Pearl - July 02, 2026


We Asked The World Cup Their Thoughts on Cheating

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Pearl Andrew Tate Pearl Pearl Hey Patrick Jesus H. Slavic Greg
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In this episode, we asked people from other countries how dating is different in other countries vs. America and we get their opinions and thoughts on it. Today we are at the World Cup and we asked the Swedish and Japanese people about dating in different cultures.

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00:00:00 what country cheats the most all of them all americans americans americans men men it is not
00:00:06 a country men they're evil run run but you you love him though right like your boyfriend or
00:00:13 partner do they get angry or do they just not care they didn't catch me oh they didn't catch
00:00:17 you they never catch me bless her lord we love her we think she's beautiful and wonderful lord
00:00:21 and we think that she uh what she's doing is is it's controversial but i actually think it's
00:00:25 kind of cool but the last time i signed up for a dating app okay i had to sign off when the guy
00:00:31 told me he wanted to drink my dirty bath water what's up guys today we are at the world cup and
00:00:36 we're going to be asking the swedish and the japanese about how dating is in different cultures
00:00:41 starting with why do japanese women cheat so much like the video and let's get started hi what's
00:00:48 your name joffrey nice to meet you i'm pro thank you who are you rooting for today uh probably
00:00:54 japan okay yeah yeah so today because i'm i love what they've done oh really yeah you're not having
00:01:00 what so today we're asking people about dating from their perspective cultures are you american
00:01:06 i am okay have you dated internationally have you noticed any differences no i've not dated
00:01:11 internationally though i've traveled internationally oh yeah yeah i married an american girl okay yeah
00:01:16 You want to come on?
00:01:21 Yeah, let's see.
00:01:23 Okay, so...
00:01:24 Okay, do you speak English?
00:01:26 A little bit.
00:01:27 A little bit.
00:01:27 So, online, it says that in Japan, cheating isn't a big deal.
00:01:33 Is that true or is it untrue? 0.91
00:01:35 Unfortunately, it's true.
00:01:37 It's true?
00:01:37 It's not a big deal.
00:01:39 So, if you were dating somebody and they cheated, do you care?
00:01:42 Of course I care.
00:01:42 Oh, so you care?
00:01:43 I care, of course.
00:01:44 but where you're from nobody else does you're alone in that sorry so where you're from nobody
00:01:50 else cares like are you the only one that does or i think for women they cares but i don't know
00:01:58 they they cares but they do cheat yeah i do cheat i cheated too oh really well who do you
00:02:05 who do you usually cheat with is it someone at work is it friends okay it was friends yeah and
00:02:13 do like your boyfriend or partner do they get angry or do they just not care they didn't catch
00:02:18 me oh they didn't catch you they never catch me well they did now is it on tv or is it yeah it's
00:02:25 on tv okay i think i need some time it's okay um so tell me what are the differences about dating
00:02:33 in Japan versus that's different than America? Good question. I think dating with Japanese
00:02:43 people, you need to be more, like, more girly, more lady, like acting more ladies, but dating 0.97
00:02:53 with America, I think I can be more myself. Okay. Yeah. So you think you have to be more
00:02:58 girly with the men in Japan or they won't date you? Yes. They have, we, if we dating with Japanese
00:03:04 people, you have to be their, how do you say, their type. Okay. But in here, I like someone who 1.00
00:03:12 loves myself. Okay. Yeah. Do you prefer to date Japanese men or American men? I would like to
00:03:18 date with a mix. American and Japanese mix. Okay. Do you want to stay in America? Like,
00:03:23 would you ever move here? Of course, I want to stay here. Okay. I'm going back to Japan soon.
00:03:27 okay do you have an instagram maybe maybe a japanese american guy will see this of course
00:03:31 you won't cheat on him right i won't in the future yes i will never i will never
00:03:37 promise finger i will never cheat in the future okay okay what's your instagram
00:03:43 uh m-i-s-a-c-o-d-a-y-o i'm okay because they are watching me i'm shy they think i'm i'm a
00:03:53 Oh, it's okay.
00:03:56 Sorry, thank you.
00:03:57 Thank you.
00:03:57 We're asking people from other countries how dating is different in other countries versus America.
00:04:03 And I'd love to get your opinion.
00:04:05 Will you talk about it?
00:04:06 Because of America, I cannot answer.
00:04:08 I don't know.
00:04:09 Oh, you don't know because you're only visiting?
00:04:11 Yeah.
00:04:12 And you haven't dated anyone in America.
00:04:13 No.
00:04:14 So, okay, I have a question.
00:04:16 In America, the marriage rate is very short.
00:04:19 Like, people don't stay married long.
00:04:21 Is that similar in Germany?
00:04:23 yeah and people aren't really having kids anymore is that similar yeah i would say
00:04:29 people are getting married yeah very average age so like at the age from 13 to 14 yeah yeah 1.00
00:04:38 getting getting kids it's also very rare situation yeah do you think that german women are better
00:04:45 than american women and if so why it's a good question actually i'm russian so i have russian
00:04:54 roots but i think it's mentality so it's more american mentality is different okay how so
00:05:00 yeah like more free without rules okay so there's more rules in germany and russia
00:05:07 in germany many formalities yeah okay can you walk me through maybe a few yes definitely
00:05:13 yeah when you want to see each other for example you you need to have an appointment you have to
00:05:20 have an appointment for a first date yeah because german people are very busy oh and you guys are
00:05:25 always on time yes yes yes and you need to schedule the appointment okay so are you single or are you
00:05:30 in a relationship yeah i'm at the moment single you're single okay so if someone wants to go on
00:05:35 a date with you how far in advance do they have to schedule it yeah i it's a very good question
00:05:42 because I haven't been dating German people.
00:05:45 Who do you date? 1.00
00:05:46 Yeah, because it's a different mentality, as I said.
00:05:50 Okay.
00:05:50 Yeah.
00:05:51 So what's your favorite country to date?
00:05:54 I would say Slavic.
00:05:56 Slavic, yes. 0.94
00:05:57 Okay, and what's better about Slavic guys than German guys?
00:06:00 You have like familial relationships. 0.95
00:06:03 Okay, so they're more long-term 0.89
00:06:04 where German men are maybe more casual? 0.99
00:06:06 Yeah, I would say more casual
00:06:08 and they want to have a family, build a family, that's why.
00:06:12 Oh, okay. So they're more family-oriented, and the men in Germany are their fuckboys? 0.99
00:06:18 I don't know. It's difficult for me to say, but yeah, they want to be... 0.97
00:06:23 So the women want to be independent, the men want to be independent as well,
00:06:28 and that's not their Slavic mentality. 0.98
00:06:30 Okay, you're more of a traditional woman.
00:06:32 Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:06:33 And would you say that's more common for women with Russian roots,
00:06:37 that they're a little bit more traditional-minded?
00:06:39 or you are you by yourself are you the only one i would say more by myself
00:06:44 russian from europe yeah well if someone on the channel sees this and wants to you know
00:06:51 message you on instagram do you want to tell them yeah oh good good question yeah um hello from
00:06:58 delos okay all right thanks so much thanks so much is this true can you tell me about it yes 0.73
00:07:05 How is, um, so Japan's rated number one for cheating. 0.95
00:07:09 Is that true? 1.00
00:07:10 I mean, that's true.
00:07:13 It is?
00:07:13 You know what's true?
00:07:14 Texas, in the economy, is bigger than Japan. 0.60
00:07:16 So go Texas.
00:07:18 Go, y'all.
00:07:19 Go Texas.
00:07:20 Okay.
00:07:21 Where are you from?
00:07:22 Turkey.
00:07:22 Hi.
00:07:23 I'm Pearl.
00:07:24 I'm Pearl.
00:07:25 I know.
00:07:26 Yeah.
00:07:27 You had an interview with Andrew Tate.
00:07:29 Yeah, I did.
00:07:30 So you're from Turkey.
00:07:31 Are you both?
00:07:32 Yeah.
00:07:33 So, okay, tell me, how is dating different in Turkey than here?
00:07:37 In big cities like Istanbul or east part of Turkey, I mean west part of Turkey, it's pretty much same like in America.
00:07:44 Okay.
00:07:44 But east part of Turkey, it's more religious and they're more tied to the tradition.
00:07:50 I would say that's the...
00:07:52 It's like south in America and east of Turkey are the same.
00:07:56 And west and big cities in America, west Turkey and big cities in America, they're pretty much same. 1.00
00:08:01 are the women less um fat whores there like yeah is it going 1.00
00:08:07 no no no i'm saying like in america in america we're overweight the women are very modern like 0.98
00:08:15 is it more traditional where you're from not in istanbul istanbul is modern okay it's very
00:08:20 modern yeah so is the birth rate going down there too no not as much no we have a lot of
00:08:26 immigration there we have a lot of uh people coming from neighbor countries and turkish people
00:08:32 like to make kids too okay it's what is what is first date culture there do you are you guys
00:08:37 meeting on dating apps is it more arranged schools okay bars dating apps we have the dating apps over
00:08:46 there too and do you prefer the women there or the women here whoever's hotter
00:08:51 thank you guys thank you thank you yeah yeah yeah can you guys tell me about dating in sweden
00:08:59 what's dating like in sweden yeah hard all right gonna come talk about it true or not true
00:09:07 come talk about it come talk about it
00:09:12 come talk about it okay so where are you from we're from colombia okay so today we're talking
00:09:21 about dating how is dating different in colombia versus america okay well definitely colombian men
00:09:29 are red flags they're red flags i marry a gringo is that a white guy very white from boston okay
00:09:37 so what made you marry someone that's american versus i'm from colombia because they're not
00:09:42 jealous because they help you at home because they let you be here spending time with my best
00:09:48 friend and if I was dating or marry a Colombian guy I was definitely not being here. And would 1.00
00:09:54 you say that you're more traditional or modern minded? We're very modern minded with traditional
00:10:01 base also like a little bit of both. Okay so can you tell me in what ways you're more traditional
00:10:05 and what ways you're more modern? Well traditional we are very loyal to each other we respect each
00:10:11 other we don't like you know and modern is like I could be out with my friends and I don't have
00:10:18 him texting me like 5,000 times because he trusted me, correct. Do you guys have kids? Two. Two kids,
00:10:24 yeah. Okay, so next question. Oh, wait, what about you? No, I'm not married. You're not married? Are
00:10:30 you dating? No, nothing. Okay, so what do you think men appreciate about dating women from your
00:10:39 country um i think we're very family based very very family based and we yeah like veronica said
00:10:48 like we are very trusty who cheats more american men no all men all men but american men or from
00:10:58 colombia yeah well but latin americans definitely are more like like flirty flirty what is your 0.94
00:11:08 craziest dating story no do you have one no i don't you don't we're boring we're very traditional 0.94
00:11:18 in that way okay thank you guys thank you bye so why do japanese women cheat so often yeah so
00:11:27 there's studies that come out that say japanese women are number one for cheating and we want to
00:11:32 know if it's true or not because we're not from there we have no idea i also actually never dated
00:11:36 with Japanese women, so I don't know, to be honest, yeah, sorry. Do you know people from there?
00:11:41 Yeah, yeah. And we've heard here that in Japan, like, cheating isn't a big deal.
00:11:46 Is that true? I don't want to spread any misunderstanding, wrong information
00:11:51 about it, so I'll say. I'll keep going, yeah, about it, sorry, yeah. Have you noticed any
00:11:58 difference between Japanese and American women? Yeah. And what are the differences? 1.00
00:12:03 I also never date with American women, so just, yeah, I just can't tell too much, but just Japanese women are more, sorry, I feel, sorry, I don't feel comfortable answering that question. 0.99
00:12:20 Okay, no problem. 0.99
00:12:21 Sorry.
00:12:21 That's okay. Have a good one.
00:12:23 Did you tell me a little bit about dating in your country, how it's different than America?
00:12:27 Dating?
00:12:28 Yeah, dating.
00:12:30 You need a more specific question.
00:12:31 We just want to know, is it more traditional in Latin America than America? 0.99
00:12:37 And how are the women different? 1.00
00:12:40 Essentially, they like dancing better. 1.00
00:12:44 Okay, they're better dancers?
00:12:45 Yeah, it's not like just movies and dinner.
00:12:48 It's party, dancing, walking.
00:12:52 So on a first date, you guys might go dancing, or in America, you go to dinner.
00:12:57 Yeah, I mean, you can say that.
00:12:59 I mean, you can go have dinner also as well,
00:13:01 but maybe you can have another plan, like go to dance,
00:13:04 have some drinks, you know.
00:13:07 Also, different, it's like you need to know her family.
00:13:12 Okay.
00:13:12 There's no dating apps, no, like, Tinder?
00:13:15 Yeah, there is.
00:13:18 He's like, I don't have to know their family.
00:13:21 Why is here?
00:13:24 Yeah, there's a lot of apps, but...
00:13:25 What?
00:13:26 There's a lot of apps.
00:13:27 Okay.
00:13:28 But I think dating where we live is more traditional, I would say.
00:13:32 More face-to-face people you meet in the bar, in the school, in the streets. 0.63
00:13:37 War.
00:13:38 I have some friends dating at work. 0.98
00:13:42 In America, there's a big hook-up culture.
00:13:45 Is that the same in Mexico, or is it more like people wait?
00:13:48 I would say it's the same, yeah.
00:13:49 It's the same?
00:13:49 Yeah.
00:13:50 It's pretty similar.
00:13:51 Do people usually hook up on the first date, second date, third date?
00:13:54 You need to ask more friends.
00:13:56 Come on, you are very experienced in that.
00:14:01 No, it's, I mean, you can have like one night and that's it.
00:14:06 And maybe after three, you are more interested in her.
00:14:10 Maybe you need to wait a little bit more, like two or three weeks.
00:14:13 Do you prefer Mexican women or American women? 0.99
00:14:16 No right or wrong answers. 1.00
00:14:18 No, Mexican. 1.00
00:14:19 Is it because they're more traditional?
00:14:22 Yeah, and also the culture, I think, is a little different, you know.
00:14:25 so my girlfriend is mexican so yeah okay well thank you guys i'm pearl
00:14:30 oh this is um there's a study that came out that says japanese women cheat the most
00:14:37 so it's asking if japanese women cheat the most if that's true or not true
00:14:41 oh really and how is it going so far uh we had a japanese woman say yes she does cheat
00:14:48 so that's what she said you can say they're more honest what they are more honest yeah
00:14:54 Do you think that's common in Mexico?
00:14:59 Who do you think cheats more?
00:15:00 Mexicans or Americans?
00:15:02 I have never met an American girl. 1.00
00:15:07 There should be a lot of cheaters in Mexico. 1.00
00:15:11 But it's not that common to accept it publicly, you know?
00:15:16 Is it true that men in Latin America have second families?
00:15:20 I've heard stories.
00:15:23 Okay, thank you guys.
00:15:24 well where are you from are you from texas okay so who are you you're rooting for japan today
00:15:31 yeah i am how has dating been in texas dating been in texas yeah are you are you hoping to
00:15:37 meet a japanese guy a swedish guy i mean you wouldn't be mad right i wouldn't be against it
00:15:44 i wouldn't be against it but i mean i just like that there's like a lot of different people from
00:15:50 different cultures like just having a good time and coming together over like soccer
00:15:53 because, like, I actually really am not a huge fan of soccer,
00:15:57 but I think, like, the hype of everybody, like, on social media kind of got me into it.
00:16:00 Do you prefer to date American men or international men?
00:16:07 All I've dated is American men, but I guess if I find a connection,
00:16:10 a good connection with an international guy, then sure, why not?
00:16:14 Okay, so you'd be more open to it.
00:16:15 Yeah, for sure, for sure.
00:16:16 And would it be Japanese or Swedish if you had a preference? 0.95
00:16:20 Probably Japanese. 0.96
00:16:21 Japanese?
00:16:21 Yeah, yeah.
00:16:22 Okay, well, good luck out there.
00:16:23 All right, thank you so much.
00:16:24 Have a good one.
00:16:25 Where are you guys from?
00:16:27 Oklahoma.
00:16:28 Oklahoma.
00:16:28 Do you want to tell me about dating in Oklahoma?
00:16:31 Do what?
00:16:31 How's dating in Oklahoma?
00:16:33 30 seconds?
00:16:34 30 seconds?
00:16:35 I don't date.
00:16:38 Okay.
00:16:39 She's been with the same guy for a few years.
00:16:41 Really?
00:16:41 Is that normal in Oklahoma?
00:16:43 Like people are more traditional, date longer?
00:16:46 Ah, it just kind of, I don't know.
00:16:49 I don't know.
00:16:50 Oh, you don't know?
00:16:51 It's just average.
00:16:51 it's just average like nothing special i'm sorry okay all right have a good one guys
00:16:56 okay that's all right what i don't know that i want to be on tv okay but the last time i signed
00:17:08 up for a dating app okay i had to sign off when the guy told me he wanted to drink my dirty bath
00:17:13 water oh wow so there you go for fails and getting off dating apps would you be more open to an
00:17:19 international guy like meeting here today yeah sure would you is would that be a preference like
00:17:24 would you want to meet a swedish guy japanese guy i wouldn't want to meet a man who has evolved
00:17:30 to where they are willing to meet the same equal household duties along with the financial duties 0.75
00:17:37 so if they have leveled up to that aspect i don't care what nationality or what country they're from
00:17:43 okay you don't have a physical preference though not really no no all right cool well thank you 0.99
00:17:47 So it says, why do Japanese women cheat so much? 1.00
00:17:52 Because they were ranked number one in cheating, 1.00
00:17:54 and we want to know if people think that's true or not true.
00:17:57 Ah, okay, I don't know.
00:17:58 Where are you from?
00:17:59 Argentina.
00:18:00 Argentina. 1.00
00:18:00 So can you tell me, what's the difference between dating American women
00:18:04 and Argentinian women? 1.00
00:18:08 The Argentinian women, they are so pretty. 1.00
00:18:11 Okay. 0.97
00:18:12 But they are not very, how do you say it in English? 0.76
00:18:19 Sympaticas.
00:18:20 Here in the United States, you can talk with everyone, girls,
00:18:23 but in Argentina, the girls know. 0.95
00:18:25 They're not as friendly? 1.00
00:18:26 Yeah, they are not friendly.
00:18:27 Okay, so if a man is an American and he wants to go to Argentina
00:18:31 to meet better women, would you recommend it or no?
00:18:36 Yeah, absolutely. 1.00
00:18:36 Because there are a lot of ladies, very, very beautiful women. 1.00
00:18:41 And would you say they're more feminine and traditional there?
00:18:45 No, they are very serious.
00:18:48 They are not very good friendly.
00:18:50 Do they want to make their own...
00:18:52 Where are you from?
00:18:52 I'm from America.
00:18:53 Ah, okay.
00:18:54 But we're curious about other places.
00:18:56 So we want to know, do they want to make their own money there,
00:18:58 or do they want to have kids and have a family?
00:19:01 Yeah, absolutely.
00:19:02 Which one?
00:19:05 Argentina.
00:19:06 No, no, no. 1.00
00:19:07 Do the women in Argentina... 1.00
00:19:08 In Argentina, in America, women want to make money and not have kids. 1.00
00:19:12 In Argentina, do they want to have kids or do they want to make money? 1.00
00:19:15 Yeah, they want to have family with kids.
00:19:18 Okay, so they get married younger, they have more kids there?
00:19:21 Yeah.
00:19:21 Okay.
00:19:23 What is a typical first date in Argentina?
00:19:26 Dancing.
00:19:27 Dancing, okay.
00:19:28 Here is dinner, I know.
00:19:30 Here is dinner and there is dancing.
00:19:32 Do you prefer the American first dates or the ones in Argentina?
00:19:37 I don't know.
00:19:38 If you're going to be with you, you're going to go to dancing.
00:19:41 Okay. 0.68
00:19:42 Have you ever dated an international woman?
00:19:45 No, I haven't. 1.00
00:19:46 From another country. 1.00
00:19:47 Is that something you would want to do today?
00:19:49 Like, would you be open to meeting a woman from Japan or Sweden?
00:19:53 Yeah, I wouldn't be opposed to it.
00:19:56 Do you have friends that have dated?
00:19:58 Have you dated an international woman?
00:20:00 No, they're all in the States, yeah. 0.73
00:20:02 All in the States.
00:20:03 We're trying to figure out the differences in dating between international and in America.
00:20:06 Yeah, so kind of ask for people's experiences.
00:20:09 Are you going to play volleyball while you're here?
00:20:12 Uh, no.
00:20:15 Hi there, how are you?
00:20:16 We were hearing that you were doing an interview for the purpose of dating.
00:20:21 Yes.
00:20:21 And asking the differences in different countries.
00:20:23 Yes.
00:20:24 And ask what your country, where are you from?
00:20:25 I'm American.
00:20:26 You're American.
00:20:27 How would I ever guess that like you told him? 0.86
00:20:29 I don't know.
00:20:31 Okay, what part of America?
00:20:33 You like some close by here in Dallas, Fort Worth?
00:20:35 I know I'm from the Midwest.
00:20:37 From the Midwest.
00:20:37 Okay, that's close enough.
00:20:39 And so you're asking what question exactly?
00:20:42 So there's a study that came out.
00:20:45 Well, I kind of tailor it to who I'm talking to,
00:20:47 but there was a study that came out that Japanese women cheat the most.
00:20:50 And we want to know if they think it's true or not. 1.00
00:20:52 Oh, okay.
00:20:53 I wouldn't know anything about that.
00:20:55 But personally, I'm a Christian.
00:20:57 Okay.
00:20:57 So my point of view, and I met my wife on a Christian website.
00:21:01 Okay.
00:21:01 So we did learn a little bit about the aspect of dating and things
00:21:05 and learning about people through the online experience.
00:21:08 Okay.
00:21:09 But we would never ask that kind of a question.
00:21:12 Why was that question so important to you, being faithful or not being faithful?
00:21:16 Okay.
00:21:17 Do you have a Christian background yourself?
00:21:20 Yes.
00:21:20 Oh, you do?
00:21:21 Yes.
00:21:22 So do you think it's right or wrong?
00:21:24 Cheating?
00:21:24 To be faithful, cheating, yeah.
00:21:25 I'd say it's wrong.
00:21:27 You say it's wrong.
00:21:27 Okay, very good.
00:21:29 Well, I'm just very curious why you would ask that particular question.
00:21:33 I want to.
00:21:34 Okay, you want to.
00:21:35 Yes.
00:21:35 Any other questions that you would have that would be about dating?
00:21:38 Is that the only question?
00:21:40 Well, we're going from more of an international point of view,
00:21:42 so we're asking the differences in different countries.
00:21:45 Okay, I'm confused, but interesting question. 0.99
00:21:48 Do you think women should obey their husbands? 0.99
00:21:50 I do.
00:21:51 I believe it's biblical.
00:21:53 Okay.
00:21:53 Not like out of necessity, but they should be able to follow his lead
00:22:01 is really the point that the Bible's making.
00:22:04 Men should follow or women should follow. 0.65
00:22:07 Which do you think? 0.92
00:22:09 So do you think that the man should decide how many kids the family has?
00:22:13 I think it should be a joint effort to know that both people are involved.
00:22:18 Both of them will be having the job of raising the child,
00:22:21 so they should both be involved in that answer.
00:22:23 Right, but there's a disagreement.
00:22:25 A disagreement about the two?
00:22:26 He wants three, she wants one.
00:22:28 Okay. I would say women, it's their body, right? I mean, they have the ability to prevent that if 1.00
00:22:35 they want to by medications and things like that, right? So they can do that, but I think they should
00:22:41 be in harmony if they're going to have a child. So maybe they could compromise with two.
00:22:46 Do women ever compromise though? 1.00
00:22:49 They can, yes. 1.00
00:22:50 But like generally?
00:22:51 They can compromise. Of course they can.
00:22:53 But if they did, wouldn't, you know, I feel a little...
00:22:56 If they really love their husband as they should, I think they would let their husband do what he wishes.
00:23:02 If he wants a large family and she doesn't, then if he can afford it, then absolutely.
00:23:07 What would you say that the woman should do if the husband and the pastor disagree? 0.59
00:23:12 Husband and the pastor.
00:23:13 So the husband says one thing and the pastor or priest, depending on your denomination, says another.
00:23:19 I would say whichever is more biblical. 0.86
00:23:21 If the pastor is in agreement, and I believe the scriptures do say that the woman should follow the man's lead. 0.89
00:23:29 So I would say if the pastor is doing his job, he should be able to convince the husband that it's best to be the leader and decide how many children. 0.79
00:23:39 No, but they disagree.
00:23:41 This happens all the time in churches.
00:23:42 But I would say the pastor should be able to give him a biblical reason for following the pastor's decision.
00:23:48 He disagrees with them.
00:23:50 yeah he the pastor gave his reason the husband doesn't agree what does the wife do the wife
00:23:57 should uh listen to her husband okay always awesome always yeah awesome great okay all right
00:24:03 any more uh i'm talking on one i don't mind uh i think that's all i got right now but thank you
00:24:12 my name's greg what's your name nice to meet you i'm pearl pearl nice to meet you my wife nice to
00:24:16 Me too.
00:24:17 For Greg and Don.
00:24:18 So we're out here today just telling people about Jesus and that they are loved by him
00:24:22 and that they should be willing to even agree with him,
00:24:27 even if there's something that's not quite right about the Bible or whatever.
00:24:31 They should look to a relationship with Jesus, that he loves them and he died on the cross for them.
00:24:36 Great.
00:24:37 And so I'm going to give you a million-dollar bill so you're being so kind.
00:24:40 Okay.
00:24:40 And on the back of it, it just asks, if you died today, Pearl, would you go to heaven or would you go to hell?
00:24:46 I'd go to heaven.
00:24:47 You'd go to heaven?
00:24:48 Yeah.
00:24:48 But based on what information?
00:24:50 My life.
00:24:51 How do you know?
00:24:52 I just know.
00:24:53 Is it your goodness that gets you to heaven, or is it Jesus' goodness?
00:24:56 Jesus.
00:24:56 Okay.
00:24:57 Always trust in what Jesus did on the cross and paying for your sin.
00:25:01 Because you didn't die, right?
00:25:02 No.
00:25:03 He died.
00:25:03 You didn't.
00:25:04 So trust in what Jesus did on the cross.
00:25:07 Okay.
00:25:08 I will.
00:25:08 God bless you.
00:25:09 God bless.
00:25:09 Nice to meet you.
00:25:10 Nice to meet you.
00:25:12 How's it going, guys?
00:25:13 You got the mic?
00:25:14 Yeah.
00:25:14 I know who you are.
00:25:17 Jesus loves you guys.
00:25:18 That's all I have to say.
00:25:20 Who are you guys?
00:25:21 Are you guys from Texas?
00:25:22 Yeah.
00:25:23 All right.
00:25:24 Okay.
00:25:25 So there was a study that came out.
00:25:26 I don't know if this is relevant to you guys,
00:25:28 that Japanese women cheat the most. 0.81
00:25:29 And we want to know if it's true or not. 1.00
00:25:33 Oh.
00:25:34 Because we've heard that in Japan.
00:25:36 We don't know.
00:25:37 Yeah, I know.
00:25:37 We didn't say they preached the gospel
00:25:38 and bring the love of Jesus to everybody.
00:25:40 Wow, wow, wow.
00:25:41 Yeah, I never heard that.
00:25:42 You earned one of these, sir.
00:25:44 I'm rich now.
00:25:45 Wow.
00:25:46 what what what is so you guys are in what a church together
00:25:51 tell me the okay so tell me the difference between dating in the church and outside of the church
00:25:58 is it is it our first dates a little i'm married i met my wife preaching the gospel in the streets
00:26:06 the word of god says see first the kingdom of god and everything else will be added to you so i did
00:26:11 that my wife did that separately and then we met preaching the gospel as far as what everyone else
00:26:15 does that claims to be a Christian we don't know so how did what was you guys
00:26:18 his first date it was actually while we were preaching the gospel we decided to
00:26:23 go eat okay and we just had dinner and God bless who made the first move her
00:26:28 are you I did you guys single in a relationship my husband on his way how
00:26:39 did you guys did you guys meet your husband and boyfriend in the church or
00:26:43 outside of the church and how did you guys meet um well he pursued me he said yeah you know so we
00:26:49 went on a date and now christ is in the center of that so yeah can you tell me how day to day
00:26:55 what it looks like that's different from other people like when christ is the center of your
00:26:59 relationship so first we encounter the lord so whatever the lord wants to do in our relationship
00:27:04 we let him leave right so day to day it'd be like i let him leave because he's a man so
00:27:11 whatever he has planned
00:27:13 how can you allow someone to lead
00:27:15 don't they just do it or they don't
00:27:17 as a woman I want to submit to my 0.99
00:27:19 future husband
00:27:20 so do you obey him in all things
00:27:23 if he's being led by the
00:27:27 Lord it makes it easier for her
00:27:29 to maybe be led
00:27:31 but who gets to decide if he's following God
00:27:33 because you know
00:27:34 I'm in touch with this
00:27:36 those are very good questions
00:27:38 so everything needs to be in alignment with the word of god right so why in the world i will follow
00:27:46 someone if what he does is not in alignment with the word of god but here's a big key
00:27:50 the big key is do you know the word well my question is it the woman's job to police if
00:27:57 he's following god no i would say in a healthy relationship there is no police there is trust
00:28:05 That's the difference between the world versus actually the covenant that people are under, that Jesus' blood.
00:28:12 Is it okay for a woman to tell her husband what to do?
00:28:17 Well, sometimes husband might need actually guidance too.
00:28:20 Sometimes the woman is the one that is listening from the Holy Spirit,
00:28:23 and she can say an input, and if the husband has got...
00:28:27 Yeah, yeah, go ahead. 0.72
00:28:28 I don't think either person should be domineering over the other one.
00:28:31 I'm one that does speak on, like, hey, the man's the head, like the word says, and it does say wives submit to your husbands.
00:28:37 I've seen you talk about this, too.
00:28:39 But the thing is, is it also says that women, I mean, husbands and wives should submit to one another in Christ and in love.
00:28:46 So honestly, if you're guiding each other in love, like, it should be an agreement.
00:28:51 And it should be like, hey, at the end of the day, if there's an important decision to make and I got to make it, my wife will honor that, you know.
00:28:57 But at the end of the day, like, if she has input and wants to lead in something and, you know, we talk about it and I don't feel like it's the wrong thing, I'm not going to oppress her and tell her she has no say so.
00:29:08 No, we're not saying she has no say, but at the end of the day, when there's two people, one's got to drive the wheel.
00:29:13 Yeah, one's got to make the final decision.
00:29:15 When it gets real, she'll let me lead because she obeys what the Word says.
00:29:18 We're non-denominational Christians, so we believe in the Word of God and the Holy Spirit.
00:29:22 We're not Catholics or Methodists or any of those things where they have their own guidance.
00:29:26 We just follow the word and the word says the man is the head as Christ is the head of the church. 0.71
00:29:31 And as the church submits to Christ, women submit to their husbands. 0.96
00:29:33 So in a perfect world, that would always be the case. 0.99
00:29:36 My wife always liked that.
00:29:37 Or am I always really gentle?
00:29:38 No, but we're supposed to be.
00:29:40 Right. 1.00
00:29:40 So if women can tell their husbands what to do, wouldn't that mean that husbands get less obedience than bosses do? 1.00
00:29:48 Because you would never tell your boss what to do.
00:29:51 Yeah, I've touched on that before.
00:29:54 But at the end of the day, what I've learned is that if me and my wife kneel before the Lord in prayer and seek his will,
00:30:00 then we usually get along pretty well and none of those issues pop up.
00:30:04 But if we're doing things in our own strength or if we make our minds God and we follow our thoughts
00:30:08 and we don't try to follow the Holy Spirit, then we're not being led by the Spirit of God.
00:30:12 We're being led by our own ideas.
00:30:14 And that's not what we're supposed to do.
00:30:15 So like a real Christian follows the Holy Spirit, not just words. 0.92
00:30:19 Could you tell your wife to shut up?
00:30:21 I wouldn't. 0.95
00:30:22 If I do, I'm out of order.
00:30:23 I could ask her to be quiet 0.91
00:30:25 If I did it nicely she probably would 1.00
00:30:27 No but if she wouldn't
00:30:28 She keeps trying to talk to you
00:30:31 I don't think it's honoring to do that 0.97
00:30:32 To tell your wife to shut up
00:30:34 Is it immoral?
00:30:35 Probably yeah I don't think you're supposed to speak
00:30:37 It's the word of God says not to deal with your wife in a harsh way
00:30:40 Yeah but sometimes
00:30:42 You know
00:30:43 Maybe she's nagging
00:30:45 She won't stop
00:30:46 Yeah what I've learned is if I'm rough with her she'll be rough
00:30:49 Because we both got saved
00:30:50 We were worldly people
00:30:53 We weren't raised in the church
00:30:54 So what I've learned is if I approach her that way
00:30:57 She's going to come back at me with the same vibe
00:30:59 But if I come to her in love and say
00:31:01 Is that really submission then?
00:31:04 Not really worried about it that much
00:31:06 Aren't you kind of dictating your behavior based on her?
00:31:11 No, I don't
00:31:12 I mean, I take her into consideration
00:31:14 But I follow the Lord and His lead
00:31:16 And today she didn't want to come out here and preach the gospel
00:31:18 But I did, and she was cool with it
00:31:20 So y'all have a blessed day
00:31:22 Cool, you too. Bye-bye.
00:31:24 Can we pray for you, Pearl?
00:31:25 Yeah, you're welcome to.
00:31:26 Can we really?
00:31:27 Yeah.
00:31:28 Hey, y'all want to pray for Pearl?
00:31:29 Yeah, let's pray for Pearl.
00:31:31 What's her name?
00:31:31 She said we can.
00:31:32 What's her name?
00:31:33 This is Pearl.
00:31:33 Yeah, I'm Pearl.
00:31:35 Can I pray over you?
00:31:36 Yeah.
00:31:37 I notice you have a Japanese sign.
00:31:38 I do.
00:31:39 I can pray in Japanese.
00:31:40 Oh, okay.
00:31:41 No way.
00:31:42 Okay.
00:31:42 Are you with our group?
00:31:43 But we don't know who you're with.
00:31:44 I have no idea who you are, but I love Jesus, and I go around just telling people about Jesus.
00:31:48 That's cool that you're here.
00:31:49 I feel a blessing.
00:31:49 Can we pray now?
00:31:50 all right yeah go ahead all right cool lord i just lift up uh pearl to you god we all do lord we
00:31:58 bless her or we love her we think she's beautiful and wonderful lord and we think that she uh what
00:32:02 she's doing is is it's controversial but i actually think it's kind of cool to challenge
00:32:06 people and to be uh their beliefs and to make them uh speak what they stand on and to see if
00:32:11 there's genuine lord i do believe lord that god is not a feminist so i do like that she does not
00:32:16 exalt feminism lord but i do bless her lord and i do bless you lord as sovereign over our lives i
00:32:21 pray that you would lead her life as you lead ours as she would receive the holy spirit lord
00:32:25 that you would fill her with the holy spirit and that she would make disciples lord after she
00:32:28 becomes one lord so i just pray in jesus name that the blood of christ lord the revelation of the
00:32:33 blood of christ that washes sins away lord be manifest to her lord and that she would have
00:32:37 learned to become obedient to you and not have fear of man or not think about so much of obedience
00:32:43 to men, Lord, but that she would have obedience
00:32:45 to you, Lord God. In Jesus' name,
00:32:47 Lord, we bless you, and we thank you for what you're going to do
00:32:49 in her life, which you've already done, Lord,
00:32:50 and we bless her with protection and provision,
00:32:53 Lord, in Jesus' name. Amen.
00:32:55 Thank you. Thank you for her, Lord Jesus.
00:32:57 Thanks, guys. Can I be in your video?
00:32:59 Can I bless you? There is a scripture
00:33:01 at the end. I want you to read
00:33:03 that one right there, Romans. Okay.
00:33:05 No, you can read all of them. Okay.
00:33:07 When this is real, I don't know
00:33:08 what country it's from, but that's yours too.
00:33:11 Someone gave it to me, so now I'm giving it to you.
00:33:12 Wow, that's all I've ever wanted.
00:33:15 All right, what's up, guys?
00:33:17 You got 30 seconds to talk?
00:33:20 Are you guys from Texas?
00:33:21 Yeah, we are.
00:33:22 Big D, baby, Big D.
00:33:23 Big D, baby.
00:33:24 Okay, are you guys together?
00:33:25 Yes.
00:33:25 Somewhat.
00:33:26 What do you mean somewhat?
00:33:27 Somewhat.
00:33:28 Okay, like situationship, the dating?
00:33:30 No, we love each other very much.
00:33:31 No, we love each other so much.
00:33:32 Okay, so you've been, how long have you guys been together?
00:33:34 Like a week.
00:33:35 Like a week and a half.
00:33:36 How'd you guys meet?
00:33:37 At the pool.
00:33:38 And it was just like love at first sight?
00:33:40 Yeah.
00:33:40 Yeah.
00:33:41 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:33:42 Who made the first move?
00:33:43 She did.
00:33:43 I did, of course.
00:33:44 Okay, and what was it about him that drew him to you?
00:33:48 Well, I was smoking a cigarette, and I was with my friend, and I was like,
00:33:51 all right, I see my future boyfriend over there.
00:33:53 Let me go talk to him.
00:33:53 And so I saw him, and I was like, hey, what book are you reading over there?
00:33:57 He goes, philosophy.
00:33:58 And then we immediately started talking about, like, death and, like, astrology and all that.
00:34:02 Yeah, we're on the same wavelength.
00:34:03 Wow. 0.96
00:34:04 We're both, like, the same type of crazy.
00:34:05 And so it's just been, like, inseparable since?
00:34:08 Basically, yeah.
00:34:09 Yeah, yeah.
00:34:10 Wow.
00:34:10 We've been marathoning it
00:34:12 Okay
00:34:12 Yeah
00:34:13 Essentially
00:34:13 Nowadays like people aren't even getting together
00:34:16 So that's great
00:34:16 I know right
00:34:17 I know it's crazy
00:34:17 That's great
00:34:18 Who needs a label?
00:34:19 What's up with all these labels?
00:34:20 Who needs labels?
00:34:21 Yeah
00:34:21 Love is love
00:34:22 If you're feeling it
00:34:23 Okay so
00:34:23 Today we're talking about the differences
00:34:26 Between dating in other countries and here
00:34:28 Have you guys ever dated someone from another country?
00:34:31 I've dated plenty of people
00:34:33 And I can tell you all about them
00:34:34 What you want to know
00:34:34 What you need to know
00:34:35 Okay Japanese
00:34:36 Have you ever dated a Japanese guy? 0.73
00:34:39 Not yet 0.98
00:34:40 Not yet.
00:34:41 There's a first time.
00:34:42 What do you mean yet?
00:34:42 I thought you just found love.
00:34:43 I had like a situation in school with a Japanese girl.
00:34:47 And was there any difference between people that are international and Americans?
00:34:51 Oh, wait.
00:34:51 What differences did you notice?
00:34:53 Well, the subtle way she like let me know.
00:34:56 Like she would put stickers on my folders.
00:34:59 And I didn't know where the stickers were coming from.
00:35:00 And then I kind of picked up.
00:35:02 And then, yeah, it's very subtle. 1.00
00:35:04 American women are direct. 1.00
00:35:06 Oh, yeah. 1.00
00:35:07 They get what they want.
00:35:08 We got a plan.
00:35:08 They get what they want.
00:35:09 you see these eyes yeah you see these hands definitely know what they want and then
00:35:14 internationally i think they play play the field more what other cultures have you dated
00:35:20 uh who needs a label right i mean talk to gone on a date with like do you have a is he your normal
00:35:30 type you know i don't i don't i can't say i have a type yet i can't say i have a type but you know
00:35:39 I like to experiment
00:35:40 I like to see what's new
00:35:41 I've noticed that
00:35:43 You know
00:35:44 Latin guys 1.00
00:35:45 They're a little bit 1.00
00:35:46 More sensual
00:35:46 They like to dance
00:35:47 They like to move a lot
00:35:48 You know
00:35:48 They want to go wild
00:35:49 You've gotten that answer
00:35:49 A lot today
00:35:50 Yeah yeah
00:35:50 They like to dance
00:35:51 You know
00:35:52 I like to dance
00:35:52 Yeah no
00:35:53 A lot of the people
00:35:54 From Argentina 1.00
00:35:54 The other day
00:35:54 We were dancing with them
00:35:55 Yeah
00:35:55 Yeah
00:35:56 Yeah
00:35:57 Do you think this is
00:35:58 A good place to find love?
00:36:01 It depends on what kind of love
00:36:02 You're looking for
00:36:03 It depends on what you want
00:36:04 But absolutely
00:36:05 Love is everywhere
00:36:06 You can find it
00:36:07 Love is what you make it
00:36:08 It's out there
00:36:08 You just gotta go find it
00:36:09 You've got to go find it.
00:36:10 What country cheats the most?
00:36:12 All of them.
00:36:13 All of them.
00:36:14 Americans.
00:36:14 Men.
00:36:15 Men.
00:36:15 It's not a country. 0.88
00:36:16 Men. 1.00
00:36:17 They're evil. 1.00
00:36:18 Run.
00:36:19 Run.
00:36:19 You love him, though.
00:36:21 Right?
00:36:22 I like him at least.
00:36:23 So much.
00:36:24 Okay, so you say you hate men, but you're cooking and hanging out with him.
00:36:29 Isn't that a little contradictory?
00:36:31 You've got to whip him into shape.
00:36:32 You know what I mean?
00:36:33 You've got to build him up.
00:36:35 There's exceptions.
00:36:36 There's exceptions to the rule.
00:36:37 Not everything is black and white
00:36:39 Okay
00:36:40 Not everything can be black and white
00:36:41 Alright cool guys
00:36:43 Have a good day
00:36:44 Stay cool
00:36:45 You have a girlfriend?
00:36:46 Are you dating?
00:36:48 Right now
00:36:49 Actually
00:36:49 I just got out of a nine month relationship
00:36:51 And I'm single with the Lord right now
00:36:53 Just waiting on Jesus
00:36:54 How did you meet her?
00:36:55 I met her through Facebook
00:36:57 And it was pretty interesting
00:36:58 You know I had a mentor who said
00:36:59 Hey Patrick you're so talented
00:37:01 You need to start a band
00:37:02 So you know I went and started a band
00:37:04 And she was one of the people who contacted me
00:37:06 Okay
00:37:06 Okay, and was she in the same area, same state?
00:37:10 Yeah, she lives in Texas.
00:37:12 Okay, and why did it end? What happened?
00:37:14 We just, we just, actually I'm still praying about it and talking to her,
00:37:19 and if it's the Lord's will, it'll happen.
00:37:20 So it's actually not over yet, I still talk to her almost every day,
00:37:23 but I just feel the Lord so strongly calling me to move to Japan,
00:37:26 and that's just not in her wheelhouse to ever go to Japan,
00:37:28 and I know God's calling me and Jesus comes first.
00:37:31 Okay, all right, well thank you so much.
00:37:33 Yeah, you're welcome.
00:37:33 I appreciate you.