can hear you what's going on so um i grew up in a suburb

02:28:49.580 western washington and it was mostly a military suburb you know because fort lewis is up there

02:28:55.260 one of the biggest forts in the u.s and when we first moved there it was a bunch of military

02:28:59.500 family so lieutenant colonels colonels you know stuff like that but then in the 10 years i lived

02:29:05.100 there as a kid a bunch of the military families moved out and a bunch of mormon families moved in

02:29:10.220 and guys mormons horse mormon girls tell me i'm lying guys i'm telling you there's one in the chat

02:29:21.020 if he's lying two if he's telling the truth woman girls they will rage against that church by hopping

02:29:28.140 on ty especially tyrone and nug nug i'm telling you were you tyrone doug were you tyrone i've been

02:29:36.380 i've been the revenge against the mormon church multiple times multiple times when i was young

02:29:41.980 they want to rebel by hopping on a black dude i'm telling you that's the first part the second part

02:29:50.300 i met this girl online dating she was 33 and she's she's one of the few b-dubs i actually liked

02:29:58.380 um because you know doug mpa i always say you you could thanos snap 80 percent of black women

02:30:05.580 of american black women off this planet not only would nobody care but the world would be a better

02:30:11.100 place youtube doug mpa said that not pearl i say that on my channel all the time anyway i didn't

02:30:19.180 also i didn't know sorry yeah and also american black men have the worst women to choose from

02:30:25.180 tell me i'm lying anyway so this girl you guys get snow buddies

02:30:31.980 and so this girl you know the latinas have been liking you guys recently come on

02:30:38.540 asian women are coming over it's competition baby sorry this girl was

02:30:45.420 well was black and she liked k-pop the that should tell you everything you know she she

02:30:52.300 she was into anime k-pop and she she told me the story where she grew up in in you know a somewhat

02:30:59.420 religious household but when she went out to college when she was 19 she met this christian

02:31:04.380 group on campus that was like a hyper christian group i'm talking one of those jesus is coming

02:31:10.220 any day type of group you know what i'm talking about pearl yeah i do yeah so this girl spent 10

02:31:17.580 years proselytizing living by the word and trying to wait for her husband right and so that was when

02:31:26.540 she was 19 so when she was 30 she moved from her college down to to a major city and started seeing

02:31:33.180 all the hypocrisy in the church and and the bigger churches uh in the major city so when i met her

02:31:42.380 uh she first thought i guess we're k-pop anime kind of socially awkward and she told me that

02:31:50.220 she she was still a version at 33 years old right and she had just had sex with one guy

02:31:58.860 that she had met on ok cupid so she started online dating because she turned her back on the church

02:32:06.060 and she had her first sexual experience with a rando that she met online and she said if i

02:32:13.100 were to sleep with her i'd be the second person she ever had sex with now you might be saying

02:32:18.540 how do you know if she was telling the truth this girl was k-pop socially awkward she was

02:32:25.100 come on she didn't she didn't blow anybody get finger to make out nothing the way that she talked

02:32:33.740 about her time with her religious group and how much regret she showed i would lean towards i've

02:32:41.900 i believed her because all she talked about was how she used to be religious and all the regret

02:32:46.860 she had from from abiding by this religion for so long and how she wished she she never would have

02:32:51.980 done it yeah yeah a lot of yeah okay okay keep going her first sexual experience was with some

02:33:01.100 randos she met online could you imagine yeah that's what i'm saying if the men don't get someone

02:33:07.340 like if you want her to wait and you want her to date like that look this is you you got two options

02:33:13.180 dads so i'm sorry no none of the tradcon women will tell you this these are your options she

02:33:20.220 goes into the modern dating pool which she's gonna get pumped and dumped a couple times like there

02:33:25.980 unless your daughter's really really hot be honest guys they can't not all your daughters can be

02:33:31.180 beautiful yeah she's she if she's a mid she is not gonna take a w the first time if she does she's

02:33:39.340 lucky okay and here's the thing all your parenting even the bible and god almost stand no chance

02:33:47.900 against uh uh social media the smartphone and college and tyrone yeah and tyrone you know tyrone

02:33:59.100 he's been studying for two decades how to bang your daughter when she gets to the city like you

02:34:05.260 guys think you stand a chance she's gonna eat up every lie yep i don't know every guy every city's

02:34:14.060 got 10 10 tyrones chads brads whoever cleaning up these cities we're talking about every major

02:34:22.780 university has a football team a basketball team a lacrosse team and you and look at is your

02:34:29.900 daughter did you raise you got to ask yourself this as a dad did you raise your daughter good

02:34:34.460 enough to compete does she know how to cook is she pleasant to be around like around men does

02:34:41.100 she nag like her mother or does she act more like you is she feminine you know like what's your

02:34:47.740 be honest you know how how attractive is she you know she will go for men out of her league it's

02:34:54.380 not if it's when go ahead does she have the social skills to navigate on a college campus

02:35:01.580 with college men without sex because it takes a skill it takes women who are who are inexperienced

02:35:09.980 that's the first thing they do to try to get a man's attention or get them to like them it's a

02:35:15.100 handski or a bj i'm telling you yeah and it's like you're telling me and like their only options are

02:35:22.220 don't participate socially which makes a whole heap of problems some women don't do that like the

02:35:28.300 girl you dated right like don't have normal social experiences or have them and get pumped and you

02:35:37.980 got to arrange it tie some money to it or at least at least tell her you know i can i can think of

02:35:47.580 like um two of my followers they say there's no middle ground it's either dating or like not or

02:35:54.620 i forgot what they said but it's like it's either modern dating or traditional it's either arranged

02:35:58.300 or it's not but look i can think of like three middle grounds you say okay you have until you're

02:36:03.660 22 to find a husband i expect you to bring home somebody from these departments no stay away from

02:36:11.420 football players say stay away from this if you go for a football he's got to be an engineering degree

02:36:17.100 you know there's ways to like you know but god these dads i don't even mind if go ahead go ahead

02:36:26.460 but i don't even mind uh uh if parents restrict their daughters by by all by any kind of preference

02:36:33.900 i would meet white girls in college or my hometown and say oh oh yeah my parents they don't want me

02:36:39.020 to be with a black guy i have no problem with that a lot of people do but who cares you know

02:36:44.860 some of the most um racially loyal people are freaking asian people asian people will asian

02:36:51.980 women but only date their type of asian that they won't even date other types of asians or white

02:36:56.220 guys and that's it i have no problem with that dude don't go where you're not wanted guys who

02:37:00.860 cares doug that is gone i want to get your take at something because um i was thinking about how

02:37:07.020 they say that women are like um propaganda makes women make certain decisions and i was thinking

02:37:13.420 about i've read facebook ads you cannot make someone make a decision unless they don't they

02:37:18.540 already want to so like the woman who's fat like a donut ad is going to work on her but she already

02:37:25.580 wants to be fat do you know what i mean so like they'll blame the propaganda but i'm like it worked

02:37:30.540 because that's what like women want to do like they want to be yeah i agree yeah like i agree

02:37:38.460 that's what the algorithm is all about on like tick tock and freaking instagram it tries to

02:37:43.420 figure out what you want because you you're not going to look at something or view it unless you

02:37:48.140 want to you know it's a it's a what you're talking about is a multi-billion dollar business pearl

02:37:55.660 yeah well thank you for thank you for your thoughts doug um a pleasure talking to you

02:38:01.660 have a good one a pleasure as always you can't save these hoes but fathers fathers if you want

02:38:07.420 to try you got to get a better strategy than what you're doing now i've heard no strategy from any

02:38:13.340 of these dads now look i'm not saying you even have to i mean you guys have probably been through

02:38:17.580 through the ringer in family court,

02:38:19.600 you're like, look, daughter, you are not my problem.

02:38:22.200 I have no authority.

02:38:24.400 But what I don't want you to do is be delusional.

02:38:29.300 Chad and Tyrone are waiting on these college campuses.

02:38:33.220 They're like, I'm ready to teach your daughter

02:38:37.920 how to gluck gluck 3000, that's what they're saying.

02:38:41.340 So if your strategy is send her to college

02:38:45.780 and hope it works out, we're in a different time.

02:38:47.580 You guys used to meet at work.

02:38:49.640 You guys used to meet in school.

02:38:51.180 These players are savages now.

02:38:54.460 It takes an act of God to lock them down.

02:38:58.980 Your daughter's going to have to wait a decade for a ring.

02:39:02.360 You've got to prepare her for this.

02:39:04.940 This is a, or make her marry a simp.

02:39:09.420 Say, you're stuck.

02:39:11.160 I don't know what you prefer.

02:39:14.160 But, yeah, we got Glenn on the show.

02:39:17.580 Glenn, what are your thoughts on the topic?

02:39:22.740 Listen, I have a confession to make, Pearl.

02:39:27.580 Okay?

02:39:30.420 I have made a lot of these hoes in the church.

02:39:34.060 Not just met them, made them.

02:39:36.800 My youth group days was not very good.

02:39:39.480 I didn't go there for Jesus when I was in...

02:39:41.660 You were in youth group.

02:39:42.740 You were banging the women in youth group.

02:39:45.200 Why do you think I went to summer camp?

02:39:47.580 do you really think it was a sing kumbaya and make fucking you know weird little stuff with

02:39:55.660 sticks no so you went to church to bang out these broads that's what you're saying

02:40:03.180 exactly like it was it was a spiritual enlightenment but you know i digress but you know

02:40:11.740 but there's no women are just women right there's women just like there's bad women

02:40:20.540 than good women that's all the same woman it depends on how she sees you and you know these

02:40:27.260 guys need to really stop thinking that like you could pray the the hoe out of her you really can't

02:40:34.860 what do you think about the arranged marriage attached to an inheritance how do you see that

02:40:40.140 playing out oh yeah i like that idea i mean like like a dowry yeah where you say you know it's

02:40:47.260 even better you give the money to her husband so you say like yeah you can actually have this

02:40:55.580 money but i'm giving it to him i'm all for that like think about this right like let's say like

02:41:03.740 this amount of money that's in an account right and like it's for the the girl right like okay

02:41:09.340 look you get all this money once i'm dead right and if you haven't cheated but if you cheat

02:41:16.460 i get all that money and you get the out and you leave with nothing and get no give the

02:41:21.660 money to the husband that would make it worse yeah the husband gets the money she'd get more pissed

02:41:29.420 you know what i mean she'd like yeah that's hilarious but you're for it so

02:41:35.340 yeah you know what's funny like your one of your tweets earlier was like you know um

02:41:41.580 about like uh guys or the need for sex okay i don't know why people that are like religious

02:41:47.980 don't realize that the bible talks about it it's pretty clear tell me the verse tell me the verse

02:41:54.700 we can go to chapter seven of first corinthians chapter one through eight um dearly beloved we

02:42:01.580 are gathered here today and we're gonna bless you with some holy scriptures um it basically says

02:42:07.020 like if you can't like avoid temptation then it's better for you each man to marry his own wife and

02:42:12.460 each woman have her own husband and not to deny one another of their marital rights that means

02:42:20.700 like that s is his ladies and the d is yours so he can't tell you you can't have no d and you can't

02:42:28.700 tell him he can't have that ass like unless it was for an agreed amount of time that was committed

02:42:34.620 to fasting and prayer but then you get right back on your knees and you know you put the ass in the

02:42:39.740 air can you imagine say that in there can you imagine dating a woman who said she can't blow

02:42:44.460 you because of god i'll be like um where is that where where does it say that we're just um

02:42:57.260 and some of these guys fall for this you're idiots

02:43:01.900 i'd be like um well i can't i don't know how i feel about this i need to talk to the lord

02:43:07.420 hear me out i have a solution i think churches would be better if we banned women from them

02:43:17.740 imagine we ban them and we say look zero women allowed and women have to treat their husband

02:43:23.260 like a god and he gets to interpret the bible for them i love that because you know um peter

02:43:32.460 writes about that in first peter he's like you know you guys are daughters of sarah and like she

02:43:37.420 called her husband lord like abraham lord so i'm like you know what can we bring that back

02:43:42.180 why start calling your husband lord lowercase l right like just want to be called lord every

02:43:48.980 once in a while it's not that hard you know but um you know it's also funny is that like

02:43:55.280 i don't think there's any women in heaven

02:43:57.180 why why oh because there's this like verse in the bible and like revelations where it says like

02:44:06.140 after like the seventh seal or the seventh like seal or trumpet sounded there was silence in

02:44:12.380 heaven for like 30 minutes one woman you know that knows how to shut up for 30 minutes okay

02:44:20.620 it's really hard it's really tough i've been talking for three hours and i could keep going

02:44:27.820 i could keep going i could do this for another three oh yeah easy um but you know here's here's

02:44:34.220 in all seriousness the the church is really fucked up sex they ruin sex they have destroyed sex the

02:44:41.020 teaching of sex in uh you know to these young people um when we grew up you had the purity

02:44:46.380 culture you had the promise ring right um now you got these women that have the promise ring

02:44:51.900 melting the promise ring and into the shape of a vagina a sculpture did you see that yeah i mean

02:44:58.300 even the promise ring is weird doug it's yeah it's bad i mean like it's just the mother who's

02:45:04.700 wanting to virtue signal their children like what can we be like can we call it what it is

02:45:09.180 they want to say my kid's pure look at where the ring show everyone how pure you are where the ring

02:45:14.140 where the ring do you know how many girls wore that ring while i was in there never mind

02:45:19.980 loopholes everywhere um but what it is is like they don't we don't realize the church fails to

02:45:30.300 realize that sex is what drives dominion you know um we have created everything in

02:45:38.300 technology and advancements in society because of sex sex drives the dominion so men's nature

02:45:45.580 of wanting sex it's a need if men don't have sex then they don't have that drive to have

02:45:52.620 dominion over this earth to create things to advance things so um for those that say that

02:45:58.620 sex is not a need it's a want um yeah you're wrong and if that was it here's all right

02:46:07.500 here's a bad take girl but if sex wasn't a need would these priests be getting in trouble

02:46:13.660 like they were you know what i'm saying i said that earlier yeah i mean only two percent of

02:46:19.020 priests they did a study of priests over 25 years only two percent were able to do celibacy

02:46:25.020 so are you better than a priest no oh i'm definitely not better than a priest

02:46:31.500 have you actually have you ever seen my confession videos that i made no i haven't oh my i dress up

02:46:37.420 as a priest and i take confessions it's hilarious and i get i get these women that do the most

02:46:43.660 wow this confessions oh that's wow this confession next show i'll react to it but i do got to get to

02:46:49.500 the next caller glenn all right sis i'll talk to you later thanks for calling in um all right bye

02:46:56.620 put the maybe you do we do the guy at the bar the frank one he's got a profile picture i am

02:47:06.460 more likely to let you guys in if you have a profile picture make sure you guys are muting the

02:47:12.540 thing um welcome to the show frank by the way i do need you to put your camera on so i see

02:47:20.780 you're a real person but you are not on screen so no one will see you okay i see you're real

02:47:25.740 you can turn it off if you want yeah i just just get back home from the gym yeah you know this

02:47:30.380 this weather we're in the same uh area so yeah it's shitty okay so where are you where are you

02:47:37.980 calling from um do you and um what's your age from chicago what's your age and do you have kids

02:47:45.740 yes i have two i'm 37. okay are you with the mom still or no no okay not that situation uh okay so

02:47:54.300 we left a while ago and yeah okay so give me the give me the rundown what's your experience

02:48:01.020 um with the church you agree with what i'm saying disagree well i just want to touch back on uh what

02:48:08.780 you said about um the justin waller situation what she was saying and like the whole thing how

02:48:16.380 there's so much against um pornography i personally think it's a way to to siphon all of that sexual

02:48:22.860 energy to them so that way they can use it to manipulate you um that's kind of what i see is

02:48:30.060 like the the whole track kind way of approaching relationships it's like to give that uh all that

02:48:37.660 power to them because it's like you know you're not supposed to masturbate you're not supposed

02:48:42.380 to watch porn you're not supposed to be with anybody else don't it's like you funnel all of

02:48:46.300 that into that's a one person and it's like that one person they may not be benevolent they may

02:48:52.460 and I have good intentions.

02:48:54.820 If you look at everything that I've seen on the show,

02:48:57.340 it's like sometimes I wish I didn't know what I know now

02:49:00.240 because I'm almost like Black girl on my head.

02:49:04.300 It's not worth it.

02:49:05.260 And then when somebody's standing on what they mean,

02:49:07.360 like Waller was doing, it's almost like blasphemy.

02:49:10.280 She was doing every type of verbal judo she could

02:49:12.340 to try to denounce what he was saying.

02:49:15.220 But when you get to a certain level,

02:49:17.800 you can do what the hell you want to do, right?

02:49:19.300 do you have a specific story that like happened to you they can't see you at all so like

02:49:25.180 you can talk shit here just so you know so if you have a specific story like that happened

02:49:31.920 with an ex or like someone you know that um where you realized what what you said

02:49:38.080 well the sexist marriage thing never really happened to me um so i mean a specific story

02:49:49.300 i mean i've had i've had a few encounters with women that you know when you when you let them

02:49:55.900 uh be free and be like hey i don't judge right like hey just go ahead and tell me

02:50:01.000 i've heard of women being getting better like gang bangs and out of town and doing all type of

02:50:07.080 you know, just real, this should be his behaviors.

02:50:11.700 And that was actually most recently.

02:50:13.900 She was cool.

02:50:14.980 Here's the thing about the body count thing.

02:50:17.560 I'm not looking for nothing like that anyway, to be completely honest.

02:50:20.300 So it doesn't matter to me.

02:50:21.620 It's just like, I almost feel bad for these guys out here to have that inclination.

02:50:26.600 And, you know, and if you're a guy out here that's looking for something like that,

02:50:30.220 I'm like, man, I feel bad for you.

02:50:32.880 um me i'm a guy for a good time and i tell him that directly and i like wallet did i'm like you

02:50:40.520 know i'm not saying i'm on his level like that but you know i base myself on myself than anybody

02:50:45.540 else but yeah that's the story i have i know it's kind of long-winded that's the story i have

02:50:49.600 the most recent encounter i had she was kind of like yeah you know i was

02:50:52.940 and uh and the reason oh oh it was two women no it was another guy i'm like oh

02:50:58.820 oh yeah did she look like did you expect it based on how she looked like what was her like archetype

02:51:07.300 like race age um like body composition i don't know like what he

02:51:13.620 oh so she was she's cool she was a little bit on the um on the thicker side

02:51:21.780 flatter stomach for her proportion but not like not like a heavy was she a whale were you doing

02:51:28.820 I said, was she a whale?

02:51:30.280 Yeah, you see me dancing around it.

02:51:32.900 Hey, but no, so, yeah, a little bit on the.

02:51:36.760 Would you take her in public?

02:51:38.280 Like, be honest.

02:51:41.740 I mean, to be honest, yeah, she's on the, like, you know,

02:51:47.480 you heard the euphemism, one cheeseburger away.

02:51:50.600 Oh, okay, she's, like, at the end.

02:51:53.380 Yeah, like that.

02:51:54.660 so you know um and then i mean she was cool i mean she she wasn't scared to put that person on the

02:52:02.100 table and you know i got this saying it's your your mouth can lie you can tell me anything right

02:52:08.980 um your sexual proclivities you you know a woman can go and mess with 10 different men

02:52:14.420 like the movie casino right um a woman can mess with all them do is around max is the guy that

02:52:21.060 simp that she got to marry her that he begged for her then her heart was still with james i'm not

02:52:25.860 sure the name of the uh character james was character the pimp her mind went to him i'm not

02:52:31.300 you know advocating for that because i know there's a connotation that comes with that but

02:52:34.900 just in terms of the mindset like if you're willing to invest you know i mean i'm still

02:52:41.700 gonna do what i'm gonna do but yeah so yeah um what's your plan do you have a daughter

02:52:47.220 two two daughters god always curses players with daughters you know

02:52:54.200 so what's your plan how old are they 14 to 6 like what's your plan with them

02:53:00.400 well you you just mentioned it right before you took my call how there's a certain there's a

02:53:08.180 level in the game where um it's unfortunate but you just got to go you know what i'm here when

02:53:15.800 Are you ready to have their relationship?

02:53:20.240 You know, and that just has to be that.

02:53:23.180 Like, there's this expectation.

02:53:26.820 I've heard you speak on this before of, like, why don't you fight more?

02:53:30.160 Why don't you crawl across broken glass to, you know, to be disrespected and to kiss the feet, right?

02:53:36.920 It's like, you know what?

02:53:37.640 Sometimes as a human being, you got to go, you know what?

02:53:40.160 I'm available.

02:53:41.180 I'm here.

02:53:42.280 But, you know, I got to respect myself.

02:53:45.560 i have to love myself overall yeah yes oh so you don't have contact with them regularly

02:53:51.560 yeah unfortunately yeah there's nothing you can do what i'm just curious what would you do like if um

02:53:58.520 like if you could what like what would be the plan like would you arrange them down but like

02:54:04.120 especially from like a guy that's like you know more of a player it sounds like like what i'm

02:54:09.880 gathering like you've kind of seen the worst of women so like what would you go the arranged route

02:54:17.080 or try to would you send them to school like what would you do

02:54:24.120 so what i would i would want for them to have a realistic expectation of human nature

02:54:29.240 i'm more like i'm i'm like an evil sight guy you know how sartain is like an evil

02:54:33.640 side guy i'm not sure you know but yeah and in that vein people are going to be people people

02:54:42.440 gonna have their desires i'm not saying that we should cave in to them but i would want for her

02:54:47.080 to be in a situation with somebody that is going to keep it 100 with her and um you know uh not

02:54:55.400 build a relationship on a foundation of like just really lofty expectations um yeah that's

02:55:03.640 that's what i would want now that would when i nail it down to hey i want this her to have a

02:55:08.920 dude that is going to be um super duper uh like track on potentially that i mean that could that

02:55:15.560 would be cool but you got to think about women's like like primal desires and is that going to be

02:55:20.840 feasible long in the long run for her yeah right like i had a conversation today with somebody

02:55:28.520 about like you know um the man that commits to you unfortunately is the debt is a marker of like

02:55:35.960 okay well i'm not the best he can is i mean i'm not the best he can do so even in that commitment

02:55:41.680 in that relationship you have to have this uh like a mindset of like like if you if you raise

02:55:48.100 your finger the wrong way or if you say something wrong way then i'll there's other options that i

02:55:52.880 go explore you kind of not in an abusive way which i know you know that word is bastardized

02:55:59.040 yeah like um you say a lot of truths about a lot of truths about um about how words have been you

02:56:07.680 know the meanings have been changed it's a that's a deeper rabbit hole to go down with you know

02:56:14.880 all of that stuff which i don't really care to get into too much on here but you know yeah um

02:56:20.080 um i hope that answers the question i know i went on like a long journey to get to a singular point

02:56:25.040 but that's my view on that i'm sorry to hear about the daughters i hope they come around

02:56:30.100 uh usually around like 12 or 13 if the mom's crazy they kind of start to notice so

02:56:35.640 yeah and and now that you know so i i trust you with with anonymity because i've seen the other

02:56:41.760 callers on the show that didn't have their voice on there so um yeah i mean i caught so i caught

02:56:47.820 I wasn't an angel either.

02:56:50.220 I can lie and say, I was an angel.

02:56:51.620 No, I wasn't an angel either.

02:56:53.840 But, yeah, I found out some things

02:56:56.140 and now I have some questions.

02:56:58.280 And year three is this year of, like, child support court.

02:57:02.540 So I'm expecting to be summoned back in.

02:57:05.080 I'm waiting on that, you know, because things have changed.

02:57:08.300 What you see me right now is in my house.

02:57:10.180 You know, all this stuff just happened.

02:57:12.720 I'm, like, kind of in shock that it happened.

02:57:14.360 um so things have been going up a steep upward trajectory pretty fast

02:57:18.580 so uh you know i'm definitely going to be positioning for a dna test not that it even

02:57:23.880 matters at the end of the day it's just more for my peace of mind because i'm gonna have to pay

02:57:27.320 anyway yeah and you never know like women date men that look the same you know most women if you

02:57:33.620 look at their exes that yeah they have a type so you you never really know like if she was cheating

02:57:39.240 you got to make sure so that's smart yeah you see some dude on the on uh from you so when you find

02:57:45.880 things out and it's like your whole world is like damn like really that's what it is

02:57:50.680 um you start to you start to go back on like the timeline of like okay was this dude really

02:57:56.360 your cousin was this he kind of looked like you know so that rabbit hole i'm sure a lot of other

02:58:02.040 men have gone down that like they start to question like a lot of other things in the past too

02:58:08.040 so i have questions and i mean i should have questions i mean look at you know you've gone

02:58:13.080 over to you parsed over the statistics in regards to what like the the rate of like when people

02:58:18.840 find out when men found out that they're not the father so do you i don't i'm curious do you um

02:58:24.600 see them ever or no like do you get because i was like you could just test them on your own if you

02:58:29.560 like know someone that could just it's like a hair strand i think so i don't know if you know

02:58:34.280 anyone that knows them but you could just yeah like you know like ancestry.com you know you

02:58:40.680 don't even need the state to do it that's a good point that's a good point because me my my strategy

02:58:46.120 and this one is kind of like you know to do this would probably like for the judge would kind of

02:58:52.280 draw the the ire of them probably to be like hey i want a dna test and she's probably trying to drag

02:58:57.480 me in there for an increase you know so i caught her with uh she was talking like two three or four

02:59:03.000 four different dudes no well let me be specific like two and then there was another one that she

02:59:08.580 had found out everything that happened you know how dudes are we found out we want to know

02:59:12.520 was she sleeping with them or just like texting like how she said she was she was lying about

02:59:18.500 one she said she didn't sleep with the other two i think she did i can't confirm that i could

02:59:22.800 confirm the one and when i found out one i was like yeah you know i called the u-haul and got

02:59:27.260 out of there um i put i packed all my stuff in the um and my charger that i had at the time

02:59:33.260 contracted bags i just i i didn't really care about the pleasantries i just got up out of there

02:59:39.340 her friend called her and was like yeah you know he's leaving her friend was trying to

02:59:43.420 beg me to stay and she was you know sassy talking stuff and then she ended up she's

02:59:47.900 remarried now she's married to someone else another guy you know so i spent time i spent

02:59:53.900 spent a lot of time and i'll you know again i'll try not to be so long with it i know you got a

02:59:57.160 whole show you running but i spent a lot of time uh you know like wishing negative and wishing bad

03:00:03.120 and hating and all of that i you know just like you know bad scenario i don't want to use specific

03:00:09.720 words but bad scenarios happening to them and not them but hurt um never anything on them they didn't

03:00:15.700 do anything they you know they're just victims of circumstance at this point but um yeah i just

03:00:21.780 was like i ain't gonna waste all of that and yeah all of that time trying to think of that when i

03:00:26.420 can think about building things for myself so yeah no it's smart i've seen like i've talked to

03:00:33.300 men that waste 300k and don't see their kids you know what i mean like it's i mean the guy who

03:00:38.420 sponsors the show he spent 1.5 million on a divorce he got 49 custody which is pretty good

03:00:45.300 but like that was 1.5 you have 1.5 million to spend just like to see your kids most people

03:00:52.020 don't yeah or want to even yeah just give them a college fund or something the thing about that is

03:00:59.620 things dissipated because it's like you reach out you reach out you reach out and you stop getting

03:01:04.020 answers you stop getting answers you stop and then it's like birth days you don't hear anything

03:01:08.340 father's that you don't hear anything it's just after a while it takes a toll and it's like you

03:01:12.820 you know what they got a situation over there i'm paying the amount of money a month right

03:01:18.940 um which is enough to cover the rent so whenever you're ready to talk i'm here to listen and i'm

03:01:26.880 here to build that relationship whenever you're ready rather than that as a human being i have a

03:01:32.180 right to my dignity you know what i'm saying a lot of times society and i firmly believe this

03:01:37.420 it's like this like we don't we're not even entitled to our dignity it's like you you have

03:01:41.600 to crawl like the analogy i used earlier like sprawling your forearms across broken glass to

03:01:48.100 be disrespected again like no yeah no taking my ball and going home if that's the case and then

03:01:55.540 when you come back around i'm ready to have that conversation and i'm standing on that yeah no it's

03:02:00.780 a good choice it's really smart i would if i were you i would literally if you know someone that

03:02:06.380 sees the kids that you can trust i would just do it i wouldn't even and i think a part of that too

03:02:12.760 is um you know keeping them away from it like because i'm in chicago i'm in the south suburbs

03:02:19.660 now like i frequent like south suburbs and the city i just came back from the from the north side

03:02:25.580 and uh yeah so that's why i mentioned earlier about the weather like i know you

03:02:30.620 like we're in the same you know what i'm saying yeah so um you know to keep and that was a

03:02:37.180 strategic thing to keep all of that line of communication away so that that wouldn't be

03:02:44.500 possible you know what i'm saying i've gone down all these rabbit holes and all of the stuff you

03:02:49.380 know i'm you know and then the best thing i came up with and i like the the what you suggested

03:02:55.060 too that's another good option but um you know to uh you know with the ancestry that's another

03:03:02.900 strategy but like to petition for the dna test but in doing that i mean like i said that's you

03:03:10.740 running the risk of drawing the ire of the judge and all of them you know you just know how they

03:03:14.340 are it's like yeah you know yeah well i wish you luck in your situation um i think you're very

03:03:23.220 smart because a lot of guys waste a lot of time and energy like you got to focus on yourself so

03:03:29.220 yeah because external pressure because then it's always and think about this too i didn't know

03:03:33.940 what's the version of the dead v mom like kevin samuels one of my favorites my fraternity brother

03:03:39.060 too one of my favorites right yeah yeah may he rest in peace so he he um you know he he had a

03:03:46.500 show he mentioned that it's like you something it's like you have to be and i'm not sure to act

03:03:50.980 like i'm some hero nothing like that but it's like like batman you have to sometimes let yourself

03:03:54.580 become a villain instead of continuing to push for something like that yeah because then i've heard

03:04:01.860 tail you know tales from the crib like with my cousins going and dealing with them and then the

03:04:07.780 other dude is around and they get into it with the other guy and because you know they get you

03:04:11.700 you already made you already missing how there's this whole thing about man fighting over you know

03:04:16.740 like over the queen this whole thing where i'm exalted and these men are fighting over me it's

03:04:21.300 real silly it's like i'm not i'm not feeding into none of that like you can't have none of my spirit

03:04:26.100 i'm cool yeah well i wish you luck with your situation i do got to take the next caller

03:04:31.620 but thank you very much for calling in okay thank you thank you pearl take care yeah bye

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03:04:59.340 uh

03:05:03.340 i'm gonna count the yearly memberships two yearly three yearly four yearly oh nice guys we're gonna

03:05:14.900 we're almost not we're almost able to not have ads yeah i think we need like one more to get to

03:05:22.360 500 a show we need one to cover our cost by the end of the year but the first like three weeks

03:05:30.060 we're not getting one a show or the first month of this year let me do the math next show okay i

03:05:35.660 saw you were a real person welcome to the show what's up hi will how are you doing okay so what's

03:05:43.320 your thought on the topic of religion and shaming male sexuality um did you see the monologue earlier

03:05:51.660 i saw a lot of your content earlier okay so i see that the topic is okay so what are your thoughts

03:05:58.980 thoughts on it go ahead i think it uh mothers kind of ruin a lot of things for their children

03:06:06.640 you know like no offense like i'm trying to keep it uh not offensive or whatever but

03:06:12.640 you know i don't have um that much of a religious background other than the fact that

03:06:18.640 um i do event work and so i work a lot of weddings i've been the guy who plays the music

03:06:24.320 for a lot of these things, and I've seen a lot of these things not be very good

03:06:27.900 because Mother of the Bride turns into

03:06:32.280 Bridezilla. Have you ever heard of that? Yeah, I have.

03:06:36.620 And boy, I feel bad for these poor kids getting married sometimes.

03:06:41.660 We're talking like young

03:06:43.900 conservative Christian, young adult,

03:06:48.240 19, 21, and they ask me for requests

03:06:51.960 and mother bride comes over and says don't play anything that my daughter asked for

03:06:56.380 i'm like what no way yeah and then then they're very uh very stern about playing their music at

03:07:05.140 their daughter's wedding and they fail to recognize that this should be an event about her

03:07:08.700 and not about old lady time you know what i'm saying um i can't help but imagine what their

03:07:17.980 larger family picture looks like in those situations you know um so that's one one end

03:07:25.560 of it that i've seen and that's kind of religious because that takes places in churches and religious

03:07:29.960 communities i live in a major city but i do a lot of these works um in the rural areas

03:07:37.460 as that's part of the business as well so i see some of that um

03:07:42.600 that's one thing i got but you know the is this really a topic about uh shaming the sex

03:07:52.860 you know mothers are trying to use shame against their daughters is is that your view what this

03:08:01.580 is about no well daughters and sons both it's it's more um people have sex drives from like

03:08:11.720 a young age and the solution used to be you get married like you get an arranged marriage and you

03:08:18.600 just stay together for life they set their kids up for failure because they don't do an arranged

03:08:24.440 marriage or something similar right but they just say no sex no stack sex no sex and i just don't

03:08:32.520 think that's a good like solution well sometimes on this show i've heard you say that maybe we

03:08:41.400 we should change sex more and now we're in a situation where it's the opposite yeah so how

03:08:47.340 do you reconcile that well i talked about that earlier in the show i do think when women have

03:08:52.980 sex with like a thousand men in a day that's like like i don't know i'm not saying that's good

03:08:59.340 either yeah you know you ask some of these fathers or potential fathers what they would do

03:09:04.540 and i think that what you just said is actually pretty interesting because it's like

03:09:08.160 the idea of bringing people into a family and keeping it kind of a committed unit yeah

03:09:13.480 that's that sounds kind of like the way to go if i were a father of a daughter

03:09:17.860 um but i think like has been discussed on this show many times is like the diminishing power

03:09:26.020 that fathers are able to actually get a hold of yeah in these situations um and so far as

03:09:33.660 finding a social remedy for that I don't even know what's available and I wouldn't really know

03:09:39.840 what to tell people to do and it's it's something that I mean I'm sure makes a lot of people sad

03:09:44.900 without blaming individuals and without blaming women as a whole or men as a whole it's like

03:09:53.620 what can we do to make communities stronger you know the smallest starts at the family unit

03:10:02.660 And I just don't like seeing what's happening to civilization, I guess.

03:10:08.900 Yeah.

03:10:11.000 Yeah, well, the DJ thing was interesting.

03:10:14.660 Do you have anything else you want to share on the topic?

03:10:18.400 I think that it's kind of the way I started out is there's a lot of ways that mothers,

03:10:23.560 and I don't really, this isn't about me, this isn't about anybody in particular,

03:10:27.120 but mothers can sometimes still like think that it's still all about them even though it's not

03:10:34.320 their time their time has passed you know and have you ever been in a situation maybe you haven't

03:10:39.280 have you ever been in a situation where you you get into a family and it's really entirely about

03:10:45.360 cock blocking you haven't seen that now wait tell me more tell me more about the situation maybe i

03:10:52.320 have i have to i have to hear it or it's like have you ever dated a woman and they they got a bunch

03:10:58.600 of sisters and it's all about like trying to troll the new boyfriend oh yeah oh do you see

03:11:05.660 what i'm saying yeah and that kind of does like a subtle dig that actually does serious damage

03:11:10.520 sometimes because you find it's like maybe somebody has lost respect somewhere because

03:11:16.540 somebody didn't realize that they were walking into a trap where they're going to be all these

03:11:21.720 people kind of going for the throat a little bit I never thought about that point of view

03:11:27.980 like I never but yeah I've definitely seen it but I just wow let me ask you something here's

03:11:35.740 a good question to test it have you ever been on a family visit with your boyfriend and I don't

03:11:43.300 want to make this too personal because it's weird but like if you're staying at their house do you

03:11:49.060 have sex at their house or not that's like an indicator or something at the person's like

03:11:55.120 the person's family's house oh like if they have sex they don't respect the dad

03:12:00.580 i mean i don't know how it no no no i'm just i'm just wondering what the like

03:12:06.740 what like your conclusion would be let's say you're doing a vacation uh i'm visiting somebody's

03:12:14.720 family and the dynamic of cog blocking gets to the point where it's like well we're on a vacation

03:12:21.000 now we're not having sex oh i see right okay yeah and it's like is that because like things didn't

03:12:27.420 go well with the family or is this a situation of uh people are too nervous to have sex like

03:12:33.000 under the same roof or something like that right yeah so there are always like really uh nuanced

03:12:40.580 kind of ruinings i think that sometimes happen i don't even want to say it's about mothers

03:12:47.880 but parents and sometimes there's sometimes mothers tend to be it's like they can't they

03:12:53.560 can't give the authority to the new guy like they want in the old family right that's an element

03:12:59.920 yeah but what i'm talking about um sometimes these mothers like they're a little narcissistic

03:13:05.780 about it they think that spotlight is still on them and it's like wait hold on like when is it

03:13:11.040 ever going to be your your daughter's turn right um have you ever come across that i don't know

03:13:18.000 that's just i'm just no i think i think of that when i think of um remit like when women renew

03:13:23.540 their vows it's because they can't like get the spotlight off of them like that's what i think it

03:13:30.480 like what's the point like you're together right everyone knows you're together but like you can't

03:13:36.380 let your kids get married and like have the spotlight be on them like you need to like

03:13:41.140 do the dads don't give a shit about renewing their vows right exactly yeah so like when is

03:13:48.840 ever enough for some of these people um yeah and that that hurts other people that hurts families

03:13:55.100 hurts the next generation they're trying to form something that can last so i don't know yeah

03:14:02.700 well i gotta move to the next caller but you that's a very interesting point of view so call

03:14:07.900 back anytime okay cool thanks all right we're gonna do one more caller okay um i got to address

03:14:16.460 this because dane's kind of blowing me up dan's like one of my super fans doug did you ban dane

03:14:22.940 in the chat what's going on i mean we can't ever ban dane we gotta let these guys roar i don't

03:14:34.380 he's telling me there's a banning

03:14:38.220 i don't mean to be rude i just okay this is going crazy and he's and now he's telling me

03:14:44.220 to stop white knighting for rola i'm a fan i don't know what to tell you dane i don't know

03:14:48.860 i gotta get the situation we'll we'll come back next show dane i need you to i need you to stop

03:14:54.140 blowing me up about this okay um respectfully you know i love you dane um all right give me

03:15:02.540 one more and then we're going to the next one hey how's it going it's going very well is it okay if

03:15:15.260 if I turn off my camera?

03:15:16.300 Yeah, that's fine.

03:15:17.040 I just need to see that you're a person.

03:15:19.140 Someone flashed porn once

03:15:21.520 and I just can't.

03:15:23.380 I always got to make sure.

03:15:25.540 But no one's on camera.

03:15:27.460 So what's your thought on the topic

03:15:29.280 of church

03:15:31.100 shaming?

03:15:33.120 I don't know if you saw the monologue, but...

03:15:35.640 I did, most of it.

03:15:36.940 I did bounce back and forth from you and Andrew Wilson.

03:15:39.420 You know, his TikTok invasion.

03:15:40.560 I like watching him a lot.

03:15:43.320 So what was your thoughts on it?

03:15:45.260 Did it line up with your experience in life or no?

03:15:49.540 To an extent, for sure.

03:15:51.220 I definitely grew up in the church pretty much my entire life.

03:15:55.340 And I am a firm believer in Jesus Christ.

03:15:59.120 And I would say I'm more non-denominational than anything, which I understand that Orthodox people don't really like the sound of that.

03:16:05.300 But in church, what I really see as the problem is even whenever they go over verses and they're talking about marriage and they're talking about parents, what they will be talking about is husbands love your wives and wives submit to your husbands.

03:16:21.720 Now, husbands, this doesn't mean you get to, and then they negate any kind of authority that the husband and father has.

03:16:28.840 They just go on about don't overlord it.

03:16:31.340 You're not supposed to do that.

03:16:32.480 whenever i firmly believe if anybody was to objectively read the bible the fathers are

03:16:39.400 supposed to govern and rule their households the word for husband used throughout the old

03:16:44.440 testament is either the word man just simply man or it is baal which means master ruler lord

03:16:52.360 so they're commanded to take care and steward their household if they don't do that then they're

03:16:59.100 failing in the new testament it talks about sarah whose children women of faith are if you are like

03:17:06.620 her who called abraham lord and obeyed what he said but they take away the authority from the

03:17:13.260 father and then whenever they do that the mother decides you know i have to step in because i don't

03:17:20.880 want my child going off track so they step in and because they're stepping in the father's just kind

03:17:26.660 in passive mode and if the father's in passive mode then it's just going to continue going

03:17:31.620 downhill though the mother's trying to do the best that she can so they're stripping the authority

03:17:36.100 from men as a whole nowhere in the bible is it ever commanded that you have to have a priest

03:17:43.460 a pastor a government say that you can have this woman in marriage the word for marriage in the

03:17:50.260 the Old Testament is to take, to procure, pretty much. Whenever Jacob married, when he thought he

03:17:58.320 was marrying Rachel, and instead he married Leah, it doesn't say that anybody officiated that.

03:18:03.240 Whenever Isaac took Rebekah into his tent and they were married, nobody officiated that.

03:18:08.340 What we don't understand anymore is the fact that the man of the house has governed rulership over

03:18:15.660 his family. So I think we should completely go back to arranged marriages. What people think of

03:18:19.740 whenever they hear that is, oh, I'm 27. Do you think my father is going to tell me I have to

03:18:24.440 marry this dude? Well, no. The most heightened time of sexual desire is whenever we're, you know,

03:18:31.200 I'll just say 18. Yeah. Well, the thing is though, it's really like arranged marriages isn't for like

03:18:37.500 the people in the dating pool now, it's for their kids. Right. Like, I mean, no, no. Like,

03:18:44.320 i i really think arranged marriages are done by 21 22 tops coach now you're modern dating

03:18:50.920 done there was your green there was your window you're done um but okay do you have any like

03:18:58.520 personal stories you want to share like did you ever bring something to the church and it didn't

03:19:03.080 work or like something like that not necessarily bring something to the church though i've had

03:19:10.080 conversations with pastors and people that I've known for decades, some I've known for years,

03:19:16.720 and they don't want to admit what they're reading. You know, they just kind of try to

03:19:21.600 twist it to an extent. I definitely was involved in regards to getting a purity ring and, oh,

03:19:27.240 that's exactly what's right, which is some things that I will completely differ from,

03:19:32.000 Yvonne, which I think that if I was to simply type it in the chat, then, you know, I could be

03:19:36.000 called a simp. It's all right. No, it's okay. I call a lot of men simps. I called Tom Brady a simp.

03:19:51.300 Every guy's a simp sometimes. I completely agree. I think the simping is ridiculous and men do it

03:20:00.120 so often, which is why a lot of relationships fail because instead of being upfront and blunt,

03:20:06.000 this is what i expect this is what you're not going to do this is what i'm looking for i'm

03:20:10.880 running my race i'm living my life if you want to help me you know what you were created for

03:20:15.360 if you want to help me and be a part of this then that's great here's my guidelines what instead

03:20:20.480 happens is guys you know the stats in regards to 18 or 19 to 30 a third of them are virgins or

03:20:27.440 haven't had sex in the last year they're just starving to have relations with a woman they're

03:20:32.400 They're desperate. Yeah. Right. So they, why would they say something that's going to cut

03:20:37.560 off their one chance? You know, this is the woman I have access to. So instead, if they do get into

03:20:42.260 a relationship, then they want to bring these things out later on. No, I don't want you wearing

03:20:46.320 that. No, you're not going to that party by yourself and I don't want to go. Well, you're

03:20:50.980 controlling. You're this and that. So it's all ridiculous. But in regards to, is it difficult

03:20:57.740 to be self-controlled and to wait until marriage? Of course it's difficult. In the way that they

03:21:03.600 hype up the virtue signaling of purity rings, I completely agree with you. But in regards to

03:21:08.740 what we're called to do, obviously the standard is going to be something that not everyone's

03:21:14.000 going to meet. I don't think that anybody, man or woman, should just be going and sleeping around.

03:21:19.780 Do I desire to do that? Of course I desire to do that. Don't you think it's just like

03:21:23.980 substituting one sin for another like in what way because if you're not sleeping with women

03:21:31.500 like if you're not sleeping around with women because like let's be honest to get a relationship

03:21:36.780 as a guy that's really what you have to do to some extent um in modern dating not traditional

03:21:45.180 um so like you're gonna be watching porn or like masturbating like there's just no way

03:21:51.820 so you're just like you're just like substituting once like it's almost like people will say if you

03:21:57.740 like they'll say things kind of like you're saying like oh if you just did what you were called to do

03:22:03.180 like and not everyone can live up to the standards well priests can't even live up to that standards

03:22:07.820 like literal priests yeah you know it's like you're just substituting one sin for another you

03:22:12.780 know i do i completely get your point um in regards to masturbation the bible doesn't ever

03:22:18.860 say you can't do that. Why do I think it doesn't say that? I mean, the church calls it a sin. Sure.

03:22:23.980 Does that mean that it's a sin? No, God didn't call it that. So instead, they're putting their

03:22:28.980 voice in the place of God. In regards to watching porn and other things like that, I would say it's

03:22:34.940 not good to sin, period. But if you are going to screw up somebody else's daughter that's not your

03:22:41.520 wife, or you're simply going to mess with your own mind and ruin the potential in regards to your

03:22:47.500 gonna yeah but you didn't destroy her like she's destroyed herself if she didn't do with you like

03:22:52.780 she's just gonna do with someone else that is true but that's exactly why i think the fathers

03:22:58.060 really have to come into picture here you know it's it's they can't i mean no authority they

03:23:03.340 can't you're the last guy like two callers ago he hasn't seen his daughter what's he gonna do

03:23:09.580 right which i think is completely designed by the government and the ways of the world because we

03:23:16.220 already know that a single mother is not going to raise a child to be a productive citizen

03:23:20.380 as often as a man would do that yet the courts want to give the children to the mother

03:23:25.900 the bible says that the wife and the children and the home is belongs to the man instead of

03:23:33.260 using the word property so if we're going to view it objectively regardless of what makes us happy

03:23:38.940 or feel good that's what i would say in regards to that but priests they're not designed to be

03:23:44.540 celibate of course sex is a need the bible actually in the new testament which is why i have a lot of

03:23:49.180 problems with catholicism is it says call no one on earth your father and we're calling a man our

03:23:54.700 father the bible says it is a doctrine of demons to forbid marriage so we're going to put women

03:24:01.020 as nuns and men as priests and say that these are your examples but we're forbidding them from

03:24:06.380 marrying that's completely against what they say they stand for so of course they're going to do

03:24:12.460 something crazy got it yeah makes sense well thanks for calling in i appreciate the insight

03:24:21.340 of course i appreciate the time thank you pearl bye bye all right guys um valentine's day is coming up

03:24:32.220 and um i think i'm gonna do a valentine's day show tomorrow

03:24:37.420 because i do have plans sorry you guys i know there's a lot of you in the chat that are like

03:24:47.060 what am i gonna do i don't know you're not hanging out with me i'll tell you that

03:24:49.960 okay i don't know unless uh maybe earlier in the day but we'll see anyways like guys i'm tired

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Pearl - February 13, 2025

Traditional Conservative Mothers And Sexual Shame (Call-in Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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