Pearl - When Modern Women Get Dumped (Call-In Show)

00:00:00.000 We tell them to put off family and a marriage.

00:00:02.080 You are allowed to leave your perfect husband.

00:00:04.840 You are allowed to end a relationship with a really great boyfriend.

00:00:09.260 Oh, freeze your ex, have an abortion.

00:00:11.040 What? You're evil.

00:00:12.300 I don't think there's anything else in life that we actually ever go into preparing to fail.

00:00:16.180 Like if you have the mentality of this is going to go wrong and be pessimistic,

00:00:20.280 naturally the outcome is going to be that it's going to fail anyway.

00:00:23.020 It's self-sabotage.

00:00:23.940 That's the thing, like women are so willing to leave marriages because they're not happy.

00:00:27.720 This is not about happiness.

00:00:29.180 The most important thing is the children, and the problem is we have a modern society where it's me, me, me, my feelings, leave when I feel like it, instead of doing what's best for the kids.

00:00:40.400 This myth that we live in an age of male privilege, where's my male privilege?

00:00:44.120 They think, well, men have all the rights, they have all the power.

00:00:46.940 Privilege, patriarchal system that we have.

00:00:49.220 Why doesn't our society care about men's rights?

00:00:51.860 I have no friends, no white, and no social life.

00:00:54.900 Men are alone in this situation.

00:00:57.040 Men are homeless.

00:00:57.960 Men are thinking about eating guns.

00:00:59.780 I've seen so many men on the brink of suicide and they didn't do anything wrong.

00:01:04.180 How are you equal if the men are the ones that have to fight and die to defend the country?

00:01:09.600 The men are the ones that build and maintain all the infrastructure.

00:01:13.500 Women are helplessly dependent upon men.

00:01:16.100 The so-called deaths of despair from suicide, overdose to alcohol, three times higher among men than among women.

00:01:22.940 Culture is telling men you are no good. You've got to get your act together. I think men have failed themselves. What kind of a man are you?

00:01:28.780 What kind of a woman are you going to attract if men are in trouble?

00:01:32.560 So are women. Everybody knows this is a huge problem, but nobody wants to admit it. Every single woman at the table said they wanted a man

00:01:39.560 $500,000. $500,000. $300,000. $200,000. Am I crazy?

00:01:42.620 Everything is really set up against you to fail as a man. If men make less than women, women don't want to marry them.

00:01:48.460 So you know who wants more economically and emotionally viable men?

00:01:52.640 Women.

00:01:54.120 I don't want to be an independent woman anymore.

00:01:56.260 I don't want to be a strong, independent woman.

00:01:58.520 I'm over it.

00:01:59.680 When is it going to be my turn?

00:02:00.980 Where are we meeting the men that don't stop?

00:02:02.740 I can't keep having these same conversations.

00:02:05.520 The only simp here is you, Pearl. You simp for men.

00:02:07.220 No, I think you simp for women.

00:02:08.840 She's a provocateur. She says stupid stuff.

00:02:10.980 But Pearl is right about this.

00:02:12.240 It's already happening. It's just not out in the open yet.

00:02:14.800 Now it's just hookup culture is going to be our fairytale ending

00:02:17.480 because men don't want a wife and women can't find a husband.

00:02:20.540 The future, if everybody follows your path, is there is no future.

00:02:24.800 We go into population decline and our economy goes into decline.

00:02:28.720 Civilization will crumble.

00:02:30.440 The American story does not end well.

00:02:32.980 This is an existential crisis failing young men.

00:02:39.660 All right, what's going on, everybody?

00:02:41.920 Welcome to another episode here of Pearl Daily.

00:02:44.500 I am your host, Pearl.

00:02:45.360 And today we are talking about female breakups, but if you do want to support the channel,

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00:03:10.040 So anyways, guys, as you guys know, I do go to war with these trad cons.

00:03:17.520 I really do.

00:03:19.940 I really, you know what I just realized?

00:03:24.160 I realized I left one of the lights on.

00:03:25.980 It's okay.

00:03:26.620 I really go to war with these trad cons.

00:03:30.640 And there was a particular trad con that we really saw get red-pilled in front of our own eyes.

00:03:36.900 So to start the show, I want to talk about how Crowder has actually joined us in the women ain't shit crowd.

00:03:47.340 Do you guys don't mind making this full screen when I play this?

00:03:50.620 Because I got to I'm going to fix the lighting thing.

00:03:54.100 And that's how you get to the point of being because you weren't giving her enough attention.

00:03:58.700 Exactly. Exactly. Exactly. There was no more intimacy.

00:04:01.720 There was a breakdown in communication.

00:04:03.440 if a guy cheats no matter what he is a piece of crap societally here's the thing there are now

00:04:08.680 people on the right who are still telling you no no young men it's not that the option's available

00:04:15.180 to you it's not that the agenda that's been driven uh home and that has been thrust upon you is a

00:04:20.900 problem it's actually just you young men you are still even though you make up 94 percent of

00:04:25.620 workplace deaths even though you make up so many of the suicide yeah did you you guys see the

00:04:30.180 contrast between that and the clip from earlier, Crowder had a very different tune a decade ago.

00:04:38.160 Very different tune. A decade ago, he was telling men to man up, and now he's saying,

00:04:43.500 holy shit, he got zeroed out. Besides, you are the problem, at least according to Tommy

00:04:48.960 Laurent. It's a major problem. And you know, Speaker Johnson has been talking about those

00:04:53.780 maybe deadbeat folks that are on Medicaid, and maybe some of those folks are the stay-at-home

00:04:58.460 sons, we don't know. But I'll tell you this, leave it to Gen Z to rebrand laziness and

00:05:03.940 social awkwardness as something cutesy, like a stay at home son. They did much the same

00:05:09.060 thing with quiet quitting, where you can go to work and do less. And if you call it quiet

00:05:13.340 quitting, it's somehow better. But Laura, I got to tell you, this is also a big problem

00:05:17.260 when it comes to, I think, declining birth rates.

00:05:20.420 What did the surgeon do to her nose? Oh my God.

00:05:26.820 not getting married and having children. You know, that's a big problem. They blame it on women.

00:05:30.880 Well, look at what young women have to choose from. The pickings are slim. Yes, we might have

00:05:36.060 a feminism problem in America. Yeah, but what are women bringing to the table? We're fat.

00:05:40.540 It's the feminization of. Crowder is a recovering simp. I think he's in recovery now.

00:05:46.420 I don't think he's how he used to be. One evil woman red pills a man. Men. There are a lot of

00:05:52.360 young women out there that want to get married. They want to have. Well, you want. They want to

00:05:55.880 have stable families, but there are a lot of young men out there who want to live in mama's

00:06:00.640 basement and order DoorDash. And therein lies a big part of the problem. Yeah. You know, I know

00:06:05.640 a lot of men actually that live at home with their parents and it's not, they're all working to be

00:06:11.620 honest. They just want to save money on rent. I know probably three different men that have money

00:06:18.260 for a house and they just live at home and it's not because they can't buy a house, but they don't

00:06:24.980 really have a reason to. Why pay rent when you don't have to? Yeah. And by the way, I understand

00:06:32.300 this idea of dealing with the work ethic of young people in some ways. Sure. Tommy Loren is a master

00:06:39.780 of the straw man. That's just not the real problem. There are no options for men. They've

00:06:45.660 been, well, who's feminized men? And I just heard Tommy Loren list a bunch of things that she wants

00:06:50.060 and expects from men. Okay. But maybe men have expectations too.

00:06:55.380 So men are the ones who are living at mom's home and ordering DoorDash.

00:06:58.820 Here's the thing you need to understand around the 20 year old,

00:07:01.660 like Gen Z women, they're twice as likely to be obese as men.

00:07:07.100 They're significant.

00:07:08.460 16% of women were obese at age 20. Jesus Christ.

00:07:13.380 Evidently more likely to be depressed and to be on psychiatric medication.

00:07:16.820 So young men who, by the way, are in many ways becoming more fit. Young men who are often in

00:07:25.120 many ways, certainly young conservative men who are focusing on self-improvement. That's the

00:07:27.880 message that you hear from people like Dr. Jordan Peterson. That's the message you hear from a lot

00:07:31.780 of people, whether you like him or not. And I think he's wrong a lot. Andrew Tate. That's the

00:07:35.080 message you're hearing from people like Andrew Wilson out there. It's resonating with young men.

00:07:37.980 It's not a message. You can argue until you're blue in the face, but the message to young men

00:07:42.400 right now, where they are checking out of the dating pool, the message is very consistent.

00:07:45.740 Young men, get your house in order, make yourself valuable, make yourself desirable so you can select the right kind of woman for you.

00:07:56.580 Young men are less obese, they're less depressed, they're more independent, and women still blame young men?

00:08:04.340 Let me tell you, can anyone out there, can anyone out there name me one fat pride male model?

00:08:11.960 One.

00:08:13.020 One who's making millions.

00:08:14.980 Hey, can anyone name me an equivalent to OnlyFans for young men?

00:08:20.320 I've read numbers as high as 25% of young women have an OnlyFans or have considered it.

00:08:25.400 The lowest I've seen is 15%.

00:08:27.300 What's the equivalent?

00:08:28.900 Young straight men.

00:08:30.520 That doesn't include women that do sugar baby, escort, or just ran through Tinder, right?

00:08:36.560 There are young gay men that are fat, gross, potato sex symbols.

00:08:41.360 Yeah, yeah.

00:08:41.980 I don't really know about sex.

00:08:43.400 I'm sure they have OnlyFans.

00:08:44.980 But as far as like the test holidays of the world,

00:08:47.360 as far as, take your pick,

00:08:49.360 the entire Victoria's Secret lineup

00:08:52.300 where they did plus size.

00:08:53.900 Yeah.

00:08:55.060 Look, you cannot continue to blame men

00:08:58.840 while women are being told

00:09:00.340 that they are beautiful at any size,

00:09:02.400 that they can have an abortion at any time,

00:09:04.280 that all of their decisions are valid

00:09:06.660 and none are valid for men,

00:09:08.600 to the point now where we've invalidated

00:09:10.440 young men's decisions to not engage.

00:09:14.780 I will make the, I would argue,

00:09:16.840 young men have far fewer prospects

00:09:19.300 when they're looking at good women in their generation

00:09:21.760 than women do.

00:09:22.600 And you know how you know the dialogue reflects that?

00:09:25.380 Tommy Lauren, she can't help herself.

00:09:27.460 She lists a bunch of expectations of men

00:09:31.020 and none from herself.

00:09:33.960 Andrew Wilson asked her,

00:09:35.120 that's why we had him on the show on Pierce Morgan.

00:09:36.780 He said, can you name me one duty?

00:09:38.540 He said, there are many women who would love to be feminine,

00:09:40.820 who would love to have a man take care of them,

00:09:42.480 would love to have a family and be able to stay home. Okay, great. Those are things that you would

00:09:46.720 want. What are you bringing to the table aside from being fatter, more depressed?

00:09:52.660 And having herpes and being on antidepressants. Physically inert than ever. That is young women.

00:10:00.040 It's not the same message that young men are being bombarded with. Young men right now,

00:10:05.260 and I have a son, I have a daughter. I'm going to have to protect her from predators.

00:10:08.880 Anyone touches her wrong, guess what?

00:10:10.940 You'll see me on the nightly news with cuffs behind my back.

00:10:14.320 I have to protect him from false accusations

00:10:18.240 of him being a predator.

00:10:19.600 I've had to think about this

00:10:20.600 when you have a boy-girl twin.

00:10:22.060 I have to teach my daughter that she is not perfect,

00:10:26.820 just the way she is.

00:10:28.340 She is not a princess.

00:10:30.200 Everything she does is an inherently virtuous.

00:10:32.200 And I have to teach my son the same.

00:10:34.120 Also, you're not a piece of garbage

00:10:36.380 because you were born a young white male. Don't own the checking your privilege. Don't own the

00:10:42.560 white guilt. Then I have to teach both of them. You are both imperfect. You are both fearfully

00:10:47.000 and wonderfully created in the image of God and your actions define you. Society says,

00:10:52.140 man at fault, woman, beautiful at any size, brave no matter what you do. All choices are as valid

00:10:58.720 as the next choice. Men, these are your duties. And then you see it from conservative, so-called

00:11:04.100 conservative women. These are, this is what we expect of you. Okay. What can we expect of women?

00:11:10.300 Why are you trying to control me? Okay. Then enjoy 60% of women being single and unmarried

00:11:17.000 by the year 2035. Yeah. I mean, what's happening is women are delaying marriage.

00:11:24.720 So if you do like women and childbearing, it's just the age of first birth and first marriage

00:11:29.340 is going to get older and older. Women are winning with our sexual strategy.

00:11:32.400 We're getting to spend as much of our youth and fertility on ourselves.

00:11:38.520 Women don't, because he's still under the idea, and I went through this too, that women

00:11:41.980 want to be in relationships, but we really don't.

00:11:45.020 We don't because if we wanted to, we would make choices to reflect that.

00:11:50.080 Five, I think is a stat that I heard.

00:11:54.420 What she just said is flat out wrong and sounds really shrill and naggy.

00:11:59.420 there's hypocrisy in what she said, her fake, her fake little scenario that she presented.

00:12:03.960 Yeah. A woman wants this, a woman wants that, a woman wants this, and the man just wants to sit

00:12:07.640 at home in his mom's basement. Well, let's think about that little analogy just made up there. His

00:12:12.120 mom's basement? Where's dad? Yeah. Did mom get tired of- And I think most of the guys are just

00:12:17.720 doing this to save rent. Pretty much every guy I know that's living at home under 35 or even under

00:12:23.920 40. They can afford a house, but they don't have a woman to move in with. They like their parents

00:12:31.260 and they just think, eh, what, you know, it's easier to just live here and not pay rent.

00:12:38.200 I don't think, men are kind of pragmatic. Like I know a lot of guys with the money for a house,

00:12:43.920 but they just don't see the point. Her, uh, her marriage when it was convenient for her and then

00:12:48.760 leave him, take the house. 80% chance. And now dad's in an apartment, can't afford to provide

00:12:52.380 for his son yeah tonight he's living at home with a mom who left his dad at a convenient time and

00:12:56.460 yeah put him out oh why what is it like women why doesn't he trust women yeah no she's she's

00:13:01.820 making it sound like young young men just put in no effort and live at home hey honestly let me ask

00:13:05.480 you who was it who spearheaded an entire movement to make sure that you wouldn't have to pay for

00:13:10.480 your own birth control was was it men with condoms what was it or no it was that's right

00:13:17.120 sandra fluke remember that where it should all be taxpayer funded on demand period same thing

00:13:22.160 Hobby Lobby. It was a violation of your rights to not have abortion or abortificance as they

00:13:26.720 believe it. 16 out of 21 birth control methods were paid for by Hobby Lobby health insurance,

00:13:31.760 but it was a violation of your, so who was the one who wants free birth control? Who's the one,

00:13:35.800 which group wants free extended maternity leave, free childcare, rearing, raising so you can out,

00:13:44.300 I just want to be clear. Which one is that? Is it, is it, is it young men or is it young

00:13:50.040 women how many young women are checking out and going to trade schools the trend that we see how

00:13:54.400 many are becoming carpenters electricians working in a foundry now we're just getting jobs in human

00:14:01.160 resources and basket study weaving programs sure there are plenty of lazy young men entitled

00:14:08.040 matt says i'm 40 and i still live with my mom and dad pearls right there's no point in buying a

00:14:12.840 property when i can build with my family they appreciate my resources and anytime i build with

00:14:17.040 them yeah like some of the guys i know it's just their parents are getting older um sometimes it's

00:14:21.740 their mother like they maybe their dad died and like their mom just needs help and it's just easier

00:14:27.740 adult young men absolutely is tommy learning is she is she married to like a um like a former

00:14:33.580 baseball tradesman or oh it's oh who's now a coach uh okay i mean that's cool i'm sure he's not a

00:14:39.180 lazy guy but yeah yeah she definitely she definitely uh wealthy guy i'm sure a lot of

00:14:44.480 boxes for herself there yeah i'm sure there were no tradesmen around who were working

00:14:48.720 she says all these young men are lazy who do you think's putting up the freaking electric poles

00:14:52.320 i know yeah more more construction than ever in history in this country yeah who do you think is

00:14:58.500 doing it dumb dumb yeah it's but it's just a feminist not young men listen it's just like a

00:15:02.800 feminist rehab fake nose makeup chicks you think that's who's doing it yeah really you think yeah

00:15:08.560 sorry gerald no don't be fine my problem is it's just like tommy loren is sounding just like

00:15:12.980 what she purports to hate. And that's my issue with her specifically on this is that she doesn't

00:15:18.220 look at what caused men to be in that state. She doesn't look at that and say, hey, what are we

00:15:23.060 telling young men right now? What are we doing to them as women, as society in general? What are we

00:15:28.420 telling young men? Because that's what we're really talking about is young men are checking

00:15:31.320 out. Okay, why? Not, ah, stupid, lazy young men. That's not how you solve the problem. Even if you

00:15:37.080 disagree with what's causing it, you don't go, men are being lazy right now and living in mom's

00:15:42.080 basement. Stupid men. We have enough men telling other men that they're stupid men. We have enough

00:15:46.120 self kind of regulation amongst men. What we don't have enough of is looking at how are we

00:15:51.860 training society? Are you getting what you've asked for ladies? Do you like what you have?

00:15:57.000 Okay. Then let's change it. Don't just keep blaming men. Try to figure out what the root of

00:16:02.080 the problem is. Then we can get somewhere. Well, there are two solutions to this. Okay.

00:16:06.240 And they don't like the male solution. The young male solution statistically,

00:16:09.240 and we've talked about this, they're just checking out. They're saying, I'm not going to get married.

00:16:13.000 It's too much risk. I don't like the choices that I'm looking at before me as far as women.

00:16:18.760 Young women like Tommy Loren, their solution is to blame men more for checking out.

00:16:23.640 What about a young man who's just planning his life? He's like, yeah, I'm working my ass off.

00:16:27.880 I'm working 10 hours, 12 hours a day, five to six days a week. I come home. My parents are not just

00:16:33.720 my mom. I hate that. Because it implies that the mom just leaves and takes everything and the dad's

00:16:38.040 a deadbeat, whatever. But he's just this young guy, he's living at home with his parents,

00:16:43.480 saving up money so that someday he can, when he's ready to propose to a woman, when he's ready to

00:16:48.040 start a family, when he's ready to suggest that to a woman, he has all the things behind him,

00:16:51.480 ready to go. And he has the money, he has an investment, he has investment accounts,

00:16:57.480 he has down payment for a house, the guy has a car that's paid off, the guy who can support

00:17:02.680 somebody. What's wrong with that guy? Because he lived at home with his parents until he was 25,

00:17:07.000 Right.

00:17:07.360 Took advantage of the opportunity he had because he came up kind of, you know, not rich.

00:17:11.000 Let me tell you what a young man goes.

00:17:13.420 First off, let me give you a very clear example, okay?

00:17:16.100 If you're a man and you're obese, now, you're two times as likely to be obese if you're a woman, a young woman than a young man.

00:17:21.500 That's just a fact.

00:17:22.840 And young men don't typically like obese women.

00:17:24.840 Black guys, we get it, but.

00:17:29.340 Oh, that's so true.

00:17:30.940 So, you're a young man and you're obese and you're living in your basement.

00:17:35.640 You know what?

00:17:35.980 not one of your male friends says,

00:17:38.360 nah, don't worry, you're in great shape.

00:17:42.880 The best you can hope for is,

00:17:44.480 hey man, you're in a rough spot.

00:17:45.700 You know, I'm here for you.

00:17:47.040 You'll figure it out.

00:17:48.020 We don't tell them that you're beautiful and brave

00:17:50.440 in your state of disarray.

00:17:52.400 Every single woman, by the way,

00:17:54.760 who are twice as likely to be obese as young men,

00:17:57.140 has friends going, no, Becky, you're beautiful.

00:18:00.160 If he doesn't, I had a scenario, this is true.

00:18:03.060 I had a scenario where I was roped in by my then lady

00:18:09.140 to console her friend, who boyfriend broke up with her.

00:18:13.740 And they were going, oh my God, he just doesn't deserve you.

00:18:16.520 And they were like, tell her.

00:18:17.560 I go, I remember when she cheated on him.

00:18:26.980 And they all were like, no, it's his loss.

00:18:29.420 I'm like, no, it's not.

00:18:30.760 It's not like he.

00:18:34.320 Oh, that's so funny.

00:18:35.740 Dodged a bullet.

00:18:36.740 Where have you been, Crowder?

00:18:38.340 We've been waiting for you.

00:18:39.620 It took a divorce.

00:18:40.700 You want me to.

00:18:42.180 Whereas if a guy cheats on a woman,

00:18:45.200 we'll go, even the bad guys.

00:18:47.040 Nah, she caught you.

00:18:48.180 Well, them's the breaks.

00:18:49.540 It's your consequence.

00:18:51.040 Young men are held accountable.

00:18:52.620 Young women are not.

00:18:54.000 And that's how you get to the point of being.

00:18:55.740 She only cheated because you weren't giving her enough attention.

00:18:58.280 Exactly.

00:18:59.320 Exactly.

00:18:59.900 Exactly.

00:19:00.220 there was no more intimacy. There was a breakdown in communication. If a guy cheats, no matter what,

00:19:04.680 he is a piece of crap societally. And I'm not saying that either one is okay, but I remember

00:19:09.440 going through that going, wow, I guess there is no wrong that can be committed here that is

00:19:14.120 impermissible. Hey, let me ask you this. You're a young man. You go through it. You go, oh, okay.

00:19:18.480 Hey, I think she's really, I think that woman's really, you know what? I'm going to take my show.

00:19:22.840 Oh, wait, can't cat call. Oh, wait, according to Gillette, I can't even go up and hit on a woman.

00:19:26.720 okay um oh wait we have a problem of rape culture so if everything is consensual but she doesn't

00:19:32.120 like me later on and i break up she could still go out and falsely accuse me of rape and i lose

00:19:35.840 everything as we saw with aziz i'm sorry as we saw with chris hardwick as we saw with plenty of

00:19:39.220 as we saw with trevor bauer okay there's that all right well let's say i work i do i don't

00:19:44.220 encourage student debt and i finally find a right woman okay i want oh well if she doesn't want to

00:19:48.380 work it okay she's going to go out and work she's not going to raise the kids oh i guess

00:19:51.320 i have to outsource the raising of my children which is never a part of my dream all right i

00:19:54.700 guess i'm gonna you know i'm gonna work extra and crowder knows about that he got a white woman

00:19:59.020 white women love nannies they do not want to be moms they're like who else can do this who else

00:20:07.720 hearts that we can get the best nanny and oh now i'm not present enough at home and she's gone

00:20:12.080 and the law says that even if she never made as much as me she can take all of it and now i'm

00:20:17.440 living in a junior suite so men go you know what considering the caliber of women out there in the

00:20:22.560 young generations they're checking out and i'm not even a monk i'm 37. especially if it's a young

00:20:28.320 man and their mom is that woman yeah in that scenario you just you just played out yeah

00:20:33.120 their mom is that woman why won't this man get married yeah and by the way you also hear by

00:20:38.160 the way if he loves you he'll love you just the way you are women tell other women guess what

00:20:42.640 that's not true loves you there are things he wants to change about you just like i know

00:20:50.640 Crowder's nanny was working 50 plus hours a week. Yup. White women and nannies.

00:20:57.680 You with him, you know, the pet project that you treat him as, but then I've also heard women go,

00:21:02.160 if love is never transactional, you just heard not one, two, three, but four or five

00:21:07.840 transactional portions of that equation. Man has to be successful. Man has to be a provider.

00:21:12.960 Man has to be masculine. Man has to lead until he starts leading in a way that you don't like,

00:21:16.960 in which case you can leave him and take half. Love is never transactional, but she's not going

00:21:23.280 for a carpenter who's working his ass off and making a good living, but isn't rich and is a

00:21:27.760 good man who will treat her right. There are plenty of men like that around. Young women

00:21:32.800 aren't interested and young women are fatter, more depressed, less mentally stable, and men

00:21:37.840 are checking out. Here's the thing. You can scream women. And I don't want to see this.

00:21:43.280 I want to see a return to traditional relationships because it's the most

00:21:45.920 fulfilling thing that you can find in your life if you find a woman who is good and women if you

00:21:50.160 find a man who is a leader and submit to him as in any other subordinate role to a leader you will

00:22:00.000 too find what is good but here's the reality you can scream until you're blue in the face and blame

00:22:06.400 they're checking out now they're just not they're just not getting married they don't think it's

00:22:10.800 worth it you can scream you can you can continue to blame men and you will die alone that is a

00:22:18.720 guarantee there is no door there's always a simp crowder i hate to say it but there's always a guy

00:22:26.960 that'll do it there is number two until you start taking taking that lens and looking back on

00:22:35.360 yourself let's talk about choice because i was here about women's choice all right i think we

00:22:39.040 we got enough. That was amazing. Welcome to the Red Pill crew, Stephen Crowder. Welcome.

00:22:46.340 We've been waiting for you. All right, but let's get into today's topic. The reason why you guys

00:22:53.860 are all here. All right. So everybody, welcome to another episode of Pearl Daily. Today, we're

00:23:02.820 going to talk about women getting dumped. So we all know that women end 70 to 80% of relationships

00:23:09.780 and marriage. And there's a social infrastructure in place to encourage women leaving their men.

00:23:16.080 They leave because they're not happy. They leave because they think they can do better. They leave

00:23:20.480 because they get pumped and dumped by Chad, Gavis, Tyrone. And all you hear about in society is women

00:23:28.360 breaking up with men but what happens when it's the other way around over here we recognize that

00:23:35.580 men give a lot more in relationships than women men are expected to pay for everything they're

00:23:40.760 expected to give up their hobbies and peace of mind just to have a woman in their lives

00:23:45.840 men also deal with so much more than women would deal with in a relationship think about it guys

00:23:54.260 the last girl you dated, she probably wouldn't shut up. She made you go do things she didn't

00:24:01.220 want to do. She nagged you in your own house. She had some pet that she brought around that

00:24:07.860 messed up all your stuff. So if a man leaves, it's usually something serious. Women cannot

00:24:13.120 handle being broken up with. We can't handle rejection and we refuse to do the inner work to

00:24:17.200 see how we contributed to a certain situation. That's what we are going to talk about today,

00:24:22.720 women and how they can't handle when men break up with them. All right. So first let's talk about

00:24:28.940 the top five reasons why men leave. He's an article. Okay. You thought you had the perfect

00:24:35.800 guy. You couldn't imagine him cheating or walking out on you. I hear this frequently in my office.

00:24:41.100 Why didn't he tell you how we felt? Why did he clam up or act like everything we did was okay

00:24:45.560 when it wasn't? He was so into you that you thought he would never leave there. These are

00:24:50.760 the things that guys keep to themselves. A majority of men I counsel are complimentary

00:24:55.380 about their partners until I ask them how she makes him feel. And they begin revealing all

00:25:02.140 the things that hurt them. When a guy feels hurt, he seldom uses words to express himself.

00:25:07.860 When he may say he feels angry or he feels neglected, but for him to say what you really

00:25:14.480 did hurt my feelings or you made me feel like less of a man is rare. Unfortunately, women

00:25:19.260 expect words from men that they can't relate to. Therefore, they frequently overlook how their

00:25:25.320 actions may be making a man feel. Men don't typically just walk out of a door and leave

00:25:31.220 the love of their life. If they do, they probably won't explain why. Here are the top five reasons

00:25:37.840 why guys leave. One, a guy cannot feel loved or build trust with someone who they feel disrespected

00:25:46.940 by. He needs to feel like his opinion matters and that you have his back. When a man gets close to

00:25:52.820 you, he understands you see his weakness. He needs to feel accepted even with his weakness.

00:25:58.280 When you talk with your friends about how your partner is like another child, how much more money

00:26:03.120 you make, or all you do for the family, his natural instinct is to feel defensive and compete against

00:26:09.360 you. If his masculinity is threatened, you're making all the decisions. He questions why he's

00:26:14.880 in a relationship. He feels like he's a project instead of a partner. Trying to fix your partner

00:26:20.220 is like pushing them out the door. He questions if he can ever please you or if he'll match up

00:26:25.180 to your expectations. Instead of trying harder, he gives up and becomes apathetic and the

00:26:30.260 relationship falls apart. He feels sexually rejected. The majority of men I counsel feel

00:26:35.460 unloved by their partner. Men feel as though their partner makes excuses not to be with them.

00:26:40.220 He compares the way you dress for work or for girls' night to the way you dress around the house.

00:26:45.720 He feels used in questions if you love him or your lifestyle more.

00:26:49.620 This is a contributing factor to divorce.

00:26:52.060 Moms often become more emotionally attached to their children than their husband.

00:26:56.440 He begins feeling rejected emotionally and sexually.

00:27:01.660 Five, he feels unappreciated.

00:27:04.100 A man will do almost anything for a woman he loves as long as he feels appreciated.

00:27:08.160 He needs to be recognized by his partner as satisfying her the most.

00:27:12.480 Men may seem unemotional, detached, and focused on other things, but they hear everything

00:27:17.840 you say about them when it involves appreciation.

00:27:22.000 Don't wait to thank him.

00:27:23.140 It loses its significance when they're walking out the door.

00:27:26.240 A relationship involves two different people, and that means men and women must think about

00:27:30.700 what they say and do, how what they say and do affects their partners.

00:27:34.200 Women have permission in society to feel pain and hurt, but men find that more difficult and

00:27:39.140 usually only share how they feel with their significant other. If you're the person who

00:27:43.320 holds your man's feelings, holds your man's hidden feelings, take extra care to treat him

00:27:49.520 with respect and appreciation. All right, put a one in the chat. If you've ever dumped a woman

00:27:55.760 for any of those reasons, make sure you like the video while you're here. There's 650 of you in

00:28:01.620 the chat. It would be great to get 600 likes. A like is free. Okay. Why men quit relationships.

00:28:08.340 Women says the three reasons why men leave relationships. Here are the top three reasons

00:28:14.060 why some men leave relationships. I've done some research. Let's get into it family. Number one,

00:28:20.960 their needs are not being met and have not been met for a period of time. And therefore they have

00:28:25.580 given up on the idea that their needs will be met in this relationship. Number two, he feels

00:28:30.540 unappreciated and like he's being taken for granted number three there is a lack of connection

00:28:35.980 and intimacy this lack of connection can cause a man to disconnect completely i mean completely

00:28:41.500 and it creates a desire within him to move on all right there we go number one crazy girl won't

00:28:51.420 leave her ex-boyfriend alone hello oh man i keep knocking on that door okay well i need to come

00:28:57.880 over here, wait for the door. Ma'am, step away from the door.

00:29:02.640 All right, go inside.

00:29:03.940 I don't want her here. She's been asked to leave many, many

00:29:05.940 times. She doesn't want to leave.

00:29:07.760 I don't want her hurt. I don't want her arrested.

00:29:09.760 I just want her out of here, please, and I want

00:29:11.660 noted. I want to report.

00:29:13.780 You can see she's been doing this forever.

00:29:15.760 I've been waiting for my glass to come in and break.

00:29:17.920 She dated my son. They're not together

00:29:19.680 anymore, and I don't want her on my premises.

00:29:22.100 This is my home.

00:29:23.380 I don't want her here, and this is my son.

00:29:25.860 And I don't want him coming out of here because

00:29:27.500 i don't feel safe with her with him okay ma'am what is your name

00:29:34.940 ma'am dang just take the l that's enough what is your name

00:29:39.740 i don't want her in trouble i just want her to understand she's not welcome here

00:29:42.380 what's her first name so she doesn't want to answer me sandra samantha samantha are you

00:29:46.940 are you hearing what she's saying hello samantha i bet he had that good d that is the only way

00:29:53.740 but you have a girl acting that nuts.

00:29:55.600 You have your driver's license.

00:29:56.680 You're an ID with you.

00:29:58.400 Okay, this is going to last for a couple more minutes

00:30:00.480 until my other deputy gets here,

00:30:02.100 and then she's going to have two routes.

00:30:04.320 One, she's going to answer me,

00:30:05.620 or she's going to go to jail.

00:30:06.700 You have two routes.

00:30:06.720 Should I answer him, or are you going to leave?

00:30:08.040 No, no, she's going to go to jail.

00:30:09.680 Okay, so please, that's not what we want.

00:30:11.960 Just give me a driver's license.

00:30:13.000 Hey, I don't have it with me!

00:30:14.780 You still need to leave.

00:30:15.820 Well, then you need to talk to me.

00:30:16.940 I can understand how relationships and stuff like that

00:30:19.600 can be very, very volatile.

00:30:22.040 But this is...

00:30:22.520 Bruh.

00:30:23.280 Not the way to act like it, because I'm assuming you're an adult, all right?

00:30:29.720 What is your last name?

00:30:34.500 Amanda, what is your last name?

00:30:36.120 Samantha, if you keep obstructing him, he is going to...

00:30:38.960 Samantha, you're currently trespassing.

00:30:41.200 Do you have ID on you?

00:30:43.520 You don't, or are you not going to provide it?

00:30:45.760 I don't have it.

00:30:46.840 Okay, I'm asking.

00:30:48.880 Are you going to leave?

00:30:50.080 Do you have your registration in your car?

00:30:51.600 Do you have your registration in your car?

00:30:53.280 You can't logic with crazy mother. Tell her to arrest him. Tell her to arrest her.

00:31:20.840 welcome here anymore you need to leave why would you want to go and obstruct justice and get

00:31:26.340 yourself into trouble when you're being given the chance by three officers to leave here who are

00:31:31.980 being very respectful and calm with you and giving you the chance to go to your home and deal with

00:31:36.780 whatever it is that you need to deal with brutal brutal okay part two let's see what she does next

00:31:46.620 I love police cam.

00:31:47.800 Justice and get yourself into trouble when you're being given the chance by three officers to leave here who are being very respectful and calm with you and giving you the chance to go to your home and deal with whatever it is that you need to deal with today and not be here and get yourself in trouble.

00:32:04.560 It's not worth it.

00:32:07.080 You just can't stay here.

00:32:08.860 That's going to cause you problems later.

00:32:11.680 If you get arrested, then you got to go back to court.

00:32:15.060 Then you're considered a stalker.

00:32:16.700 Then you're obstructions of justice.

00:32:18.160 Now listening to a police officer.

00:32:20.260 Are you going to leave right now?

00:32:22.300 Please leave.

00:32:24.160 And do not come back.

00:32:28.000 Is that Al D?

00:32:29.140 Yes or no?

00:32:29.900 Yes, sir.

00:32:30.700 Okay.

00:32:31.320 So you heard her.

00:32:32.360 She wants you to trespass from this point.

00:32:34.700 It's on camera.

00:32:35.700 If you come back on this property and we catch you here, you go to jail.

00:32:40.120 You understand?

00:32:40.980 all right thank you i don't know

00:32:47.700 all right like i said if she comes back on your property you call us

00:32:53.860 you're welcome she just blew through a stop sign

00:33:01.500 go get her she's gonna kill somebody yep

00:33:06.620 they think they're gonna have no consequences and by the way guys we want you to call

00:33:20.180 in later and tell us your breakup stories so get ready there's going to be a link in the chat in a

00:33:25.300 the suspect passed seven business parking lots multiple side streets and a few turning lanes

00:33:37.480 but didn't stop

00:33:38.740 turn the car off turn it off turn the car off turn it off turn it off turn the car off

00:33:50.400 that girl's gonna get shot or something okay a woman cheats on a man and also will not leave his

00:34:01.600 doorstep open the door i'm not letting you be with nobody else i'm not playing i'm not playing

00:34:10.880 who do i make this

00:34:14.960 She's crashing out.

00:34:44.960 He said, I think he should, one of the comments says, I think he should forgive her and take

00:35:05.760 her back and then treat her like Cassie.

00:35:08.040 Yeah, you are.

00:35:38.040 oh my god

00:35:49.400 i can't live without you line all right girl gets rejected and looks like a psychopath

00:36:00.360 wait what did it say hold on it said watch me get rejected by my crush

00:36:08.040 What are you?

00:36:20.600 Payphone.

00:36:38.040 oh hey i was wondering um it's sophia if you want to come grab dinner with me and i'll buy

00:36:52.520 oh who is this sophia

00:36:57.560 okay what's up do you want to go get sushi stop and i'll buy

00:37:01.080 i'm kind of busy okay that's fine are you sure i mean i'll pay just for a second no like

00:37:10.520 i just want to talk to you about everything and say sorry

00:37:15.400 and like no expectations i literally i'm just like i was in the area just by riley's

00:37:20.040 yeah i can't i can't yeah what the hell did she do to get that response

00:37:28.340 oh okay all right yeah i'm doing something right now oh okay for sure maybe later sometime okay bye

00:37:37.240 well

00:37:43.120 yeah all right let's see hold up

00:37:49.520 um which one word is i on oh here we go girl gets rejected by a doctor okay i was rejected

00:38:04.400 so last night i went out with my doctor he was so nice such a gentleman i have nothing bad to say

00:38:09.280 the date was fun he was easy to talk to but towards the end that's when we started getting

00:38:14.480 into like the more serious questions i try to keep first dates like 90 to 95 fun and light-hearted

00:38:21.760 and just like a vibe and only like five to ten percent more serious deep conversation so we got

00:38:27.760 to like the question of like what are you looking for long term and i was honest i said you know

00:38:32.240 i see myself being a stay-at-home mom one day i don't know how to work this oh i see trying out

00:38:38.720 this new concealer by milk yeah she's not hot enough for a doctor unless he's kind of simpy

00:38:43.440 and anyway the doctor was super honest with me about he sees himself with a partner who works

00:38:49.280 full time like long term like even when they have kids and he was really honest you know he says

00:38:55.120 that you know he's a family practice medicine or something like that and he has so many student

00:39:01.120 debts he can't financially provide for a family for like 10 to 15 years i feel like i put on way

00:39:07.280 too much concealer like what's the point of the ball and listen i do want to be a stay-at-home

00:39:11.840 mom but what he said is not a deal breaker for me because you have to put it into perspective we live

00:39:17.200 in california we live in one of the most expensive places to live so yeah him as a family doctor with

00:39:23.920 you know hundreds of thousand dollars of debt probably for medical school yeah he can't afford

00:39:28.080 a family here but if we were to fall in love and you know date seriously we could just move right

00:39:35.520 that's why in my mind i'm like this this isn't a deal breaker for me i didn't say that to him but

00:39:40.480 but that's what I was thinking.

00:39:41.820 I feel like I can still see my pimple.

00:39:44.060 So far, I like this concealer.

00:39:45.660 So we finished dinner and it's when he's dropping me off

00:39:48.680 that he was really honest with me.

00:39:50.920 Remember, we met on Delight where you have to unmatch your match

00:39:54.220 in order to keep swiping to get a new match.

00:39:56.740 So he told me that he didn't think our ideal future lifestyles were compatible.

00:40:01.060 And look, I could have disagreed with him, but what's the point?

00:40:04.400 Because he doesn't really like me.

00:40:06.440 He's just not that into me.

00:40:07.540 So I agreed with him, thanked him for dinner.

00:40:09.360 and by the time I made it back to my apartment, he had unmatched me on Delight.

00:40:13.560 But here's the best part.

00:40:14.820 I got rematched with a guy who I had previously swiped right on before I matched with the doctor.

00:40:20.620 And we talked a bit last night, and guess what I'm getting ready for right now?

00:40:25.620 She took the L-O-K. This was an all right L.

00:40:28.660 That's right. Your girl already has another dinner date for 5 p.m. tonight.

00:40:34.300 Ladies, don't let rejection get to you.

00:40:37.420 Final makeup look.

00:40:38.580 now i just need to do my hair wish me luck yeah he probably found her tick tock

00:40:44.420 all right crazy ex-girlfriend comes over to a boyfriend's house hey it's funny me um

00:40:51.180 okay do you know what day it was yesterday yesterday on those monday my birthday okay

00:41:01.660 happy birthday all right right now but i'm sure she didn't actually message me yesterday to be

00:41:07.340 Sorry, what?

00:41:09.340 I'm shocked you didn't message me yesterday.

00:41:14.340 Okay, but you blocked me.

00:41:17.340 Okay, but you blocked me.

00:41:19.340 No, I haven't. I haven't blocked you on Instagram.

00:41:21.340 Yes, you have. You blocked my number.

00:41:24.340 You blocked me off Instagram like we've broken up like a month ago.

00:41:29.340 Yeah, but you know, you can email me. You can wish me happy birthday.

00:41:33.340 it's just the least that you could do even though you've just broken up not that long ago

00:41:39.180 i still i still care about you in it well hopefully you care about me but clearly you don't

00:41:43.580 do you wish me happy birthday okay but okay but you broke up with me like how am i supposed to

00:41:47.060 say happy birthday i feel like this might be a scare to you how am i supposed to happy birthday

00:41:50.500 to you if you blocked me because there's so many ways you can you've got my email you can email me

00:41:56.420 you can even you've even bank transfer me a penny doesn't he don't even have to break the bank for

00:42:00.700 transfer me a penny put reference happy birthday there's so many people that do that nowadays

00:42:05.120 like why am i gonna back transfer you money or like even a penny when like you blocked me and

00:42:12.600 you're the one who broke up with me i just still think it's a bit unfair that you're not even

00:42:18.940 wishing me happy but if it was your birthday yeah i'd 100% wish you happy birthday oh my gosh

00:42:24.240 okay I had four guys break oh okay now we can watch the breakups last week so guys last week

00:42:34.440 I decided I wanted you guys to give give you guys a chance to dump me um obviously we could

00:42:42.640 see how well I took these um breakups so I had a great breakup um guy number five or four I think

00:42:50.800 it was um sean he calls in a lot he had a great breakup so let's react to these wait wait i can

00:42:57.880 change i can change i'll do better you've had three months to do it i haven't seen any change

00:43:04.200 sorry yeah can you guys can you guys um dump me on stream i want to see how you guys would do it

00:43:10.420 can i get like you guys's dumping speeches

00:43:14.060 I got to give us a scenario, you got to give us a scenario of how, why are we dumping?

00:43:19.260 Okay. So the scenario is, it's just not like, um, I don't know what's the, not cheating,

00:43:27.100 but you're just, she's just not putting out. No, no, putting out, not cheating,

00:43:30.780 but you're just like over it. It's who I am as a person or go ahead. How about this? How about this?

00:43:35.900 she wants she's spending too much time at your house and she's like she's putting too much time

00:43:44.440 at your house and she doesn't like your interest so she's starting to put herself at odds with your

00:43:50.540 with your business time and your hobbies how about that okay yeah let's do it shiv you want to go

00:43:56.560 shiv you want to go first yeah so for me i i just don't give women reasons i just break up with them

00:44:02.000 so i just be like hey like i found out like my grandma's really sick i might have to go to india

00:44:07.440 for four months oh don't worry wait wait but but i'll wait for you i'll wait for you

00:44:14.080 no you don't understand like you deserve so much better

00:44:17.760 i don't you're the no you're the you're the one for me don't worry i'll be there for you

00:44:21.680 you i'm gay i'm gay i'm gay i'm asexual i identify as that's okay that's okay

00:44:37.440 oh okay then can we just be can we just be friends and still hang out it's against my

00:44:46.800 religion i i changed so i'm a scientologist now okay all right glenn you're next tell me i'm ready

00:44:57.280 i want to say that once again she she's she insists on coming to your house so you you

00:45:03.120 haven't had alone time in like a month a month and a half because she wants to spend every

00:45:07.360 waking second with you and when she comes over she doesn't like you on your computer she doesn't like

00:45:13.200 you watching football i want to do something glenn yeah what do you want to do and then you're

00:45:18.400 naming things off so i don't want to do that why do we have to do what you want to do if you

00:45:22.720 okay this is how would you come here come here let me show you something i'm gonna show you

00:45:25.680 something in the bedroom um oh wow i'm excited do you see um what's next to the bed is that one night

00:45:33.280 stand yeah you are supposed to be just like that one night stand okay okay but it worked out i'm

00:45:41.600 so happy yeah so one night stand you have turned into a 30 day stand and um yeah it's not gonna

00:45:51.600 work out like it's just it's just doesn't why but why um i your sister she's 15.

00:46:06.320 i don't know what to tell you i'm just kidding

00:46:11.600 it's just like i i'm i'm going you know i think my favorite

00:46:18.040 i think glenn he got right to the point i did enjoy that but the best oh doug your mom okay

00:46:26.080 like your mom is the business like she makes the biscuits okay you you burnt the biscuits

00:46:32.460 you know it was one time i'm getting dumped over one time i'm sorry could you tell me could you

00:46:40.980 just tell me why what did I do can you tell me please your mom uses no teeth okay I told you

00:46:46.720 the teeth thing is a problem okay well can we can I just get some closure yes the door will close

00:46:56.780 on the way Sean you're next how are you gonna do it this was a masterpiece hey can I talk to you

00:47:09.640 for a second yeah what's going on so you know and this is an open conversation it's a two-way street

00:47:19.240 as we always have communication and conversations it's not only my opinions it's yours too and so

00:47:26.860 I would like for you to say anything there'll be no consequences no negative things it's open

00:47:31.780 in discussion i was looking on the internet and i found these clips of you being a colonizer

00:47:40.260 and i wanted to ask you about that because you know i'm pro-black you know and i'm i'm for the

00:47:46.260 community and uh you know what do you have to say about these things i'm gonna have to break

00:47:52.980 up with you actually because i can't i get it i get it and that's where we just have to separate

00:47:59.940 you know and i get it you know i still care about you and still be friend will still be

00:48:06.580 close friends i wish you the best this is the best breakup i've ever had

00:48:14.340 i don't want it to be negative i don't we had 80 percent of our time together was great yeah

00:48:19.540 you know and the last guy shut the door in my face so this is great no the door closed on itself

00:48:26.660 self-closing doors i wouldn't i wouldn't do that yeah the other guys look i'm not gonna do that

00:48:35.540 to you probably i'm not gonna lie to you oh you're so nice i'm gonna miss you okay yeah

00:48:40.820 i'll miss you rather you hate to see a go but you love to watch her leave already i asked him to do

00:48:45.140 another. Well, I'm sorry my colonization was a problem. It's cool. Some people needed to be

00:48:59.280 colonized sometimes, but it's okay, Pearl. You didn't do it. I just have to stand with the

00:49:05.080 community. Yeah, I understand. Doug MPA, you're next. Are you going to dump me?

00:49:11.060 so so i would set it up where so example i i'm a punctual person pearl and i work together and

00:49:19.840 she knows how much i can't stand it when she's late to calls and stuff like that so but when

00:49:24.160 i'm with somebody i i'll do something like if we're supposed to be somewhere at two and i know

00:49:29.540 the person is always late i'll tell her like 1 15 right and so there are things i will do

00:49:36.040 To mitigate the things that she does to piss me off right and what I'll do is I'll stop doing those things

00:49:43.920 So she's doing things that annoy me

00:49:47.500 So I'll say, you know

00:49:50.440 The last couple of last month or two you're always late always

00:49:55.520 It's because you don't respect me. Do you?

00:49:57.800 i don't think you do and and so i'll start keep you're not supposed to keep um keep tally or keep

00:50:06.600 track but i'll change certain behaviors and start keeping tally and track of where she's deficient

00:50:11.760 and then use that to break up with her you're always late you i i'll pay for all the dates

00:50:18.200 and all the food and then i'll say you you never pay for a date you just want me for my money i

00:50:25.100 that i thought that was especially funny because i know doug mpa hates when girls

00:50:31.020 you told me you wanted to pay yeah but you know what you should at least offer

00:50:39.740 but you hate it when people offer yeah i you know what i i would set it up like that

00:50:46.460 where i would find reasons where she's deficient and use those to break up with her

00:50:51.420 like you know what you you're late all the time okay but wait wait i can change i can change i'll

00:50:59.680 do better you've had three months to do it i haven't seen any change sorry here's my question

00:51:06.840 have you guys ever used like pointing out other chicks to make her feel like she's like you're

00:51:12.860 like you're not even into her like she's not your type

00:51:16.000 i did that she made she broke up yeah i don't i mean i really liked my colonizer breakup the best

00:51:24.980 no problem man i've been doing it for a while

00:51:29.880 he's like the professional breakup you know like yeah that was great like h still at the end can

00:51:38.720 we give him another business here can we give him another scenario i want another one yeah okay

00:51:46.000 try to judge my game okay i got i got one i got one let's say she's insecure and she's accusing

00:51:54.000 you of leaving dick imprints on the counter okay she thinks you're cheating on her

00:52:03.280 and she thinks that she sees your dick imprint on the counter and you know you're following all

00:52:08.880 these girls um i'm not doing that you're liking all these pictures and i'm just i'm freaking out

00:52:17.520 and she knows your instagram dms are full of titties yeah i need you to follow uglier women

00:52:24.800 please yeah right no i understand that one all right hey pearl can we have a conversation yeah

00:52:33.600 yeah let's go guys always tell you you're gonna have communication with your girl that's more

00:52:42.420 superior than her ability to communicate so you have to make time for it so pearl um i know you've

00:52:48.840 been having issues or speaking about ig and first first of all i don't want to get it wrong so tell

00:53:00.960 me if there are any issues or things you want to talk about. What is it? What's the, well,

00:53:07.040 you're just, you're always like you, you're always following these girls and liking their picture.

00:53:12.240 Like you never follow men. It's always just women on Instagram always, you know,

00:53:17.920 and your friend, she wants to sleep with you. I can just tell, I think you're cheating on me.

00:53:23.120 no don't forget the print i'm not saying that

00:53:29.280 go ahead it's on the counter as far as the girl in particular right we're friends and we've been

00:53:39.160 friends for a while and pearl i never lie i'm not gonna lie to you i'm too old to be doing that

00:53:45.140 i went to war i've been in combat i'm not scared of you i'm gonna tell you the truth i'm gonna

00:53:51.940 tell you what you need to hear even if you don't like it have i not done that in our relationship

00:53:56.260 already yeah you have i guess i was over blowing it now that's okay people get

00:54:05.540 their ideas and the number one most important part is you communicated to me and we had the

00:54:10.900 time to talk about it if you didn't then that would be a problem right because possibly it

00:54:15.860 would build resentment and other things like that so i appreciate you bringing that to me

00:54:20.660 is there anything else that you had issues with no you're the best i'm so glad this is working out

00:54:29.460 now

00:54:33.780 about it really working out i think it would work out if we transition this relationship

00:54:40.740 i'm serious bro because i mean it does it was such a straight thing

00:54:45.060 At the end of the day, I might not be the guy that you need.

00:54:50.540 I could be a great friend for you.

00:54:52.400 I think we did a great thing.

00:54:53.340 No, no, I need you.

00:54:55.100 But like we're, I've never been with anyone better.

00:55:00.000 What?

00:55:01.300 You need yourself.

00:55:02.400 That's number one.

00:55:05.140 I can't, you know, that's inside you.

00:55:07.440 You have those feelings, right?

00:55:09.360 You believe I'm cheating.

00:55:11.000 You believe that this IG is right or wrong.

00:55:14.440 I know. So he takes the problems he opened me up to say and uses them against me.

00:55:23.080 So you don't want to be with me anymore?

00:55:29.160 I want to be your friend. I want to support you. I've always done that and I'm okay with that.

00:55:37.560 Most of our relationship was good, Pearl. It's not a bad thing, but everything in life doesn't

00:55:41.400 last forever there's time limits but you said you wanted to marry me someday and you said that you

00:55:49.640 have an issue with these things and we don't want that in a marriage imagine our kids having to deal

00:55:54.040 with this if we had kids that was such a beautiful line would you want that for your children i don't

00:56:00.680 think you would no i wouldn't and i think you need someone who won't give you those type of issues

00:56:07.240 that don't follow women on instagram i get it and it's not a cool thing for your perspective

00:56:13.000 and i respect your perspective it's important i'll always be here for you pearl that's for

00:56:20.120 sure for sure really especially at 2 a.m john man holy

00:56:32.600 anyways guys i got a i know a standing ovation from the panel okay so i want you guys to call

00:56:41.320 in the links in the chat and what is the worst way a woman responded to you breaking up with her

00:56:47.880 what caused the breakup and if you divorced your ex-wife how did she handle it doug mpa

00:56:53.560 are you on the line is he here yet no maybe he's not he's coming soon if he's not

00:57:03.880 oh it's telling me my battery's low let me check the website really quick by the way guys you do

00:57:07.800 have unlimited super chats on the website so the let me see let me go back you get so if you do

00:57:17.400 have a super chat put it on the website and i will read it okay i'm charging this

00:57:28.520 hey sorry about that okay how's it going doug mpa going good i was just reminiscing from that

00:57:35.800 beautiful breakup yeah yeah that that breakup um show that we had and sean's beautiful two beautiful

00:57:46.200 breakups that's a talent right there it's great because he gets the girl to open up do you have

00:57:51.400 any other problems and then she's like yes this this this this well we can't bring that into a

00:57:57.800 marriage awesome so um what was the worst way a woman responded to you dumping her

00:58:07.560 hold on one second one second one second one second okay one second

00:58:16.200 um one second okay yeah there are people in the um actually on the show already ask the question

00:58:25.800 again um what's the worst way a woman responded to you breaking up with her

00:58:30.960 well um so i've never been broken up with i just had women on date you know we're dating and they're

00:58:40.260 like, yeah, you're not really my speed, but out of a relationship, I've never been broken up with.

00:58:48.660 In dating, though, you know, I believe in ghosting. Guys, ghost these women, because women feel

00:58:57.140 entitled to your time, to your resources, and to closure. Don't give them any of those, right?

00:59:03.660 so i ghosted this woman and um she put me in one of those um are we dating the same guy groups

00:59:14.180 those are brutal and so one of my friends who's a woman uh was like is this you i'm part of this

00:59:25.900 group and i'm like what and it was a picture of me and i'm like what the heck is going on here

00:59:31.420 So that's probably, I've never really been broken up without a relationship, but I've had some crazy stuff happen in dating where, you know, I've ghosted a woman or I just didn't want to see her anymore and she's, you know, does something like that or, you know, just the places where you would, example, you know, I like to karaoke a lot or I like to do trivia and stuff.

00:59:54.960 they'll do the thing where you break up with them you don't want to date them anymore

00:59:58.960 but they'll show up to the place that you brought them multiple times

01:00:03.520 they'll just show up one day and you're like what are you doing here so i've had that happen but

01:00:08.400 i've never really been broken up with did a girl ever crash out on you when you dumped her

01:00:13.060 uh the crash out like get violent and stuff no like i don't know she called crying texting

01:00:22.480 anything like that um screaming never not really no i i guess i avoid the crazy ones

01:00:32.360 okay so so most of them took it okay and just accepted it yeah most of them took it okay

01:00:38.740 okay so i i have had the one i've had one girl uh where i broke up with her and

01:00:47.440 And she got my sister's phone number one time and was trying to call my sister and say,

01:00:53.200 hey, you know, I think he's about to break up with me and blah, blah, blah.

01:00:57.680 So that's probably the craziest thing that's happened.

01:01:00.000 I brought her to a family function and apparently she said, hey, you know, let me get your phone

01:01:05.720 number.

01:01:06.240 And my sister was like, okay.

01:01:07.500 And so after we broke up, she kept calling my sister.

01:01:10.820 But that's probably the craziest thing that happened.

01:01:13.660 That is crazy.

01:01:15.200 Is anyone on the line?

01:01:16.360 yep i'll bring them in guys make sure to like the stream subscribe if you haven't already

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01:01:29.880 other life just the other life are you there yes i am hey how's it going doing excellent how about

01:01:43.960 your guys good so tell me about your lap or um tell me about your breakups have you had a woman

01:01:52.320 most time i just ghost women uh it's like if i'm not interested in them anymore i just ghost them

01:01:58.700 just start stop talking to them texting or whatever it just kind of goes away eventually

01:02:04.340 but uh there was like one woman who was trying to cause issues but since i have like more than

01:02:12.200 three years of private security experience i was able to foresee that ahead of time and when she

01:02:18.440 started talking things that i didn't like i just pointed to my hobby which is those little guys

01:02:27.160 the camera yep security cameras i just pointed her to one of my security cameras inside my

01:02:33.960 apartment and she immediately changed her tune just left and that was it uh you just have to

01:02:40.440 prepare ahead of time for this kind of stuff nowadays it's just simple as that what was the

01:02:45.960 reason you dumped her uh she wanted to be just the only woman in my life and that's not gonna happen

01:02:56.040 okay yeah so because i'm all about ghosting man you know ghosting is another one of those things

01:03:03.640 where women try to women will do that to men but then when it happens to them they try to say a

01:03:08.920 real man wouldn't ghost and blah blah blah because i okay women still try to hold men to a higher

01:03:15.720 standard and there are a lot of men who think that they should hold themselves to a higher standard

01:03:20.840 when when we tried to do that at one time but women call that patriarchy so i'm all about it

01:03:27.080 so what got you into the whole ghosting thing where you just stop talking to a woman uh it's

01:03:32.040 just uh once i get what i want from a woman and she doesn't have anything else to offer that that

01:03:40.280 is it pretty much it's just how it goes i mean i'm in a small town most women are from like over

01:03:46.440 100 miles away from me so it's actually easier for me got it okay cool

01:03:53.640 well i wish you luck in your ghosting keep it up yeah i sure will and keep those cameras rolling

01:04:02.240 man i just had two more contracts for cameras just today alone so i'm installing more and more

01:04:10.100 around my town so i have access to over 60 cameras now that helps me great well thanks

01:04:18.300 for calling in calling anytime okay sounds good have a good time okay jc jackson

01:04:31.260 jc are you there yeah can you hear me hey there he is hey jc how's it going where are you calling

01:04:37.340 out of it's going good out north carolina same as always cool so tell me have you dumped a woman

01:04:44.780 she crashed out what happened um i had two really bad ones um one one i just straight up

01:04:53.900 like dipped i got i got sick of her she was always we had this like we were together for

01:04:59.760 like three years we had this arrangement where i worked to put her put her through school

01:05:03.560 and then we got her done with school and then we were working to put me through school and uh

01:05:08.720 yeah she didn't like the whole working full-time while i went to school thing so

01:05:13.360 of course not yeah yeah that did yeah there was there was no there was no even backseat

01:05:17.360 there that did that was not that was not happening but yeah i uh i did i just i left

01:05:22.000 she came home from work one day me most of the furniture all that good stuff was gone

01:05:25.680 just left her and uh park the apartment her name and her dogs like here you go

01:05:33.440 so she she messaged me and she was pretty ill about that she went through our preacher and

01:05:37.760 stuff even to get a hold of me because i wasn't i was like i was i was not talking to her but

01:05:43.280 yeah you gotta just take the l yeah i just i told i even told a preacher i said look

01:05:49.440 she was this way before um she started working everything was fine then she started uh i i got

01:05:54.480 her through her emt school then she started working full-time while i went to uh you know

01:06:01.120 went back to college to finish my degree and she was always angry always ill always had attitude

01:06:08.480 i was like but what about the other one my ex-wife uh uh so my first marriage uh uh we were we i i

01:06:20.400 found out she was like talking to other dudes and stuff while i was gone for like the military when

01:06:24.080 i got back she didn't think i knew so i just kind of let it go for a time i she didn't know i knew

01:06:28.880 but all the bills were in my name so like i took the phone and uh when i left i took the phone

01:06:36.320 took my stuff you know and our kid i couldn't really take our kid at the moment but when i

01:06:40.720 went through the phone she had been buying she'd been buying prescription pills from one of our

01:06:46.400 neighbors one of our neighbors had like a pain uh pain pill uh yeah yeah yeah so i went to uh

01:06:55.200 uh i went to my lawyer because we were you know i was getting divorced and hey look this is going

01:07:00.240 on he went to a judge got an emergency order and so she found out i was breaking up with her

01:07:06.640 basically when the cops showed up like hey hey uh the kid's going with him you can argue about the

01:07:12.240 kid's going with him right now oh my god i i was i was not physically there like like like i was not

01:07:21.680 within like but i was like across the street watching it and she was she was freaking out

01:07:28.080 with the cops and then my phone blew up after they took the kid and you know they put the kid in the

01:07:33.120 cop car brought her to my house i would like to say i was within 100 yards so she couldn't see

01:07:38.000 me but i could see everything and my phone just my phone went off and that was a that was a bad

01:07:48.320 i ended up getting full custody eventually no way hey yeah yeah i got i won a few men

01:07:54.800 into the history that got full custody but uh i had full custody of my daughter after that from age

01:08:02.560 five until she was about nine i think and then you know her mother went and got quote quote

01:08:08.000 clean off drugs and remarried and she came back and now we share 50 50 custody now she's fine

01:08:14.080 but like it was you know when our early years was really rough okay on a scale of one to ten and

01:08:21.700 looks the mother of your child where would she rate because she got off drugs and got remarried

01:08:28.500 again uh she um i say about a six like like we were from we were from a small town and we were

01:08:37.020 high school sweethearts and then you know we broke up and she got a younger guy from our same high

01:08:42.140 school and she 100 convinced that man like hey yeah go into the military like they got they got

01:08:49.020 they got they got married three weeks after our divorce went through so oh okay it was kind of

01:08:56.380 like completely lined up i'm so another thing i'm gonna ask the um i'll ask each person is

01:09:02.860 why do you think it's so hard for for women to take l's when it comes to like relationships why

01:09:08.060 is it because they've never done it before yeah i i see i see it with everyone i've seen it with

01:09:14.220 my mother i've seen with my mother-in-law i've seen it with my sister-in-law i've seen with

01:09:18.620 i've seen with my sister they don't they don't know how like it fundamentally messes up their

01:09:24.380 brain if they're the ones that broken up with because it just it's just not supposed to happen

01:09:28.620 in quote quote their their reality and they have no idea how to like you can't explain it to them

01:09:35.100 all day but it just the wires will not connect it doesn't matter what you do you know you know

01:09:41.180 like men will crash out over a breakup at like 18 to 20 and since it's so delayed for women

01:09:47.900 and it doesn't happen to us till like 25 to 35 depending on when you start getting ugly

01:09:55.180 and um i don't know i think it's kind of delayed for women would you agree yeah i think most young

01:10:02.860 men i so i think social media is different now i don't because back then we didn't have like phones

01:10:08.460 in our faces for everything so i think most young men my age they done cried over girls by like 12

01:10:13.500 13 and so like by the time they got to 18 they're like oh yeah i got dumped again it is what it is

01:10:18.940 yeah well i think um gen z is just kind of delayed with that i don't know how old your daughter is

01:10:24.540 but like it seems i don't like my gen z relatives um it was very different than like the millennials

01:10:34.220 because if they like went out drinking or something we would be excited because they'd be

01:10:39.020 going out and like doing something like none of them really seemed to date or like i don't know

01:10:44.780 they just seem like all the big life events are like delayed is that what you've seen or no

01:10:49.420 yes um like i don't even because i have younger female cousins like no one really even dates

01:10:56.620 anymore like like there's no like talking or dating phase it's uh it's because my cousin

01:11:02.860 recently got a boyfriend and it was i had no idea he's this i know how this is he's at the

01:11:07.580 family family dinner like just it goes from it goes from this person doesn't exist to they're

01:11:14.380 coming over for every holiday like there's no really in between for some reason yeah yeah yeah

01:11:21.980 i i agree with that and i think it's because of the social media thing where that has translated

01:11:27.980 to like instant instant gratification uh in real life too yeah they don't have to go out

01:11:33.980 like they can just sit at home yeah um like my i have a sister-in-law who's 16 and a or my daughter

01:11:42.300 will be 15 later this year they don't want their licenses like they don't want to drive because

01:11:47.500 they don't have that's a big thing that's a big thing a lot of young young people just aren't

01:11:52.140 driving yeah so weird it's so weird yeah my my gen z relatives it's it was it was just really

01:11:59.820 contrast because if they the two i'm thinking of if they were caught like with a boy drinking or

01:12:06.700 anything i think our family would have been like excited because they just would never leave do

01:12:12.220 you know what i mean like we're like oh finally they'll do it they're like doing some normal

01:12:16.540 teenager stuff but yeah yeah okay and even even back when i was young and dating like you know

01:12:23.420 the early 2000s like the dating the the breakup ratio was still the same meals most time the girls

01:12:29.100 were breaking up with the guys like you you would know if you would know if a girl got broken up

01:12:35.820 with because they be they had meltdowns in the middle class in high school they didn't care

01:12:41.660 okay yeah now they do it on social media yeah all right thanks for calling in buddy yeah thanks for

01:12:49.020 calling in okay next up guys hit that like button subscribe we are on our way to three million

01:13:02.860 hit that super chat button we'd really appreciate it and i'm bringing william in once it's done

01:13:09.340 joining uh give me one second it says joining um

01:13:20.140 huh well let me see if it'll bring luis in while he whoever joins first will be in

01:13:28.940 Okay. Luis, are you there? You're on mute.

01:13:40.620 You're on mute.

01:13:41.820 There we go.

01:13:43.480 Hey, Luis. How's it going?

01:13:46.000 Good. Hey, Pearl. Good to finally see you. I was watching YouTube not too long ago, and I saw that you were at the Grove, right up the street from my fiancée's place.

01:13:55.440 So it was a shame I wasn't there at the time.

01:13:57.320 I would have said hello to you and the guy that you were with.

01:14:01.860 OK, cool.

01:14:04.860 I don't know where that's I don't know if that was me.

01:14:08.460 Yeah, you were at the Grove.

01:14:09.840 You were doing some some interviews and you were with the Indian guy.

01:14:16.600 I think he's Indian. I'm not too sure what his name is.

01:14:18.840 Oh, OK. Oh, you're talking about in California.

01:14:22.300 I forget the names of places I went to.

01:14:26.460 I'm like, I don't remember going to the...

01:14:28.180 Okay, yeah.

01:14:29.420 Yeah, no, that was awesome.

01:14:31.080 I enjoyed that interview.

01:14:32.780 Cool.

01:14:34.300 Cool.

01:14:36.920 What was I going to ask?

01:14:38.460 So dumping women, how has that gone for you?

01:14:42.940 What's the craziest thing that a woman's done after you dumped her?

01:14:48.000 Oh, yeah.

01:14:48.980 So I dated this religious chick, right?

01:14:52.300 And I was actually engaged to this religious chick. And we were together for about two, three years and everything was going great. But I started seeing all these red flags. So but after the engagement broke off and it didn't work out, she got into this religious podcast. Right.

01:15:11.180 where she was being negative being super uh you know playing the small fiddle uh oh woe is me

01:15:20.340 it was all his fault uh and just you're just spewing all these lies to this platform that

01:15:26.320 she had you know on this uh religious uh uh chat that she would have on on youtube she was telling

01:15:31.980 the female friendly version of the story you know what that is uh what is that friendly version of

01:15:37.160 story is where they're the hero and the victim at the same time in the story right that's about right

01:15:44.520 sounds yeah sounds about 100 go ahead so yeah so and then when i found this out obviously i didn't

01:15:50.520 reach out to her i'm like look at this i was sharing that platform with my friends and family

01:15:55.720 members like can you believe this broad you know she's like telling lies how you know i was a bad

01:16:00.520 guy you know i was a bad influence and i just couldn't believe it it was just you know lies

01:16:05.800 after lies but it was making her look good obviously but it was just one of the things

01:16:10.360 that i couldn't believe she would you know go to that extent to you know kind of blackball me or

01:16:15.400 you know treat me you know paint me like i was the evil person in the relationship which which i

01:16:20.520 wasn't because i did everything for her i bent over backwards uh yeah it's a long story but i

01:16:26.120 mean can you give me an example of one thing that she said um and tell me how you would tell the

01:16:31.560 story and how she would tell it not like everything but just like one specific example that she told

01:16:39.000 oh yeah definitely let's see so uh okay so i live in san diego go padres right so we had this uh

01:16:49.160 pool party at one of the places where you know me and my my housemates were renting it was it

01:16:54.360 it was like a five-bedroom house nice size pool hot jacuzzi and everything so we had it was

01:17:00.360 summertime and we had this huge party and uh so i invite her and i invite some of her friends and

01:17:07.000 my my the main housemate is a personal trainer and he has his own gym his crossfit gym so of course

01:17:12.920 he would bring his clients and his coaches and it was just you know it wasn't as bad as girls gone

01:17:19.240 wild but it was pretty close enough because all the the hot coaches and the clients were wearing

01:17:23.880 you know they were super fit wearing their best bathing suits outfits and you know obviously i

01:17:29.320 I wasn't going to hide anything from my fiance at the time. So I said, you know what, come on down,

01:17:32.860 let's have a good time. You know, it's going to be, it's going to be a great time. So she gets

01:17:36.440 there. She doesn't like what she sees. She looks at me like, Hey, what's going on here? So I'm like,

01:17:42.160 okay, well, you know, just relax, you know, just have to have some drinks and enjoy the views and

01:17:47.480 enjoy the music. So as soon as she gets home, she tells like her friends and family members,

01:17:51.940 oh my God, you know, this, you know, he invited me to like this, like, you know, almost like a,

01:17:58.040 like a Diddy party or something like that, you know?

01:18:01.240 Half naked chicks, dudes, drugs, everything my mother,

01:18:05.240 to tell her what I was up to with these guys that I'm living with.

01:18:09.220 I'm like, that wasn't even the case.

01:18:11.280 I'm like, and how dare you go behind my back?

01:18:13.860 You know, these issues are between you and I.

01:18:16.860 I mean, don't bring my family into it.

01:18:21.280 So how did she take the, so she went on a pod,

01:18:25.360 like when you broke up with her and dumped her,

01:18:27.380 Was she like balling and stuff or how did she react when you actually broke up with her?

01:18:32.020 Oh, yeah, she was just crying, you know, and, you know, I think I heard another guest mentioned something about, you know, or maybe those are the videos that you were putting on earlier, how, you know, oh, my God, you know, you're my life, you know, take me back, you know, I can change.

01:18:47.520 i said listen you're never gonna change you know it's like i saw the red flags and i thought once

01:18:53.200 we got engaged that she would change and knowing that this was going to be a serious thing

01:18:58.960 and we're moving forward but she just got even worse and i'm like you know what you can't

01:19:03.360 change a zebra stripes right i mean you're never going to change you are who you are you're super

01:19:08.160 jealous you're super controlling it's like and i don't deserve this so i treated you nothing like

01:19:13.120 a queen so it's time for me to move on okay well good for you and so after you said all that

01:19:20.640 that's when she went on the podcast uh yeah maybe six months later she she got into this podcast

01:19:27.600 religious christian podcast and just paying over here you know look women are whores women are

01:19:35.600 mothers but the worst thing about modern women is that they can't they overshare too much

01:19:42.480 britney renner britney renner she she could have won if she would have made a couple of different

01:19:47.280 decisions and the worst part about a britney renner isn't the fact that she's a waste of

01:19:52.720 pretty isn't the fact that she's a whore isn't the fact that she freaking groomed some young

01:19:58.240 18 year old and had his kid is the fact that she can't keep her mouth shut if you get with a

01:20:02.960 britney renner she will write a book about you you your ex any guy that gets with her

01:20:09.120 is going to be fodder for a podcast afterwards i agree 100 although britney runners made a

01:20:18.660 comeback this year let's see if she pulls off kevin gates you know she's she made as one of

01:20:25.620 his wives yeah she's doing that um like the buzzer beater like the kobe at the end

01:20:30.780 let's see if it goes in we'll see yeah all right thanks for calling in okay calling anytime

01:20:40.640 thanks bro okay then we have a return guest we have

01:20:47.020 detox is back on let me get him in here detox how you doing buddy what's going on buddy how

01:20:55.100 you doing doing good how's it going detox just terrible just terrible how you doing pearl why

01:21:02.560 what's bad it's a joke it's a joke i'm doing great how you guys doing tonight good so what's

01:21:08.720 the worst way a woman's reacted when you've dumped her um i i got a few of them because i've done

01:21:16.860 quite a few chicks in my days um but the most recent one we were like on again off again but

01:21:23.600 I'll start out just to give her some credit.

01:21:26.200 She wasn't always like this.

01:21:27.780 It didn't start out this way.

01:21:29.780 Okay.

01:21:31.820 I had brought her, and believe it or not, this is a traditional woman.

01:21:36.100 She was from another country.

01:21:37.940 I brought her over to the States.

01:21:39.540 We were sharing a place.

01:21:41.160 What continent?

01:21:43.420 I don't want to say, because if I say that, people know my profile and stuff.

01:21:47.540 Okay, sorry.

01:21:48.760 Let's just say not from the United States.

01:21:50.580 Okay.

01:21:53.060 Cool.

01:21:53.600 she was staying in my in in my apartment and then like little by little the the modern woman started

01:22:00.800 creeping out right so um one one night we got in this argument and the argument was unresolved

01:22:10.160 in the night time we both went to bed pissed off and then the next day the next day i was like i

01:22:18.160 slept on the couch and she slept in the bed i went in there to wake her up and i gave her a kiss on

01:22:22.480 the forehead and she jumped up and she's like i was sleeping i was sleeping why did you wake me up

01:22:27.760 and she just started wigging out so i went like i left the situation i went into the living room

01:22:33.680 and that pissed her off even more right she runs into the living room she's she's like yelling at

01:22:39.520 me because obviously in her head she thinks she's doing the best she can do to resolve the situation

01:22:44.080 and i just didn't like the way she was talking to me it was like she was standing over me putting

01:22:47.840 her fingers in my face and i was like i'm not going to talk to you when you're pissed off like

01:22:52.320 this right and she goes if you walk out that door we are finished we are done and i'm like whatever

01:22:59.360 so i take out my phone and i start like just ignoring her and looking at youtube or whatever

01:23:04.080 just trying to like tell her her like i'm not going to engage with you while you're all pissed

01:23:08.320 off like this she snatches the phone out of my hand right and i'm like i got really pissed

01:23:14.880 but i held my temper i'm like don't fucking do that i take my phone back from her she snatches

01:23:20.400 it out of my hand again but to the point where it like hits my hand and my phone falls right

01:23:25.520 so at that point she's like she's like cocking back like she's ready to swing on me

01:23:30.160 and i grabbed her hands and uh like i pushed her back right so after that argument we pretty much

01:23:37.600 broke up the next day i had to kick her out and like it it was like a super super duper dramatic

01:23:42.160 scene right so at this point we're broken up like i kicked her out i'm like i don't want to see you

01:23:48.960 again she she she uh took an uber all the way to the airport and flew back to our country um

01:23:55.840 then later on like a couple weeks later i find out that she's telling my mom like oh he put his

01:24:03.680 hands on me and he was very aggressive and violent and she's basically saying like all the stuff

01:24:10.400 that she did to me that i did to her and that it was so messed up of so messed up of me to kick her

01:24:16.480 out at 2 a.m in the morning like she was just something like like i just started this whole

01:24:20.400 for no reason right it was insane all right so then we started talking again like to fix

01:24:27.360 her like it was it was like on and off again for like two years right we started talking again to

01:24:33.440 like fix the relationship i missed her she missed me we were like working through all of our issues

01:24:38.080 right and so i'm getting ready to go fly down to her country to meet her

01:24:42.800 and then me and my mom are having this conversation so whenever your girlfriend

01:24:46.000 becomes like best friends with your mom and you don't like your mom that is a huge red flag because

01:24:50.800 if they get along and and your mom is crazy most likely the girlfriend is going to be crazy too

01:24:55.600 because they think alike so um she i'm getting ready to go fly down and me and my mom is like

01:25:02.320 why are you going to go see that girl my mom had this thing where she would like play both sides

01:25:06.480 right she would be like my girl's best friend when i wasn't around and when my when my girl

01:25:12.000 wasn't around she'd be like my best friend and like say bad stuff about her right so my mom is

01:25:17.440 like you shouldn't be wasting time going to go see that girl i don't know why she she basically

01:25:22.240 starts explaining to me that um this girl told her so she was in the process of reapplying to

01:25:30.160 get her visa to come back to the states right she told my mom that i called the the american embassy

01:25:39.440 or whoever it does that that all that um that hands out the visas that i called them and ruined

01:25:45.520 her visa and that's why she failed her visa test and i could not believe what i was hearing right

01:25:51.760 so then she she um i was like that i'm not going down there right like why would you say something

01:25:57.680 like that with zero proof and then just because you felt like i did that it was completely

01:26:02.880 athlinem back shit backwards like you just you're just making up at this point to make me look bad

01:26:07.680 and then saying that behind my back like people we know right so then she so we hadn't talked for

01:26:14.320 like at that point i just stopped responding to her so then it i think it had been like maybe

01:26:19.280 20 something days like 21 or 22 days later i just got back from a work trip she's she calls me and

01:26:26.480 I'm like, I'm on the phone with the client. Like, let me call you back. She calls me again. I say,

01:26:31.780 stop calling. I had to text her. Like she, she just kept calling over and over and over and

01:26:36.480 over. And basically like, I lost a lot of money on the sales call because the client just kept

01:26:41.140 hearing boop, boop, boop every five seconds while they're, while I'm trying to have this business,

01:26:46.600 this business call. And like the, this was right when the economy started getting like really

01:26:51.520 crappy so i really really needed that money right i tell her stop calling me i'll call you in a

01:26:57.880 little bit like what is so important that you have to talk to me right now right she goes did did you

01:27:03.620 tell these people that they did they did it and and basically she started listing off all of this

01:27:08.280 crazy shit that never happened and i was like that's why you're blowing up my phone like you

01:27:12.200 couldn't wait to talk about this so later so so ultimately what ended up happening what happened

01:27:17.400 with this girl nothing i just stopped talking to her man like it it got really bad we just got in

01:27:22.840 a few arguments and and then um so two of the client we were running this business together

01:27:27.960 like really successfully i gave her like my worst clients but those clients um a large portion of my

01:27:34.520 clients were also like friends that i knew for a really long time she ended up becoming like best

01:27:38.920 friends with my clients and now they don't talk to me because of all the crazy that she's put out

01:27:44.040 yeah basically poisoning so many women doing that actually yeah they start hanging out with all your

01:27:51.880 your your best friends and all of your family and they just like basically manipulate them against

01:27:57.480 you like to absorb the resources it's crazy you want to hear the old so i had a friend um he was

01:28:04.760 20 years old 19 years old and he um he got this girl pregnant and his mom okay his mom was a

01:28:16.840 single mom and hated his dad right so right away the mom took his baby mother's side so he had

01:28:26.040 she had the kid and i was working a part-time job in retail at the time and this guy's baby

01:28:33.400 mother would come to the store and follow him around yelling and screaming at him calling him

01:28:39.560 all sorts of names saying he wasn't a man he wasn't a good dad and then his mom and his baby's

01:28:46.260 mother were the same were friends so then his mom would say the same thing oh you you're just like

01:28:51.940 your dad you know you're you're a piece of garbage blah blah blah right and he put up with that for

01:28:56.460 two years, right? Well, he bought a over-the-counter DNA test. He swapped that baby's mouth. It wasn't

01:29:07.860 his kid. That's wild. Two years of his baby mama yelling and screaming at him, and his mom

01:29:14.880 yelling and screaming at him, shaming him, calling him names, insulting him.

01:29:18.940 right when he found out he packed up his stuff and moved out of state yeah you know the crazy

01:29:29.080 thing is i i wish there were some type of legal like repercussions that would happen to people

01:29:33.740 that do that like i've heard some horror stories dude like absolute horror stories or like dudes

01:29:39.160 end up you know that taking their own life and eating you know stuff they shouldn't be eating

01:29:45.980 or swallowing you know chemicals that keep cars cool like just doing all kinds of stuff just to

01:29:52.060 get out of the situations like they're that stressed out you know it like really wrecks

01:29:56.540 their mind and people just don't care you know right i i know this um back to the um this this

01:30:04.780 one chick that i broke up with she ended up like becoming friends with a guy that i make music with

01:30:10.620 and then he had to deal with her shit and she did like even crazier stuff to him but

01:30:16.260 after i broke up with her right she so i was already seeing somebody new and then like we

01:30:21.480 were talking about fixing the relationship or whatever she comes over to me and this new chick's

01:30:27.820 like just to talk or whatever and the the new chick was in the other room sleeping and her

01:30:34.120 her bedroom door was right next to the front door and i'm like look keep it down she's sleeping like

01:30:39.200 I don't want to argue with you right now. And she's like, she just started wigging out.

01:30:44.580 She slams the door so hard that like the foundation of the house was like shaking and it cracked.

01:30:50.880 And of course my roommate woke up. Right. Then she starts hanging out with all of all of my

01:30:56.480 friends, like showing up to places that she did. She had zero idea that we would be. She just

01:31:01.980 magically found out we were there. Like in the city that I live in, we do this thing called

01:31:07.240 the drum circle where like a few hundred people go to the beach and you know we go out there and

01:31:11.800 have a few drinks so she would just show up and find us like she had gps on us bro why would you

01:31:18.240 want to be around someone that you like aren't together with anymore do you know what i mean

01:31:24.580 like don't you want to find a new boyfriend yeah exactly well she did find a new she did find a

01:31:30.160 new boyfriend which was like one of my one of my best friends and then he drove her crazy

01:31:34.220 she did the same thing to him that she did to me you know so she dated one of your best friends

01:31:39.920 like were you mad at him no i didn't care i wasn't like super in love with this girl it's kind of

01:31:45.020 just banging her and like we ended up living together and like producing music together but

01:31:49.040 i wasn't like i wasn't like super into her you know like we were just kind of like hooking up

01:31:53.880 and i called her my girlfriend but i didn't like actually do you date a bunch of these creative

01:31:57.400 music artist type i mean i have dated a few not a not like a ton maybe like four or five

01:32:05.760 because you know all of them are crazy you know that right don't don't talk about us creatives

01:32:12.100 like that no no no no no i'm talking about the women not not the men no i've dated some pretty

01:32:18.880 awesome creative women man they're not all bad trust me there's a lot of amazing women out there

01:32:23.260 but um to finalize that story um one of the things she would do right is so she was also my

01:32:30.040 sister's best friend for a while up until the point where you know i broke up with her oh she

01:32:35.060 stopped she stopped talking to my sister all of a sudden like my sister was evil and they never had

01:32:38.740 a problem in like their 20 25 years of friendship until i like until we broke up right she started

01:32:46.680 so i had moved in with so the same girl that i was living with well we ended up not becoming

01:32:53.040 a thing and then but we were like still really good friends so her and her boyfriend had this

01:32:57.800 place and they invited me to come stay or come visit or wherever i ended up moving in with them

01:33:01.860 because they were like awesome people you know and this chick would come over to the house and

01:33:07.260 when she found out i lived there she's like you guys need to tell him to leave and they're like

01:33:11.180 we're not gonna kick him out this is his this is his house too what are you talking about

01:33:15.640 she would like talk shit to all of my friends about how terrible of a guy I was and how mean

01:33:23.120 I was to her. And he's such a bad guy and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then, so she formed

01:33:27.620 like this whole little online community where all they do is like, talk about me. It's insane.

01:33:33.960 You know how I realized what the men go through is because when I started thinking, or I guess

01:33:38.420 talking like a guy in some retrospects, they started treating me like you guys. I mean,

01:33:43.920 I got whole coalitions of women that try to take me down.

01:33:47.540 I call it the Facebook fan clubs.

01:33:51.480 I mean, I had one woman probably cost me $2 million, one scorned woman.

01:33:56.740 That's insane.

01:33:57.600 You know, I kind of understand when men don't fight.

01:34:00.420 They're just like, look, you win, lady.

01:34:02.320 Look, you win.

01:34:03.640 Just take whatever the fuck you want to take.

01:34:06.980 I mean, those groups took me to some pretty dark and depressing places.

01:34:11.740 but like over time like after 10 years i'm just like you know what whatever these people are

01:34:16.540 gonna say whatever they want to say about me like i just don't give a shit about it anymore so

01:34:20.700 after a while it's more amusing than anything like these people are still talking about me

01:34:24.700 because we broke up like 10 years ago they're still in the facebook group about you

01:34:30.300 every like every day and they and they track my location too so whenever they figure out what

01:34:35.500 city i'm in they put it in the group are you like a dj or something i don't how do they know what

01:34:42.060 location you're in because somebody somebody that they know will see me or like an old friend that

01:34:48.540 i definitely don't talk to anymore will call me up and like start a conversation or say they have work

01:34:53.180 and then they'll be like oh by the way where are you and then they just disappear and then i'll

01:34:57.980 notice that whenever i'm in that city like at certain locations like people start treating me

01:35:02.780 different like i've had places where people were like super friendly to me now they're like spitting

01:35:07.420 in my coffee oh my gosh that's the worst it's the worst one when you know they're doing it

01:35:14.940 but you can't prove it but you can just tell do you know what i mean yeah they give you the look

01:35:21.340 they give you the i call it the look like once you see that look you know they they know they

01:35:25.740 recognize you before you recognize them yeah it says um crx joe says 49 and tired of dealing with

01:35:33.820 all this bs the ex-wife screwed three different guys and handed me divorce papers and she told me

01:35:38.940 what she did women are evil like why didn't she just if you didn't know about the cheating why

01:35:43.340 didn't why did she tell you you know what i mean like she could have she could have divorced you

01:35:48.140 and like made up some you know sob story or said you don't appreciate that would have been better

01:35:53.900 than like i just what's what's the purpose of saying that you know what i mean like imagine

01:36:00.300 if a guy's gonna like dump you and he's like oh and i effed her her i've effed your friend it's

01:36:05.420 like for why why would you do that yeah they just do that it's because i mean they don't want to

01:36:10.620 punch you physically or fight you so they're just trying like get at you you know emotionally but

01:36:15.260 i'm gonna run thanks for having me on guys thanks for coming i was gonna talk to you all right later

01:36:21.340 okay we have uh one more person on this will be the last call of the night

01:36:27.180 cool let bucky in bucky are you there

01:36:36.380 bucky are you there yes bucky how's it going how's it going how's it going

01:36:43.900 where are you calling out of have you called him before that name sounds familiar i've called him

01:36:49.420 one time before okay what part of the country were you midwest uh yeah i'm in georgia cool

01:36:55.820 okay well that's a little south but can you hear me yeah i can hear you so okay tell me

01:37:01.820 your breakup story what's the worst way a woman's broken or um you've broken a woman's reacted when

01:37:07.260 you've broken up with her yes yes i can tell you i had a breakup story um i'm an older guy i'm in

01:37:14.140 my early 50s never been married and i lived in china for about 20 years so i had a girlfriend

01:37:22.060 there she was very nice in the beginning but later on as we started to um there were some things

01:37:32.460 between us that you know i felt that were her character and mine were a little different she

01:37:39.420 wasn't like cheating on me or anything like that but um we didn't like the same outside of sex we

01:37:45.580 didn't have nothing in common so i broke um i told her you know that and um i had been with her for

01:37:53.260 about six months after i told her that she told me in the chinese tradition that if you um break up

01:38:01.340 with the girl you got to give them a uh what do you call it uh money because like i was in my

01:38:08.300 late 40s late 40s at the time she was in her late 20s and um they said you wasted their youth because

01:38:15.420 she was with me for about six months so okay that's not that much use like come on yeah yeah

01:38:21.900 she's not that yeah i don't know why but she a lot of chinese men do that that's very common like

01:38:26.300 if they did a younger girl if they break up they have to pay the family some sort of fee okay

01:38:32.860 because uh you know that's what they do okay so i told her basically no i'm not paying that up

01:38:39.260 and um so she got her family to come down harass me at at work and um her family and some other

01:38:48.780 people she had they would come by and try to you know demand some money out of me so

01:38:54.060 So things got a little worse after that, and I basically had to hire someone to go down

01:39:03.720 and pay her family a visit, not violently, but to let them know things could escalate

01:39:09.920 if you keep on bothering me.

01:39:12.000 And they kind of backed down once they saw that I was going to do what I was going to

01:39:17.720 do.

01:39:18.360 But she turned into a complete monster after that, because she said, I told her.

01:39:24.060 was this in china i'm sorry what did you say you said she was chinese was this in china okay yeah

01:39:31.080 this was yeah because i don't know if you wouldn't have gotten away with that here in the states but

01:39:35.100 in china there's a lot of men that do do that like if they're wealthy and they're rich and they

01:39:40.520 you know marry or they're with a girl who's like in their 20s they got to pay for living expenses

01:39:45.560 and all this other stuff and if they break up the family will want like a fee for that

01:39:50.800 because they say you wasted her youth so in china it's called ching chun fei so um that was a crazy

01:39:59.440 situation but you know that was that was the craziest one i had been through and i still

01:40:06.620 don't know why she was like that that's insane we got another super chat uh wait hold on i want

01:40:12.880 to read it really quick she was evil claimed to be christian thank you for the super chat guys

01:40:17.180 wow so it's common there for like um boyfriends to get harassed for wasting women's youth

01:40:23.960 essentially if they break up with them no i won't i don't want to give china a bad thing because a

01:40:29.260 lot of very nice chinese women and women of all races i'm not saying that but it is common but

01:40:35.220 here's the thing most chinese guys will pay that up if they have like if they i don't know like

01:40:41.780 they're what i call cultural tricks so they automatically know that it's going to cost

01:40:47.020 money just to especially she's attracted to be with this girl so if he if he's an older guy like

01:40:53.260 myself in his 40s and the girl he had what she he had was in her 20s then yeah it's common for

01:41:00.760 them to do that but most people are not wealthy they don't have that much money so most times

01:41:07.480 like it's not like that it's like both people in high school how was it being a passport bro there

01:41:13.260 did you get like a lot more female attention like going from america you have an american accent so

01:41:18.940 i'm going to assume you're american yeah yeah i got a lot more yeah it's if you go to china there's

01:41:26.160 not too many uh black well i'm african-american there's not too many black people there and

01:41:31.600 although there is sort of a bad stigma um but you get a lot you get a lot more attention from

01:41:38.020 people in general yeah and i like petite skinny women so they're right up my alley yeah so um

01:41:44.820 go ahead was it like 10x or just a little bit but like i'm just curious the difference in dating

01:41:51.620 like american women versus chinese okay that's a good question here's the thing i think if you're

01:41:58.100 good with women here in the states like you just you know how to talk you know how to interact

01:42:03.540 you know some guys are just good at it they're better at it you'll get like tenfold there like

01:42:08.600 you will you know you'll get better if you're like me i wouldn't say i was socially awkward but i

01:42:14.960 don't really go out that much and talk to a lot of women but i could i could still you know talk

01:42:19.760 to a girl and get her interested um that's like five x but i noticed a difference like guys you

01:42:26.300 see who normally might be losers here they'll pick up a lot of women there even if they're socially

01:42:32.060 awkward they'll get more women but if you're already good with women it's like tempo and are

01:42:37.820 the women of a higher quality there like are they more feminine or i mean clearly at least that one

01:42:43.820 was more at least just as crazy as american crazy yeah yeah um but i'm just curious overall did you

01:42:51.820 like well like pros and cons of chinese versus american i just like to get that's a unique

01:42:57.980 experience so i think it's interesting you live there for 20 years too yeah so tell us

01:43:04.220 yeah i went there in the late 90s um and it was completely different by the time i left which was

01:43:09.580 like in 2021 i came back here so in the late 90s china was um was much more conservative but

01:43:17.980 But behind closed doors, I noticed, like, people would say, like, oh, everybody, like, the Chinese movement will tell you, oh, yeah, we Chinese are conservative and you Americans are, like, open.

01:43:29.360 And they are right, because just to a bigger degree, because Chinese are more traditional.

01:43:34.780 But I discovered, like, behind closed doors, like, when you got to know people, so-and-so was sleeping with this person.

01:43:41.960 there i was a teacher at the time and so-and-so was sleeping around with the with the professor

01:43:46.760 and so you did it but they kind of kept it in wraps now things started to change like in the

01:43:54.760 2010s like 2010 2012 and it became more like open you know to to be permissive but they're not um

01:44:04.520 they're still not like it's here like you can't really just go out and you know with your butt

01:44:09.480 and hang out in the strip club, or they don't have that type of thing there, no.

01:44:13.640 The government does crack down on open displays of sexuality.

01:44:18.480 I've heard you need a lot more money to get married there. Is that true?

01:44:22.480 Yeah, there's a thing they called hong bao.

01:44:26.480 Hong bao is a red package.

01:44:30.480 So if you get married there and you know,

01:44:34.480 what's the word, dowry, you give the wife a dowry.

01:44:38.480 so some people give a lot some people give a little but it's customary for the man to give

01:44:43.540 something to the woman's family um now some oh another thing too in china if you get married

01:44:49.980 and you're a guy you better have a home or at least an apartment and a car uh if you don't

01:44:56.140 have that it's a little more difficult because the parents won't think you have anything for

01:45:01.600 their daughter so a lot of guys make sure they have that before they even think about marriage

01:45:06.720 got it um just one second crx joe says thank you for the support of men i've been watching

01:45:13.040 your channel for a while now keep doing what you're doing thank you for the super chat guys

01:45:17.280 it's very helpful when you guys send them um because we are monetized on youtube now so thank

01:45:22.640 you so much i'm sorry continue um i'm sorry what else did you ask me and i think i was just um

01:45:30.480 the pros and cons of um was there anything better about american women that you like

01:45:35.360 missed when you went there um i like petite women but i do like not fat but i like you know okay

01:45:47.440 like you know yeah you like step in the right places yeah that's it that's it yeah so chinese

01:45:55.040 are a little skinny but once they take off you know once it comes off i don't get too graphic

01:46:00.800 here but you know okay some people they just hide it better like how they dress but in terms of like

01:46:07.120 um here's the thing when i was here in the states i really i was going to college this was a long

01:46:14.160 time it was like in the 90s and i really didn't um i was a guy in my early 20s i didn't really

01:46:19.520 start exploring women until i got there so i really don't know much about american women i

01:46:23.920 know a lot about chinese and asian women so um i mean chinese and asian women from that part of

01:46:30.240 of the country not the ones living here so so yeah there is a difference um as i said before

01:46:37.380 they're they're more conservative but uh if you get one girl that's very honest about like her

01:46:45.940 sexuality which that people start to come out more like in the 2010 i noticed things changed

01:46:51.300 so that's when you started uh seeing more people be honest about their sexuality and and

01:46:57.240 what they try to do in china is they tell foreigners that um oh yeah chinese people

01:47:03.420 they'll still say this today like chinese are very conservative and the west is like

01:47:07.340 you know really corrupt when in reality like behind those doors you're doing all the

01:47:12.120 same type of stuff it's just more secret yeah women are women but yeah they like the you know

01:47:18.860 you know i could tell you story after story of um you know when i first got there i was this woman

01:47:25.380 she she was married she was an older woman she i was like in my late 20s she was an older woman

01:47:31.300 and she was married and she didn't tell me but she was giving me this guy's credit card and

01:47:37.060 i was driving around in the car that he bought her and all this crazy stuff then later i found

01:47:41.940 out that she was married but she didn't tell me so i got pimped big time but um yeah yeah so you

01:47:50.660 still hit though right yeah yeah you didn't die and you still hit sounds like a win for you

01:47:58.420 it was a win but if that guy ever found out i don't know what would

01:48:02.500 i cut i cut that off but i want to say one last thing okay there's a place in china called on

01:48:08.500 fujian province and a lot of african people go there like a lot of for some reason a lot of

01:48:13.700 africans do business and the women there are what they call shungyu i don't know if you've heard

01:48:19.540 heard it before shungi leftover women yeah very good it's very popular on youtube now so there's

01:48:25.280 a old chinese women who are like older and they are fine as hell they're not like some of these

01:48:32.280 fat but you asked me what was different about america in america you get an older woman

01:48:35.820 she don't really take care of herself but you got women there who are like 40 50 who look like in

01:48:41.420 their late 20s oh my gosh they don't i i've never been to china but in japan they don't age

01:48:47.540 yeah i know i know exact like like 20 years i i i could misinterpret their age go ahead

01:48:56.200 yeah yeah you've noticed that you were in japan so yeah it's the same thing in china

01:49:01.220 so you got a lot of women there who are older who have no children who are in chinese one thing

01:49:07.960 chinese i give chinese credit for they're very um smart when it comes to business and making money

01:49:13.480 even the average person knows they're very practical so you got a lot of these older women

01:49:19.140 who you know who got bank who look good for their age and um who can't find the guy and there's more

01:49:27.060 men in china than women china has more men than women slightly more so you got a lot of these

01:49:33.900 guys who are older who are lifeless but they won't even talk to those women so if you go to

01:49:40.560 food gym they particularly go for a lot of these african dudes who go there and they become like

01:49:45.240 a boy toy and i didn't know that i told my friend told me yeah i got all my friends over there and

01:49:51.880 i went there with him and um yeah they were hitting big time and some of these guys were broke

01:49:58.060 but they go over there and a lot of chinese like them so yeah that's one difference i would yeah

01:50:04.160 you asked me about a difference i would say the women who are older actually they're actually

01:50:08.440 i think well it depends on what standards you have but they take care of themselves they age

01:50:16.340 better i've seen that with like um someone in the chat says my ex is japanese and oh they age and

01:50:22.160 get fat look i was there like a long time ago i was like 12 but i just remember that some of the

01:50:28.600 moms i couldn't believe they were moms because they looked like 20 25 um but she was like like

01:50:36.260 the kids were old like it wasn't like a young mom with a baby um okay well thanks so much for

01:50:43.660 sharing doug mpa you got any other questions for him nope thanks for bringing that perspective

01:50:50.180 man we really appreciate it yeah that was super interesting call in any time okay yeah if i have

01:50:56.020 something useful to add i'll call in you know and just shed a little light on some subjects

01:51:00.040 sure if i don't then you won't hear from me okay all right time maybe we'll do um see um

01:51:06.580 doug mpa maybe we could do a passport bros show yeah and guys can share there because we just had

01:51:12.820 two um semi passport bros call in so you can have guys um talk about how about we could get austin

01:51:19.780 holliman to call in he's done i did a show with him like a long time ago are you there yeah uh

01:51:29.020 i thought the sound went out for a second yeah yeah yeah i'll have to reach out to him cool

01:51:35.580 well but yeah yeah those are all the rest of the callers cool well guys thanks so much for

01:51:42.540 calling in it's been great getting callers the last few weeks so i really appreciate it

01:51:47.980 um doug mpa any final thoughts on dumping women um women learning how to take an l is part of

01:51:56.700 being a man we all remember the first time we got our hearts ripped out and men we just got

01:52:01.420 to keep going you know you get your heart ripped out you get rejected you got to pick yourself up

01:52:06.380 because men are the ones that approach i've met some of the most powerful women lawyers doctors

01:52:12.380 surgeons and they will not approach a man since they can't handle rejection and like the guy the

01:52:18.300 caller said before women they don't know how to take rejection until they smash into the wall

01:52:24.060 a lot of times you breaking up with them is the first time that anyone has told them no in their

01:52:28.540 lives so guys just watch out when you break up with a woman you know hopefully she's know where

01:52:34.700 you live if you break up with her at your house protect that ps5 they always go for the ps5 man

01:52:44.460 so watch out for that yeah but these you know but and and i just recommend ghosting guys you know

01:52:50.540 just ghost him okay that's it all right thank you doug mpa all right guys like the video on

01:52:57.340 your way out and subscribe to the channel um and i'm thinking about doing the amish video in the

01:53:03.020 next like two weeks and i want to keep you guys posted so i want to go to an amish neighborhood

01:53:07.500 and interview some amish people and i have two choices for this video i can go to this amish

01:53:14.460 place that i went to when i was a kid it's like three hours from where i'm at now and i can just

01:53:19.020 see i i could just see if any of the amish will talk to me i don't know i haven't been there since

01:53:25.500 i was like eight or if somebody watching happens to know any amish people that would do an interview

01:53:33.180 or something and ideally you're in the midwest somewhere pearly things with a z on twitter or

01:53:39.900 email me um just pearly things at gmail.com yeah so anyways just so you know the only four percent

01:53:49.980 of the amish are obese and the average amish person lives to be between 80 and 85. yeah i just

01:53:58.060 think it'd be cool to go see their thoughts on like relationships and i don't know like i want

01:54:04.060 want to see if any of the women's answers are like are women women even when they're Amish

01:54:09.120 so I just want to see so it would kind of be a cool video I I certainly I'm totally willing to

01:54:18.680 go to this Amish community by myself and just see I'm just a little nervous I drive all the

01:54:24.200 way out there and no one will talk to me I don't know I don't know we'll see anyways guys um

01:54:31.020 indiana that'd be perfect if you know any all right guys like the video on your way out please

01:54:36.480 subscribe to the channel and bring that notification bell thank you guys so much

01:54:39.260 for watching and i'll see you guys next time bye

Pearl - June 08, 2025

When Modern Women Get Dumped (Call-In Show) ｜ Pearl Daily

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