Pearl - We Asked The World Cup Their Thoughts on Cheating

00:00:00.000 what country cheats the most all of them all americans americans americans men men it is not

00:00:06.160 a country men they're evil run run but you you love him though right like your boyfriend or

00:00:13.240 partner do they get angry or do they just not care they didn't catch me oh they didn't catch

00:00:17.740 you they never catch me bless her lord we love her we think she's beautiful and wonderful lord

00:00:21.740 and we think that she uh what she's doing is is it's controversial but i actually think it's

00:00:25.900 kind of cool but the last time i signed up for a dating app okay i had to sign off when the guy

00:00:31.420 told me he wanted to drink my dirty bath water what's up guys today we are at the world cup and

00:00:36.160 we're going to be asking the swedish and the japanese about how dating is in different cultures

00:00:41.280 starting with why do japanese women cheat so much like the video and let's get started hi what's

00:00:48.120 your name joffrey nice to meet you i'm pro thank you who are you rooting for today uh probably

00:00:54.120 japan okay yeah yeah so today because i'm i love what they've done oh really yeah you're not having

00:01:00.580 what so today we're asking people about dating from their perspective cultures are you american

00:01:06.100 i am okay have you dated internationally have you noticed any differences no i've not dated

00:01:11.400 internationally though i've traveled internationally oh yeah yeah i married an american girl okay yeah

00:01:16.220 You want to come on?

00:01:21.880 Yeah, let's see.

00:01:23.260 Okay, so...

00:01:24.500 Okay, do you speak English?

00:01:26.540 A little bit.

00:01:27.260 A little bit.

00:01:27.800 So, online, it says that in Japan, cheating isn't a big deal.

00:01:33.060 Is that true or is it untrue? 0.91

00:01:35.620 Unfortunately, it's true.

00:01:37.220 It's true?

00:01:37.840 It's not a big deal.

00:01:39.140 So, if you were dating somebody and they cheated, do you care?

00:01:42.000 Of course I care.

00:01:42.860 Oh, so you care?

00:01:43.960 I care, of course.

00:01:44.700 but where you're from nobody else does you're alone in that sorry so where you're from nobody

00:01:50.380 else cares like are you the only one that does or i think for women they cares but i don't know

00:01:58.200 they they cares but they do cheat yeah i do cheat i cheated too oh really well who do you

00:02:05.120 who do you usually cheat with is it someone at work is it friends okay it was friends yeah and

00:02:13.300 do like your boyfriend or partner do they get angry or do they just not care they didn't catch

00:02:18.580 me oh they didn't catch you they never catch me well they did now is it on tv or is it yeah it's

00:02:25.240 on tv okay i think i need some time it's okay um so tell me what are the differences about dating

00:02:33.160 in Japan versus that's different than America? Good question. I think dating with Japanese

00:02:43.340 people, you need to be more, like, more girly, more lady, like acting more ladies, but dating 0.97

00:02:53.300 with America, I think I can be more myself. Okay. Yeah. So you think you have to be more

00:02:58.120 girly with the men in Japan or they won't date you? Yes. They have, we, if we dating with Japanese

00:03:04.860 people, you have to be their, how do you say, their type. Okay. But in here, I like someone who 1.00

00:03:12.440 loves myself. Okay. Yeah. Do you prefer to date Japanese men or American men? I would like to

00:03:18.060 date with a mix. American and Japanese mix. Okay. Do you want to stay in America? Like,

00:03:23.580 would you ever move here? Of course, I want to stay here. Okay. I'm going back to Japan soon.

00:03:27.260 okay do you have an instagram maybe maybe a japanese american guy will see this of course

00:03:31.940 you won't cheat on him right i won't in the future yes i will never i will never

00:03:37.180 promise finger i will never cheat in the future okay okay what's your instagram

00:03:43.180 uh m-i-s-a-c-o-d-a-y-o i'm okay because they are watching me i'm shy they think i'm i'm a

00:03:53.480 Oh, it's okay.

00:03:56.320 Sorry, thank you.

00:03:57.100 Thank you.

00:03:57.840 We're asking people from other countries how dating is different in other countries versus America.

00:04:03.020 And I'd love to get your opinion.

00:04:05.160 Will you talk about it?

00:04:06.460 Because of America, I cannot answer.

00:04:08.440 I don't know.

00:04:09.140 Oh, you don't know because you're only visiting?

00:04:11.980 Yeah.

00:04:12.420 And you haven't dated anyone in America.

00:04:13.760 No.

00:04:14.320 So, okay, I have a question.

00:04:16.280 In America, the marriage rate is very short.

00:04:19.820 Like, people don't stay married long.

00:04:21.620 Is that similar in Germany?

00:04:23.480 yeah and people aren't really having kids anymore is that similar yeah i would say

00:04:29.220 people are getting married yeah very average age so like at the age from 13 to 14 yeah yeah 1.00

00:04:38.620 getting getting kids it's also very rare situation yeah do you think that german women are better

00:04:45.760 than american women and if so why it's a good question actually i'm russian so i have russian

00:04:54.520 roots but i think it's mentality so it's more american mentality is different okay how so

00:05:00.580 yeah like more free without rules okay so there's more rules in germany and russia

00:05:07.300 in germany many formalities yeah okay can you walk me through maybe a few yes definitely

00:05:13.960 yeah when you want to see each other for example you you need to have an appointment you have to

00:05:20.020 have an appointment for a first date yeah because german people are very busy oh and you guys are

00:05:25.240 always on time yes yes yes and you need to schedule the appointment okay so are you single or are you

00:05:30.280 in a relationship yeah i'm at the moment single you're single okay so if someone wants to go on

00:05:35.060 a date with you how far in advance do they have to schedule it yeah i it's a very good question

00:05:42.580 because I haven't been dating German people.

00:05:45.540 Who do you date? 1.00

00:05:46.300 Yeah, because it's a different mentality, as I said.

00:05:50.240 Okay.

00:05:50.840 Yeah.

00:05:51.420 So what's your favorite country to date?

00:05:54.080 I would say Slavic.

00:05:56.600 Slavic, yes. 0.94

00:05:57.320 Okay, and what's better about Slavic guys than German guys?

00:06:00.660 You have like familial relationships. 0.95

00:06:03.060 Okay, so they're more long-term 0.89

00:06:04.360 where German men are maybe more casual? 0.99

00:06:06.760 Yeah, I would say more casual

00:06:08.820 and they want to have a family, build a family, that's why.

00:06:12.580 Oh, okay. So they're more family-oriented, and the men in Germany are their fuckboys? 0.99

00:06:18.440 I don't know. It's difficult for me to say, but yeah, they want to be... 0.97

00:06:23.460 So the women want to be independent, the men want to be independent as well,

00:06:28.180 and that's not their Slavic mentality. 0.98

00:06:30.540 Okay, you're more of a traditional woman.

00:06:32.200 Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.

00:06:33.780 And would you say that's more common for women with Russian roots,

00:06:37.460 that they're a little bit more traditional-minded?

00:06:39.360 or you are you by yourself are you the only one i would say more by myself

00:06:44.860 russian from europe yeah well if someone on the channel sees this and wants to you know

00:06:51.640 message you on instagram do you want to tell them yeah oh good good question yeah um hello from

00:06:58.820 delos okay all right thanks so much thanks so much is this true can you tell me about it yes 0.73

00:07:05.860 How is, um, so Japan's rated number one for cheating. 0.95

00:07:09.600 Is that true? 1.00

00:07:10.880 I mean, that's true.

00:07:13.280 It is?

00:07:13.820 You know what's true?

00:07:14.480 Texas, in the economy, is bigger than Japan. 0.60

00:07:16.700 So go Texas.

00:07:18.020 Go, y'all.

00:07:19.420 Go Texas.

00:07:20.320 Okay.

00:07:21.020 Where are you from?

00:07:22.180 Turkey.

00:07:22.880 Hi.

00:07:23.240 I'm Pearl.

00:07:24.360 I'm Pearl.

00:07:25.000 I know.

00:07:26.180 Yeah.

00:07:27.260 You had an interview with Andrew Tate.

00:07:29.600 Yeah, I did.

00:07:30.620 So you're from Turkey.

00:07:31.980 Are you both?

00:07:32.500 Yeah.

00:07:33.300 So, okay, tell me, how is dating different in Turkey than here?

00:07:37.720 In big cities like Istanbul or east part of Turkey, I mean west part of Turkey, it's pretty much same like in America.

00:07:44.080 Okay.

00:07:44.320 But east part of Turkey, it's more religious and they're more tied to the tradition.

00:07:50.940 I would say that's the...

00:07:52.440 It's like south in America and east of Turkey are the same.

00:07:56.620 And west and big cities in America, west Turkey and big cities in America, they're pretty much same. 1.00

00:08:01.560 are the women less um fat whores there like yeah is it going 1.00

00:08:07.120 no no no i'm saying like in america in america we're overweight the women are very modern like 0.98

00:08:15.440 is it more traditional where you're from not in istanbul istanbul is modern okay it's very

00:08:20.980 modern yeah so is the birth rate going down there too no not as much no we have a lot of

00:08:26.480 immigration there we have a lot of uh people coming from neighbor countries and turkish people

00:08:32.960 like to make kids too okay it's what is what is first date culture there do you are you guys

00:08:37.920 meeting on dating apps is it more arranged schools okay bars dating apps we have the dating apps over

00:08:46.100 there too and do you prefer the women there or the women here whoever's hotter

00:08:51.960 thank you guys thank you thank you yeah yeah yeah can you guys tell me about dating in sweden

00:08:59.520 what's dating like in sweden yeah hard all right gonna come talk about it true or not true

00:09:07.680 come talk about it come talk about it

00:09:12.500 come talk about it okay so where are you from we're from colombia okay so today we're talking

00:09:21.680 about dating how is dating different in colombia versus america okay well definitely colombian men

00:09:29.180 are red flags they're red flags i marry a gringo is that a white guy very white from boston okay

00:09:37.680 so what made you marry someone that's american versus i'm from colombia because they're not

00:09:42.820 jealous because they help you at home because they let you be here spending time with my best

00:09:48.200 friend and if I was dating or marry a Colombian guy I was definitely not being here. And would 1.00

00:09:54.700 you say that you're more traditional or modern minded? We're very modern minded with traditional

00:10:01.140 base also like a little bit of both. Okay so can you tell me in what ways you're more traditional

00:10:05.780 and what ways you're more modern? Well traditional we are very loyal to each other we respect each

00:10:11.420 other we don't like you know and modern is like I could be out with my friends and I don't have

00:10:18.020 him texting me like 5,000 times because he trusted me, correct. Do you guys have kids? Two. Two kids,

00:10:24.140 yeah. Okay, so next question. Oh, wait, what about you? No, I'm not married. You're not married? Are

00:10:30.600 you dating? No, nothing. Okay, so what do you think men appreciate about dating women from your

00:10:39.020 country um i think we're very family based very very family based and we yeah like veronica said

00:10:48.200 like we are very trusty who cheats more american men no all men all men but american men or from

00:10:58.780 colombia yeah well but latin americans definitely are more like like flirty flirty what is your 0.94

00:11:08.640 craziest dating story no do you have one no i don't you don't we're boring we're very traditional 0.94

00:11:18.840 in that way okay thank you guys thank you bye so why do japanese women cheat so often yeah so

00:11:27.580 there's studies that come out that say japanese women are number one for cheating and we want to

00:11:32.420 know if it's true or not because we're not from there we have no idea i also actually never dated

00:11:36.160 with Japanese women, so I don't know, to be honest, yeah, sorry. Do you know people from there?

00:11:41.080 Yeah, yeah. And we've heard here that in Japan, like, cheating isn't a big deal.

00:11:46.240 Is that true? I don't want to spread any misunderstanding, wrong information

00:11:51.920 about it, so I'll say. I'll keep going, yeah, about it, sorry, yeah. Have you noticed any

00:11:58.440 difference between Japanese and American women? Yeah. And what are the differences? 1.00

00:12:03.680 I also never date with American women, so just, yeah, I just can't tell too much, but just Japanese women are more, sorry, I feel, sorry, I don't feel comfortable answering that question. 0.99

00:12:20.440 Okay, no problem. 0.99

00:12:21.500 Sorry.

00:12:21.880 That's okay. Have a good one.

00:12:23.220 Did you tell me a little bit about dating in your country, how it's different than America?

00:12:27.540 Dating?

00:12:28.120 Yeah, dating.

00:12:30.080 You need a more specific question.

00:12:31.920 We just want to know, is it more traditional in Latin America than America? 0.99

00:12:37.280 And how are the women different? 1.00

00:12:40.720 Essentially, they like dancing better. 1.00

00:12:44.300 Okay, they're better dancers?

00:12:45.620 Yeah, it's not like just movies and dinner.

00:12:48.960 It's party, dancing, walking.

00:12:52.380 So on a first date, you guys might go dancing, or in America, you go to dinner.

00:12:57.340 Yeah, I mean, you can say that.

00:12:59.020 I mean, you can go have dinner also as well,

00:13:01.700 but maybe you can have another plan, like go to dance,

00:13:04.720 have some drinks, you know.

00:13:07.160 Also, different, it's like you need to know her family.

00:13:12.040 Okay.

00:13:12.860 There's no dating apps, no, like, Tinder?

00:13:15.440 Yeah, there is.

00:13:18.200 He's like, I don't have to know their family.

00:13:21.680 Why is here?

00:13:24.320 Yeah, there's a lot of apps, but...

00:13:25.960 What?

00:13:26.500 There's a lot of apps.

00:13:27.980 Okay.

00:13:28.280 But I think dating where we live is more traditional, I would say.

00:13:32.640 More face-to-face people you meet in the bar, in the school, in the streets. 0.63

00:13:37.700 War.

00:13:38.500 I have some friends dating at work. 0.98

00:13:42.660 In America, there's a big hook-up culture.

00:13:45.240 Is that the same in Mexico, or is it more like people wait?

00:13:48.200 I would say it's the same, yeah.

00:13:49.140 It's the same?

00:13:49.880 Yeah.

00:13:50.260 It's pretty similar.

00:13:51.400 Do people usually hook up on the first date, second date, third date?

00:13:54.980 You need to ask more friends.

00:13:56.400 Come on, you are very experienced in that.

00:14:01.200 No, it's, I mean, you can have like one night and that's it.

00:14:06.280 And maybe after three, you are more interested in her.

00:14:10.580 Maybe you need to wait a little bit more, like two or three weeks.

00:14:13.200 Do you prefer Mexican women or American women? 0.99

00:14:16.260 No right or wrong answers. 1.00

00:14:18.100 No, Mexican. 1.00

00:14:19.940 Is it because they're more traditional?

00:14:22.120 Yeah, and also the culture, I think, is a little different, you know.

00:14:25.100 so my girlfriend is mexican so yeah okay well thank you guys i'm pearl

00:14:30.660 oh this is um there's a study that came out that says japanese women cheat the most

00:14:37.660 so it's asking if japanese women cheat the most if that's true or not true

00:14:41.900 oh really and how is it going so far uh we had a japanese woman say yes she does cheat

00:14:48.520 so that's what she said you can say they're more honest what they are more honest yeah

00:14:54.840 Do you think that's common in Mexico?

00:14:59.820 Who do you think cheats more?

00:15:00.880 Mexicans or Americans?

00:15:02.440 I have never met an American girl. 1.00

00:15:07.560 There should be a lot of cheaters in Mexico. 1.00

00:15:11.580 But it's not that common to accept it publicly, you know?

00:15:16.240 Is it true that men in Latin America have second families?

00:15:20.340 I've heard stories.

00:15:23.180 Okay, thank you guys.

00:15:24.840 well where are you from are you from texas okay so who are you you're rooting for japan today

00:15:31.700 yeah i am how has dating been in texas dating been in texas yeah are you are you hoping to

00:15:37.580 meet a japanese guy a swedish guy i mean you wouldn't be mad right i wouldn't be against it

00:15:44.780 i wouldn't be against it but i mean i just like that there's like a lot of different people from

00:15:50.360 different cultures like just having a good time and coming together over like soccer

00:15:53.840 because, like, I actually really am not a huge fan of soccer,

00:15:57.120 but I think, like, the hype of everybody, like, on social media kind of got me into it.

00:16:00.860 Do you prefer to date American men or international men?

00:16:07.020 All I've dated is American men, but I guess if I find a connection,

00:16:10.600 a good connection with an international guy, then sure, why not?

00:16:14.000 Okay, so you'd be more open to it.

00:16:15.420 Yeah, for sure, for sure.

00:16:16.340 And would it be Japanese or Swedish if you had a preference? 0.95

00:16:20.440 Probably Japanese. 0.96

00:16:21.540 Japanese?

00:16:21.820 Yeah, yeah.

00:16:22.240 Okay, well, good luck out there.

00:16:23.600 All right, thank you so much.

00:16:24.580 Have a good one.

00:16:25.460 Where are you guys from?

00:16:27.240 Oklahoma.

00:16:28.100 Oklahoma.

00:16:28.920 Do you want to tell me about dating in Oklahoma?

00:16:31.300 Do what?

00:16:31.840 How's dating in Oklahoma?

00:16:33.540 30 seconds?

00:16:34.820 30 seconds?

00:16:35.940 I don't date.

00:16:38.880 Okay.

00:16:39.440 She's been with the same guy for a few years.

00:16:41.460 Really?

00:16:41.780 Is that normal in Oklahoma?

00:16:43.180 Like people are more traditional, date longer?

00:16:46.000 Ah, it just kind of, I don't know.

00:16:49.340 I don't know.

00:16:50.360 Oh, you don't know?

00:16:51.040 It's just average.

00:16:51.860 it's just average like nothing special i'm sorry okay all right have a good one guys

00:16:56.140 okay that's all right what i don't know that i want to be on tv okay but the last time i signed

00:17:08.280 up for a dating app okay i had to sign off when the guy told me he wanted to drink my dirty bath

00:17:13.680 water oh wow so there you go for fails and getting off dating apps would you be more open to an

00:17:19.580 international guy like meeting here today yeah sure would you is would that be a preference like

00:17:24.940 would you want to meet a swedish guy japanese guy i wouldn't want to meet a man who has evolved

00:17:30.360 to where they are willing to meet the same equal household duties along with the financial duties 0.75

00:17:37.540 so if they have leveled up to that aspect i don't care what nationality or what country they're from

00:17:43.200 okay you don't have a physical preference though not really no no all right cool well thank you 0.99

00:17:47.760 So it says, why do Japanese women cheat so much? 1.00

00:17:52.820 Because they were ranked number one in cheating, 1.00

00:17:54.960 and we want to know if people think that's true or not true.

00:17:57.360 Ah, okay, I don't know.

00:17:58.580 Where are you from?

00:17:59.700 Argentina.

00:18:00.340 Argentina. 1.00

00:18:00.940 So can you tell me, what's the difference between dating American women

00:18:04.120 and Argentinian women? 1.00

00:18:08.020 The Argentinian women, they are so pretty. 1.00

00:18:11.980 Okay. 0.97

00:18:12.920 But they are not very, how do you say it in English? 0.76

00:18:19.220 Sympaticas.

00:18:20.180 Here in the United States, you can talk with everyone, girls,

00:18:23.560 but in Argentina, the girls know. 0.95

00:18:25.400 They're not as friendly? 1.00

00:18:26.400 Yeah, they are not friendly.

00:18:27.580 Okay, so if a man is an American and he wants to go to Argentina

00:18:31.780 to meet better women, would you recommend it or no?

00:18:36.120 Yeah, absolutely. 1.00

00:18:36.900 Because there are a lot of ladies, very, very beautiful women. 1.00

00:18:41.740 And would you say they're more feminine and traditional there?

00:18:45.520 No, they are very serious.

00:18:48.380 They are not very good friendly.

00:18:50.860 Do they want to make their own...

00:18:52.240 Where are you from?

00:18:52.820 I'm from America.

00:18:53.860 Ah, okay.

00:18:54.460 But we're curious about other places.

00:18:56.340 So we want to know, do they want to make their own money there,

00:18:58.940 or do they want to have kids and have a family?

00:19:01.140 Yeah, absolutely.

00:19:02.640 Which one?

00:19:05.380 Argentina.

00:19:06.740 No, no, no. 1.00

00:19:07.100 Do the women in Argentina... 1.00

00:19:08.100 In Argentina, in America, women want to make money and not have kids. 1.00

00:19:12.600 In Argentina, do they want to have kids or do they want to make money? 1.00

00:19:15.800 Yeah, they want to have family with kids.

00:19:18.480 Okay, so they get married younger, they have more kids there?

00:19:21.160 Yeah.

00:19:21.480 Okay.

00:19:23.020 What is a typical first date in Argentina?

00:19:26.700 Dancing.

00:19:27.380 Dancing, okay.

00:19:28.660 Here is dinner, I know.

00:19:30.460 Here is dinner and there is dancing.

00:19:32.880 Do you prefer the American first dates or the ones in Argentina?

00:19:37.080 I don't know.

00:19:38.100 If you're going to be with you, you're going to go to dancing.

00:19:41.480 Okay. 0.68

00:19:42.560 Have you ever dated an international woman?

00:19:45.700 No, I haven't. 1.00

00:19:46.440 From another country. 1.00

00:19:47.700 Is that something you would want to do today?

00:19:49.760 Like, would you be open to meeting a woman from Japan or Sweden?

00:19:53.420 Yeah, I wouldn't be opposed to it.

00:19:56.420 Do you have friends that have dated?

00:19:58.120 Have you dated an international woman?

00:20:00.160 No, they're all in the States, yeah. 0.73

00:20:02.280 All in the States.

00:20:03.100 We're trying to figure out the differences in dating between international and in America.

00:20:06.860 Yeah, so kind of ask for people's experiences.

00:20:09.660 Are you going to play volleyball while you're here?

00:20:12.860 Uh, no.

00:20:15.040 Hi there, how are you?

00:20:16.140 We were hearing that you were doing an interview for the purpose of dating.

00:20:21.040 Yes.

00:20:21.520 And asking the differences in different countries.

00:20:23.800 Yes.

00:20:24.140 And ask what your country, where are you from?

00:20:25.940 I'm American.

00:20:26.740 You're American.

00:20:27.380 How would I ever guess that like you told him? 0.86

00:20:29.560 I don't know.

00:20:31.160 Okay, what part of America?

00:20:33.000 You like some close by here in Dallas, Fort Worth?

00:20:35.460 I know I'm from the Midwest.

00:20:37.140 From the Midwest.

00:20:37.760 Okay, that's close enough.

00:20:39.260 And so you're asking what question exactly?

00:20:42.780 So there's a study that came out.

00:20:45.280 Well, I kind of tailor it to who I'm talking to,

00:20:47.240 but there was a study that came out that Japanese women cheat the most.

00:20:50.360 And we want to know if they think it's true or not. 1.00

00:20:52.220 Oh, okay.

00:20:53.180 I wouldn't know anything about that.

00:20:55.560 But personally, I'm a Christian.

00:20:57.400 Okay.

00:20:57.620 So my point of view, and I met my wife on a Christian website.

00:21:01.840 Okay.

00:21:01.940 So we did learn a little bit about the aspect of dating and things

00:21:05.220 and learning about people through the online experience.

00:21:08.580 Okay.

00:21:09.280 But we would never ask that kind of a question.

00:21:12.020 Why was that question so important to you, being faithful or not being faithful?

00:21:16.640 Okay.

00:21:17.260 Do you have a Christian background yourself?

00:21:20.240 Yes.

00:21:20.880 Oh, you do?

00:21:21.520 Yes.

00:21:22.100 So do you think it's right or wrong?

00:21:24.000 Cheating?

00:21:24.280 To be faithful, cheating, yeah.

00:21:25.780 I'd say it's wrong.

00:21:27.140 You say it's wrong.

00:21:27.900 Okay, very good.

00:21:29.400 Well, I'm just very curious why you would ask that particular question.

00:21:33.100 I want to.

00:21:34.520 Okay, you want to.

00:21:35.420 Yes.

00:21:35.660 Any other questions that you would have that would be about dating?

00:21:38.920 Is that the only question?

00:21:40.040 Well, we're going from more of an international point of view,

00:21:42.680 so we're asking the differences in different countries.

00:21:45.840 Okay, I'm confused, but interesting question. 0.99

00:21:48.880 Do you think women should obey their husbands? 0.99

00:21:50.900 I do.

00:21:51.820 I believe it's biblical.

00:21:53.380 Okay.

00:21:53.920 Not like out of necessity, but they should be able to follow his lead

00:22:01.740 is really the point that the Bible's making.

00:22:04.660 Men should follow or women should follow. 0.65

00:22:07.660 Which do you think? 0.92

00:22:09.300 So do you think that the man should decide how many kids the family has?

00:22:13.540 I think it should be a joint effort to know that both people are involved.

00:22:18.340 Both of them will be having the job of raising the child,

00:22:21.000 so they should both be involved in that answer.

00:22:23.680 Right, but there's a disagreement.

00:22:25.520 A disagreement about the two?

00:22:26.820 He wants three, she wants one.

00:22:28.580 Okay. I would say women, it's their body, right? I mean, they have the ability to prevent that if 1.00

00:22:35.700 they want to by medications and things like that, right? So they can do that, but I think they should

00:22:41.980 be in harmony if they're going to have a child. So maybe they could compromise with two.

00:22:46.460 Do women ever compromise though? 1.00

00:22:49.100 They can, yes. 1.00

00:22:50.440 But like generally?

00:22:51.400 They can compromise. Of course they can.

00:22:53.360 But if they did, wouldn't, you know, I feel a little...

00:22:56.040 If they really love their husband as they should, I think they would let their husband do what he wishes.

00:23:02.080 If he wants a large family and she doesn't, then if he can afford it, then absolutely.

00:23:07.800 What would you say that the woman should do if the husband and the pastor disagree? 0.59

00:23:12.240 Husband and the pastor.

00:23:13.000 So the husband says one thing and the pastor or priest, depending on your denomination, says another.

00:23:19.300 I would say whichever is more biblical. 0.86

00:23:21.840 If the pastor is in agreement, and I believe the scriptures do say that the woman should follow the man's lead. 0.89

00:23:29.180 So I would say if the pastor is doing his job, he should be able to convince the husband that it's best to be the leader and decide how many children. 0.79

00:23:39.180 No, but they disagree.

00:23:41.240 This happens all the time in churches.

00:23:42.980 But I would say the pastor should be able to give him a biblical reason for following the pastor's decision.

00:23:48.840 He disagrees with them.

00:23:50.800 yeah he the pastor gave his reason the husband doesn't agree what does the wife do the wife

00:23:57.040 should uh listen to her husband okay always awesome always yeah awesome great okay all right

00:24:03.460 any more uh i'm talking on one i don't mind uh i think that's all i got right now but thank you

00:24:12.060 my name's greg what's your name nice to meet you i'm pearl pearl nice to meet you my wife nice to

00:24:16.580 Me too.

00:24:17.020 For Greg and Don.

00:24:18.200 So we're out here today just telling people about Jesus and that they are loved by him

00:24:22.700 and that they should be willing to even agree with him,

00:24:27.280 even if there's something that's not quite right about the Bible or whatever.

00:24:31.220 They should look to a relationship with Jesus, that he loves them and he died on the cross for them.

00:24:36.600 Great.

00:24:37.120 And so I'm going to give you a million-dollar bill so you're being so kind.

00:24:40.340 Okay.

00:24:40.660 And on the back of it, it just asks, if you died today, Pearl, would you go to heaven or would you go to hell?

00:24:46.580 I'd go to heaven.

00:24:47.600 You'd go to heaven?

00:24:48.240 Yeah.

00:24:48.600 But based on what information?

00:24:50.280 My life.

00:24:51.060 How do you know?

00:24:52.020 I just know.

00:24:53.100 Is it your goodness that gets you to heaven, or is it Jesus' goodness?

00:24:56.120 Jesus.

00:24:56.920 Okay.

00:24:57.420 Always trust in what Jesus did on the cross and paying for your sin.

00:25:01.300 Because you didn't die, right?

00:25:02.660 No.

00:25:03.020 He died.

00:25:03.740 You didn't.

00:25:04.580 So trust in what Jesus did on the cross.

00:25:07.500 Okay.

00:25:08.040 I will.

00:25:08.760 God bless you.

00:25:09.420 God bless.

00:25:09.720 Nice to meet you.

00:25:10.220 Nice to meet you.

00:25:12.440 How's it going, guys?

00:25:13.660 You got the mic?

00:25:14.400 Yeah.

00:25:14.840 I know who you are.

00:25:17.080 Jesus loves you guys.

00:25:18.680 That's all I have to say.

00:25:20.660 Who are you guys?

00:25:21.600 Are you guys from Texas?

00:25:22.860 Yeah.

00:25:23.740 All right.

00:25:24.160 Okay.

00:25:25.200 So there was a study that came out.

00:25:26.980 I don't know if this is relevant to you guys,

00:25:28.320 that Japanese women cheat the most. 0.81

00:25:29.960 And we want to know if it's true or not. 1.00

00:25:33.740 Oh.

00:25:34.860 Because we've heard that in Japan.

00:25:36.240 We don't know.

00:25:37.040 Yeah, I know.

00:25:37.700 We didn't say they preached the gospel

00:25:38.720 and bring the love of Jesus to everybody.

00:25:40.040 Wow, wow, wow.

00:25:41.060 Yeah, I never heard that.

00:25:42.220 You earned one of these, sir.

00:25:44.840 I'm rich now.

00:25:45.980 Wow.

00:25:46.580 what what what is so you guys are in what a church together

00:25:51.940 tell me the okay so tell me the difference between dating in the church and outside of the church

00:25:58.160 is it is it our first dates a little i'm married i met my wife preaching the gospel in the streets

00:26:06.660 the word of god says see first the kingdom of god and everything else will be added to you so i did

00:26:11.000 that my wife did that separately and then we met preaching the gospel as far as what everyone else

00:26:15.160 does that claims to be a Christian we don't know so how did what was you guys

00:26:18.460 his first date it was actually while we were preaching the gospel we decided to

00:26:23.400 go eat okay and we just had dinner and God bless who made the first move her

00:26:28.660 are you I did you guys single in a relationship my husband on his way how

00:26:39.940 did you guys did you guys meet your husband and boyfriend in the church or

00:26:43.580 outside of the church and how did you guys meet um well he pursued me he said yeah you know so we

00:26:49.800 went on a date and now christ is in the center of that so yeah can you tell me how day to day

00:26:55.240 what it looks like that's different from other people like when christ is the center of your

00:26:59.520 relationship so first we encounter the lord so whatever the lord wants to do in our relationship

00:27:04.440 we let him leave right so day to day it'd be like i let him leave because he's a man so

00:27:11.100 whatever he has planned

00:27:13.440 how can you allow someone to lead

00:27:15.760 don't they just do it or they don't

00:27:17.040 as a woman I want to submit to my 0.99

00:27:19.960 future husband

00:27:20.820 so do you obey him in all things

00:27:23.300 if he's being led by the

00:27:27.900 Lord it makes it easier for her

00:27:29.800 to maybe be led

00:27:31.120 but who gets to decide if he's following God

00:27:33.600 because you know

00:27:34.860 I'm in touch with this

00:27:36.600 those are very good questions

00:27:38.240 so everything needs to be in alignment with the word of god right so why in the world i will follow

00:27:46.140 someone if what he does is not in alignment with the word of god but here's a big key

00:27:50.700 the big key is do you know the word well my question is it the woman's job to police if

00:27:57.800 he's following god no i would say in a healthy relationship there is no police there is trust

00:28:05.660 That's the difference between the world versus actually the covenant that people are under, that Jesus' blood.

00:28:12.520 Is it okay for a woman to tell her husband what to do?

00:28:17.000 Well, sometimes husband might need actually guidance too.

00:28:20.100 Sometimes the woman is the one that is listening from the Holy Spirit,

00:28:23.800 and she can say an input, and if the husband has got...

00:28:27.440 Yeah, yeah, go ahead. 0.72

00:28:28.080 I don't think either person should be domineering over the other one.

00:28:31.500 I'm one that does speak on, like, hey, the man's the head, like the word says, and it does say wives submit to your husbands.

00:28:37.420 I've seen you talk about this, too.

00:28:39.200 But the thing is, is it also says that women, I mean, husbands and wives should submit to one another in Christ and in love.

00:28:46.040 So honestly, if you're guiding each other in love, like, it should be an agreement.

00:28:51.180 And it should be like, hey, at the end of the day, if there's an important decision to make and I got to make it, my wife will honor that, you know.

00:28:57.460 But at the end of the day, like, if she has input and wants to lead in something and, you know, we talk about it and I don't feel like it's the wrong thing, I'm not going to oppress her and tell her she has no say so.

00:29:08.020 No, we're not saying she has no say, but at the end of the day, when there's two people, one's got to drive the wheel.

00:29:13.340 Yeah, one's got to make the final decision.

00:29:15.140 When it gets real, she'll let me lead because she obeys what the Word says.

00:29:18.840 We're non-denominational Christians, so we believe in the Word of God and the Holy Spirit.

00:29:22.980 We're not Catholics or Methodists or any of those things where they have their own guidance.

00:29:26.480 We just follow the word and the word says the man is the head as Christ is the head of the church. 0.71

00:29:31.480 And as the church submits to Christ, women submit to their husbands. 0.96

00:29:33.960 So in a perfect world, that would always be the case. 0.99

00:29:36.380 My wife always liked that.

00:29:37.520 Or am I always really gentle?

00:29:38.980 No, but we're supposed to be.

00:29:40.460 Right. 1.00

00:29:40.720 So if women can tell their husbands what to do, wouldn't that mean that husbands get less obedience than bosses do? 1.00

00:29:48.720 Because you would never tell your boss what to do.

00:29:51.740 Yeah, I've touched on that before.

00:29:54.580 But at the end of the day, what I've learned is that if me and my wife kneel before the Lord in prayer and seek his will,

00:30:00.700 then we usually get along pretty well and none of those issues pop up.

00:30:04.300 But if we're doing things in our own strength or if we make our minds God and we follow our thoughts

00:30:08.620 and we don't try to follow the Holy Spirit, then we're not being led by the Spirit of God.

00:30:12.780 We're being led by our own ideas.

00:30:14.400 And that's not what we're supposed to do.

00:30:15.640 So like a real Christian follows the Holy Spirit, not just words. 0.92

00:30:19.200 Could you tell your wife to shut up?

00:30:21.280 I wouldn't. 0.95

00:30:22.120 If I do, I'm out of order.

00:30:23.460 I could ask her to be quiet 0.91

00:30:25.460 If I did it nicely she probably would 1.00

00:30:27.100 No but if she wouldn't

00:30:28.300 She keeps trying to talk to you

00:30:31.340 I don't think it's honoring to do that 0.97

00:30:32.960 To tell your wife to shut up

00:30:34.300 Is it immoral?

00:30:35.940 Probably yeah I don't think you're supposed to speak

00:30:37.660 It's the word of God says not to deal with your wife in a harsh way

00:30:40.720 Yeah but sometimes

00:30:42.880 You know

00:30:43.420 Maybe she's nagging

00:30:45.940 She won't stop

00:30:46.980 Yeah what I've learned is if I'm rough with her she'll be rough

00:30:49.540 Because we both got saved

00:30:50.480 We were worldly people

00:30:53.180 We weren't raised in the church

00:30:54.540 So what I've learned is if I approach her that way

00:30:57.720 She's going to come back at me with the same vibe

00:30:59.860 But if I come to her in love and say

00:31:01.360 Is that really submission then?

00:31:04.740 Not really worried about it that much

00:31:06.040 Aren't you kind of dictating your behavior based on her?

00:31:11.380 No, I don't

00:31:12.100 I mean, I take her into consideration

00:31:14.360 But I follow the Lord and His lead

00:31:16.280 And today she didn't want to come out here and preach the gospel

00:31:18.500 But I did, and she was cool with it

00:31:20.420 So y'all have a blessed day

00:31:22.000 Cool, you too. Bye-bye.

00:31:24.400 Can we pray for you, Pearl?

00:31:25.800 Yeah, you're welcome to.

00:31:26.980 Can we really?

00:31:27.720 Yeah.

00:31:28.220 Hey, y'all want to pray for Pearl?

00:31:29.360 Yeah, let's pray for Pearl.

00:31:31.120 What's her name?

00:31:31.540 She said we can.

00:31:32.060 What's her name?

00:31:33.120 This is Pearl.

00:31:33.940 Yeah, I'm Pearl.

00:31:35.460 Can I pray over you?

00:31:36.860 Yeah.

00:31:37.240 I notice you have a Japanese sign.

00:31:38.840 I do.

00:31:39.460 I can pray in Japanese.

00:31:40.760 Oh, okay.

00:31:41.460 No way.

00:31:42.180 Okay.

00:31:42.920 Are you with our group?

00:31:43.500 But we don't know who you're with.

00:31:44.180 I have no idea who you are, but I love Jesus, and I go around just telling people about Jesus.

00:31:48.180 That's cool that you're here.

00:31:49.020 I feel a blessing.

00:31:49.960 Can we pray now?

00:31:50.780 all right yeah go ahead all right cool lord i just lift up uh pearl to you god we all do lord we

00:31:58.500 bless her or we love her we think she's beautiful and wonderful lord and we think that she uh what

00:32:02.740 she's doing is is it's controversial but i actually think it's kind of cool to challenge

00:32:06.660 people and to be uh their beliefs and to make them uh speak what they stand on and to see if

00:32:11.360 there's genuine lord i do believe lord that god is not a feminist so i do like that she does not

00:32:16.100 exalt feminism lord but i do bless her lord and i do bless you lord as sovereign over our lives i

00:32:21.300 pray that you would lead her life as you lead ours as she would receive the holy spirit lord

00:32:25.200 that you would fill her with the holy spirit and that she would make disciples lord after she

00:32:28.880 becomes one lord so i just pray in jesus name that the blood of christ lord the revelation of the

00:32:33.500 blood of christ that washes sins away lord be manifest to her lord and that she would have

00:32:37.580 learned to become obedient to you and not have fear of man or not think about so much of obedience

00:32:43.280 to men, Lord, but that she would have obedience

00:32:45.240 to you, Lord God. In Jesus' name,

00:32:47.320 Lord, we bless you, and we thank you for what you're going to do

00:32:49.220 in her life, which you've already done, Lord,

00:32:50.960 and we bless her with protection and provision,

00:32:53.360 Lord, in Jesus' name. Amen.

00:32:55.220 Thank you. Thank you for her, Lord Jesus.

00:32:57.320 Thanks, guys. Can I be in your video?

00:32:59.120 Can I bless you? There is a scripture

00:33:01.240 at the end. I want you to read

00:33:03.220 that one right there, Romans. Okay.

00:33:05.480 No, you can read all of them. Okay.

00:33:07.240 When this is real, I don't know

00:33:08.880 what country it's from, but that's yours too.

00:33:11.000 Someone gave it to me, so now I'm giving it to you.

00:33:12.740 Wow, that's all I've ever wanted.

00:33:15.460 All right, what's up, guys?

00:33:17.700 You got 30 seconds to talk?

00:33:20.280 Are you guys from Texas?

00:33:21.820 Yeah, we are.

00:33:22.480 Big D, baby, Big D.

00:33:23.280 Big D, baby.

00:33:24.220 Okay, are you guys together?

00:33:25.540 Yes.

00:33:25.960 Somewhat.

00:33:26.460 What do you mean somewhat?

00:33:27.440 Somewhat.

00:33:28.080 Okay, like situationship, the dating?

00:33:30.720 No, we love each other very much.

00:33:31.180 No, we love each other so much.

00:33:32.240 Okay, so you've been, how long have you guys been together?

00:33:34.500 Like a week.

00:33:35.100 Like a week and a half.

00:33:36.420 How'd you guys meet?

00:33:37.600 At the pool.

00:33:38.760 And it was just like love at first sight?

00:33:40.620 Yeah.

00:33:40.960 Yeah.

00:33:41.260 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:33:42.080 Who made the first move?

00:33:43.300 She did.

00:33:43.660 I did, of course.

00:33:44.740 Okay, and what was it about him that drew him to you?

00:33:48.000 Well, I was smoking a cigarette, and I was with my friend, and I was like,

00:33:51.080 all right, I see my future boyfriend over there.

00:33:53.040 Let me go talk to him.

00:33:53.840 And so I saw him, and I was like, hey, what book are you reading over there?

00:33:57.020 He goes, philosophy.

00:33:58.440 And then we immediately started talking about, like, death and, like, astrology and all that.

00:34:02.460 Yeah, we're on the same wavelength.

00:34:03.680 Wow. 0.96

00:34:04.180 We're both, like, the same type of crazy.

00:34:05.540 And so it's just been, like, inseparable since?

00:34:08.740 Basically, yeah.

00:34:09.340 Yeah, yeah.

00:34:10.460 Wow.

00:34:10.700 We've been marathoning it

00:34:12.360 Okay

00:34:12.600 Yeah

00:34:13.000 Essentially

00:34:13.880 Nowadays like people aren't even getting together

00:34:16.000 So that's great

00:34:16.640 I know right

00:34:17.180 I know it's crazy

00:34:17.980 That's great

00:34:18.760 Who needs a label?

00:34:19.660 What's up with all these labels?

00:34:20.260 Who needs labels?

00:34:21.260 Yeah

00:34:21.380 Love is love

00:34:22.080 If you're feeling it

00:34:23.060 Okay so

00:34:23.580 Today we're talking about the differences

00:34:26.580 Between dating in other countries and here

00:34:28.700 Have you guys ever dated someone from another country?

00:34:31.880 I've dated plenty of people

00:34:33.200 And I can tell you all about them

00:34:34.300 What you want to know

00:34:34.960 What you need to know

00:34:35.780 Okay Japanese

00:34:36.800 Have you ever dated a Japanese guy? 0.73

00:34:39.440 Not yet 0.98

00:34:40.760 Not yet.

00:34:41.740 There's a first time.

00:34:42.240 What do you mean yet?

00:34:42.800 I thought you just found love.

00:34:43.860 I had like a situation in school with a Japanese girl.

00:34:47.640 And was there any difference between people that are international and Americans?

00:34:51.380 Oh, wait.

00:34:51.940 What differences did you notice?

00:34:53.640 Well, the subtle way she like let me know.

00:34:56.660 Like she would put stickers on my folders.

00:34:59.160 And I didn't know where the stickers were coming from.

00:35:00.920 And then I kind of picked up.

00:35:02.580 And then, yeah, it's very subtle. 1.00

00:35:04.680 American women are direct. 1.00

00:35:06.120 Oh, yeah. 1.00

00:35:07.280 They get what they want.

00:35:08.220 We got a plan.

00:35:08.700 They get what they want.

00:35:09.480 you see these eyes yeah you see these hands definitely know what they want and then

00:35:14.460 internationally i think they play play the field more what other cultures have you dated

00:35:20.180 uh who needs a label right i mean talk to gone on a date with like do you have a is he your normal

00:35:30.600 type you know i don't i don't i can't say i have a type yet i can't say i have a type but you know

00:35:39.460 I like to experiment

00:35:40.920 I like to see what's new

00:35:41.860 I've noticed that

00:35:43.160 You know

00:35:44.960 Latin guys 1.00

00:35:45.520 They're a little bit 1.00

00:35:46.020 More sensual

00:35:46.660 They like to dance

00:35:47.500 They like to move a lot

00:35:48.420 You know

00:35:48.700 They want to go wild

00:35:49.320 You've gotten that answer

00:35:49.720 A lot today

00:35:50.280 Yeah yeah

00:35:50.860 They like to dance

00:35:51.740 You know

00:35:52.060 I like to dance

00:35:52.760 Yeah no

00:35:53.520 A lot of the people

00:35:54.060 From Argentina 1.00

00:35:54.540 The other day

00:35:54.900 We were dancing with them

00:35:55.600 Yeah

00:35:55.900 Yeah

00:35:56.620 Yeah

00:35:57.600 Do you think this is

00:35:58.500 A good place to find love?

00:36:01.260 It depends on what kind of love

00:36:02.620 You're looking for

00:36:03.300 It depends on what you want

00:36:04.480 But absolutely

00:36:05.180 Love is everywhere

00:36:06.120 You can find it

00:36:07.000 Love is what you make it

00:36:08.120 It's out there

00:36:08.400 You just gotta go find it

00:36:09.360 You've got to go find it.

00:36:10.300 What country cheats the most?

00:36:12.560 All of them.

00:36:13.260 All of them.

00:36:14.020 Americans.

00:36:14.760 Men.

00:36:15.460 Men.

00:36:15.840 It's not a country. 0.88

00:36:16.880 Men. 1.00

00:36:17.480 They're evil. 1.00

00:36:18.420 Run.

00:36:19.200 Run.

00:36:19.560 You love him, though.

00:36:21.560 Right?

00:36:22.100 I like him at least.

00:36:23.700 So much.

00:36:24.720 Okay, so you say you hate men, but you're cooking and hanging out with him.

00:36:29.300 Isn't that a little contradictory?

00:36:31.220 You've got to whip him into shape.

00:36:32.740 You know what I mean?

00:36:33.220 You've got to build him up.

00:36:35.840 There's exceptions.

00:36:36.820 There's exceptions to the rule.

00:36:37.940 Not everything is black and white

00:36:39.740 Okay

00:36:40.220 Not everything can be black and white

00:36:41.880 Alright cool guys

00:36:43.040 Have a good day

00:36:44.740 Stay cool

00:36:45.600 You have a girlfriend?

00:36:46.960 Are you dating?

00:36:48.320 Right now

00:36:49.000 Actually

00:36:49.580 I just got out of a nine month relationship

00:36:51.740 And I'm single with the Lord right now

00:36:53.220 Just waiting on Jesus

00:36:54.160 How did you meet her?

00:36:55.600 I met her through Facebook

00:36:57.040 And it was pretty interesting

00:36:58.100 You know I had a mentor who said

00:36:59.700 Hey Patrick you're so talented

00:37:01.080 You need to start a band

00:37:02.040 So you know I went and started a band

00:37:04.440 And she was one of the people who contacted me

00:37:06.100 Okay

00:37:06.560 Okay, and was she in the same area, same state?

00:37:10.860 Yeah, she lives in Texas.

00:37:12.320 Okay, and why did it end? What happened?

00:37:14.820 We just, we just, actually I'm still praying about it and talking to her,

00:37:19.000 and if it's the Lord's will, it'll happen.

00:37:20.560 So it's actually not over yet, I still talk to her almost every day,

00:37:23.360 but I just feel the Lord so strongly calling me to move to Japan,

00:37:26.560 and that's just not in her wheelhouse to ever go to Japan,

00:37:28.700 and I know God's calling me and Jesus comes first.

00:37:31.400 Okay, all right, well thank you so much.

00:37:33.020 Yeah, you're welcome.

00:37:33.400 I appreciate you.

Pearl - July 02, 2026

We Asked The World Cup Their Thoughts on Cheating

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