Pearl - Why Can't Old Women Take the L？

00:00:00.000 Take the L, take the L, just give up and say oh well.

00:00:22.440 the L, take the L, just give up and say oh well. Now as far as I can tell, being an old

00:00:40.680 spinster is an L. And yeah, you know that your future is hell, but sometimes you gotta

00:00:52.120 take the L. Now, I'm not here to pretend I haven't taken my fair share of L's, but here's

00:01:04.260 the difference, ladies. You just gotta say, oh, well. Sarah Stock was foreign, too. She 0.98

00:01:17.120 She couldn't take an L, but she left you, too. 1.00

00:01:22.540 Another one that can't take an L. 1.00

00:01:27.560 It's the women on Call Her Daddy. 1.00

00:01:30.060 They act like they're under a spell. 1.00

00:01:32.460 Take the L.

00:01:35.140 Take the L. 1.00

00:01:38.100 L. 0.94

00:01:40.180 Why can't you just say, oh, well?

00:01:45.580 Take the L.

00:01:47.120 Yes. Hello, everybody. Let me, let me come here. Let me come here.

00:01:57.980 My dog has not gone out yet before the show, but she's sleeping. Um, so if,

00:02:03.460 if I have to let her out mid show, I'm going to do it. And you guys have to accept that.

00:02:08.660 What did you guys think of the song? Would you download it on Spotify?

00:02:11.960 by you wish you married me that's kind of simpy um you got to stop that you got to stop that there 0.98

00:02:21.080 is um i'm equally as annoying as other women okay 0.61

00:02:26.440 you know what i mean

00:02:32.580 so what up guys uh welcome to another episode of pearl daily here on the audacity

00:02:39.320 network i really appreciate you guys um you know tuning in if you want to support the show there

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00:02:51.400 which is on divorce and future documentaries which i hope to be on um i hope to do the military

00:03:00.140 and false allegations next so let's talk about taking out so women get older in life and you

00:03:08.820 know father time is just something we cannot get away from father time is just something everybody

00:03:17.860 you know comes to women hit the wall men hit the wall much later but like let's keep it a buck

00:03:24.320 i'm a dude at 70 is not pulling what he was at 35 or 40 you know what i mean like let's keep it a

00:03:29.720 buck it comes for everyone but it comes for women especially hard because the 70 year old ninja can

00:03:35.560 still date 50 40 30 the 70 year old woman um i mean it's kind of an l like she can date um

00:03:44.920 i mean she could sleep with a lot of people i i actually you know i gotta be honest 0.99

00:03:49.320 and she can i mean i saw this video of a old sex worker that said some of her clients were

00:03:54.920 20 something year old guys i'm like fellas what are we doing what are we doing why are we doing this

00:04:05.560 so

00:04:12.680 father time does come for everybody and nobody can avoid it one day and you know i i mean pretty

00:04:21.880 much now i'm 29 so my eggs are all dried up i'm old and ugly you know and i'm just gonna get older

00:04:29.020 and uglier. And that's just an L, right? As women and women in general, you know, at one point we're 0.57

00:04:37.400 young, we're hot, we're youthful, we're full of life, we're bright eyed and bushy tailed. And

00:04:43.520 then, you know, life takes it out of us and we get old, ugly and bitter. Old, ugly and bitter.

00:04:55.580 and this is an L. It's an L that we'll have to live with the rest of our lives. But modern women 1.00

00:05:01.100 win in their youth. In our youth, we get attention from the highest status men on the entire planet 1.00

00:05:10.180 and get opportunities that only one can dream of. I mean, I could speak for myself and I could

00:05:18.200 speak for other women. I've met women that have gotten invited to Chris Brown's parties,

00:05:24.740 Drake's parties, NBA players' parties, flown out to Dubai.

00:05:42.740 And as women, we win in our youth. 1.00

00:05:47.820 And when the high status, we are used to being high status.

00:05:52.060 we're used to our opinions being important we're used to people caring about what we do

00:05:57.380 I was even thinking how as a woman like everyone cares about who you're dating I was like I was

00:06:02.680 thinking about like in my career how many questions I get about that and blah blah blah

00:06:06.640 men it's just not the same nobody cares right I was thinking about this nobody cares nobody um

00:06:15.320 nobody cares at all

00:06:18.840 so let's talk about coping coping refers to the cognitive and behavioral strategies used to manage

00:06:31.200 reduce or withstand stressful situations emotions or difficult life challenges it involves active

00:06:39.140 efforts to solve problems or handle negative emotions common examples include exercising

00:06:46.200 seeking social support, positive reframing, and planning. While poor coping can involve avoidance,

00:06:54.340 the key aspects of coping, the mental and physical effort to handle stress or difficult circumstances.

00:07:01.620 There's problem-focused coping, which is addressing the cause of the stress, planning,

00:07:07.160 emotion-focused, managing the emotional distress, and meaning-focused, using cognitive strategies

00:07:13.460 to understand and find meaning in the situation. Now, there's types of coping, positive coping

00:07:20.500 and negative coping. Healthy strategies like exercise. You know, it's like as a woman,

00:07:25.540 when you get old, some women like myself get addicted to the gym. It's like, we'll never get

00:07:31.080 that vigor of our youth, but at least we can get the vigor of benching, you know, 150 or deadlifting

00:07:39.260 300. Therapy. We could argue if that's healthy or positive, but there are positive therapists

00:07:47.420 on the planet that do, you know, help. So there's social support, you know, making friends, blah,

00:07:56.300 blah, blah. And then there's negative coping strategies. Unhealthy strategies like avoidance,

00:08:01.580 substance, youth, or social withdrawal.

00:08:04.540 active coping she used active coping by creating a strict study schedule to manage her exam

00:08:15.060 synonyms managing handling dealing with navigating overcoming surviving

00:08:22.400 now look i'm not here to say there's never positive coping but the coping i have seen

00:08:29.900 is just gaslighting to eternity look at ladies as we get older we get uglier

00:08:36.320 hello 1.00

00:08:39.860 we get our eggs get used up

00:08:48.460 we get pumped dumped thrown back to the streets once again life makes us bitter nothing is new

00:08:58.480 to us. And, you know, there's two ways that you can really, after, you know, as somebody that's

00:09:04.120 taken my fair share of L's in life, publicly and privately. You know, life,

00:09:11.240 life is beautiful in a way. Because no matter how many L's you've taken, you can get back up and

00:09:22.660 keep fucking trying and I'm gonna use the female point of view but I could also use the male point 1.00

00:09:29.680 of view I know a woman that got married at fucking I need to stop dropping f-bombs I know a woman see 1.00

00:09:38.420 when you get old you start swearing more I know a woman that got married at 50 years old now this 1.00

00:09:44.780 is the exception most of you ladies this will not happen yet but you know how she got married she 0.90

00:09:49.040 didn't give up she didn't stop trying and that's one way i think that's a healthy way to cope you

00:10:02.220 know you're old as a woman you become a single mother discount that's that's a good way to cope

00:10:09.320 right um you know you get divorced now you're really on sale

00:10:17.400 the guys you like get it for free immediately honey do you want to come right over

00:10:32.920 but then there's the sad type of cope the cope where

00:10:39.320 you can't accept your circumstances.

00:10:43.220 There's nothing sadder than a single mother 0.99

00:10:45.080 that thinks she has the value of a young woman. 1.00

00:10:50.140 And there's nothing sadder than an old woman 0.96

00:10:55.120 that says she dates young men 1.00

00:10:58.240 because she wants to.

00:11:04.440 Like that is her first choice. 1.00

00:11:09.320 we all know why old women date young men because the young men can't get the women their age 1.00

00:11:16.740 because the young women are banging the old men, right?

00:11:24.240 Now, let's talk about humility.

00:11:27.040 humility is the quality of having a modest honest view of one's own importance free from pride

00:11:42.040 arrogance or the need to feel superior to others it is often described as thinking of yourself

00:11:49.740 less rather than thinking less of yourself. Key facets include recognizing one's limitations,

00:11:57.940 valuing others' perspectives, and acknowledging strengths without boasting.

00:12:03.900 Key aspects of humility, admitting mistakes, openly acknowledging when you are wrong

00:12:09.860 and don't know something rather than acting superior, seeking feedback, actively soliciting

00:12:16.560 input and learning from others regardless of their status giving credit sharing or redirecting

00:12:22.800 credit for successes to others instead of taking all the glory respectful listening engaging

00:12:28.700 respectfully with others own perspectives especially when they differ from your own

00:12:34.080 service and kindness putting others needs before your own and helping those in need

00:12:38.920 reflective practices as seen in traditions like christianity this can mean maintaining

00:12:46.280 lowliness of mind, focusing on service and avoiding self-centeredness. Synonyms of humility,

00:12:53.940 modest, humbleness, meekness, lowliness, submission. Humility is not lack of self-esteem

00:13:03.100 or self-deprecation. It does not mean believing you're worthless. It means having a balanced,

00:13:08.560 accurate view of yourself. Now, humility is supposed to come with age because life is

00:13:15.860 supposed to have humbled us all unfortunately um unfortunately women just seem to double down 0.92

00:13:26.620 so we're gonna read we're gonna start read with a new york times article of women coping okay

00:13:34.040 older women are in demand by younger men see what if this wasn't a coping article it would say

00:13:45.100 young men are settling for older women because young women are too difficult to get 0.99

00:13:51.940 and they are rejecting them. Okay, that would be. Younger men are increasingly seeking out 0.91

00:13:58.780 older women. And it's not just a dating trend. It's a shift in power, desire, and modern masculinity.

00:14:04.780 In this episode of The Opinions, the opinion cultural editor Nadja Spiegelman talks with

00:14:12.680 writer and psychoanalyst, Jamieson Webster and Emily Liebert, a staff writer at The Cut,

00:14:19.080 about why age gap relationships are so popular when they signal liberation, backlash, or something

00:14:25.840 more complicated. Recently, my 52-year-old friend and colleague separated from her husband. Okay, so

00:14:34.260 and so I made her a dating profile and the response from men in their 30s was overwhelming.

00:14:41.660 The oldest gap that I had was eight years. She was 35 and I was 27. Dylan, so I'm 34. The oldest

00:14:50.320 that I've been on a date with, I want to say is like close to 50. Tristan, I'm 28 and my ex-girlfriend

00:14:56.020 was 42. She had two kids who are the same age as my siblings. More young men are seeking to date

00:15:03.100 older women. Now, if this was being honest, it would say more young men want easy sex with older

00:15:11.780 women and the winners of the women that are old and likable may secure relationships, but most 0.93

00:15:18.740 will be pumped and dumped. Now, the reasons given are I was attracted to the level of emotional 0.96

00:15:30.000 maturity they could give me. This means they make sex easier to get than young women. 1.00

00:15:36.740 Tristan, just for openness for a relationship, a real relationship, exclusivity longer lasting. 0.97

00:15:43.500 Tristan, the translation, women my age don't want to settle down and I don't want to have to keep 1.00

00:15:48.720 taking these young broads on dates. I would rather they just come and hang out at my house. 1.00

00:15:54.700 Kendrick, they tend to be more in their careers and they are, and they tend to be more peaceful

00:15:59.760 when it comes to dating. Kendrick, translation, they're easier. The dating app Field reports

00:16:05.600 huge growth in this area in just the past two years. Because of the toxic dating world,

00:16:11.880 they all hate us all. Social media's men are trash. You know who's not saying that? The older ones. 1.00

00:16:17.620 They're not ghosting me after six weeks. Women over 40 have more spending power and social 1.00

00:16:22.980 capital than ever before. So is that why these age gap relationships are now all the rage? 0.99

00:16:28.600 we're going to talk in quite general stereotypes because that's the only way large groups of people

00:16:33.940 by gender and age we've all seen this in film and television there's baby girl there's the

00:16:39.400 reality reality show age of attraction and there's the idea of you the more there's more that i can

00:16:47.160 list over the past several years and so i was curious if this was actually happening in the

00:16:52.260 world not just in the media so i reached out to the dating app field and i asked them to run the

00:16:56.800 numbers on this and was just like, are you seeing this on your dating app data? And they said over

00:17:02.200 the past two years, the number of men who are exclusively interested in dating older women

00:17:06.300 has increased by 64%. And that is particularly true among the youngest bracket of men,

00:17:14.740 18 to 25 years old. This is happening. And I'm really curious why it's happening now.

00:17:20.100 Emily you reported a full story on this what did you expect to find

00:17:27.960 from the women I spoke to in my reporting and these are women across all ages I think the

00:17:34.400 biggest thing was a sense of freedom that they're not really beholden to this mold that men might

00:17:40.020 have held them to that they can simply be themselves okay when women say they want to

00:17:44.520 be themselves. They're saying, I want to be a whore. I want to be a whore. The men my age have 1.00

00:17:50.660 expectations of me and the young men, women are happiest when we're just like whoring. Like that's 1.00

00:17:56.140 like our happiest state for whatever reason. Like you ever see like, I mean, honestly, women will 1.00

00:18:01.840 take like a thousand dicks and just be smiling after. It's just incredible. Whores are very happy 0.99

00:18:06.900 people. They might not be happy with the consequences after, but let's not, let's not 1.00

00:18:11.220 pretend that these women are like devastated. They're not. So when the old women leave their 1.00

00:18:20.040 old husbands, they're like, yay, I can just be a whore because, you know, women are happiest when 1.00

00:18:25.400 they're treated like a whore and the young men are going to treat them like whores. 1.00

00:18:32.360 You know, they don't have to pine for male validation and male desire. And instead men 1.00

00:18:37.340 can just come to them. They want to find someone who isn't necessarily economically out earning

00:18:42.240 them. They didn't necessarily want to be with someone who's more successful than them. They

00:18:46.560 don't care about those things. They want to be in a relationship, a loving relationship with a

00:18:50.560 partner who sees and respects them. I think the other thing is they do get a sense of joy

00:18:55.760 in being able to shape a young man. I think that some of the women I spoke to are very interested

00:19:02.400 in building a boyfriend as sort of a perfect product they can carry on their arms. So this

00:19:06.920 is translation an Instagram boyfriend they want. They want a guy that looks good on their Instagram

00:19:12.160 and they can just brag that they're this old woman that can get attention from young men 0.67

00:19:17.140 even though it's really just coping. It's coping right. I'm curious about why you're saying at first

00:19:27.340 sorry I'm curious about what you were saying at first. Part of this pleasure is that men come to

00:19:33.760 them that they don't have to be in pursuit it reverses our image of the predatory cougar for

00:19:39.480 a lot of these women are they describing that they are being approached by these young men

00:19:43.760 yeah there was a stampede of young men coming up to them in the bars like one of the women

00:19:48.780 was at a random times square dive bar and she was like i could not even take a breath i couldn't

00:19:54.760 even take a sip every 20 seconds some 20 something year old was coming up to me and this is what

00:20:00.360 happens the young men they find that men if anything men like a few things they love routine 0.98

00:20:06.340 and they love easy simple not complicated so when they like when a man gets easy sex from an old 0.95

00:20:16.340 woman and it's enjoyable you know um she gluck gluck nine thousands she i mean she's at some 0.98

00:20:24.360 time. She better be good at bad at that point. Do you think that he's going to like stop at one? 1.00

00:20:32.020 Why would he stop at one? He's like, oh, I can get easy sex. And then he goes to the young women 0.99

00:20:37.940 and the young women are like, nah. And the old women are like, yeah. What do you think they're 0.69

00:20:44.240 going to do? It doesn't mean they're going to marry them. Right. But this is what we call 0.98

00:20:51.640 coping. And Jameson, are you seeing this happening in your social life or your practice? Are you

00:21:01.760 seeing this happening around you, this kind of relationship? Jameson says, I'm not seeing it in

00:21:06.700 any particular fashion personally, but I certainly have seen it pop up in culture and I've been

00:21:12.260 thinking about it. A lot of what I do about, a lot of what I do hear about is dating fatigue

00:21:17.980 with respect to the apps. And that's what's being called the manosphere is something that I think is

00:21:23.680 on everyone's mind and what's happening for men in their sense of possibility, which seems to be

00:21:28.240 part of the story of this question of age gap relationships. One of the things I think is

00:21:33.080 shockingly more visible and present, especially in the lives of my patients and the apps highlight

00:21:37.900 is just the feeling of the sheer number of other people that are in ruthless, ruthless competition

00:21:43.980 in that, which isn't helped in a society that is increasingly about inequality rather than

00:21:49.900 reducing inequality. Okay, so now they're just going to cope more. I don't end the rest of this

00:21:55.700 article. So now we're gonna, I think that's enough for this cope fest. So next, yeah,

00:22:03.280 they're not looking for love. They're looking for financial release.

00:22:13.980 women are just panicking because the old tactics never don't work men have adapted

00:22:18.900 and one thing we're good at is winning yeah i know so now we're going to watch some videos of 0.99

00:22:24.780 some old women just coping and my message to the ladies is you know losers my show is for losers

00:22:34.520 it's really not um for cool people i've never been a cool person um i know it's shocking but 0.97

00:22:42.460 it's really not so single moms loser people you are welcome here but we have to have some humility 0.99

00:22:50.060 admit and admit we're kind of losers right you know single mothers you're welcome in the show 0.96

00:22:56.300 cougars you're welcome here but we gotta we gotta admit that we're losers you know what i mean 0.73

00:23:05.020 you know we got to admit it okay 0.97

00:23:09.260 so this is a woman that has not accepted the fact that she is a loser okay so let's 0.97

00:23:19.260 started i was like drunk enough to have a girlfriend be like let's just do it i was like 0.86

00:23:24.060 yeah let's do it and that's how i ended up on this app listen i could take myself off the app but i

00:23:30.540 make secretly enjoying the joke it's great it's the joke i'm sorry i'm not i'm not trying to be

00:23:37.980 mean that's okay i'm not trying to mean but like i'm trying to like help this is like think of 0.61

00:23:44.700 this as like help as i'm a 50 ass year old woman telling you don't do it girls don't like it

00:23:50.460 they don't like it it's so true yeah the hand in the jean in no i can't 0.91

00:24:00.700 i just can't i just can't i'm sorry the ceo is also crazy is it glitching for you guys 0.97

00:24:07.980 it works for his dad yeah he works for his dad um okay how do we feel about sex on the first date 0.95

00:24:15.260 well so i like what do you consider what do you consider a date oh are you going on dates

00:24:22.220 yeah but i like i feel like when you like there's certain circumstances where you

00:24:27.980 meet somebody at a party and yeah you have sex and then that's it you know that's what it is

00:24:34.700 you're not thinking you're going to marry this person that's fair yeah are you down for one

00:24:38.700 night stand yes i don't have many of them i sound i'm sitting here sounding like i do so when i do 0.93

00:24:45.240 i'm like oh fuck yeah i should have done this in my 20s i was married from the time that i was like 0.93

00:24:51.540 having sex to the time that i had my last relationship then i had children who has 0.99

00:24:57.160 fucking time for dates and shaving and waxing and makeup and like i've got two children that have to 0.99

00:25:02.800 to school then i like i got it like this shit's on time like we got do you need me to send you a 0.99

00:25:07.920 call time i'm obsessed and it's this you've got two hours like what's happening cocky here but 0.96

00:25:13.200 i think it's because i found this freedom in my 40s where i'm like oh my god so i just want to

00:25:17.840 say this in perspective i've probably had three one night stands in my entire life okay but i did

00:25:24.720 just recently a 26 year old and it was really amazing yes and i've never done that and i was 0.98

00:25:31.680 like oh this is great okay let me just say that 26 year old man walking on this god damn planet

00:25:39.120 he's walking different today knowing oh my god he for sure is not but thank you he is yes i will 0.87

00:25:48.960 that's cope um actually she was a little bit more less copey than i thought

00:25:54.560 but still you know what i mean

00:25:56.000 and there's no reason why Charlie Therison and Halle Berry should be single.

00:26:04.400 Doug, they don't want to be in a relationship. 1.00

00:26:14.500 There's plenty of women, like, they don't like being with other people. 1.00

00:26:22.460 So, yeah, let's keep going. 1.00

00:26:26.000 another woman this is her coping in another way um uh whenever a guy says i would like to make 0.99

00:26:38.580 love to you it's a dick it's such an egg hundred percent of grace you don't get that that's an 0.99

00:26:46.880 x just the dry heat so what's your take let's start it from the beginning my bad my bad so 0.99

00:26:53.520 what's your take um uh whenever a guy says i would like to make love to you

00:27:00.060 it's an ick it's such an egg 100% agree you don't get that that's an ick just the dry heave

00:27:10.040 little dry heave that comes with it this could be multiple things there's a lot to unpack but 1.00

00:27:14.540 actually there isn't it's just very simple don't fucking say it don't say love because my vagina 0.99

00:27:18.880 of closes up coping right coping and what you get is women thinking 0.99

00:27:39.520 you know and they get more crass and it's just these are the grandmothers you know i mean i 0.90

00:27:44.880 I don't really mind if grandmas have like girl talk with their friends and

00:27:48.500 blah, blah, blah, but it's just, it's becoming a little bit much. 0.99

00:27:51.880 All right. We got Amber Rose up next. Oh, I thought this is video.

00:27:56.560 Let me pull this video. 1.00

00:28:02.600 Now Amber Rose used to be really hot back in her day. Amber Rose. 1.00

00:28:15.600 here we go i'm i'm 42 and the only guys i pull are like 22 23 24. i promise you i can't get a

00:28:36.560 old head for nothing what do you want do you want i'm just saying that i i don't know i

00:28:42.880 haven't experienced the old head yeah so this is cope right um you know let's just do a young amber

00:28:48.960 rose amber rose young i mean she could have gotten anybody um she was beautiful stunning like let's 0.98

00:29:02.480 i mean hello like

00:29:06.240 oh my gosh what is it this okay i'm trying to show this picture but it won't all right

00:29:12.880 all right let me let me go back here she used to be beautiful 0.98

00:29:18.660 body for days you know what i mean i mean i never was a fan of the short hair but 0.97

00:29:25.180 see what i mean let's go back here they just don't they don't come around me

00:29:33.200 now you know she's not bad looking but it's just it's just coat really none of these guys all these

00:29:40.920 guys are thinking it but they they know the reason who okay there's like a 51 year old that

00:29:50.700 yeah what is it about the younger crowd that you kind of like i i wouldn't say that i go towards 0.99

00:29:57.580 that they come to me and it's abundance of them so that's kind of my dating pool you need a nigga 0.99

00:30:06.400 gonna work five times a week five times a week you gotta show up yeah i need that stamina 1.00

00:30:11.580 i'm in my sexual prime guys right you know i'm not i can't i can't deal with an old head that's 0.66

00:30:20.520 not gonna two three days no no i'm gonna get turned off but outside of that do you think

00:30:27.040 the younger guys are more fun like outside of that way yeah the younger guys are more fun

00:30:32.220 they have more stamina

00:30:33.480 they want to do they want to 1.00

00:30:36.100 fucking go to Six Flags and shit 1.00

00:30:37.960 cope cope 1.00

00:30:40.000 cope cope

00:30:40.900 like I'm with

00:30:43.100 I'm with going to Six Flags 0.99

00:30:46.560 I don't want to fucking I don't 0.97

00:30:48.120 yeah what's the what's the best date you 0.98

00:30:50.140 been on

00:30:50.440 what's the best date

00:30:52.780 Doug if you got any more clips of women coping

00:30:55.740 feel free to put it in the doc oh god I've been on

00:30:57.960 so many wonderful dates

00:30:59.500 um

00:31:00.840 i don't know guys like i said i i'm a very simple south philly girl you know i just like

00:31:08.900 communication i'm like a lover girl i'm the goddess of love i'm a libra i like somebody that's

00:31:16.180 like get be ready by seven i'm picking you up and that you give me no other chance like i can't say

00:31:23.980 know like i want someone to take control i'm only going to submit to a man that's actually

00:31:30.300 had that actually has masculine energy if it's giving like i have masculine energy like yo it's

00:31:36.460 friday we going out like what the i'm not going to be interested in that yeah so again it could

00:31:42.840 be cheesecake factory it could be sitting in the car going for a drive you know i like flowers

00:31:49.560 though i do like when you pick me up i'm old school like that don't come without flowers i'm 0.96

00:31:53.620 not fucking with that open the door open the door i mean you there's ralph's on fucking every corner 0.95

00:31:58.860 like there's you can get me you don't have to get me a 400 bouquet but like you can get flowers from 0.97

00:32:04.840 ralph's it's not that serious it's a thought that counts what's the thank you for the super chat i

00:32:11.840 appreciate you bud um if you set up a power chat a larger percentage of your paid chats will go to

00:32:17.500 youtube uh when i finish this app maybe we can look into that we're we're almost done the app's

00:32:24.160 done in like two days your biggest like turn off or x like i'm still there um turn offs or x

00:32:32.760 i'm looking at all my friends over here um because they know me so well a turn off is

00:32:40.380 lack of communication um a turnoff is you make plans with me and you cancel last minute 0.87

00:32:48.380 and it's not like a really good reason i ain't fucking with that yeah translation um 0.83

00:32:56.500 i love the men that do this 0.99

00:32:58.860 um yeah if you're if you have an avoidant personality disorder where you know sexual 0.99

00:33:09.820 intimacy is a lot for you or saying like bitch i love you is a lot for you then you're not the 1.00

00:33:17.560 type of me i want somebody that's like with a boom box outside of my house like old school 90s 1.00

00:33:23.460 type shit trans i mean she did it kanye for a decade is that the type of ninja that you know 0.90

00:33:29.820 what i mean you know i that's what i need i need somebody that's gonna send me songs and be like 0.99

00:33:35.020 song made me think about you like i like corny i like nerdy guys i like guys that are smart that's

00:33:41.340 gonna teach me something because i feel like i feel like i know everything so if you could teach 0.99

00:33:45.660 me something then you're good in my book why do we even care what an old hoe has to say you know 0.98

00:33:55.580 what i mean it's like incredible like men will never be asked what they want and what they like 0.95

00:34:00.460 in a woman but yet we have four men listening to what this woman likes it's just incredible okay

00:34:10.860 i'm gonna send this to doug mpa so my question why can't old women take the l

00:34:17.020 so all right you guys can call in i'm gonna put it in the in the chat why can't old women take the l

00:34:22.700 thank you $10 super chat and if you have you guys ever have you guys seen this dynamic of 0.81

00:34:33.560 old women young men I know one couple and they actually did have a kid and it was like 42 woman 0.96

00:34:42.620 an 18 guy said you're too broke to send a super chat well that sounds like a lie I'm gonna be

00:34:53.440 honest the lowest super chats are like two dollars so I just can't imagine that two dollars like

00:35:00.220 honestly if if two dollars is too much to send a super chat then you really shouldn't be watching

00:35:09.480 my show you should be picking up a second job i mean this is like do you know what i mean you

00:35:14.800 you're not super chatting because you don't want to and i can accept that i don't super chat to

00:35:21.160 every show i watch so it's cool but do you know what i mean it's like can we just be honest about

00:35:28.300 this no i'm not begging i'm really not begging you can super you cannot super it's totally fine

00:35:35.780 it's it's cool either way but all i'm saying is you saying that two dollars is too much to super

00:35:44.600 chat it's simply a lie like it then you need to stop you need to turn off my show immediately

00:35:53.160 you need to turn it off and get a job if that's the real reason you know

00:35:59.820 if that's the real you know and i'm not i'm not saying this you you seriously you do not have to

00:36:07.360 donate you don't i it's it's totally fine i i don't have expectations of that i stream you

00:36:14.780 guys can you cannot donate um but i just what i enjoy is us being real being honest so

00:36:27.660 i that's what i gotta i gotta keep it on keep it a buck a buck

00:36:35.600 i i'm not poor uh-huh

00:36:42.840 i'm not poor but i can't afford you see i mean those two things shouldn't

00:36:50.460 is my ac fixed i love men they're so concerned all the time about my problems yes they fixed

00:36:59.200 my ac i'm too lazy to move the ladder i'm a flawed person i'll probably move it in the next few days

00:37:20.460 so i want rules for calling in you got to be respectful

00:37:28.460 um you can't be rude you can't be mean i mean uh pearl but what is rude what does it mean well

00:37:36.780 if i have to explain it to you then i mean you got to go get some more social skills and come 0.83

00:37:43.300 back i'm not even the socially like coolest person but there's basic decorum black people 0.99

00:37:48.960 I'm looking at you. Black people, I'm looking at you. I'm looking at you. Looking at you. 1.00

00:37:58.860 Basic decorum, politeness. You haven't had a job in years. Why are you watching me then?

00:38:10.020 Go get a job. Go get a job. Why are you? You're black.

00:38:18.960 yeah if you haven't had a job in years i don't i don't want you as my fan you're kicked out 1.00

00:38:26.240 i want you god you got to get out 0.93

00:38:30.960 you're yeah i mean what do you if you're a war veteran or something like you you know

00:38:42.440 terrence pop like doesn't have an eye you know sometimes he has to cover i mean

00:38:46.100 dad i'll make an exception for um other rules all right so this is a general conversation

00:38:56.160 when i do callers um there may be a disagreement but it's never a debate

00:39:02.320 you know you are allowed to say i disagree and you can say why um this is a what we call a safe

00:39:09.060 space that's that's fine i'm not going to get mad uh but you got to be polite you gotta

00:39:13.920 um can we go on a date i'm worth it okay okay like i just want you to think about the frame

00:39:23.640 that you're you're you're framing when you say that you're qualifying to me which signals to

00:39:29.560 me that i'm above you okay like just by the way you're i'm just you know this could be a teaching

00:39:35.820 lesson you know now i don't think i should be the one to teach this stuff because i'm a woman but

00:39:41.160 it's so bad out there you know what I mean like guys just know nothing about this stuff

00:39:45.720 so it's like you got to think about what is that communicating to me if you say I'm worth like

00:39:52.960 you're you're trying to quote like if you're worth it I should just be able to see that you're worth

00:39:57.440 it based on your behaviors right but what you're like saying I'm not poor I'm worth it like I

00:40:05.580 appreciate the two dollars but i'm just gonna be you know i want to be frank here i would like

00:40:11.600 to me that would signal i'll never like go out with you i can't like i'm not interested anyway

00:40:17.560 but i'm saying even even if my circumstances were different like that would just be that

00:40:24.040 that would never get a woman ever ever and like that's like the worst message you could possibly

00:40:30.120 said the only thing worse than that is begging oh my god have you ever seen a ninja beg 0.97

00:40:39.120 and then she's always begging for some fat poo nanny it's never the hot ones you know what i 0.94

00:40:46.260 mean i think it's because it hurts more like i think if a man gets rejected by a hot woman 0.96

00:40:51.840 if he's rejected by a hot woman um it's expected he shot he he did that half court shot right 0.98

00:41:02.840 and she shot that shit down and he's like well i could have seen that coming it's like a layup 0.99

00:41:08.620 against lebron but imagine you're doing a layup in a rec league and it's like this fat fat f and 0.99

00:41:14.340 then the fat F knocks the ball out of your hand I think it hurts them so much like they just cannot

00:41:24.120 take it you know what I mean okay update from the chat I sent a while back dad the state is coming

00:41:29.140 along his ex won't be able to take anything put W's in the chat for dad W's in the chat for dad

00:41:36.520 I want my money back. No. No. I'm taking the $2 and I'm running. No. I said what I said,

00:42:02.060 you know what i mean all right um okay i'll get through the rules i'll get through the rules

00:42:09.180 all right you got to be polite so you can come up the questions that i'm going to go with

00:42:14.960 um are going to be some variation conversationally

00:42:18.780 um i want to know if you've dated but if you've seen a trend of the older women with young men 0.99

00:42:27.160 um I have seen some of the old women pull it off I don't want that to be true I want to say like 1.00

00:42:36.120 they're all the young men are pumping and dumping I'd say like 80 percent but I'd say like 20 percent 1.00

00:42:42.220 of the young women they've had like 30 years to learn manipulation these young bro these young

00:42:47.420 men think they're just pumping and dumping and these ninjas fall in love you know what I mean

00:42:53.040 they've had 30 years to learn to manipulate you like i'm i'm assuming she started at like 18 i 1.00

00:42:59.920 mean could have been but you know what i mean if she's like 40 or 50 that's 30 years of whoring 0.97

00:43:06.320 that's a lot that's a lot of years she can hide her per her real personality you know so um 0.97

00:43:14.880 Um, anyways, um, so I want to know if you've seen any trends, um, and I want you to know 0.79

00:43:23.660 your take. 0.95

00:43:24.260 Why can't women just like, why do they have to cope? 0.58

00:43:27.080 Why do they have to say the young men, they're getting all this attention. 1.00

00:43:30.680 Why can't the women just say, I'm getting uglier. 1.00

00:43:37.620 Um, I, I've had to lower my standards. 1.00

00:43:41.200 I've slept with a bajillion people at this point. 1.00

00:43:44.880 i can't feel anything why can't why can't the old broads just say it's over for me 0.99

00:43:55.120 anyways

00:43:58.320 once learn learn um that happens before 18 okay let's start with doug mpa welcome to the show

00:44:06.560 hey how's it going i'm good have you seen any young i mean you have to know some black ninjas

00:44:12.640 so some young black ninjas um in your personal life have you seen any of them running through 0.92

00:44:18.920 these old broads um or taking them seriously so running through old broads yes taking them 0.94

00:44:26.140 seriously no uh and here's the thing i have seen where nothing worse than when a ninja is banging 1.00

00:44:34.120 an old broad and then gets her pregnant i've seen that so like the reason why a woman like a like 1.00

00:44:41.100 an older woman has 1.00

00:44:42.660 a 16 year old 1.00

00:44:45.400 and then a 2 year old is because

00:44:47.320 some ninja was careless 0.98

00:44:48.540 so you'll see a freaking 42 year old 1.00

00:44:51.480 woman with like a 15 1.00

00:44:53.440 year old white child and then a 2 1.00

00:44:55.360 year old half black child I've seen that before

00:44:57.500 can we actually

00:45:00.420 react if you go to the doc

00:45:03.500 and go to the second to last link

00:45:04.860 can we react

00:45:07.400 to that together I'll put it

00:45:08.900 in the private chat because

00:45:10.460 it's it's a today show clip of just cope okay um i recently saw and they were for real dating like

00:45:19.820 meeting each other's friends and stuff the kid was 19 the woman was 42 and they have a child now 1.00

00:45:26.620 bruh what yeah yeah i've seen that before hey here's the thing guys a lot of women

00:45:33.820 um in their 40s and 50s so you know some of the best advice ever got is it's easier to do what

00:45:41.900 you have to do than figure out what you want to do and so a lot of women especially single moms

00:45:48.340 they get afraid of of be of not being a mother so they'll just have another kid it's like this

00:45:56.980 weird thing where it's like okay i don't want to have to figure out what life is like without

00:46:00.800 being a mom so i'll just have another kid especially a professional women i've seen it 1.00

00:46:06.720 all the time in the area i live i see more women who have a 16 year old and a one-year-old

00:46:12.400 an 18 year old and a two-year-old it's crazy and i'm like you were almost done

00:46:19.200 you were almost checked out and now you have a two-year-old yikes so there is um

00:46:24.720 Um, you shot me down for being nice. You like Chad's. Yup. Women.

00:46:35.080 Did I see Nick beat the case? Um, no, I did it, but I'm happy for him. Um, my ex couldn't take

00:46:42.860 the L. I told her beauty fades with every year that passes. Cause she told me I would never get

00:46:47.560 a better looking girl than her in an attempt to get me to reconcile. Um, I forgot what we were

00:46:54.340 saying oh the yeah i told i actually told the woman that this was obviously going to be a fun

00:47:01.920 thing i was like trying to be honest and i guess she made me eat my words because they had a kid

00:47:06.740 and i i don't know if they're married or not but i like they're living together with a kid

00:47:11.500 like i guess that was wrong yeah i knew a guy who was um he was 35 and the woman he was with was 52

00:47:21.300 and they were together since he was in his mid 20s i think they they've been together for eight

00:47:26.420 or nine years because she was his boss at work and but they had some weird open open relationship

00:47:34.020 kind of stuff and she had a kid uh who was like 13 at the time so she had the kid when she was like 1.00

00:47:41.460 like 39 or something like that and the biggest problem i mean they were that poly garbage but 0.99

00:47:46.660 biggest problem was is that they were living together but he would always 0.82

00:47:52.900 uh catch feelings for a younger woman and then she'd have to guilt him into like staying with

00:47:58.900 her so he'd be like look you know i'm talking to this younger girl it was this weird thing where

00:48:03.060 he keep falling for younger women but then they had so much emotionally invested that he he he

00:48:08.740 ended up staying it was just weird kind of a dynamic i actually remembered at a there's an

00:48:13.940 event i went to and the couple there what the girl was like 65 and the guy was like 54 late 40s 50s

00:48:24.740 i guess they've been together a while um so that's why i don't like to say that they never will take 0.65

00:48:33.860 like take the old women seriously because i've seen it but it's got to be the minority i just

00:48:39.300 can't imagine although i don't know because men are kind of the true romantics and i actually

00:48:45.340 think we downplay how attached men get um to women they're sleeping with there's this whole

00:48:52.780 thing which men don't get attached through sex i don't know that's just not what i've seen like 0.98

00:48:58.280 even if a guy's banging like a straight up whore the guy just still seems to have some sort of 0.94

00:49:03.960 protection over her like men are very protective i yeah i've seen it um so i could totally see a 0.98

00:49:11.520 sexually inexperienced guy falling in love with an older woman like if she's just nice to him long

00:49:16.760 enough yeah here's the thing a lot of guys if the woman is pleasant and he gets regular sex

00:49:24.940 and she's not fat and like i mean guys like stability guys like when a woman treats him well

00:49:35.140 and just not be out here in the dating market and having to deal with it guys would deal with

00:49:41.160 i think a guy would deal with more now than ever tell you the truth and also um men love routine

00:49:48.280 so she can just slip her way into his routine

00:49:53.720 come over his house bring snacks you know bring food i'm telling you yeah i i put it i put it in 1.00

00:50:02.120 the chat one of the craziest things one of the older women i used to sleep with sleep with in my 1.00

00:50:07.640 20s after we did it she would she would wipe it off for me and then it didn't make me food 1.00

00:50:17.480 afterwards i didn't have to lift a finger after we did it it was every single you know the things 1.00

00:50:24.600 she did before during and after sex it's like it just blows your mind like what and younger women 1.00

00:50:32.520 do not and here's the thing uh older women will let younger guys do stuff to them in bed that 0.99

00:50:38.520 they won't let older guys do because here's the thing they are sleeping with a younger guy so the

00:50:43.080 flex is like oh yeah you know i'm sleeping with a younger guy you can show them on the hub

00:50:49.000 what you want to do and they'll do it do you kind of do you kind of miss her doug be honest

00:50:55.740 you know what yeah i i recall that kind of fast i sound kind of passionate when i was talking

00:51:07.300 about that just now huh yeah you know what i mean this is what i mean i'm gonna drop you and bring

00:51:11.860 you back up because I got to go on a rant for a second guys will say like oh it's just sex like

00:51:16.780 I don't know this is just my observations okay this is my observations and this probably is

00:51:24.580 contradicting things I've said before to be fair you know because you always hear men say it's just

00:51:30.860 sex it's just sex I almost think a lot of times like men get more attached from sex during than

00:51:36.620 women like especially if the men don't get a lot of sex like I don't know like then it just it seems 0.71

00:51:44.820 like once they hook up with a girl for a while they'll have this level of like protectiveness 0.89

00:51:50.480 over her you know because I mean being that I'm a hater right um you know there's been times when 1.00

00:51:57.680 I'm like yeah that that bitch is a whore and if a guy's fucking her do you know who's the biggest 1.00

00:52:02.320 like white knight the guy that's banging the whore there's nobody that'll like they get protected 1.00

00:52:10.280 and they have no like if it's just sex then why are you riding so hard for the 1.00

00:52:15.780 the girl you know what I mean I don't know is that it it's 0.99

00:52:22.520 like I don't know this is maybe this is just what I've observed we're like women 0.92

00:52:30.360 can bang a guy for like a long time and like they he's like dead to her tomorrow 1.00

00:52:39.280 i've also seen it though where women are obsessed like if she's banging that guy 0.99

00:52:44.620 but like women we bang everything they always say men bang anything i think women bang anything

00:52:50.220 and so it's like if we bang anything yeah okay there's one guy we get attached over

00:52:55.720 but then there's like a bajillion we don't you know what i mean especially women that are young

00:53:01.600 if you've ever seen a whole i remember i gotta change details in this story so i don't want to

00:53:07.420 dox anybody there was a person that i knew when i was younger um and this person lost their virginity

00:53:15.400 to like a stranger and it like did not compute to me because i'm like you don't you're not attached

00:53:20.480 you don't miss it and she's like no it was fun and then

00:53:24.420 and i'm like you're not you're like cool with it yeah i don't want anything serious i'm like

00:53:33.340 huh but this is what i realized you know because i was kind of chubby i was like a mid 0.99

00:53:40.600 it's like the mids get attached out of necessity but the hot girls don't give a fuck 0.98

00:53:48.260 i don't know this is just my experience right because like in high school it would be like 1.00

00:53:54.840 um the mids like because we're all women like bang men out of their league that's the default

00:54:03.000 right now how out of their league it depends right i mean we're not going to get into that today but 1.00

00:54:09.280 so when i think of like the women in high school the hot girls would have a high school boyfriend 1.00

00:54:16.500 right they would have a high school boyfriend they'd be in love with him for two years 1.00

00:54:21.260 and then they would go to college and the high school boyfriend wanted to stay together

00:54:27.620 and i don't know this is just i didn't personally have a high school boyfriend this is just what i

00:54:32.700 observed because i would say the best looking women tended to have boyfriends in high school

00:54:36.640 and um the the boyfriends are like are we getting married the girlfriends are like i'll see you

00:54:45.980 never again I'll see you never again I'm gonna go to I'm gonna go to Purdue Indiana University

00:54:55.680 I'm gonna go yeah I'll see you bye you know what I mean so it's like where the women I saw get more

00:55:05.720 attached and I would say my experience was more I don't like to I don't like to talk too much about

00:55:10.520 my L's in life but it was it was more attachment but it's like when you're uglier what choice

00:55:15.840 do you have i was kind of fat when i was younger you know what i mean

00:55:21.300 what choice you know because you got to think about it the life of a hot girl

00:55:27.760 one chad rejects her i'll be on to the next chad in my opinion most of the time when guys say hot

00:55:34.920 girls are crazy it's just they're batting out of their league a little bit because if you talk to

00:55:39.360 chads they're like i just my my experience you could take this or leave it you might have had

00:55:44.880 a different one my experience is that like the ch the chad guys i mean they don't really have

00:55:53.420 a problem getting that obedience from like women not obedience i mean women none of us are obedient

00:55:59.440 but like they're nicer to the chads you know when it's a guy that's like mid above mid even like a 0.99

00:56:06.320 seven right i gotta i gotta be honest we're so inflated we're such inflated awful whores that 0.91

00:56:12.320 like it's it's completely even a seven's getting screwed by a seven but it's like he lands an eight 1.00

00:56:18.460 or a nine she's gonna be a bitch to him because she doesn't really want him she wants the 10 0.93

00:56:23.780 you know anyways um this is just this is just my observations i'm not saying i'm 0.99

00:56:31.020 people get very defensive when i talk about this this is just what i've seen um 1.00

00:56:35.980 women were competitive when you were in high school

00:56:40.440 yeah um the best dating advice for women be a part of his routine 0.94

00:56:47.100 that's too funny yeah dating an alpha widow is the worst yeah but you have to think like

00:56:55.160 okay for every i feel like the attachment is like spread out for men so okay they get real

00:57:01.840 attached to their wife but they're still like like a hero attachment to every girl they've banged

00:57:07.800 ever they'll like where women there's like maybe a high attachment to one or two guys and there's

00:57:14.920 like a you're dead to me attachment to the rest so like over like over an average of like attachment

00:57:24.120 i think on average the men's would be higher i don't know this is i know this probably it might

00:57:31.200 be off it contradicts things i've said before but this is this is what i've noted this is what i've 0.98

00:57:37.340 observed he's like yeah she's a whore but she's my whore right now not to baseline yeah so he's 0.93

00:57:50.300 saying that's a baseline attachment and maybe I'll hit this again later. Men don't get attached 0.99

00:57:54.900 in the same way as you women. I don't know. This is just my observations, but I, I'm, 1.00

00:58:01.640 I'm not here to say that that's, you know, you're men. So you know what you feel. I'm not,

00:58:09.900 I'm not here to tell you what you feel. I'm not, you know what I mean? So if you think, yeah,

00:58:16.180 yeah you know maya anyway sorry this is so

00:58:25.780 i'm so off topic i don't even know what i'm doing i want to bring doug mpa to get me i

00:58:29.540 need a man to get me back on track i'm gonna leave for a second you need to get the show back 0.94

00:58:39.140 guys guys older women come on guys older women have snacks at their house 1.00

00:58:46.180 you know older women they want to get right to it and guys here's the thing older women and single 1.00

00:58:53.900 moms are the same we're like would you even tolerate foolishness from an older woman like 1.00

00:58:59.200 if i go out on a date with an older woman and she's and she doesn't let me hit i get upset you 0.92

00:59:06.300 know not like a bad way but you're able to really walk through the logic of the woman and be like 0.91

00:59:13.900 look you we just had a good date are you not gonna let me hit like seriously do you not want to see 0.80

00:59:20.140 me again you know what i'm saying you're just not willing to put up with the foolishness 0.95

00:59:27.020 with the older woman or a single mom that you are with a young hot woman tell me i'm lying guys 0.56

00:59:35.260 tell me i'm lying how do your interactions with older women compare to younger women right 0.51

00:59:43.900 You are able to sit an older woman down and tell her how it really is 0.99

00:59:49.080 or what you really want because she's old. 0.60

00:59:52.740 And, guys, how old is too old?

00:59:55.780 Put in the chat.

00:59:57.660 How old is too old?

00:59:59.720 All right, I'm back.

01:00:00.640 Thanks for getting us back on track.

01:00:02.200 That's another good question.

01:00:05.200 10 years, 15 years, 20 years.

01:00:07.680 Because, guys, I'm going to say it, Pearlie.

01:00:10.060 i a lot of guys they don't get intimidated by young young hot women but but you're so concerned 0.96

01:00:19.180 with not with not messing it up and not saying something stupid to talk your way out of getting 0.74

01:00:23.940 laid so i wouldn't say you're like intimidated you you're just really trying really hard but

01:00:30.020 it's kind of freeing when you're talking to an older woman you know what i'm saying it's like i

01:00:35.980 could take it or leave it yeah and you're not you're willing to tell him to like look you know

01:00:41.460 we had a nice date we're back at my house i mean if you leave now like like what are you gonna

01:00:49.940 leave and go do honestly her watch golden girls her ex she's had she's had time to rack up a few

01:01:01.720 so she's been in the area a while you know someone else not you you know what i mean

01:01:07.880 someone put 69 is fine like 69 years old come on guys oh wait i need to show you a clip oh my gosh

01:01:21.240 i felt bad for this man he was basically assaulted

01:01:24.680 hold on i gotta oh my gosh where is it oh no i don't know where it is

01:01:31.720 updating me let me look

01:01:39.000 update show here we go

01:01:49.740 this was like the biggest scope I ever saw make sure like the video if you

01:01:56.960 haven't already and subscribe to the channel hit that super chat button and

01:02:00.460 And then I'm going to put the donation link on the documentary, guys.

01:02:05.180 Well, we are cooking with gas on the documentary.

01:02:07.340 So make sure if you can donate, please donate.

01:02:12.380 Where is it?

01:02:13.420 Okay, I can't find it.

01:02:14.600 But there was this dating show, and they had a woman on stage who was 79.

01:02:20.680 Oh. 1.00

01:02:22.040 But she looked kind of good for 79.

01:02:24.560 But, God, it was the biggest.

01:02:26.060 Like, she probably could have passed for, like, 50s or 60s.

01:02:29.160 but it was the biggest cope show i ever saw and then she the guy declined her and she still

01:02:36.320 kissed him and i'm like oh my god what the hell did i send it to myself yesterday hold on

01:02:43.820 i know i saw it yesterday and no i didn't i should have yeah guys all the women they don't 1.00

01:02:52.600 care about protection especially with let's see women in their 50s they'll do it in the back of a 1.00

01:03:00.380 car they'll do it in a parking lot they'll do it in everywhere it's crazy it's like older women 0.93

01:03:07.020 have this especially with a younger guy it's like they want to validate that they're still 0.53

01:03:11.820 young by being a younger guy and they're willing to do that any means necessary you know what there

01:03:18.200 was um there was a guy i knew he was like 69 70 and he was he he was like a pretty successful

01:03:28.940 for his age pretty good looking guy and he said he started by dating like 40 something year old

01:03:34.900 women and he said they were just a headache because they still believed their prince charming

01:03:39.260 was coming but he loved dating women in their 50s because like by then they have their own money 0.51

01:03:44.740 They have like a house figured out. 0.99

01:03:46.780 They're not really looking for anything serious.

01:03:48.360 And they just get right to it and bang you in the back of their car.

01:03:51.620 Yeah.

01:03:52.240 Yep.

01:03:52.700 Wow.

01:03:53.940 Welcome to the show, Mark.

01:03:56.100 Thank you for coming on.

01:03:58.140 Hello. 1.00

01:03:59.600 So what's been your experience dating these old broads? 1.00

01:04:03.760 I've only dated one. 1.00

01:04:05.240 She was about 15 years older. 1.00

01:04:09.400 I can say, yeah, she knew how to cook. 1.00

01:04:11.660 That was a big reason why I was fucking her. 1.00

01:04:13.900 how old were you and how old was she I was about 27 she was about 42 and what 0.99

01:04:24.160 would you have could you have fallen could she have gotcha not really no

01:04:33.660 you're too different but she was easy shows available was she a single mom or 1.00

01:04:39.020 No, no, she had no kids, but she wasn't out for a widow. 0.90

01:04:44.080 I was going to ask you how the snack drawer, you know, how the snack cabinet was. 1.00

01:04:50.320 She had snacks and she could cook.

01:04:52.860 Look at, look at how much he's smiling when he's talking about them.

01:04:55.880 Okay, hold on.

01:04:56.580 Well, hold on.

01:04:57.120 Think about it. 1.00

01:04:57.940 What does it do to your ego where you get laid and she cooks for you afterwards?

01:05:02.720 Yeah, because here's the thing.

01:05:04.120 Here's the thing, Mark, and you can agree. 0.99

01:05:06.580 When you first get with a woman who knows how to cook,

01:05:10.760 if you make the mistake of her cooking for you and eating before, 1.00

01:05:15.180 you don't want to do that because nothing worse than doing it on a full stomach.

01:05:20.100 It's the worst.

01:05:21.480 So you got to have her cook for you afterwards, guys.

01:05:24.700 Don't have her cook for you before. 0.98

01:05:28.200 I've done both and had her cook breakfast for me the morning after. 0.99

01:05:32.260 Have you seen more young guys going for older women? 0.93

01:05:35.700 i haven't seen it but it makes complete perfect sense older women are easier some of them so you 0.99

01:05:44.080 can perfect your game you can perfect your riz on them because it's gonna be less headache 1.00

01:05:47.700 because they have less options and um people want to know why do you break it off with her

01:05:55.900 uh she wanted me to be somebody i wasn't

01:06:01.040 she wanted her life to go a different way than i wanted to go so she broke it off actually but 0.78

01:06:07.720 it's fine why can't old women take the alec why are they coping because it's easier to cope than

01:06:15.000 accept reality um andrew wilson was talking about it um from a political perspective why there are

01:06:21.400 people who keep doubling down on their woke ideology that doesn't work and he was saying

01:06:25.180 it's cognitive dissonance when cognitive dissonance happens it hurts and a lot of people

01:06:30.680 don't want to deal with that pain of changing their perception of reality so they just keep

01:06:35.120 doubling down this is why you see so many people keep coping it hurts to accept reality

01:06:40.660 yeah i agree with that 100 here's the thing there's a social infrastructure in place 0.99

01:06:48.940 for women to kick major life decisions down the road and one and one of the newest ways to 1.00

01:06:56.240 to do that is by we already have you know uh plastic surgeries face filters all this stuff 0.76

01:07:05.120 i think that this dating younger men thing is just another way for women to kick to kick major

01:07:11.400 life realities down the road yeah yeah there are some older women who they've accepted reality 1.00

01:07:20.500 they realize they can't get them and they want so they'll take what's available we call them cougars 0.97

01:07:24.840 right those are yeah but i think that the biggest thing about that is that like okay the ones who 0.98

01:07:34.600 don't catch feelings are okay but most of these women will see if you if you're a younger guy or 1.00

01:07:42.440 whatever if you're with the woman who's getting up there she will want to try to have like something 1.00

01:07:47.800 serious sooner or later and i think one of the saddest things are going to be all these women

01:07:53.160 date a younger guy and they realize that these guys are not going to stay most of these guys

01:07:57.240 in their 20s they may date you in your 20s but when they hit their 30s most guys are going to

01:08:03.640 want kids and i'm sorry but old dried old dried autism eggs uh-uh not happening i don't know i 0.96

01:08:11.560 think where women by the time they're that age they're so like cooked like they can't they don't

01:08:15.720 even get attached like they used to like um i think they're like you tell me though you guys

01:08:22.280 have dated older women so did it was your experience that they get attached or no 1.00

01:08:27.480 she got a little attached but she was also kind of an alpha widow she still had feelings for her ex 1.00

01:08:37.080 um yeah i i've seen most of the guys i've seen that date older women the older women usually 0.88

01:08:45.240 catch feelings or or it depends on how they catch it so like they want some kind of stability and

01:08:52.120 like a lot of times older women okay you have to be willing to swallow your pride as a man and kind 0.89

01:08:58.040 of let an older woman if you're taking older women seriously she's gonna try to control you

01:09:03.960 in some way and not like a younger woman she's literally gonna like it's hard for older women 0.88

01:09:10.280 to not control younger guys in a relationship in sort of a mothering way i understand what i'm

01:09:16.920 saying so that's something that guys who take older women seriously you really have to watch

01:09:25.000 out for that because she's going to tell you what you can and can't do you know what to wear

01:09:33.000 all this crazy stuff i think it's like an older woman thing it is it's also part of their fantasy 0.85

01:09:41.560 that oh i can fix him oh yeah and then they're like more controlling so they can like mold them

01:09:49.880 more to be what they want or they can try to yeah they're gonna be men they're gonna eventually get

01:09:54.780 sick of that um jackson welcome to the show have you dated an older woman yourself and have you

01:10:01.880 seen this trend in society hi how are you i'm good how are you i'm good i actually

01:10:09.880 lost my virginity to a woman who was in her 40s 0.65

01:10:14.280 and that was my first experience with sex

01:10:20.660 was it like a positive five-star review or what it was like uh it was like a 1.5

01:10:30.840 one star review the first time but once we like got comfortable with each other it was like a

01:10:37.480 3.5 maybe a four that's pretty good so um did you get catch feelings for her and or did she

01:10:45.200 catch feelings for you yeah we caught feelings for each other and that's why we had sex

01:10:52.140 no i meant like long term no it wasn't long term it was kind of just casual

01:10:59.000 and i was just like young i i just meant like um did she want it to be more

01:11:05.840 than a casual thing or no uh no okay um but it was like meet this woman

01:11:16.200 so i don't want to go too much into this woman but i just want to say that like 1.00

01:11:23.520 older women like get fed like bullshit like they're getting older and people lie to them and 1.00

01:11:31.160 that's why like the topic of your uh live stream like i think they're just constantly getting told 1.00

01:11:39.460 by everybody like oh no you're not you're not getting older or you know you're not you haven't 0.87

01:11:47.380 gained too much weight or you know they get fed this coke shit like to they're being taught how 0.96

01:11:53.620 to cope yeah but it like it it actually hurts them more than it helps them sometimes because 0.97

01:12:02.180 it like makes them not take as much action yeah they're being enabled to cope which is why when

01:12:10.280 they finally hit the wall it hurts so much more yeah it's a much bigger hit to their pride their

01:12:16.320 ego their yeah yeah i'd agree 100 i'd agree with that is there anything else you guys have observed

01:12:24.440 when it comes to the older women and younger men?

01:12:31.060 I was talking about the controlling part. 1.00

01:12:37.600 I've seen older women who've gotten their heart broken 1.00

01:12:42.200 by like an older guy and a younger guy,

01:12:46.240 and it's still the victim narrative.

01:12:49.900 Oh, he lied to me, and he did all these things to me,

01:12:55.320 he's like 27 and you're 40 what or he's 22 and you're 37 but he was all the same the um

01:13:06.680 female friendly version version of the story you know uh you know he he manipulated me he did all 0.50

01:13:14.760 this stuff it's like but you're 15 years older than him so society still gives these older women

01:13:20.520 and out it is still guys if you're dating an older woman and you break up and and it's your fault

01:13:29.080 it's your fault it's your fault if you're dating older women and you break up and it's her fault

01:13:33.160 it's your fault but older women can cheat on a 25 year old guy and they'll still be like what 0.75

01:13:38.920 did that 20 what was that 25 year old guy lacking that made her run into the arms of another man

01:13:44.360 he's 25 what'd you think so yeah the the cope is still real older women with a younger guy and

01:13:55.880 still tell it when it ends will tell all the same stories about how men are terrible what he did and

01:14:01.480 didn't do all that garbage it's just like why are they bragging about getting attention from young

01:14:05.960 men isn't this kind of embarrassing ladies like look at i kind of i could see the draw right i 0.74

01:14:12.040 I mean, young guys are, they're fun. They're not, they haven't been burnt, you know, whatever.

01:14:17.200 I'm sure there's more stamina there or whatever that, but I'm like, God, like, why are you

01:14:24.240 bragging? Like, you know that this is an L because you cannot get wit men your age. Like you can't

01:14:31.360 get them. So why are you telling every about everyone about it? You know, you don't have to,

01:14:36.440 you don't have to tell anybody you can just bang them privately and not mention it you know yeah 1.00

01:14:43.120 one of the worst parts about modern women yes that they're whores they're baby mothers all 1.00

01:14:50.620 stuff but not being able to keep your mouth shut having to share on social media having to share 1.00

01:14:56.140 to all the so many women it's like you can get away with so much stuff if you just didn't talk

01:15:00.220 about it why do they always talk about it pearly why um i think women 0.98

01:15:10.300 there's too big of egos they just think the guy won't do anything

01:15:14.860 yeah i don't want to come down now now if a if a woman is dating a man that's 10 to 15 years

01:15:22.700 let's say she's 40 and she's 25 can that woman expect that how futile is it for her to expect 0.95

01:15:31.020 that man to be faithful oh it's kind of dumb it's kind of dumb honestly in 2026 0.96

01:15:43.420 i don't know why anybody expects anyone to be faithful so you're like 0.95

01:15:46.460 living i'm just being like i'm not saying you obviously hope for the best right but

01:15:55.100 i mean nothing surprises me anymore you know what i mean it's just

01:16:00.620 i mean people have children and they aren't faithful it's like i would just expect the

01:16:06.380 worst and if you get the best be happy you know yeah i agree with that like i just i don't 1.00

01:16:13.020 it's like out a lot like women cheating and lying that's that's kind of the standard 0.99

01:16:19.660 i wonder something i'm sorry go ahead here's something i've noticed with the older woman

01:16:24.980 younger man dynamic the older woman has her own program and she's not gonna get a man her own age

01:16:33.440 to come on board with her program 100 true it's much easier to get the younger guy to come on

01:16:39.100 board with her program especially if he doesn't have his own program for his life figured out yet

01:16:43.820 yeah that was what was going on in my situation she was easy it was available i didn't really 0.86

01:16:49.300 have my shit figured out i was still blue pilled so i was like okay yeah sure why not this is fun

01:16:54.680 enjoy it but now that i've got my program my life figured out yeah i'm not doing that again 1.00

01:16:59.920 and a lot a lot of professional high stress women especially like they want a guy on their program 1.00

01:17:07.140 they need a guy like like how husbands in the 50s and the 60s kind of needed a woman like 1.00

01:17:15.180 they need someone that'll listen to them that can relieve their stress and be there to to 0.63

01:17:21.120 emotionally regulate them and like all the guys who who who are worth a damn one they're not going

01:17:28.260 to do that because they don't want to and two that they don't have the time but i would still

01:17:33.860 say that's finite like most women will still want a guy here's the thing women now more than ever 1.00

01:17:40.660 all all ages one excitement and freaking instability that like a young guy brings older guys

01:17:51.140 we don't bring that but i think that's still on a clock i i still think that most

01:17:56.100 i don't think it's the ability i think it's just the fun the excitement yeah yeah i said

01:18:01.940 instability i don't think they're looking for instability it's just that instability tends to

01:18:07.300 go hand in hand with the fun and excitement yeah i'd agree with that i'd agree so they're actually

01:18:13.620 looking for the fun and excitement they're looking for that hit to their ego basically 0.59

01:18:18.980 when they get the younger guy it masturbates their ego that's part of why they do it 0.99

01:18:25.620 uh yeah i agree let's call it what it is it's masturbation for the ego that's why we do some 0.99

01:18:30.820 of the we do because it feels good yep why do men brag about the women they bang because it 1.00

01:18:37.460 masturbates our ego to say hey i got that young hot piece of ass yeah yeah i just think one of 0.99

01:18:44.100 the biggest differences between young older men than younger women and older women 0.99

01:18:50.980 younger men is most women will still if she's taking the young guy seriously 0.51

01:18:55.460 will put that younger guy on a clock like you can only be young and it's like she she she wants to 0.52

01:19:03.780 start seeing something from her investment whereas like younger i mean i mean older men they don't

01:19:10.340 want the young woman to change we want you to stay young and hot forever but like older women if they

01:19:15.620 take a younger seriously will will expect the guy to actualize in some way shape or form yeah they 1.00

01:19:21.860 want the man to get on her program so she can have the status symbol of having the type of man she

01:19:26.740 wants she can't get him so she's trying to make him yep and she can be a house she can have a 1.00

01:19:32.420 house husband you know see i don't even think that that's true i i think that most women say 1.00

01:19:39.700 that they would have a house husband until they actually have one yeah then they'll make it 0.94

01:19:44.740 impossible for the house husband yeah because they don't have it infinitely better than house husbands

01:19:50.500 do mario have you banged some older women or what uh when i was in the service i did uh when i got

01:19:57.460 here at fort carson uh i went out with someone that was in her 40s uh i believe she was like 40 0.99

01:20:02.740 41. it was okay you know like the sex was good but like she was a little clingy like she just

01:20:09.700 couldn't get over like her uh her past uh marriage like she had like three kids uh she had of us uh 0.98

01:20:18.740 like her tube top her tubes were tied and it was basically got friends with benefits situation so 1.00

01:20:24.260 did she want something more 0.98

01:20:28.580 uh well she kept comparing me to like like so she knew my my my ex-girlfriend and she

01:20:34.980 kept comparing me you know heard from uh her to my ex and i'm like like i i'm not with you

01:20:42.020 like i'm not i'm not i'm not going out with you like i'm not gonna go out with you because you're

01:20:45.780 too old i don't i i was 27 like i'm not i i still don't want to date women older than me like like

01:20:54.340 i have a cut off like for for if you're in your 40s and 50s it's a done deal i don't want i don't

01:20:59.620 want none to do with you and i have a rule too for for age as far as the 20s no one under the age of

01:21:07.940 21 now i've had that rule since i was in my 20s because if because if you're under 21 you can't

01:21:17.380 go to a club you can't go to a bar you can't drink what's the point of me taking you out

01:21:23.220 because i'm not gonna i'm not gonna downgrade myself to because i'm already an adult i've

01:21:27.860 already gotten used to doing these things i'm not gonna like downplay myself for you 1.00

01:21:34.020 like you need to get up on my level not the other way around so why do you think that old women 1.00

01:21:38.900 can't take the l they didn't just like everybody else has been saying that we can lie to like they

01:21:45.700 like and this is the thing that i see here in denver because i live in denver all right oh bro

01:21:51.300 and good luck survive another day this is my biggest egg bro this is my biggest egg bro okay 1.00

01:21:57.300 you'll go out to the club and these girls will bring their mothers to the club bro 0.99

01:22:03.060 i'm 40s 50s like oh dude and it and like they don't even look like like their daughters they 0.91

01:22:09.220 they look all old wrinkly and oh god god he's the biggest ick in my life bro i swear 0.97

01:22:20.100 what do you even how do you hit on a woman with this with their mom there how does that 0.98

01:22:25.940 hey dude i don't know but hold on hold on to be your wing woman yeah you ever no no yeah yeah

01:22:33.780 that's most likely what they do but they try to get with younger men it's like what the

01:22:37.460 man come on please go ahead you ever try to act your age do you ever you ever try to pull bull

01:22:46.420 no no i i immediately walk away if i see uh the daughter and the mother there i mean i 0.66

01:22:52.660 make me just walk away or i give you up faces like no i don't respect you if you're

01:22:58.020 if you're taking your mom to the club because back in the day when i was growing up i never

01:23:02.100 saw like any mother go out to the club back in the day i don't ever see that that's so

01:23:07.540 that's such a big form of disrespect oh god yeah that's that that's all i had to mention sorry 0.82

01:23:14.580 bro here's how i see if she's going out to the club with her mom you're trying to get the mom 1.00

01:23:20.100 to be your wing woman because that's gonna be so much easier to bang the daughter yeah 0.89

01:23:29.300 with the mom you get the mom to be your wing woman did she have snacks

01:23:37.620 uh no but she she cooked you know okay well i mean snacks would have been nice is all i'm saying

01:23:45.780 no jesus yeah yeah like i said that i just don't that's the only thing that i hate about

01:23:52.340 i mean i don't know it is anywhere else but lately here in denver that's what i've been seeing

01:23:56.500 but the nightlife scene has kind of gone downhill too because they've been closing uh clubs left

01:24:02.340 and right here so why i mean less people going out uh they had this one uh place it's called

01:24:10.580 your mama's house the owner forgot uh didn't bother to pay the taxes so the uh the city of

01:24:17.220 denver and the state of colorado suing them wow okay yeah it's mostly because of fraudulent stuff

01:24:25.140 that's going on here but i don't know like how deep it is but i mean i i go out and it's like

01:24:30.660 you know it's all right i mean i mean where i'm at in school i mean i don't see that like i'm in

01:24:36.660 edgewater so yeah once again good for making another day in denver dude because yeah i spent

01:24:44.580 some time there denver's quite the place dude freaking purple haired tattooed septum piercing 0.68

01:24:51.460 weirdness all over the place oh and then there's the other complaint that there's not enough black 0.94

01:24:55.860 people here yeah black population here in denver it used to be all uh latinos and blacks here in

01:25:08.420 denver but then all the gentrification started uh like a little bit after i got out of the army in 0.93

01:25:13.060 2015 and it's just gone downhill since well it sounds like heaven on earth

01:25:17.060 i'm in portland so wait oh man i don't think you have it any better man

01:25:24.740 you're in portland bro yeah i'm in portland oh no we got denver and portland my

01:25:31.920 my brothers you gotta move man i can see how i can see the stress lines on your forehead guys

01:25:39.560 move you gotta get out and i'm not originally from here either i'm from florida man

01:25:45.280 i'm from homestead miami florida that's where i'm originally from yeah so 0.96

01:25:51.860 wow they're one of the few cubans here man shit i i've seen a lot of older women traveling a lot 0.88

01:26:00.980 like every time i go to an airport i see like old broads traveling like what are you guys traveling 1.00

01:26:05.740 for yeah i wonder why it seems like women do that when we're like young like 18 to 25 ish 1.00

01:26:15.280 and then it like picks back up when we're like 50. 1.00

01:26:19.160 Well, yeah, when they're young, someone else is paying it.

01:26:21.420 When they're older, they can pay for it themselves.

01:26:23.680 Mark hit it right on the head, dude.

01:26:25.620 Yep.

01:26:27.040 Yeah, it's going to be around here.

01:26:28.940 Oh, sorry. 0.98

01:26:29.760 You remember that story about old British women going to Gambia 1.00

01:26:33.400 to bang Gambian dudes, African guys,

01:26:37.240 and they had to put a warning to the British government saying, 1.00

01:26:40.960 stop letting 50-year-old English women 1.00

01:26:43.380 come down here 1.00

01:26:45.720 and bang the beach guys

01:26:47.680 because it's kind of like

01:26:49.660 how in Columbia, how

01:26:50.860 sex workers make a whole lot

01:26:53.640 of money in Columbia. 0.99

01:26:54.800 The black dudes on the beach were making 1.00

01:26:57.380 a whole bunch of money from these old 1.00

01:26:59.340 white British broads. 1.00

01:27:02.060 Hey, they got to do what they got to do. 0.99

01:27:04.140 It's easier than getting a job.

01:27:05.980 I did not see that story,

01:27:07.540 but that does not surprise me.

01:27:09.780 Yep.

01:27:11.920 yeah like around here i see a lot of out-of-towners they come from like different parts of the

01:27:16.080 country it's kind of weird like the garden the bar that i go to i see a lot of china

01:27:20.240 counters they come here for like weddings and and like baby showers and stuff like that or

01:27:24.720 they just come here to visit to see the mountains yeah denver's nice i just there's so many people

01:27:33.600 with dogs there that like everywhere you go smells like dog and dog poop yeah yeah dude that's the

01:27:41.200 other problem yeah it's like very active here but they don't really like like the dog people

01:27:47.760 don't really take care of stuff like only certain people like i would like when i would be walking

01:27:51.280 my dogs i would pick up poop and everything right when i'm walking but there's a lot of people just

01:27:55.760 left to leave the poop yeah a lot of people just leave their it's so bad that uh homeowners had

01:28:00.400 to put signs on there on front of their yards to to keep people that saying clean up your poop

01:28:07.040 yeah i had one of my friends who moved there she she has a phd and then her boyfriend's like

01:28:13.520 whatever they moved to denver because she's working on a study and her boyfriend makes like

01:28:19.280 a pretty good i mean more than you would make in customer service as a dog walker so he signed up

01:28:25.680 for the service and and he'll just they'll pay you to to go to the person's house for 45 minutes

01:28:32.160 and like walk the dog and stuff and his his schedule is just packed every week it's gonna be

01:28:39.440 it's gonna be i think the future like the next round of like rich people are gonna be 0.90

01:28:44.320 people doing basic things that high status women are too lazy to do yeah like the white guys maybe 1.00

01:28:51.280 a few latinos a few black guys well but mostly white guys they'll make all the money and then 1.00

01:28:55.880 their wives will spend it for them because um the guy's like do you want to do wifely things 1.00

01:29:00.600 she's like no and so now they have to have someone else cook their food someone else walk their dog 1.00

01:29:06.220 or or they're not married they're single and they just get it from white guys via sugar babying or 0.94

01:29:11.340 other sex work like only fans and so um then it's gonna be uber eats you know um cleaning

01:29:20.900 services cooking sir yeah just like women that don't know basic stuff yeah i agree there was a 0.84

01:29:27.280 business i saw where somebody was doing mobile refueling so they would come out to you to refuel 1.00

01:29:32.280 your vehicles come on are you serious yeah he would go out to private marinas refuel boats for

01:29:39.380 people he'd go out to businesses refueled their fleet vehicles and he would go to homes refuel

01:29:44.280 private vehicles wow well that's oregon for you i mean then they didn't do that for a long time

01:29:51.240 where you couldn't pump your own gas uh they still have attendants who pump gas here in oregon but

01:29:58.920 you can do it yourself legally now but no this business was somewhere else it was for people who

01:30:03.880 like had fleets was what he was targeting was fleets because then he has a routine amount

01:30:09.400 it's not on call he just goes out on the set schedule but he was also doing the private

01:30:13.400 because i don't remember what state this guy was in might have been in texas actually crazy

01:30:19.240 yeah in texas wow it's just like i was watching this one car detailing that's another one keep 0.99

01:30:25.160 going sorry yeah well there is uh there's this this girl on tick tock and she's like a gen x 0.98

01:30:31.720 nurse and all she does is shit all over young nurses and um because she says you know gen z 0.99

01:30:39.400 nurses, they get into nursing for all the 1.00

01:30:41.560 wrong reasons. They want to get the bag. 1.00

01:30:44.300 They want the flexibility

01:30:45.520 of schedule, but they don't want to see patients.

01:30:47.400 She's like, why the hell are so many 1.00

01:30:48.860 Gen Z nurses going into 1.00

01:30:51.420 nursing not expecting to do patient care? 1.00

01:30:53.700 It's crazy. She said

01:30:54.880 their nurses, they have a 12

01:30:57.540 hour shift and they door 0.85

01:30:59.420 dash before they get on

01:31:01.460 shift, in the middle of their shift,

01:31:03.420 and then when they end their shift.

01:31:06.140 So her hospital has

01:31:07.240 door dashers and Uber ETH coming in

01:31:09.160 constantly because nurses just door dash three times a day well i mean i know that there's 1.00

01:31:15.700 certain professions like i know nursing is one of them where they they're a lot very promiscuous

01:31:20.400 i mean i know of another one it's a amazon warehouse i know a ton of men that have gotten

01:31:26.960 laid multiple times at the amazon warehouse just working there like i knew i knew somebody that has

01:31:34.000 like no no no no no they would take them back but they would get laid from from the warehouse

01:31:39.000 They would take them back to their place, and then they would – I mean, he would hook up with, like, tons of women, bro.

01:31:45.140 Yeah, it makes sense.

01:31:46.340 Thanks, Mario, for calling in.

01:31:48.520 All right, Jackson, welcome to the show.

01:31:51.420 You look – how old are you?

01:31:54.300 Can't hear you.

01:31:55.100 I think you're muted.

01:31:56.180 I got to unmute.

01:31:57.760 Oh, I'm sorry.

01:31:59.300 How old are you?

01:32:00.620 I'm 21.

01:32:02.480 You sure?

01:32:04.560 100%.

01:32:04.960 Okay.

01:32:06.640 Just double-check it. 0.99

01:32:07.560 you banging these old broads or what you're gen z or you would you would yeah how old would you go 0.99

01:32:14.860 probably no higher than like 45 45 you got a lot of friends like your age not a lot any like one 0.97

01:32:28.200 too uh i have like older friends like uh like my friends are kind of like my parents and

01:32:37.960 like my parents age and stuff oh really i was just wondering if you knew other guys your age

01:32:43.800 that'd be willing to go older oh yeah 100 even like younger like even under 18 like 0.97

01:32:51.620 are willing to fuck like even like 50 year olds if they're like even like got a nice rack or some 0.99

01:32:59.560 shit like you know what i mean like even if they're like still like uh uh can still have 0.99

01:33:08.240 babies or whatever and they they're still good at sex but uh yeah like that's what i mean is like 1.00

01:33:16.280 kids there's like boys guys under 18 who would literally have sex with 50 year olds if it was 0.94

01:33:23.320 available to them like easily have you ever hooked up with a big age gap like older woman

01:33:29.540 uh yeah one time it was just like a casual thing uh we were just we didn't want to go anything 0.96

01:33:37.600 further than casual it didn't want to make itself serious the relationship how old was she

01:33:44.740 41 42 she have snacks yeah 0.90

01:33:51.600 was she was she a single mom uh no she had kids yeah so she was a single mom well yeah she pretty 0.99

01:34:04.480 much was yeah so the snacks were insane then wait was she still married then if you said pretty

01:34:09.760 much i mean she can well i don't want to talk too much about that i don't want to give too much

01:34:15.840 details because then i'm going to look like a piece of and then i'm going to make

01:34:19.520 other people look like a piece of but maybe if it was in like a more private setting i would

01:34:27.040 reveal more about it but it's just us what are you talking about no no no no no no but it's

01:34:31.680 to the whole world you know what i mean no details was she married or not it's a yes no question

01:34:36.720 oh bro so i'm a piece of no no i was just thinking like imagine you're like your wife's get this

01:34:48.480 you're like the side dude you know no it was kind of just like we we were convenient to each other

01:34:57.140 in the moment and we had been spending a lot of time and you know we kind of just gave each other 0.94

01:35:04.180 to ourselves because that's what that's how stupid love is did you love her yeah we loved 0.97

01:35:10.580 each other for a while this is pretty deep so would you have like if she wasn't married would 0.99

01:35:16.260 you have dated her uh probably yeah like she probably would be my type yeah so so questions

01:35:29.140 so um but we can talk about that if you really like want to know more about that if you don't

01:35:36.100 that's fine but we can talk about it in a more private setting and i can reveal more to you

01:35:40.900 about real stories uh but you know that's like me saying everything on here that's too much drama

01:35:50.020 and so now there's people who i don't want me to see or like hear saying everything about our

01:35:57.460 business that's okay we don't have to so why do you think like i would like to switch the topic

01:36:02.580 about something a little more funny okay go ahead like on membership how like how popular it is for

01:36:12.080 guys to be like coping about their height these days like i'm six foot and there's a bunch of

01:36:21.240 guys who say like they're 5'11 when they're like really like 5'9 and you can like see how tall they

01:36:28.100 really are but like not that that matters not that height really matters but once you get like

01:36:32.240 under like 5'4 or 5'3 you're like pretty fucking short to society but that's not like a reason to

01:36:41.140 feel shame or guilt about it so you're saying that they cope too but they shouldn't yeah yeah

01:36:50.200 like they wear the height boosting shoes the you know the whatever makes them feel like confident

01:36:58.680 in like this dating market but i understand it's hard because uh this dating market it'll make you

01:37:05.240 feel however you know about yourself to make yourself like achieve something in that realm of

01:37:12.920 of human and.

01:37:19.280 Doug MP, you got any questions?

01:37:20.500 Yeah.

01:37:21.740 I'm not like insanely tall,

01:37:23.400 but I feel tall as a six foot man.

01:37:26.640 So I just had a couple of important questions

01:37:31.360 that won't go into detail of the situation.

01:37:35.320 So did you, that thing between you

01:37:39.660 and that woman was completely consensual

01:37:42.240 it was right so like she decided to be in it okay you're learning a life lesson early my friend

01:37:49.200 where like don't infantilize or victimize women like women know exactly what they're doing especially 0.93

01:37:55.360 when they're older man you don't do like you you can't feel like a piece of garbage when a woman 0.96

01:38:02.240 is willingly choosing to be there dude you you have to learn that lesson early man you you're 0.63

01:38:10.720 probably raised right whatever that means where you where where you think that men happen to women

01:38:17.680 that's not true that's one of the harsh lessons i didn't learn until until much later so this whole

01:38:24.000 i'm a piece you are not if she chose to be there you chose to be there it was a choice you both

01:38:29.520 made it's a choice we were both pieces of but the game is the game dude it's the game that's

01:38:37.920 it's the way the game has always been the game i think what dad is saying is she was the one

01:38:43.120 who was going she was going regardless so yep oh yeah if it wasn't you it would have been somebody 0.59

01:38:47.520 else and women like that she's going yeah oh yeah before she met you and she's gonna do that after 1.00

01:38:53.440 you we're going and we're convenient and we're around each other and so let's hook up why do 0.91

01:39:00.400 you feel bad about it huh why do you feel bad about it uh because it was like a interpersonal

01:39:07.520 relationship kind of thing okay okay that tells me nothing you knew the husband uh yeah

01:39:17.120 personally how well like pretty well like you you guys like hang out and stuff uh yeah like

01:39:26.560 i don't want to say his name or like you don't have how i know him you have to 0.94

01:39:30.720 you ever find out or not yeah oh what damn he thought what was that how do you respond 0.92

01:39:40.140 uh we handled it as best as we could with uh you know how the situation was like are they still 0.98

01:39:50.380 together yeah bruh he deserves exactly what he got that's what i'm saying dude if it wasn't you

01:39:59.000 knew that like everybody always is like self-righteous in how they view like certain

01:40:06.520 situations if it's right or wrong but i see i see that and i i yeah here's my question i don't allow

01:40:15.400 it to destroy me like i used to did the husband blame you or her that's a good question her

01:40:22.040 but he was mad at me too that's fair because in a way in a way the husband probably felt like you

01:40:32.720 betrayed your loyalty to him yeah pearl always says that some people deserve to live live in

01:40:41.240 their own hell and this is one of those guys dude and here's the thing as you get older and

01:40:47.180 more accomplished, you're going to find yourself able to, how can I put this here? The opportunity

01:40:56.360 to be the side dude is only going to increase instead of decrease. So usually we learn how

01:41:02.240 to navigate this now because more women, there are just, there are more women who want side dudes 1.00

01:41:09.240 who are married, especially as you get older. So at least you got this out of the way now. 1.00

01:41:14.680 yeah it's a learning experience i'm like much wiser

01:41:19.800 yeah i've had the invitation to be the side dude from the husband

01:41:25.180 yeah well no it's more like i mean this is what i you know me and sorry i need to just go on one

01:41:34.880 one small rant me and leo and i were disagreeing on something the other day where i was like

01:41:41.580 she thinks every man can lead a woman i'm like i don't think so some of these guys just can't

01:41:48.560 i've had two invitations to be decided you just tell me like i'm like give that wife to some

01:41:57.560 other guys because you can't do it yeah yep and there's no logical reason why that guy chooses

01:42:07.360 to stay but he deserves to be there dude he deserves it and and once he did jackson that

01:42:14.200 woman cheated before you and she's gonna cheat after you oh 100 yeah so this whole feeling bad

01:42:21.200 thing man like i'm sorry people you're you're too young to realize this but right around

01:42:26.620 35 to 40 people are at where they're gonna be most people between 30 and 40 you end up where

01:42:35.240 you're going to be period 100 i agree with doug that this experience is doing you a favor it's

01:42:43.420 helping you to stop being an idealist and be more of a realist

01:42:47.580 yeah i grew up as an idealist reality i had to fix that real quick by showing me the truth of

01:42:58.100 human nature yep and honestly you should get ready odds are if you get with especially in

01:43:07.680 your 20s and you get with a woman who's semi you know a six or a seven she's she's probably gonna

01:43:13.760 cheat on you dude so just get ready for it be ready for the worst you know no expect the worst

01:43:21.620 and get the best in dating hey you get out of it what you what you need most of the time

01:43:33.780 doug i would disagree a little bit i wouldn't say expect the worst i would say leave the door

01:43:39.140 open for the worst to happen because if you're expecting the worst you're looking for it that's 0.90

01:43:44.340 true and this is why we corrected this is why we have women who have ick lists they're literally 0.99

01:43:49.940 looking for reasons to disqualify to justify why they're incapable of having a relationship 1.00

01:43:55.940 don't do that don't expect the worst just leave the possibility open and know that it can happen

01:44:02.020 just don't let it surprise you you know yeah that's the best way to yeah if you're an idealist

01:44:09.140 it's going to destroy you more if you if you're a realist you say the worst can happen this is

01:44:13.780 what can happen i'm not waiting for it i'm not looking for it but i understand it can happen

01:44:18.420 it doesn't destroy you as much

01:44:20.180 if it actually happens.

01:44:23.400 I like that.

01:44:24.980 I agree.

01:44:26.440 Thanks for calling in, Jackson.

01:44:28.460 Appreciate it.

01:44:29.040 Thanks for having me on the show again.

01:44:32.340 Yeah, that's what I mean. 1.00

01:44:33.440 These old women, 1.00

01:44:34.720 they can get these young kings. 1.00

01:44:37.000 They can get them. 0.97

01:44:40.500 But then they'll get older and uglier

01:44:42.720 and then the glasses will wear off.

01:44:45.060 It's crazy, you know.

01:44:46.120 just remember hold on the wall is undefeated

01:44:51.580 and like i said i honestly believe that younger guys are on a clock all men are on a clock with

01:44:59.240 women all especially if they only have limited limited or no respect for them and there's

01:45:06.320 nothing worse see a guy would never marry a housewife and then seven years later say you 1.00

01:45:13.860 need to go out and get a job a woman will marry a man who ain't and all he brought was good sex 0.72

01:45:19.940 and then a couple years down the road why aren't you making any money why aren't you 0.60

01:45:24.740 like what do you think was going to happen okay so again this girl on the right she can do whatever 1.00

01:45:29.220 the hell she wants and she'll have no consequences just because she looks like that you know yep 0.93

01:45:35.460 go to the pageant pictures yeah look beautiful scroll down they're all folded look at that dude 1.00

01:45:43.860 come on she can do whatever the hell she wants anything yep yeah she's in newspaper articles

01:45:51.820 yeah so anyways all right guys i think i'm gonna close out the show on that 1.00

01:45:58.520 um any final thoughts on the topic why can't old women take the l 0.93

01:46:05.700 mark go ahead reality hasn't hit them hard enough yet for them to stop coping

01:46:11.360 this is why the wall is undefeated it's coming yeah doug mpa i think that there's there's an

01:46:21.120 infrastructure in place like i said for women to kick harsh realities and major life decisions

01:46:27.360 down the road and this whole dating younger men thing is one of the of the latest and biggest

01:46:35.320 copes most men will want kids and will and will actualize and then they won't be conducive to 0.96

01:46:42.280 dating uh uh older women because older women they want to control you they want to do all this crazy 1.00

01:46:47.560 stuff that the older women do so guys bang them clang them you know even stay with them for for 0.98

01:46:53.480 a couple years and get free rent but make a plan in fact in fact how about this pearly you see 1.00

01:47:03.480 women with their husbands who plan a divorce like two three four years ahead if you're if 1.00

01:47:09.240 you're a younger guy with older woman you can make a plan i'm gonna be with this older woman for two 1.00

01:47:14.920 three four years and then duck out how much money could you save as a young guy you could get a 1.00

01:47:20.280 mortgage for your future family and one day you know you could say she built me you know women 0.96

01:47:26.840 always say they build men but they never actually do now you can actually put her money where her 0.91

01:47:30.760 mouth is yes exactly you could you could say you can build me um sugar mama i'd like um some money 0.99

01:47:40.200 and i would like you to teach me some basic you know maybe maybe she could teach you how to cook

01:47:44.840 right if you're a young guy and you don't know how to cook she could teach you how to cook

01:47:49.000 what else could uh could an old woman teach you um honestly honestly if you're if you're in class 0.53

01:47:57.560 no if you're in college and she has a master's degree or a phd she could do your homework for you 0.99

01:48:08.760 that's a good one she could take your online courses for you yeah yeah 1.00

01:48:15.880 hey you know we need to start putting women to work i i worked with this woman one time who who um 1.00

01:48:23.400 she she was like this four foot eleven black girl but but her attitude made her like seven feet tall 1.00

01:48:29.720 right and she would date black girl and she'd date these ninjas that like and she had a law 1.00

01:48:35.880 degree and then she went to like cambridge for a year to do all this whatever but she did ninjas 0.98

01:48:41.000 with legal problems and so while they were sleeping together she would help them with their legal 0.99

01:48:47.160 problems and once she helped them with their legal problems once they got their case resolved they'd 1.00

01:48:52.360 leave her behind so she didn't learn start putting these ladies to work you know what i mean 0.68

01:49:02.680 yeah i just had a thought why does society like enable women to cope well think about 0.70

01:49:07.640 who are the biggest enablers other women why because it's easier to enable another woman

01:49:13.400 to cope so then she enables you to cope then both of you facing reality yeah that's true

01:49:19.720 agree the sisterhood yep that's true cool what a wise what a wise guy thanks for calling in mark

01:49:27.480 peace

01:49:28.880 that's some good callers lately yeah i know getting better guys

01:49:35.740 um again if you don't have a job please turn off the show

01:49:39.100 unless you're retired retired is an exception but like

01:49:46.720 uh anyways doug mpa final thoughts yeah um uh i don't know how much longer i i don't know how

01:49:57.760 long this older women dating younger men thing thing is gonna last um i think that i think that

01:50:05.400 younger women truly do hate men at a level that like older women don't so until the age of 35

01:50:13.400 you or 30 you you can see young men dating older women but it's not going to be a permanent thing

01:50:19.440 in the long run it's just not thanks doug mpa appreciate you cool thanks all right guys um

01:50:28.480 i'm trying to think what else um any updates on the channel

01:50:35.700 i think the app we're beta testing it like sunday so we're gonna switch over from one app to the

01:50:44.120 other app in like a week and then documentary august is supposed to be when it's done when

01:50:53.280 we'll put it out not sure don't know uh that's step one is finishing it step two we'll figure

01:50:59.800 out later. And yeah. So, all right guys, thanks for watching. I love you and I'll see you next time.

Pearl - May 08, 2026

Why Can't Old Women Take the L？

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